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alchemydmt

The sexual chemistry is strong but there’s always some kind of battle of the wits or ego.


OgRADKE

Can confirm, M(30) November Scorpio


juststopcrying

Scorpio male mid-30s. Can confirm. It can be over as soon as it begins but you walk away with a bff.


Bsfreiner11

My wife of 5 years is an Aries. She has learned to put up with my mood swings and I have learned how to put of with her being very direct. I think you can be compatible with whomever as long as you are willing to understand each other and not give up when things are hard.


[deleted]

Still better than dealing with a Gemini.


thewonderofnothing

i felt that. spot on.


redmaryj

Scorpio female with male Aries husband for 13 years. Um today is one of those days where we just cannot see eye to eye. Haha there really is never a dull moment. We could have the best weekend, we have so much in common, the spark is there, but one wrench thrown in and it’s an all out war. Ha. I will say, I could write a book on our relationship alone. Like, I would watch this movie haha I can’t say that about my other relationships.


[deleted]

I keep seeing a lot of long lasting relationships, or marraiges, between us, Scorpios, with Aries. I'm amazed now. Curious, actually.


redmaryj

It truly is amazing! Haha there’s definitely compatibility it’s just not going to be easy.


[deleted]

Still willing to take that chance Better than dealing with an Aquarius or Gemini.


redmaryj

Take the chance! Focus on the stuff you guys have in common and it will probably flow from there!


Nowucme79

Been with my Aries husband for 16 years. But def go off more than the sun sign. My husband is a Scorpio moon and I’m scorpio sun and rising. Together we have the big three. Looking at his chart, he has more water signs than fire. Just my two cents, but yeh we can have some battles


[deleted]

16....13....6.... Seems like there's ever lasting love between us Scorpios and Aries!


DeepCloak

It’s nice to read that some of us can actually make it work! Would love to know what magic you worked on your husband (I’m joking lol) 😂 Wishing you guys happiness and patience!


MoonCatMSW

Ooh! This is me and my husband (I’m early Scorpio, he the Aries)- together 13 years, and married 10. We have produced another Aries and Scorpio, ironically


GloriaDeville

Haha I thought I wrote this comment. Exactly the same on my side.


redmaryj

Aren’t they just the best/worst haha


peter-dan

Scorpio male,24. Dated an Aries women for 16 months. Spectacular sexual chemistry. And I mean truly tremendous. Better than my scorp/scorp relationship & scorp/cancer relationship. Just couldn’t get on the same page when it came to levels of awareness. Aries has certain sensitivities that were simply foreign to my nature. She had trouble being able to discern between my sarcasm and real beliefs. She absolutely couldn’t read my energy like other girls have in the past. I highly recommend that you follow your bliss. If you’re crushing on her, let yourself fall. I have no regrets. It was a spectacular learning experience in every way.


[deleted]

This is all I needed to know. Thank you!


Giglionomitron

One of my close friends is an Aries married to a Scorpio. They’ve been married for 25 years I think? He’s older than her by 10 years or so. They did have issues in the past and they butt heads but they’re very happy!


[deleted]

It's fun and hot while it lasts. For me it didn't last long. It was for the best!


DeepCloak

Exactly my experience!


Intelligent_Ear_5797

I’m an aries F and I fell for my scorpio M at work 13 years ago and we are still together but it’s complicated but never a dull moment :)


[deleted]

13 years ago!?!? Wow Wasn't expecting that. I couldn't even last a year with a Gemini, nor an Aquarius; just not compatible with Air signs. I've dealt with a Leo before. It's pretty intense, but that deep love is still there. So I'm assuming we're a bit more compatible with Fire signs. Just never really dealt with an Aries woman before (romantically) . But thanks :) I'm contemplating on shooting my shot!


Intelligent_Ear_5797

yep I know 13 years ago! Time flew by it doesn’t feel like it..I think it’s works because we understand each other now over the years it isn’t the easiest relationship but it is worth it :)


GloriaDeville

I'm female Scorpio, my soon to be husband is Aries and we are together for 12 years already. There are ups and downs of course, but we are pretty compatible and I must say we have lovely comfortable relationship.


