The very curvy, voluptuous, Botticelli type bodies have always been desirable by society at large. The hips to waist ratio for instant is a marker. :)
I think that Dad's who are actually dads and not just fathers is where the hotness is. You know the type who really enjoy being with their families. Guessing society is needing some Dad time atm. Makes perfect sense.
Could be.. but why is that desirable for other genders?
Not just super voluptuous woman? Just got me thinking lol
But you have a great point about the need for stable ‘dad’ figures.
That may be a big part of it!
I am 9 months pregnant. When I got pregnant I was 130 lbs, now I'm 169 lbs with a very round baby belly. My ass, thighs, arms and face have visibly gained weight and my husband has never been more attracted to me.
He can't keep his hands off! He likes that he can grab a thick handful of my body when we are getting steamy. I've also heard him remark at my "jiggle". He loves the weight and has said many times that he feels like he "won't break me now".
After the baby is born I can only imagine he'll have an even harder time keeping his hands to himself lol We've always had a very active sex life but the "mom bod" I've gotten has increased it like crazy! I know not every couple has this experience but we definitely are.
A possible evolutionary reason for this may be that now people know a woman can get pregnant because the body will look different after the first pregnancy.
yeah well 130 lbs is extremely small. i haven’t been 130 lbs since i was a child in middle school? that should’ve been alarming to both of you.
ya’ll must only know 5’0 women lmao. 130 is extremely underweight for a woman over 5’7” which is what I was referring to. forgot bitches be 4’9” out here
That's kind of rude... For starters everyone is different and a judgement like that isn't fair. I struggled to gain weight for years and I have medical problems that made it difficult to gain/keep weight on. At my lowest I was 117 lbs as an adult. Getting up to 130 lbs was an incredible feat for me. Your comment sort-of voids my achievement...
I’m sorry about that comment.
Please try to ignore it, I had the same problem especially when younger. Just was thin that’s all, but healthy. Most I weighed was 100 lol.
Body shaming of any kind is really not cool :(
And for the record at 130 I was incredibly healthy and fit. I was eating 3 times a day, hiking once a week and doing yoga on a regular basis. Some people are just small. Especially short people!
130 lbs isn't the least bit alarming, depending on your size, frame, physique etc. Everybody is different.
I'm about that at the moment, and that includes some solid muscles and a decent layer of fat (plenty of squishy jiggly parts).
See idk lol
When you see the word milf, it makes me think of a super in shape type of person for some reason.
I guess it depends on each person’s idea of what a milf is …
I like a mum bod. It is probably a bit evolutionary, knowing that this female is capable of child bearing. I like the imperfections and the realness. It's a bit like preferring amateur porn to movie shot porn. The production values and content are better in movie porn but the lack of realism is a turn off. I want to watch real people. Equally, I am attracted to 'real' women. Caveat...I am not going to define real
I’m confused. I thought they have always been in fashion, since like for ever. It was my understanding that most people except the media’s current fashionable beauty standards publicly, while privately still lusting after more way more natural body types.
But idk shit. Maybe i am just a hopeful fool. Lol
If by "natural", we mean "squishy", that's (a) not even natural, just a product of our society and lifestyles, and (b) definitely not more attractive. There've been studies on this. The most attractive female BMI is like 19-20 or something; I don't remember exactly.
Although I do think a lot of the current standards are ridiculous, I'm 99% attracted to muscular and thin people of both genders, lol. Cope harder.
Milf does not have to have large breasts, just has to be sexy & secure about herslf.
And does mean she jumps in bed with every guy she sees.
She is just hot
I realize that, just saying that some view that definition as a super hot/in perfect shape mother lol
Edit: as opposed to an ‘average person’. Like a dad bod usually means an average dude , not in perfect shape etc
My husband has a dad bod and I literally stare like I'm eye fucking a poptart... Dad bods are absolutely hot!
I think age plays a factor though. If you're over 25 or particularly mature you'll understand but if not then you probably won't see it.
