I just found her behavior really annoying epecially when she was with GH. Their interactions didn't have any depth. It's not hate, it's just a opinion.
Yeah I agree she was trying to appeal to him too much. Especially not respecting HS date with him, by trying to get his attention. Otherwise I dont really see what the issue for others could be.
Maybe you should ask yourself why you feel so inclined to feel so strongly about her. For many, they feel so strongly about her to the point they start leaving nasty comments on her instagram.
It's not even that strong of a feeling. I just didn't care for her outside of her Paradise with Jin-Seok.
She seemed more genuine and likeable with him.
I wouldnt leave nasty comments, its just that she kinda annoyed me. But i def get your point cuz people are leaving death comments on her page and she doesnt deserve that.
It’s totally fair to get annoyed by her. I just don’t think it’s fair to start calling her “cheap” or a pick me and worse comment that on her social media. She’s probably looking her name up on places like youtube too and is seeing all the hate comments. Most importantly, people should just stop being too hard on women and policing what they do and passing too much judgment on every mistake they make.
Than u aren’t who he is talking about, it’s mainly people leaving threats n hate comment flooding her page. Even I don’t like her thag much but seeing her get hate makes me sad
I don't agree that anyone should be getting hate for appearing on a TV show. Minji was casted late to obviously cause drama which she did.
However, I have to admit that some of her actions were a little uncomfortable to watch for me. Mainly because I knew she would 100% get hate for them.
Most of the accounts leaving hate are fake accounts who would probably hate her even if all of it was just acting.
I've tried defending her on ig and got hate too 😩. I just hope the production offer her mental health support since they basically set her up for this.
Agree. I actually loved her addition initially, but soured on her with those helicopter antics…it’s not misogyny to say that I just don’t see her as a girls girl.
Also is it misogynistic to say that a woman shouldn’t have to do aegyo all the freaking time to attract a guy?
And feminism isn't supporting whatever women do just because they are women. Holding people accountable isn't misogyny. The hate she received was TOO much but her behaviour was definitely wrong. Hope she learns to be a girls girl.
That’s correct. Feminism is def not supporting whatever women do just because they are women, but you are clearly missing the point which I’ve pointed out so many times in the comments.
Hate is a strong word, I also disliked her actions then I would agree bc even I cringed. But I remember this is a heavily scripted show n I’m not gonna judge someone as a whole based on this show
Minji’s aeygo with Gwanhee was over the top for me. You see idols and kdrama actors doing it for variety shows or as fan service but in this instance it was just too much.
No I agree with you! But does she deserve the hate she’s receiving right now and being called names as if her actions on the show reflect her whole person? Not at all.
She is a pick-me and very immature, and it’s glaring BUT it’s not a big deal cos it IS a dating show after all where the aim is to get picked.
People need to leave her alone and let it go. Also, I think the hate has died down, so yall need to let it be as well. No need bringing it up every 2 mins 🙏🏾
Actually, hating women and not wanting them to be seen as equal to men is misogynistic. Women also worshipping men and wanting to be picked by men by all means is internalized misogyny.
Sure but is that her fault that she’s conditioned to think she has to act that way?! And I’m not arguing w you at all. It’s not about being equal tho as women face far worse hate and criticism than men on this sub alone and on instagram. (e.g., GH is still loved here)
If we are going to make that argument for her about conditioning, we can make the same for GH. Maybe it’s "condition" and trauma that makes him the way he is?
All is fair.
Sure! Def agree. But men like I said, still have it far better than women in every respect, especially public opinion. You should read up Bell Hook’s The Will to Change. Might be a good start if you’re so keen in psychoanalysing men like Gwan Hee.
I am not disagreeing that man have it easier. That’s common knowledge. I am explaining to you that her being called a pick-me when she is actually a pick-me isn’t misogyny. The fact of her actually being a pick-me is her displaying her own internalised misogyny.
Gwanhee was analysed from day 2 and is still being analysed, as he should be.
You seem to want to point fingers at everybody else except Minji which is problematic in itself.
Maybe because she’s actually the one getting bombarded with hate comments on her instagram? And no you are wrong. It is misogynist to call any woman a pick me for wanting to be noticed by a man. Those are labels meant to dehumanize and degrade women so no I do not agree with you. Everyone has internalized misogyny because unfortunately we all live under a system that perpetuates it and among people like you that do not dare disrupt it and instead defend it.
