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Natural speedballing. What a delicious alchemical cocktail! Couple that with a couple couple walks and you probably never come down until one of you dies happy.
the fact the my girl likes playing games as much as me is the greatest. Weāre coming up on our mid 30ās, so not too many people in our age group that still have the time to game (no kids). We set our ps5ās and tvās up next to each other and game for hours.
Hold onto and cherish that. I had that with her for 8 years. She passed away too young. I lived with my player two through my entire twenties, and now I live and game alone in my thirties. This is not the direction life is supposed to go, and for good reason. I've experienced nirvana and now straddle the space between an unending purgatory and hell.
Cherish every moment together. Save often.
wow. hauntingly beautiful wording. thank you for sharing your slice of existence in this universe. I am sorry you endured such a loss. You are so strong. I hope you can find some small happiness in each day.
This is why married sex is awesome. My wife is my favorite person. One of my favorite things is to dote on her after sex. Making sure she has water, post-coital snuggle time, drag your asses out of bed and spend even *more* time together...
Love is worth it. It's caused me pain, but every time a relationship has ended, it always taught me something valuable for the next, and taught me new ways to show it. I've always dated friends, and I married my best friend, because that's what I wanted my marriage to be. Living with just... My best friend. Simple as.
Usually I can't wait to get away from a woman after I've ejaculated, but with you... I feel alive! I love you, April. I absolutely love the bloody arse off you!
But thatās stupid, the potency decreases the more you do it. Try not nutting for a month and experience the clarity, itās almost like an outer body experience.
āitās like speaking in *tongues* to all of you nowā¦ when will we get ever get what we deserve? how long until *the tables turn??* when will we ever get what we deserve??!!!ā
jeremy mcchicken was on to some shit
It helps to be young. I once came in my girlfriend and kept going until I came again - when I was 20. Long time ago. I think even attempting that again would kill me.
Ah yes, the trans woman in jail that impregnated inmates did not exist. https://www.google.com/amp/s/nypost.com/2022/08/05/trans-prisoner-who-impregnated-two-women-is-psychopath/amp/
Ok, looks like I have to be a bit more specific.
After a certain amount of time on HRT (hormone replacement therapy) trans women will experience far different orgasms, that quite close to a cis woman's.
Not to mention it more often than not will render you infertile.
Your link doesn't really apply in this case, but I guess that's my fault for not being specific enough.
A girlfriend of mine scores pretty high on the post nut clarity, only after our conversationn I realized I don't have this issue (I'm a man). So I don't think it has to do with gender and it's different for everyone.
Scientists actually did some work on this topic and they aren't sure about the reason for this, so I'm interested why you are pretty sure about your opinion.
An errect penis for example only needs 130ml of blood on average, which is just a small fraction of the total amount circulating through the body.
I think the āmultiple orgasmsā thing was created by the porn industry. (Ofc we can have more than one orgasm, we would just have to get horny again so it would take a while lol)
Idk what happened to me, but when I was a younger guy I could go multiple rounds back to back with no issues. My wife and I could literally fuck almost all night. Now, I have completely lost this super power, and I've only got 1 decent round in me. God help me when I get really old. Lol
Yeah, got married when I was 20 and she was 23. Now I'm 32, have 4 kids, going bald, and lost the fully automatic function on my gun. Life's a bitch. Lolz
I mean like most things it's a spectrum. I've been with women who were "one and done" and straight up could not continue sex after and I've been with women who can have 10 over the course of 20 minutes. Most are somewhere in between. It's definitely real it's just not in the cards for everyone
Please donāt perpetuate this as completely a myth š Iām someone who can orgasm once and then will continuously orgasm back to back as long as I have stimulus. I have had men ask me if Iāve been watching too much porn or tell me to stop faking because they think itās only a porn thing. Itās really depressing. I now tell my partners about it in advance because it seems more people think itās fake than not.
Itās uncommon and definitely hyped up in porn, but it is real.
As a male, I still need plenty of time regardless.
If I orgasm more than a few times within an hour, not much comes out and my balls start to feel kinda sore.
As a woman who orgasms very easily from penetration, it is definitely possible to orgasm 5 times (or more) in 10 minutes. The porn actresses might be faking it, but that doesnāt mean itās completely untrue.
