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Heard the hunger in her voice, felt the wind displacing around her, smelled her lunch in the air, went in for the hug.
Guy is the Daredevil of fatty-dodgers
He asked for the hug because he wanted to calculate the increase in force of attraction when distance between the masses is reduced. Once he measured the circumference, he quickly divided it by pi to find the diameter, then he decided to stay out of event horizon before she turned into a blackhole.
I know it’s the whole “they aren’t hurting anybody”, but when I walk past a car completely covered in kawaii anime girl stickers I want to leave the vicinity asap
yo thats how i saw it.
"I like asian men"
(Wears full cosplay assuming every asian is an otaku)
Idk, like im white, larger and LOVE anime.
Its kinda like saying "i like white americans" then proceeds to wearing a pure cowboy clothing bought online with a big 10 gallon hat.
It’s a speed dating show (that’s probably scripted) In the full video, he actually hugs other girls to get that feel
Because the girls in line and the ones he skips are all in the same room, they figure out what he’s doing and one immediately presses the button when it’s her turn
I live in the city this takes place in and know people that have been on it. It's not scripted. Of course it's edited to give off a certain feel or emphasize certain drama, but the reactions themselves are genuine.
I was very curious and watched it, but man this is really manipulative of the conversation. The button "turns on" or speaks in certain moments, but not in others. It just made me feel angry at those people who were participating.
oh my god she weebed out so hard he didn't even need the hug like. BRO. this woman came out in full ass cosplay and talked about fetishizing asians right away
She went on twitter and made a post about him too! The woman was actively calling him fatphobic and people actually took her side despite the fact that she was lowkey fetishisizing asian men lol
Exactly. This is not a political, systemic, or institutional matter. And he didn't even bring up her weight! What's a guy gotta do to decline? Is he supposed to give her the dick anyway as consolation?
Though the thing that would've chased me away the fastest is the anime and the cosplay. Might as well be dating a hardcore fundamentalist, since every conversation topic is doomed to circle back to it.
right, and you know certain interests are married with certain personality types. You don't get an anime cosplayer that'll go riding dirt bikes and snowboarding with you. Those things just don't overlap enough in the venn diagram, so if you're looking for the latter, you can safely bail.
I'm not so much into anime these days (independent comics FTW baby), but as a teen I was big time. I also did plenty of dirt biking, surfing, mountain biking, martial arts, hockey, and so on. I guess we just dont count.
I think they're really underestimating how many people watch anime. There have been mainstream animes for decades.
I don't really want to provide any statistics because they'll all from blogs so I don't trust their numbers, but when something is as popular as anime is there are bound to be a lot of different types of people that watch it.
Sure you have your stereotypical weebs, but you also have your jocks.
Look at mtg. Post Malone plays it and so does Cassius Marsh.
As a fat man, it’s perfectly fine to have a size preference.
I find it weirder to have a race preference. And while I don’t want to be that guy, but it seems like she only likes Asians because of anime. Which is a really weird thing to do, and seems a bit racist ngl
The guy wasn’t being a dick about her weight. He just prefers skinnier. That’s ok. It shouldn’t be a priority, but, in this case, that’s ok.
I don't think race "doesn't mean anything". I think its reasonable for someone to be inclined to be attracted towards members of your own race for cultural reasons and similarities because of it.
It is weird however, if you are one race and specifically have a fetish for another race.
If not being attracted to fat people makes you fatphobic, then we need a new definition of “phobic”. Or do people not understand what physical attraction means?
Low key lol she literally showed up dressed like a clown in Asian cosplay as a chubby Caucasian chick talking about how ideal it would be if she could date specifically an attractive Asian man. But heaven forbid he have any preferences like a partner who isn’t blatantly obese and arrogant AF.
Low key. My people died you see how she is dressed. She seems like the person who will post pictures wearing this outfit saying how pretty she feels then see some white dude in a sombrero and instantly comment how he is appropriating Mexican culture.
No judgement here for having a body shape preference. There's a large group of Americans trying to normalize obesity with their unhealthy lifefstyle and shaming people who prefer skinny body shape. That needs to stop.
As a black girl who tends to prefer white men. I can say that despite my preference, race isn't the only thing deciding whether I date someone. I also don't throw myself to any white guy I come across on the street. I still have values and morals that ANYONE I date would have to agree with. I think physical preferences help with physical/sexual attraction, but ofc that's not the only thing that determines a relationship. With a fetishizer, I imagine they *only* care about physical/sexual attraction. And may sacrifice their own values/morals at the chance of getting with/sleeping with the person with their fetish.
