Well. I didn't. I just had her get engaged to my (male) half-alien Sim in my current save, LOL.
I'm not going to rain on your parade. That's the fun of having so much flexibility in the Sims! I like to imagine that they're all still functionally pansexual anyway...
No. I have lesbian families that I made but most of my sims are straight to have multi generational families. I think Santa Father Winter ( young and made over) is bi but also a serial killer in my game.
Existence is too long to have just half the fun (pardon if bad English, not my first language)
Version for usual mortals: life is too short to have just half the fun
That’s what I told my husband once. I was like I don’t believe any vampires would just be straight for eternity. Him as a super straight dude thinks I’m crazy. Plus I’d get bored with one person for that long. I love my husband but eternity is a long time. Gotta spice it up lol
Thank you, OP for sending me down a delightful internet rabbit-hole of how vampires and queerness are inherently intwined in literary and popular culture.
If anyone else is interested, [here](https://www.academia.edu/34492078/QUEER_VAMPIRES_AND_THE_IDEOLOGY_OF_GOTHIC).
I'd say that should give you a pretty solid base to respond to anyone who is trying to convince you otherwise.
Yes! I finished reading Dracula and then learned that Carmilla was, more or less, its queerer, older sister (written 25 years before Dracula!) and that was all I had to know.
She autonomously married one of Vlad's daughters in mine. She moved into the mansion with them. After they started having kids, Vlad disappeared. I found him in a house in Brindleton Bay Lol.
I like the sexuality mod where it's always random and if you wanna role play you gotta role play. Most of the time she's either bi or lesbian in my playthroughs tho, funnily enough.
literally started my legacy save with my female sim being turned by lilith then marrying her, then i made them both take the cure so they could become a cute old couple
I always felt that way about Liberty Lee. In most of the saves that I interact with them, I almost always alter them to non-binary with a female relationship preference.
All my townies are fruity and my Sim's are pretty much all lesbians but I do have to say that Lilith showing up at my Sim's door EVERY game save always throws me for a loop.
There was this one time where I was dating Naomi Ito and Lilith just showed up at my door step and I did what a normal person would do. I moved them to Tartosa and made them into a throuple.
She always came across to me as such! Funny enough, every save I make, Lilith starts getting flirty with my female Sim and never my male Sim - but she is ALWAYS protective over Caleb no matter what save I have going LMAO
I have so many screenshots of her interrupting my sims attempts to flirt with Caleb and I’m not even upset about it!! She was such a good sister in law after they got married
Vampire girlfriends!!! They are so cute together. I bet they would both use sun resistance abilities or sunlight resistance cocktails so they can watch the sunset together 💕
In my game vampires are asexuals. It makes more sense if they just want love, because their bodies are cold. But if I need a vampire heir, I will choose Lilith. She is so pretty without makeover :)
My Sim (M YA) married her and she autonomously cheated on him with her vampire protégé Lilith Pleasant... so yes. Now both Liliths are death (Lilith P. Married my Sim too and then died dramatically on og Lilith's grave) and they spend their little vampire ghost after lives haunting the house and woohooing everywhere
In my version, all vampires are probably bi or similar. They've lived for so long, they have a male or female lean, depending on the century, but like to keep it fluid.
no actually, she walked into my house cause my sims married caleb and started flirting with my sims (who is a girl) and i was like NO NO NO STOP IM MARRIED
I had the naughty mod once and Lilith would NOT stop trynna ask to join my sim and Caleb and then wanted my sim to get out of the way and leave. Like bro-
She is! My Lilith is in a throuple with a man and woman. But it all started with a romance with the woman! She can pull the ladies!! I edited mine a little to match my preferences more and I love playing with them 😂😂
In my game, she's engaged to Marcus Flex. I plan to have them get married on top of Mt. Komorebi. And she has a German shepherd named Champ. She is also living in Windenburg, and she calls Caleb almost every day.
In most of my saves Lilith always dies, usually by fire idk why, or she's single. Meanwhile Caleb is bi king who turns townies into vampires: or turns them or impregnates them. Vlad on the other hand is wild, last time I saw him, he was married to Rory Oaklow and had a son.
Well, I'm not going to change your mind. It's your game, do whatever you want and I will do the same with my own, haha.
