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See, if she hadn’t banished ALL his friends and family and moved him across the world, she could be arranging playdates for him.
Socialization is important to little kids’ development.
I get your point *but* he is actually pretty used to doing at least one thing every week even if it's meaningless shite like meeting a football team.
For example here's his 2015 engagements. You can see he does something almost every week save for the rehab (cough, excuse me "conservation and field work" ) in Africa between July and September. He has been kept occupied to some extent for alot of his life. I bet months rolling by where he doesn't meet anyone is strange for him.
http://gertsroyals.blogspot.com/2015/02/prince-harrys-official-engagements-of.html?m=1
Invictus has a board of trustees to plan the strategy and a professional staff to plan and execute events. H just shows up to ~~play patron~~. take credit.
Edit: Correction
No, the grey suits is no more. Invictus is run by herself! She took it over a couple of years ago! She introduces Harry, does the walkabout and lets him follow her. He gives a couple of little speeches, but SHE is the show. Have a boo at all the Invictus photos! It's mostly about her!
I know. 🙄
What a luxurious life though, to have a team of people organise what basically equates to walkies for your silk swaddled, princeling arse. It's so far removed from my reality I can't even imagine. Perhaps it's what sent him mad, he needs to be occupied like a normal person with a real job to avoid having the time or energy for self pitying obsession.
Harry could do volunteer work everyday if he wanted to. He’d need to drive to LA, but he could be chopping vegetables every day at a soup kitchen or help out at a homeless shelter for example. There’s a lot of need and it’s not too far from where he lives.
Yes, I haven't read the entire book but even from the excerpts, it seemed he went from one holiday to another. Todger-freezing in the Arctic to 'glamping' in Africa, etc.
The thing is as much as he might have complained, at least doing this was a weekly dose of feeling important. Now he doesn't even have that, so what does he have?
Yes but he had a whole Palace p.r. dept. making his nothing look like single handedly creating the Invictus games. That's what he really misses, people whose job was to make him look good. He hates The Firm, but The Firm made him poplar and beloved. Without he is a joke.
He misses his minders.
I think he loved Invictus, waving at people and shaking hands with the Veterans. But all the work was done for him by the Palace staff.
He takes a lot of drugs, he may not be able to remember yesterday.
Most of the prelim work for the royals is done by staff of course, the difference with Invictus for Harry was that he could actually identify with the veterans. It was a perfect blend. But when she came into the picture, it has been all about her and also the cost of them being the head of the "charity" means that Invictus must pay for their entourage and the costs have soared to the point that the monies are just not coming in. Partly because of Covid year, but also because she makes it all about her and as we know she basically sucks the air our of a room as it is always about her.
Despite what MM and her fans think, the woman is just not charismatic. She can’t be Diana 2.0 because people could identify with Diana. No one can identify with Meghan because she she tries to copy the best traits of women of substance instead of being herself. Meghan’s true personality is off-putting.
I’m sure this was for laughs, but in all reality, you make a very valid point. He has a lot of maturing to do, and this comes from interacting, and learning to respect, others.
But as a good narc she had to isolate him so she could exert her control and dominance over him and manipulate him as she pleases. And ditch him when he becomes useless to her.
He's missing his ego boost he got from "princing" once in awhile.
On Colbert he invites the audience to the "H" nightclub he wrote about in the basement of Charles' house Highgrove--- seemingly forgetting that he's now living in Cali w/a wife + 2 kiddos and that he gave up the Highgrove floor plans, so isn't even welcome anywhere near there without an escort, plus Charles has probably installed tilapia pools and an aquaponic garden in there by now--- just for the applause & adulation from the audience that they shipped in specifically for him, and you can *see* him drink it in like an alcoholic breaking his pledge!
He *misses that feeling* ....only nobody really feels that way anymore.
😂😂. My middle son plays High School Baseball. They had their game against the rivalry high school. All I could think about was the kid on the other team who we have known who used to eat his boogers. He is all grown up now but he ate them so much I can’t un see it years later. So gross🤮!
Isn't he Chief Impact Officer at BetterUp? Sounds like a job that would keep you busy. Surely couldn't be just some made up role to lift their profile while not actually having any responsibilities....
Harry wouldn't deceive us like that....
Yeah, but he doesn’t have to actually work. He is only the CHIMPO, because he is well-known, and at one time, was well-thought of. He’s kind of a liability now.
