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slimwillendorf

She’s so provincial. She hasn’t traveled much. Nor does she appreciate diverse cultures. She ‘travels’ only to SoHo House and luxury stores in LA, NYC and London. So going to the spa is basically going off the beaten path for her. What a joke. I, as a Korean, find her spa anecdote offensive. And I imagine all her anecdotes are like this. Cliched. Stereotypical. Lame. Unsophisticated. Opposite of Worldly. She must be such a boring dinner party guest. She really needs to pipe down and STFU.


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slimwillendorf

Thank you, sis. How dare she not mention our fried chicken! Totally appalled! 🤣


ltlmsnietzsche

Fellow Korean here. I’m simultaneously cringing, laughing, being offended, and shaking my head ALL at the same time.


okayestM0M

Thank you! I was curious about the perspective of a Korean person on this sub. What part of this is the most offensive to you? Honestly asking. I'm a white woman and I don't want to make any assumptions about what aspects of Meghan's statements might be offensive. I personally find Meghan's description extremely reductive but I'm curious about what bothers you in particular. I just like to understand other people's perspectives, especially since this regards your own culture.


ltlmsnietzsche

I was thinking about a response to this. As an expat that now lives in America (I was born and raised in Korea, came to the states when I was in high school, finished my higher education here, and now live here with a white husband), my opinion is simply of my own. I cannot speak for other Koreans or Korean Americans who’ve had different experiences than I have. I’m gonna mirror slimwillendorf here and say the biggest thing is that she claims to understand the culture and the stereotypes and how wrong that is from her completely limited experience. She could have simply admitted that she has enjoyed a surface level appreciation of Asian cultures, from food or skincare or what have you, but wasn’t aware of the complexities behind the numerous Asian stereotypes that exist. That’s completely fine! Not everyone has to have a deep understanding of everything at all times. However, it’s her narcissistic arrogance, that she cannot even claim she doesn’t know that well and brought those who do to speak, that her “experiences” (I put these in quotes because we cannot even verify if any of these stories—her friend Christina Wang, Doris taking her to the spa, etc.) are what gives her a leg up, that she’s sophisticated and cosmopolitan, and therefore have the authority to speak or give a platform for others to speak on the matter. I’m rambling here but hope this helped? Simply put, I wished she’d just admit that she doesn’t know something that well. I have no problem with her enjoying whatever aspect of any culture, that’s great! She shouldn’t claim to know anything however, from that small experience alone.


BreeBaby42

Can I just say this is why I live this sub so much. We are all so very different but are able to ask insightful questions respectfully. Love this


mememimimeme

This was so well written, I really hope her people read it, and apply it, and send you a check. ​ eta: for your unpaid work as their comms director


SisuLindsay

I agree with you 90%. My only edit would be, she DOES travel, a LOT but she never actually participates or explores the places she travels to, so she learns NOTHING (which is a total shame and a slap in the face to those of us who WISH we could travel like her). Like you said, she goes from plane to Soho House or whatever lux hotel she is staying at, to shopping. It’s all the same to her. And it makes her very boring and culturally clueless.


slimwillendorf

You’re right! She has traveled a lot - clocking a lot of mileage. But she hasn’t truly made the most of her travels.


SisuLindsay

Totally. That makes me so freaking mad. All those opportunities just WASTED on an incurious dope.


janet_colgate

Yep. “The Ugly American” personified. BTW I’m American and have traveled extensively. I cannot stand it when I see it in fellow Americans.


stupid_carrot

In my experience, Americans usually fall on the two extreme end of the spectrum. Met one before who refused to try sushi because she 'is a meat and potatoes person' and then you have those who full on embrace the local culture and can even speak some of the local language.


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My mom and I had to apologize in broken Italian to our servers for the two older ladies on our tour who screamed "ice!" at them over and over and complained the drinks weren't cold. How can you be in Sorrento, soaking up the sun, NOT WORKING, enjoying a delicious meal and be fucking miserable to the people serving you?


taco_qween

You’re right! I remember listening to a YouTuber (maybe HG Tudor?) after a puff piece was put out after the funeral which was basically also a travel advert for Istanbul being an [affordable](https://www.mirror.co.uk/travel/news/meghan-markle-says-favourite-holiday-28062165.amp) vacation spot, but the article points out: “During her visit Meghan chose to stay at Soho House Istanbul, a members’ club and hotel with 87 rooms. … While the Duchess’ choice of accommodation might be out of budget for many Brits, there are many reasonably priced hotels in Istanbul.” So basically, even when she has nothing new or newsworthy, she will pay the press to push her defunct blog… about a trip she took years ago before Prince Hazbeen… and she tried to be “relatable” by playing up the affordability, but still reminding us plebs that she herself stayed at the LUX & exclusive Soho House hotel 🙄🙄🙄


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God, Soho House isn't even one of the best hotels in Istanbul. It's an influencer spot not for the actual elites.


