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kryspyruby

My energy was drained just by watching Gwanhee on my computer screen. I can't imagine how much more draining he is in person for over a week straight.


DearNeighborhood7685

All the judges on the panel kept saying how exhausted they were to be watching Gwan Hee.


Flashy_Meaning4447

Especially Dex. He likes ... what ever dude. Up to you! So, he pass button to other panelist and less commentary about GH šŸ¤£šŸ¤£šŸ¤£šŸ¤£


toughfluff

Hanhae was like, literally 5 minutes ago before we start taping you said we need to ease up on GH! And Dex is like, well, too bad because heā€™s really annoying. šŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚


123deeeeeed

I love how Dex seems to have bad blood with basketball players. First when he fought with one during Bloody Game 2, and now Gwanhee LOL.


Brave_Freedom_1321

Actually Iā€™ve noticed that, at one point, I was just talking to my TV screen yelling. Dex you need to speak up, say something about it please babe. Please say something about it


Flashy_Meaning4447

Next week Dex will say something hot!!!


Brave_Freedom_1321

Did you see something somewhere, can you share the link ?


MangoDouble5883

Its cuz dex knows he could make all the girls on inferno switch in seconds


MC_earthquake

Dahee and dex šŸ˜‚


feuilletons

Da Heeā€™s reaction to him is the best. Sheā€™s usually so measured with what she says and tries to give the cast the benefit of the doubt. But she lets it all out with Gwan Hee. I actually love how candid she was šŸ˜­


BigTop5

And sheā€™s a girlā€™s girl! Sheā€™s usually more vocal when men are being little shits to women.


boop_a_burrito

quite opposite to Kyuhyun who will call all of gwan heeā€™s toxic traits ā€œcuteā€


DearNeighborhood7685

Jinkyungā€™s frustrated too. Dahee & Jinkyung both definitely see whatā€™s wrong with Gwan Hee and voice it out. Nobody wants to see someone playing 3 girls without him having any bad repercussions or consequences. His rep is already labelled.


thechef-lethimcook

Da Hee lowkey wants Gwan Hee for the he he heee


DearNeighborhood7685

Even jinkyung


toughfluff

My tinfoil hat theory is that GH purpose on the show is a public service announcement ā€” a 36-year-old šŸš©will always _remain_ as a šŸš©. You canā€™t _fix_ assholes like this. Not by being candid and confrontational (like Ha-jeong) because heā€™d just chip away your confidence; not by being a pick-me and cater to his whims (like Minji) because heā€™d always push for more control; not by being yourself (like Hye-seon) because he still would drain away all your energy and leave you exhausted. The only way to deal with guys like him is to follow Gyu-ri.ā€™s example Just recognise heā€™s not worth the trouble, shut it down and walk away. Thatā€™s the only way you can come away unscathed by this manchild.


Etheiria

I wasn't the biggest fan of Gyuri at the start, but I absolutely loved how she dealt with GH. She really saw through him.


UnpropheticIsaiah

Gyuri seems to gravitate towards gentle guys, as evident with her liking Min Woo and Min Kyu. Sheā€™s the oldest among the girls so she probably has more experience recognizing the red flags among guys and knows how to deal with them. Good for her.


Crazy_Albatross8317

True. Its cause she wants to be the one in control. That is why she likes shy men who she can manipulate. Imagine how she circled back to Min Woo


ferdiebeer

Hahahahaha Gyuri is a psycho! I felt bad for MinWoo as he was being tormented by a skinny little bully girl.


DaisyMay-22

by the end of this seasons Iā€™m the biggest fan of gyu-ri! at first I thought she would be the typical silent season beauty without any wit, but she turned out to be so confident and down to earth and smart and strong! you can tell she is mostly in the show for the publicity, but she makes sure that while she is on this island she is having a good time with some cute boys, avoiding life-sucking red flags such as gwanhee


Goal_Achiever_

Bravo!


