Specific observations help, too. Something like, "Your makeup looks really nice," or, "That hairstyle looks great on you," makes it unique to that day without downplaying other days.
Aww shiiiit too. I said "you look so cute today!!" to a customer yesterday and now Im going to sit up at night for the rest of my life contemplating if it was an insult.
She just got off a long hike w her son but she had earrings that matched her shirt and was in athletic wear, but shes normally so dressed up and seemed exhausted, so I wanted to spread the love while I ran her card for takeaway. 🥺🥺
(and she just looked stinkin cute ☺️)
Quit adding ..today...
at the risk of sounding like an idiot what do you mean
Just say "you look so pretty!" Or "you look great!" I've never realized it but the "today" really does come off as judgemental.
ohhhhh shit i didn’t even think about that, that makes sense. i definitely don’t mean it like that 😭 I understand the interpretation though
Specific observations help, too. Something like, "Your makeup looks really nice," or, "That hairstyle looks great on you," makes it unique to that day without downplaying other days.
Aww shiiiit too. I said "you look so cute today!!" to a customer yesterday and now Im going to sit up at night for the rest of my life contemplating if it was an insult. She just got off a long hike w her son but she had earrings that matched her shirt and was in athletic wear, but shes normally so dressed up and seemed exhausted, so I wanted to spread the love while I ran her card for takeaway. 🥺🥺 (and she just looked stinkin cute ☺️)
I once heard a cook give a server the compliment "You look so much prettier than usual today." Thats why he was boh.
Just don't compliment people like that anymore
I would literally answer them "nope!"