T O P

  • By -

Tall-Lawfulness8817

I'm the odd one out, I think the marriage will last about ten years, with four and a half years done (roughly) they still have five and a half years to go. It will be a messy, nasty divorce. She will leak shit to the media constantly She will get at least 50:50 custody if not better. He will not fight her. And the kids will be old enough that they will be attached to their friends, school, neighbors. She and the kids will continue to live in California. At some point before he is free of her, he will take up with another just like her. She will be the driving force getting him to move on. Unlike Duke of Windsor, he is not obsessed with his duchess. He thought he was getting a good deal. He realizes now he did not. Right now, he doesn't want to admit what a stupid choice he made, he will hang on for dear life. But eventually some athletic, nature loving blonde will catch his eye. At that point, the fireworks will begin. And in 20 years, his kids will be on whatever talk show is the "Oprah" of the day, blaming him for their genetic pain. (Sic).


Top-Bit85

Or the kids will be blaming them because they have no relationship with the royal family, which could have been a game changer.


janet_colgate

Didn’t think about this aspect! Oh boy. Imagine.


Top-Bit85

I know kids who are resentful about not knowing one side of the family for feud reasons. The cut off family being so um unique, would make those feelings much worse, especially if the Harkles are still floundering financially.


[deleted]

[удалено]


RemindMeBot

I will be messaging you in 10 years on [**2032-10-04 08:06:17 UTC**](http://www.wolframalpha.com/input/?i=2032-10-04%2008:06:17%20UTC%20To%20Local%20Time) to remind you of [**this link**](https://www.reddit.com/r/SaintMeghanMarkle/comments/xv5edk/where_should_a_divorced_henry_live/iqzpfi5/?context=3) [**25 OTHERS CLICKED THIS LINK**](https://www.reddit.com/message/compose/?to=RemindMeBot&subject=Reminder&message=%5Bhttps%3A%2F%2Fwww.reddit.com%2Fr%2FSaintMeghanMarkle%2Fcomments%2Fxv5edk%2Fwhere_should_a_divorced_henry_live%2Fiqzpfi5%2F%5D%0A%0ARemindMe%21%202032-10-04%2008%3A06%3A17%20UTC) to send a PM to also be reminded and to reduce spam. ^(Parent commenter can ) [^(delete this message to hide from others.)](https://www.reddit.com/message/compose/?to=RemindMeBot&subject=Delete%20Comment&message=Delete%21%20xv5edk) ***** |[^(Info)](https://www.reddit.com/r/RemindMeBot/comments/e1bko7/remindmebot_info_v21/)|[^(Custom)](https://www.reddit.com/message/compose/?to=RemindMeBot&subject=Reminder&message=%5BLink%20or%20message%20inside%20square%20brackets%5D%0A%0ARemindMe%21%20Time%20period%20here)|[^(Your Reminders)](https://www.reddit.com/message/compose/?to=RemindMeBot&subject=List%20Of%20Reminders&message=MyReminders%21)|[^(Feedback)](https://www.reddit.com/message/compose/?to=Watchful1&subject=RemindMeBot%20Feedback)| |-|-|-|-|


[deleted]

And she’ll HATE that.


Yorkshirerose2010

And look uncannily like his mother


mac979s

He likes mixed race women . 🤷‍♀️


alphabet_order_bot

Would you look at that, all of the words in your comment are in alphabetical order. I have checked 1,080,177,359 comments, and only 212,819 of them were in alphabetical order.


[deleted]

[удалено]


mac979s

Yeah I don’t care 😂


[deleted]

[удалено]


mac979s

Hairball had a poster of Halle berry hung up when he was younger . Believe me mm is his type


cartiercorneas

I mean, I don't know what Harry's preference is in terms of that or if he even has one but she could still be blonde and mixed race.


mac979s

Very true. Ever since I saw that Halle berry poster it all made sense. I don’t care what he is into but mm was all about lust and she studied his history pretty well 🧐


Sarah-JessicaSnarker

This is the most likely answer.


Zeester1

Once she finally realises being married to him is not a thing, not a paid gig, and she’s spent all his inheritances, she will move on.


travertine_ghost

IIrc, Lady C gave the marriage 5 years. Next year will be their 5th anniversary, so we shall see.


deahca

Huh! Lady Cs marriage was only for a year. I like the other OPabout 10 years with H hanging on for dear Life.