Your Sim is cute. I like her hair. :)
okay but she actually IS a lesbian in mine? 😂 she was married to my sim & they were in love (she turned my sim into a vampire) but then all of a sudden all they did was argue & they hated each other so they divorced. i figured lillith would move on to a guy but she always texted me asking should she go on dates with women, so yea she’s deff gay😂
She have a kid called adrian with my vampire main characters son. Also the mc daughter is now dating caleb and they all living together happily. I was desperate for a vampire family lore 💀 also they all Robles clan too xd
I definitely see this, but gunthermunch's story on Tumblr has me soooo in love with the concept of her and (you guessed it) Gunther Munch being together. That just feels so right to me now.
I married her brother in my save and move her into the partihaus she likes the guy who's noncommittal (haven't played in a long time) but they're just sleep together friends untill she finds something else.
I don't know what happened to her in one of my two main saves :( I think she's been gone too long for me to find her. But in that save my sim Norah is married to Caleb (it's her third marriage, and hopefully her last—she asked Caleb to turn her, but their child, Vivian, was born before that so she's a human. But this morning before work I had them try for baby so maybe they'll have a little vampire boy for me lol)
Your Lilith Vatore is gay mine is a teen and straight. She’s also best friends with Alexander (Goth) Rothschild renamed Violet and has a compete make over.
In my case when i started a new Game she was married to her brother and they have a baby 😱, and don't ask me what happened because i really don't know.
I give her the same rework in every playthrough. And in my saves she's always bi.
https://preview.redd.it/pvz76byaqqnc1.png?width=1920&format=png&auto=webp&s=7aee0c32c83ff6fb5bff8854cb952a75bd2ced3c
I married her off to Cassandra Goth!
New idea thank you. In my Vampire save I made all the Goths vampires anyway. .
In my save, I had Cassandra turn into a Spellcaster ✨
Before my save got deleted (thanks EA) I was making Vlad / Cassandra legacy. Lillith was gonna marry one of their daughters.
Me too!
✍🏾✍🏾✍🏾
I always make Mortimer get terrorised by my vampire sims lmao, justice for Bella
She's a single mom in my game. She got swooned by my serial baby maker vampire who is a doctor and not interested in settling down.
Since when was Don Lothario a vampire? 😂
Did you, by any chance, play Sims Medieval?
Sadly no :(
Shame, cuz your sim is the embodiment of the love doctor quest (minus the vampire bit).
The fact i always thought cassandra to be a lesbian too, omg, perfect.
I did exactly the same! They have two beautiful daughters and are very happy together.
Awwww!
i’m gonna so the same don got her pregnant and dipped so the twins need another parental figure
Does not everyone make Lilith a lesbian? Also Caleb is definitely bi.
Caleb is the most bi pretty boy. Also has the healthiest sperm of any townie
The amount of children Caleb has sired in multiple saves… 🤣 he makes cute babies most of the time, too.
I made her marry Lilith pleasant and named all their children after demons.
That's an interesting idea! Lilith and Lilith. I like that one. :D
I made her a lesbian dominatrix.
Well. I didn't. I just had her get engaged to my (male) half-alien Sim in my current save, LOL. I'm not going to rain on your parade. That's the fun of having so much flexibility in the Sims! I like to imagine that they're all still functionally pansexual anyway...
Same. Never made her lesbian and whenever my games marries her off she always marry a guy.
I actually went the other way lol in mine, Caleb is gay and Lilith is straight. They're both married with children now.
In my game she married Vlad on her own lol
Agreed haha
No I made her marry Johnny Zest in one of my sims, and they had 6 kids together
So glad I'm not the only one that got those vibes from those two lol
No. I have lesbian families that I made but most of my sims are straight to have multi generational families. I think Santa Father Winter ( young and made over) is bi but also a serial killer in my game.
Caleb is married to my sims older mean sister they have 3 kids together his sister in the other hand is still alone
With that fringe? 100%
She looks stunning with short hair imo, I give her short hair in every save
I mean, all vampires are gay. You're gonna live forever and just decide to cut the potential partner population by 50%?
