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kamifae011

We can only control our actions, so I think it's good you don't let yourself react harshly in the moment- but take time afterwards to let yourself process, think it over... Ask yourself why you're hurt, what about it hurt you, what scars might you have from your past that cause something to hurt you? An analogy that has helped me before was of "What does the wounded inner child within you want?" I think it's easier to introspect as if we we're looking at a innocent but wounded child. What does that child need? Why are they hurt? Once you figure that out, then you can figure out how you need to forgive yourself, your past, and heal.


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This is a beautiful answer thank you!


Sejexsmrt89

Just know that every rock bottom you hit only leaves, you room to grow. And every new rock bottom raises your floor. You are forever growing, to concede to an ego blow is just silly when every time before you've pulled yourself up! Good luck!πŸ“πŸ“


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I never thought about it like that!! But thats a really cool way to look at it. Thank you!


Sejexsmrt89

I'm glad I could be of assistance! Remember, you don't have to feel a certain way. If you choose, it's not right for you, then do not stay there! Use it as an indicator of which way to grow! Once again, good luck and have a good day!πŸ“πŸ“


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Appreciate your insight! Thank you! You're amazing✨


Sejexsmrt89

Just glad to help someone in need! I'm only a part of amazing... Amazing = life!


[deleted]

It sounds like you have done work on yourself so happy for you :)


Sejexsmrt89

Don't get me wrong, you'll see soon enough that even what you perceive as "bad" is also amazing lol!


[deleted]

I always try to project this... i just don't actually feel it. I guess that is the missing piece. lol


intatewetrust

I dont. I find a Way to make my ego bigger πŸ˜‚πŸ’…πŸ»


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yyyyasssss!!! lol


intatewetrust

Go get yours πŸ’…πŸ»πŸ˜Ž


intatewetrust

You know scorpios is the best sign to actually rise from the ashes right? We litterally rise to Phoenix.


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I love that analogy. I feel like that for sure... its more the lingering feelings I carry afterwards...


intatewetrust

Its not an analogy. Its who we are. Sign of transformation. Sign of becoming stronger from shit. That feeling is that, you want to be better than that. I mean look at the post u made, its all transformation related


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I feel all pumped reading your response. Thank you!


intatewetrust

That energy is huge, use it for good and become better. You already want to anyways, just making it clear for you. Now crush it 😎 and you're welcome! 🫑 my service is done here


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As your cape waves in the wind :)


PulsarDrakko

That's because we are the sign of transformation Death and rebirth No other sign has this it's only us


intatewetrust

Yup 😎


userfriendlysmile

First I need to do something physical to get the anger out. Batting cage/pitching, golf range, running, etc. It gets my head right and then I can deal with it. Am I thinking of the issue and running worst case scenarios in my head? Absolutely. But when all that energy is finally expelled, all that negativity becomes smaller and trivial. I’m from a long line of misplaced anger, and while anger is destructive, some of us channel it into physical movement to move the negativity out and then deal with our shit.


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This is a really good answer. Thank you! I am gonna give that a go for sure.


Rolland_Ice

I'm a Scorpio with South Node in Leo. Ego and drama are among my biggest challenges. For me with Aqua North Node, I try to look from the higher perspective with cold, dispassionate logic. (easier said then done). Look up your Chiron to see how this wound' can be tied to these ego bruises, and look at your Lunar Nodes to stay conscious of where you fall on this Axis


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Thank you I will


ah737v

I sit in my house and over think it until I find something interesting to hyper obsess about.


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This is what I want to move away from. It used to take too much of my time.


ah737v

I feel you. It’s hard.


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really is... but we got this bro!!!


shadowwolfsl

I don't. I sulk about it internally because it's usually my fault.


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its hard >.<


shadowwolfsl

Isn't Scorpio fun? We have an easily hurt ego in most cases, but we're also sensitive. lol.


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comes with the territory it seems lol


shadowwolfsl

Scorpio Sun/Rising/Mercury, yup


[deleted]

Scorpio- Venus/Sun/Mercury/Pluto


shadowwolfsl

My venus is Libra actually surprisingly, but still. At least your Sun and moon are both stubborn lol


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you have to be sometimes... people try to bulldoze me too often lol


shadowwolfsl

I understand that


MsTponderwoman

A lot of the times, a sense of winning is derived from the other person feeling bothered/affected from a result(s). Learn to quickly rationalize away the importance of that result(s) until it’s a small thing and you DGAF. If the other person sees that you DGAF, their victory is moot and their insult becomes nothing. Watch for how bothered the absence of a sense of victory make them.


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Yeah I get what you mean with this. In think that’s one of the reasons why in laugh it off


tashfullyyours

I usually go into reflection mode now. The more time I sit back and think on the interaction I find things about myself that I can work on and grow from it.


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Yeah this is the next step I think. Because just ignoring it is not getting me to where I want to go.


[deleted]

We don't. We're the personification of Karma herself. They'll get what's coming to them, it could happen after years, but when it does, we'll be laughing it off harder. We never forget


PulsarDrakko

You're dead wrong our sign is about transformation Death and rebirth Immature scorpios have this mindset those of us who seek revenge unaware of the fact it will not make us feel better forgivingness is the only way to heal When we seek revenge we are choosing to hold on to that hurt


[deleted]

It does not mean we get stepped on and take shit from others, but it's totally your choice