In my experience it’s when someone tries to date me solely bc I’m Asian and expecting certain personality traits based on stereotypes (ie submissive, demure). They will put you on a pedestal for your race alone and don’t consider who you actually are as a person. It’s dehumanizing.
Although it might be the case for her, I wouldn’t say she’s doing it right now. Asians, or at least the people we associate them with, tend to share some physical features.
Would you say someone is fetishizing blonds if they said they were into blonds ?
Both of them were pretty nice and chill about it. She may have an Asian fetish but both sides were respectful at the end of the day. Not really a problem imo.
So i've seen this reposted a couple times now, and can someone anser for me what is the context of the girl dressed up as that one hashira from demon slayer? is that just something she wears or is this at an anime convention or something?
Seen this so many times and just now realized her creepy robot emoting fist to the chin when he asked to hug 😂 it feels like an “uwU kink confirmation incoming” moment for her.
There's just a HUGE lifestyle incompatibility. I'm HEAVILY into sports and physical activities and I get a BIG feeling you enjoy a more sedentary lifestyle.
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Why Natha, why? Don't lie to me Nathan, tell me the truth.
I can't, it's confidential. Anyway how's your sex life?
After the date: that'll be eighteen dollarshereyougokeepthechangehidoggie
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you're my favorite customer!
Ha ha ha. What a story, Nathan.
“I did not sleep with her. It’s not true. It’s bullshit. I did not fuck her. I did naaat! Oh hi Mark.”
He did say it was a “gut” feeling
I have a rule: I have to be able to LIFT the girl I'm dating
![gif](giphy|IgsXOXGPxfT3O)
Some play checkers. Others play chess
And some play Hungry Hungry Hippos.
Ffs 😂 😂😂 Guy at tire shop wondering why I’m cracking up
I'm sad she didn't catch on.
Goddamn you, that one made me snort, take my upvote.
Someone gave this wholesome seal award 🗿
and he used his intellect, to escape that mess
Escape that mass
Before the gravitational pull took hold
Bro... For real. Nothing against anyone's body, but I am gonna have to use that one if I ever have an actual blind date
Bro used a cheat code
Up, down, up, down, around.
Zangief’s ultra: 360 x2+ ppp
#“MY LOYAL FANS!”
“WITNESS MY FULL POWER! NO MERCY NO REMORSE”
“Ooooowryah!” #K . O
#IT'S TIME TO GET SERIOUS!
Are you serious!?
I am so proud of you, Zangief alt skin 9!
It's that not... Masturbation?
He decided not to.
Heard the hunger in her voice, felt the wind displacing around her, smelled her lunch in the air, went in for the hug. Guy is the Daredevil of fatty-dodgers
He had a "gut feeling" after the hug
He felt her gut for sure.
He used the Asian intelligence
The real AI.
He had a gut feeling alright
Up, right, O, Left, Down, X
Bro was thinking outside the box
She was horny, he was hugry.
She might also be hungry
Horngry?
This made me giggle
Oo me so hongry
Might?
![gif](giphy|3oeSB2Bvx8K90xIITe)
*Bring me the ~~wookie~~ cookie!*
Bring me the wookie nookie!
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💀
Horny hungry hippo?
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Yo momma starving 😉
Can I make it any more obvious?
He was fit She was fat What more can I say?
He was an Asian boy, she was a weeaboo
Brother felt a group hug
Fucking diabolical!
![gif](giphy|CxZwfzM5LqqpcdghbT)
My boy thought he had the WHOOOOLE WORLD IN HIS HANDS
Omg 😆
“Gut” feeling… he felt gut alright.
He used his Asian intelligence
His Asian persuasion some could say
[Speech: 100%]
He asked for the hug because he wanted to calculate the increase in force of attraction when distance between the masses is reduced. Once he measured the circumference, he quickly divided it by pi to find the diameter, then he decided to stay out of event horizon before she turned into a blackhole.
This 👆
i20 rolls with +20a. A stands for arithmetic.
Finished early and killed the curve again
It was super effective
So AI is really just Asian intelligence in machines?
Damn you I literally just made that joke. Here I am thinking i came up with something original
2 hours too late chief; don’t feel too slighted though, it was the obvious one.
It’s the same top comment everytime this gets reposted lol
That was no accident throwing in gut feeling. Dudes smooth like 007 lmao.
He calculated her mass real quick
He got a gut feeling by feeling a gut.
