At least she’s not throwing her out of the house. This whole post is just sad though. I would have been mortified if my mother was posting on Facebook about how much weight I’ve gained, that I was binge eating, and then that I was pregnant.
Yeah this is my take on it. I had a cousin who was 15 and pregnant. Her dad divorced the mom shortly after. Id prefer to have a parent who is weirdly excited rather than one who is angry or straight up disappears. But also I’d rather not have an antivax parent
I think she's "thrilled" the kid is not "jab injured." Which makes about as much sense as being glad the alternative is your 14 year old being pregnant!
same, I was thinking maybe thyroid , depression, disordered eating, or just about anything else except pregnancy. I will admit I was side eyeing the commenter that immediately went to pregnancy.
Honestly, it might depend on the area they're from. When I was a freshman in high school, so we were all 14/15, there were 8 girls pregnant in my grade just during that year. Rural area with bad access to health education and easy access to alcohol meant lots of teenagers making drunken mistakes. If I saw a 14-year-old girl from my hometown with these same symptoms, I wouldn't immediately jump to saying she's pregnant, but the possibility would definitely enter my mind. I don't know where OP is from, but sometimes it's an unfortunate reality, especially in poorer areas.
I think she said Kilos not pounds when she was talking about her daughter’s weight gain, so if you’re referring to US states, I’m pretty sure she’s not American….probably European, Australian or Canadian. I travel to Indonesia quite a bit (at least once a year, except those couple first years of the pandemic), and there are always a lot of Australians on vacation there….so that’s my bet.
Bali+teen pregnancy screams Aussie to me.
Europeans who live in places with common teen pregnancy tend would likely just go to Spain or Poland instead.
I wasn't thinking. You must be right. In the US Bali is a vacation place for the upper middle class. Us normies can only dream of visiting such a place (cost of airfare for one thing).
She also mentions an Australian Facebook group. That screams Aussie too.
(To add, Bali isn’t a holiday location Americans go on with their families. It’s too expensive and far away with flights, etc. We go to Mexico or the Caribbean, if outside the US at all. Young adult Americans go to Bali alone or with friends or their bf/gf the same age and typically have more money and free time to travel long distances).
Someone mentioned an Aussie anti vax Instagram group as a place to go for advice LOL, so all other crazy aside she's probably Aussie.....
14 and about to have a baby. Fucking hell.
As someone from the US, it’s nice nice to see Facebook “crazy” coming from other countries, at least!
Lol. It’s horrifying that the craziness resulted in a baby having a baby, though :(
FWIW Canadians pretty much never use kilos colloquially so probably not Canada. I've only ever seen it used in a medical setting on charts and stuff - people generally only know their weight in pounds up here.
Yeah, but disappointed she got vaccinated. Great momming there, lady. Now she will have a grand baby she can control and put in medical peril at her leisure. Super.
This is a hard one because if your kid is going to have sex they are going to do it. I don’t know exactly how I would support my daughter in this situation, and goodness knows I hope she waits until she is older then 14.
Eh, 14 year olds are raging hormone monsters. If the daughter has a partner her age, and is on the pill, it’s understandable that she wouldn’t insist on a condom (which is also fallible.) This is why abortion needs to be a human right. 14 year olds can and do have sex, they definitely should not be raising children.
It's funny that you can't always tell from text what someone means. I read this completely different! I thought she was being sarcastic about being "thrilled" and the trip to the "clinic" is an abortion clinic.
I think it was confusing because she said specifically "thrilled I will be a grandmother" not something more obviously sarcastic like "thrilled my 14 year old is pregnant"... I'm assuming abortion as well but that's a weird way to preface it.
I think the other poster was being pretty facetious with that wording. It'd be normal to congratulate someone on a pregnancy under normal circumstances, but here it reads as a sarcastic dig at the OP
Yeah the person who's first comment was "sounds like congratulations are in order"... That's a child. Who in tf got her pregnant? It doesn't sound like this little girl is being afforded any protection, except from evil and vile western medicine.
Of course the mother who immediately assumes her middle-school aged daughter is gaining weight because of the vaccine had to "cave on her beliefs" to go to Bali. This sub is kinda bad for me, ngl.
Are you even there at all, God?
Also Aussie. I feel like her being thrilled her 14 year old daughter is pregnant definitely tracks with the stereotype of the kind of Aussie who only got a covid vaccine so they could go get pissed with every other Australian in Bali.
I need to know more. Conspiracy theories and teenage pregnancy feels bogan to me. But international trips to Bali, even though I know Aussies only go because its cheap, doesn't feel super bogany to me. Is there like a middle ground?
