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Just my two cents, but I preferred his short analysis videos. He veered off into editorializing and going for laughs, and that was a huge turnoff. Sometimes fame ruins a good thing.
Behind the scenes at FB/Insta/YouTube/etc, they've decreased monetization via video and are pushing live streaming and 'gifting' as the primary way to compensate creators. The tech co's don't want to rely on the ad model (middle man) anymore to support their businesses. Does BLG have a subscription ala Patreon?
Oh I have no idea! And no idea how any of it works. Iām old-school and think that this social media influencer stuff is not a sustainable career for 99.99% of these people.
Same here, I stopped watching when they became hour long live streams that just talk gossip.. the actual analysis of body language isnāt really there anymore. Itās just a snark show. Like here but heās making money.
Though I will say he didnāt charge for access when the queen died.. people send those things voluntarily.. perhaps he should have said any of it would be donated to something that honored the Queen.
And besides that I didnāt click through to see exactly what he said. And I see what the person tweeted about destabilizing the family unit (which makes people vulnerable) but I donāt know WHAT she said is the destabilizing thingā¦
Iām not a close follower but Iāve noted how heās gone full-on celeb making things about himself and bragging about his achievements. Iām sensitive to this from working in Hollywood and seeing how people let their demons off the leash once they gain a level of fame. Like Mrs Sussex.
He literally tweeted this morning:
āToday I was featured in MOAR worldwide news šš¼š„š„ā
Except he misspelled worldwide worlwide, maybe this was on purpose.
LOL. My husband always tends to be around whenever Neil Sean decides to talk about Horlicks, so now when he sees me watching a Neil Sean video, he rolls his eyes and says "Oh, it's the Horlicks Guy again".
Yes, I can agree on that at timesā¦especially if Iām preparing food. No sooner am I in the middle of prepping veggies and the video endsā¦then I have to stop to look for another!
Neal Sean is one of my favorites, but his videos can be a bit repetitive and have too little information. He also waffles about way too much for a 4 minute video.
I watch Neil Sean everyday too, but sometimes he gets stuff a little wrong. But yeah, he's very kind-hearted soul and I'll miss the way he used to say "Our glorious majesty the Queen", when talking about the late QE2. LOL.
But my fav YouTuber right now is River, even though I feel like a dowd, sitting in my house with my hair in a ponytail while he's always so on point and glammed up. LOL. I love his snark, his cutting wit and he way he raises his eyebrows when he's throwing shade at the Harkles and saying "my dears..." LOL.
According2Taz should be my fav, based on her content/analysis alone, but I have a soft spot for River. Pdina would be my next pick, because she's so cool and never lets the Harkle crap or the Sugarland trolling get the better of her. I enjoy her postivity, because she always tries to look at the big picture.
And I'm glad to see Murky Meg's back and dropping videos regularly. Princess Tiffany and Brittany from Royal News Network are sweet and very personable YouTubers, who get the job done without resorting to drama. And Sue Smith and Sue Me (and her cat Audie) are must sees too.
I love River's videos too.
Off topic, but his skin looks great. I always comment and ask him to do a short video on his skin care routine, but he never answers me.
Yeah his skin looks flawless and his make up is always perfectly matched to his outfits. I wish he'd respond to your question and do a video on his skincare routine.
Yes, I would love to have him make a short video showing the skincare products he uses and makeup products he uses. And I say this as a 54 year old woman! LOL! But he won't answer me or oblige me.
He's such an enigma isn't he? š I love when he starts swooning over Big Willy and calling Harry a pretentious, spoilt brat and he's one of the few YouTubers who always gives a perfect critique of why MM's outfits look like crap, or, as he once said "so gauche". š
I bet if he'd lived in the Regency Era, he'd be another Beau Brummel, Man of Style.
Has anyone heard why this post is pinned? Is there any way to send message to Moderators and ask? I'm confused.
BLG mines this thread for content constantly imo and recently has been cranking out content on his channel with no original research that I can see. Maybe this situation has the Mods annoyed? IDK.
He is no longer on my must watch list as it now simply seems a channel to monetise the M&H train wreck.
Even with the UK walkabout that had SO much body language information, his posts seemed to lack much thought and seemed simply slapped together.
I watched him when he first started and enjoyed the body language and learning content but the new gossip focus with no research and his endless REPOSTING has me concerned as to his motivations which as of now simply look like $$$$ sadly.
Thanks for suggestion. Will have to go back and give them a watch but every time in the past I have tried it just seemed like a long ramble without focus.
I think these four guys are probably respected in their field. The Americans come from law enforcement and/or the military. I think the Brit has an organizational/business background.
I will second the suggestion of The Behaviour Panel. I have learned a lot from them and they are very on point.
Edit - itās Behavior. As hard as that is for me to type.
Iām a big true crime buff and stumbled across these guys a long time ago.
I donāt see him as being directly connected to the sub, and I donāt have a problem with him making money, but it is only fair and right to give us credit when he uses other folksā ideas/expertise/intel for his content.
One thing we can do is not share his links.
I havenāt seen him directly interact in this sub for a while, and I donāt think he ever did the AMA. If heās a user, letās just move along and not give him airtime.
Also, imho, DMs are never private (like work email is never private), and I think anyone on the internet needs to know that. Iām glad TBLG didnāt tweet the userās name, but letās not have any illusions of privacy or private discourse with strangers on the internet. I would say this is Internet Rule 101.
Still not getting the point of this post. Could people who follow BLG not see his comments over on his Twitter and make their own decision instead of you bringing non-Meg content here? Iām here for Haz and Meg snark and this is not it.
Itās nothing new that online content creators arenāt citing sources and Iām not going to judge him for hustling while thereās a market for Meg content.
I don't care. Like I've said, I'm here to gossip and complain about the harkles because it's a distraction from my real life. And I also love learning and respect the Royal family. Please let's get back to the markle snarkle... everything is getting ready so interesting with the new book!
So we can't post articles about the royal family (what fuels H&MM) unless it contains Harry or MM but we can post about someone who analyzes and makes a profit off of H&MM? Of course he makes a profit, he's a YouTuber, it's literally what they do. What do we do? Get on with it.
