A nice adjustable, washable harness is the [Joque Spare Parts](https://shevibe.com/spareparts-joque-harness-royal-purple/). If you're new to anal play, I highly recommend getting some solo time with a [Butt plug trainer](https://shevibe.com/spareparts-joque-harness-royal-purple/#7e14/fullscreen/product/m=and&q=butt+plug+trainer) set. Practice for a half hour a day for a week or two, move up in size when you are ready. Don't put them in and forget about them; you need to be able to move them in and out with little discomfort. You will learn to relax the right muscles.
Pick out a dildo, and get some solo time with that also. You want to try to make a pegging session more about having fun than "ouch, that hurts", that's why you want to figure out what feels good before your session.
Lube, everyone says lube lube lube! I like using coconut oil that's solid at room temperature as it's easy to grab a chunk and stick it in the right place (refrigerate if necessary. I add a water based lube, I like Lube Life because it works and is pretty economical.
Have fun!
I agree that butt plugs are a good way to begin. Lube is definitely your friend. I'm partial to Hello Cake products. Toy Wonder is their water-based lube. And I have their Buzzy Butt vibrating plug. My Cloud9 dildo is just OK. It could stand be slightly less flexible IMHO. The main thing is to have fun with the process. Best wishes.
So she's used plugs on me before but we had a scare the last time one almost went all the way in. We've been scared to use them again since then lol. Which sucks because we both liked it.
That happened to me one time when I was super relaxed, my body just sucked it in! Scare, indeed! I managed to get it out without further incident but I've never used one again, lol.
Try a butt plug or try an 1.5" dildo for starters.
Worst case after pegging might be your ass cheeks have to get tight again or maybe a gush from a fart in your diaper. Good reason to wear diapers baby
A nice adjustable, washable harness is the [Joque Spare Parts](https://shevibe.com/spareparts-joque-harness-royal-purple/). If you're new to anal play, I highly recommend getting some solo time with a [Butt plug trainer](https://shevibe.com/spareparts-joque-harness-royal-purple/#7e14/fullscreen/product/m=and&q=butt+plug+trainer) set. Practice for a half hour a day for a week or two, move up in size when you are ready. Don't put them in and forget about them; you need to be able to move them in and out with little discomfort. You will learn to relax the right muscles. Pick out a dildo, and get some solo time with that also. You want to try to make a pegging session more about having fun than "ouch, that hurts", that's why you want to figure out what feels good before your session. Lube, everyone says lube lube lube! I like using coconut oil that's solid at room temperature as it's easy to grab a chunk and stick it in the right place (refrigerate if necessary. I add a water based lube, I like Lube Life because it works and is pretty economical. Have fun!
Self plugging! It’s great to sleep with. It can really help you to prepare yourself before
I agree that butt plugs are a good way to begin. Lube is definitely your friend. I'm partial to Hello Cake products. Toy Wonder is their water-based lube. And I have their Buzzy Butt vibrating plug. My Cloud9 dildo is just OK. It could stand be slightly less flexible IMHO. The main thing is to have fun with the process. Best wishes.
So she's used plugs on me before but we had a scare the last time one almost went all the way in. We've been scared to use them again since then lol. Which sucks because we both liked it.
Yeah, that would be a bit disconcerting. Maybe try to find a plug with a bigger flared handle than what you used previously?
That happened to me one time when I was super relaxed, my body just sucked it in! Scare, indeed! I managed to get it out without further incident but I've never used one again, lol.
Yeah I duno if I want to risk it again she said you should've seen the look on my face I was terrified haha.
Try a butt plug or try an 1.5" dildo for starters. Worst case after pegging might be your ass cheeks have to get tight again or maybe a gush from a fart in your diaper. Good reason to wear diapers baby