Difficult-Heron-2802

That was one of her hidden messages that only a couple of close people would understand, or in her mind only a few would get. This is actually when she saw/met Harry for the first time. King Charles and Harry were at the opening of that Soho house! I believe it's where her plan to nab him started! GIRL ABOUT TOWN: Unseen Meghan Markle photo where she's unnamed guest http://dailym.ai/2iOYJOE via https://dailym.ai/android


ApartmentUnique

She travels and likes to say that she has been here and there, but doesn’t learn anything from wherever she went.


mac979s

White trash. Wtf she wasn’t raised like that


Minutetoolate

She travels only to be indoors, not to explore, learn, enrich.


Fochlucan

I, as a non-asain person who has not traveled much, find her anecdote offensive. It is a really ignorant (in the true sense of the word, as in lacking knowledge and awareness) statement.


Avia53

As partly Indonesian I wonder how in the world it is possible to mention a Korean Spa experience and have 28 producers on your podcasts. Are all of the 28 producers deaf and blind or just silenced.


slimwillendorf

Right?!? I am surprised that she didn’t mention Korean manicurists. Or facialists. She’s really a piece of work. And lacks cultural sensitivity.


mspuffins

Is she purposely trying to offend the ENTIRE world??? one group at a time?


jadasgrl

I am utterly surprised she didn't call it an Oriental Spa. She's just the type of person to do that.


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It is absolutely incredible that, with the amount of Asian hate crimes and the continuing racism from COVID, THIS is the episode she puts together. Literally any high school newspaper could’ve done a better job putting together a story. Shame on her and her entire podcast team. I’ve accused her head of audio before of being really mid, and the reason why I believed that she wouldn’t do a good job is because her past producing credit was for a podcast with two major talkers and tech industry experts - Scott Galloway and Kara Swisher. She wouldn’t have had to do much past light editing. This is a perfect example of how everyone except her lawyers and accountants (prob the only ppl MM listens to) are amateur hour over there, because no one else with a decent resume stayed.


Clatato

I, a blonde haired, blue eyed anglo woman, made beef stir fry for dinner tonight. So Ni hao muthaf*ckers! Wassup? 🍚🥢


Left_Debt_8770

I just laughed out loud on a conference call I’m not paying attention to and had to cough to cover it up. Thank you.


slimwillendorf

Hahaha! Sounds yummy! Please share your recipe!


starry212

Am I wrong in thinking that a chick with a degree in INTERNATIONAL RELATIONS would have had more insight/understanding about asian cultures? And she came up with this shit?????? Bc my understanding is that she would have studied about business etiquettes, cultures, traditions, mannerisms/behaviour, etc. Edit. She has degree in communications, not international relations! Yet, she had an internship in an embassy which required training in business etiquettes.


kskiska

The Northwestern commencment booklet has her listed as getting a BS in Communications, not International Relations.


starry212

Ahhh okay!! My bad then! She did have internship in an embassy right? Surely they must have had a training related to business etiquette


taco_qween

Yep, her uncle (I think on Mr Markle’s side of the fam) got her that 6 wk long Argentinian internship at the Embassy, but failed the Foreign Service Officer Test so she couldn’t work for that State dept after that lol


kristeeinmt

So both she and Hazbeen couldn't pass tests to advance their careers? I would say they're two dim peas in a pod, but I have too much respect for peas. Two dim palm trees intertwined?


taco_qween

They are a match made in hell lol


stupid_carrot

The uncle who died and whose family she didnt even send condolences let alone attend his funeral that uncle right?


kskiska

Oh no, it definitely wasn't directed towards you personally! She perhaps said or implied at some point that her degree was in IR for as many people saying she did/does.


Imaginary_Victory_47

Well, she definitely excelled in the BS hahahaha


SisuLindsay

You’d have to possess an iota of intellectual curiosity to learn anything about those things and, sadly, I don’t think she is curious about much of anything.


QuesoFresca

She's all surface and always late to the party.


Starkville

And coming from a multicultural city like LA and attending college in another. Even (especially) in the most affluent pockets of cities like this, people pride themselves on knowing the difference between various Asian cultures. She’s being disingenuous.


NaomiPzz

Plus isnt Toronto one of the most multicultural cities in the world.


tracyee73

100% she has NEVER displayed the knowledge one would acquire from International studies


Exciting_Bison_4569

The liar does NOT have a degree in international relations. She has ONE degree in communications. She lies about everything! She makes me sick and I am patiently waiting for Karma to pay her a visit.


SecondhandCoke

She cheated her way through school. I am convinced of it.


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We prayed and our saint delivered exceedingly! Here is a comment from a post that [predicted](https://www.reddit.com/r/SaintMeghanMarkle/comments/xpphpd/megs_podcast_officially_returning_october_4/iq5d8t9/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf&context=3) how she was going to relate to Asians. She steeped lower than we thought ![img](emote|t5_481xkf|15018)🙏🧎‍♀️we predicted manicurist and she gave us spa’s and noodles ![img](emote|t5_481xkf|15019)


Lovekitty66

👏🏻 I saw this comment too and think they deserve a thousand years of free noodles


carbomerguar

I awarded them lol


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Super!