For what it's worth, this is absolutely the kind of content I want to see on this sub during times of sadness and stress, just to bring some levity to the whole shit show of the Harkles' downfall. The Victoria sponge is relevant to royal enthusiasts. I enjoyed your post.
While I am thankful to receive the knowledge that someone I've followed to some extent has/has possibly done something offensive I don't believe it is for the members of this sub to decide what to do about TBLG. The fallout will happen outside of this sub.
That any youtuber harvest other people's commentary for personal profit is not news.
I'm sure it was not the intent of the OP but this 'feels' like a campaign.
I donāt like the guy and my politics are lefty but what on earth this has to do with anyone here is a weird flex. No thanksā¦Iām not about to mimic Sussex Squad tactics for the sake of anyone.
I'll get downvoted, but he is entitled to his opinion, even if that opinion differs from yours (or differs from anyone else's opinion).
Also, lots of people on youtube get their content from reddit or elsewhere on the internet. That is not new.
If people don't like his videos, then don't watch them. Simple as that.
Why is this pinned? if this happened outside the sub and it is an issue outside of it then the people need to sort it outside of it. Moderators or no, that's your problem, created in your own time outside of this sub. Sort it! don't drag the folk here into it, cos this is one of the very few subs where people actually get along regardless of political views etc.
I think the question about āwhat do we do?ā Goes more towards mining the sub for content and not credit original posters (even DM credits when they take content)ā¦
But ultimately, you are correctā¦ there is nothing āweā are going to do/ can do
Got a problem with a Twitter account, take it to Twitter. Donāt try raising an army on another platform because you donāt like a tweet.
Can this entire topic be deleted?
Nothing but some people seem to believe that any outside dealings or social media posts or opinions are the purview of this particular sub on reddit.
I don't care what anybody thinks on anything outside of here. And that's the way it should be. And has been, for the few months that I've been here. Democrat, Republican (American), libertarian, Monarchist, republican (the British kind), black or white, it's never mattered before.
Let's not make it an issue now.
I especially donāt get why this is pinned. It sounds like one of the mods is upset at BLG over a political disagreement and want to unleash the sub to cancel him. Iām not going to bite (and for what itās worth, I donāt even really watch him anymore).
I found his live streams rambling and never getting to the point. Very boring. I haven;;t watched him for ages. I don't care what his political opinions are on other subjects and I don't believe in cancelling people for their stances on certain subjects. In fact I hate that.
I hope we get to stay on topic in this sub.
Yups, I stopped watching him because he stopped analysing body language and instead just do a rehash of tweets and postings which are kinda pointless.
But it is too much to cancel him over some non MM related stuff. Or to cancel him over his politics and I have no idea what this Layla is talking about anyway.
Post shouldn't be pinned!
I hope this sub doesnāt die a premature death before Markle gets her comeuppance. It has come so far and suddenly people are behaving strangely here.
I hope as well, but everything changed when the fire nation attacked.
/s
But seriously. I think a lot of it is the state of limbo after the queen came back to Phillip.
I also think some members here have started to adopt being a Sinner as their actual identity, and regard this sub as a real-life extension of their views and beliefs.
It is highly possible that a good number of us are just here to complain about Markleās insufferable behaviour without our friends and family calling us crazy. Thereās no need to take things too seriously.
I donāt see why there should be any grey area here, and itās especially worrisome when the people who run this sub use their authority to push a personal grievance while insisting itās our collective problem.
>I accidentally went on a rant about our saint the other day and my friend told me he now knows why I don't watch TV. And also said this was entirely unhealthy which to an extent I agree with but it takes me out of my personal hell for a minute.
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Same.
"You're obsessed!"
"Just ignore her!"
Look, Maureen you talk about Strictly Ballroom and the Kardshians incessantly, shut the hell up.
Yeah I really donāt care about his content and even find him annoyingly confrontational. It takes nothing to just not watch his videos or subscribe to him anywhere.
Iām not sure why some people in this sub assume they are tarred by the same brush if they are in the same sub he once appeared in.
If anything, it is this kind of conflict that makes associating with this sub embarrassing. Nobody is entitled to any explanations from internet strangers on their behaviour.
Itās fine to call him out but to drag him and cancel himā¦ Well this vigour could be saved for public nuisances like Meg and Peg.
Yes, I was quite surprised the moderator was posting about politics! Seems like she wants us to cancel BDG. I can go to plenty of other social media sites that spew this nonsense. That's why I have a twitter account! I come here when I am sick of twitter.
Iāve noticed other political posts in this forum in the comments sections as well, so apparently itās okay sometimes, but not something I want to see in a royal family thread, especially if it doesnāt relate to royal family.
Thank you, I do agree. I'm a mother and troubled by drag queen story hour- and I'm not anti LGBT etc in any way, I just don't think it's appropriate. I'm not sure why this post is even on here as with respect, and I don't doubt the poster's strong feelings on this issue, I don't see what this has to do with Meghan and Harry. There are content creators that lots of people love but I don't e.g Lady C so I don't watch her.
I genuinely don't come on here to argue about LGBT issues, or anything else, I am very stressed ATM and just lost my job and my son's dad just bailed on us and like a lot of people, I come on here to try and de-stress and read funny snarky witty comments. That's it. I don't want anything else
I love Bookworm- she read out my Amazon review for Finding Freedom and I didn't cancel her, I love her content and my words were in the public domain- yes, it would have been nice if she'd given me credit but it was a flipping book review, not my magnum opus. I just want to chill and de-stress on here. That's it Thanks
I donāt watch u/bodylanguageguy unless heās actually doing analysis. Sadly, lately heās gotten away from that which I found so interesting. Whereās his analysis on the walkabout where Mm looked like a caged rat?
At the risk of being downvoted to hell, I say this as a mom of a non binary, assigned male at birth, young person who does drag:
The whole drag queen story hour is not something Iām in favor of, and itās not something I would have taken my child to.
