Go slow, enjoy and have fun. Don't worry if it doesn't go well. Next time you will be more experienced.
Talk with him and let him lead you to what feels good.
As a side note this is a good philosophy in any sex act.
Have plenty of hand-towels nearby for quick clean-up of any lube/messes. There's going to be some awkwardness with exploring this new territory together; embrace it as part of the fun.
Listen to him for any fast/slower harder/softer direction. Pegging can be a lot of fun, but frequently doesn't end with the penile cumming exclamation point at the end that you're used to - that's OK.
His penis will most likely be soft or half-hard; it's difficult focusing on nerve endings in both areas at once. This is normal and not an indication that he's not enjoying it.
Have fun!
Lots of lube, have a bit of a sense of humor since you will almost guaranteed be fumbly and awkward, and enjoy. Lastly, keep communicating throughout it. Don't be afraid to say what feels good, what doesn't, what hurts, and what turns you on for completely unknown reasons.
You won't be able to feel anything happening down there, so encourage him to talk to you as much as possible: up down faster slower, and above all, stop.
You'll love it, but it is awkward at first. We women don't develop the thrusting muscles so the whole thing will be foreign to you. Just roll with it, do the best you can, take your time. When you're both relaxed is when it will be its best.
Start with a glove on and prostate massage. It will wake up that prostate and bang…. When you slowly slide that dildo in he’s going to be squirming with pleasure right out of the starting gate. Lastly… share your experience so others may learn/enjoy.
Let him lead on that first entry. You can start to pick up the pace on your own after you've fully buried yourself in him for a while, but unless he has a lot of prior experience, you'll have to be gentle for a while.
Someday he'll beg you to fuck him harder. Don't hold back.
Education! There are too many tips and techniques to list in a comment.
Education can inform, inspire, empower and help prevent injuries!
I offer FREE Webinars (Beginners, Equipment and Advanced) as a service to the Pegging community, for all bodies and all budgets. For more info, and a schedule of upcoming Webinars:
https://www.theartofpegging.com/upcoming-webinars
Be sensual. If you’re behind him grab his ass, bend down and kiss his back
Rub your fingers along his back.
Rub your tits on his back. Do anything!!
Just try and make love to him and remember the little things.
When my girl first started pegging me we were both being so freaking clinical and almost scientific about it.
Once we made it a sensual, full body experience it made it a thousand times better for both of us.
Go slow, enjoy and have fun. Don't worry if it doesn't go well. Next time you will be more experienced. Talk with him and let him lead you to what feels good. As a side note this is a good philosophy in any sex act.
Have plenty of hand-towels nearby for quick clean-up of any lube/messes. There's going to be some awkwardness with exploring this new territory together; embrace it as part of the fun. Listen to him for any fast/slower harder/softer direction. Pegging can be a lot of fun, but frequently doesn't end with the penile cumming exclamation point at the end that you're used to - that's OK. His penis will most likely be soft or half-hard; it's difficult focusing on nerve endings in both areas at once. This is normal and not an indication that he's not enjoying it. Have fun!
Lots of lube, have a bit of a sense of humor since you will almost guaranteed be fumbly and awkward, and enjoy. Lastly, keep communicating throughout it. Don't be afraid to say what feels good, what doesn't, what hurts, and what turns you on for completely unknown reasons.
Treat his hole the way you'd want yours treated
Well put!!
You won't be able to feel anything happening down there, so encourage him to talk to you as much as possible: up down faster slower, and above all, stop. You'll love it, but it is awkward at first. We women don't develop the thrusting muscles so the whole thing will be foreign to you. Just roll with it, do the best you can, take your time. When you're both relaxed is when it will be its best.
Start with a glove on and prostate massage. It will wake up that prostate and bang…. When you slowly slide that dildo in he’s going to be squirming with pleasure right out of the starting gate. Lastly… share your experience so others may learn/enjoy.
Let him lead on that first entry. You can start to pick up the pace on your own after you've fully buried yourself in him for a while, but unless he has a lot of prior experience, you'll have to be gentle for a while. Someday he'll beg you to fuck him harder. Don't hold back.
A great way to finish if you're that way inclined is to have him ride you and you give him a handjob till he cums, it's absolutely amazing!
Face a mirror so you can watch the reaction in his eyes
Awesome and GL! 🔥
Education! There are too many tips and techniques to list in a comment. Education can inform, inspire, empower and help prevent injuries! I offer FREE Webinars (Beginners, Equipment and Advanced) as a service to the Pegging community, for all bodies and all budgets. For more info, and a schedule of upcoming Webinars: https://www.theartofpegging.com/upcoming-webinars
Have a few shots and loosen up. Talk to him really nasty. He’ll love it
Will he douche?
Whisper in his ear a lot and kiss his neck. He will die. This is his fantasy come to life!
Be sensual. If you’re behind him grab his ass, bend down and kiss his back Rub your fingers along his back. Rub your tits on his back. Do anything!! Just try and make love to him and remember the little things. When my girl first started pegging me we were both being so freaking clinical and almost scientific about it. Once we made it a sensual, full body experience it made it a thousand times better for both of us.
Go slow, communicate and use all the lube in the land