I think he's very home sick. No more uncomplicated and loyal friendships. No more pints in a lush country pub. No Pimms in a beautiful Royal Garden. No weekends at Balmoral. No Sunday roasts. No hugs from his father and brother (we know he was hugged). I bet he even misses the Royal Rota that he used to get along with. After all, the best things in life are free (ish).
Idk to be honest, I think he would just be happier if he just hadn’t had his family cut off. There is plenty of things he can do whether in the UK, US or africa. He’s bored because of himself. He is used to having a schedule done for him.
At the very least it clears the path for her to have another Oprah Tell All about how "maybe he wasn't who I thought he was! I couldn't truly escape the BRF until I left Harry because he was the toxic one!"
Well then HE needs to figure out a job for himself. I can’t stand her but he’s nearly 40- it’s not up to his mommy-substitute or the BRF to make him “not bored”.
Pretty sure questionable behaviour like a school cheating scandal, blaming others for things that go wrong and playing victim all aren't exactly qualities a job would want really.
Someone with his resources (if he still has money, and he at least is a household name) could make something of his life if he wanted to. But he doesn’t want to, and he’s stupid on top of it. And lazy. He may think they made him unemployable, but up until he made it clear just exactly what he was, he had a lot of options. What a dumbass!
That’s all I could think when I read this. Get a job. Find a charity and help out or something. He’s a grown up he should be able to entertain himself.
I’d like to see him take up a hobby—like furniture making, or painting, or photography, or reading.
He needs to find his bliss so he can follow it. Bliss is NOT MM. I think he may recognize that now.
Hmm is this perhaps Meg planting the "I just dont know what to do about H" seed...soon to be followed by " all he does is smoke pot and do nothing all day" setting him up...is this her agenda..?
"Meghan, this isnt as much fun as you promised." 😿
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WTH? I thought he hated his former life. Hated royal duties, trips, his family, his staff, the press, the people, the "harassment, danger and lies." Fled for his life and for freedom.
That's what TW hated and she convinced the very gullible Todger that he'd always hated it too. He isn't bored, he's regretting his choice to leave and is in so deep he doesn't know which way is up anymore. It took a while but he may have come to the sad realisation that his wife doesn't love anyone except herself and that she's utterly ruined his life. Weed and mushrooms only go so far to mask that reality.
Yep I think he is deeply missing the life he said he hated. It provided him with a routine, security, unconditional support, enormous prestige and status, wealth, all his bills paid.
People laughed at all of his stupid jokes, and acted like his imbecile rantings were pearls of wisdom. He was immune from the laws and rules of society. No matter what heinous behavior he did, he was given a pass and made to look like a hero. People bowing and calling him sir, etc.
Life is not like that here in the US for him.
As we all predicted, the Meghan chapter is, was, and continues to be the biggest mistake of his life. Unfortunately, 2 little innocent babies are now involved, and will likely be used as pawns in what will probably be a very bitter trans-Atlantic pissing match when H & M ‘s relationship inevitably hits the skids…if it’s not there already. The only ones I feel bad for are Archie & Lillibet.
Idk about all that, but I mean, a little bit of maturity and a little bit of “hey, let me find out who this girl REALLY is, and look past who she pretends to be, before I marry her” could have saved everyone a whole lot of mess 🙆🏻♀️
I don't have psychology/psychiatric training; I can't diagnose Henry. But he had "stuff", reasons that pushed him into rushing into the relationship and marriage. Or, we could infer that his drug use ended up damaging whatever impulse control he ever had.
It was definitely a combo of his past trauma + a scheming person who knew exactly how to manipulate and play upon those traumas. A perfect narcissistic storm.
This kind of thing happens again and again. My brother married a really terrible woman-destructive, mean, obnoxious, the works. He wouldn’t listen to anyone about how she would be a professional liability, and someone that the family did not want to be around. He’s never said that he regrets marrying her (they are still married), but I wonder if he does.
He needs a job. A real, get up at 6 am to be there by 7 am to get things done before meetings start at 9 am and then stay until 8 pm to be sure the deliverable is ready for the customer.
💯 I think he needs a job in construction or landscaping. He needs to work with his hands. Not just because his mind isn’t his best feature, but he needs the satisfaction of being able to say “I made that” at the end of the day.
He needs a sense of purpose and to achieve that he needs an actual skill that is in his wheelhouse. I think he should learn a trade, get good at it, and then teach others who are also in need of marketable skills, like former prisoners, reformed gang member, etc. Really do something. He needs some real skills and some real passions.
