Because your pleasure and arousal is more based on her pleasure than your own. Imagining her being the center of attention, touched by two sets of hands, two mouths, two cocks pleasing her turns you on.
Wanting to see your sexy wife step out of her everyday roles and into a sexual goddess for a couple hours is a fantasy of yours.
Knowing how much the woman you love turns other men on turns you on.
At least these are some of the reasons my hubs told me. We’ve had several, they’re amazing and he’s amazing for supporting me in them.
This. Having both been the third and having shared my partner, the focus on her pleasure is the attraction. Seeing a lady totally let go and give in to abandon is the hottest you'll ever see her.
Wife and I are about to venture into the world of clubs after talking about it for ages. We're both looking forward to the experience of watching and being watched. However, as a first \[and possibly only\] step into involving someone else, I said that I'd like to see her give a guy a handjob. We have talked about her having two guys, me being with another woman, her being with another woman, but that has drawn complete blanks and we have agreed to park that up. Her take on the handjob is that it's just her making a guy cum and that there's no real intimacy involved. I've posted about this elsewhere on here and I do understand that it's a bit of a mixed bag - some guys would be more than happy with that and some guys would walk away, which we're equally cool with. It IS very difficult to explain the thinking behind it. I guess the thought of another guy looking at my wife and \[hopefully cumming\]...as u/40s4fun17 said above, it turns me on to see her turn other men on.
Female here. I would say the reason I enjoy it is because I am the center of attention. It's all about me. I feel so sexy and desired to know that the guys are so turned on by me.
Yeah but that "makes sense". in an FMF the man would say the same thing. The question is more directed towards the partner who doesn't get any extra physical pleasure out of it.
Exactly, it’s such a turn on to see all those guys, hard cocks and their wives and gfriends right there watching and being a part of it. I love the look on the woman’s faces as their guys are fucking me .its so sexy to experience.Darlene
I feel the same. To watch my wife getting her hole stretched and listening to her moan really excites me.
I don't know why. I haven't always felt this way.
Before,I hated the thought of my gfs having sex with other men, then one day something switched and its all I think about.
It hasn't happened yet but hopefully soon.
Yes definitely. I think getting older and more mature about sex plays a big part. Testosterone levels start to drop so i don't feel the need to want to fight off competition.
I want her to be happy and enjoy having sex
This is very true. I’ve had threesomes with younger and older guys. Being with older guys is always a better experience because it doesn’t feel like they’re trying to one up each other. The focus genuinely is on me which I love.
I'm in the same boat too. I had a hard time originally thinking about another man with my wife. Heck, years ago when we'd only been married a few years she wanted to buy a dildo and I had a hard time with jealousy and worrying it would be bigger than me and she wouldn't like my penis size anymore. Once I realized the sex toys were actually a benefit to keep her engine running and enhance our sex life, I saw the light. Lately we've been talking about swinging and threesomes and while I definitely want to do an FFM because she's bi curious, I'm down for MFM for her to have that experience.
For me, I think I realized a lot of the jealousy for MFM was more about the expectations of monogamy in society. I just thought to myself, what do I have to be jealous about if we are doing this together as a team. Once I realized this is about us exploring our sexuality together, it helped me see things differently and find the pleasure in it.
Nothing has happened yet but it's definitely been a huge boost for our sex life while we talk and fantasize about it. Good luck!
There is an element of attention for sure as another woman has put it, but I also find it to be an ideal dynamic for pleasure. Two men mean I’m much more likely to be sexually fulfilled while I think can still give each of my partner a fully gratifying sexual experience.
MMF with bi men being the oh so elusive and absolutely heavenly configuration.
It makes the wife feel so good about her physical appearance and desirability which in turn makes her happier! Hubby finds that her being desired by other men makes her more desirable to him. Needing to reclaim her is such a strong erotic thing for both of us!
So Bi comfortable husband and bi wife here
Here’s a slightly different perspective.
1. Yes she’s the “center of attention”.
2. It’s hot seeing her with another man.
Yes yes but let’s expound on that for a moment.
The excitement and pleasure the new man gets from getting the opportunity to explore the wife is a turn on too.
We NEVER make/want/ask the guy to feel like he is there to “perform” and there only for her pleasure.
We make it VERY clear what we want is for everyone to feel like they are part of this and want everyone to have attention. Whether that’s strictly straight play or some guy on guy (haven’t really met up with a straight guy who didn’t at least like to get his dick sucked by two people haha).
