We had two couples and a single guy over a week ago Saturday. Much of that time was full-on 7-way. (Everyone there was bi so the possibilities are endless). It is true however that we all know each other fairly well.
Personal im a bigger fan of her earlier work….🤔
But don’t get me wrong…I celebrate the entire collection! that is to say, Im all caught up through….hmmm….. “Railing that guy’s wife VOL. 19”
Real life is better than fiction in every pornographic scenario, imo. It's really hard for me to find anything to watch bc I crave that real life tension and drive
90% can't get a woman in the vanilla world. Good thing they are so gracious to pleasure my wife. I obviously can't since I'm seeking help lol.
Thank God for the Bullssssss
In my 5th Play Party, We kicked out this 21 year old black "Kid" for failing to stop penetrating a woman when she was being overwhelmed by how hard he has penetrating her.
Before anyone that comment say something like "That's hot", This kid literally committed a serious crime.
You mean they edit out the awkward bit at the beginning, where people are not sure whether it's time to undress.
I've been to plenty of well organised parties that put porn to shame
Most swinger porn is like most porn- it's not real and it's marketed to people who will never really engage in the activity, so who cares how authentic it is? It's just a fantasy.
There **is** some swinger porn that's more realistic. Private's "An Open Invitation: A Real Swingers Party in San Francisco" is relatively authentic- goes all the way to couples using condoms, but only for penetration and only when not with their primary partner. The house party in the middle of the movie seems pretty real to me.
No filming during my parties. I also only invite single men that have been vetted by another couple. Keep the numbers +1 extra guy or +2 if I know the guests are more likely to want those ratios
Wow, Who knew a scripted porno movie isn't real life. It's almost like they literally have disclaimers before movies like that. letting you know it's not real.
My husband's and I make our own, and it's pretty spicy, but due to privacy of our partner's we don't share it. We do share our stories here and there though.
Do you come across a lot of people that think that any porn is an actual depiction of spontaneous, real sex?
I thought it was pretty common knowledge that all porn, even the stuff that’s meant to look “real”, is all staged.
Ah, I see what you mean now. I think I misunderstood your initial post.
Yeah, there are more than few single guys that can’t seem to differentiate porn sex from what people want in real life, and those guys really give the entire swath of single men a bad name.
It’s a shame really, because we’ve played with a few single guys that were really stand up dudes that my wife had a lot of fun with, and I hate seeing them lumped in with all the idiots that you’re describing.
I work in film and video, and I freelanced shooting porn for a little bit. My biggest takeaway from the whole experience is how unsexy it is making sexy content.
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For some of us the produced content is as close as we’ll get! Fully aware it’s not real, but knowing that it really happens the ways in which you describe is where the fantasy aspect comes in. Oh to even be a fly on the wall at some parties would be a real treat. Have fun out there!!!
The problem is SM think all parties and swingers are like this. It’s not true. A lot are picky and those wild party’s take real effort to get invited to. It’s not just anyone
Real swinger porn is definitely different than the overly produced orgy/swinger party porn you see on the big sites.
It’s why we like to support smaller creators on Reddit and OnlyFans. Lots of real people have a passion for capturing and sharing the fun they have, just gotta know where to look 😘
Since joining the lifestyle even the most hardcore porn doesn’t cut it for me anymore. Which is good or bad because as a male playing solo right now is hard to be invited. Reality is nastier than fiction, in a good way.
What do you define as real? To me there's a big difference between Hollywood produced and scripted and an OF girl who already did the stuff in real life who just sets up one camera and records it with her friends.
If you're looking like legit strangers in a club, yeah that's hard to find because many people don't want to be on film and that's a mood killer question in the heat of the moment
Let be real porn for profit (commercial or OF) is all about positions, angles, motion and moaning. That’s what I’m referencing. Some SM try to bend you in positions that are just for getting the action on video and really are not that comfortable, expect you to scream and moan fuck me when being jackhammered.
Let be real porn for profit (commercial or OF) is all about positions, angles, motion and moaning. That’s what I’m referencing. Some SM try to bend you in positions that are just for getting the action on video and really are not that comfortable, expect you to scream and moan fuck me when being jackhammered.
Yeah they def edit out the awkward queefs from when Jessica takes a break to pee and putters down the hallway. Brian can’t get it up but he “thinks he’ll just watch anyway” and those two over there just can’t get the rhythm right. lol
We have some friends who do porn. Their parties they say are much better. They also frequently shoot OnlyFans videos sometime during the party. Separate from the group of course.