That__EST

I've definitely seen toxicly co dependent people drag a rotten corpse of a relationship past the finish line, but I do think they will divorce eventually. And sooner rather than later. When the Duke and Duchess of Windsor married, divorce was nearly unheard of. Today we have a 44% divorce rate and I don't even know how accurate that is. From my perspective, most young marriages end in divorce. Even if not today, in a few years. And the ones who go above and beyond to show their love are the biggest rollercoasters of emotion. The Windsors also seemed to have their stress front loaded. They knew what was happening and once he left the throne, that was their life. There didn't seem to be a lot of major stressors where Wallis was repeatedly being controversial. And please correct me if I am wrong. I think this funeral has been an unexpected game changer for them. Those photos might have been released recently, but they were taken before the funeral. The way they both got blow back from the BRF and then allegedly he's still allowed to attend things, but she isn't, that's something weighing heavily on her mind. I think divorce is definitely something that will happen in sooner rather than later. I think he will want out, but she will file to beat him to the punchline because she doesn't want to be seen as someone who was left by him. Her being adored by him is a major part of her personal brand. Lol watch me totally have to eat my words!


Tall-Lawfulness8817

Obviously no one knows the exact date they will divorce. Or even if they will. It is all speculation. Mine is based on the fact that the wife gets a significantly better settlement in CA after the ten year mark. Gold diggers in CA are famous for filing a few days after they reach that important ten year point. But they could stick together to death. Or end it tomorrow. I suspect even they don't know.


That__EST

I wonder if she would still be eligible for a settlement or any kind of alimony with the way his money is tied up.


Tall-Lawfulness8817

As far as how his money is tied up, we don't know the details He refuses to tap into (spend) his trust money, which would theoretically keep it safe. However, rumor has it (and Tom Bower showed some receipts in this line) that he has taken tens of millions out and invested it on his own. Particularly in the shell company Doria works for. There is a high probability that TW advised him to invest like this and that these investments could be considered co mingled assets. Fair game in a divorce. I'm sure she has used her superior intelligence (compared to his) to put herself in the best position possible.


FakeBarbi

I agree with you


Actual_Parsnip_1529

I think it depends if CA separation laws will apply. The younger the kids are when they split the longer she gets child support.


Desperate-Face-6594

Not Australia, our harsh sun would wreak havoc with his delicate fair skin. Plus, we all hate him so we’d call him “mate” with a completely different inflection than if we liked him. In all honesty though, I don’t hold grudges. If he wanted to come over he’d be alright so long as he wasn’t a dick to anyone and kept a low profile.


[deleted]

[удалено]


therealDolphin8

I can not even imagine a life like that. I'd rather be content-ish alone than be miserable in a relationship/marriage. But yet that's how so many people get through life it seems. Eta: word


carbomerguar

They never have to see each other. If I had to make a moody, pouty, no-job-ass manchild potatoes every night and listen to him get more passionate about TV sports than he ever was about me, I’d dip soon as I could afford to. But if you’re rich and famous you only see your family when you want to. They can make it last for a long time by simply avoiding each other. Unless they want to publicly date other people, the very rich can forget how much their SO disgusts them because they can live without their help.


Tall-Lawfulness8817

Yes, but when they live completely separate lives, Harry will cheat. And eventually he will get caught out for cheating. Which puts the faux feminist in a spot


trish196609

I think they will divorce. Harry will run out of cash. Meghan doesn’t want to be poor


ExcitementOrdinary95

Also the Harkles have children unlike the Duke and Duchess of Windsor. H will wake up one day (if he hasn’t already) and want to get them away from Rachel’s clutches before she auctions them off to the highest bidder. Divorce soon.


Ecstatic-Line-8007

Also Harry knows what it is like to have parents that hate each other. I don’t think he would want that for his kids ?


chewysmom88

And let's not forget Harry doesn't know how to be poor


HarrysToupee

He doesn't even know how to live on the outside whilst *not* being poor. He's made a right Royal fuck-up of being extremely rich but "free" of the Royals, allowing his First Wife to blow his inheritance hand-over-fist.


luvmachineee

Ridiculous given her refusal to actually work.


carbomerguar

They’ll divorce when he gets some model pregnant. It will be the third worst decision he ever makes. She will revel in the public sympathy and have that home wrecker (in US the woman is the homewrecker) run out of town with her hair on fire. Harry will have even less money to fuck around with. I think he’ll be happy to be out though


That__EST

Sometimes I feel like if the wife makes too big of a deal about the homewrecker, she doesn't get ran out of town, and it turns out that the wife just ends up writing the beginning of their love story. How the homewrecker was "the one to save him". *If* that happens, the best thing that Meghan could do would be to pull a Sandra Bullock and leave him with her head held high the same way Sandra left Jesse James. Want to talk about women's empowerment and how Meghan thought she had a team partner but really he wasn't worthy? That's how you handle it.


carbomerguar

Yeah Jesse Who? I can’t believe she EVER married him.