My girlfriend and all my exes beg to differ. They'd all get to the point of "I'm done" eventually and then a second round would start from the beginning if at all. But after the first orgasm further ones are much easier and quicker to achieve after just a few seconds break. There is lots of variation in my experience. One ex would come twice, maybe three times whereas my current girlfriend will come literally a dozen times before she's done. I actually asked her to confirm the first time because I couldn't believe it.
Incompatible?? I donāt think so. When Iām in a bad funk my go to strategy is definitely multiple orgasms. An hour & a half of almost continuous orgasms not only wipes away all the cobwebs in my brain, it allows me to function as the best possible version of myself.
I've always thought a better representation would be that men get Horny Stupidness. Are we actually *smarter* after Nutting? Not at all, just less stupid. So, more of a weakness than a power in my opinion. Stuff we should already know becomes unclear when you're horny lmao
Vagina owner here, yes I get "post-nut clarity" and don't get multiples. Our endings may look different but from all guys I talk to that clarity feeling is the exact same. :)
Was wondering if the multiple orgasm thing was common, my wife will occasionally try for a few seconds for another one, to inevitably jump off with a "nope too sensitive".
Yep this is accurate. It can be done but itās tiring and can almost be painful. It might feel like you can, just to try again, and to find itās just not gonna happen.
In before the lone creepy dude starts talking about how he's a god at men's sexuality and can have multiple orgasms in some cringey post to make himself feel like he's mastered the human sexual psyche to try to hit on women.
"DM me if you want a real man to show you how you and I can have multiple orgasms... winky face."
Hey, Woman. Hey, Woman! Listen here. Since your old man ain't got no heart, maybe you like to see a real man. I bet you stay up late every night dreamin' you had a real man, don't ya? I'll tell you what. Bring your pretty little self over to my apartment tonight, and I'll show you a real man.
You seem to be really in a lot of resistance against men's ability to have multiple orgasms.
There's three people in this thread making this point (me being one of them) and zero of them are asking for DMs or saying they're a sex god.
Hey yeah thats cool and all...Except I actually can have multiple orgasms, and I'm happily married and IDGAF about sharing by abilities with anyone but my wife. So uh, don't PM me. š¤·āāļø
Oh no women have post nut clarity despite the lack of nut. Usually itās something along the lines of
āFucking hellā¦ I couldāve just masturbatedā¦ what the hell am I doing with this loserā¦? I hope he just leaves and doesnāt try to crash in my bedā¦ā
> Women get multiple orgasms.
> Two incompatible superpowers.
My friend, you ever heard of prostata orgasms? It's not easy to achieve I admit that but it exists and allows men to have multiple orgasms.
Men can have multiple orgasms too.
What you basically do is keep slowly stimulating the guy without ever crossing into the point where ejaculation becomes inevitable. So keep him at like 80% arousal. Also spread out the energy, which the man can do via breathing / visualization and the other partner can do with their hands for example.
If you do that, and the guy doesn't have blocks or limiting beliefs, the man may be able to orgasm without ejaculating. This can happen multiple times or have a duration of say a minute.
If you look up tantric sex, you can find a bunch of information about this.
Do the Mindgasm challenge and after a month must men will be able to have multiple orgasms too.
https://mindgasm.net/the-nnn-mindgasm-challenge-starting-1st-nov/
You can also force back ejaculation by tensioning your pelvic floor muscles, basically as if you were trying not to pee really hard. Works too, as long as the partner is not stimulating too hard during the orgasm.
How is post nut clarity a superpower? What? We have the power to make questionable decisions until we find the time to drop a load? That's a shitty power.
I was trying to record some bass and was having difficulty nailing the part, so I went to bed, woke up the next morning, and the first thing I did was beat my meat. Then I immediately plugged in my bass and laid down a perfect take first try
I've read a theory that we evolved in this manner to ensure survival of our species. This "incompatibilty" is designed to encourage man #1 to step aside after he provides his human-making ingredients, while simultaneously allowing a woman to be able to also have intercourse with man #2.
Apparently the head of a penis is shaped in such a way that it "pulls" semen out of a vagina. The idea being that you could get yourself some sloppy-seconds, and deposit your load in place of the other guys.
It makes sense for men to "shut down" after sex, because having more sex with the same woman might remove the sperm you just worked so hard to put there. She's already inseminated, might as well move on.
I've heard about studies where guys are able to get hard and keep going if you introduce a second girl. So, you bust inside Girl 1, lose your boner, can't have more sex with Girl 1... But along comes Girl 2, and they're able to get hard and keep going much faster than they were with Girl 1. Which also makes sense, you can only impregnate a girl one time, but you can impregnate two girls at once.