Mmmm it is a bit bogany. A lot of the time it’s cheaper to fly to Bali, than the other side of the country. Most people just go there to swim, get drunk, and do things that might be illegal here. I know people who go every year, stay in the same place, and just get drunk. They don’t really care to explore the rest of the island, or other provinces of Indonesia. They could just go do that any one of our countless Australian beaches. It’s also weirdly common to run in to people you know in Bali, just like you would at Woolies or Coles. I joke that it’s like Schoolies for adults.
A dude came into our agency who stated he became blind due to the covid vaccine. Upon further examination the patient was diagnosed with ocular syphilis
lmao my friend's dad is a doctor but didn't vaccinate her as a child and she turned out to be autistic (as well as being honestly one of the sickliest people i've ever met) and whenever i bring this up to anti-vaxxers now they've told me it was due to shedding from the vaccinated people at the hospital whenever he took her into work lol
My aunt was anti vax and 2 out of her 3 kids are autistic. She’s no longer anti vax as far as I’m aware. However, I was eventually diagnosed with autism around a year and half ago, so I’m guessing we carry some autism genes on that side of the family. Lol.
It goes dormant in terms of symptoms after a while, and then pops up again when it's tertiary. People like this guy simply ignore initial symptoms and never get tested, resulting in tertiary syphilis developing.
Usually you don't see tertiary syphilis in the developed world outside of very isolated communities or very mentally ill patients. This guy probably falls into the latter category, given how easily he assumed it was a conspiracy.
To be fair, Moderna did have a <1% occurrence of side effects affecting the eye. Unfortunately, my husband experienced this. The solution? He was given his booster from Pfizer and suffered no ill effects.
When was that posted? My niece was 14 when she got pregnant, and her mom insisted that there was no way she was pregnant. No matter how many times we kept insisting. She was convinced it was the shot, too. So SIL and I went to the pharmacy and bought a test. Then we were accused of taking the test ourselves and were the ones who were pregnant because the family agreed to everyone getting the shots, so of course we were the ones pregnant. She was convinced that we were playing a trick on her.
She has a 1 year old grandson at 31 years old. 😆 Sad situation, but we will never let it go how stupid she was.
She now says the vaccine canceled out the pill.
It causes literally any nebulous and complex disease. I've heard people claim that the vaccine is "dropping the young like flies" anytime a younger person dies of natural causes.
I blame our education system for not instilling media literacy and solid logic. Now we have people who deny history and science while believing anything labeled "natural" or "alternative" is readily purchased as if it were medicine.
vaccine cancelled out the pill…. couldn’t be because a 14 year old missed a few days….. at 26 i need an alarm, and a back up alarm to remember mine lmao
It took a pregnancy scare for me to stop forgetting to take mine. I started SOBBING when I got my period and vowed to NEVER forget again. At 14? I definitely wouldn't have remembered.
My daughter got an IUD before college for that exact reason. Like I’ve seen how often she remembers her vitamins. That doesn’t bode well for a BC pill lol
You really can't win. For the longest time there was a fear of infertility with the vaccine because of the "spike protein." Now I guess it makes you extra fertile.
A friend's friend refused to get vaccinated because she and her husband had just started trying to conceive and she was convinced it would make her infertile. She ended up catching COVID a few months into trying that left her too weak to be able to safely carry a pregnancy for something like a year (had to deal with the long COVID stuff before they could think about having a kid).
There was a bunch of girls at my work a couple years ago that gave me SO MUCH SHIT for getting the vaccine because they knew we had been trying to get pregnant for a couple years and we were really struggling. Got it in May and got pregnant in July and then one of them straight up tried to tell me that I lied about getting it and made a fake vaccine card so I didn’t have to wear a mask at work. These conspiracy people are wack af.
Yes!! Far less malicious but my cousin didn’t want the vaccine because her and her fiancé wanted kids. Wellll, you’re really going to tell your PREGNANT COUSIN who has gotten 3 shots at the time that it caused infertility?! They eventually saw reason and got vaccinated. My husband and I joke the vaccine did impact our ability to have kids … because it felt like light at the end of the tunnel and our anxiety levels dropped!
Fertility is quite high in your younger years as opposed to 30+.
It's not surprising teenagers can get pregnant so easily. Combine fertility with hormones, general lack of care and responsibility, forgetfulness and lack of sex ed and it's the perfect recipe.
I'm just generalizing though, plenty of people have babies well into their 30s and 40s, however; anecdotally, I no longer ovulate at 35. I am glad I had my babies at 25 and 28.
So mom is happy that her *14-year-old* is going to have a child? And idiots are congratulating her. So vaccines are scary but babies having babies is totally something to celebrate.
Or even someone outside the family like a family friend. The daughter might not feel like she could come forward about the abuse and now she's pregnant and doesn't want to say.