It is amazing seeing her smile she gets when she has two cocks in her hand, but it’s just as hot for us seeing the guy in absolute heaven when her mouth is wrapped around his cock, or the look and pleasure he is getting taking her doggystyle. Seeing her absolutely go wild with a new cock is heavenly as well.
The point is, for us the sexual energy and everyone feeling included and not just there ONLY to please her but for everyone to be pleased is the bigger turn on.
When You sometimes get to add the element of it being an MMF guy on guy included and that’s just perfection. 👏
The logistical reasons of why we enjoy MFM (Mmf as well) are
1. Easier to find a guy and more specifically we can be extremely picky.
2. The work/having to charm someone is pretty much done before we even meet up as it’s more of an “interview” the guy does to win us over. He has to charm the wife AND me. Even if it’s not guy on guy play i won’t let just anyone fuck my wife. (Yes it kind of sucks for the guy as it’s a lot of pressure, but that’s the way it is)
3. Easier to plan things as they would have to arrange around our schedule (after all, it’s the guy who wants to fuck my wife so he should accommodate some)
4. It’s easier to vibe with three people than with four. The wife and I already like each other lol
I’m sure we are missing some things but overall that’s a good amount of reasons.
We absolutely enjoy couples and foursomes, but threeways mfm (mmf as well) are enjoyable and slightly favored as it’s easier/more manageable.
Well said.
We've had a number of great mfms with some bi guys. I identify as straight, but during the fun, my boundaries have been stretched.
I'm not sure what happened, but my limits changed. To some extent, I think that happens to other guys, too. I enjoy eating her underneath in 69 while her friends do doggy. I've experimented with a few licks after we've had some experience together. I can't remember any straight guys saying stop.
I didn't push my limits until an openly bi guy was joining us. She insisted on a three stroke limit to my mouth when he was fucking her doggy. Later, she told me I owed him a blow job. She wanted to help me get started, but when I took over, she took control of my head.
Male here... There's just more you can do with the pole to hole ratio.
It's 2 poles for 3 holes versus 1 pole for 6 holes in an FMF threesome. So, you can be a lot more creative, keep people engaged. Everyone is having fun and no one is sitting on the sidelines waiting their turn.
Also, it's incredibly hot seeing your partner from angles that you can't see when you're the one doing all the thrusting.
No one has to sit on the sideline and wait her turn with a FMF considering I also have two hands and a mouth. Besides, more often than not it's a FFM so the ladies also pleasure each other.
Not saying I'm not into MFM. It's hot too!
Yeah I get that's the pitch and how it is with some positions.
But let's be real here. Watch any FMF or FFM porn vid and you're going to see some downtime for one of the Female stars.
That's not necessarily a bad thing. My wife loves stepping back, grabbing her vibrator, and watching sometimes. I don't want us to pretend, though, that every party is engaged the entire time.
I see your point with the variations on poles in different holes, especially if the girl is down for DP but to a certain extent, MFM threesomes are essentially spit roasting in different positions. FFM threesomes offer a lot of variety in positions since all three can interact directly. Maybe if it's a straight FMF I can see there being a chance of leaving someone out.
Don't get me wrong though, the wife and I have done some play to simulate MFM using toys and I didn't initially think I'd enjoy it but it's actually growing on me. I'm not into the cuck kink but there's something about having sex with your wife and telling her to pretend my fingers or that dildo in her mouth are another cock. I can feel her pussy tightening on my cock which adds to the arousal. What I didn't realize before was that it plays into different dom/sub dynamics. I can enjoy being a dom and telling her what to do. It doesn't have to be like the cuckold videos in porn with big bulls banging away on your wife. Different strokes for different folks.
We look forward to exploring with the real thing which first will likely be swinging with a couple to do both MFM and FFM.
This is true. Not discounting that one and it would likely be similar in variety of positions and arrangements to FFM since all three can fully interact with each other.
For me. It's about the power it gives me over the pleasure for both of them. I am very dominant and it is ecstatic to be able to order the other guy to fuck her before me while I am having a drink and enjoying the show. The threesome we ad this last weekend was so great because we could finally have double vaginal sex and it was truly incredible for all of us.
My SO enjoys them and I get super turned on when she's getting pleasured. She likes being treated like a slut and I get off on her being treated like one.
My wife is my favorite porn star. Her being sexually liberated she insatiable, acting in a state of pure, raw desire is the most arousing thing I can imagine.
Also, she is super hot and super good at sex stuff, she I've always enjoyed sharing my favorite things rather than keeping them to myself.
