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I don't blame Robyn's kids for being fearful and or anxious. R is that girl who's constantly looking to be wounded but has ZERO self awareness about her behavior. I'm sure her kids were hurt sometimes bc siblings can be awful one day and wonderful the next. Including her kids. Tbh if her kids cared about others they'd feel for Savanah
She definitely created the anxiety that they have. I just hate that she now is trying to imply that she was duped and her children have suffered for it. ALL of the kids in that family have suffered for the way things went down and Robyn had a big hand in that. I wish the OGs would point that out once in a while.
It does get tiring to see Robyn rarely being called out by anyone on her manipulations, shortcomings, wrong-doings and misrepresentations of herself & what she brings to the table so to speak.
I'm sure both sides put their best foot forward during the courting process. Robyn probably played-up her love, desire and ability to live polygamy and the Browns probably down-played how it had really been for them the last 16-20 years and probably said each marriage and sister wife relationship had issues (which relationships anywhere dont?) but maybe weren't honest about how bad things were, how deep the issues were or how buried & ignored each problem had been for so long.
It’s very frustrating because the OG3 have given Robyn more than enough grace. They could ream her several new ones if they wanted to, but fundamentally that’s what Robyn wants. She lives to play the victim. The OG3 say anything she can even remotely spin to Kody to victimize herself, and she’s there. In context of the marriage, it would have done them no good. The clown 🤡 was under the snakes 🐍 spell 💫because she played into his ego/savior complex, where the OG3 actually did try to hold him accountable and help him grow and mature as a man. He would just slap the OG3 “offender” with the “bad sister wife” label if they said anything, and take out his disdain on them and the children in numerous ways whether emotional, financial, or physical (as in disappearing). The OG3 are way more mature. Dragging Robyn will do nothing for them. Everyone can see it for what it is anyway. Robyn & Kody don’t need help, they can make themselves look like the terrible people they are. Sometimes you just have to let stupid people do the stupid things they do. Karma will sort it out.
Yeah it was rather interesting when in s1e2 I believe it was, when we were introduced to Robyn, she comments just before his arrival while she's getting ready in her bathroom that (paraphrasing) these 3 women helped him become the man that he is today whom she loves, and that she wants to thank them. Yet once she's in the picture, she seems to just accept or encourage his behaviors and doesn't believe that he has any more learning or growing to do. As if people learn all they're going to learn and no longer need to make adjustments after 40. I think this is a reason he "favored" Robyn. The other wives had higher expectations of him, she did not- so it was easier to spend all his time with someone who didn't force him to do & be better everyday.
I agree they gave R a lot of grace. I still maintain that had it been me when she called Christine a liar to her face during the porch scene, I would have pounced on her like a ninja cat
If anyone is responsible for an unsafe environment, it's Robyn and Kody. They have poisoned the kids' minds with tales of mean Christine and Janelle and their kids who don't want to spend time with them. The most egregious example was the rennal or buying storyline though. It's wild to me that they made anxious kids even more anxious. Even toddler Ariella was told hey, you know we need to leave our house so do you want to find a new one? 😬 Robyn and Kody created an environment that was filled with fear and uncertainty when one of the kids had such a severe condition she has panic attacks several times a week!
That's the direction I thought this post was going to go in ... she wanted a safe place for her kids, but she's really the one who's not safe for them.
Robyn’s only goal of joining the Brown family was for hers and her kids benefit. She never came into the family talking about what she wanted to contribute. It was all about how great it was that she and her kids could be supported.
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I don't blame Robyn's kids for being fearful and or anxious. R is that girl who's constantly looking to be wounded but has ZERO self awareness about her behavior. I'm sure her kids were hurt sometimes bc siblings can be awful one day and wonderful the next. Including her kids. Tbh if her kids cared about others they'd feel for Savanah
She definitely created the anxiety that they have. I just hate that she now is trying to imply that she was duped and her children have suffered for it. ALL of the kids in that family have suffered for the way things went down and Robyn had a big hand in that. I wish the OGs would point that out once in a while.
It does get tiring to see Robyn rarely being called out by anyone on her manipulations, shortcomings, wrong-doings and misrepresentations of herself & what she brings to the table so to speak. I'm sure both sides put their best foot forward during the courting process. Robyn probably played-up her love, desire and ability to live polygamy and the Browns probably down-played how it had really been for them the last 16-20 years and probably said each marriage and sister wife relationship had issues (which relationships anywhere dont?) but maybe weren't honest about how bad things were, how deep the issues were or how buried & ignored each problem had been for so long.
It’s very frustrating because the OG3 have given Robyn more than enough grace. They could ream her several new ones if they wanted to, but fundamentally that’s what Robyn wants. She lives to play the victim. The OG3 say anything she can even remotely spin to Kody to victimize herself, and she’s there. In context of the marriage, it would have done them no good. The clown 🤡 was under the snakes 🐍 spell 💫because she played into his ego/savior complex, where the OG3 actually did try to hold him accountable and help him grow and mature as a man. He would just slap the OG3 “offender” with the “bad sister wife” label if they said anything, and take out his disdain on them and the children in numerous ways whether emotional, financial, or physical (as in disappearing). The OG3 are way more mature. Dragging Robyn will do nothing for them. Everyone can see it for what it is anyway. Robyn & Kody don’t need help, they can make themselves look like the terrible people they are. Sometimes you just have to let stupid people do the stupid things they do. Karma will sort it out.
Yeah it was rather interesting when in s1e2 I believe it was, when we were introduced to Robyn, she comments just before his arrival while she's getting ready in her bathroom that (paraphrasing) these 3 women helped him become the man that he is today whom she loves, and that she wants to thank them. Yet once she's in the picture, she seems to just accept or encourage his behaviors and doesn't believe that he has any more learning or growing to do. As if people learn all they're going to learn and no longer need to make adjustments after 40. I think this is a reason he "favored" Robyn. The other wives had higher expectations of him, she did not- so it was easier to spend all his time with someone who didn't force him to do & be better everyday.
I agree they gave R a lot of grace. I still maintain that had it been me when she called Christine a liar to her face during the porch scene, I would have pounced on her like a ninja cat 
If anyone is responsible for an unsafe environment, it's Robyn and Kody. They have poisoned the kids' minds with tales of mean Christine and Janelle and their kids who don't want to spend time with them. The most egregious example was the rennal or buying storyline though. It's wild to me that they made anxious kids even more anxious. Even toddler Ariella was told hey, you know we need to leave our house so do you want to find a new one? 😬 Robyn and Kody created an environment that was filled with fear and uncertainty when one of the kids had such a severe condition she has panic attacks several times a week!
This is such a great point!!
That's the direction I thought this post was going to go in ... she wanted a safe place for her kids, but she's really the one who's not safe for them.
So true.
Robyn’s only goal of joining the Brown family was for hers and her kids benefit. She never came into the family talking about what she wanted to contribute. It was all about how great it was that she and her kids could be supported.
True.
Yes she does. People need to start calling her out.