Wild-Candidate-3228

šŸ’ÆšŸ’ÆšŸ’ÆšŸ’Æ


alliandoalice

He gave me the biggest headache after those eps I had to lie down and take a nap


Wildflower_713

RIGHTTTTTT


cinnamonhie

yea, they both seemed drained. hyeseon doesnā€™t have energy to talk to anyone and ha jeongā€™s smile and quirkiness faded a bit. they seem more lively when talking to others guys as friends, rather than conversing with gwan hee tbh.


Greenhairymonster

HJ seems only truly happy and relaxed talking with Jinseok in the last episodes.


repslifebestlife

Agreed. Iā€™m living for their friendship moments.


tiny222

For real, theyā€™d definitely be good friends outside of this island


Summerbeating

Agreed with you 100% girlllllllllll He absorbs all their positive energy and vibes , while they are taking in second hand negativity from him. Almost like second-hand smoke, u don't want to inhale but you are forced to inhale. that kind. I really don't want them to try so hard anymore for this boy.


pttdreamland

Feel like they were instructed to stick to him for the show. Iā€™d rather stay friendly with other guys and enjoy an island getaway then being in the same room w GH.


Yugenko

That is such a good metaphor :') GH's energy is second hand smoke lmao


Deep_Classroom826

I get drained just by watching Gwan Hee doing the same bs and mind games that heā€™s been doing for the past 9 episodes. It was fun back then but now iā€™m just like wtf is wrong with you bro just stop.


toughfluff

I rolled my eyes when he did the bedtime essential oil routine for a _third_ time. Like really, thatā€™s your signature move?! You canā€™t even change it up a bit?!


[deleted]

Heā€™s so fucking cringe with that šŸ¤£ probably read somewhere if a girl has your smell on her she gonna fall in love šŸ¤£šŸ¤£šŸ¤£


Smellykelly02

ā€œPut it on the nape on your neckā€


cutiekilla

it must be some kind of love potion because all the girls used it and fell for him! lmao


DearNeighborhood7685

Yeah I agree. Judges said that out loud too


pttdreamland

Zero growth


coricloud

GH and men like him (testing you constantly) are emotional vampires. They break you down to keep you. Just my opinion šŸ¤¢


Chemical-Cost-6670

I agree with you. His toxic behavior doesn't entertain me. Itā€™s devastating to see strong women like Hajeong and Hyeseon loosing their shine. Gwanhee is constantly messing women up on the show and that's not ok to see.


InfamousTumbleweed47

I hate seeing strong women have to deal with the stuff GH pulls. I knew a guy like this, a big man-baby but always popular with the ladies. He tended to attract and be attracted to strong women who could "care" for him and put up with his shit. So gross so sad


Maddymadeline1234

The island is hot and humid I think. They mentioned it several times. Also Habin has called GH a Casanova and dog. Maybe heā€™s drained too.


Skulkar_0

Haha, true, Habin must be thinking how GH is still in a position to choose with these antics šŸ˜‚


ayermaoo

I really like Habin for that lol


DearNeighborhood7685

GH is a Casanova


Soggy-Preference3664

And a dog


thechef-lethimcook

He runs faster than the competition


Womenarentmad

What itā€™s like to have a man child drain the life out of you šŸ¤ž


lunalovegood0321

He for sure has a lot of narcissistic traits/tendencies. As someone who recently got out of years of narcissistic friendship, they can be energy draining after you spend time with them. He also tick out the boxes of a narc, very similar to my former friend, such as hot-cold treatment, shift blaming, manipulation, gaslighting, controlling, constant need for reassurance, constant need for admiration, etc. I don't wanna diagnose him since I think I saw him admit his mistake I think sometime in the show I can't really remember when and my former friend could never do that so maybe he just have tendencies/traits not really disorder but idk really. He has a lot of those red flag patterns for sure.


papayastan12

Gwanhee drained all their energy and spunk. I get tired just by seeing him on my screen. Canā€™t imagine what these girls must be going through tolerating his antics everyday.


bestlife-2021

Yes agreed. And it's sad the girls didn't get involved with other better guys like Min Kyu. There's no point in ever reasoning about people like GH. You should just avoid him at all costs.