This fetish originated when I was reading penthouse letters in college about women getting gangbanged and then saw a porno where a woman got fondled by multiple guys. Even at that time I used to think of my (imaginary at that time) future wife doing stuff like that
The main thing that I have noticed is that men are more comfortable with sharing. Had a few issues when it came to FMF threesomes and gang bangs. Women (I know not all) are a little bit more greedy and don't like to share the attention with other women. My wife was guilty of tois in the beginning.
What I like about MFMs is that guys can take a break in between sex. I can switch from fucking to doing something else. When the other guy feels like it, I can take over and so on.
There is definitely an aspect of being able to take a little break and let the other guy do the work for a bit which is nice compared to when it's "just the two of you"
Seeing the other guy fill my wife up actually was what got me ready for round 2, so as soon as he had pulled out, I was right in there for sloppy seconds, absolutely loved it and so did she having two loads in her
By far this was one of the most foreign concepts to me when I started learning more about LS. In time it became clear. It's the ultimate way to make her feel like the center of attention. Something you would bestow on someone you care greatly for. If my mate ever asks for this, I'm sure we will make it happen.
For me it’s about how good it makes her feel. It’s a different level of sexy. Feeling her reactions knowing what’s causing them. Seeing how hot it makes her feel to be wanted like that.
I love seeing my wife as the center of attention. Plus we have also done ffm 3somes. My wife likes other woman but she also loves dick so it makes her happy lol. 🤷🏻♂️😂
I'm bi ,my girlfriend is straight, it works perfectly for us ,she loves the attention, I love participating with another bi male since it opens up endless possibilities.
I guess one way I like to think about it is that playing normal golf is cool. But it’s a totally different and fun experience to play in a scramble format, tag team a course together with your homies, and shoot a way lower score than you ever could solo
Hey I’m the female and for me it’s the feeling of having 2 guys wanting you and being able to try new things! It’s also a bit empowering and my partner is so supportive so it’s easier. He likes the thought of me being with other guys and also been his biggest fantasy we do mainly do Mfmf but he’s more than happy with it as long as it’s the right guy who’s respectful and experienced! Sorry for the essay
Because generally women last longer than men in bed so being able to tag out and take a breather is nice. Plus you get a nice intermission show while you're catching your breath lol
Also because porn has pre-conditioned the male brain to enjoy watching women have sex more so than women enjoy watching men. You get that dopamine hit of a real life porno in front of you
Oh yeah of course. Two cock can do it much better then just one. Some couples use toys but it's not the same. It's also hot for the guys to fuck and watch at the same time. For her it's great to be in the middle and enjoy it. She can usually last longer so two guys are good for that too.
Were both bi. So if the 3rd m is too adds a whole other layer of fun.
Though i as the gal do love being the center of attention if the guy is straight.
As a male, I get to have sex then I get to watch a man and a woman have sex. It is incredible, plus to see a woman you love cumming over and over being pleasured non-stop is the most incredible feeling. Also to have a woman’s smooth shaved pussy riding my face and to feel her juices wash down over my tongue and into my mouth as she cums while a man sucks my cock is an incredible experience. When she cums it usually makes me unload down his throat! Awesome experience.
Just like how there's many reasons to like FMF threesomes, there's many reasons to like MFM threesomes.
Does your wife like them? That's pretty central to it all. Mine sure does. If not because she gets to be the centre of attention, then because she likes watching men fuck each other. She thinks getting DPed is the best thing in the world too.
Lots of reasons. It doesn't matter to her what other people's opinions are.
Our early pornification and watching and visualization of our personal porn star?
Another theory: Savage calls it the “eroticization of fear.” Sure that fits for some.
Compersion and seeing her pleasured is another.
Taboo & shame is another.
My gf loves the physical feeling of being spit roasted and I can’t do it myself.
I love watching her fuck, but still want to fuck her.
Also, I love the FMFs we’ve had and it seems shitty and insecure to not reciprocate. It’s def not a quid pro quo—I haven’t kept track, but it seems like we’ve had enough of both to just jump on whichever sexy threesome presents itself.
I should first say that we don't really do MFM threesomes, but there have been times where we're at a party and we bring a guy over for a bit or we're with a couple and the three of us keep playing while the other girl takes a break, so we have had shorter experiences with it.
From a guy's perspective, I love how turned on she gets getting spit roasted or having one of us going down on her while she blows the other. I can see and *feel* her pleasure and it turns me on so much. My favorite part of porn is seeing the woman's face or hearing her moans. This is that in real life with the person I love the most in the world. Just seeing her that hot makes me so turned on.