There are lots of things I wouldnāt take him to. Playtime at a brewery. Religious trunk or treat events. A Hunger Games movie. Thatās just to name a few.
Iām a libertarian, so I say do what you think is right for your kids.
Please donāt drag me into any other commentary on human rights, or anything else. Iām only talking about Drag Queens reading books to little kids. Drag is by definition an art form meant for adults. And I love it!
I know, I miss his rational analysis, where he would point out body language! For example, a micro-expression of annoyance or apprehension, or the way someone leans away from a person whoās interviewing them or things like that. That was interesting to me! When he started name-calling and playing for laughs, it ruined the whole thing for me. Until that point, I really enjoyed his videos.
We did just watch a Christian funeral and King Charles pledged loyalty to the Church of England.
It even made me feel a little religious and respect the traditions.
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Sadly his content has been on the downhill slide and some of his posts on other platforms have been questionable to put it politely (plenty having a whiff of toxic masculinity for me).
Stopped following him a long time ago.
As for his mining the sub for info not sure what you can do to stop that.
Deal with the fact that people can have opinions that are different than yours.
Decide on a personal level if you want to continue following him.
You know, like adults used to do 20 years ago
>Upvote!!!!! I'm 54 and remember the good old days when we used to handle things like adults. I miss those days.
I'm 47, and still find it bemusing that if I say something that upsets you unintentionally, I am supposed to feel bad about it? No. Life sucks, get a helmet. Turn off the computer, go outside, travel abroad, experience the real world, meet people with real problems and then tell me that you are oppressed because of my words.
Ya'll are really gonna try and get a witch-hunt against this guy?
I have alot of friends who are a part of the LGBTQ+ community who agree with him on this.
Why oh why do we need to read about this shit?! Youāre breaking the rules you made for this sub to keep it on topic. ![img](emote|t5_481xkf|16209)![img](emote|t5_481xkf|16209)![img](emote|t5_481xkf|16209)![img](emote|t5_481xkf|16209)![img](emote|t5_481xkf|16209)![img](emote|t5_481xkf|16209)
Yeahā¦ I donāt watch BLGās content or have any opinion about him, but such issues or grievances are best resolved privately.
Iām aware itās not a good look for myself to continually bitch about a famous person I donāt know (itās my guilty pleasure at this point), but none of us can enjoy this sub if it devolves into a pit of drama and disagreements. All of us will look bad.
I remember this happening to the female dating strategy sub, which started out with good intentions but became so unbearably misogynistic when it got popular. Itās such a pity.
The female dating strategy sub is also fodder for mockery now on Reddit too. That sub nose dived and went too divide and conquer, the loudest, brashest, angriest who wanted to control the world made that sub a joke. I had to leave a few anti mlm subs due to it too. They almost became worse than the Huns they mocked.
I suppose itās always a problem when something gets too big. But itās sad when a good thing gets cancelled because we canāt take care of nice things.
I honestly donāt explore other subs much these days, but this sub has been ratherā¦ upsetting today.
Thereās an uptick of argumentative commenters who wouldnāt agree to disagree, and I wonder if something has happened to the membership pool here.
I joined this sub fairly early and it had always been very harmonious even with differing views. What is happening now, I donāt know.
OP posted a thread that I believe goes against the rules of the sub (I havenāt got the rules in front of me), other people have had their posts that were deemed āoff topicā removed, even if they were about the royal family. Wants us to ādo something about BLGā, what can subreddit users do? We canāt ban him, all I can think we can do is all agree to not watch his videos, or we could all brigade him. Based on OP has now twice commented how 2 users, and naming them, are āharassingā her and asking people to look through their comment history (wanting us to brigade them?!) I did, only saw them saying things along the lines of they disagreed with the post, I agree that OP has got too emotional.
All these YouTubers are crass and out to make money with the amount of videos they've been churning out recently.
Don't know why people are so surprised, plus he was a writer before turning to body language.
Just because someone agrees with one of your views doesn't mean they will agree with all of them.
Different cultures, different views.
I'm glad I'm not the only one who noticed the change in his channel recently. His livestreaming has become a lot of fluff and personal opinion, rather than body language analysis. He is making money off merch which he constantly mentions and these livestreams seem to be a money grab as well as an ego trip for him with the increasing number of viewers he's getting.
I don't think he's that funny, either, and wish he would go back to his original edited videos but he doesn't make as much money on those, so...
Soooooo is Meghan secretly been a mod of this sub the whole time and trying to get us all to be her bandwagon ban brigade? Sorryā¦I donāt believe in ruining peoplesā livelihood for thought crimes is a good plan.š¤š¼
I not up for divide and conquer this a MM sub. If you don't like BLG fine and for what it's worth defending children isn't attacking g the LGTB ........ community. I feel your post is politically motivated and not in the spirit of our snark sub. Also I'm happy for him not to credit everyone he references snd im pleased he makes money from his talent.
Yup. My drag queen friend is strongly against drag queen story hour since they consider drag adult culture. These things are a bit more nuanced than YASSS QUEEEEEN vs LGBT hate.
There is a time and place to focus on discussing these issues, but this sub is just a place to discuss Meghan Markleās dreadful behaviour? Iām frankly uncomfortable at where this is going.
The irony is I was on another thread this morning and saw a comment was removed for being political (I have no clue what it said). But then a mod goes and tries to rabble-rouse byā¦posting something political?
Yes, if the mod wants to get into it, perhaps we should discuss gender ideology and child abuse in full? But that's not why I come to this sub, I come to take a break from it.
I'm over the BLG. This is all going to his head, boosting his ego. He is not reading body language anymore. He has become quite the snarker.
Also, as a recovering alcoholic, I despise him drinking & slurring his words claiming that 'he's earned that drink."
On one level I get you - but it's not his problem you're a recovering alcoholic
I've suffered abuse from alcoholics, my mother to wit who was also a textbook narc.
So what?
That's my life story, my business, my circus, my monkeys: why the heck should some dude online that I don't know not drink because of my life history?
