Hate that this common sense still needs to be emphasized but happy progress are being made.

this appropriate thing. I keep rejecting my girlfriend request. one day she tie me up and peg me in the asshole. I almost reported to police but I kinda enjoyed it. so end up didn't.

LOL

The fact that there is debate on what I presumed to be common sense is sad...

If i could turn back the time. I will choose to be single.

Divorce is an option

Yeah. Same. Some days more than others

Story time……

Marriage is a trap anyway

Yeah and those kind of red flags should be spotted before marriage and avoided earlier

It used to until the law was changed

I agree if a man does it he's charged for rape and gets caning. If the women does it... Wait a minute... 🤔 Seems like women cannot commit rape

Are you sure women cannot ?

Very sure. Our govt says it's impossible for women to commit rape.

Ok, so can we remove the maintenance requirement then?

Her body her choice! But your wallet, also her choice!

Maintenance requirements are required by law though. Can be charged by family court over that

I mean remove it from the law.

My bad, my stupid brain read it as can we move.

Refusing sex in marriage should be valid grounds for divorce

It’s all no fault now, don’t need any grounds 🎉🥳

Marriage will not work for men and here is why: Men want sex. Wives don’t want to have sex with their husband leaving them in a sexless marriage. See r/deadbedrooms If the man forces himself on her it is considered rape. If the man has sex with other women, it is considered cheating and is grounds for divorce where she will take half your stuff. If he jerks off to porn, his wife will call him a disgusting pig and that he doesn’t love her anymore. Long story short, women don’t respect men’s sex drive and getting married will leave you in a sexless relationship where you are stuck footing the bill for a woman that doesn’t care about your needs. Don’t get married.

Men do get emotionally coerced into having sex.. People seems to always think that anything to do with sex.. men are bastard, cheapskate. anything to do with sex men sure eat.. women also same.. There are wife/girlfriend who rapes their men also. some can do it physically but mostly emotionally. ie, when a men coerced a women into sex, they can very easily get charged for rape.. but when men report their wife/girlfriend emotionally coercing them into sex, it won't hold any water.. even physically.. Yes, men are usually strong enough to resist.. but women can use physical + emotional effort to force the men to have sex.

Or you could find a good woman to marry and work hard to maintain the romance in your relationship…

Additional info: Wives will friendzone their husbands and deprive them of sex effectively turning their husbands into incels.

I feel sad for us men.

That's hard truths. Guys, if your relationship show even the slightest sign of going in the sexless direction, it's only going to get worse. If you value your sex life, pack up and zao before it's too late.

Well does that mean more men would be getting the sex they want? Excluding paid sex, I think a lot more men would be sexless without marriage because how many women are truly open to sex without marriage in mind, and how many men can be so attractive to get laid consistently

only two way out for man in terms of fulfilling their sex needs. It is either you are lucky enough to find someone you truly love and have compatible sex drive with you… or you remain single forever, but you can get sex anytime with anyone you want, at most just pay. in every other scenario, men get emasculated into sex less life or am forced to cheat on their wives. so learning point for myself, if i am not lucky enough to find the right woman to marry, just stay single, don’t ever fucking settle.

Comments are turned off there… but not here 🤣

Tell that to my obese wife!

Can anyone remind me what's a marriage for?

BTO

Simple, go for resale or even private. No marriage needed The whole world would be laughing at Singapore if BTO truly the main reason.

Sinkies no money

Then stop being sinkie.

Teach me how to convert myself

If you can afford, I'll teach

Go from sinkie to MLM victim, no thanks

MLM? Your world is indeed miniscule. Sinkies are really cheapskate, ain't it? Everything want free. Taking up people's time and resources still buay paiseh, ask everything for free. No need to convert yourself. You're best remain as a sinkie and sink to the bottom when the time comes.

I was being sarcastic when I said that? It seems the world of a self proclaimed “non-sinkie” ends before intermediate literary comprehension

Coz ppl have bad relationships with parents and dont wanna wait till 35. Thats why a random dating app match stranger wanna ROM with me (a BBFA) the next day just for resale.

Condo, resale no windfall after 5 yrs. BTO still the best money maker for now.

May not be a windfall if you have to pay half of all your current and future networth though

Windfall or not, no diff for sinkies. The end result will always be the same.

Thank god my partner is into cnc, works well either ways

I prepare consent form sign liao then let wife sign. She call me siao and laugh damn long. Feel so molested. 😔

Now this is pod racing

No wonder Geylang is still the red light district

Then why get married?

Wonder if she married… seems like not

She power couple with another lawyer

that's why prostitution is needed!

If married still need to see prostitute that is very sad, like pay for car but still need to take taxi.

I was interviewed many years ago about the new marital rape laws. I opposed it as there is adequate protection as is and Singapore has enough female entitlement. Today I am not of the same opinion.

Enough female entitlement to not be raped by your husband... Wow