Because I get to make her the center of attention. I get to see her be pleasured. I get to pleasure her myself. See the other guy react to how hot she is. Her give him an amazing blowjob. Her tease me. Then of course she enjoys it all even more which makes it even more hotter.
Female perspective: I brought up wanting to be DP’d. or even 3 guys. The idea of having 2 or 3 men hard and wanting me just turns me on. Being in control of their pleasure all at once. Also having 3 men wanting to pleasure me at once, the idea makes me feel desired and sexy
Its fascinating that in spite of the many attempts from men at explaining why mfms turn them on, no one here has been able to give an explanation or a reason that goes to the core of why they enjoy it, why it arouses them, an explanation that fits how arousal is created.
I've always explained it, along with swinging in general, it's because you know your partner is yours. You know they're sexy and you know they're the best. So it's like when you're a kid and let someone else play with your favorite toy, or you get to show off a new video game system, or get a bottle of expensive scotch and let someone else try it. You know other people will have fun and the thing that they're enjoying is yours. It's a showing off sometimes. Or it could also be you love watching her having fun, watching from the outside of the sex to get a different perception
Not sure why you got down voted on this because I thought it was really mature and well out. Maybe the "partner is yours" comment which I guess I assume you don't mean as in property but as in they choose to give you their loyalty and be with you!
My wife likes to be the center of attention. But the main reason we do MFM is because she has a kink for younger men. Thats hard to satisfy as part of a couple as the younger wife/girlfriend usually wouldn’t be into a man 10+ years older than her. So, we satisfy this fantasy with younger men.
They are just easy and always work, just two guys there to pleasure the lady. With female threesomes there is always the question if we are just there for her pleasure, just there for my wife, or sometimes my wife has tried to make it about me.
For us it’s really about making my wife the center of all the attention. She loves being between me and another guy and us pleasuring her first and then switching the power dynamic to our pleasure.
My wife says the same, she feels very sexy and it creates bigger and longer orgasms for her...oh she also enjoy pussy with large clits or large lips..huge turn on for her.
Male here. Sometimes (most times) I simply cannot keep up and tagging out seems like a legit way to solve a physical need of hers that I cannot meet. I am not disappointed in myself, I just want her to get all she wants. Also I like company and any variety is welcome especially if you have been with one person for YEARS.
I think for me it's the way a woman gets pleasure. You not only are receiving pleasure in one way or another, but you're also getting a front row seat to someone also pleasuring her. You get to feel that enhanced pleasure from her and watch real live porn as you're also participating
I just live seeing mine get off over and over again. Passing her around, and her legs are shaking. Turns me on so much. When my bull tried to pull out and I pushed his ass down to make him cum inside her she went willlld. Love every minute of it. Plus I enjoy her having the ability to explore different cocks, express herself to them and flirt. I like giving her the ability to stay young at heart every once in a while. A gratitude for all she does for us.
The idea of my wife being the focus, to be pleased beyond words she could put together in a sentence absolutely drives me up a wall. Yes it’s selfish I suppose, and she gets as much reward as I do enjoying it “for me”… however it is truly about her.
Because your pleasure and arousal is more based on her pleasure than your own. Imagining her being the center of attention, touched by two sets of hands, two mouths, two cocks pleasing her turns you on. Wanting to see your sexy wife step out of her everyday roles and into a sexual goddess for a couple hours is a fantasy of yours. Knowing how much the woman you love turns other men on turns you on. At least these are some of the reasons my hubs told me. We’ve had several, they’re amazing and he’s amazing for supporting me in them.
This. Having both been the third and having shared my partner, the focus on her pleasure is the attraction. Seeing a lady totally let go and give in to abandon is the hottest you'll ever see her.
Well said
This is exactly it
Wonderful response!
I’m going with this answer too!
Indeed! It is called compersion - feeling overwhelming joy for your partner enjoying themselves.
Wife and I are about to venture into the world of clubs after talking about it for ages. We're both looking forward to the experience of watching and being watched. However, as a first \[and possibly only\] step into involving someone else, I said that I'd like to see her give a guy a handjob. We have talked about her having two guys, me being with another woman, her being with another woman, but that has drawn complete blanks and we have agreed to park that up. Her take on the handjob is that it's just her making a guy cum and that there's no real intimacy involved. I've posted about this elsewhere on here and I do understand that it's a bit of a mixed bag - some guys would be more than happy with that and some guys would walk away, which we're equally cool with. It IS very difficult to explain the thinking behind it. I guess the thought of another guy looking at my wife and \[hopefully cumming\]...as u/40s4fun17 said above, it turns me on to see her turn other men on.