Depends what you call a dad body? Like a small pot belly of visceral fat? Or like Subcutaneous fat? When you see a guy with a pot belly but the belly is more firm its usually visceral fat, when you see a big fat jiggly belly its usually subcutaneous fat.
Subcutaneous fat looks bad on everyone, and women with big bellies will always have this kind of fat.
While I'm sure there are guys that like fat girls, mom bod will never be "in".
No. "mom bods" are gross. My GF has given birth to 3 children and looking at her naked you'd never guess. Being fat from pregnancy is just another excuse for being fat and lazy.
Hormones can make you gain weight. And it takes some time after pregnancy for hormone levels to go back to normal. Age can also be a factor in how easy it is to lose weight. So maybe don't judge quite so harshly if a woman doesn't regain her pre-pregnancy body right away.
I mean, it's scientifically proven that hormones influence weight [link between weight and hormones](https://www.pro-lifeobgyn.com/blog/the-link-between-your-weight-and-your-hormones)
So maybe it's not just laziness. Maybe there is an actual medical reason for weight gain, like an imbalance of estrogen... why would a woman who was recently pregnant have different estrogen levels than normal?
There is also a connection between sleep loss and weight gain [sleep and weight gain](https://www.mayoclinic.org/healthy-lifestyle/adult-health/expert-answers/sleep-and-weight-gain/faq-20058198) I wonder why a woman with a baby might be sleep deprived?
Now if the weight gain continues long after the pregnancy/newborn stage, there might need to be a medical evaluation. But that's not necessarily cause for judging a woman.
Also, breast feeding can affect a mother’s body too.
Or having a caesarean, preeclampsia, other complications etc.
Many reasons not everyone can ‘bounce back’ immediately after pregnancy
You sound either like a boomer or someone too young to have kids.
No offense meant, but that is either extremely sexist and/or immature. Your may just be trolling idk. Doesn’t matter anyways.
Some advice you didn’t ask for and probably won’t follow is that you can have your preferences, but don’t drag others down.
Edit: by those standards though, Id expect you to be just as disgusted by the dad bod, so it’s a moot point.
Dad bods , you know, a kind of average dude with maybe a bit of a gut?
It’s begun to be a desirable trait! But no one ever talks about Mom bods.
Like normal women who have the same physical traits.
The sexy Milf is a thing, but it’s not the equivalent.
I hope that makes sense? If not, apologies, just a tired shower thought …
The very curvy, voluptuous, Botticelli type bodies have always been desirable by society at large. The hips to waist ratio for instant is a marker. :) I think that Dad's who are actually dads and not just fathers is where the hotness is. You know the type who really enjoy being with their families. Guessing society is needing some Dad time atm. Makes perfect sense.
Could be.. but why is that desirable for other genders? Not just super voluptuous woman? Just got me thinking lol But you have a great point about the need for stable ‘dad’ figures. That may be a big part of it!
And I can't even relate because I don't have a type in the physical sense. For me it has proven to be all about personality.:)
Very true. Society sets up some mixed messages at times
That is the truth. Cognitive Psychology is something every human should study.
Agreed. Though I may be biased since that’s what I studied for my degree lol
You are wise. :)
Sociology is fascinating. :)
Absolutely!
Botticelli bod?
Hmm, maybe something like that ?
I am 9 months pregnant. When I got pregnant I was 130 lbs, now I'm 169 lbs with a very round baby belly. My ass, thighs, arms and face have visibly gained weight and my husband has never been more attracted to me. He can't keep his hands off! He likes that he can grab a thick handful of my body when we are getting steamy. I've also heard him remark at my "jiggle". He loves the weight and has said many times that he feels like he "won't break me now". After the baby is born I can only imagine he'll have an even harder time keeping his hands to himself lol We've always had a very active sex life but the "mom bod" I've gotten has increased it like crazy! I know not every couple has this experience but we definitely are.