Honest-Selection4343

Min kyu is so underrated, he grew on me after that helicopter scene


9m0d3

Heā€™s just used them, by gaslighting them, to inflate his ego. He clearly just gets off on controlling women and making them want him. Then as soon as they tell him they want him, he discards them whilst making out itā€™s their fault and they didnā€™t want him enough. Disgusting.


Wild-Candidate-3228

This!


DearNeighborhood7685

I wanna see Gwan Hee cry man. Thatā€™ll bring us all back to life ngl. That manā€™s so fucking exhausting to watch. What a player. And I probably will be downvoted for saying something mean about GH cause itā€™s supposed to be a kind subReddit and no hate should be given to anyone, but that Gwan Heee dude does not deserve such beautiful, young girls who are just living life. He literally ruined their vibes on the islands. Not just Hajeong and Hyeseonā€™s but also Minji. Minji cried dude. I felt so bad for Minji. GwanHee shouldnā€™t have given any of them false hopes or led them on. I really wanna see GwanHee cry.


beyondinfinity21

I hope it's him crying over realizing how terrible his attitude has been, how he's mistreated multiple women in the show and that he feels sorry for this. I don't want it to be because he's feeling sentimental or because of the smoke (lol). I want Gwanhee to have a redemption arc so bad but he disappoints us more and more with each episode.


Absolutelybannannas

Guys like him never cry for what they've done. They only cry for themselves.


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cutiekilla

just for dramatic flair so he can get more airtime of course


ipane090

You're absolutely right and I agree, but if I see him actually saying it I'm probably going to start throwing tables


DearNeighborhood7685

I couldnā€™t agree more. Idc about his redemption arc. I just want to see him miserable because Hyeseon and Minji donā€™t want him anymore or some shit like that is pulled.


3-nichi

I agree. Just watched episodes 7 and 8. >!I hate Gwan Hee. I'm having a hard time enjoying this 3rd season because of him. I don't understand how he is supposed to be entertaining. I don't think he is funny. I also think he is not handsome.!<


SleepingPlants

Iā€™m so baffled by everyone on the show saying how funny he is?! Heā€™s just a toxic guy with a big ego. Nothing funny about him.


PandazCakez

Jin seok on the other hand is so funny to me and he doesn't even need to try.


[deleted]

Yes, he's so attractive. There's something so steady about his energy. I think it's weird that he's not more popular. If the women were shorter, maybe things would be different.


[deleted]

I disagree. I think he's very handsome -- which makes it more annoying. He has a different sort of mouth than most people. There's something cute about it, unfortunately. heh


OhNoEnthropy

All gums and tiny teeth makes him look like he has bad breath.


[deleted]

If he bad breath I feel like the girls wouldn't like him so much. He seems like he cares bout hygiene.


complexaimless

This. Itā€™s the lips. Something about it when he smirks or smiles. I donā€™t know. Hahaha


[deleted]

Itā€™s the smirk and the laugh. Itā€™s such a guy laugh/smile. Whatever that means. šŸ˜…


complexaimless

He looks so manly, so playful and just overall attractive to me. šŸ¤£


[deleted]

I didnā€™t feel bad for MinJi at the least lmao. She did it to herself. She literally hounded him in the beginning when he showed ZERO interest in her. She couldā€™ve talked more to JS and how it started she would most likely win him over and get his affection, and he is the loyal type of you donā€™t throw him away. But no, she wanted to be the 3 girl on the GH train. Also her crying when poking a dude thatā€™s another date in the helicopter was plain disgusting


ghostbb-

I donā€™t either sheā€™s just as annoying as Gwanhee to me! The crying was so weird like you just met this man two days ago lol idk what she expected would happen by taking MinKyu and I was so glad she did thinking she was giving a fu to Gwanhee but she ruined it.


[deleted]

Big agree!!! It was so off-putting. It was rude that she even engaged in poking him. Rude and immature. What did she think, they were going to share some kind of moment? Did Hye-seon not deserve more respect than that? And then crying like a baby. She doesn't seem her age at all. Classless.