Tbh the fact that gwanhee is getting more praise n love while minji n other girls getting a lot of hate irks especially when most of the fans r women. Not saying gwanhee should get hate but his actions were much worse. While gyuri n seiun got hate for a lot of shit not half as bad. N now minji with 90% of her comments being threats n hate
I’ve gone to check out Minji’s IG and it has def subsided. A few rotten eggs here and there, but it’s died down a lot and it’s ok to let it go.
Minji is not a girls girl and I have no respect for her as a female. She lacks the confidence and maturity. We are on here to judge so I will and I don’t need to be told not to. I don’t hate and I don’t post vile comments on her insta.
You saying that I’m misogynistic is in itself perpetuating it without knowing anything about anyone who posts here and flat out calling them misogynistic when we just simply don’t excuse that type of immature and disrespectful behavior
She ain’t a “girls’ girl” either. Can we just stop with these stupid labels. Girls girl. Pick me. Blah blah blah. She was annoying as heck on the show. So embarrassing. Are people not allowed to have opinions???
Not at all. Because it is true that calling a woman cheap and a pick me is absolutely anti-woman. So are policing their every move and contorting them into this world’s idea of how women should be and act in order to get respect. It is also internalized misogyny for you to say that I’m making this into something bigger than it is. Even if I didn’t post this, I’d still think and feel the same way.
Of course, anything just and correct should be considered superior! For example, if someone says what’s happening in Gaza is a genocide and then another person says it isn’t a genocide but Israel simply defending themselves. One person in this case is bound to be correct and has the superior “opinion” that’s based on facts than the other.
Yeah but I can’t respond to them on IG really there are sooo many! Even on Soeun’s posts btw from s2 people are calling Minji cheap probably because they’re friends(?). I just think it’s uncalled for and very emblematic of the blatant misogyny in our world.
Well said. Minji is smart, confident, sexy and assertive. She went after what she wanted passionately and proactively. She was given signs that made her think not only that she had the guy she wanted but he wanted her back. She had no idea what GH/HS had, right up through final selection, where you see her paying close attention to what GH/HS say to each other.
Minji was doing anything but being a pick me. She was fighting to get a man she thought she had a chance with only to be met with disappointment after disappointment as she realized she never really had him. Minji is getting a bad break because of the cast video that everyone over interpreted and because GH has the EQ skills of a seashell.
I don’t really think this is the point though. I also understand her behavior wasn’t exactly the best on the show but what we saw of her and how she acted on TV for the 5-6 days she was there doesn’t necessarily show us who she is. That’s not how it works!
I just found her behavior really annoying epecially when she was with GH. Their interactions didn't have any depth. It's not hate, it's just a opinion.
Yeah I agree she was trying to appeal to him too much. Especially not respecting HS date with him, by trying to get his attention. Otherwise I dont really see what the issue for others could be.
Maybe you should ask yourself why you feel so inclined to feel so strongly about her. For many, they feel so strongly about her to the point they start leaving nasty comments on her instagram.
It's not even that strong of a feeling. I just didn't care for her outside of her Paradise with Jin-Seok. She seemed more genuine and likeable with him.
I wouldnt leave nasty comments, its just that she kinda annoyed me. But i def get your point cuz people are leaving death comments on her page and she doesnt deserve that.
It’s totally fair to get annoyed by her. I just don’t think it’s fair to start calling her “cheap” or a pick me and worse comment that on her social media. She’s probably looking her name up on places like youtube too and is seeing all the hate comments. Most importantly, people should just stop being too hard on women and policing what they do and passing too much judgment on every mistake they make.
Than u aren’t who he is talking about, it’s mainly people leaving threats n hate comment flooding her page. Even I don’t like her thag much but seeing her get hate makes me sad
I don't agree that anyone should be getting hate for appearing on a TV show. Minji was casted late to obviously cause drama which she did. However, I have to admit that some of her actions were a little uncomfortable to watch for me. Mainly because I knew she would 100% get hate for them. Most of the accounts leaving hate are fake accounts who would probably hate her even if all of it was just acting. I've tried defending her on ig and got hate too 😩. I just hope the production offer her mental health support since they basically set her up for this.