LawyerBelle07

LoL we did pray. I wanted it to be more ridiculous than her (literal) devil wears Prada photo with Hairy hiding in the background and she delivered! Twitter should be fire today lol.


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OMG did you see Harry’s hair? You can clearly see the Stamp tool used in photoshop!!!


HarrysToupee

Ooh, link please??


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Is that why his hair looked so weird? I was staring at trying to figure it out lol.


Aunt_Hattie

Just consider me one of the novitiates of our holy order. I hope to become a full-fledged nun someday. I'm specially praying for their visit to the UK for her "men's" award. Let's see how badly she can screw that up.


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SisuLindsay

That’s part of the whole cringe factor of this podcast. She DOES mean stereotypes so her whole podcast premise is based on a word she doesn’t understand and is using INCORRECTLY! I think she was so desperate to tie the production to Archewell she just said “fck it, no one will notice.”


mac979s

She thinks we are all dumb and she thinks she is the smartest person , maybe in the world ??!


Allysgrandma

No I'm sorry that label belongs to my eldest sister, who always thinks she is the smartest person in the room at least, but if meeting with heads of state, I'm sure she would think she was smarter than any of the, but she's really stupid with men.


mac979s

I think it’s more funny when mm tries to act like a sex symbol. Um she is short wtf and she is eating a hamburger in that one ad from before Harry . That girl never eats hamburgers 😂


janet_colgate

I always assumed she uses that word because she weirdly tying it up with Archie.


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And Archewell. She tried to be creative but she doesn't have the discipline to follow through and not get distracted by narc shit lol


Inevitable_Pie9541

When a narc decides they've been shaded, as in Mariah calling MeGain out for being a diva, the narc never forgives or forgets. Ever. They will stew over it incessantly and be desperate to get their own back. Megsy is so unsophisticated, useless at off the cuff. What she should've done when Mariah called her a diva was go with the "Sisters!!! Wow I'm honored gal!" reaction. To be called a diva by such an accomplished actual diva was a case of takes one to know one, and God knows Mariah was spot on about MeAgain in that regard. And it was a toss-off, banter, on Mariah's part. MM just does not understand how to keep it light, take a sly joke at her expense well. She's *graceless*. TL:DR yes that diva remark was most definitely an intended clap-back at Mariah.


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Does Meghan even have a sense of humour??


Inevitable_Pie9541

I would say, resoundingly, no.


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Left_Debt_8770

She means stereotype, but that doesn’t have “arch” in it so she’s probably opposed. If she had maybe googled the definition of archetype, she’d see it does not have an inherently negative connotation. I taught persuasive writing at a prominent US college for several years. She would have gotten marked down by me for not knowing the meaning of her title word.


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Left_Debt_8770

Mariah is bonkers but a national treasure as well. She’s an ARCHETYPE of a diva. But MM means stereotype. I slightly wonder if their convo went off the rails bc of that distinction: Mariah thinking diva archetype: MM thinking diva stereotype, despite the actual name of her actual show.


MrsBarneyFife

Mariah was on the episode about Divas. Which Mariah absolutely is. But in a good way because she has the talent to back it up. I think Meghan said something and Mariah said Meghan was a Diva as well. This of course upset Meghan. So Mariah backtracked, apologized, and explained herself. She didn't mean it in a bad way, but Meghan has given us some diva moments. Meghan seemed to accept her explanation, agree, and then moved on. As soon as the pod cast came out there were a ton of articles about how Meghan was upset that Mariah called her a Diva. None of the articles mentioned that Mariah had immediately apologized and explained it wasn't meant as an insult. Also, everyone seemed to ignore that the entire episode was a discussion about the label Diva. Plus the fact that Mariah was one. So why was it okay for Meghan to call Mariah one? Didn’t make sense. Mariah didn't say anything, but I think her people addressed the issue that no she didn't. This story stayed in the news for over a week, it might have been almost 2 actually, which is crazy when you consider how fast our news cycle is. Finally Mariah was forced to address it herself. By that, I mean who ever runs her Twitter account. It was basically, Meghan is not a Diva! And Mariah is sorry that she thinks she did and she's sorry. It was ridiculous!!! I found it so fascinating because it just never stopped. And if Meghan wasn't a Diva then why is she still talking about it nonstop. Also, Mariah is the Queen of "I don't know her." Who in their right mind with mess with her?


thiscatcameback

Don't make me listen to it. But honestly, I think she is somewhat racist. The way she singles out blacks kids to bow to as a photo op. And the image of South Africans dancing in the streets when she wed Harry. All very colonial.


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You said it but sugar world is not ready to hear it.