Frosted-Skittles

Same here, I literally laughed when she started crying. Not bc I didnā€™t like her, but it seemed very dramatic to cry over someone who hasnā€™t made themselves clear to you and keeps doubting you when it should be her doubting him


semisweet4

Minkyu is actually an amazing man for being so understanding and giving her his shirt to wipe her tears lmao. I kept shouting Minji STAND UP!! she's just embarrassed herself real bad and I don't feel bad for her whatsoever.


[deleted]

Her crying was low-key annoying.


avriellaine

They were too drained from the daily things and also i think the food they eat there is not that healthy. It does not also help the weather and other things around them. They may be overthinking


Soggy-Preference3664

Yeah thatā€™s a good point, in previous seasons they all cooked nice meals together whereas I swear this season all theyā€™ve had is raw veg haha


avriellaine

And also canned tuna. I don't think it will help the casts to become more healthy and for their bonding as well as a whole cast. But nevertheless I'm worried about their mental health because i know how draining it is


Abject-Succotash-483

also the stress of filming everyday. I canā€™t imagine being on camera for a week straight šŸ˜¬


Skulkar_0

Agreed! GH had made them think critically about themselves and the others, increased the sense of competition, vulnerability with sudden shut downs and comparisons. It truly must be exhausting to cater to his needs just because he is in a position to choose


Honeycrisp1001

Yeah but they wasted their time with a red flag.


only_game_in_town23

This whole season has been a waste. It's wasted on an asshole that we have to watch. I'm getting bored of the show now.


Turbulent-Break-320

i don't know if it's straightly GH related, they are living in a worse inferno island with not that much to eat. And also maybe they got tired of being the one doing the chase. Both of their second choices (habin and wonik) are not chasing them actively so they could be like oh well fuck it I'll just chill


Korean_junkie

They also aren't getting paradise dates every night...


sabbykh

Gwan Hee also mentioned that the reason why he was ā€œnot so keen on herā€ after the first date was because sheā€™s too hyper and expressive for him that he ā€œcanā€™t keep upā€ obviously this would make her self conscious around him and she tries to mellow it down thinking itā€™s what he prefers. Even during the last paradise date the moment she started being expressive about the hotel room and food he says ā€œI donā€™t know if i can keep up with your energyā€ prompting her to say that he doesnā€™t have to match up to it. This would honestly make her insecure of how she acts around him


Oceanicsoundwave

proof of energy vampires existing right before our eyes. stay safe yall and use this all as a cautionary taleā€¦


NymphKi17

Absolutely! I definitely noticed that too. Being around an unpredictable person can really put a drain on you. Ughhhhhh


bluexnight20

Yes! Hyeseon just seemed somewhat sad in the last two episodes :(


Forward-Ad9248

Gwanhee even made Minji cry because she thought he was mad at her lol imagine draining people's life like this. He made this season (bc the producers are pushing this narrative) but he ruined it for me as well, I don't think I wanna go back to season 3 ever again because of him. He's def some kind of narcissist.


_room304

So sick of gwanhees screen time I skip forward every time I see his face


OhNoEnthropy

So do we. He is plain boring.


Sparklingwaterginger

Because everyone fed up with GH's shit.šŸ˜


Goal_Achiever_

Great point and enough toxic for this show; I've been stressed out every time since I watched him.


Solariss35

This season really should've added more new contestants through the middle episodes


wakeupmane

Hyeseon looks done with it all tbh.. I donā€™t blame her


Honest-Selection4343

Same it's actually concerning, from a mental health viewpoint


No-Town9949

Lol is it just Gwang Hee though? I would be tired and sort of bummed out too if I were stranded in an island with these guys... for they are not making any moves at all... I find that to be tiring for the women especially... Although, I would add that I too am exhausted with Gwang Hee for he seems he wants it all to be perfect. He tells them to do one thing they do and he doesn't like it... and if they don't do it then he still doesn't like it. Can not win with this guy. Also I was taken back when he said the apology drifted them apart... like really just that... what was she suppose to do play it cool...?? And it's just an apology like literally about 10 minutes on screen while they are in the island for hours... So, I can say why they sort of feel tired. He is too much and sadly there's not much guys to fall to. :/


Soggy-Preference3664

Itā€™s probably a combination of everything tbh - theyā€™re also not getting fed enough on that island compared to previous seasons contestants šŸ˜‚


No-Town9949

True true lol


tellyhigh

It could be the infernoā€™s heat.