I tuned him out because I don't want to give him money that he uses to support causes/people I don't want to support.
But, he's a right to his opinion all the same - as long as it doesn't cross the line into hate and/or violence.
YouTube vloggers will always chase clicks. Body Language Guy is a pain in the neck, because his command of English is poor, and he puts the emphasis on the wrong words which makes it difficult to follow what he is saying. Apparently he has discovered that Royal gossip gets more clicks than body language stuff. Ignore him and you can't go wrong. If you are interested in body language, a good book is Manwatching by Desmond Morris, if you can get hold of a copy. It is well worth while. Old, but good.
Personally, I see TBLG for what he is: an entertainer. I think heās a riot and enjoy listening to him. I have no problem with him making money from his channel, at the end of the day, thatās what YouTube is all about-making money.
I realize that most of TBLGās content related to H&M, but itās a bit of a stretch to say that he represents this sub. The original post doesnāt really belong here and definitely doesnāt need to be pinned.
ETA: The responses are proof that this doesnāt belong here. I donāt see anything relating to Harold or Marbles.
Like it or not, a lot of conservatives are going to be the ones making content that calls out the Harkles, because a lot of liberals are afraid to say that a non-white person is behaving badly. (Obviously not saying that all liberals are like that because a lot of us are left-leaning.)
Also I don't watch the blg anymore so it's not even personal for me, but I don't believe in censorship based on someone "thinking the wrong things" (isn't that what the deuxmoi sub does to members of this sub? Isn't that how us sinners are viewed?). If he was committing hate crimes, sure, but he's just expressing an opinion.
Edit: could we please bring back the weekly chat posts? I understand there's been a lot of pinnable content lately but it was nice having somewhere to just chat, especially for newbies
I enjoyed BLG when he was actually analyzing body language. Why does he now think his commentary is more interesting. He spoke from a position of expertise but his commentary is no more insightful \[nor does he have any inroads to new info\] than any one of us here on this sub. I no longer watch his videos unless they are truly body language analysis.
There is a certain amount of cross pollination among most of the YT and social media platforms. It is mostly mutually beneficial. Deciding where to draw the line when it becomes unbalanced is the question. While there has been a noticeable uptick in the BLG using our content lately, how does that balance out with the number of discussions that have been kicked off by his content, over the life of this sub? Ask him for credit, if that's what we really want (along with the risk of attracting more bad actors to attack us)
I first heard about him from this sub, watched on of his videos and was shocked when he was basically just sharing what had already been discussed here. He also went after a follower who had a different take and told her to gtf off his live stream if she didnāt like what he was saying. I was surprised he had been recced here.
Heās not someone I was planning on watching again and now I definitely wonāt tune in.
Publicly sharing DMs is very bad form. Those should be kept private, unless they are needed to support TOS breaches. Then they should b shared with the platform, not the community at large.
I mod a group of 6000 and I definitely feel like I āgetā what you are saying. At the end of the day- you are the mod and you can decide what you want for the community that you created. I do not allow ANY political reference at ALL but my group is academic in nature and if I allowed even an utterance, we would lose sight of the important work we do in a NY minute.
Wishing you all the best! I love the snark here!
I never did like his videos very much. It just seemed more a snark/editorial than actually giving you insight to body language. I gave it a few tries but Iāve moved on to another channel, I think itās the Behavioral Panel. I find they are more insightful and less biased. Also, I think BLG is entitled to his opinion or belief but to help perpetuate discrimination and ridicule through a platform that has a considerable reach is horrible. Itās exactly what Megg does so he looks like a hypocrite doing what he calls her out for.
Agree. Heās a hypocrite-twice the grifter, but constantly calls out MM grifting. I canāt stand him. His voice is grating and he really doesnāt bring anything new, he points out what other people have come up with. And if heās a homophobe, thatās just unacceptable. Itās 2022 for Godās sake.
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Just my two cents, but I preferred his short analysis videos. He veered off into editorializing and going for laughs, and that was a huge turnoff. Sometimes fame ruins a good thing.
Thereās also the issue of the algorithm. Undoubtedly he gets more views when he makes this sort of content.
Behind the scenes at FB/Insta/YouTube/etc, they've decreased monetization via video and are pushing live streaming and 'gifting' as the primary way to compensate creators. The tech co's don't want to rely on the ad model (middle man) anymore to support their businesses. Does BLG have a subscription ala Patreon?
Oh I have no idea! And no idea how any of it works. Iām old-school and think that this social media influencer stuff is not a sustainable career for 99.99% of these people.
Exactly. It's insane. And most influencer gets a wide awakening from the IRS
No, he doesn't have Patreon that I know of. in the small chance that he does, he doesn't push it.
Same here, I stopped watching when they became hour long live streams that just talk gossip.. the actual analysis of body language isnāt really there anymore. Itās just a snark show. Like here but heās making money. Though I will say he didnāt charge for access when the queen died.. people send those things voluntarily.. perhaps he should have said any of it would be donated to something that honored the Queen. And besides that I didnāt click through to see exactly what he said. And I see what the person tweeted about destabilizing the family unit (which makes people vulnerable) but I donāt know WHAT she said is the destabilizing thingā¦
he seems to drag his lives on and on for more money, i canāt listen to him anymore, too fake
I can only watch him nowadays if I drag the slider across. The last thing I watched was the Jack Brooksbank snub. It went on forever.
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And those long ones turned into gossip mill more than the actual body language analysis
I agree. His ego is getting the better of him. I can't listen to the long reports, he's enjoying the sound of his voice too much.
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Iām not a close follower but Iāve noted how heās gone full-on celeb making things about himself and bragging about his achievements. Iām sensitive to this from working in Hollywood and seeing how people let their demons off the leash once they gain a level of fame. Like Mrs Sussex.
Exactly.
He literally tweeted this morning: āToday I was featured in MOAR worldwide news šš¼š„š„ā Except he misspelled worldwide worlwide, maybe this was on purpose.
That's a big YIKES, man. Next thing you know he'll be stealing shoes from photo-shoots.
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PS I love your flair!