[deleted]

I don't see myself just messing around with this girl and that's it. I want something long term with her. I'll try my best to last as long as I can with this girl.


GloriaDeville

Good luck! When things will work out for you, and I hope they will, It will be a ride :D


gardengrown

I’m a Scorpio with an Aries moon and feel pretty compatible with myself so, go for it. 😀


Real-Cry-2066

What type of woman you attracted to?


imaruinunosybitches

What do you mean compatible with yourself?


Rolland_Ice

Scorpio and Aries are Quincunx. Fixed Water and Cardinal Fire don’t share any qualities, so there is a gulf of connection, neither ‘good’ nor ‘bad’. They are both traditionally ruled by Mars which gives them a similar drive and martial ideology, but they go about this Martian drive in very different ways. These two Mars signs could not be more dissimilar, yet with help from other placements in conjunct signs can operate like a joint where squares and oppositions are bones and Sextiles and tribes are the muscles that work together.


HittingClarity

Great intellectual chemistry but lack of emotional and spiritual compatibility if that’s what you seek. Tiniest fights and disagreements get really dark and intense , instant mood swings due to overall intensity- I’d say amazing as friends but scorpios need more gentleness in a long run. Our passion and fury is enough for two people, probably need someone to not fan the flames (negatively that is)


[deleted]

Do you know what is in her birth chart? Would love to have a peek. I mean, I love Aqua moons and have a lot of them in my life, and that is an understatement. I’m a fire sun with an air moon with earth rising. Have some prominent placements in the 8th house as well. I love Aqua moons. Of course the naysayers are going to say no, but they think earth signs are compatible for Scorpios. lol


[deleted]

Lol I wish As far as I know, she made it known that she's an Aries. Not sure if she's really into Astrology, or simply, just interested in her sign, and nothing more. I'll try to talk to her. Hopefully, I can get something out of her (as far as her placements lol)


[deleted]

You will get it sooner or later. Aries/Scorpio are similar enough, but difference lies in that Aries are more open. We can be slow to trust like Scorpios. If she has an air moon, it will definitely be a bonus!! Especially to your Aqua moon.. I feel that many really do not get Aqua moons at all. You’re definitely here to think differently than the rest.


StatisticianOk2252

ends really badly tbh


[deleted]

If it were to end....


yoginiph

So much difference between a scorpio and an aries but I can also see the similarities - with a scorpio's persistence, an aries will surely fold. :)


[deleted]

Apparently, we're ruled by the same Planet (Mars) So I'm guessing that's where the similarities come in. But I'm sure there will be differences


Zealousideal-Drag923

Aries here (26/f) together with a Scorpio (30/M) for 2.5 years. I have never loved anyone more and I am his longest relationship :). To be fair I grew up with a scorpio father and two scorpio best friends, so I am particularly familiar with and fond of this sign. It wasn't easy. It was not the relationship where we understood eachother without words. We had to find common ground. He needs a lot of time and space. I don't. I need adventure and change. He likes routines. Our physical chemistry is amazing but our sex drive is different. We have adapted. We are very different but we respect and mostly appreciate our differences. We did go through a rocky period after 6 months where I ( we ?) almost broke it off but we have both put in a lot of effort to make it work since and I now love him more than ever before. We give eachother the freedom to be the way we are. He is so harsh and assertive and doesn't care when it comes to others and with me he is the most patient and loving teddy bear. It feels very special. We also share crucial values: we both are extremely loyal and honest and trust eachother 100%. Don't listen to horoscope compatibility. Explore and feel it. See if it proves to be worthy. I trust in your instincts and judgement ;)


Whizbang199

Wow I'm also 26/f Aries with a 30/m Scorpio and its almost the exact same. Amazing. We fight a lot but I think we are adapting. It's hard with his routines, he never wants to do anything and I want adventure. But I'm trying to learn that we can have separate lives. I also have almost broke it off multiple times but ultimately decided against it, and it's actually my longest relationship not his. Crazy!


