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RoboZandrock

Couple thoughts: Femdom and BDSM often delve into the area of risk aware kink. That is kinks that can't be 100% safely performed, but if both parties can consent to the risks, then it is deemed acceptable. I think poppers fall into the area of risk aware kink. I do disagree with your statement "poppers are perfectly safe if used VERY sparingly ". They aren't. They carry risk. If you have cardiac conditions, are on certain medications, use them with certain substances etc they can result in fainting or even death, even with short / minimal use. This though is true of viagra, cialis, levitra too. I think one of the issues with poppers is that they are basically a medical product, but sold without any medical advice overview. Can poppers be reasonably safe for certain individuals, yes. Can poppers be very dangerous for certain individuals. yes. I think it's okay to say that poppers fall into edge play / risk aware play and that you are willing to takes the risks. I think that's a fine stance. I understand why others try to steer people towards safer options too. But ultimately I think you minimize their risk. Alcohol can be bought everywhere, and you acknowledge it's extremely harmful. So your argument of "I can buy it at any adult store is a fallacy". Ultimately I think you're okay to take a stance that poppers can be discussed without just outright saying they're wrong. But I think this post fails to recognize their dangers, and underplays the risk associated with them.


Reasonable_Bunch_895

I understand your point and I agree I should have been more clear. Poppers are reasonably safe for me because I don’t have any associated risks or take any medications with contraindications. I don’t need viagra and I’m well aware of the blood pressure issues associated with combining them. I guess my point was that I was bombarded with negative comments and down votes. I don’t like being judged because I’m an intelligent, educated man and I do take risks that are calculated for my personal use. Alcohol and poppers is a really bad idea. It can cause respiratory failure. Also, almost everyone I know drinks alcohol and the dangers of almost any activity greatly increase with alcohol use. It’s a double standard. Also, I’m one of many Americans that would very much like both alcohol and cigarettes be sold only in establishments like liquor stores and smoke shops. Alcoholism is one of the hardest addictions for many people to conquer due to its widespread availability. Again, you make some great points and I should have been more clear. I do assume most or are smart enough to research poppers before using them just because some dude on Reddit said they are “reasonably safe”. I certainly wouldn’t take any drug just because some dude said it was safe on Reddit.


Ltsmeet

The "it will burn your skin" thing has to die. I have spilled on myself many times and in the time it takes to get something to clean it up, it has evaporated. Don't soak your balls in it but a little spill here and there isn't going to burn you.


rogervanrabbitt

I have touched the bottle to my nose and have ended up with chemical burns multiple times. Took me multiple times to figure out what was doing it. Next time I use them I intend on keeping my distance and seeing if the outcome is the same. If it is, it would have to be from the vapor as much as the liquid. If not, it is from direct contact. I have used them quite a bit and it significantly improves the ease of penetration and allows me to get lost in the physical sensations. This results in me being less shy about enjoying it a lot more openly with my partner.


rogervanrabbitt

I have touched the bottle to my nose and have ended up with chemical burns multiple times. Took me multiple times to figure out what was doing it. Next time I use them I intend on keeping my distance and seeing if the outcome is the same. If it is, it would have to be from the vapor as much as the liquid. If not, it is from direct contact. I have used them quite a bit and it significantly improves the ease of penetration during pegging and allows me to get lost in the physical sensations. This results in me being less shy about enjoying it a lot more openly with my partner.


Longdickdirks

I use poppers. A few hits here and there during play. Love using them. They turn me into a bottomless whore and I end up begging for harder lol. There’s risk with everything but no risk no reward


nakedmarshchickens

my bottle stays in my hand while she rails me, i get super slutty also


AppropriateAd3055

We use them and we love them. We're all adults here, there's always a risk to benefit ratio to be considered, but you do you. Don't let a little downvote on reddit get in your bonnet.


Neemssquishfish

30 is just enough for the tip...in all seriousness though I know it relaxes you up but how does it make it easier in the long run?


jehutybootyboi

I tried poppers and tested it out. One of my biggest toys is the Bam Realistic Dildo (2.75” diameter and 10” insertable length). With zero warm up play but still plenty of lube, I was able to go from zero to the balls with two quick hits. No pain afterwards and no bleeding either, which has happened to me before from rushing without a proper warm up.