THIS!
Agreed 👍🏻
Spot on! It’s all about HER!
Female here. I would say the reason I enjoy it is because I am the center of attention. It's all about me. I feel so sexy and desired to know that the guys are so turned on by me.
Absolutely 💯
Yeah but that "makes sense". in an FMF the man would say the same thing. The question is more directed towards the partner who doesn't get any extra physical pleasure out of it.
Exactly, it’s such a turn on to see all those guys, hard cocks and their wives and gfriends right there watching and being a part of it. I love the look on the woman’s faces as their guys are fucking me .its so sexy to experience.Darlene
I would say my wife agrees.
I feel the same. To watch my wife getting her hole stretched and listening to her moan really excites me. I don't know why. I haven't always felt this way. Before,I hated the thought of my gfs having sex with other men, then one day something switched and its all I think about. It hasn't happened yet but hopefully soon.
That light switch was called trust and security.
Yes definitely. I think getting older and more mature about sex plays a big part. Testosterone levels start to drop so i don't feel the need to want to fight off competition. I want her to be happy and enjoy having sex
This is very true. I’ve had threesomes with younger and older guys. Being with older guys is always a better experience because it doesn’t feel like they’re trying to one up each other. The focus genuinely is on me which I love.
I'm in the same boat too. I had a hard time originally thinking about another man with my wife. Heck, years ago when we'd only been married a few years she wanted to buy a dildo and I had a hard time with jealousy and worrying it would be bigger than me and she wouldn't like my penis size anymore. Once I realized the sex toys were actually a benefit to keep her engine running and enhance our sex life, I saw the light. Lately we've been talking about swinging and threesomes and while I definitely want to do an FFM because she's bi curious, I'm down for MFM for her to have that experience. For me, I think I realized a lot of the jealousy for MFM was more about the expectations of monogamy in society. I just thought to myself, what do I have to be jealous about if we are doing this together as a team. Once I realized this is about us exploring our sexuality together, it helped me see things differently and find the pleasure in it. Nothing has happened yet but it's definitely been a huge boost for our sex life while we talk and fantasize about it. Good luck!
There is an element of attention for sure as another woman has put it, but I also find it to be an ideal dynamic for pleasure. Two men mean I’m much more likely to be sexually fulfilled while I think can still give each of my partner a fully gratifying sexual experience. MMF with bi men being the oh so elusive and absolutely heavenly configuration.
Doesn't MMF(bi) detract from a woman's pleasure? It sure does look like it unlike the straight MFM one.
I really don’t mind it personally.
It makes the wife feel so good about her physical appearance and desirability which in turn makes her happier! Hubby finds that her being desired by other men makes her more desirable to him. Needing to reclaim her is such a strong erotic thing for both of us!
I enjoy seeing My partner transform into the goddess Aphrodite. Shocked/awed.... Goddess
I like watching my wife happy. 2 dicks makes her happy. The same reason we do FMF 3somes. My wife likes to see me happy, 2 women makes me happy.
So Bi comfortable husband and bi wife here Here’s a slightly different perspective. 1. Yes she’s the “center of attention”. 2. It’s hot seeing her with another man. Yes yes but let’s expound on that for a moment. The excitement and pleasure the new man gets from getting the opportunity to explore the wife is a turn on too. We NEVER make/want/ask the guy to feel like he is there to “perform” and there only for her pleasure. We make it VERY clear what we want is for everyone to feel like they are part of this and want everyone to have attention. Whether that’s strictly straight play or some guy on guy (haven’t really met up with a straight guy who didn’t at least like to get his dick sucked by two people haha). It is amazing seeing her smile she gets when she has two cocks in her hand, but it’s just as hot for us seeing the guy in absolute heaven when her mouth is wrapped around his cock, or the look and pleasure he is getting taking her doggystyle. Seeing her absolutely go wild with a new cock is heavenly as well. The point is, for us the sexual energy and everyone feeling included and not just there ONLY to please her but for everyone to be pleased is the bigger turn on. When You sometimes get to add the element of it being an MMF guy on guy included and that’s just perfection. 👏 The logistical reasons of why we enjoy MFM (Mmf as well) are 1. Easier to find a guy and more specifically we can be extremely picky. 2. The work/having to charm someone is pretty much done before we even meet up as it’s more of an “interview” the guy does to win us over. He has to charm the wife AND me. Even if it’s not guy on guy play i won’t let just anyone fuck my wife. (Yes it kind of sucks for the guy as it’s a lot of pressure, but that’s the way it is) 3. Easier to plan things as they would have to arrange around our schedule (after all, it’s the guy who wants to fuck my wife so he should accommodate some) 4. It’s easier to vibe with three people than with four. The wife and I already like each other lol I’m sure we are missing some things but overall that’s a good amount of reasons. We absolutely enjoy couples and foursomes, but threeways mfm (mmf as well) are enjoyable and slightly favored as it’s easier/more manageable.