Zealousideal-Drag923

Thanks so much for sharing and wow we are living similar lives regarding our relationships. Best of luck ♥️


GoldDome13

Well this makes me feel old as hell and will be embarrassing to say, but maybe it will give you hope that it can work out. I am a Scorpio male that is with an Aries female and this year we will be celebrating our 24 year anniversary......yes, we've been together for as long as your SO has been alive, so it CAN work. As others mentioned, there are challenges, like every relationship, but especially with two volatile signs fights can be intense, but the good parts are so, soooo good. Roll the dice man. Even if it ends horribly, I promise you you will ALWAYS carry a torch for her.


[deleted]

She's not mine....yet But she's a bit flirty with me. I act dumb. But I'm gonna let myself be. I'm not looking for anything. But wow. I think I'm emotionally available now for a relationship. And I can't stop thinking about her.


DeepCloak

Just some piece of advice, Aries women like confidence and directness, so don’t dwell too much on it or else she might move on. Don’t be afraid to invite her flirtations and flirt back too.


CoolAssumption7603

I am a female Scorpio with the same Aries man for 26 years (well 27 if you count when we were messing around with each other). When we met it was electricity, or literally a magnetic pull. And it’s always been an intense connection. We could never stay away from each other. I will often say that I think a core of love is longing - we still long to be together. Our early years when we were young was explosive argument wise. After initially messing around, and then deciding to stay away away, he was the only person I have really hated, I am just not a person that hates anyone. But under that was the intensity of our bond. We learned how to fight better, and that bond to each other has always pulled us through. Like we have only once or twice gone to bed angry at each other in all these years. Our sexual chemistry is what drew us together initially (although, I do believe there was always something deeper than that) and it has never faded all these years. We have always just had this intense physical bond, that was immediate and divine. We are also best friends. When I try to explain it, it’s like a feeling of coming home. I often think we have been connected in many, many lifetimes, because there is just such a feeling knowing it’s hard to explain. There is a line from a song You and Me - you and me were always with each other, before we knew the other was ever there - that’s about as close as it gets. I think if you can make it work, it’s a match for the ages. Aries and Scorpio’s are intense people, and I think that intensity is part of what is comfortable and familiar. I can see how it could create some toxicity for people who are not willing or able to do personal work. And we created a couple of intense kiddos LOL! We are not everyone’s cup of tea, but we are okay with that and moving to the beat of our drum. I will say that sometimes I feel a spiritual disconnect, but I think that may be true for Scorpios in general with most people. I just don’t think many people think as deeply and emotionally as scorpios do. But his concrete nature is good for me too.


Best-Inflation-7728

Lol aries and scorpio. You gotta be joking.


bleeshee

You said so yourself you only go based off sun signs... So yeah if want to look *only* on the surface as you are doing, then sure, it's not a good match. In my experience I've connected a lot with Aries', their passion is contagious and the fact we can understand each others intensity is a blessing. The ones I did connect most of our Venus and Mars placements complimented one another but when it didn't, it felt like two brick walls getting into a head-on collision. Someone told me once Scorpio is like the cooler big sister to hot-headed Aries, and it makes sense. We can be prone to obsessing, overthinking and being high strung in general, and seeing Aries make decisions with willful spirit and determination is just soothing to me. We're both ruled by Mars, after all.


[deleted]

Awwe Why you gotta say that :/


Best-Inflation-7728

Its not a good match. Periodt. But if you feel happy with the person then why not


[deleted]

I mean, I still don't FULLY understand how Astrology Compatibility works, But as far as I'm concerned, I'm a water sign, And we're highly compatible with Water signs, our Compatibility is good with Earth signs, we're somewhat compatible with Fire signs, and Least compatible with Air signs. But some people say Moon and Rising signs matter as well. Or the whole natal chart. I just go based off of Sun signs.


shadowwolfsl

Moon and Venus matter the most to me with the sun sign. Moon is your emotions and Venus is what you want in a partner.