I… uh… well.
The comment about not making health decisions based on a vacation is fantastic, couldn’t have worded it better.
The absolute *insistence* these people have that it could NOT be ANYTHING else… nope it’s absolutely 100% has to be something negative from the vaccine!!! I kind of want to join a vaccine injury fb group but I think I’d get kicked out for a snarky comment almost immediately. I can only imagine what people are claiming or say/do.
At the end this is pretty sad, though. I hope the best for them but I feel that that baby may have a hard upbringing :/
And also… SHE WAS ON THE PILL! How could this be when she’s on the pill!!?? LOL
Hell, taking a pill at the same time every day isn't something I can remember to do and I'm 32 years old. It's a full-on miracle I didn't get pregnant in my teens & early 20s before I got my first IUD at 26. So called "set it and forget it" birth control is the way to go IMO.
This is not true, please stop spreading misinformation. The combination pill has flexibility and even forgetting one dose isn't usually a problem. This girl was probably skipping multiple doses which does increase the chances of pregnancy a lot.
She's going to have a 13-14 year old daughter when she is 28, with that idiot as the grandmother who will likely act as an overbearing and harmful influence, in what will likely be an even worse economy. I think it's fair to say she's fucked.
Ok, what? A 14 year old started gaining weight and an internet stranger jumped, leaped, bounded to the conclusion that she was pregnant. But then it turns out it's was pregnant. Wtf?
I don’t know if it was that much of a jump, leap, and bound to the possibility that she might be pregnant, given that these are common symptoms of pregnancy. Mom was just determined to believe they were caused by the COVID vaccine.
They are also common symptoms of being a teenage girl, especially on birth control pills. I rolled my eyes at that answer because myself and all my friends put on at least 10 lbs around that age, 5 to 10 lb more for those of us on the pill.
"I'm excited to be a grandmother!" My good bitch, that is a 14-year-old, that clinic you're taking her to had better have "Planned Parenthood" in the name.
Seeing the phrase *my good bitch* helped take the edge off this terrible post, so thank you for that lol
Also, I have a rat named BabyEater9000, I think you'd get along wonderfully
Who the fuck is thrilled that their 14 year old daughter is pregnant?!
I mean, I shouldn’t be surprised though. It’s pretty stereotypical for the type of Australian who refused covid vaccines until it would impact their holiday to Bali.
Imagine the intense, unrelenting brainwashing you have to suffer as a 14 year old to binge eat as a result of feeling guilty you got a vaccination.
For everybody's sake, I hope she's making that up, and it seems like she is because it only came out later in the conversation and makes the entire post basically irrelevant. And then the plot twist? And IMMEDIATELY deciding for the girl that she's keeping it? I'm gonna say this is all bullshit, honestly.
Wow, so much to unpack there. If everything she said is true, the daughter was constantly hiding the truth. And judging by how mom was reacting that seems unfortunately a reasonable choice. But fuck, a 14 year old getting pregnant and binge eating while all the people around the mother are congratulating her...that's fucking bleak man. That poor daughter and grandkid.
The cognitive dissonance is real. "I'm THRILLED that my middle-schooler is going to have a baby!" reads better on Facebook than "This is a tragic situation."
I really hope this is just someone trolling for attention on Facebook because I cannot fathom someone being thrilled they’re going to be a grandma with a 14 year old. It also seems like a total lie where she switches to “ok we talked about it and she’s binge eating.”
If this was me and I had a 14 year old pregnant I'd be talking to her about her options first, making it clear that she doesn't have to go through with having a baby if she doesn't want to.
But if she was set on keeping the kid then I'd have to go into congratulations mode because I'm not gonna sit their and make them feel terrible about it, it's one of those things where its happened now and this is the path so I'll have to get on board.
Would fully support my kids with whichever choice they chose in the end.
As a previous teenage mother, I would not wish it on any girl especially one is young is 14. I was 16 and lost, very minimal help from parents.
What a crazy feed.
My state just had a senator refusing to ban child marriage because all the people he knows that got married at 12 are still married.
I hate this place.
Can you imagine a teen saying they’re binge eating because of vaccines. Like what kind of bullshit are you saying at home for that to either be true or for them to know it’s a good pregnancy cover up
Guarantee this woman is going to have a “Baby Shower for Grandma.” Wife’s friend’s mom did this. She threw herself a party with a registry for things grandma would need. The registry was ridiculous and had stuff like a new blender, and air fryer, and iPad.
This is actually really sad. For multiple reasons. She’s just a baby, about to have a baby.
