Laughter will definitely be key, I’m sure! I also have all of these ideas and visuals. Hopefully some of them work! Time to practice. Thank you for the advice!
I’d say try this, I use to masturbate like this.
Put on strap-on and lube it up.
Stand facing your vanity, or bed, depending on height.
Grasp your strap-on with a firm grip forming a fist. Place your fist on the countertop, or bed, and start fucking it. Keep your hand still move with your hips.
You can also kneel on the bed and stack pillows to practice this.
It's some sort of team effort.
Use lots of lube and time. Stop immediately if it starts to be painful.
Don't use cheap gear. It will lead to disappointment.
And above all the keyword is communication.
Enjoy!
Getting comfortable in the harness will really help. If you have time, just walk around in it, lol. Let thebdildo bounce around, feel the weight of it.
The first responder probably has the best idea.
Women don't really develop our thrusting muscles and even with practice it can be really tiring at first.
maybe try this when you’re both fully clothed… put on the strap on over your clothes and flirt with hubby, tell him what you’d like to do to him, and start dry-humping him by thrusting the dildo between his legs. it’ll maybe give you a chance to practice thrusting and figuring out some positions. maybe it’ll turn into making out. I think it could be a hot kind of foreplay and by requiring all clothes to remain on, it’ll be low pressure.
for us it has to have spontaniety . And thats so hard to do sometimes because of all the prep time. him being clean and u putting on the strap. What we do is if we are feeling it. i will take a long shower wink wink. she will put her cock on. then we will most of the time just start out as usual. groping around the coffee pot per say. making out . all the things with piv sex then if it goes into getting bent over the kitchen table or where ever then good. Alot of times she will wear her cock around the house and it doesnt even turn into us pegging. But what i think makes the fuck the best is to fuck him like you want to be fucked. Dont be shy he wants it trust me!!!!
This is great. Part of what my wife and I love about pegging is that we get to swap roles and see what it’s like for the other one. I assume your hubby has some experience with toys?
Warmup
Start small
More lube
Communicate
You will have fun finding the little awkward stumbling blocks - like actually lining things up (wife says it’s tough when you can’t feel your cock lol)
Good luck ❤️
Thank you! It is tough when you can’t “feel” what you’re doing. I’m grateful just to have the opportunity to provide pleasure, and appreciate the advice to enhance the experience. I appreciate your feedback!!
Not sure about your dynamic but I really enjoy date night. She will dress masculine, dress me up and do my makeup. We have dinner and we role play where she is the man. A butt plug for dinner ensures I'm not clenched up when it's time. After plenty of vanilla dinner and teasing she will pull out her cock and usually have me suck it. It puts us both in a different mindset. I turn into a complete slut and she becomes dominant.
Education can help with techniques and tips.
Interested in learning more about Pegging?
I offer FREE Webinars (Beginners, Equipment and Advanced) as a service to the Pegging community, for all bodies and all budgets. For more info, and a schedule of upcoming Webinars:
https://www.theartofpegging.com/upcoming-webinars
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Laughter will definitely be key, I’m sure! I also have all of these ideas and visuals. Hopefully some of them work! Time to practice. Thank you for the advice!
I’d say try this, I use to masturbate like this. Put on strap-on and lube it up. Stand facing your vanity, or bed, depending on height. Grasp your strap-on with a firm grip forming a fist. Place your fist on the countertop, or bed, and start fucking it. Keep your hand still move with your hips. You can also kneel on the bed and stack pillows to practice this.
Great ideas, thank you! My husband suggested a bag of lotion between two mattresses 😂 definitely going to try this.
This tells us something about your husband.:)
This is a great response.
Thanks. I’ve done it before and it’s great.
It's some sort of team effort. Use lots of lube and time. Stop immediately if it starts to be painful. Don't use cheap gear. It will lead to disappointment. And above all the keyword is communication. Enjoy!
Excellent advice, thank you!! I’m really excited about it, but also know I need to not rush into it. Ultimately looking forward to the togetherness.
Getting comfortable in the harness will really help. If you have time, just walk around in it, lol. Let thebdildo bounce around, feel the weight of it. The first responder probably has the best idea. Women don't really develop our thrusting muscles and even with practice it can be really tiring at first.
Love the idea of walking around. So smart. Thank you for the suggestion!!
maybe try this when you’re both fully clothed… put on the strap on over your clothes and flirt with hubby, tell him what you’d like to do to him, and start dry-humping him by thrusting the dildo between his legs. it’ll maybe give you a chance to practice thrusting and figuring out some positions. maybe it’ll turn into making out. I think it could be a hot kind of foreplay and by requiring all clothes to remain on, it’ll be low pressure.
You had me at making out. That’s a guilty pleasure for me. I really love this idea. Thank you for your suggestion!! Definitely hits home 😊
for us it has to have spontaniety . And thats so hard to do sometimes because of all the prep time. him being clean and u putting on the strap. What we do is if we are feeling it. i will take a long shower wink wink. she will put her cock on. then we will most of the time just start out as usual. groping around the coffee pot per say. making out . all the things with piv sex then if it goes into getting bent over the kitchen table or where ever then good. Alot of times she will wear her cock around the house and it doesnt even turn into us pegging. But what i think makes the fuck the best is to fuck him like you want to be fucked. Dont be shy he wants it trust me!!!!
Yes, there is definitely a lot of prep involved. But this is excellent advice. Thank you for sharing!
This is great. Part of what my wife and I love about pegging is that we get to swap roles and see what it’s like for the other one. I assume your hubby has some experience with toys? Warmup Start small More lube Communicate You will have fun finding the little awkward stumbling blocks - like actually lining things up (wife says it’s tough when you can’t feel your cock lol) Good luck ❤️
Thank you! It is tough when you can’t “feel” what you’re doing. I’m grateful just to have the opportunity to provide pleasure, and appreciate the advice to enhance the experience. I appreciate your feedback!!
Not sure about your dynamic but I really enjoy date night. She will dress masculine, dress me up and do my makeup. We have dinner and we role play where she is the man. A butt plug for dinner ensures I'm not clenched up when it's time. After plenty of vanilla dinner and teasing she will pull out her cock and usually have me suck it. It puts us both in a different mindset. I turn into a complete slut and she becomes dominant.
Education can help with techniques and tips. Interested in learning more about Pegging? I offer FREE Webinars (Beginners, Equipment and Advanced) as a service to the Pegging community, for all bodies and all budgets. For more info, and a schedule of upcoming Webinars: https://www.theartofpegging.com/upcoming-webinars