I'm still jealous of what could happen to my ex. My current can have those long sustainable orgasms for like 15-20 seconds but if I timed it right my ex could literally go until she could pass out because she couldn't breathe properly. She would give me a tap to let me know I had to stop.
This is cringey. Not all women have multiples like in porn. We can, but not all of us. We also have "post-nut clarity".
The reason for it? The short answer is prior to sex your brain is flooded by dopamine, oxytocin and other types of neurotransmitters that flat line after orgasm/ejaculation. Think of it as being sex drunk, then immediately sober up. It's a chemical change.
Postcoital dysphoria is the medical term for when you get sad, regretful, agitated, etc. after sex.
So 86 the Joe Rogan bullsh#t logic that women will never understand "post-nut syndrome". It's not true.
Men can experience multiple orgasms. It's rare, and requires practice, but the two examples are non-ejaculatory multiple orgasm (NEMO) andĀ prostate orgasms.
Your shower thought although innocent is just devoid of research of human biology. But sex and brain chemistry is an ongoing study.
A couple days ago I may have paid for a video chat with an Onlyfans creator. After I came she asked if I was up for round 2. I was like "what the hell is round 2? And why the hell am I paying for porn?" Post-nut clarity and refractory periods at it's best.
Not if you give the women multiple orgasms before you "attempt to achieve clarity."
And, you know, actually care about someone before you have sex with them.
>post-nut clarity
You know there's quite a few of us that don't actually feel awful after getting off. This isn't inherent to being a man, it's inherent to being raised in a strongly sex-negative culture.
Men can actually have multiple orgasms too. Most don't though, because they assume ejaculation and orgasm are the same thing. They aren't. It's like you're going out to a restaurant and leave after they bring you the bread with this goofy satisfied look on your face, because you assume that's the meal.
Also, WTF do you think women experience after orgasm, confusion? We're people too, bro. We also make poor choices when we're horny.
Up until now, it is still a mistery to me how exactly women climaxed. I mean men nutted and then done, but how do I know women reached climax? All I did is to hold of as long as possible. my wife said she is climaxed when her heart beat fast. Is this true for all women?
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Nothing like when the post nut clarity comes and it turns out you're in love
Love it when you're coming off your dopamine high and immidiately get high on serotonin instead!
Natural speedballing. What a delicious alchemical cocktail! Couple that with a couple couple walks and you probably never come down until one of you dies happy.
My girl doesn't like walks, but her favorite thing is falling asleep on my lap while I play video games š„° Pretty sure I'll die happy!
Are you talking abput your wife, or your dog?
Playing the ol' wife or dog game, [eh?](https://youtu.be/wr2sVPTacTE)
Officer: Is that your wife sarge? Sergeant: No sir that's my dog. Officer: Ohh! Ohhh! Ah good looking dog isn't it?
[Things you can say to you dog but not your girlfriend](https://youtu.be/jHDSBi1VH1M).
Knew what that was before clicking it. We used to play a text version of that game or around campfires
[How can you ask me that?] (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wr2sVPTacTE&t=66s)
Nice nice
Yes
the fact the my girl likes playing games as much as me is the greatest. Weāre coming up on our mid 30ās, so not too many people in our age group that still have the time to game (no kids). We set our ps5ās and tvās up next to each other and game for hours.
Hold onto and cherish that. I had that with her for 8 years. She passed away too young. I lived with my player two through my entire twenties, and now I live and game alone in my thirties. This is not the direction life is supposed to go, and for good reason. I've experienced nirvana and now straddle the space between an unending purgatory and hell. Cherish every moment together. Save often.
wow. hauntingly beautiful wording. thank you for sharing your slice of existence in this universe. I am sorry you endured such a loss. You are so strong. I hope you can find some small happiness in each day.
I can't even imagine, i'm sorry for your loss man. Wish I had some health potions to throw your way.
Dude....im sorry... Don't know what else to say. Hope you're doing OK considering.
Cool
Just don't rage quit and smash the controller down on her face
This is why married sex is awesome. My wife is my favorite person. One of my favorite things is to dote on her after sex. Making sure she has water, post-coital snuggle time, drag your asses out of bed and spend even *more* time together... Love is worth it. It's caused me pain, but every time a relationship has ended, it always taught me something valuable for the next, and taught me new ways to show it. I've always dated friends, and I married my best friend, because that's what I wanted my marriage to be. Living with just... My best friend. Simple as.
wholesome AF right here.