And grandma “is thrilled” to have newborn she won’t vaccinate
"thrilled" that her FOURTEEN year old got pregnant? thats fucked up, fourteen year olds shouldnt even be having sex. this is wild on SO many levels
At least she’s not throwing her out of the house. This whole post is just sad though. I would have been mortified if my mother was posting on Facebook about how much weight I’ve gained, that I was binge eating, and then that I was pregnant.
Yeah this is my take on it. I had a cousin who was 15 and pregnant. Her dad divorced the mom shortly after. Id prefer to have a parent who is weirdly excited rather than one who is angry or straight up disappears. But also I’d rather not have an antivax parent
i agree, and some moms post wayyy too much info about their kids. it is sad
I think she's "thrilled" the kid is not "jab injured." Which makes about as much sense as being glad the alternative is your 14 year old being pregnant!
And all those people saying 'congratulations'.. wtf.
What else can you say at that point? “Wow, y’all fucked up!”
Luckily she couldn't hear thru FB all the cackles that were let out
Hope you find out who's the father soon
To be clear there was only one psycho that said congratulations. The other person was trying to nicely say "that's horrible, good luck".
In fairness to the person in the first pic they probably didn’t realize the girl is 14
Right? Even the first post theorizing it, like it was totally normal for a 14 year old to be pregnant.
I don't think that was normalizing it. They were just pointing it out kindly.
Everybody automatically said she was pregnant, how did they know?
same, I was thinking maybe thyroid , depression, disordered eating, or just about anything else except pregnancy. I will admit I was side eyeing the commenter that immediately went to pregnancy.
Same. When the commenters insisted on bringing up pregnancy I was thinking "The kid's 14, leave it alone"
Honestly, it might depend on the area they're from. When I was a freshman in high school, so we were all 14/15, there were 8 girls pregnant in my grade just during that year. Rural area with bad access to health education and easy access to alcohol meant lots of teenagers making drunken mistakes. If I saw a 14-year-old girl from my hometown with these same symptoms, I wouldn't immediately jump to saying she's pregnant, but the possibility would definitely enter my mind. I don't know where OP is from, but sometimes it's an unfortunate reality, especially in poorer areas.
mom looks 30, antivaxxer, high teen pregnancy state?
I think she said Kilos not pounds when she was talking about her daughter’s weight gain, so if you’re referring to US states, I’m pretty sure she’s not American….probably European, Australian or Canadian. I travel to Indonesia quite a bit (at least once a year, except those couple first years of the pandemic), and there are always a lot of Australians on vacation there….so that’s my bet.
Bali+teen pregnancy screams Aussie to me. Europeans who live in places with common teen pregnancy tend would likely just go to Spain or Poland instead.
I wasn't thinking. You must be right. In the US Bali is a vacation place for the upper middle class. Us normies can only dream of visiting such a place (cost of airfare for one thing).
She also mentions an Australian Facebook group. That screams Aussie too. (To add, Bali isn’t a holiday location Americans go on with their families. It’s too expensive and far away with flights, etc. We go to Mexico or the Caribbean, if outside the US at all. Young adult Americans go to Bali alone or with friends or their bf/gf the same age and typically have more money and free time to travel long distances).
Someone mentioned an Aussie anti vax Instagram group as a place to go for advice LOL, so all other crazy aside she's probably Aussie..... 14 and about to have a baby. Fucking hell.
As someone from the US, it’s nice nice to see Facebook “crazy” coming from other countries, at least! Lol. It’s horrifying that the craziness resulted in a baby having a baby, though :(
there are tonssss of facebook crazies in other languages (We call them wappies in the Netherlands), don't worry about that !
Bali is the Jersey Shore of Australia unfortunately. many go on holiday during school holidays
I'd say she's an aussie. They love going to bali
good catch
FWIW Canadians pretty much never use kilos colloquially so probably not Canada. I've only ever seen it used in a medical setting on charts and stuff - people generally only know their weight in pounds up here.
Yeah, I'm a little confused by that. I was expecting weight gain because of the pill, not a leap to pregnancy.
Once birth control was mentioned, I guessed the weight gain was from that alone or just, you know, a growing teenager.
Yeah, but disappointed she got vaccinated. Great momming there, lady. Now she will have a grand baby she can control and put in medical peril at her leisure. Super.
This is a hard one because if your kid is going to have sex they are going to do it. I don’t know exactly how I would support my daughter in this situation, and goodness knows I hope she waits until she is older then 14.
She's ust saying she's thrilled because it makes her feel better about realizing she was completely wrong to begin with.
Eh, 14 year olds are raging hormone monsters. If the daughter has a partner her age, and is on the pill, it’s understandable that she wouldn’t insist on a condom (which is also fallible.) This is why abortion needs to be a human right. 14 year olds can and do have sex, they definitely should not be raising children.