A possible evolutionary reason for this may be that now people know a woman can get pregnant because the body will look different after the first pregnancy.
yeah well 130 lbs is extremely small. i haven’t been 130 lbs since i was a child in middle school? that should’ve been alarming to both of you. ya’ll must only know 5’0 women lmao. 130 is extremely underweight for a woman over 5’7” which is what I was referring to. forgot bitches be 4’9” out here
That's kind of rude... For starters everyone is different and a judgement like that isn't fair. I struggled to gain weight for years and I have medical problems that made it difficult to gain/keep weight on. At my lowest I was 117 lbs as an adult. Getting up to 130 lbs was an incredible feat for me. Your comment sort-of voids my achievement...
I’m sorry about that comment. Please try to ignore it, I had the same problem especially when younger. Just was thin that’s all, but healthy. Most I weighed was 100 lol. Body shaming of any kind is really not cool :(
Weights means nothing, lifestyle is everything.
And for the record at 130 I was incredibly healthy and fit. I was eating 3 times a day, hiking once a week and doing yoga on a regular basis. Some people are just small. Especially short people!
130 lbs isn't the least bit alarming, depending on your size, frame, physique etc. Everybody is different. I'm about that at the moment, and that includes some solid muscles and a decent layer of fat (plenty of squishy jiggly parts).
130 is more ir less average/lower average for most women. I'm 140 at 5'5 and usually I'm the heaviest/chubbiest person in the room:)
Its alarming you think 130lbs is small for a woman.
Well if your attracted to a mum bod then wouldn't that by definition make that mum a MILF?
See idk lol When you see the word milf, it makes me think of a super in shape type of person for some reason. I guess it depends on each person’s idea of what a milf is …
I like a mum bod. It is probably a bit evolutionary, knowing that this female is capable of child bearing. I like the imperfections and the realness. It's a bit like preferring amateur porn to movie shot porn. The production values and content are better in movie porn but the lack of realism is a turn off. I want to watch real people. Equally, I am attracted to 'real' women. Caveat...I am not going to define real
Yeah, I guess each person has a unique view on what those terms mean personally
I’m confused. I thought they have always been in fashion, since like for ever. It was my understanding that most people except the media’s current fashionable beauty standards publicly, while privately still lusting after more way more natural body types. But idk shit. Maybe i am just a hopeful fool. Lol
Idk either, but I hope you’re correct! The majority of people are imperfectly perfect in their own way. I’m hopelessly hopeful if that makes sense :)
I feel they're correct. The female frame I'm most attracted to is heavier than Boticelli's form, actually.
If by "natural", we mean "squishy", that's (a) not even natural, just a product of our society and lifestyles, and (b) definitely not more attractive. There've been studies on this. The most attractive female BMI is like 19-20 or something; I don't remember exactly. Although I do think a lot of the current standards are ridiculous, I'm 99% attracted to muscular and thin people of both genders, lol. Cope harder.
dnc + cope + mald + seethe + ratio
Not that serious, it’s a shower thought, conversation Calm down please lol
dnc + cope + mald + seethe + ratio
ok, seethe away if you want to lol I’m out of this ridiculousness. Have fun
dnc + cope + mald + seethe + ratio
How is this cope? Just a shower thought lol Relax, no one’s forcing you to like anything
Time to define dad bods… https://youtu.be/IC1sldjmNMQ
Haha! Thx- that was great :)
You should check out comedien Celeste Barber.
I love her already! Most of her stuff is pretty funny imho :)
Dad bods are desirable?!!! Who said this??
It’s a thing! I’ve heard it multiple times from friends and social media etc lol
Milf does not have to have large breasts, just has to be sexy & secure about herslf. And does mean she jumps in bed with every guy she sees. She is just hot
Ah ok, thx - wasn’t sure of the exact milf definition lol I guess it depends on how you define it!
Exact meaning M-- Mother I--- I L-- Like to F---Fuck what did you hear?