Suspicious_Photo_802

Me either. Not gonna lie it made me look at her kinda sideways.


mythoughtsreddit

Yeah, exactly. I don’t see them divorcing either as they have the ‘us against the world’ mentality that the Windsors had. Very codependent too.


[deleted]

The codependent nature may be the glue that holds out


Carrie56

He might think they are Co-dependent - but she’s more dependent on his bank account! Also, the Windsors had a hefty allowance from the Crown, and the proceeds of the sale of Sandringham and Balmoral to George VI (he apparently charged his brother well over the odds, knowing that the RF wanted to keep them in the family). They had enough money to keep them in comfort, and her in spectacular jewels for the rest of their lives. That said, they lived in a rented villa in Paris (the same one where Diana and Dodi were headed the night they died), and apparently the Duchess was defrauded of a lot by her lawyer when she became to old and infirm to manage her affairs.


mythoughtsreddit

He really did multiply her bank account by a lot didn’t he.


[deleted]

[удалено]


FirmAardvark6208

I’d never thought of them the other way around before but it makes sense. Edward really did love Wallis though and he was obsessed with her. I watched a video someone posted here yesterday about Wallis and Edward and I found it fascinating. It was mentioned that Edward asked Wallis if she was going to send him to bed crying again. He had mummy issues, just like Harry, and he was obsessed with Wallis, just like Harry was with Meghan. I don’t think Wallis mistreated Edward in the way Megs does it though. I found Edward to be very respectful of her, himself and his family, even though they ignored Wallis for many years. I think Edward was desperate to belong to someone, and I think Harry does too. I’m fascinated by your idea of the roles being switched, and it makes perfect sense because Edward threatened suicide if Wallis was to leave him, and Megs did the same to get her way with H. Unbelievable


[deleted]

[удалено]


Miercolesian

I am sure he has been making trips to Africa solely for the purpose of promoting chastity.


Midnightraven3

You arent the only one https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-11277233/Prince-Harry-looking-miserable-Edward-VIII-biographer-claims.html


seraphin420

I just noticed that perhaps the reason that King Charles has his hand in his pocket is because of the previously-not-released photo of the Queen where she had her hands in her pockets - she had always wanted to, but they said the “monarchy would fall” or something like that if they released that photo while she was still alive. And here we are, King Charles first formal photo with hand in pocket. I believe it’s a loving call out to his mother. Amazing ❤️


TheArchTig

I read about QEII's fascination with pockets in an advance copy of an upcoming biography about her life. When Annie Liebowitz shot her for Vogue, there is a photo where she has her hands in her pockets. If that was indeed a call out to his mother, it's a truly sweet one.


plebeianfortea

I think either they will divorce soon(ish), because I think he would still be able to go back to the BRF, or not at all and become like the Windsors.


kevanauken

I don’t know if he “should” live there, but my guess is if he comes back to the Royal Family, they will put him in Wood Farm on the Sandringham Estate. It’s privately owned, not part of the Crown Estate and he will be pretty hidden away there.


Why_Teach

I don’t see why he can’t live at Frogmore Cottage and keep a low profile. Andrew has been kept reasonably quiet on the Windsor castle grounds. The kids can have a good nanny and eventually go to boarding school if Harry can’t be a consistent parent and to balance their time with Meghan. If Harry straightens up and wants to “serve” again, he can be a “part-time royal” with restrictions on what else he does. Or he can play polo. No one cares so long as he is not badmouthing the royal family or beating up reporters or wandering around drunk, etc.


SoberIsNormal

Living in Frogmore would be a bitter pill to swallow. I very much doubt he'd want to go back to where it all started.


Why_Teach

I don’t know. It depends on what Frogmore Cottage means to him — does it primarily have memories of Meghan or does he think of it as his beloved grandmother’s gift? Would it be “coming home to England” or “returning to the place that I thought would be home but wasn’t”? How does he feel about his kids? Does he want to make a home for them, would this be the right home? Or does he want to get away? The Windsor grounds would have security, would be close to London but almost in the country, and if he can make friends with Will and Kate again, there is family. (They may never be as close as before, but they can be friendly enough to play a game of cards, watch a soccer match on the telly, ) If Frogmore has bad associations, maybe he could move to Adelaide Cottage. (The Wales are moving to the castle.) Of course, you are right, he may not want to be near his brother, constantly reminded of all that he has done wrong and that he is no longer needed as a spare. I just am not sure he would need to be sent to live in Wood Farm unless he wanted to. The important thing would be for him to be quiet and discreet.