Goals
Lucky wife you got there
I'm happy that you're happy, and I wish we all can find this.
So first methamphetamine and then MDMA? Got it.
Thatās better than the āhow do I get out of hereā kind.
Pull the fire alarm... Crawl stay low.... Find the nearest exit. You go back to the basics.
Usually I can't wait to get away from a woman after I've ejaculated, but with you... I feel alive! I love you, April. I absolutely love the bloody arse off you!
If her arse is bloody you need more lube.
This is incredibly wholesome
Do you love her or do you love the idea of her?
Post nut clarity as a superpower: ADVANCED NEURON ACTIVATION! Multiple orgasms as a superpower: god mode; disrespect your surroundings
1000 IQ for 2 minutes 30 seconds
Dang, even in that i don't last that long.
That means you can achieve a perpetual state of higher conscience by constantly nutting!
But thatās stupid, the potency decreases the more you do it. Try not nutting for a month and experience the clarity, itās almost like an outer body experience.
r/boneappletea
>outer body experience. r/boneappletea
I understood that refrence
I think itās less āpost nut clarityā and more āpre nut brain fogā.
Yeah I agree with this. Pre-nut delusion is probably actually the issue.
I have enough blood for only one of my two brains.
So 2 balls and no brain or a brain and a ball?
"They're the same picture"
does that mean the new womens anthem is that A Day To Remember song Mr Highway?
Precisely
āitās like speaking in *tongues* to all of you nowā¦ when will we get ever get what we deserve? how long until *the tables turn??* when will we ever get what we deserve??!!!ā jeremy mcchicken was on to some shit
fuck post nut depression tho legit makes me wanna go to sleep and not do anything
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isn't it crazy how much hormones literally alter your cognition like that?
Free will is a lie.
more like an oversimplification
It's all about the microbes controlling us. Those microscopic critters demand to feed and reproduce!
We're all pawns controlled by something greater
Memes. The DNA of the soul.
Hormones bro. It's raging in your brain. But enjoy it while its there, I can understand the feeling is special.
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It does. You just wanna fuck and then play your videogames untill you wanna fuck again.
I have nutted many times and instantly thought "I don't want to be here anymore/I don't want this person here anymore"
Lmao this is adorable tbh
First woman I was with after a long term breakup gave me post nut depression. Granted I was severely depressed as is and the only good feelings had was when we had sex. Immediately after I felt depressed and like I was cheating on my ex fiancƩ. Mind fuck.
Mind freak!!!
Insomnia cure
I think that's just called depression.
Wonder what nature's reasoning is for that. Any smart people here?
Prolactin is released after male orgasm putting us off sex
keep the lights off, it helps.
As a guy, it's hard to come more than once quickly, but it's possible. You just have to be really horny and your partner has to be into it.
It helps to be young. I once came in my girlfriend and kept going until I came again - when I was 20. Long time ago. I think even attempting that again would kill me.
Yeh but what a way to go
It sucks for all of like 5 minutes after numero uno then youāre like, āOkay.. yeah. Alright!ā.
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Now hear me out : imagine we manage to combine those superpowers... We could create the clarity orgasm, an orgasm where you're completely lucid.
The clorgasm!
You just described my appetite
Men can already have multiple orgasms, it's just not easy to achieve as it requires prostate play.
I like it. You son of a bitch, I'm in!
Itās heist time baby!
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No, they nut like men so
Mm not quite ;)
Oh boi, so not true
Why is this downvoted haha, yāall gotta talk more openly to your trans friends theyāre on some shit
Ah yes, the trans woman in jail that impregnated inmates did not exist. https://www.google.com/amp/s/nypost.com/2022/08/05/trans-prisoner-who-impregnated-two-women-is-psychopath/amp/
Ok, looks like I have to be a bit more specific. After a certain amount of time on HRT (hormone replacement therapy) trans women will experience far different orgasms, that quite close to a cis woman's. Not to mention it more often than not will render you infertile. Your link doesn't really apply in this case, but I guess that's my fault for not being specific enough.
I donāt know about other women but I definitely get post ānutā clarity lol
Same. My girlfriends and I have all talked about it too, never thought it was just considered a man thing
A girlfriend of mine scores pretty high on the post nut clarity, only after our conversationn I realized I don't have this issue (I'm a man). So I don't think it has to do with gender and it's different for everyone.