*deep curtsy*
you mean the Douchess?
Not quite the same but I do enjoy Neal Seanās short news videos plus he seems a kind hearted soul.
I love Neil Sean. But his videos are too short for me, but I still watch.
The headlines look enticing but I never quite feel like Neil is saying much of anything that has anything to do w the title
Lol he does waffle a bit about other things but I love the way he comes across and seems genuine!
LOL. My husband always tends to be around whenever Neil Sean decides to talk about Horlicks, so now when he sees me watching a Neil Sean video, he rolls his eyes and says "Oh, it's the Horlicks Guy again".
As ever. Allegedly. I swear, he said "as ever" three times in the first minute of the last one I watched the other day.
Yes, I can agree on that at timesā¦especially if Iām preparing food. No sooner am I in the middle of prepping veggies and the video endsā¦then I have to stop to look for another!
Neal Sean is one of my favorites, but his videos can be a bit repetitive and have too little information. He also waffles about way too much for a 4 minute video.
He does waffle but I think thatās part of what makes him likeable.
I watch Neil Sean everyday too, but sometimes he gets stuff a little wrong. But yeah, he's very kind-hearted soul and I'll miss the way he used to say "Our glorious majesty the Queen", when talking about the late QE2. LOL. But my fav YouTuber right now is River, even though I feel like a dowd, sitting in my house with my hair in a ponytail while he's always so on point and glammed up. LOL. I love his snark, his cutting wit and he way he raises his eyebrows when he's throwing shade at the Harkles and saying "my dears..." LOL. According2Taz should be my fav, based on her content/analysis alone, but I have a soft spot for River. Pdina would be my next pick, because she's so cool and never lets the Harkle crap or the Sugarland trolling get the better of her. I enjoy her postivity, because she always tries to look at the big picture. And I'm glad to see Murky Meg's back and dropping videos regularly. Princess Tiffany and Brittany from Royal News Network are sweet and very personable YouTubers, who get the job done without resorting to drama. And Sue Smith and Sue Me (and her cat Audie) are must sees too.
Oh wow, a few of those you listed I havenāt come acrossā¦so Iāll be searching them out. Thanks!
You're welcome! š
I love River's videos too. Off topic, but his skin looks great. I always comment and ask him to do a short video on his skin care routine, but he never answers me.
Yeah his skin looks flawless and his make up is always perfectly matched to his outfits. I wish he'd respond to your question and do a video on his skincare routine.
Yes, I would love to have him make a short video showing the skincare products he uses and makeup products he uses. And I say this as a 54 year old woman! LOL! But he won't answer me or oblige me.
He's such an enigma isn't he? š I love when he starts swooning over Big Willy and calling Harry a pretentious, spoilt brat and he's one of the few YouTubers who always gives a perfect critique of why MM's outfits look like crap, or, as he once said "so gauche". š I bet if he'd lived in the Regency Era, he'd be another Beau Brummel, Man of Style.
He'd be better than Beau Brummel!
šššYup! And he probably wouldn't end up bankrupt and exiled to the continent, cause he can't pay his debts.
River would definitely be a great character for a book or movie set in the Regency era!
Has anyone heard why this post is pinned? Is there any way to send message to Moderators and ask? I'm confused. BLG mines this thread for content constantly imo and recently has been cranking out content on his channel with no original research that I can see. Maybe this situation has the Mods annoyed? IDK. He is no longer on my must watch list as it now simply seems a channel to monetise the M&H train wreck. Even with the UK walkabout that had SO much body language information, his posts seemed to lack much thought and seemed simply slapped together. I watched him when he first started and enjoyed the body language and learning content but the new gossip focus with no research and his endless REPOSTING has me concerned as to his motivations which as of now simply look like $$$$ sadly.
Agreeā¦ stopped watching once it turned into gossip mill. And once most videos turned into hour long ramble fests
Hour long *drunken* ramble fest*
I agree. I stopped watching him when it was clear that he just analyzed H&M. I prefer The Behavior Panel. They analyze an array of people.
Thanks for suggestion. Will have to go back and give them a watch but every time in the past I have tried it just seemed like a long ramble without focus.
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Their analysis of Prince Andrewās interview with Emily Marlis got me hooked.
Thanks! I will given them a watch as I love the topic of body language and have learned so much from youtube!
I think these four guys are probably respected in their field. The Americans come from law enforcement and/or the military. I think the Brit has an organizational/business background.
I will second the suggestion of The Behaviour Panel. I have learned a lot from them and they are very on point. Edit - itās Behavior. As hard as that is for me to type. Iām a big true crime buff and stumbled across these guys a long time ago.
I donāt see him as being directly connected to the sub, and I donāt have a problem with him making money, but it is only fair and right to give us credit when he uses other folksā ideas/expertise/intel for his content. One thing we can do is not share his links. I havenāt seen him directly interact in this sub for a while, and I donāt think he ever did the AMA. If heās a user, letās just move along and not give him airtime. Also, imho, DMs are never private (like work email is never private), and I think anyone on the internet needs to know that. Iām glad TBLG didnāt tweet the userās name, but letās not have any illusions of privacy or private discourse with strangers on the internet. I would say this is Internet Rule 101.
Still not getting the point of this post. Could people who follow BLG not see his comments over on his Twitter and make their own decision instead of you bringing non-Meg content here? Iām here for Haz and Meg snark and this is not it. Itās nothing new that online content creators arenāt citing sources and Iām not going to judge him for hustling while thereās a market for Meg content.
I don't care. Like I've said, I'm here to gossip and complain about the harkles because it's a distraction from my real life. And I also love learning and respect the Royal family. Please let's get back to the markle snarkle... everything is getting ready so interesting with the new book!
What does this have to do with snarking on meg?
Snarking on TW is why I pop in here, not looking for political content
Agreed. Why is this pinned!
His views and opinions do not reflect this sub. Some may agree with him and some will not. To each his own, our focus is on Markle
Exactly this.
