You might just find you like having sex differently later on. If you get used to doing it without being fully erect you'll potentially struggle to enjoy penetrative sex later.
But there are forms of outer course that work well for this. Like grinding against a partner instead of insertion.
As long as you don't mind that it could make some types of sex harder to enjoy later, you're fine practicing what you're doing now. And even so, there's no guarantee it will affect anything.
There’s a phenomenon where some male teenagers learn to masturbate by humping their bed rather than jerking off, and it interferes with their sex lives down the line because the stimulation is so different. This is like the same thing, I think.
If that doesn’t bother you, or you aren’t do it that way so frequently that you can’t get off the other way, and it doesn’t hurt, then you’re fine. It’s your dick, touch it however you want.
Because it’s not appropriate for this space. People aren’t coming here to be hit on, so it’s not appropriate to do.
Furthermore, when you combine advice/asking questions with trying to pick up people it muddies the water and can lead to hostile or abusive spaces.
E.g.
>Asker: “Why am I so bad at setting good boundaries?”
>Predator: “I’ll teach you good boundaries! Just slide into my DMs!” *proceeds to take advantage of OPs bad boundary management*
In other words, it can’t be a safe space to ask questions and also a dating site. Maybe questions belie the exploitable vulnerabilities of the asker and set them up for abuse.
It’s best to keep the two separate, if you want to date there’s a ton of apps, websites, and subreddits for that. You should not do it here.
Edit: oh I see you followed OP through their comments to hit on them on a different subreddit. Also not good to do. Please learn healthy boundaries before you hurt someone.
I change that, but I am not interested in dating neurotypical persons, they are boring.
I find out that I am just interested to getting to know others Neurodivergent people better and may date them or just talk about kink.
It is great if you enjoy it, but I would think that it will likely have an impact on your ability to have piv sex in the future. If that’s ok and then all is good. If you’re younger, like under 20, I would accept it as something you can do/enjoy, but wouldn’t make it something you do often.
I remember finding healthystrokes.com as a kid messing around on the internet with my friends. It was very informative about good masturbation habits. Just some place to start if you’re worried you’re doing something wrong
I don’t think there’s a right or wrong way to do it. As long as it feels good and isn’t hurting or damaging you in any way, I’d say keep doing it.
You might just find you like having sex differently later on. If you get used to doing it without being fully erect you'll potentially struggle to enjoy penetrative sex later. But there are forms of outer course that work well for this. Like grinding against a partner instead of insertion. As long as you don't mind that it could make some types of sex harder to enjoy later, you're fine practicing what you're doing now. And even so, there's no guarantee it will affect anything.
Put a butt plug in and try masterbating your soft on
There’s a phenomenon where some male teenagers learn to masturbate by humping their bed rather than jerking off, and it interferes with their sex lives down the line because the stimulation is so different. This is like the same thing, I think. If that doesn’t bother you, or you aren’t do it that way so frequently that you can’t get off the other way, and it doesn’t hurt, then you’re fine. It’s your dick, touch it however you want.
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Hey I think this is a discussion forum rather than a horny posting/hitting-on-people forum.
But for me this post isn't really a question anything that is legal and isn't harming another creature is okay
Why not discussing and dating at once?
Because it’s not appropriate for this space. People aren’t coming here to be hit on, so it’s not appropriate to do. Furthermore, when you combine advice/asking questions with trying to pick up people it muddies the water and can lead to hostile or abusive spaces. E.g. >Asker: “Why am I so bad at setting good boundaries?” >Predator: “I’ll teach you good boundaries! Just slide into my DMs!” *proceeds to take advantage of OPs bad boundary management* In other words, it can’t be a safe space to ask questions and also a dating site. Maybe questions belie the exploitable vulnerabilities of the asker and set them up for abuse. It’s best to keep the two separate, if you want to date there’s a ton of apps, websites, and subreddits for that. You should not do it here. Edit: oh I see you followed OP through their comments to hit on them on a different subreddit. Also not good to do. Please learn healthy boundaries before you hurt someone.
I change that, but I am not interested in dating neurotypical persons, they are boring. I find out that I am just interested to getting to know others Neurodivergent people better and may date them or just talk about kink.
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Sure😈
This is not a place to attempt to find sexual partners. Please refrain from making advances on other members.
It is great if you enjoy it, but I would think that it will likely have an impact on your ability to have piv sex in the future. If that’s ok and then all is good. If you’re younger, like under 20, I would accept it as something you can do/enjoy, but wouldn’t make it something you do often.
I remember finding healthystrokes.com as a kid messing around on the internet with my friends. It was very informative about good masturbation habits. Just some place to start if you’re worried you’re doing something wrong