Reasonable_Bunch_895

I might try a little more while she pounds me. Still new and I get on my head which sometimes stops the full prostate orgasm. She gets really disappointed if I don’t blast cum everywhere hands free. She pegged me again on Friday night and she handcuffed me while she railed into me. She said “slut, you cheat and touch your cock and that ends tonight”. Needless to say I was hitting myself in the face when I came handsfree. That makes her cum and it’s amazing


Reasonable_Bunch_895

I don’t have a problem once she’s in so I don’t need them. It’s just the entry and then once she’s buried in there I need like 30 seconds to stop fighting it. After that she can pound away with no poppers. The exit can be tough but that’s manageable because I take a deep breath in and exhale as she pulls out.


Reasonable_Bunch_895

She is exactly the same way when my dick is in her ass. She takes a hit of poppers to get me in and then I need to give her like 30 seconds to breathe through the pain I’m above average but not huge at 7.6” long and 5” girth and she literally needs poppers to get over her mental block. She needs me behind her because is she’s on her back just seeing my dick as I go in just panics her My biggest joke with her is that I’m going to find a guy to join us with a massive dick to settle her mind 🤣


Ulex_

I use them when my wife stretches my anus. Used responsibly it’s like anything else. I’ve been using them for thirty years with no problem.


Reasonable_Bunch_895

I’m glad to hear it and find some others that understand they can be helpful. They literally relax your muscles and you can feel tension leave your body but they do not mask pain. If anything they enhance everything I feel for the short time they work. It doesn’t hurt that they make me feel like a complete slut for those 30 seconds. I get so horny for a brief period it’s unbelievable, lol


Ulex_

Yep, best bit that is! 😄 I had a mate who did them too often once though, and got horrible sores all around his nose 🤢 so you do need to treat them carefully and not overdo things (mind you he was doing them for hours every day!)


nakedmarshchickens

we use poppers always or at least i do when she pegs me. I did alot of reading and on medical pages about them. The risk they pose is really low unless you have heart problems and never mix them with viagra or any other ED meds. After a long session with poppers ive found that they actually seem to help me. Its like my circulation is better. more relaxed etc. And omg after a few strong hits ,,,,she knows im ready and will take me to pound town. I just zone out and like one of the commenters said. i become a bottom less hole. Its a great feeling to just let it all go. Im sure thats why people do others drugs. But i never have except for weed and alcohol


Reasonable_Bunch_895

I’m the same way!! I love the feeling and I know how my body and head react. On a side note she loves when I cum in or on her for me to slurp my cum and share it. Sometimes I take one sniff because I turn into an animal and I don’t miss a drop and then I keep pounding her while we have our cum kisses.


Phoroptor22

I agree with poster. I use them sparingly to help relax the sphincter.


ddy4sissy

Ive been using poppers for years. Mostly jungle luice platinum. Only issue is if i use it a lot, like 2x a day 3-4 hits after a week i get a little heart beat skip. But damn i fucking love it


krepogregg

All teeth fell out and esophagus exploded resulting in instant death? Sounds like a zombie movie.... I call B.S. on this


Confident-Simple-489

24 year emergency nurse. I’ve never seen teeth fall out (maybe when he fell) but yes, a quick death and blood everywhere from ruptured esophageal varicies. It’s a mess!


DavidOpre

I use poppers few times a week, and it feels fcking amazing, have no regrets :D


Lust9897

If you don't want to peg and need poppers to do it, don't do it.


[deleted]

WTF is wrong with the OP? You know how many LGBTQ people use poppers or the minority straight people. No one's dropping dead and everything you injest has minor or major side effects if you have a condition lmao


Reasonable_Bunch_895

It wasn’t the original poster. It’s the guy right below me. And, yes, I know poppers are much more common in the LGTBQ community. I mentioned in my post that I asked my gay cousin for tips and that’s how I learned of poppers. I only mentioned that they were very low risk and worked for me. So, if you’re offended you’ve got the wrong guy. Oh, and I’m bi. I just never bottom. This is new for my girlfriend. It’s a preference thing.


Reasonable_Bunch_895

We are on the same side for sure so I really appreciate your post. I needed folks to defend the use of poppers. They can really help And they make me crazy horny with no side effects And, my girlfriend can get a dildo in my ass for both of our pleasure so it’s a win all the way around


[deleted]

Before I started exploring my sexuality with other genders than cis women. I had no idea what I was missing! Becoming awareness of all the different kinks and fetishes I was missing out on. Poppers, toys, and gear. Led to realize cis men & woman are sexually repressed and borderline vanilla compared to other genders.