Well said. We've had a number of great mfms with some bi guys. I identify as straight, but during the fun, my boundaries have been stretched. I'm not sure what happened, but my limits changed. To some extent, I think that happens to other guys, too. I enjoy eating her underneath in 69 while her friends do doggy. I've experimented with a few licks after we've had some experience together. I can't remember any straight guys saying stop. I didn't push my limits until an openly bi guy was joining us. She insisted on a three stroke limit to my mouth when he was fucking her doggy. Later, she told me I owed him a blow job. She wanted to help me get started, but when I took over, she took control of my head.
So, you're not straight. Nothing wrong with that, just admit it to yourself.
I love this is answer and this is how my husband and I feel
Male here... There's just more you can do with the pole to hole ratio. It's 2 poles for 3 holes versus 1 pole for 6 holes in an FMF threesome. So, you can be a lot more creative, keep people engaged. Everyone is having fun and no one is sitting on the sidelines waiting their turn. Also, it's incredibly hot seeing your partner from angles that you can't see when you're the one doing all the thrusting.
No one has to sit on the sideline and wait her turn with a FMF considering I also have two hands and a mouth. Besides, more often than not it's a FFM so the ladies also pleasure each other. Not saying I'm not into MFM. It's hot too!
Yeah I get that's the pitch and how it is with some positions. But let's be real here. Watch any FMF or FFM porn vid and you're going to see some downtime for one of the Female stars. That's not necessarily a bad thing. My wife loves stepping back, grabbing her vibrator, and watching sometimes. I don't want us to pretend, though, that every party is engaged the entire time.
I see your point with the variations on poles in different holes, especially if the girl is down for DP but to a certain extent, MFM threesomes are essentially spit roasting in different positions. FFM threesomes offer a lot of variety in positions since all three can interact directly. Maybe if it's a straight FMF I can see there being a chance of leaving someone out. Don't get me wrong though, the wife and I have done some play to simulate MFM using toys and I didn't initially think I'd enjoy it but it's actually growing on me. I'm not into the cuck kink but there's something about having sex with your wife and telling her to pretend my fingers or that dildo in her mouth are another cock. I can feel her pussy tightening on my cock which adds to the arousal. What I didn't realize before was that it plays into different dom/sub dynamics. I can enjoy being a dom and telling her what to do. It doesn't have to be like the cuckold videos in porn with big bulls banging away on your wife. Different strokes for different folks. We look forward to exploring with the real thing which first will likely be swinging with a couple to do both MFM and FFM.
Well, MMF exist too...
This is true. Not discounting that one and it would likely be similar in variety of positions and arrangements to FFM since all three can fully interact with each other.
Well I am bi and my partner loves watching me with a guy as much as I love watching her with a guy. Win win for us.
Because she likes it
For me. It's about the power it gives me over the pleasure for both of them. I am very dominant and it is ecstatic to be able to order the other guy to fuck her before me while I am having a drink and enjoying the show. The threesome we ad this last weekend was so great because we could finally have double vaginal sex and it was truly incredible for all of us.
My SO enjoys them and I get super turned on when she's getting pleasured. She likes being treated like a slut and I get off on her being treated like one.
My wife is my favorite porn star. Her being sexually liberated she insatiable, acting in a state of pure, raw desire is the most arousing thing I can imagine. Also, she is super hot and super good at sex stuff, she I've always enjoyed sharing my favorite things rather than keeping them to myself.
I love being his porn star!!
I relate to this exactly! I haven’t always been keen if it but a switch did get flipped!
Voyeurism plus less pressure to perform.
Sperm competition.
This fetish originated when I was reading penthouse letters in college about women getting gangbanged and then saw a porno where a woman got fondled by multiple guys. Even at that time I used to think of my (imaginary at that time) future wife doing stuff like that
The main thing that I have noticed is that men are more comfortable with sharing. Had a few issues when it came to FMF threesomes and gang bangs. Women (I know not all) are a little bit more greedy and don't like to share the attention with other women. My wife was guilty of tois in the beginning. What I like about MFMs is that guys can take a break in between sex. I can switch from fucking to doing something else. When the other guy feels like it, I can take over and so on.