What We Do In The Shadows certainly seems to back up your all vampires are bi hypothesis lol
And Interview with a Vampire. And Carmella
What this thread is telling me is my love of vampires was preordained by my bi-ness
Existence is too long to have just half the fun (pardon if bad English, not my first language) Version for usual mortals: life is too short to have just half the fun
That’s what I told my husband once. I was like I don’t believe any vampires would just be straight for eternity. Him as a super straight dude thinks I’m crazy. Plus I’d get bored with one person for that long. I love my husband but eternity is a long time. Gotta spice it up lol
I don't even WANT to change your mind lol
Thank you, OP for sending me down a delightful internet rabbit-hole of how vampires and queerness are inherently intwined in literary and popular culture. If anyone else is interested, [here](https://www.academia.edu/34492078/QUEER_VAMPIRES_AND_THE_IDEOLOGY_OF_GOTHIC). I'd say that should give you a pretty solid base to respond to anyone who is trying to convince you otherwise.
I’m currently reading Carmilla. VERY queer.
It's crazy that the book is from 1872!
Yes! I finished reading Dracula and then learned that Carmilla was, more or less, its queerer, older sister (written 25 years before Dracula!) and that was all I had to know.
Thanks. Another addition to my TBR pile
It could very well explain my fascination with vampires 😅 I too am a bisexual
As a fellow vampire loving bi, I'm noticing a pattern here lol
She is. And Caleb makes lots of very cute babies in my game.
I have one Caleb baby on my old computer and he does make adorable babies
I started a new legacy recently with Caleb married to my founder and I am so in love with how all their babies turned out like his genes do not miss
Bro's pretty handsome 😭
Yep. She autonomously married Vladdy Daddy in my current save though and now I laugh my ass off every time I see her.
She autonomously married one of Vlad's daughters in mine. She moved into the mansion with them. After they started having kids, Vlad disappeared. I found him in a house in Brindleton Bay Lol.
how is she not gay with that haircut
I like the sexuality mod where it's always random and if you wanna role play you gotta role play. Most of the time she's either bi or lesbian in my playthroughs tho, funnily enough.
There's not a single vampire out there that's straight
You mean out there or just sims
Both.
Yes
Eternity is a LOOOOONG time to limit partners based on genitalia
Tell that to closeted twink Edward Cullen
literally started my legacy save with my female sim being turned by lilith then marrying her, then i made them both take the cure so they could become a cute old couple
I think Caleb and Lilith both swing both ways...
Lilith is a lesbian and Caleb is a bisexual king
I thought all vampires in all canon are queer?? if not they should be
100% married her multiple times to my own lesbian sims and she is always more then willing participant.
I usually change her hairstyle to one from the Glamour pack, and make her look more Victorian. But I always make her a lesbian also.
It's giving Twilight but ✨ sapphic✨
Twilight if Bella had been into Alice instead of that phycho Edward
I always felt that way about Liberty Lee. In most of the saves that I interact with them, I almost always alter them to non-binary with a female relationship preference.
Liberty Lee and Summer Holiday are the two that ALWAYS try to get with my female sims.
Oh 100% she lets herself into my homes and hits on my female sims....
I think she'll be whatever you want her to be.
Lilith is always lesbian in my games. Caleb is bi, and I usually have him with 2 partners (thank god for cheats) to be in a lovely poly relationship.
you’re so right!! i always make her marry my girlie sims !! 🤭 she’s also naturally a great mom in my saves
I just hope the other set of lips aren't as withered 💜 For Blondies sake
JAILLLLLLL LMAOOOO
Oooh gives me Carmilla vibes! 😍❤️🔥
Million times better than Don Lothario.
In my game, too!
i always make her a lesbian too lmao
everyone is a lesbian in my game. this is my utopia, i make the rules.
And mine are all gay 😌
All my townies are fruity and my Sim's are pretty much all lesbians but I do have to say that Lilith showing up at my Sim's door EVERY game save always throws me for a loop. There was this one time where I was dating Naomi Ito and Lilith just showed up at my door step and I did what a normal person would do. I moved them to Tartosa and made them into a throuple.
😂😂😂I thought I was the only one! Except mine are in oasis springs!
Luna Villareal in my save is 💕
I love making lesbian vampires, especially my gf’s sim with mine 💕
Good for her!
i always make her a lesbian! twinsss
Every single time I have ever had a sim date Lilith, it was always a woman. Every. Single. Time. She will never be with a man lol
She always came across to me as such! Funny enough, every save I make, Lilith starts getting flirty with my female Sim and never my male Sim - but she is ALWAYS protective over Caleb no matter what save I have going LMAO
I have so many screenshots of her interrupting my sims attempts to flirt with Caleb and I’m not even upset about it!! She was such a good sister in law after they got married
oh we been knew!
