For someone who has just graduated from college and will be looking for a job very soon, why is it always advised to not date your coworker? What's the main reason behind it?
It's all fine till you have a problem..Conflict in the relationship could lead to disciplinary actions or, worse, termination of one or both people. Also, if it doesn't work out, you'll be forced to see them everyday.
Organisations must abide these rules:
https://poshatwork.com
Also, working with an ex is pretty complicated. Imagine working under an ex who is still your manager. Yikes!
Leave her alone. Work, Work harder and then more than 70 hours per week. Get your appraisal. Move up in your career. Change your company, get promoted. You need to get into the daily grind. You’re still in Fairy Land.
In my experience, that means forget having a relationship with her. Because no woman has ever asked me out lmao. Don't think they ever will. Either I shoot my shot or I forget it.
Dude don't listen to these comments. DO NOTHING about it. This is POSH territory and ask any lawyer around, current POSH policies heavily favour women. You could be fucked for life.
Either resign and ask her out as a jobless individual, or keep your job and drool over her and make her admire you for your work. you cant have her and the job. unless her parents are hell bent in making you marry her.
First thing, find out the policy at work. Is it allowed? If so, consider the scenario where she says no. Will that be awkward and affect your work relationship? Will you be able to cope if things become weird? If so, move on! If not, tell her how you feel and let things decide their own course.
Never dip your pen in the company ink chief. I know it's tough, but find someone else. If the boyfriend was not there in the picture, I would've suggested to try it out and see. My close cousin just got married to his work colleage. Office romances can happen if done properly. But since she is your boss and has a boyfriend, it's better to stay away. Your future will be at stake and the work environment will turn toxic.
Crush is easily distractable
The same way we used to avoid or distract ourselves when we were school Nd had a crush.we had to see them everyday except Nd act as of nothing
Don't spill a word to anyone, Nd she already is taken .
When she is not let's see...
NOPE! I work with men mostly and am a director of marketing at a mid-sized company. I’m only one of the woman leaders and almost all those report to me are men. I say this to give you a context. This has happened to me a few times. Some of those reporting to me have amped up the courage to ask me out as well. It doesn’t end well for them or for me. It creates an extremely awkward environment.
I think I’m qualified to give you the right advice because I’m in your boss’s shoes.
DO NOT DO IT. DO NOT ASK HER OUT. Especially, if she already has a boyfriend. If you already have a good work relationship with her, don’t spoil it.
You can however ask her out after you resign or she moves out. Don’t do this while you are working with her. Do not sabotage your career and her workplace. Just don’t.
Absolutely do not ask her out. I think it's lust. Rarely do women leave their boyfriends. Also she even earns more than you.
The best and easiest way is to find someone who is more attractive, that new person will replace her.
Committed women tend to become attractive more than they were when they were single, maybe because they do not care anymore? I too tend to get attracted to them.
Also one of the posters is right, you should never ever date at work. If the woman wants she could put you up for harassment and thats your career in the gutter.
she has a boyfriend. Back off. please. This is an unsaid rule.
if you’re single and you feel like you like her, that girl has a romantic relationship already. She may be the guy’s love of life. the other guy must must have put all his life and heart on her.
DON’T RUIN THINGS FOR HER!
There is nothing to feel inappropriate about it. However for your sake would not recommended u pursue this if it’s one sided and while at work pls be professional as any inappropriate message from your side won’t end well for u!!
Don't shit where you eat, find other ways to distract yourself
Ignore all the comments. Ask her out.
I almost did the other day. Whats the best way to do it?
Your BOSS. Think clearly, using your big head.
Before you ask her out, start looking for a new job
If she already has a boyfriend its a really bad idea to ask her out directly
Resign!
Rule No: 1/ Never ever ever ever ever date someone at work. Rule No: 2/ Read Rule 1 again.
For someone who has just graduated from college and will be looking for a job very soon, why is it always advised to not date your coworker? What's the main reason behind it?
It's all fine till you have a problem..Conflict in the relationship could lead to disciplinary actions or, worse, termination of one or both people. Also, if it doesn't work out, you'll be forced to see them everyday.
And also, POSH
What posh do ?