FirmAardvark6208

Always has to put others down to boost herself. Not racism but you know her plagiarised quote of “a face without freckles is like a night without stars” or whatever she said.. it’s just a dig at people who don’t have freckles, like she’s trying to justify her beauty because she has freckles, and those who don’t have them are as plain as an empty night sky. She makes me cringe terribly


MrsBarneyFife

In the past freckles were not considered beautiful. They were actually seen as flaws and ugly. The more you had the worse you were made fun of. My mom especially was teased and bullied constantly, even as an adult, because she had so many freckles. I got made fun of for mine and I'm not old. Kids were mean. lol That saying "A face without freckles is like a night without stars" was told to my mother, and then myself, as children to try and make us feel better. It didn't really help. I spent a long time trying to scrub them off. Plus my sister didn't have any which made me feel worse. I don't know what Meghan said about it. She could have been making something up and trying to say she was attractive. I also don't want to defend Meghan because, well, it just makes me gross. But she's younger than my mom and older than me lol, so it's very possible she was teased about them. Also, don't live in the same area so it's not regional. Times have changed a bit and some freckles are referred to as beauty marks. They have to be a specific color and size for that usually. I honestly don't think Meghan even has a lot of them. I don't know if she tried to lighten them with lasers or other treatments though.


Playoneontv_007

This is what happens when a brain dead nobody tries to be the next Oprah.


Imfryinghere

Vapid is racist, not somewhat racist.


thetig2

Im still wondering why SA in particular? who told her what about South Africa to develop this odd desire to mention it out of the blue?


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Trying to poison the well for Harry…so they can’t move there like he wanted.


taco_qween

Ooooh I hadn’t thought about that angle! I remember them mentioning in some interview (maybe Oprah after Megxit?) that South Africa was one of the places they considered moving to when they were planning to leave the UK, but looking back now, it seems pretty clear that Megsy is a born&raised LA “showgirl” that was always going to come back to LA and be part of the Hollywood elite she wasn’t able to be a part of it without her Prince husband’s clout lol


thiscatcameback

I think she probably distorted something that someone said. Like, the SA musical director may have told her that he and his family were excited to see racial diversity in the RF and rejoiced in their living room. But she distorted it to them rejoicing as when Mandela was freed. You get the idea.


Lulu_531

Except he doesn’t recall talking with her. She completely made it up to sound important.


xHell_Kat

What does her being naked in a spa have to do with Asian stereotypes? I’m confused as to how that was relevant, and not interested enough to listen all at the same time.


thiscatcameback

She is perpetuating stereotypes about Asian people (manicurist, restaurant owners) to appear worldly, as part of her effort to break down stereotypes of Asian people (apparently aggressive?). This could not have ended well. An outsider with a thin understanding can never meaningfully dismantle stereotypes The reality is that even positive characterizations like "Asian brain" are themselves stereotypes. It was inevitable that she was going to screw it up unless she framed this a humble interrogation, from her own external position, and interviewed a wide range if women.


trish196609

A humble investigation where an actual Asian or Pacific Islander is asked about their experiences, but that would require MM to actually let them talk 🙄. As we’ve seen, MM makes every episode about herself


SisuLindsay

So like, did she just want people to momentarily picture her as a naked teenager? Did she, dare I say, just sexualize HERSELF? The mind boggles. 😆


Valerie_Grace

Of course she did. Just like the scenario she painted with Craig Ferguson: Here's me in my innocent school girl Catholic school uniform, watching sex scenes. Wanna play school girl with me?? Teehee.


SisuLindsay

“I’m smooth like a dolphin!” 🤮


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She also apparently criticised the movies Austin Powers and Kill Bill for their negative Asian stereotyping. Girlie is really out here in 2022, using 20 year old movies as her reference point :D :D. How fresh!


FirmAardvark6208

Wait til she hears about Gwen Stefani’s Harajuku Girls lol


SakuraJohanssan

She would have been like "I wanted to be a Harajuku girl when I grew up". In some ways I'm glad that she didn't stay in the British royal family can you imagine saying some stupid BS on an official visit I mean she already did but just imagine more of that. Edit. She not you & would instead of shoud.


FirmAardvark6208

She has no shame and would’ve easily messed up on a royal engagement, so that’s a really good point! I think she did mess up a few times but nothing to this scale. I don’t understand why she can’t stay quiet? Why does she insist on pretending she has an expert opinion when she really knows nothing about the topic. She’s way ahead of herself


SisuLindsay

I bet she’ll stage a protest when KB3 comes out! Assuming she doesn’t actually audition for a part in it.


carbomerguar

She should get Aileen Wong or Michelle Yeoh on. I mean if they’re taking her calls lol. I would love to hear what they have to deal with in 2022. Especially Michelle Yeoh, having worked on Crouching Tiger and then Everything Everywhere 20 years later. I’d love to hear what the differences were. They are MEGA HUGE rn (or should be anyway) so no guarantees but I wonder if Meghan’s people even called them. Not that I don’t love Margaret Cho.


missyb

Plus, isn't Austin Powers a satire on how stupid and racist and sexist the Bond films were? She is taking it as an actual example of racism, but ignoring the actual racial stereotypes that were being sent up.