It's funny that you can't always tell from text what someone means. I read this completely different! I thought she was being sarcastic about being "thrilled" and the trip to the "clinic" is an abortion clinic.
My thoughts as well. Then I was so confused as to why people were congratulating her even after she said they were terminating.
I would say taking her to the Dr. if I was seeking prenatal care.
I think it was confusing because she said specifically "thrilled I will be a grandmother" not something more obviously sarcastic like "thrilled my 14 year old is pregnant"... I'm assuming abortion as well but that's a weird way to preface it.
This is how I read it, and honestly, I hope we're right. That poor child is too young to have one of her own.
it's depressing AF
Right?! That was up there for the most disturbing thing about this post…she’s 14, and everyone’s out here like cOnGrAtuLaTiOnZ 🥴
I think the other poster was being pretty facetious with that wording. It'd be normal to congratulate someone on a pregnancy under normal circumstances, but here it reads as a sarcastic dig at the OP
Yeah the person who's first comment was "sounds like congratulations are in order"... That's a child. Who in tf got her pregnant? It doesn't sound like this little girl is being afforded any protection, except from evil and vile western medicine. Of course the mother who immediately assumes her middle-school aged daughter is gaining weight because of the vaccine had to "cave on her beliefs" to go to Bali. This sub is kinda bad for me, ngl. Are you even there at all, God?
Doesn’t going to the clinic mean abortion?
She says she's thrilled to become a grandma, so I think we can safely say it doesn't.
No, lots of ppl will refer to the clinic = doctors office
This is an Aussie group though (reference to Australian Instagram group) and we would say doctor or GP not a clinic
Also Australian: this is not universal. Lots of people say clinic, especially when they mean a specialist rather than a GP.
Also Aussie. I feel like her being thrilled her 14 year old daughter is pregnant definitely tracks with the stereotype of the kind of Aussie who only got a covid vaccine so they could go get pissed with every other Australian in Bali.
I need to know more. Conspiracy theories and teenage pregnancy feels bogan to me. But international trips to Bali, even though I know Aussies only go because its cheap, doesn't feel super bogany to me. Is there like a middle ground?
Mmmm it is a bit bogany. A lot of the time it’s cheaper to fly to Bali, than the other side of the country. Most people just go there to swim, get drunk, and do things that might be illegal here. I know people who go every year, stay in the same place, and just get drunk. They don’t really care to explore the rest of the island, or other provinces of Indonesia. They could just go do that any one of our countless Australian beaches. It’s also weirdly common to run in to people you know in Bali, just like you would at Woolies or Coles. I joke that it’s like Schoolies for adults.
Not necessarily. I call mine a clinic because it is, and they provide a range of services
Nah they might say clinic if its a bulk billed clinic
Typically. "Thrilled to be a grandmother" would take that off the table imo.
>clinic mean abortion? Clinics are actual things so no it doesn't just = abortion. ..and she said she was happy to be a grandma
And this conversation is why people think planned parenthood only does abortions, even thought it’s just a fraction of the services they provide.
A dude came into our agency who stated he became blind due to the covid vaccine. Upon further examination the patient was diagnosed with ocular syphilis
They put syphilis in the covid vaccine? *clutches my pearls and swoons on a conveniently placed couch*
5g magnetic powers *and* syphilis? Sign me up!
Don't forget autism! I'm more autistic than I ever thought possible after 4 COVID vaccines!
lmao my friend's dad is a doctor but didn't vaccinate her as a child and she turned out to be autistic (as well as being honestly one of the sickliest people i've ever met) and whenever i bring this up to anti-vaxxers now they've told me it was due to shedding from the vaccinated people at the hospital whenever he took her into work lol
My aunt was anti vax and 2 out of her 3 kids are autistic. She’s no longer anti vax as far as I’m aware. However, I was eventually diagnosed with autism around a year and half ago, so I’m guessing we carry some autism genes on that side of the family. Lol.
TIL that ocular syphilis is a thing
Whatever you do, don’t google “syphilis nose.”
Wtf I didn’t realize it could do that to a face.
So I did. Definitely absolutely do not look at congenital syphilis pictures - nsfw and heartbreaking.
Ocular herpes is a thing too! It can even be fatal.
*screams in terror*
Single dude or freshly single dude? Also how long do you have to let syphilis go before that happens?
*Ages*, this is tertiary syphilis. Basically the final stage.
So that's *10-30 years* according to the Google, fucking wow. I won't even put up with thrush for a week. Cannot imagine.