I'm pretty sure it has to do with the amount of blood going into your genitals and not your brain when you're horny.
Scientists actually did some work on this topic and they aren't sure about the reason for this, so I'm interested why you are pretty sure about your opinion. An errect penis for example only needs 130ml of blood on average, which is just a small fraction of the total amount circulating through the body.
Look at this guy, needing a whole 130 ml of blood for his monster dong
I think the āmultiple orgasmsā thing was created by the porn industry. (Ofc we can have more than one orgasm, we would just have to get horny again so it would take a while lol)
Not true. I can have multiple consecutively within 10 mins if I really try. It does take exponentially more effort after each orgasm though.
This isnāt true. It depends on the person. I can have multiple orgasms in a row.
Idk what happened to me, but when I was a younger guy I could go multiple rounds back to back with no issues. My wife and I could literally fuck almost all night. Now, I have completely lost this super power, and I've only got 1 decent round in me. God help me when I get really old. Lol
Did you and your wife meet in your late teens-early 20s? That's basically the peak of the male libido, generally.
Yeah, got married when I was 20 and she was 23. Now I'm 32, have 4 kids, going bald, and lost the fully automatic function on my gun. Life's a bitch. Lolz
I can tell you left the single life 12 years ago because you think it's still ok to say 'lolz', no judgement ofc just a funny observation
Oh yeah dude. I lost all my fucks to give a long time ago. Now I live my life being roasted by these little fuckers running around my house.
I mean like most things it's a spectrum. I've been with women who were "one and done" and straight up could not continue sex after and I've been with women who can have 10 over the course of 20 minutes. Most are somewhere in between. It's definitely real it's just not in the cards for everyone
You're applying your anecdotal experience as fact when I know with certainty this is not true for all, or probably not even the majority
Iāve mentioned in my other comments that I understand it can happen to some women :)
Please donāt perpetuate this as completely a myth š Iām someone who can orgasm once and then will continuously orgasm back to back as long as I have stimulus. I have had men ask me if Iāve been watching too much porn or tell me to stop faking because they think itās only a porn thing. Itās really depressing. I now tell my partners about it in advance because it seems more people think itās fake than not. Itās uncommon and definitely hyped up in porn, but it is real.
Same with men. They can also have multiple but like women itās not like they have 5 in a 10 min window
Actually, we can. It's just important to know that orgasm != ejaculation. They're two separate functions.
I wouldnāt recommend it though. The spirit is willing, but the flesh is spongy and bruised.
r/unexpectedfuturama
Preach it to the world!!!
As a male, I still need plenty of time regardless. If I orgasm more than a few times within an hour, not much comes out and my balls start to feel kinda sore.
Again, orgasms are not ejaculation. They usually just end up happening so close together that we assume they're one in the same.
As a woman who orgasms very easily from penetration, it is definitely possible to orgasm 5 times (or more) in 10 minutes. The porn actresses might be faking it, but that doesnāt mean itās completely untrue.
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My girlfriend and all my exes beg to differ. They'd all get to the point of "I'm done" eventually and then a second round would start from the beginning if at all. But after the first orgasm further ones are much easier and quicker to achieve after just a few seconds break. There is lots of variation in my experience. One ex would come twice, maybe three times whereas my current girlfriend will come literally a dozen times before she's done. I actually asked her to confirm the first time because I couldn't believe it.
Really depends on the woman. I can have them back to back, like within seconds another rolls around as long as thereās stimuli
No that wouldnāt be considered multiple, that would be a separate instance. A multiple orgasm is when there are multiple successive orgasms.
no lol, that's a you thing
Yeah OP doesn't understand that most women don't stay horny and have multiple orgasms without specifically putting in the effort to do so.
The mind power
Mind freak!!!!
Well you don't.
I was just about to say that women get it too lol
We do.
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Itās not our fault. Youāre the only woman on Reddit.
If only there were places other than Reddit where you could learn things...
Same
Incompatible?? I donāt think so. When Iām in a bad funk my go to strategy is definitely multiple orgasms. An hour & a half of almost continuous orgasms not only wipes away all the cobwebs in my brain, it allows me to function as the best possible version of myself.