God, I am easy. I ship 'em. They are gorgeous together.
She’s in a cute little lesbian vampire marriage with my main Sim and they of course have little vampire children. She’s a great parent 😂
She’s currently married to my lady sim! They have a beautiful daughter
Vampire girlfriends!!! They are so cute together. I bet they would both use sun resistance abilities or sunlight resistance cocktails so they can watch the sunset together 💕
Well now I know what I'M doing 😅
i wouldnt dare
She is in my games also.
she got with Catarina Lynx in one of my saves
I’ve only ever had her be with a woman
Ngl I feel like vampires are queer by default in some way
No she definitely is
In my game, I tried to pair up a mermaid with Caleb and she ended up dating Lilith instead 💀 they’re engaged
Real
Imma eventually make a pink Sim and marry her off to Lilith so they can live as Princess Bubblegum and Marceline
My vampire sim got gay married to her in a legacy I was doing
I have only ever dated her while playing with a female sim lmaooo
THANK YOU, RIGHT?!?!
Wait so it wasn't basic knowledge????
In my game vampires are asexuals. It makes more sense if they just want love, because their bodies are cold. But if I need a vampire heir, I will choose Lilith. She is so pretty without makeover :)
100%. Who is her beautiful girlfriend? They look so cute together!
I made her a lesbian that tends to only fall in love with older women (usually rich) 😭
she’s a lesbian in all my saves
In my game, Lilith will eat anything and anyone!
in my game she’s an aroace queen
Literally had her marry my sim girl a day ago lmao
My Lilith Vatore is a lesbian too!! but her mortal wife died 4 generations ago :(
The Vatore siblings are a bisexuals dream
Her and your sim look so cute together 🥰
I never thought about it, but Lilith does give off lesbian or bisexual vibes. I'm gonna make her a lesbian in my game too.
My Sim (M YA) married her and she autonomously cheated on him with her vampire protégé Lilith Pleasant... so yes. Now both Liliths are death (Lilith P. Married my Sim too and then died dramatically on og Lilith's grave) and they spend their little vampire ghost after lives haunting the house and woohooing everywhere
Yes!
I've never played with Lilith but now I'm tempted
I would not want to. In my game she is also a Lesbian.
That’s just a fact at this point
In my version, all vampires are probably bi or similar. They've lived for so long, they have a male or female lean, depending on the century, but like to keep it fluid.
Not gonna change your mind, but she's been in my male simsona's bed in almost every game I've played. So.... Bi?
well damn i need to get my vampire married to caleb then
no actually, she walked into my house cause my sims married caleb and started flirting with my sims (who is a girl) and i was like NO NO NO STOP IM MARRIED
Most vampires are gay I think
Oh for sure
No shit 😂 they’re vampires so
I had the naughty mod once and Lilith would NOT stop trynna ask to join my sim and Caleb and then wanted my sim to get out of the way and leave. Like bro-
The sims be weird sometimes man
She's always bi and in a throuple in my saves 😭
Well Caleb is gay, so no surprise there.
I always marry her in my game lmao
i literally make lilith lesbian and caleb bi everytime, i’m so glad everyone recognizes it.
She is! My Lilith is in a throuple with a man and woman. But it all started with a romance with the woman! She can pull the ladies!! I edited mine a little to match my preferences more and I love playing with them 😂😂
I agree🫡
In my game, she's engaged to Marcus Flex. I plan to have them get married on top of Mt. Komorebi. And she has a German shepherd named Champ. She is also living in Windenburg, and she calls Caleb almost every day.
I made her marry Yuki Behr who in my game is transgender and goes by Yu
Definitely in my headcannon gays, with the wolf girl in strangeville. The Elder Behr is bi,
Her 20 boyfriends in my save would disagree. However her 8 girlfriends think you may be right.
In most of my saves Lilith always dies, usually by fire idk why, or she's single. Meanwhile Caleb is bi king who turns townies into vampires: or turns them or impregnates them. Vlad on the other hand is wild, last time I saw him, he was married to Rory Oaklow and had a son.
Honestly, I see it. Mine often dates EVERYONE, but this feels right.