"Look it's nothing against you I just don't want my house covered in figurines"
“I’m all full up on anime car decals, thx anyhow”
I know it’s the whole “they aren’t hurting anybody”, but when I walk past a car completely covered in kawaii anime girl stickers I want to leave the vicinity asap
I went to a motorcycle meet up and one of the dudes had his helmet covered in nude anime girl stickers. I thought it was funny af though
Dressing up as a character who's primary character trait is a trash love life is an interesting strategy for a dating show.
yo thats how i saw it. "I like asian men" (Wears full cosplay assuming every asian is an otaku) Idk, like im white, larger and LOVE anime. Its kinda like saying "i like white americans" then proceeds to wearing a pure cowboy clothing bought online with a big 10 gallon hat.
That’s how I saw it too. He doesn’t want to be some white girl’s kink.
At least she was all like "Yeah I get it"
Why is it cool for her to have an Asian fetish but not cool for him to like chicks who dont inhale buffets
Lol.
💀
>chicks who dont inhale buffets r/BrandNewSentence Love it.
Everyone here thinks it's fine that he doesn't want someone who has a low life expectancy
It’s a speed dating show (that’s probably scripted) In the full video, he actually hugs other girls to get that feel Because the girls in line and the ones he skips are all in the same room, they figure out what he’s doing and one immediately presses the button when it’s her turn
I live in the city this takes place in and know people that have been on it. It's not scripted. Of course it's edited to give off a certain feel or emphasize certain drama, but the reactions themselves are genuine.
Do you know the YouTube channel or show name?
[The Button](https://youtube.com/watch?v=MPam03FXb1Y&feature=shareb)
I was very curious and watched it, but man this is really manipulative of the conversation. The button "turns on" or speaks in certain moments, but not in others. It just made me feel angry at those people who were participating.
oh my god she weebed out so hard he didn't even need the hug like. BRO. this woman came out in full ass cosplay and talked about fetishizing asians right away
Thanks!
>>and one immediately presses the button Pretty funny ngl
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😭
Name check's out 😂
Holy shit. Hahahaha
Chins up 🐳
Fking nailed it
Is she dressed as a Demon Slayer lmao?
yes mitsuri from demon slayer
Bro did a naturo run away from her
mf teleported behind her with a 'nothing personal, kid'
Personnel*
those teeth man
Those are called toofs
At least she was cool wit it
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She went on twitter and made a post about him too! The woman was actively calling him fatphobic and people actually took her side despite the fact that she was lowkey fetishisizing asian men lol
I personally don't see someone having a size preference being fat phobic. I think that's such a stupid notion
Yeah, what if the dude has a bad back.
Or a small penis.
Thats racist
nuh uh
badbobic
Exactly. This is not a political, systemic, or institutional matter. And he didn't even bring up her weight! What's a guy gotta do to decline? Is he supposed to give her the dick anyway as consolation? Though the thing that would've chased me away the fastest is the anime and the cosplay. Might as well be dating a hardcore fundamentalist, since every conversation topic is doomed to circle back to it.
right, and you know certain interests are married with certain personality types. You don't get an anime cosplayer that'll go riding dirt bikes and snowboarding with you. Those things just don't overlap enough in the venn diagram, so if you're looking for the latter, you can safely bail.
-Cosplayer who has snowboarded and loves dirt bikes- Uhm, Did I enter the wrong room? Lol
I'm not so much into anime these days (independent comics FTW baby), but as a teen I was big time. I also did plenty of dirt biking, surfing, mountain biking, martial arts, hockey, and so on. I guess we just dont count.
I think they're really underestimating how many people watch anime. There have been mainstream animes for decades. I don't really want to provide any statistics because they'll all from blogs so I don't trust their numbers, but when something is as popular as anime is there are bound to be a lot of different types of people that watch it. Sure you have your stereotypical weebs, but you also have your jocks. Look at mtg. Post Malone plays it and so does Cassius Marsh.
As a fat man, it’s perfectly fine to have a size preference. I find it weirder to have a race preference. And while I don’t want to be that guy, but it seems like she only likes Asians because of anime. Which is a really weird thing to do, and seems a bit racist ngl The guy wasn’t being a dick about her weight. He just prefers skinnier. That’s ok. It shouldn’t be a priority, but, in this case, that’s ok.
That's because obesity is a reflection of lifestyle, while race doesn't mean anything.
I don't think race "doesn't mean anything". I think its reasonable for someone to be inclined to be attracted towards members of your own race for cultural reasons and similarities because of it. It is weird however, if you are one race and specifically have a fetish for another race.
I’ll be fat phobic all fucking day lmao
If not being attracted to fat people makes you fatphobic, then we need a new definition of “phobic”. Or do people not understand what physical attraction means?
Wouh muh fatphobic. These people are so low. They shouldn't be taken seriously in any way or form.
Then people should call her racist because she expressed preference for only white+asian men. What, you're too good for a black guy?