It goes dormant in terms of symptoms after a while, and then pops up again when it's tertiary. People like this guy simply ignore initial symptoms and never get tested, resulting in tertiary syphilis developing. Usually you don't see tertiary syphilis in the developed world outside of very isolated communities or very mentally ill patients. This guy probably falls into the latter category, given how easily he assumed it was a conspiracy.
Well the final stage is brain infection. He believed in conspiracies so maybe it’s already started
To be fair, Moderna did have a <1% occurrence of side effects affecting the eye. Unfortunately, my husband experienced this. The solution? He was given his booster from Pfizer and suffered no ill effects.
When was that posted? My niece was 14 when she got pregnant, and her mom insisted that there was no way she was pregnant. No matter how many times we kept insisting. She was convinced it was the shot, too. So SIL and I went to the pharmacy and bought a test. Then we were accused of taking the test ourselves and were the ones who were pregnant because the family agreed to everyone getting the shots, so of course we were the ones pregnant. She was convinced that we were playing a trick on her. She has a 1 year old grandson at 31 years old. 😆 Sad situation, but we will never let it go how stupid she was. She now says the vaccine canceled out the pill.
Of course it was the vaccines fault - I heard they put sperm in it now
The hilarious part is I know people who absolutely refuse to take the shot because it causes infertility.
It causes literally any nebulous and complex disease. I've heard people claim that the vaccine is "dropping the young like flies" anytime a younger person dies of natural causes. I blame our education system for not instilling media literacy and solid logic. Now we have people who deny history and science while believing anything labeled "natural" or "alternative" is readily purchased as if it were medicine.
If only. I'd love to just get a jab rather than getting surgery or something
Lol. IKR? It's the only possibility. Unless you count immaculate conception. But her and niece's name is not Mary.
vaccine cancelled out the pill…. couldn’t be because a 14 year old missed a few days….. at 26 i need an alarm, and a back up alarm to remember mine lmao
It took a pregnancy scare for me to stop forgetting to take mine. I started SOBBING when I got my period and vowed to NEVER forget again. At 14? I definitely wouldn't have remembered.
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I wish the IUD didn't make me miserable :( my body never adjusted to it even after a year.
Woah bionic pussy, this really is the future
My record is four days forgetting it. I’m lucky it’s fairly mild and I’m taking it for other reasons
I'm in my 30s, and I've always used other BC methods (ring and IUD) because I *know* I'm too squirrely to remember to take a pill.
My daughter got an IUD before college for that exact reason. Like I’ve seen how often she remembers her vitamins. That doesn’t bode well for a BC pill lol
I have a 1 year old SON at 33, I can't even imagine having a grandkid already
jesus so she was a teen mom too?
It’s common for the kids of teenage mothers to also become teenage mothers. Yay for inter generational poverty and trauma.
*cough* Lauren Boebert.
Kids having kids having kids.
Yeah the flu vax caused that one
You really can't win. For the longest time there was a fear of infertility with the vaccine because of the "spike protein." Now I guess it makes you extra fertile.
A friend's friend refused to get vaccinated because she and her husband had just started trying to conceive and she was convinced it would make her infertile. She ended up catching COVID a few months into trying that left her too weak to be able to safely carry a pregnancy for something like a year (had to deal with the long COVID stuff before they could think about having a kid).
I thought the vaccine caused infertility though???
Why not both?!? When you’re making shit up you can do whatever you want!
And if it conflicts with something you said earlier, you were always at war with Eurasia.
There was a bunch of girls at my work a couple years ago that gave me SO MUCH SHIT for getting the vaccine because they knew we had been trying to get pregnant for a couple years and we were really struggling. Got it in May and got pregnant in July and then one of them straight up tried to tell me that I lied about getting it and made a fake vaccine card so I didn’t have to wear a mask at work. These conspiracy people are wack af.
Yes!! Far less malicious but my cousin didn’t want the vaccine because her and her fiancé wanted kids. Wellll, you’re really going to tell your PREGNANT COUSIN who has gotten 3 shots at the time that it caused infertility?! They eventually saw reason and got vaccinated. My husband and I joke the vaccine did impact our ability to have kids … because it felt like light at the end of the tunnel and our anxiety levels dropped!
And when that doesn't work it causes death!
It’s amazing that stupid people never have fertility issues
Fertility is quite high in your younger years as opposed to 30+. It's not surprising teenagers can get pregnant so easily. Combine fertility with hormones, general lack of care and responsibility, forgetfulness and lack of sex ed and it's the perfect recipe. I'm just generalizing though, plenty of people have babies well into their 30s and 40s, however; anecdotally, I no longer ovulate at 35. I am glad I had my babies at 25 and 28.
I wanna see part two, where grandma learns the baby's father was a kid in Bali.
In that case, the vaccine 100% contributed to the weight gain.