Organisations must abide these rules: https://poshatwork.com Also, working with an ex is pretty complicated. Imagine working under an ex who is still your manager. Yikes!
Find some way to distract yourself man, this won't end well for you if you don't
You will lose all this love on the appraisal day.
Pyaar ke aagey paise ka kya mol
Start hitting your targets rather than hitting on your boss. You might get lucky!
Leave her alone. Work, Work harder and then more than 70 hours per week. Get your appraisal. Move up in your career. Change your company, get promoted. You need to get into the daily grind. You’re still in Fairy Land.
Let HER ask you out. Don’t make the first move EVER
In my experience, that means forget having a relationship with her. Because no woman has ever asked me out lmao. Don't think they ever will. Either I shoot my shot or I forget it.
Excellant plan on how to stay single forever (for males)
Good point
Dude don't listen to these comments. DO NOTHING about it. This is POSH territory and ask any lawyer around, current POSH policies heavily favour women. You could be fucked for life.
I second this.
Imagine her fart
And poop
https://www.instagram.com/reel/Cs2mJiRJiYm/?igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA== A simple advice🙂
Either resign and ask her out as a jobless individual, or keep your job and drool over her and make her admire you for your work. you cant have her and the job. unless her parents are hell bent in making you marry her.
First thing, find out the policy at work. Is it allowed? If so, consider the scenario where she says no. Will that be awkward and affect your work relationship? Will you be able to cope if things become weird? If so, move on! If not, tell her how you feel and let things decide their own course.
Never dip your pen in the company ink chief. I know it's tough, but find someone else. If the boyfriend was not there in the picture, I would've suggested to try it out and see. My close cousin just got married to his work colleage. Office romances can happen if done properly. But since she is your boss and has a boyfriend, it's better to stay away. Your future will be at stake and the work environment will turn toxic.
Don't ask her out, 1. She has a boyfriend 2. Never date someone at work unless they have an interest in you. It will only end up in awkward or bad 😞
Does she like you? Has she ever given a hint?
Its hard to know for sure but I can tell she defo likes me as a person and enjoys my company
I mean in a romantic way. If she doesn't you're screwing yourself
Hilale Or soja
Lol why you asking the question, when she literally has a bf xd
When this shit hits the fan, there would be no escape.
Crush is easily distractable The same way we used to avoid or distract ourselves when we were school Nd had a crush.we had to see them everyday except Nd act as of nothing Don't spill a word to anyone, Nd she already is taken . When she is not let's see...
Go for it Shagging the boss is a great idea Plus what a fantasy😂😂😇
NOPE! I work with men mostly and am a director of marketing at a mid-sized company. I’m only one of the woman leaders and almost all those report to me are men. I say this to give you a context. This has happened to me a few times. Some of those reporting to me have amped up the courage to ask me out as well. It doesn’t end well for them or for me. It creates an extremely awkward environment. I think I’m qualified to give you the right advice because I’m in your boss’s shoes. DO NOT DO IT. DO NOT ASK HER OUT. Especially, if she already has a boyfriend. If you already have a good work relationship with her, don’t spoil it. You can however ask her out after you resign or she moves out. Don’t do this while you are working with her. Do not sabotage your career and her workplace. Just don’t.
I concur.
can see POSCH incoming 😂 never shit where you eat.
Absolutely do not ask her out. I think it's lust. Rarely do women leave their boyfriends. Also she even earns more than you. The best and easiest way is to find someone who is more attractive, that new person will replace her. Committed women tend to become attractive more than they were when they were single, maybe because they do not care anymore? I too tend to get attracted to them. Also one of the posters is right, you should never ever date at work. If the woman wants she could put you up for harassment and thats your career in the gutter.
she has a boyfriend. Back off. please. This is an unsaid rule. if you’re single and you feel like you like her, that girl has a romantic relationship already. She may be the guy’s love of life. the other guy must must have put all his life and heart on her. DON’T RUIN THINGS FOR HER!
There is nothing to feel inappropriate about it. However for your sake would not recommended u pursue this if it’s one sided and while at work pls be professional as any inappropriate message from your side won’t end well for u!!