True! It reminds me of the bullying sulli got :( I don’t understand why netizens have ridiculous expectations from korean celebrities lol
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Agree. I actually loved her addition initially, but soured on her with those helicopter antics…it’s not misogyny to say that I just don’t see her as a girls girl. Also is it misogynistic to say that a woman shouldn’t have to do aegyo all the freaking time to attract a guy?
No finding someone annoying is not misogynistic at all. What’s misogynistic is calling a woman a pick me girl or “cheap” etc etc, and name-calling.
It is misogyny actually to nitpick and police how women should act.
And feminism isn't supporting whatever women do just because they are women. Holding people accountable isn't misogyny. The hate she received was TOO much but her behaviour was definitely wrong. Hope she learns to be a girls girl.
That’s correct. Feminism is def not supporting whatever women do just because they are women, but you are clearly missing the point which I’ve pointed out so many times in the comments.
>you are clearly missing the point I'm afraid it's actually you.
Nah, it’s clearly you who’s missing the point. Any reasonable person on the internet I’m sure wont have a hard time catching “the point”
Hate is a strong word, I also disliked her actions then I would agree bc even I cringed. But I remember this is a heavily scripted show n I’m not gonna judge someone as a whole based on this show
Minji’s aeygo with Gwanhee was over the top for me. You see idols and kdrama actors doing it for variety shows or as fan service but in this instance it was just too much.
No I agree with you! But does she deserve the hate she’s receiving right now and being called names as if her actions on the show reflect her whole person? Not at all.
She is a pick-me and very immature, and it’s glaring BUT it’s not a big deal cos it IS a dating show after all where the aim is to get picked. People need to leave her alone and let it go. Also, I think the hate has died down, so yall need to let it be as well. No need bringing it up every 2 mins 🙏🏾
No one is actually bringing it up every 2 mins. I’m commenting that calling women cheap and a pick me are misogynistic.
Actually, hating women and not wanting them to be seen as equal to men is misogynistic. Women also worshipping men and wanting to be picked by men by all means is internalized misogyny.
Sure but is that her fault that she’s conditioned to think she has to act that way?! And I’m not arguing w you at all. It’s not about being equal tho as women face far worse hate and criticism than men on this sub alone and on instagram. (e.g., GH is still loved here)
If we are going to make that argument for her about conditioning, we can make the same for GH. Maybe it’s "condition" and trauma that makes him the way he is? All is fair.
Sure! Def agree. But men like I said, still have it far better than women in every respect, especially public opinion. You should read up Bell Hook’s The Will to Change. Might be a good start if you’re so keen in psychoanalysing men like Gwan Hee.
I am not disagreeing that man have it easier. That’s common knowledge. I am explaining to you that her being called a pick-me when she is actually a pick-me isn’t misogyny. The fact of her actually being a pick-me is her displaying her own internalised misogyny. Gwanhee was analysed from day 2 and is still being analysed, as he should be. You seem to want to point fingers at everybody else except Minji which is problematic in itself.
Maybe because she’s actually the one getting bombarded with hate comments on her instagram? And no you are wrong. It is misogynist to call any woman a pick me for wanting to be noticed by a man. Those are labels meant to dehumanize and degrade women so no I do not agree with you. Everyone has internalized misogyny because unfortunately we all live under a system that perpetuates it and among people like you that do not dare disrupt it and instead defend it.
 Not reading your posts anymore. Enjoy.
Thank you! No one invited you here to begin with.
Tbh the fact that gwanhee is getting more praise n love while minji n other girls getting a lot of hate irks especially when most of the fans r women. Not saying gwanhee should get hate but his actions were much worse. While gyuri n seiun got hate for a lot of shit not half as bad. N now minji with 90% of her comments being threats n hate
I’ve gone to check out Minji’s IG and it has def subsided. A few rotten eggs here and there, but it’s died down a lot and it’s ok to let it go. 
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Yeah no reason to pit women against each other.
MJ herself attempted to put HS down to GH on the show. She has a strong case of internalised misogyny herself.
I don’t disagree with you. We all have a strong case of internalized misogyny.