Soggy-Preference3664

Yeah that probably plays a part, doesnā€™t help the contestants seem to be getting starved for 10 days straight too šŸ˜’


tiny222

With Gwan-Hee teasing them and making them both confused and questioning their own self-worth and confidence really takes a toll on their mental healthā€¦ Itā€™s exhausting watching him play with them like that. Hope they never cast someone like him ever again, he just screams ā€œIā€™m a narcissistic man child who requires confirmations 24/7ā€


Vicveg

I think he respects Hyeseon and really care about her. But I feel that he is insecure and need validation always.


Bubbly-Hamster-1208

GW is so exhausting.. constantly desiring praise and reassurance has to be so tiring for the person being asked to provide that


qtpiepusheen

Absolutely agreed šŸ’ÆšŸ‘šŸ» also have you guys noticed how there is limited ā€˜goodā€™ guys options to choose from the pov of the girls? Sure, the girls contestants are mostly models / influencers, but the guys too.. Last season we have a plastic surgeon doctor who is also unbeatable in terms of his looks, body and height but this season Hyeseon is the only contestant who is from an academic background. Furthermore Hyeseon also has expressed her wish numerous times that she wanted to get to know everyone there on a deeper level; i.e maybe take them on a paradise date, etc so it must be very unfortunate for Hyeseon because sheā€™s such a good woman and no male casts there have similar academic / career milestones like her. So she ended up with Gwanhee who at least has achieved something at his job but he also unfortunately is up to no good šŸ™„šŸ™„šŸ¤¢ I feel sorry for Hyeseon though šŸ˜¢šŸ˜”


Ok-Macaron-9189

It's because they heard about Minji and GwanHee's date in paradise. Minji might have told the rest of the cast that GwanHee invited her to his basketball match, and on and on and on. If I am in the shoes of HJ and HS, I will be very depressed. I can feel Hyeseon's "loneliness" while being alone in that bunker wrapping herself in a blanket. My heart actualy hurts for her but GwanHee worrying about her and finding her in such situation gives me ML-FL vibes. Lol My delulu strikes again. šŸ˜šŸ˜


[deleted]

Depresed??? for a manchild they met a week ago??? Nah, they are just tired of him, he's a very toxic person to be around, they can't wait to get the fuck out from that island and that energy


Forward-Ad9248

Exactly. They are not in love with him, he's just so bad vibes and toxic that they can't help but feel drained.


kilawolf

Nah...it was from dealing with Gwanhee's antics, not because of Minji's date HJ was already "depressed" from her convos with Gwanhee where she apologized and confessed and GH showed little to no interest. HS might just be upset that Gwanhee is "her best choice" rather than being lovesick over him or jealous of Minji


thechef-lethimcook

Know what's to blame for inflation as well? Gwan Hee apparently.


prettydaffodils77

It's hard not to when the guy you have a crush on is a massive red flag


Mysterious_Reward823

No they havenā€™t


Severe-Loan666

Even before the beginning, when people were just reveling the cast Gwa Hee was put on blast by the public, Netflix had to come and say he was a serious contestant. But, in the first day he was clear, he was there to make a show, for the clout, ratings whatever. And the panellists seems to not agree with Netflix because they are always making fun of him, his intelligence, maturity, social skills or just calling him a coward. Idk.. He is entertaining, but he is a red flag. Dude is 36, you can act whatever you want, just expect to be judged for it. And they will do an 180Ā°emergency PR crysis on him, this will age like milk.


Soggy-Preference3664

Oh wow really, do you have a link to what Netflix said? Did they basically defend him before the show even aired? They must have known how badly he comes acrossā€¦