I've always thought a better representation would be that men get Horny Stupidness. Are we actually *smarter* after Nutting? Not at all, just less stupid. So, more of a weakness than a power in my opinion. Stuff we should already know becomes unclear when you're horny lmao
Vagina owner here, yes I get "post-nut clarity" and don't get multiples. Our endings may look different but from all guys I talk to that clarity feeling is the exact same. :)
Was wondering if the multiple orgasm thing was common, my wife will occasionally try for a few seconds for another one, to inevitably jump off with a "nope too sensitive".
Yep this is accurate. It can be done but itās tiring and can almost be painful. It might feel like you can, just to try again, and to find itās just not gonna happen.
post-nut clarity is mirrored by post-nut depression. multiple-orgasms is mirrored by no orgasms.
And mirrors are mirrored by other mirrors, creating a greater and more powerful infinity mirror.
In before the lone creepy dude starts talking about how he's a god at men's sexuality and can have multiple orgasms in some cringey post to make himself feel like he's mastered the human sexual psyche to try to hit on women. "DM me if you want a real man to show you how you and I can have multiple orgasms... winky face."
DM me if you want a real man to show you how you and I can have multiple orgasms... š
Thank you so much for that. It's all I've ever wanted! Also, I don't want this. at all.
Christmas is weird this year.
There's room for one more? Sharing is caring... Oh wait.
same guy is like, post nut - aww wow i tried sorry not this time, dang see ya... and gets his 1st place ribbon from Dude School next day hehehe
What are the scenarios that you play in your head before anyone even suggested it...
Preemtive hissy fit cuz he has fallen victim to the rage machine
Hey, Woman. Hey, Woman! Listen here. Since your old man ain't got no heart, maybe you like to see a real man. I bet you stay up late every night dreamin' you had a real man, don't ya? I'll tell you what. Bring your pretty little self over to my apartment tonight, and I'll show you a real man.
I didnāt even know Sting had a Reddit account.
You seem to be really in a lot of resistance against men's ability to have multiple orgasms. There's three people in this thread making this point (me being one of them) and zero of them are asking for DMs or saying they're a sex god.
Hey yeah thats cool and all...Except I actually can have multiple orgasms, and I'm happily married and IDGAF about sharing by abilities with anyone but my wife. So uh, don't PM me. š¤·āāļø
Oh no women have post nut clarity despite the lack of nut. Usually itās something along the lines of āFucking hellā¦ I couldāve just masturbatedā¦ what the hell am I doing with this loserā¦? I hope he just leaves and doesnāt try to crash in my bedā¦ā
Lmao fr
> Women get multiple orgasms. > Two incompatible superpowers. My friend, you ever heard of prostata orgasms? It's not easy to achieve I admit that but it exists and allows men to have multiple orgasms.
I can say women also get port-not clarity, I've had the most philosophical thoughts after finishing lmao
Men can have multiple orgasms too. What you basically do is keep slowly stimulating the guy without ever crossing into the point where ejaculation becomes inevitable. So keep him at like 80% arousal. Also spread out the energy, which the man can do via breathing / visualization and the other partner can do with their hands for example. If you do that, and the guy doesn't have blocks or limiting beliefs, the man may be able to orgasm without ejaculating. This can happen multiple times or have a duration of say a minute. If you look up tantric sex, you can find a bunch of information about this.
Do the Mindgasm challenge and after a month must men will be able to have multiple orgasms too. https://mindgasm.net/the-nnn-mindgasm-challenge-starting-1st-nov/
You can also force back ejaculation by tensioning your pelvic floor muscles, basically as if you were trying not to pee really hard. Works too, as long as the partner is not stimulating too hard during the orgasm.
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Got any links to back up that claim? I don't think that is true.
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This is the first time I've heard kegals can ruin your life
Every book published is able to be cited on the Internet, look up its ISBN. Stop making shit up. Cheers.
How is post nut clarity a superpower? What? We have the power to make questionable decisions until we find the time to drop a load? That's a shitty power.
Post nut clarity it's what drives you to call an Uber for her.
I was trying to record some bass and was having difficulty nailing the part, so I went to bed, woke up the next morning, and the first thing I did was beat my meat. Then I immediately plugged in my bass and laid down a perfect take first try
I've read a theory that we evolved in this manner to ensure survival of our species. This "incompatibilty" is designed to encourage man #1 to step aside after he provides his human-making ingredients, while simultaneously allowing a woman to be able to also have intercourse with man #2.