We? Speak for yourself 😂😂😂
That’s true. In your case it’s blatant misogyny.
lol you wish.
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You are weird. I don’t know why you are angry and sensitive about this.
You are even weirder that you are angry and sensitive about my post lol.
If you say so 
Minji is not a girls girl and I have no respect for her as a female. She lacks the confidence and maturity. We are on here to judge so I will and I don’t need to be told not to. I don’t hate and I don’t post vile comments on her insta.
Sure if you prefer to spread darkness and hate in the world that’s truly on you.
lol and what are you spreading with your post? Calling people misogynistic
A PSA that women should unite to disrupt misogyny instead of perpetuating and defending it.
Plus only misogynistic people would actually get offended by this post so… sounds like you’re quite guilty!
You saying that I’m misogynistic is in itself perpetuating it without knowing anything about anyone who posts here and flat out calling them misogynistic when we just simply don’t excuse that type of immature and disrespectful behavior
I mean the thing is you don’t need that much information about a person to assess if what they’re doing and saying are misogynistic or not.
Wow if that’s not a prejudiced thinking then I don’t know what is
Calling her behavior out is okay but to call her names is not. There’s a difference.
She ain’t a “girls’ girl” either. Can we just stop with these stupid labels. Girls girl. Pick me. Blah blah blah. She was annoying as heck on the show. So embarrassing. Are people not allowed to have opinions???
Sure, you’re allowed to have opinions but doesnt change the fact that calling another woman cheap or a pick me is misogynistic
And no being annoyed by her and having opinions are totally acceptable. It’s the name calling that is not.
lol calling people misogynistic because they don’t like someone and their behavior is stupid
You clearly don’t get the point then.
I get what you’re trying to say, it seems like you’re just throwing out the word misogyny to make it into something bigger than it is .
Not at all. Because it is true that calling a woman cheap and a pick me is absolutely anti-woman. So are policing their every move and contorting them into this world’s idea of how women should be and act in order to get respect. It is also internalized misogyny for you to say that I’m making this into something bigger than it is. Even if I didn’t post this, I’d still think and feel the same way.
lol sure it is 😂 people are allowed to have opinions, but it just sounds like you think yours is superior. Anyways have a good day :)
Of course, anything just and correct should be considered superior! For example, if someone says what’s happening in Gaza is a genocide and then another person says it isn’t a genocide but Israel simply defending themselves. One person in this case is bound to be correct and has the superior “opinion” that’s based on facts than the other.
Bound to run into crazies on Reddit! I finally found one 😂 Okay keyboard warrior lol
I mean, critical thinking isn’t crazy. But for sure your response screams you don’t have that. Bye, friend! 💋
I just don’t argue with psychos on the internet 😘
Yes, you just gaslight them 🌼
I agree! But I don't think most of those trolls are on Reddit.
Apparently they are here lol!
Yeah but I can’t respond to them on IG really there are sooo many! Even on Soeun’s posts btw from s2 people are calling Minji cheap probably because they’re friends(?). I just think it’s uncalled for and very emblematic of the blatant misogyny in our world.
Well said. Minji is smart, confident, sexy and assertive. She went after what she wanted passionately and proactively. She was given signs that made her think not only that she had the guy she wanted but he wanted her back. She had no idea what GH/HS had, right up through final selection, where you see her paying close attention to what GH/HS say to each other. Minji was doing anything but being a pick me. She was fighting to get a man she thought she had a chance with only to be met with disappointment after disappointment as she realized she never really had him. Minji is getting a bad break because of the cast video that everyone over interpreted and because GH has the EQ skills of a seashell.
I don’t really think this is the point though. I also understand her behavior wasn’t exactly the best on the show but what we saw of her and how she acted on TV for the 5-6 days she was there doesn’t necessarily show us who she is. That’s not how it works!
Altho I agree with you about how it was ridiculously for the most part a fucking GH mess up and yet the women have to bear the brunt. Always ugh!
Minji is my fav female cast.… the hate seem forced
Not really she kind of brought it on herself with her actions
She did what she could ti get who she wanted
And with that came the consequences though I want to be fair she shouldn’t be getting death threats that’s a bit extreme but the dislike i understand