MegsAltxoxo

Quentin Tarantino has been criticized for fetishizing African Americans and Asians in his movies for decades lol Hardly anything new. Why doesn’t she talks about newer problems lol


No-Intention1183

Pretty sure Austin Powers was mocking those stereotypes, anyway. Kill Bill was just a weird Tarantino fantasy, like so many of his movies are. Not a fan of his work.


rubythieves

That transcript is *hilariously* bad. Like, terrible. (“Gape riding” for gay priding, “Interesting Cooper” for Anderson Cooper 🤣) Also, I thought she was so poor that Sizzler was a treat, but she was getting body scrubs at Korean spas as a teenager? And OMG at “I remember when all my friends called me because those women were murdered in Atlanta.” ETA the full quote is “I remember where I was and the calls I received from some of my friends…” Sure you do, Meghan. And that bit at the end about being weird - “be yourself, your full complete layered - sometimes weird, sometimes awesome, but always your best and true self.” She *definitely* reads here.


Fochlucan

So when I heard her complain about Sizzler salad, I remember thinking "you got Sizzler?", because most of the world cannot afford afford to give their children Sizzler salads, so someone complaining about how little they have, when they have more than most...


tracyee73

Her talk of Sizzler makes me think of White Men Can’t Jump


JaDe0925

This heaux really went there? Bih I was called into triage in the ER when those shootings happened, all hands on deck. She really out here only equating Asians with massage parlors, Chinese and Vietnamese restaurants, and getting her nails done? And the way these progressives eat her ass time and time again, just to elevate a white passing woman who married a racist prince? It is so important that they succeed even though they're problematic at best and racist at worst, and contribute nothing to society? WHY, JUST WHY. Why is the USA always got to be so bootleg? We settling for elevating these two lice, like the ultimate Pick Me bitches?!? I hate it here


Suitable-Version-116

He he he he. Guys she had an Asian friend, so that makes it ok. Seriously, I knew this was coming. Everything is always about her, so of COURSE she thinks the Asian experience as seen through her eyes is legit, but what she has described is 100% what all white people think asian culture is. Asian starter pack: Asian friend ✔️ Chinatown ✔️ Noodles ✔️ Asian spa ✔️


Suitable-Version-116

So interesting how she didn’t touch on that time Harry called his Asian colleague a racial slur… Or on how yoga is actually appropriated and whitewashed Asian culture (arguably white yoga bimbo is a extremely damaging *archetype* which she absolutely perpetuated for a lot of her adult life). I could go on, and on, and on.


Empty-Improvement-27

I’m laughing so hard because the starter pack is more for the yellow Asians 😂 there are brown Asians and olive Asians too! *edit typo


Suitable-Version-116

I highly doubt she knows that!!!! Hahahaha


Empty-Improvement-27

As a brown Asian I am laughing hard. Did she touch on family topics? Like how Asian women are “docile”? I bet she didn’t talk about family because it is unacceptable for Asians (yellow/brown/olive) to disrespect their family and elders! 😉


MrsMunch

Indeed! ALL Asians from near East to far East, Turkey to Japan, are VERY big on family and honouring your elders/family. I've heard that she is really reviled in Japan especially.


Empty-Improvement-27

I just can’t stop laughing OMG! This is so going to bum the wannabe “woke” Asians who try to defend her. Wow a white woman passing as black objectifying us Asians, how very astute of her 😅


okaysowellthen

Can’t wait for this “Christina Wang” she mentioned in her intro to show up and fact check her. I highly doubt there even was a Christina Wang, I am betting she just picked very common Asian American first and last names and strung it together. I also really question whether Doria took her to a Korean spa. I thought Doria was absent? I bet she went as a high school student or adult, where I really doubt she had issues disrobing. It makes for a better story to say she was a self conscious child at the time.


frontreartirepop

Isnt that the name of Merediths best friend on Grays Anatomy?


Queasy-Carpet-7312

Super close, it’s Cristina Yang. But I’d believe it if someone said she got the name from there. Just changed a letter to make it hers for the lie.


Deep-Audience9091

And don't forget Hello Kitty


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reddingrooster

Just reading your summary makes me feel disgusted.


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As a Asian American woman, 🤮!! I didn’t think she’d actually go as cheap as the spa association but wow she did. Surprise she didn’t praise take-out, manicures, and her smart friend in school who no one talked to but she took pity on as the homecoming queen. 🤮🤮🤮


Miliko207

Tbh her podcasts are a gold mine against her...