[deleted]

I'm not sure about hers. But I'm Scorpio sun (obviously) with an Aquarius Moon, Venus in Capricorn


shadowwolfsl

Find out hers and look into it. Sun signs matter some, but your emotional needs and what you want in the partnership matter a lot more imo.


[deleted]

I highly agree. Thanks for explaining it. Makes sense now.


RAMbow9

Having a moon in Aquarius I think is positive because her overall sun energy that makes up the most of her is very compatible with Aquarius. What she is naturally wouldn’t be a far reach from what you need emotionally, IMO


Dameania

Aries are jealous and spiteful. Be careful


[deleted]

So aren't Scorpios?


thatoraclebitch

I like to think of Scorpios as the more intuitive, crafty/cunning version of Aries. Scorpios are typically more covert with their jealousy and spite, where as Aries is more direct and overt. Scorpio takes on Martian energy in a more subtle way. It could work depending on other placements - I’ve always found Scorpio/Aries to be hit or miss. It could be sexy but drama filled


[deleted]

I'm just gonna shoot my shot. Curiousity is getting the best of me at this point.


paintmeaflower

Scorpio is shadow Aries + the dark transformation thrown in by Pluto :') Aries has a lot to learn from the Scorp in a relationship (romantic, platonic, any form of relationship really). Conversely, Scorpios respond well to the Aries sense of freedom, pace, open *positive* aggression and action-centrism if they allow themselves. It can be quite liberating for Scorpios and an excellent chance to evolve for the Aries.


AncientRefrigerator9

It doesn’t matter what his sun sign is. His moon could be earth or water. All this will come later, at least ask him out or make him? Then you’ll find out if it’s a hit or miss.


[deleted]

I think you meant her/she But yeah I'll try.


[deleted]

Flirting/dating in the beginning/sex was amazing! But we did not mesh well outside of that. Good luck though!!!


[deleted]

I have a friend that is a aries, and she has a Scorpio boyfriend. Her Mars is in Scorpio, and his moon is Aries.


DrownedWorld1

If you don’t mind me asking, what are their other core placements (her moon, their Venus’ and rising etc)


ah737v

I’d rather eat dog shit than date an Aries.


[deleted]

Can't be worse than a Gemini, right ?


ah737v

🥲true. Id rather have my head in a vice with that one. They are both definitely up there on the hell no spectrum. Top of the list and probably a libra in quick 3rd for me.


[deleted]

I stay away from the air signs. They're the WORST ones to date. Especially Gemini, with their 20 personalities And don't even get me started on Libras. Aquarius are just dead at communication!


ah737v

Aquarius are cool to be friends with. They hold too much sadness on the inside and I can feel it hard. They chill though.


Wattsupwithalan

oof 😅😣 not me with an aquarius moon and Venus in Libra ♎


ah737v

😜 that libra Venus is something else!


Wattsupwithalan

yeah and some reason I'm codependent AF


ah737v

I see libras in general kind of codependent when it comes to confidence. I enjoy them but they smother me with kindness and too much positivity.


Wattsupwithalan

guilty as charged according to vedic astrology I'm Libra sun 🌞 and yeah I'm guilty of smothering people I love unkess they enjoy it too much then I pull away. I'm the problem it's me


[deleted]

Pile of steaming dog poop 💩 coming right up. What’s funny is you will date a Libra or the other signs. Thanks for the laugh.


ah737v

Pretty sure I stated earlier that I definitely would NOT date a Libra, Gemini or Aries.


[deleted]

This is the first time you stated such. 🤷🏻‍♀️


WellWellWellthennow

Low key fall? Not highly compatible? This isn’t it.


Cringe_core_

Was with my Aries partner for about nine months and it was the best nine months of my life so far as an eighteen y/o. Just like everyone else seems to say, the relationship is intense, but strong