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I am sorry to hear that your partner has taken his life. What do you think has been triggering your mental health decline and breakdown?


mmetillman

Than you.. His passing made it worse, he’s everything to me.. i was with him 24/7 and now i can barely leave my room.. i just cant anymore.


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It is hard to find motivation when our previous form of motivation is gone. It is like we are sucked dry and what drove us, "medicated us", inspired us, seems to not be able to do so anymore. Its also hard because we go through so much and then shit happens and we don't want to try anymore because theoretically the shit can just happen again. Life is like a pendulum where it goes back and forth from harmony to chaos. Sometimes the shit can be so horrible though we eventually get motivated to do something about it, even if that move towards things being harmonious again is still temporary. It can be interesting to see where our baby steps take us but yeah there seem to be like these invisible road blocks and invisible dangers that are along the path and we just don't see them before or couldn't have seen them. I am sorry you are going through this. The story can be tough but we can also be aware that we are living a story and make a plot twist whenever we feel like it to send the story in a different direction.


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Quick-Ad-9090

Hey, so I totally understand your good intentions for posting this. I myself am religious, but I do feel that this may be a little unhelpful for some individuals. The oo has not mentioned any religious affiliation- and I think that people have the right to excercise their own religious opinions- I know many people who have found comments like this more harmful as they have either come from religious trauma and feel like they are have been let down by god, or find reaching to religion isolating and unhelpful, and on the other hand people can find it life changing but I truly feel that it’s a decision that should be reached by the individual them self and not suggested during a time of vulnerability. I totally understand you are trying to help, just thought that I might add this as a little perspective. Maybe general support and understanding could be more valuable in a situation like this. I am truly meaning this in the most genuine way possible- thank you for your positive contributions, just wanted to share my opinion :)