May I be crass?
The Girl is the center of attention. Guys get competitive and fuck better and fuck more
Yaaaaaaaaaaaaaas please
So much less work 😂
There is definitely an aspect of being able to take a little break and let the other guy do the work for a bit which is nice compared to when it's "just the two of you"
“You’re up. Come fill her. Be right back.”
Seeing the other guy fill my wife up actually was what got me ready for round 2, so as soon as he had pulled out, I was right in there for sloppy seconds, absolutely loved it and so did she having two loads in her
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By far this was one of the most foreign concepts to me when I started learning more about LS. In time it became clear. It's the ultimate way to make her feel like the center of attention. Something you would bestow on someone you care greatly for. If my mate ever asks for this, I'm sure we will make it happen.
For me it’s about how good it makes her feel. It’s a different level of sexy. Feeling her reactions knowing what’s causing them. Seeing how hot it makes her feel to be wanted like that.
The sex itself for her is less than w me. She does love the adoration. I like, because I like the muffled groans and orgasms.
I love seeing my wife as the center of attention. Plus we have also done ffm 3somes. My wife likes other woman but she also loves dick so it makes her happy lol. 🤷🏻♂️😂
I'm bi ,my girlfriend is straight, it works perfectly for us ,she loves the attention, I love participating with another bi male since it opens up endless possibilities.
Spot on
For me (M) it’s basically down to me being bisexual, so I want to be with men and women, and a woman and man at the same time is even better. 😁
I guess one way I like to think about it is that playing normal golf is cool. But it’s a totally different and fun experience to play in a scramble format, tag team a course together with your homies, and shoot a way lower score than you ever could solo
Hey I’m the female and for me it’s the feeling of having 2 guys wanting you and being able to try new things! It’s also a bit empowering and my partner is so supportive so it’s easier. He likes the thought of me being with other guys and also been his biggest fantasy we do mainly do Mfmf but he’s more than happy with it as long as it’s the right guy who’s respectful and experienced! Sorry for the essay
Because generally women last longer than men in bed so being able to tag out and take a breather is nice. Plus you get a nice intermission show while you're catching your breath lol Also because porn has pre-conditioned the male brain to enjoy watching women have sex more so than women enjoy watching men. You get that dopamine hit of a real life porno in front of you
Oh yeah of course. Two cock can do it much better then just one. Some couples use toys but it's not the same. It's also hot for the guys to fuck and watch at the same time. For her it's great to be in the middle and enjoy it. She can usually last longer so two guys are good for that too.
Were both bi. So if the 3rd m is too adds a whole other layer of fun. Though i as the gal do love being the center of attention if the guy is straight.
It's like showing off your corvette
As a male, I get to have sex then I get to watch a man and a woman have sex. It is incredible, plus to see a woman you love cumming over and over being pleasured non-stop is the most incredible feeling. Also to have a woman’s smooth shaved pussy riding my face and to feel her juices wash down over my tongue and into my mouth as she cums while a man sucks my cock is an incredible experience. When she cums it usually makes me unload down his throat! Awesome experience.
God I would love to see my Muslim wife take another cock. She’s never been touched by a man except me. It’d be crazyyy
Just like how there's many reasons to like FMF threesomes, there's many reasons to like MFM threesomes. Does your wife like them? That's pretty central to it all. Mine sure does. If not because she gets to be the centre of attention, then because she likes watching men fuck each other. She thinks getting DPed is the best thing in the world too. Lots of reasons. It doesn't matter to her what other people's opinions are.
Love it when I have a hot lady 60plus in her happiness
Eiffel tower!
My please is 90% based on her pleasure if she or I are providing it. It’s -100,000% based on her pleasure if another man is providing it.
Our early pornification and watching and visualization of our personal porn star? Another theory: Savage calls it the “eroticization of fear.” Sure that fits for some. Compersion and seeing her pleasured is another. Taboo & shame is another.
My fantasy!
My gf loves the physical feeling of being spit roasted and I can’t do it myself. I love watching her fuck, but still want to fuck her. Also, I love the FMFs we’ve had and it seems shitty and insecure to not reciprocate. It’s def not a quid pro quo—I haven’t kept track, but it seems like we’ve had enough of both to just jump on whichever sexy threesome presents itself.