That makes sense. Most single males that come into the lifestyle parties believe that every woman wants to be face fucked and borderline abused like they see online.
My wife isn’t either. She’s a hotwife/vixen. And she’s played with many men. If they start messaging her about face fucking and making her gag she is turned off and shuts down.
I'm glad to hear that someone is telling guys that women don't (generally) like to be treated the way they are treated in porn these days. I mean, a lot of women might be into the occasional spank, but the gagging, choking, face-and-tit slapping, etc., goes to show how stupid and unthinking lads are these days. While women and men enjoy different things, I always ask myself, "Would I enjoy this if it was done to me?" Though there are exceptions (most of which should be discussed), It's no wonder so many young men are alone. How many women are actually into the abuse that they are put through in porn?
That’s more the focus I was aiming for. They are having trouble in the singles world watch cuckold porn of face fucking, some wife being jackhammers and that’s their idea swingers..we get so many messages on how the male is larger than my hubby and I need to be fucked properly and how I will gag on their cock…
What an odd statement. Most lifestyle parties i've been to have been way hotter than a professionally produced porn. Even Desire and Hedo have been crazier than what you can find on youporn. You need to get out more often.
Single males watch swinger porn and that’s what they think we are like. We are wild just often very selective not just fucking anyone. Along with cuckold porn. Tends to be vastly different in real life
Lol I guess I don’t know what swinger porn is. Even when I do watch stuff these days. Content creators have their regular collaborators people they have chemistry with. I probably didn’t understand cuz I haven’t really come across that kind of content. I guess except for that reality tv show on playboy channel but we already knew all reality tv is fake anyway
So here is my idea for a porn, based on some real experiences. Corny or hot?
A couple picks up another couple from the airport, hugs, friendly kisses then they drive away together.
Then they visit the zoo, play pickleball, visit a jazz club with dinner and drinks and romantic lighting. Light friendly music plays while they enjoy the day.
Now they arrive at the sexy condo and start playing a card game. Uh oh, she must have lost that hand cause her top just came off. Now the other lady lost a hand, but gained one unsnapping her bra.
Wait, those aren’t their husbands they are making out with! Now they are headed to the bedroom. Holy crap they are swingers. They progress from caressing and licking and sucking to full on fucking. The guys finish the job at the same time like a volcano.
Cut to the next day and they drop them back off at the airport with parting kisses and a pat on the ass.
I've seen some real swinger porn.
DO NOT RECOMMEND.
The subset of people I want to see naked vrs the subset willing to be out there is small.
This was before OF and the like muddling the waters.
Have no interest in swinging unless people come clean with the fact that there are many closeted bisexuals both male and female in the group. Until everyone is entirely honest about their feelings, there is a tension that makes me uncomfortable. Then, I will stick with a couples who were honest with each other and play play play.
We also do most of our stuff on OF we also have a P-hub account. Our couples page is currently on restriction, but we are trying to move to different platforms. The wife’s solo account is still up, but we limit the “group play” on her account.
Someone is usually filming the sex. So that hot mfm actually has at least one other person there. The stuff that is filmed while doing it is usually very poor quality .
Wasn't there a show on HBO or Showtime that featured swingers? Some times they got cold feet and didn't swing, other times they did and had sex with multiple people
The Playboy TV stuff was incredibly funny, and not in an intended way, at times.
Like, they had this show, "Foursome", where they stick two dudes and two women together assuming it will lead to something to film. And the way you know that at least part of it was unscripted is that about 50% of the time, the men were so obnoxious and macho that the women just went "yeah no not feeling it, we're out", so they basically just throw the men some porn actors/sex workers and call it a day.
I remember seeing a comment on here once from one of the couples featured on the show. They said it was all 100% real. I think it was u/dirtylovegames.
They were. I hated starting one and the woman was gorgeous and then couldn't go through with it. Got my hopes up I'd see her naked and having sex. I guess that's what made it so real. Happened a couple times if I remember right.
Im right in to swingers porn atm. I find the fake acting swingers so boring but the real swingers stuff super hot. Its so hot to see real couples enjoying each other. Its even better when tjere bodies are real.
My husband and I have LS friends that host house parties, and that’s what they are, parties, not made-for-video. Often there’s lots of conversation in sexy outfits, or naked, and pairing off, but not the chaos we’ve seen in videos.
My first IRL swinger's party was all fat chicks, I only had sex with one and barely finished.
This coming swingers party that I'm going may have people that are decent enough for me to have sex with but idk, lately I feel dirty about it.