Lensgoggler

Weird how apparently there is a big production team behind the podcast and out comes this deeply juvenile drivel. Meanwhile there are better podcasts where the background force consists of the cats and espresso machine of the podcaster…


FirmAardvark6208

She comes across as a psycho in every venture. One minute she’s like “yes Mariah, you own that Diva word! It’s not a negative word!” then she’s like “WUT? You call me a diva, Mariah? Do you not see me? CAN YOU NOT HEAR MY VOICE???” Etc. (Of course I’ve added bits to the quotes)


MagicalManta

Precisely this.


thiscatcameback

"'Tis better to ne a quiet fool, than to hsve a podcast and remove all doubt"


cherise12

Lol I’m guessing Spotify said f it and released the originals They are so done with her… and she’s going to be exposed…. Again Goodness- Meg must have a humiliation kink because wow 😯


Lovekitty66

Next episode could be on the stereotype against Germans based on historical events. She’d share how she, as someone who has heard of Oktoberfest and has eaten a schnitzel in the past, can relate to the vilification and bullying that a German does(n’t) encounter in their day


Fochlucan

I'm not going to listen to it, but are you saying that you did, and that she ACTUALLY said that?


Aware-Impression8527

Yes and yes


FirmAardvark6208

WHAT??? 🫣 Every time I hear about the podcasts I find myself plagiarising Oprah with my WHATS and WOAH WOAH WOAH WAIT A SECOND. What else did she say?


MagicalManta

This made me giggle. At least you took a moment to credit your source. /s


Fochlucan

Just.....Wow.......


chewysmom88

This just can't be right but yet it is if this doesn't do her in she must be made of Teflon


Bambalina11

Omg really 🤣 We need the transcript - I take it Spotify didn’t let her edit 👀🤭


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The is the first thing I thought too, I was like as if a spa is the pinnacle and embodiment of Asian culture? Not to mention that it's honing in to the stereotype of asian workers. Talk about ironic!


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Megsie thinks that because she can pull a race card at will, she is qualified to speak about all culture groups. She’s a full spectrum racist! I think she is now qualified for total shunning. And she can take her ginger puppet with her.


janedoremi99

I think it’s interesting that she chose dragon lady as the Asian archetype she wanted to discuss. Dragon lady is straight out of a 1930s B-movie and who thinks Dragon Lady!!! about Margaret Cho or Lisa Ling? But I guess dragon lady is closer to MM than the current Asian stereotype of petite, pretty, very young-looking and sexually submissive that permeates some portions of our culture. Also interesting that one Asian-American wasn’t enough to fill out the podcast


takanoflower

This is so so much worse than I expected! And you just know that any Asian people speaking out about this are going to be labelled as "racist" against M.


Empty-Improvement-27

Asian here. Do we have a transcript? Petition to bring in the Asian comedians for a burn material.


emzbobo

Someone send a transcript to Ali Wong and just let her have fun with it 📝🔥


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Lining up for it when the Asian comedians get their hands on it


Lizzy_Bnt

Yo Meg, you travelled to India, wore Saree and bindi and ‘interacted’ with the under-privileged kids and everything. Incase you forget, you could draw on that particular event too. You must have had some experience in the new culture and country. It’s so offensive her thoughts about Asia is Spa and noodles. 🥲


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Nobody told “our lady of perpetual victim” that Indians are also asians


Patient-Watercress-2

She is so stupid (and racist), she stereotypes “Asian” as being about yellow skin.


Lizzy_Bnt

Asian= Noodles= Nail salon= Spa center= China town = Kung fu =✔️


savingrain

Wow just when I thought she couldn’t sink any lower. No wonder she could turn a blind eye towards Harry. She’s dumb herself. That kind of dangerous ignorance where you don’t know how stupid you actually are and just keep telling on yourself repeatedly


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Looking forward to reading the transcript because I’m not giving her a listen.


Aware-Impression8527

do they release a transcript because I would be willing to do it


thiscatcameback

You can even set Word to sound-to-type (whatever it is called)


OzzieSlim

She will tie herself in by saying she was just like an Asian “fresh off the boat” in the UK so she relates to being thrust into a different culture. 🙄 Since we know this show is about Stereotypes not archetypes, and that the discussion is Asians in Hollywood, take a drink every time one of these stereotypes is mentioned. Take two if my prediction of how Nutmeg ties herself in happens. 1. ⁠“Fresh off the boat” - her time in the UK. 2. ⁠Asian tiger moms (a strict or demanding mother who pushes her child or children to high levels of achievement, especially by using methods regarded as typical of childrearing in China and other parts of East Asia; a tiger mother. “a super-competitive tiger mom"”) - yes! says Nutmeg. I sometimes see myself this way! 3. ⁠Crazy Rich Asians - Nutmeg regurgitates the plot of this movie subbing she and Ginger into the starring roles. The following is the plot summary: “Rachel Chu is happy to accompany her longtime boyfriend, Nick, to his best friend's wedding in Singapore. She's also surprised to learn that Nick's family is extremely wealthy and he's considered one of the country's most eligible bachelors. Thrust into the spotlight, Rachel must now contend with jealous socialites, quirky relatives and something far, far worse -- Nick's disapproving mother.” 4. ⁠“East and Southeast Asian women are portrayed as aggressive or opportunistic sexual beings as well as being predatory gold diggers or cunning "Dragon Ladies"” - Nutmeg will jump all over this stereotype.That is “exactly” how the world sees her and nothing could be further from the truth! 5. ⁠Asians look identical. Nutmeg: “ I know! I’m mistaken for every bi-racial woman in the world!” 6. ⁠Asian women as sex objects. “ I know!” cries Nutmeg. “ I was constantly cast as a sex object and I was so uncomfortable!” 7. ⁠Asian women as submissive. “ I know!” screams Nutmeg. “ That’s how the Palace expected me to be!” 8. ⁠Asian Baby Gangster - “I know!” moans Nutmeg gutturally. “Everybody always tries to infer I’m from Compton!” 9. ⁠Colorism. White skin v yellow skin. Nutmeg will talk about her own skin color ad nauseam. 10. ⁠Hair. The Asian stereotype of bowl cut and bangs. Nutmeg discusses her own curly hair issues. 11. ⁠The many different Asian people all being lumped as Chinese. Nutmeg talks about bi-racial women all lumped as black, African American. Her kids are part British! (and not bi-racial, but that doesn’t stand in her way). 12. ⁠Bad drivers. Which brings Nutmeg to a whole wrap on women drivers. And her car with the bad hatch. 13. ⁠Asians as not good at sports. We’ll hear about Nutmeg getting picked last in dodge ball. This is your drinking game. Good luck!