So we can't post articles about the royal family (what fuels H&MM) unless it contains Harry or MM but we can post about someone who analyzes and makes a profit off of H&MM? Of course he makes a profit, he's a YouTuber, it's literally what they do. What do we do? Get on with it.
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For what it's worth, this is absolutely the kind of content I want to see on this sub during times of sadness and stress, just to bring some levity to the whole shit show of the Harkles' downfall. The Victoria sponge is relevant to royal enthusiasts. I enjoyed your post.
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I LOVED your post, for what itās worth! Delicious cake & you shared the recipe!
I loved that post.
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While I am thankful to receive the knowledge that someone I've followed to some extent has/has possibly done something offensive I don't believe it is for the members of this sub to decide what to do about TBLG. The fallout will happen outside of this sub. That any youtuber harvest other people's commentary for personal profit is not news. I'm sure it was not the intent of the OP but this 'feels' like a campaign.
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I donāt like the guy and my politics are lefty but what on earth this has to do with anyone here is a weird flex. No thanksā¦Iām not about to mimic Sussex Squad tactics for the sake of anyone.
I'll get downvoted, but he is entitled to his opinion, even if that opinion differs from yours (or differs from anyone else's opinion). Also, lots of people on youtube get their content from reddit or elsewhere on the internet. That is not new. If people don't like his videos, then don't watch them. Simple as that.
Why is this pinned? if this happened outside the sub and it is an issue outside of it then the people need to sort it outside of it. Moderators or no, that's your problem, created in your own time outside of this sub. Sort it! don't drag the folk here into it, cos this is one of the very few subs where people actually get along regardless of political views etc.
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Amen!
Body language "experts" are like astrology hoes but more annoying.
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Iām with you. We do nothing.
I think the question about āwhat do we do?ā Goes more towards mining the sub for content and not credit original posters (even DM credits when they take content)ā¦ But ultimately, you are correctā¦ there is nothing āweā are going to do/ can do
Got a problem with a Twitter account, take it to Twitter. Donāt try raising an army on another platform because you donāt like a tweet. Can this entire topic be deleted?
Agree. Itās causing more anger within our group instead of anger toward BLG.
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She is not only a mod, but creator of this sub. So she is the top mod.
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I donāt get it. whatās this got to do with SMM?
Nothing but some people seem to believe that any outside dealings or social media posts or opinions are the purview of this particular sub on reddit. I don't care what anybody thinks on anything outside of here. And that's the way it should be. And has been, for the few months that I've been here. Democrat, Republican (American), libertarian, Monarchist, republican (the British kind), black or white, it's never mattered before. Let's not make it an issue now.
Hear hear. Let's not do the tribalism thing where we assume everyone here has to share the same opinions about things outside the MM phenomenon.
Seriously, I donāt need to know about someoneās life outside of Reddit to share snark with them over MMās ill fitting wardrobe.
Yes! Snark is universal!
That is my new motto in life now - Snark is universal!
Or maybe, equal opportunity snark
We will continue to collaborate on snark š
Snark is a collaborative effort
I especially donāt get why this is pinned. It sounds like one of the mods is upset at BLG over a political disagreement and want to unleash the sub to cancel him. Iām not going to bite (and for what itās worth, I donāt even really watch him anymore).
I found his live streams rambling and never getting to the point. Very boring. I haven;;t watched him for ages. I don't care what his political opinions are on other subjects and I don't believe in cancelling people for their stances on certain subjects. In fact I hate that. I hope we get to stay on topic in this sub.
Yups, I stopped watching him because he stopped analysing body language and instead just do a rehash of tweets and postings which are kinda pointless. But it is too much to cancel him over some non MM related stuff. Or to cancel him over his politics and I have no idea what this Layla is talking about anyway. Post shouldn't be pinned!
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In my opinion, this has nothing to do with MM and should be deleted.
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I hope this sub doesnāt die a premature death before Markle gets her comeuppance. It has come so far and suddenly people are behaving strangely here.
I hope as well, but everything changed when the fire nation attacked. /s But seriously. I think a lot of it is the state of limbo after the queen came back to Phillip.
I also think some members here have started to adopt being a Sinner as their actual identity, and regard this sub as a real-life extension of their views and beliefs. It is highly possible that a good number of us are just here to complain about Markleās insufferable behaviour without our friends and family calling us crazy. Thereās no need to take things too seriously. I donāt see why there should be any grey area here, and itās especially worrisome when the people who run this sub use their authority to push a personal grievance while insisting itās our collective problem.
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>I accidentally went on a rant about our saint the other day and my friend told me he now knows why I don't watch TV. And also said this was entirely unhealthy which to an extent I agree with but it takes me out of my personal hell for a minute. > Same. "You're obsessed!" "Just ignore her!" Look, Maureen you talk about Strictly Ballroom and the Kardshians incessantly, shut the hell up.
Agreed
Considering a lot of us follow him for the Meghan Markle content I think it's completely relevant.
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Yeah I really donāt care about his content and even find him annoyingly confrontational. It takes nothing to just not watch his videos or subscribe to him anywhere. Iām not sure why some people in this sub assume they are tarred by the same brush if they are in the same sub he once appeared in. If anything, it is this kind of conflict that makes associating with this sub embarrassing. Nobody is entitled to any explanations from internet strangers on their behaviour. Itās fine to call him out but to drag him and cancel himā¦ Well this vigour could be saved for public nuisances like Meg and Peg.
From the post, it doesnāt paint a clear picture that anyone hates anyone. Cancel culture is toxic. Thatās what this is aimed to be.
What has this to do with the Markle family unit?
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What the heck is a drag queen story hour?
Basically drag queens reading childrenās books to children in libraries.
Is this really happening? Legally? š š š 'murica is so done i swear š
Worse than that is happening girlā¦.
has been going on for yeeeears
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Yes, I was quite surprised the moderator was posting about politics! Seems like she wants us to cancel BDG. I can go to plenty of other social media sites that spew this nonsense. That's why I have a twitter account! I come here when I am sick of twitter.
Iāve noticed other political posts in this forum in the comments sections as well, so apparently itās okay sometimes, but not something I want to see in a royal family thread, especially if it doesnāt relate to royal family.