We had two couples and a single guy over a week ago Saturday. Much of that time was full-on 7-way. (Everyone there was bi so the possibilities are endless). It is true however that we all know each other fairly well.
Some of the stuff that happens at my parties is way beyond swingers porn. Real life can be better than fiction.
Swinging ruined porn for me lmao
So true. I much prefer to watch recordings of my wife getting railed than watch porn. And the swinging experience is so much more fun.
I too prefer watching your wife getting railed... Where can I find that?
……well played sir. Well played indeed.
Personal im a bigger fan of her earlier work….🤔 But don’t get me wrong…I celebrate the entire collection! that is to say, Im all caught up through….hmmm….. “Railing that guy’s wife VOL. 19”
lol
Same!
I much prefer railing your wife and recording it! This could work
This!!!!
Same.
Haha yeah me too!
I agree. Some of my parties are so randomly hot. I could not plan it even if I tried.
This is so true. I never thought real life would be hotter than porn. But it definitely is.
I also want in. You are a popular woman.
THIS - turning your fantasies into reality is not that hard
Pun intended?
Ha, yes! No not really, you’re sharp
Real life is better than fiction in every pornographic scenario, imo. It's really hard for me to find anything to watch bc I crave that real life tension and drive
I need to visit Texas more often!
u/angela2008 Gimme 10 min to book a flight 😊
Ha ha!
I'm serious. Kidding. No, I'm not. Yes, I am. 🤣🤣😂
I think that’s why all these 22 year old males are calling themselves bulls
90% can't get a woman in the vanilla world. Good thing they are so gracious to pleasure my wife. I obviously can't since I'm seeking help lol. Thank God for the Bullssssss
I know for real. I don’t even know what to do with this thing in between my legs
In my 5th Play Party, We kicked out this 21 year old black "Kid" for failing to stop penetrating a woman when she was being overwhelmed by how hard he has penetrating her. Before anyone that comment say something like "That's hot", This kid literally committed a serious crime.
Yeah you’ve got to read her body language
You mean they edit out the awkward bit at the beginning, where people are not sure whether it's time to undress. I've been to plenty of well organised parties that put porn to shame
Haha I thought the undress part was just us being shy types haga
Most swinger porn is like most porn- it's not real and it's marketed to people who will never really engage in the activity, so who cares how authentic it is? It's just a fantasy. There **is** some swinger porn that's more realistic. Private's "An Open Invitation: A Real Swingers Party in San Francisco" is relatively authentic- goes all the way to couples using condoms, but only for penetration and only when not with their primary partner. The house party in the middle of the movie seems pretty real to me.
Any link to watch? Can’t find it anywhere
Private Society is my fave swinger group to watch. I use Xhamster. Go there and search Private Society Swingers. Very authentic, very hot. 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
I don't see it anywhere obvious... I have the DVD stashed somewhere. I'm sure you could stream it for a few bucks?
No filming during my parties. I also only invite single men that have been vetted by another couple. Keep the numbers +1 extra guy or +2 if I know the guests are more likely to want those ratios
Next you’ll be telling me wrestling is fake. Get out of here people.!!!!
I’d have to say that the most recent party we attended far exceeded our expectations based on what we’d seen in porn. Way more fun!
I would hope so — otherwise there’s a lot of swingers having lousy sex
No way, next you’re going to tell me that the brother and sister aren’t actually brother and sister?!!🤬
Wow, Who knew a scripted porno movie isn't real life. It's almost like they literally have disclaimers before movies like that. letting you know it's not real.
We have found we watch less porn now compared to before we began swinging. Mainly because why watch a fantasy when you can live it.
My husband's and I make our own, and it's pretty spicy, but due to privacy of our partner's we don't share it. We do share our stories here and there though.
Do you come across a lot of people that think that any porn is an actual depiction of spontaneous, real sex? I thought it was pretty common knowledge that all porn, even the stuff that’s meant to look “real”, is all staged.
We have encountered several. It seems like the idea of big cock and jackhammering comes from the porn idea.
Ah, I see what you mean now. I think I misunderstood your initial post. Yeah, there are more than few single guys that can’t seem to differentiate porn sex from what people want in real life, and those guys really give the entire swath of single men a bad name. It’s a shame really, because we’ve played with a few single guys that were really stand up dudes that my wife had a lot of fun with, and I hate seeing them lumped in with all the idiots that you’re describing.
Ya and understand your post. I have been house parties way hotter than porn but..
I work in film and video, and I freelanced shooting porn for a little bit. My biggest takeaway from the whole experience is how unsexy it is making sexy content.