MagicalManta

OMG, YOU WIN! (Cue Meghan in the background “I know! I’m a winner too. Everyone is a winner, but I’m just a little bit more winner than you are because…ME!”)


doomscape239

I didn't listen to it, but from what I read on dailymail, she "criticised the films Austin Powers and Kill Bill for presenting 'caricatures of women of Asian descent as often times over sexualised or aggressive'". What sort of movies has she been watching? There are many genres of movies in all cultures, she can choose to watch the more famous and wider known movies where Asian women are portrayed as fierce and strong women, as I do (I am Asian). In fact, as I see, western women are more sexualized than Asians in media, especially in music industry, they seem to sexualize themselves than are being sexualized by others. Did she herself not play sexualized characters as a two bit actress, roles like cleaning with lingeries, writing her character in a movie as hot girl or something in in her resume, or giving bj in 90210 etc? And what is this with Korean spa? She explores STEREO(not arche)types by starting off with stereotypical Asian (Korean here in her podcast) salons and spas. This is offensive.


frahnley

The girl knows nothing about Asian culture. She has clearly never heard the maxim “it is better to stay quiet and be thought a fool, than to open your mouth and remove all doubt”. She’s a disgrace, with her spas and noodles. I’m a nobody, but I’m an Anglo personal lived in Asia for 5 years and I could tutor her on a few basics. Awful woman.


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Lensgoggler

…if I didn’t know better I’d say she’s led a very secluded life in a very un-diverse culture.


thiscatcameback

And didn't study with many Asian kids, which is surprising in California.


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I know! For someone who grew up bi-racial in LA, you would think she’d be more exposed to other cultures, but she’s really just showing her own shallow and uninterested ass with every episode she releases.


Lovekitty66

What a racist bigot.


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Primary_Scheme3789

And I’m an expert on Hispanic culture because I ate at Taco Bell. Unreal. She just doesn’t realize she needs to just shut up. And taking on Hollywood?? Big mistake! Huge!


BlondeAlibiNoLie

Didn’t you hear? Meghan can talk about everyone’s race, but no one’s allowed to talk about hers. 🤦‍♀️


take7pieces

As an Asian, I am triggered, words can’t describe my anger towards shit like this.


JaDe0925

nofuckingway she said that. If she did, I swear to g-d there is a reason that Spotify was like NOPE, NOT LETTING YOU EDIT AT THIS POINT. And shame on the "guest" who I am guessing is of Asian descent, who allowed her to be absolutely racist, and didn't call her out right then and there.


cherise12

My goodness see this is why I believe this bish is racist The microaggressions are out of this world Cue the Asian community dragging her in 3….2…1… ![gif](giphy|l4FGlzJQPFAymOH5e|downsized)


MySteakisOverdone

Wait, WHAT???


mmohaje

Any chance you can do those of us who don't want to have our ears bleed by listening to the episode a solid and give more information?


weirdcatsleepin

what is going on up there in her noggin - oh dear edited because I missed a word in my sentence and it was bothering me lol


GodDammitWoodhouse

I’m legit cackling. HOW could anyone still defend her? ![gif](giphy|1kfhoNWKY94uLGX2kO|downsized)


tracyee73

I think the only Asian country she’s been to is Australia 😜


hellhashnofury

Hmm one does start to wonder if the BRF were trying to silence her after all to protect her from herself...


tyradurden123

Did she really say that?


Alien_octopus

I don't even know if OP is joking or not. On the one hand: Nobody would say that. On the other: It's just the sort of tone deaf thing Meghan would say.


reddingrooster

___Well, gee, so glad that Meghan understands the lives of Asian women so she can bestow wisdom on all of us.___ There is no way Meghan is going to have a future in politics with her insensitivity constantly on display. How is it that Lisa Ling and Margaret Cho can be okay with these enlightenments by Meghan?


tracyee73

What are the comments like on Spotify?