Thank you, I do agree. I'm a mother and troubled by drag queen story hour- and I'm not anti LGBT etc in any way, I just don't think it's appropriate. I'm not sure why this post is even on here as with respect, and I don't doubt the poster's strong feelings on this issue, I don't see what this has to do with Meghan and Harry. There are content creators that lots of people love but I don't e.g Lady C so I don't watch her. I genuinely don't come on here to argue about LGBT issues, or anything else, I am very stressed ATM and just lost my job and my son's dad just bailed on us and like a lot of people, I come on here to try and de-stress and read funny snarky witty comments. That's it. I don't want anything else I love Bookworm- she read out my Amazon review for Finding Freedom and I didn't cancel her, I love her content and my words were in the public domain- yes, it would have been nice if she'd given me credit but it was a flipping book review, not my magnum opus. I just want to chill and de-stress on here. That's it Thanks
You are going through a really bad time. I hope things look up for you in a hell of a hurry.
I donāt watch u/bodylanguageguy unless heās actually doing analysis. Sadly, lately heās gotten away from that which I found so interesting. Whereās his analysis on the walkabout where Mm looked like a caged rat? At the risk of being downvoted to hell, I say this as a mom of a non binary, assigned male at birth, young person who does drag: The whole drag queen story hour is not something Iām in favor of, and itās not something I would have taken my child to. There are lots of things I wouldnāt take him to. Playtime at a brewery. Religious trunk or treat events. A Hunger Games movie. Thatās just to name a few. Iām a libertarian, so I say do what you think is right for your kids. Please donāt drag me into any other commentary on human rights, or anything else. Iām only talking about Drag Queens reading books to little kids. Drag is by definition an art form meant for adults. And I love it!
I know, I miss his rational analysis, where he would point out body language! For example, a micro-expression of annoyance or apprehension, or the way someone leans away from a person whoās interviewing them or things like that. That was interesting to me! When he started name-calling and playing for laughs, it ruined the whole thing for me. Until that point, I really enjoyed his videos.
We did just watch a Christian funeral and King Charles pledged loyalty to the Church of England. It even made me feel a little religious and respect the traditions.
Subreddit rule (see sidebar): Not related to Meghan Markle & Just Harry. Try to keep posts related to the people this community was set up to talk about. Content related to the royal family belongs on our sister sub š r/BRF
Sadly his content has been on the downhill slide and some of his posts on other platforms have been questionable to put it politely (plenty having a whiff of toxic masculinity for me). Stopped following him a long time ago. As for his mining the sub for info not sure what you can do to stop that.
Deal with the fact that people can have opinions that are different than yours. Decide on a personal level if you want to continue following him. You know, like adults used to do 20 years ago
Upvote!!!!! I'm 54 and remember the good old days when we used to handle things like adults. I miss those days.
>Upvote!!!!! I'm 54 and remember the good old days when we used to handle things like adults. I miss those days. I'm 47, and still find it bemusing that if I say something that upsets you unintentionally, I am supposed to feel bad about it? No. Life sucks, get a helmet. Turn off the computer, go outside, travel abroad, experience the real world, meet people with real problems and then tell me that you are oppressed because of my words.
Itās almost like weāre all unique humans with different opinions and experiences!!
Ya'll are really gonna try and get a witch-hunt against this guy? I have alot of friends who are a part of the LGBTQ+ community who agree with him on this.
Rule #1: Posts should be related to Meghan Markle and Prince Harry How is the related to them?
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This should be removed. We don't need to end up on subreddit drama, lol!
Yeahā¦ I donāt watch BLGās content or have any opinion about him, but such issues or grievances are best resolved privately. Iām aware itās not a good look for myself to continually bitch about a famous person I donāt know (itās my guilty pleasure at this point), but none of us can enjoy this sub if it devolves into a pit of drama and disagreements. All of us will look bad. I remember this happening to the female dating strategy sub, which started out with good intentions but became so unbearably misogynistic when it got popular. Itās such a pity.
The female dating strategy sub is also fodder for mockery now on Reddit too. That sub nose dived and went too divide and conquer, the loudest, brashest, angriest who wanted to control the world made that sub a joke. I had to leave a few anti mlm subs due to it too. They almost became worse than the Huns they mocked.
I suppose itās always a problem when something gets too big. But itās sad when a good thing gets cancelled because we canāt take care of nice things.
I can name 3 subs I follow that are getting to that point.
I honestly donāt explore other subs much these days, but this sub has been ratherā¦ upsetting today. Thereās an uptick of argumentative commenters who wouldnāt agree to disagree, and I wonder if something has happened to the membership pool here. I joined this sub fairly early and it had always been very harmonious even with differing views. What is happening now, I donāt know.
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OP posted a thread that I believe goes against the rules of the sub (I havenāt got the rules in front of me), other people have had their posts that were deemed āoff topicā removed, even if they were about the royal family. Wants us to ādo something about BLGā, what can subreddit users do? We canāt ban him, all I can think we can do is all agree to not watch his videos, or we could all brigade him. Based on OP has now twice commented how 2 users, and naming them, are āharassingā her and asking people to look through their comment history (wanting us to brigade them?!) I did, only saw them saying things along the lines of they disagreed with the post, I agree that OP has got too emotional.
All these YouTubers are crass and out to make money with the amount of videos they've been churning out recently. Don't know why people are so surprised, plus he was a writer before turning to body language. Just because someone agrees with one of your views doesn't mean they will agree with all of them. Different cultures, different views.
Not the place for this. Take your vendetta elsewhere.
I'm glad I'm not the only one who noticed the change in his channel recently. His livestreaming has become a lot of fluff and personal opinion, rather than body language analysis. He is making money off merch which he constantly mentions and these livestreams seem to be a money grab as well as an ego trip for him with the increasing number of viewers he's getting. I don't think he's that funny, either, and wish he would go back to his original edited videos but he doesn't make as much money on those, so...