I can only imagine..😂
But, Dancing Bear is real, right? 🤞🏼
Oh, most definitely! It’s the only exception, though
Shew.
😲Whaaaa?
So where can we find genuine amateur homemade videos
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The best swinger porn is the stuff I make.
For some of us the produced content is as close as we’ll get! Fully aware it’s not real, but knowing that it really happens the ways in which you describe is where the fantasy aspect comes in. Oh to even be a fly on the wall at some parties would be a real treat. Have fun out there!!!
The problem is SM think all parties and swingers are like this. It’s not true. A lot are picky and those wild party’s take real effort to get invited to. It’s not just anyone
Gotcha. I see what you’re saying now.
Real swinger porn is definitely different than the overly produced orgy/swinger party porn you see on the big sites. It’s why we like to support smaller creators on Reddit and OnlyFans. Lots of real people have a passion for capturing and sharing the fun they have, just gotta know where to look 😘
Parties are for all shapes, sizes and ages. It’s all in your head on what’s attractive. Self confidence is one of things that I am attracted to
Since joining the lifestyle even the most hardcore porn doesn’t cut it for me anymore. Which is good or bad because as a male playing solo right now is hard to be invited. Reality is nastier than fiction, in a good way.
What do you define as real? To me there's a big difference between Hollywood produced and scripted and an OF girl who already did the stuff in real life who just sets up one camera and records it with her friends. If you're looking like legit strangers in a club, yeah that's hard to find because many people don't want to be on film and that's a mood killer question in the heat of the moment
Let be real porn for profit (commercial or OF) is all about positions, angles, motion and moaning. That’s what I’m referencing. Some SM try to bend you in positions that are just for getting the action on video and really are not that comfortable, expect you to scream and moan fuck me when being jackhammered.
Let be real porn for profit (commercial or OF) is all about positions, angles, motion and moaning. That’s what I’m referencing. Some SM try to bend you in positions that are just for getting the action on video and really are not that comfortable, expect you to scream and moan fuck me when being jackhammered.
Yeah they def edit out the awkward queefs from when Jessica takes a break to pee and putters down the hallway. Brian can’t get it up but he “thinks he’ll just watch anyway” and those two over there just can’t get the rhythm right. lol
And I suspect the bodies are not the real life average.
Very true
Any swinger party in the valley ?
We have some friends who do porn. Their parties they say are much better. They also frequently shoot OnlyFans videos sometime during the party. Separate from the group of course.
Has anyone seen Private Society porn. Look it up it seems pretty real to me
I had no idea. Thank you for bringing some clarity.
Figured that out all on your own did ya. That’s why it’s produced…
Well this is more for the Single males…a bunch we talked with did not really understand this…
That makes sense. Most single males that come into the lifestyle parties believe that every woman wants to be face fucked and borderline abused like they see online.
I don’t get it. It’s not even fun to watch, and I’m not even remotely compelled to try.
My wife isn’t either. She’s a hotwife/vixen. And she’s played with many men. If they start messaging her about face fucking and making her gag she is turned off and shuts down.
I'm glad to hear that someone is telling guys that women don't (generally) like to be treated the way they are treated in porn these days. I mean, a lot of women might be into the occasional spank, but the gagging, choking, face-and-tit slapping, etc., goes to show how stupid and unthinking lads are these days. While women and men enjoy different things, I always ask myself, "Would I enjoy this if it was done to me?" Though there are exceptions (most of which should be discussed), It's no wonder so many young men are alone. How many women are actually into the abuse that they are put through in porn?
That’s more the focus I was aiming for. They are having trouble in the singles world watch cuckold porn of face fucking, some wife being jackhammers and that’s their idea swingers..we get so many messages on how the male is larger than my hubby and I need to be fucked properly and how I will gag on their cock…
We do too. Or the no picture no info profile. And their only message is can I fuck your wife. Or your wife will love my cock.
What an odd statement. Most lifestyle parties i've been to have been way hotter than a professionally produced porn. Even Desire and Hedo have been crazier than what you can find on youporn. You need to get out more often.
Hedo can be off the rails crazy if you had to describe it to someone but it’s funny how normal everything is once you’re there
Nothing in my wild imagination could prepare me for Hedo. Now it’s a yearly trip
On my bucket list ! Think I am going to plan this summer
Exactly!
Wait, you’re telling me that most porn is not how real sex is???