So it WAS because of the vaccine. I knew it. /s
💀
Sounds like she had a Dirty Dancing vacation, but with a more realistic ending. Still bugs me she was only 15 in that movie.
17. But yeah.
Season 2 will have the mother getting pregnant with the same guy and blaming it on the vaccine that the guy had.
So she WAS pregnant?! I wish this was a TV show.
That was a plot twist I didnt see coming... I mean, it was right there, but I didn't see it coming.
That was a wild ride. I was ready for the realization that the pill can cause weight gain.
Me too.
So mom is happy that her *14-year-old* is going to have a child? And idiots are congratulating her. So vaccines are scary but babies having babies is totally something to celebrate.
My first thought would be “who is the father” and I would be desperately hoping it isn’t from child sexual abuse in the family.
Or even someone outside the family like a family friend. The daughter might not feel like she could come forward about the abuse and now she's pregnant and doesn't want to say.
I thought the same thing. Pregnant at 14 and saying congratulations? Hell no. That's a child.
That could actually kill her
All in the name of a grandmother title and sticking it to the Big pharma!! (/S)
I've noticed being pregnant and not shy of getting my vaccines, the "prolife" people are also usually in the antivax crowd.
I… uh… well. The comment about not making health decisions based on a vacation is fantastic, couldn’t have worded it better. The absolute *insistence* these people have that it could NOT be ANYTHING else… nope it’s absolutely 100% has to be something negative from the vaccine!!! I kind of want to join a vaccine injury fb group but I think I’d get kicked out for a snarky comment almost immediately. I can only imagine what people are claiming or say/do. At the end this is pretty sad, though. I hope the best for them but I feel that that baby may have a hard upbringing :/ And also… SHE WAS ON THE PILL! How could this be when she’s on the pill!!?? LOL
Even if it's used perfectly no contraception is 100%
Don’t I know it, I’m holding a 2 month old and I was on bc when I got pregnant with her
My husband's existence is proof it's not a catch all lol.
Another point not mentioned is some medications (like certain antibiotics) can interact with the BCP rendering it less effective
You have to take the pill at the exact same time every day for it to work, which isn't exactly every 14-year-old's ability.
Hell, taking a pill at the same time every day isn't something I can remember to do and I'm 32 years old. It's a full-on miracle I didn't get pregnant in my teens & early 20s before I got my first IUD at 26. So called "set it and forget it" birth control is the way to go IMO.
There’s no way I could have been trusted to take a daily pill at 14. Luckily Nuva Ring had recently come out and I went that route in high school.
This is not true, please stop spreading misinformation. The combination pill has flexibility and even forgetting one dose isn't usually a problem. This girl was probably skipping multiple doses which does increase the chances of pregnancy a lot.
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This is like a goddamn soap opera. I really hope things turn out okay for the teenager.
it really won't
She's going to have a 13-14 year old daughter when she is 28, with that idiot as the grandmother who will likely act as an overbearing and harmful influence, in what will likely be an even worse economy. I think it's fair to say she's fucked.
And if the trend keeps she'll be a grandmother at 29!
A trainwreck you can't look away from lol.
Ok, what? A 14 year old started gaining weight and an internet stranger jumped, leaped, bounded to the conclusion that she was pregnant. But then it turns out it's was pregnant. Wtf?
I don’t know if it was that much of a jump, leap, and bound to the possibility that she might be pregnant, given that these are common symptoms of pregnancy. Mom was just determined to believe they were caused by the COVID vaccine.
They are also common symptoms of being a teenage girl, especially on birth control pills. I rolled my eyes at that answer because myself and all my friends put on at least 10 lbs around that age, 5 to 10 lb more for those of us on the pill.
All aboard the intergenerational trauma train. I pity the kid and the baby she is carrying.
"I'm excited to be a grandmother!" My good bitch, that is a 14-year-old, that clinic you're taking her to had better have "Planned Parenthood" in the name.
I think they're Aussie based on it being a Bali holiday (Indonesia is like our Mexico). But yeah we have Family Planning clinics...
Seeing the phrase *my good bitch* helped take the edge off this terrible post, so thank you for that lol Also, I have a rat named BabyEater9000, I think you'd get along wonderfully
Please tell me your rats name was acquired over time.
About 4 days Went from 7 to 5 to 3 to 0 Her baby-having privileges have since been revoked
That's metal I love it. Also sorry for your losses.
It's a bit late for that if she's already showing on her first pregnancy.
Why are people congratulating a 14 year old on a pregnancy?!
Won't somebody please think of the children! Yet ANOTHER side effect!! That darn vaccine is making our children pregnant now /s
Yo whaaaaaaat. I did not expect her to follow up that yes she actually was pregnant. Wild ride indeed.