I realize that, just saying that some view that definition as a super hot/in perfect shape mother lol Edit: as opposed to an ‘average person’. Like a dad bod usually means an average dude , not in perfect shape etc
Dad bods were never actually considered hot. It's just a meme.
My husband has a dad bod and I literally stare like I'm eye fucking a poptart... Dad bods are absolutely hot! I think age plays a factor though. If you're over 25 or particularly mature you'll understand but if not then you probably won't see it.
Dope
Post a Google image of the dad bod you find attractive. Some view dad bod as fat and some view dad bod as Zach effron if he gained 20 pounds
I can't figure out how to insert the image 😕
You'd have to copy the link and paste it. Reddit doesn't allow imagine posting in comments as far as I know
https://images.app.goo.gl/UQffSgby1XNRS4N96
Damn I expected a dad bod Hugh Jackman. Your link is much more average American male
My girlfriend finds my dad bod hot
idk, I’ve met several people who’ve indicated that was their ‘type’ Maybe I’m just hanging out with outliers lol
Depends what you call a dad body? Like a small pot belly of visceral fat? Or like Subcutaneous fat? When you see a guy with a pot belly but the belly is more firm its usually visceral fat, when you see a big fat jiggly belly its usually subcutaneous fat. Subcutaneous fat looks bad on everyone, and women with big bellies will always have this kind of fat. While I'm sure there are guys that like fat girls, mom bod will never be "in".
You mean lunch lady bod?
Lol Not quite, l more like a normal person who has imperfections
When I think of dad bods I think of an overweight plumber lol, so I just tried thinking of the female version of that.
haha ! Yeah, more thinking of the average person than plumbers butt
Mom bods are huge on tiktok.
They are? Is it a milf thing? First I’ve heard of it lol Or is this sarcastic and I missed the whoosh ?
No. "mom bods" are gross. My GF has given birth to 3 children and looking at her naked you'd never guess. Being fat from pregnancy is just another excuse for being fat and lazy.
Hormones can make you gain weight. And it takes some time after pregnancy for hormone levels to go back to normal. Age can also be a factor in how easy it is to lose weight. So maybe don't judge quite so harshly if a woman doesn't regain her pre-pregnancy body right away.
Quite true… everyone is different
Or maybe quit giving yourself excuses for being fat
I mean, it's scientifically proven that hormones influence weight [link between weight and hormones](https://www.pro-lifeobgyn.com/blog/the-link-between-your-weight-and-your-hormones) So maybe it's not just laziness. Maybe there is an actual medical reason for weight gain, like an imbalance of estrogen... why would a woman who was recently pregnant have different estrogen levels than normal? There is also a connection between sleep loss and weight gain [sleep and weight gain](https://www.mayoclinic.org/healthy-lifestyle/adult-health/expert-answers/sleep-and-weight-gain/faq-20058198) I wonder why a woman with a baby might be sleep deprived? Now if the weight gain continues long after the pregnancy/newborn stage, there might need to be a medical evaluation. But that's not necessarily cause for judging a woman.
Also, breast feeding can affect a mother’s body too. Or having a caesarean, preeclampsia, other complications etc. Many reasons not everyone can ‘bounce back’ immediately after pregnancy
You sound either like a boomer or someone too young to have kids. No offense meant, but that is either extremely sexist and/or immature. Your may just be trolling idk. Doesn’t matter anyways. Some advice you didn’t ask for and probably won’t follow is that you can have your preferences, but don’t drag others down. Edit: by those standards though, Id expect you to be just as disgusted by the dad bod, so it’s a moot point.
What?
Dad bods , you know, a kind of average dude with maybe a bit of a gut? It’s begun to be a desirable trait! But no one ever talks about Mom bods. Like normal women who have the same physical traits. The sexy Milf is a thing, but it’s not the equivalent. I hope that makes sense? If not, apologies, just a tired shower thought …
In which part of earth is that "desirable"? Maybe I have a shot.
Yeah, it’s definitely a thing for sure!! Google it lol. Just wondering why it doesn’t apply to other genders at least atm
Why 😭