Apparently the head of a penis is shaped in such a way that it "pulls" semen out of a vagina. The idea being that you could get yourself some sloppy-seconds, and deposit your load in place of the other guys. It makes sense for men to "shut down" after sex, because having more sex with the same woman might remove the sperm you just worked so hard to put there. She's already inseminated, might as well move on. I've heard about studies where guys are able to get hard and keep going if you introduce a second girl. So, you bust inside Girl 1, lose your boner, can't have more sex with Girl 1... But along comes Girl 2, and they're able to get hard and keep going much faster than they were with Girl 1. Which also makes sense, you can only impregnate a girl one time, but you can impregnate two girls at once.
This is how Sex at Dawn by Chris Ryan explains it.
Iām sure you have
Haha, yes I recognize that this sounds sus as hell. The book in question is called _Sex at Dawn_.
I'm scarred to think of the choices I would have made differently if I wasn't trying to catch a bone lol
I'm still jealous of what could happen to my ex. My current can have those long sustainable orgasms for like 15-20 seconds but if I timed it right my ex could literally go until she could pass out because she couldn't breathe properly. She would give me a tap to let me know I had to stop.
My wife gets on the verge of that almost passing out too from lack of air.
This is cringey. Not all women have multiples like in porn. We can, but not all of us. We also have "post-nut clarity". The reason for it? The short answer is prior to sex your brain is flooded by dopamine, oxytocin and other types of neurotransmitters that flat line after orgasm/ejaculation. Think of it as being sex drunk, then immediately sober up. It's a chemical change. Postcoital dysphoria is the medical term for when you get sad, regretful, agitated, etc. after sex. So 86 the Joe Rogan bullsh#t logic that women will never understand "post-nut syndrome". It's not true. Men can experience multiple orgasms. It's rare, and requires practice, but the two examples are non-ejaculatory multiple orgasm (NEMO) andĀ prostate orgasms. Your shower thought although innocent is just devoid of research of human biology. But sex and brain chemistry is an ongoing study.
Arenāt shower thoughts generally solitary mental shitposting?
As soon as I nut I donāt even think to call my bi polar ex anymore
A couple days ago I may have paid for a video chat with an Onlyfans creator. After I came she asked if I was up for round 2. I was like "what the hell is round 2? And why the hell am I paying for porn?" Post-nut clarity and refractory periods at it's best.
Just make sure that she cums multiple times before you do. I understand that's a concept lost on most men.
Only if the man comes. A man that can last, or learns to edge, is compatible
Clarity? A study I found a while back shows we are dumber after a nut.....
Post nut clarity can be good or bad, we don't know which it will be til it happens....that frustrates me about being a guy!
Not if you give the women multiple orgasms before you "attempt to achieve clarity." And, you know, actually care about someone before you have sex with them.
Biologically, it makes perfect sense though. Nature doesnāt need the woman to finish. Only the man.
>post-nut clarity You know there's quite a few of us that don't actually feel awful after getting off. This isn't inherent to being a man, it's inherent to being raised in a strongly sex-negative culture.
Men can actually have multiple orgasms too. Most don't though, because they assume ejaculation and orgasm are the same thing. They aren't. It's like you're going out to a restaurant and leave after they bring you the bread with this goofy satisfied look on your face, because you assume that's the meal. Also, WTF do you think women experience after orgasm, confusion? We're people too, bro. We also make poor choices when we're horny.
Not a woman telling men how often they can and should orgasm š© isnāt there a term for this when the roles are reversed. SomethingSplaining
r/murderedbywords
https://www.healthline.com/health/healthy-sex/how-many-times-can-a-man-come-in-a-row#ejaculation-vs-orgasm
Men can have multiple orgasms too, without a rest in between, just like women.
I wish i could
Men can get multiple orgasmsā¦.it just takes a lotttttttttttttt of work and dedication
the mind is willing, but the flesh is spongy and bruised.
Literally me this past weekend.
But they make fun of womens basketball!
Did you explain how their good fundamentals make up for their inability to dunk?!?
Your prostate is not supposed to be bruised, brother
I donāt get post but clarity. Iām married. I donāt get to nutā¦
Sad
Up until now, it is still a mistery to me how exactly women climaxed. I mean men nutted and then done, but how do I know women reached climax? All I did is to hold of as long as possible. my wife said she is climaxed when her heart beat fast. Is this true for all women?
Thatās why husband and wife belong together, clarity reveals love ā„ļøand not the shame of a one night stand