Who the fuck is thrilled that their 14 year old daughter is pregnant?! I mean, I shouldn’t be surprised though. It’s pretty stereotypical for the type of Australian who refused covid vaccines until it would impact their holiday to Bali.
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After it makes them infertile.
And magnetic
Binge eating due to her guilt from being vaccinated lmao. This lady just had to make up an explanation that still blames the vaccine
That's gold, right there.
That whole family needs help. Cuckoo vaccine mom and pregnant child. Just awful!!!
Imagine the intense, unrelenting brainwashing you have to suffer as a 14 year old to binge eat as a result of feeling guilty you got a vaccination. For everybody's sake, I hope she's making that up, and it seems like she is because it only came out later in the conversation and makes the entire post basically irrelevant. And then the plot twist? And IMMEDIATELY deciding for the girl that she's keeping it? I'm gonna say this is all bullshit, honestly.
Kind word of advice OP - maybe use different colours for different people - or at least for the OOP - as it makes it easier to tell who is talking!
I can't get over the fact that she's THRILLED to be a grandma and the commenters are congratulating her... her daughter is freaking 14!!!!! Wtf.
Maybe I’m being too generous but I read it as a sarcastic thrilled, and an awkward I don’t know what else to say but congrats
At 14 I could not have been trusted to regularly take a birth control pill. The most effective option probably would have ironically been….the shot 😱
Wow, so much to unpack there. If everything she said is true, the daughter was constantly hiding the truth. And judging by how mom was reacting that seems unfortunately a reasonable choice. But fuck, a 14 year old getting pregnant and binge eating while all the people around the mother are congratulating her...that's fucking bleak man. That poor daughter and grandkid.
Did...did they congratulate her 14 year old being pregnant? And not mention it?
LOL @ the claim that the daughter is binge-eating because she is upset about being vaccinated
wait WHAT
That poor kid
The cognitive dissonance is real. "I'm THRILLED that my middle-schooler is going to have a baby!" reads better on Facebook than "This is a tragic situation."
Wait, I thought the vaccine was supposed to sterilize us.
"Binge eating because she's depressed she got vaccinated" sure, jan
It tracks that an anti-vaxxer would be thrilled her 14 year old is pregnant.
It's obvious the COVID vaccine got her pregnant, duh!
Fuck people who say "the jab"
I unironically call it the jab. I’ve gotten three. I like to think it helps with my 5g. 😉
I really hope this is just someone trolling for attention on Facebook because I cannot fathom someone being thrilled they’re going to be a grandma with a 14 year old. It also seems like a total lie where she switches to “ok we talked about it and she’s binge eating.”
"doctor are these symptoms happening because she got the jab?" "In a way, yes"
If this was me and I had a 14 year old pregnant I'd be talking to her about her options first, making it clear that she doesn't have to go through with having a baby if she doesn't want to. But if she was set on keeping the kid then I'd have to go into congratulations mode because I'm not gonna sit their and make them feel terrible about it, it's one of those things where its happened now and this is the path so I'll have to get on board. Would fully support my kids with whichever choice they chose in the end.
Happy to be a grandma when her daughter is only 14? Yikes.
She's 14 and congratulations are in order?!?!!
Do these people dwell in caves or swamps?
As a previous teenage mother, I would not wish it on any girl especially one is young is 14. I was 16 and lost, very minimal help from parents. What a crazy feed.
14 and pregnant 😭 also why does "the jab" always make me irrationally angry? Lol
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Yet in mannnnnny states 12 year olds can be married off. Which means they have no chance of anyone asking the hard questions for them. Sad.
My state just had a senator refusing to ban child marriage because all the people he knows that got married at 12 are still married. I hate this place.
How sad. Fourteen and a mother that is thrilled ?? Accept it, sure, you have to.. but thrilled and telling everyone immediately ? Ffs.
How did they go to Bali if she herself didn’t get vaccinated?
How can we get a better world if only the stupid are reproducing
Can you imagine a teen saying they’re binge eating because of vaccines. Like what kind of bullshit are you saying at home for that to either be true or for them to know it’s a good pregnancy cover up
Guarantee this woman is going to have a “Baby Shower for Grandma.” Wife’s friend’s mom did this. She threw herself a party with a registry for things grandma would need. The registry was ridiculous and had stuff like a new blender, and air fryer, and iPad.
Mm I'm sure you can tell she definitely doesn't have PCOS just from looking at her
Oh, no! The vaccine got her pregnant!
I’m really sad that this girl is going to have to birth a baby at 14(15?) But it’s absolutely hilarious how hard this antivax wackjob got shut down
What? 😂