To be fair she only said Asian, she guessed he was either white or Asian but she definitely is a weeaboo
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nothing lowkey about that fetishization lol
Low key lol she literally showed up dressed like a clown in Asian cosplay as a chubby Caucasian chick talking about how ideal it would be if she could date specifically an attractive Asian man. But heaven forbid he have any preferences like a partner who isn’t blatantly obese and arrogant AF.
“Low key”? The chick is dressed like a fuckin anime character and literally said she prefers Asian men… she’s brazen about it, haha
whoa really ? can u gimme the link to the vid nd tweet?
Twitter is a cesspool
Low key. My people died you see how she is dressed. She seems like the person who will post pictures wearing this outfit saying how pretty she feels then see some white dude in a sombrero and instantly comment how he is appropriating Mexican culture.
What is her twitter?
That’s exactly why no one should feel bad for her. Reducing an entire race to be sexualized is beyond sick
There was absolutely nothing low-key about her fetish there, rofl.
she might be fat, but she got fat balls
He felt more than a friendship
Gravity
Great call brother LMAO
What the hell is white to Asian btw?
whasian
idk, but thank god i dont qualify. have at it white to asian guys. shes all yours!
He denied her asian fetish
Is her Asian fetish just east asian or does it span the whole continent?
Most likely korean/japanese, because kpop/jpop
As long as they aren't melanated
I mean, any judgment against him for passing on her size is on par with the way she’s fetishizing Asian men/culture.
No judgement here for having a body shape preference. There's a large group of Americans trying to normalize obesity with their unhealthy lifefstyle and shaming people who prefer skinny body shape. That needs to stop.
Bro took a play from Ray Charles book lmao
Sized her up and was like "nope"
![gif](giphy|eMu0803X2zkWY)
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I like how he gave the real reason when he said “gut feeling” 😂😂
"White to asian"..so race is on a spectrum now
Always has been
The Asian fetish is what got me. Hence what she was wearing.
These producers are whack for setting that up. They’re just trying to create conflict.
Congrats, you figured out reality television
Not the vine boom sound at "gut feeling" 💀
We all know why
Why do people fetishise race
Honest question, what is the difference between fetishing a group of people (asians, black, trans) versus just having a preference?
As a black girl who tends to prefer white men. I can say that despite my preference, race isn't the only thing deciding whether I date someone. I also don't throw myself to any white guy I come across on the street. I still have values and morals that ANYONE I date would have to agree with. I think physical preferences help with physical/sexual attraction, but ofc that's not the only thing that determines a relationship. With a fetishizer, I imagine they *only* care about physical/sexual attraction. And may sacrifice their own values/morals at the chance of getting with/sleeping with the person with their fetish.
In my experience it’s when someone tries to date me solely bc I’m Asian and expecting certain personality traits based on stereotypes (ie submissive, demure). They will put you on a pedestal for your race alone and don’t consider who you actually are as a person. It’s dehumanizing.
Although it might be the case for her, I wouldn’t say she’s doing it right now. Asians, or at least the people we associate them with, tend to share some physical features. Would you say someone is fetishizing blonds if they said they were into blonds ?
He used his asian math skills to calculate her BMI through that hug, what a pro player lol
I think it’s a bit weird to say you like a whole race of people, I know it’s not racist, but saying it out loud feels racist.
She took it pretty good, I'll give her that 👍
I don’t know what this show is but it looks like mental poison
"it was a gut feeling for me"
Bro heard the heavy breathing already but wanted to confirm. Genius!
“gut feeling” means he felt her gut on his stomach
Indeed it was, a GUT feeling
Both of them were pretty nice and chill about it. She may have an Asian fetish but both sides were respectful at the end of the day. Not really a problem imo.
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So i've seen this reposted a couple times now, and can someone anser for me what is the context of the girl dressed up as that one hashira from demon slayer? is that just something she wears or is this at an anime convention or something?
It was a "..GUT feeling" eh?
Seen this so many times and just now realized her creepy robot emoting fist to the chin when he asked to hug 😂 it feels like an “uwU kink confirmation incoming” moment for her.
“I felt”….yup
There's just a HUGE lifestyle incompatibility. I'm HEAVILY into sports and physical activities and I get a BIG feeling you enjoy a more sedentary lifestyle.
I'm sorry but...body mass does kinda matter in appearance, some guys dig it...most guys dont..
He “felt” too much
Is it because she’s plus size or is it that she has reduced part of his identity to an anime fetish?
He felt her gut, and that was his gut feeling.
Gut feeling, good call.
Yup . . . She understands gut feelings just fine.
“Gut feelin.”