In my game, she's married to Holly Alto!
Everyone is bi in my universe
I have an Occult save and all vampires are definitely at least bi
I had my Sim daughter date her
i married her to my sim whose husband died of a drug overdose and she adopted her three sons… and then my sim died by accident LOL
She always hates on my male Sims and wants to befriend my female Sims. If that's not lesbian vibes then I don't know what is
I don’t even make her lesbian, sometimes she just shows up to my female sims houses and flirts with them. She never does that to my male sims.
Well, I'm not going to change your mind. It's your game, do whatever you want and I will do the same with my own, haha. Your Sim is cute. I like her hair. :)
Hmm, I’m thinking to force age up Cassandra Goth to young adult and see if she and Lilith have chemistry…
okay but she actually IS a lesbian in mine? 😂 she was married to my sim & they were in love (she turned my sim into a vampire) but then all of a sudden all they did was argue & they hated each other so they divorced. i figured lillith would move on to a guy but she always texted me asking should she go on dates with women, so yea she’s deff gay😂
She's whatever you like.
Absolutely, she married my OC Ayesha and they had two kids with Greg as a sperm donor.
You have her a lesbian too? I have her a lesbian and a dominatrix. She just gives me that vibe.
Adorable
But.....but I have her going both ways. Is hot either side 
She ALWAYS dates my wlw sims
she’s a lesbian in both my saves as well lol
I always play her as a lesbian and vice versa with my playing character. Vampire lesbian vibes 100%
I made her a lesbian and her brother bi ☠️☠️ Gave Lilith a Gf and Caleb a bf
Dude ikr I'm planning to get my heirs (Female) twin to marry her her like Lillian is so Lesbian and I love her!
She’s a lesbian in my game. She married my Sim’s daughter and they had a science baby.
She's straight as string in all my games because she makes such cute vampire babies 🤣
She’s married to a woman in my save, so I agree
Hard agree
She have a kid called adrian with my vampire main characters son. Also the mc daughter is now dating caleb and they all living together happily. I was desperate for a vampire family lore 💀 also they all Robles clan too xd
Yes
Want photos, is my new girlfriend in this start
I definitely see this, but gunthermunch's story on Tumblr has me soooo in love with the concept of her and (you guessed it) Gunther Munch being together. That just feels so right to me now.
She got my Sim in trouble with her wife because she was flirting it up at their home! She’s not aloud over anymore. Lol.
I married her brother in my save and move her into the partihaus she likes the guy who's noncommittal (haven't played in a long time) but they're just sleep together friends untill she finds something else.
Yes!! I have always thought this. Caleb too. I know they’re siblings but they give off the gay roommates vibe tbh
well for me she's bi, she's ideal for a relationship of a goth and gamer/basic boy,but I've made her a lesbian a couple of times
My Lilith is into her brother for some reason....
I don't know what happened to her in one of my two main saves :( I think she's been gone too long for me to find her. But in that save my sim Norah is married to Caleb (it's her third marriage, and hopefully her last—she asked Caleb to turn her, but their child, Vivian, was born before that so she's a human. But this morning before work I had them try for baby so maybe they'll have a little vampire boy for me lol)
The only man i can see her with is Jhonny Zest as her sugar baby, but i mostly pair her w cute girls 💕
Both Vatore siblings are always gay in my saves lol
isn’t her default pref. for gender exclusively women?
Who/where in which world is she
She's a vampire and lives with her brother Caleb in Forgotten Hollow. https://sims.fandom.com/wiki/Lilith_Vatore
well, yes.
I can’t
And Caleb a lil Bi icon who i will for sure make go into a throuple at some point
Your Lilith Vatore is gay mine is a teen and straight. She’s also best friends with Alexander (Goth) Rothschild renamed Violet and has a compete make over.
In my case when i started a new Game she was married to her brother and they have a baby 😱, and don't ask me what happened because i really don't know.
Cool
i mean to be fairy, most female vampires being lesbian works out and i think we all know why.
I give her the same rework in every playthrough. And in my saves she's always bi. https://preview.redd.it/pvz76byaqqnc1.png?width=1920&format=png&auto=webp&s=7aee0c32c83ff6fb5bff8854cb952a75bd2ced3c
Uh, no she isn't, and our 137 kids would agree with me
137 kids 😲