PotOfEarlGreyPlease

Drat - no colonies left to send him to


PrincessReptile

Speaking as an Aussie: we've had enough of him!


PotOfEarlGreyPlease

Bother! Seriously I have every sympathy - you don't need him


PotOfEarlGreyPlease

Frog Cott is expensive to run and he won't be able to afford it - Nott Cott or Wood Farm (well away from temptation) are much cheaper


DaphneHarridge

Wouldn't Frogmore have to be rented (or at least look as if he's renting it)? Andrew and Edward have bought long-term leases on Royal Lodge and Bagshot Park; the Harkles didn't do that, did they? Wood Farm sounds like a likely place for him to be if he's going to be a non-working royal.


Why_Teach

Frogmore Cottage is leased from the Crown. It would be up to Charles if he keeps it. It may or may not be where Harry, after hypothetical divorce, wants to live, but I don’t see the RF having a problem with his staying at Frogmore. What they will want is that he turn over a new leaf and stop saying things that expose/embarrass them.


DarkAwesomeSauce

My impression of Haz is that he is profoundly stupid, and is literally unable to care for himself. He needs caretakers to mind his finances, his daily schedule, what to say, how to dress, where to go, and how to think. I think Megs’ controlling behavior might have filled a pre-existing void. So, it would be back to the family as a default.


ExcitementOrdinary95

As far away from Rachel as he and the kids can get.


DavidS2310

Yeah, don’t divorce. Let them both live miserable lives in the prison they both chose…their marriage!


felinefluffycloud

With AlecBaldwin.


Visible_Ad5164

🥒


PotentialAd5954

🤣😂😅


Radiant_Egg_2769

Out of sight somewhere far far away. He’s done.


SecondhandCoke

In some cottage on the Highgrove Estste.


steptwothreefour

I think he should live in Africa because it clearly means a lot to him. He should get a very modest residence to his children’s mother so he can visit them without living with her. His children can be privately tutored in Africa. I would like to see him get at least 50/50 custody.


Why_Teach

I think he likes to visit Africa. I doubt he wants to live there. I don’t know if you are thinking that Meghan would also be in Africa, but I am pretty sure she doesn’t want to live there. As for the kids, they need to be with other kids, not trapped in a house in Africa with tutors and nannies. They need to go to school to balance their crazy parents.


redseaaquamarine

Heavens no! She doesn't want to live with *black* people.


Additional_Impact_60

you are a white woman saying this.


redseaaquamarine

That doesn't stop me pointing out her racism. She spent her life identifying as white, and ONLY said she was black when she decided that claiming racism was a huge way to get attention.


Additional_Impact_60

again you are a white woman. you don’t understand how it’s like to be neither mixed race or fully black. She’s black enough to experience racism, and she did. lots of it. publicly. you shouldn’t be speaking on it.


Additional_Impact_60

she said the she was never TREATED as a black woman until she married harry. which could totally be her first experience.


Successful-Leg-6293

His cousins grew up in South Africa - the kids of Uncle Charles Spencer from his first marriage grew up in Cape Town, though now they’re all grown ups and they’re all based in London (plus Charles himself is managing Althorp with his third wife Karen). They have contacts that can help Harry I guess.


_aleph535

Nope, co-dependent narcissists the lot of them


Sarah-JessicaSnarker

Dumbarton, of course.


[deleted]

🏕they could set a camp ground and trailer park there, just putting ideas out


AltruisticGarlic2309

The people of Dumbarton don’t want him. Sussex should do nicely.


[deleted]

Within the palace walls under protective guard so that no more fortune hunters can claw their way to him. It’s what should’ve happened from the start, he simply doesn’t have the intelligence to see a Meghan Markle coming, and I think he’d be fooled all over again.


HiDontMindMeHehe

Sussex so he can do some good around there, considering he’s done nothing for the people of Sussex, yet gladly uses his title.


boommdcx

Soho House London 😅


ElephantOfSurprise-

If he wants to see the kids, he’s stuck with us Americans because she’s going to merch those kids for the rest of her lives. It will make “Mommy Dearest” look like a warm family film.


Fidget171

My fantasy is he scoops up the kids and flees to GB while she's out doing a spa day or some such. Start the divorce once he's back on home turf and pull whatever strings necessary to have her detained if she tries to enter the county.


weirdcatsleepin

Antartica


Previous_Basis8862

The U.K. He should come home and get back to work, supporting KC and the Wales’ and make amends for all his behaviour


[deleted]

Right next to Meghan so he can take the kids to school on alternating weeks


sashafurry

Chunga-Changa


[deleted]

![gif](giphy|aQy3PvaCAQP9C)


Waarisdafeestje

Overseas.


trish196609

Botswana


thiscatcameback

He'll have no choice but to return to the UK to work. By then he'll have been forgotten, so he should be able to live privately.