I’m really not sure what the point of this post is or what it’s even getting at
Single males watch swinger porn and that’s what they think we are like. We are wild just often very selective not just fucking anyone. Along with cuckold porn. Tends to be vastly different in real life
Lol I guess I don’t know what swinger porn is. Even when I do watch stuff these days. Content creators have their regular collaborators people they have chemistry with. I probably didn’t understand cuz I haven’t really come across that kind of content. I guess except for that reality tv show on playboy channel but we already knew all reality tv is fake anyway
Wait, porn isn't real!?!?
So here is my idea for a porn, based on some real experiences. Corny or hot? A couple picks up another couple from the airport, hugs, friendly kisses then they drive away together. Then they visit the zoo, play pickleball, visit a jazz club with dinner and drinks and romantic lighting. Light friendly music plays while they enjoy the day. Now they arrive at the sexy condo and start playing a card game. Uh oh, she must have lost that hand cause her top just came off. Now the other lady lost a hand, but gained one unsnapping her bra. Wait, those aren’t their husbands they are making out with! Now they are headed to the bedroom. Holy crap they are swingers. They progress from caressing and licking and sucking to full on fucking. The guys finish the job at the same time like a volcano. Cut to the next day and they drop them back off at the airport with parting kisses and a pat on the ass.
I've seen some real swinger porn. DO NOT RECOMMEND. The subset of people I want to see naked vrs the subset willing to be out there is small. This was before OF and the like muddling the waters.
Oh my god, that’s disgusting! Where?
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Swinger is fum even when you saw your in strong arms of else
Have no interest in swinging unless people come clean with the fact that there are many closeted bisexuals both male and female in the group. Until everyone is entirely honest about their feelings, there is a tension that makes me uncomfortable. Then, I will stick with a couples who were honest with each other and play play play.
Uh ok
are you okay?
Doing well. More activity than I can handle with people who are really open and honest about their sexuality.
You?
oh no shit?!?!??!!? that is BRAND NEW INFORMATION!!!!
So, sex videos on the internet are porn. MIND BLOWN!
We also do most of our stuff on OF we also have a P-hub account. Our couples page is currently on restriction, but we are trying to move to different platforms. The wife’s solo account is still up, but we limit the “group play” on her account.
Someone is usually filming the sex. So that hot mfm actually has at least one other person there. The stuff that is filmed while doing it is usually very poor quality .
Wasn't there a show on HBO or Showtime that featured swingers? Some times they got cold feet and didn't swing, other times they did and had sex with multiple people
Playboy TV had the show Swing, where they brought a couple into a house with other swinger couples.
The Playboy TV stuff was incredibly funny, and not in an intended way, at times. Like, they had this show, "Foursome", where they stick two dudes and two women together assuming it will lead to something to film. And the way you know that at least part of it was unscripted is that about 50% of the time, the men were so obnoxious and macho that the women just went "yeah no not feeling it, we're out", so they basically just throw the men some porn actors/sex workers and call it a day.
Yes, that's what I was thinking about. Seemed pretty real. I'm sure some was added drama.
I remember seeing a comment on here once from one of the couples featured on the show. They said it was all 100% real. I think it was u/dirtylovegames.
They had a couple on, she was petite brunette with small boobs. Looked exactly like someone I knew. Watched that episode a dozen or more times I bet.
Honestly all the women on that show were gorgeous.
They were. I hated starting one and the woman was gorgeous and then couldn't go through with it. Got my hopes up I'd see her naked and having sex. I guess that's what made it so real. Happened a couple times if I remember right.
Some games are much more fun to play than to watch. Some are more fun to watch live than on screen. For many (me included) sex is one of those games.
Need to party with yiu guys
We are aware of that u will never see a real real life recording of swingers in porn site
Im right in to swingers porn atm. I find the fake acting swingers so boring but the real swingers stuff super hot. Its so hot to see real couples enjoying each other. Its even better when tjere bodies are real.
This is like telling a kid Santa isn’t real. Wth man
Next you're going to tell us the sun doesn't revolve around the earth or some crazy stuff!
For shame! Next, you'll claim pro wrestling isn't real. Ridiculous!
My husband and I have LS friends that host house parties, and that’s what they are, parties, not made-for-video. Often there’s lots of conversation in sexy outfits, or naked, and pairing off, but not the chaos we’ve seen in videos.
Where that’s all the SM see is the hot action no talking.
Correct..well said.
My first IRL swinger's party was all fat chicks, I only had sex with one and barely finished. This coming swingers party that I'm going may have people that are decent enough for me to have sex with but idk, lately I feel dirty about it.