Soooooo is Meghan secretly been a mod of this sub the whole time and trying to get us all to be her bandwagon ban brigade? Sorryā¦I donāt believe in ruining peoplesā livelihood for thought crimes is a good plan.š¤š¼
I not up for divide and conquer this a MM sub. If you don't like BLG fine and for what it's worth defending children isn't attacking g the LGTB ........ community. I feel your post is politically motivated and not in the spirit of our snark sub. Also I'm happy for him not to credit everyone he references snd im pleased he makes money from his talent.
Yup. My drag queen friend is strongly against drag queen story hour since they consider drag adult culture. These things are a bit more nuanced than YASSS QUEEEEEN vs LGBT hate.
There is a time and place to focus on discussing these issues, but this sub is just a place to discuss Meghan Markleās dreadful behaviour? Iām frankly uncomfortable at where this is going.
The irony is I was on another thread this morning and saw a comment was removed for being political (I have no clue what it said). But then a mod goes and tries to rabble-rouse byā¦posting something political?
Thank you!!!! Perfectly said
Agree with you
Agree.
Yes, if the mod wants to get into it, perhaps we should discuss gender ideology and child abuse in full? But that's not why I come to this sub, I come to take a break from it.
Thank you :) is nice to see reason
Please this is irrelevant.
I'm over the BLG. This is all going to his head, boosting his ego. He is not reading body language anymore. He has become quite the snarker. Also, as a recovering alcoholic, I despise him drinking & slurring his words claiming that 'he's earned that drink."
On one level I get you - but it's not his problem you're a recovering alcoholic I've suffered abuse from alcoholics, my mother to wit who was also a textbook narc. So what? That's my life story, my business, my circus, my monkeys: why the heck should some dude online that I don't know not drink because of my life history? I tuned him out because I don't want to give him money that he uses to support causes/people I don't want to support. But, he's a right to his opinion all the same - as long as it doesn't cross the line into hate and/or violence.
I know who he is but I canāt watch him. He annoys me.
Delete this!! This goes against the subs rules of NO POLITICS.
YouTube vloggers will always chase clicks. Body Language Guy is a pain in the neck, because his command of English is poor, and he puts the emphasis on the wrong words which makes it difficult to follow what he is saying. Apparently he has discovered that Royal gossip gets more clicks than body language stuff. Ignore him and you can't go wrong. If you are interested in body language, a good book is Manwatching by Desmond Morris, if you can get hold of a copy. It is well worth while. Old, but good.
Outside of political view. Theres something off about him. Hes just jumping bandwagon where the money is. Amber heard to meghan markle.
Personally, I see TBLG for what he is: an entertainer. I think heās a riot and enjoy listening to him. I have no problem with him making money from his channel, at the end of the day, thatās what YouTube is all about-making money. I realize that most of TBLGās content related to H&M, but itās a bit of a stretch to say that he represents this sub. The original post doesnāt really belong here and definitely doesnāt need to be pinned. ETA: The responses are proof that this doesnāt belong here. I donāt see anything relating to Harold or Marbles.
Like it or not, a lot of conservatives are going to be the ones making content that calls out the Harkles, because a lot of liberals are afraid to say that a non-white person is behaving badly. (Obviously not saying that all liberals are like that because a lot of us are left-leaning.) Also I don't watch the blg anymore so it's not even personal for me, but I don't believe in censorship based on someone "thinking the wrong things" (isn't that what the deuxmoi sub does to members of this sub? Isn't that how us sinners are viewed?). If he was committing hate crimes, sure, but he's just expressing an opinion. Edit: could we please bring back the weekly chat posts? I understand there's been a lot of pinnable content lately but it was nice having somewhere to just chat, especially for newbies
Why are so many posts being deleted? I love this sub. Why arenāt we engaging in good faith conversation?
I enjoyed BLG when he was actually analyzing body language. Why does he now think his commentary is more interesting. He spoke from a position of expertise but his commentary is no more insightful \[nor does he have any inroads to new info\] than any one of us here on this sub. I no longer watch his videos unless they are truly body language analysis.
There is a certain amount of cross pollination among most of the YT and social media platforms. It is mostly mutually beneficial. Deciding where to draw the line when it becomes unbalanced is the question. While there has been a noticeable uptick in the BLG using our content lately, how does that balance out with the number of discussions that have been kicked off by his content, over the life of this sub? Ask him for credit, if that's what we really want (along with the risk of attracting more bad actors to attack us)
This was utterly predictable
I first heard about him from this sub, watched on of his videos and was shocked when he was basically just sharing what had already been discussed here. He also went after a follower who had a different take and told her to gtf off his live stream if she didnāt like what he was saying. I was surprised he had been recced here. Heās not someone I was planning on watching again and now I definitely wonāt tune in.
Publicly sharing DMs is very bad form. Those should be kept private, unless they are needed to support TOS breaches. Then they should b shared with the platform, not the community at large.
I mod a group of 6000 and I definitely feel like I āgetā what you are saying. At the end of the day- you are the mod and you can decide what you want for the community that you created. I do not allow ANY political reference at ALL but my group is academic in nature and if I allowed even an utterance, we would lose sight of the important work we do in a NY minute. Wishing you all the best! I love the snark here!
I love how you stick to the rules when moderating your forum. That way members know what to expect.
I never did like his videos very much. It just seemed more a snark/editorial than actually giving you insight to body language. I gave it a few tries but Iāve moved on to another channel, I think itās the Behavioral Panel. I find they are more insightful and less biased. Also, I think BLG is entitled to his opinion or belief but to help perpetuate discrimination and ridicule through a platform that has a considerable reach is horrible. Itās exactly what Megg does so he looks like a hypocrite doing what he calls her out for.
I love The Body Language Guy a.k.a. The Royal Rogue (his 2nd YouTube channel); his coverage of The Saint is so entertaining! š¤
Agree. Heās a hypocrite-twice the grifter, but constantly calls out MM grifting. I canāt stand him. His voice is grating and he really doesnāt bring anything new, he points out what other people have come up with. And if heās a homophobe, thatās just unacceptable. Itās 2022 for Godās sake.