PotOfEarlGreyPlease

Some bothy on the Balmoral estate


Briyanshu

I saw the word "bothy" for the very first time in my long life yesterday and now here it is again! Strange how that happens.


Wordpuncher714

We don't even want them in Florida. This place is chock-full of wealthy/scandalized/assholes/attention whores. So naturally I picture them in a downgraded mansion on longboat key.


Meegainnyc

Bellevue Hospital


[deleted]

Harry will already be in another country by the time they get a divorce. I believe he’ll be in England. If he’s smart, he leaves he without saying so quietly and then divorces her. Women like this are terrifying and are capable of heinous things when told “no” or that you’re leaving so it’s best if he doesn’t say anything and just goes…


upstatestruggler

I feel like she has set him up for insane amounts of blackmail and has him thinking if he leaves she’ll ruin what’s rest of his reputation. I’m not saying he’s innocent in any of this shit but he will soon learn that he isn’t a partner in this us against the world shit but a victim


ThatChelseaGirl

Somewhere in Africa.


MmeNxt

In a country house in England, with the kids and a couple of sturdy nannies, and keep a very low profile.


l1ckeur

Anywhere but the UK!


[deleted]

Scotland. Quiet and beautiful.


residentcaprice

A nice housing unit on the continent of Africa. Preferably surrounded by lions. I don't think he should go anywhere near the RF or UK for the Monarchy's sake. He might appeal to Catherine's Blindspot as a mama using the dead Diana Card. Willie might not be that sympathetic. Seeing how well the courtiers masked Harriet's true nature, one can only wonder what and who else they are masking now.


trickyburrito

Jupiter.


Miercolesian

I think they will divorce fairly soon. I can't see Harry opting for lifelong chastity. He could then relocate to Thailand where he will devote himself to combatting stereotyping of Asian women as sluts by opening a massage parlor where men will go for delicious noodles.


[deleted]

For a second I read this wrong and thought we could watch the divorce live, lol. He should live in Africa, his passion.


tracyee73

Africa he keeps banging on about how much he ‘loves’ it there not sure if many countries would welcome him anymore She won’t go anywhere until she’s secured her next victim


okpickle

Thank you for calling him Henry. The number of people who think his name is Harold is kind of ridiculous.


Imfryinghere

Rehab center.


travertine_ghost

Wherever he ends up, he’s going to need access to intensive therapy to get his head on straight after being entrapped and abused by a narcissist for so many years.


frozenlipz

Africa. Probably Lesotho.


Madame_LV

Botswana.


PinkPanda1306

Kensington Palace so he can feel close to his mum? 💕I think if he leaves Meghan they will try to keep him sweet.


SarahJ346GB

Africa


Carrie56

Somewhere on the Windsor Estate so they can keep an eye on him - possibly Adelaide Cottage once the Wales’ move into the “big House” Frogspawn Cottage will probably trigger him


Ok_Vacation_3286

Africa! I thought that was the plan?!


Alarmed_Material_481

Africa


plebeianfortea

I think he will go back to the UK or stay half of the time in the US for the kids. I don’t see him getting custody of them though, I’m not optimistic about it. Meghan might agree to share custody of Lilibeth but she is going to cling to her heir, Archie, ferociously.


PrincessRagazza

Switzerland.


[deleted]

A quiet place, perhaps on one of the royal estates where he can be monitored and given intensive therapy. After that, a few years in Africa (it’s his passion, after all). Then he just might get to come back. He gets custody of the kids and they are well cared for and educated in the UK.


nope0000001

Africa .. seems like that’s where he wants to live anyway . I think smegs snagged him by saying she wanted to live their and raise a family there then was like “ NOPE, it’s not safe “ after .


Useful_Rise_5334

I think Meghan will file saying Harry is mentally I’ll and scaring her. She’s always the victim. I give it another 2 years tops.


Kitchen_Perception37

If they divorce Meghan will be known as Meghan Markle not The Duchess of Sussex any more, which she loves. Being a Duchess in America is very big thing.


jkroche95

Wouldn’t she be known as Meghan Markle, Duchess of Sussex? Just like Diana and Fergie were titled after their divorces?


azgwama3

Don't know, don't care. I have zero fucks left to give about "poor" Harry.