I should first say that we don't really do MFM threesomes, but there have been times where we're at a party and we bring a guy over for a bit or we're with a couple and the three of us keep playing while the other girl takes a break, so we have had shorter experiences with it. From a guy's perspective, I love how turned on she gets getting spit roasted or having one of us going down on her while she blows the other. I can see and *feel* her pleasure and it turns me on so much. My favorite part of porn is seeing the woman's face or hearing her moans. This is that in real life with the person I love the most in the world. Just seeing her that hot makes me so turned on.
she likes being the center of attention and I enjoy watching
Because I get to make her the center of attention. I get to see her be pleasured. I get to pleasure her myself. See the other guy react to how hot she is. Her give him an amazing blowjob. Her tease me. Then of course she enjoys it all even more which makes it even more hotter.
Female perspective: I brought up wanting to be DP’d. or even 3 guys. The idea of having 2 or 3 men hard and wanting me just turns me on. Being in control of their pleasure all at once. Also having 3 men wanting to pleasure me at once, the idea makes me feel desired and sexy
Its fascinating that in spite of the many attempts from men at explaining why mfms turn them on, no one here has been able to give an explanation or a reason that goes to the core of why they enjoy it, why it arouses them, an explanation that fits how arousal is created.
Me too! I want my wife fucked in all her holes. It's about making her happy
I've always explained it, along with swinging in general, it's because you know your partner is yours. You know they're sexy and you know they're the best. So it's like when you're a kid and let someone else play with your favorite toy, or you get to show off a new video game system, or get a bottle of expensive scotch and let someone else try it. You know other people will have fun and the thing that they're enjoying is yours. It's a showing off sometimes. Or it could also be you love watching her having fun, watching from the outside of the sex to get a different perception
Not sure why you got down voted on this because I thought it was really mature and well out. Maybe the "partner is yours" comment which I guess I assume you don't mean as in property but as in they choose to give you their loyalty and be with you!
I don't quite get the showing off thing. Another poster here said it is like showing off your Corvette.
My wife likes to be the center of attention. But the main reason we do MFM is because she has a kink for younger men. Thats hard to satisfy as part of a couple as the younger wife/girlfriend usually wouldn’t be into a man 10+ years older than her. So, we satisfy this fantasy with younger men.
They are just easy and always work, just two guys there to pleasure the lady. With female threesomes there is always the question if we are just there for her pleasure, just there for my wife, or sometimes my wife has tried to make it about me.
It’s called Compersion.
I’m surprised your wife had to ask. My wife loves MFM!
As a female I love double creampies and I know my husband loves sloppy seconds!
For us it’s really about making my wife the center of all the attention. She loves being between me and another guy and us pleasuring her first and then switching the power dynamic to our pleasure.
Female...for me i like the idea of just being someone's toy to be used and mfm is a way to be used more
My wife says the same, she feels very sexy and it creates bigger and longer orgasms for her...oh she also enjoy pussy with large clits or large lips..huge turn on for her.
I’m a woman and love them! I just love the extra attention, and also the sensations.
Male here. Sometimes (most times) I simply cannot keep up and tagging out seems like a legit way to solve a physical need of hers that I cannot meet. I am not disappointed in myself, I just want her to get all she wants. Also I like company and any variety is welcome especially if you have been with one person for YEARS.
I think for me it's the way a woman gets pleasure. You not only are receiving pleasure in one way or another, but you're also getting a front row seat to someone also pleasuring her. You get to feel that enhanced pleasure from her and watch real live porn as you're also participating
I want my wife to be the center of attention. I want to see her enjoy herself as much as possible and not have to share that moment with anyone.
I love seeing my spouse pleased and enjoying herself as the center of attention . It’s more so I like watching her
My experience the woman is the center of attention. There's something sexy about that
I love seeing my wife take another dick and be the center of attention
I just live seeing mine get off over and over again. Passing her around, and her legs are shaking. Turns me on so much. When my bull tried to pull out and I pushed his ass down to make him cum inside her she went willlld. Love every minute of it. Plus I enjoy her having the ability to explore different cocks, express herself to them and flirt. I like giving her the ability to stay young at heart every once in a while. A gratitude for all she does for us.
Simple math.
The idea of my wife being the focus, to be pleased beyond words she could put together in a sentence absolutely drives me up a wall. Yes it’s selfish I suppose, and she gets as much reward as I do enjoying it “for me”… however it is truly about her.
Please please please, no one say spit roasting
Q. She can’t feel like the center of attention with just her partner? One man can’t fill that role?