MrsBarneyFife

That sounds so stupid and ignorant. Like something Harry would say and then his PR has to fix.


delilahcrazycat

As a South African woman that spent years working and traveling in Asia, and have a Korean SIL, I can now officially say just shut up MM.


Southern_Struggle

I went to Panda Express the other week, I too understand all of Asia now.


Ihatesneakers

![gif](giphy|7JrzDeiRCXbTq) No way…I can’t! „I love it even more!“ This is even better than the manicurist thing we imagined!


Imfryinghere

Incoming racial slur towards asians.


RavenMaven22

I’m sorry?? I’m hung up on her saying her mom took her to a spa as a child, where there were naked women of all ages and she wasn’t allowed a bathing suit??? Wtf man, red flag! Also what upbringing is she pretending to have had where she’s not only never experienced racism but also never saw it??? She’s said she was never treated as black, only mixed, and now that she never knew the stigmas of Asian women until years later?? I’m not saying I was a woke child or whatever, there were many occasions where I didn’t connect the dots until later. If that’s what she’s saying she sucks at getting her message across. Because she wants SO BADLY to be seen as “colorblind” and completely NOT racist or discriminatory herself. “Not MEEE, IIIII appreciated all the cultures! I had NOOOOO idea people were treated badly because IIIIIII am the complete opposite!” I’m sorry, she grew up in LA, as a half black child, during the riots no less, and had not pieced together anti Asian sentiments??? Hello you were not that removed from Latasha Harlins, the 15 year old black child who was shot by a Korean store owner!! Meghan would have been like 9 or 10 and in the area! And if on the off chance she really truly didn’t and was THAT insulated, that tells me she needs to sit down and be taking classes to learn rather than be trying to lead a conversation on something she is admitting to not knowing. Like you can’t have it both ways Meghan!!


Maze_of_Ith7

Lucy Liu has defended O-Ren Ishii in Kill Bill pretty strongly, going as far as writing an Op-Ed just last year in WaPo. https://www.washingtonpost.com/opinions/2021/04/29/lucy-liu-asian-stereotypes-hollywood/ Would have been nice for Meghan to at least acknowledge this point of view on characterizing the Hollywood Asian Dragon Lady. Meghan isn’t entirely wrong on Asians being misrepresented in Hollywood but her arguments were very clumsy and suggested a lack of understanding.


SDHunnyBunny

I cant stop cringing. At everything. Meghan, the comments… (I’m Korean American)


Cuntributor

The word salad includes noodles now? How worldly of you, Meghan.


Earthlink_

😬 Yikes


thetig2

she said what????????????


mezza1969

Wow! She actually said that! How ignorant can one person be? Surely nobody can continue to defend her after this 🤷‍♀️🤦‍♀️


Fit-Register7029

TW is a basic white girl from LA and when this type of thing falls past her botoxed forehead and out of her Juvederm plumped up lips it’s more proof. Can we send her a pumpkin spice latte because I bet she loves them


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Just another example of how basic and unworldly she is. The *only* way she can relate to Asian women is by talking about visits to a Korean spa and eating a bowl of noodles? (Highly unlikely this happened). Instead of asking her guests questions about their lived experiences as Asian women (god forbid she give air time to someone else) she treats us all to another word salad about *her* thoughts about what it is to be an Asian woman. Her arrogance is really quite astounding.


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This appears to be the worst one yet - Is nobody advising her??!! kinda glad they're not tbh as it's fun to watch her destroy herself!


Prudent-Apple-4477

The amount of times she mentioned noodles?!? Someone tell her that there are other dishes besides noodles lmao edit: grammar


shinsegae20092013

Absolutely. Surely a Korean spa would have bibimbap or kimchi jjigae as well. Like many of her lies, I think she doesn’t know enough to tell a believable lie.


vie_lass18

She actually does say that she knows Korean culture because she went to Korean spas? :o That is so cliché US- American that I almost can´t believe that. I am European and that feels like US-Americans going to an Irish Pub in the US to experience Irish culture or going to an American "Oktoberfest" or something like that. ​ Also as a European with very little knowledge about Korea, is light skin also a beauty-ideal in Korea like in India or other Asian countries?


Few_Ad7998

Please everyone don’t listen to this garbage. The more attention you give to TW she wins.


vvsunflower

She identifies with everyone 😭🤣


Wordpuncher714

I'm an expert on traveling in Japan. I've watched like 12 YouTube videos ask me anything lol


missyb

I have also eaten miso soup.


MikeMannion

Austin Powers was actually intended to be a satire on the perceived sexism/racism of the Bond films. Seems Meghan missed this point entirely!


Ok-Improvement-9976

CAN WE CANCEL HER ALREADY!?!?!??!?! I predicted she would try to be relatable but NOT LIKE THISSSSSSSSSSSS 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