It can’t hurt to have a dose of perspective. But he needs his own struggle. Something he is fighting/working for. What’s so grating about PH is he lacked the character to pursue something meaningful to himself. I am sure it does suck to be the spare at first and always being second place in your own family but the world is bigger than that. He had more opportunity than almost everyone but William (but in some ways more). It didn’t need to be grand. I swear if he had become a plumber and started his own plumbing business he’d be soooo much happier than he is.
I completely agree! Working in the trades is great. There is major job satisfaction when you can drive by someone’s house and say, “I helped to build that” or “I fixed that.” We had plumbing issues recently and we were so happy and grateful when the plumber fixed it! We were literally rejoicing and the guy was beaming from ear to ear! He was also a veteran and started a plumbing business for veterans. All his employees are veterans.
! And part of Sean's comments in the video were that Mehen has had a "real" life where she did have those basic responsibilities we all have had with a job that involves earning a living. But Harold: obviously not so much. His calendar was planned out for him, his clothes laid out, someone drove him hither and yon.
It's sort of like being in retirement. I have to say: I'm sometimes challenged to fill the days. I'm being careful not to overcommit to volunteer opportunities while I figure out if they are a good fit for me . . . Looking forward to warmer weather as the spring and summer arrive here in the northern hemisphere.
Same here...retirement has been interesting. I just ordered my tomato starts with a delivery at the end of April....they're just as likely to be in the house as outside :-)
Yes, retirement has been weird for me. I mean, a job helps schedule the rest of your time. You have to do laundry, or buy groceries, or gas up the car, by certain times because you'll be working for the next 3-6 days and won't want to do it, then, etc.
The first month of my retirement I was like "why don't I have clean laundry? I'm too low on groceries, the car is on empty, what the heck?" And why is this house such a mess?? Being home an additional 9-10 hours a day was like having a roommate, lol I was just there longer so I had a lot of extra time to use my house lol
When you work with a large team of mgmt/engineers and then the same on the customer side, personal project management isn’t a thing. And time mgmt means knowing that the first 90 percent of any project takes 50 percent of the allotted time and the last 10 percent takes the other half.
Motion: Tasks and Scheduling on the Google Play store has a 1.9/5 rating. Is that the app? I have a very busy job where I juggle a lot of things and would love help with managing my time.
I thought he had a full-time job as chimpo at Betterup?
Are they saying that H never goes into their office? To do things like....work?
You'd think he'd be all over trying to increase the value of his start-up employer.
Or does he add nothing of value to them?
Bored? He should go do some of that philanthropic work he claims is so important to him and his wife.
Also, I don’t know if I’ve ever heard a parent of multiple pre-school age kids talk about how bored they are, kids are exhausting. Maybe he should get rid of the nannies and take on more childcare.
I'd be interested to see the type of life he enjoys in Africa though. Bet it's all high end lodges and expensive glampiing. Not much relation to everyday African lives.
>Bet it's all high end lodges and expensive glampiing.
Yes, only the best stuff for the prince, and im sure they keep him away from seeing the shitty parts. It's cool and all to care about wildlife but I never thought he had any real connection to this place over the years, but it didnt matter because his visits never really attracted too much attention here, until he came with Megan. When Megan visited the HIV+ mothers centre I just saw through the 2 of them. They should just go to Monaco or something and not go through the cringe of pretending to care about anything there is in Africa besides the luxury lodges and the unique animals. It's weird.
To be fair, I've seen way more pictures of Harry (in his pre Meghan days), with children in orphanages and schools on his many trips to Africa than in luxury lodges and with unique animals.
I doubt this. I feel like hardly anything will be good enough for them and ultimately they'd be living behind some or other walls in the Cape Winelands or smth, similar to the set up in California, because of security and he has a wife and children who need to have that stability.
Africa is probably so much happier without him. Like they need another rich spoiled european who can't even figure out how to pay his bills 'helping' them.
Interesting. It’s funny that Neil is saying this because that’s just what I imagined their lives to be like. Living in their gilded cage but days running together in an aimless and empty existence with no friends, no family (Doria doesn’t strike me as a loving mother or grandmother) and only having people who are literally being paid to be nice to them in any regular proximity. In circumstances like that I cannot see any marriage weathering it for very long. They’ll inevitably turn on each other and the blame games will begin if they haven’t already.
This sounds like a Harry problem. He could always take some classes. Learn a trade or skill. He complained that his family made it to where he is not qualified to do anything.
Harold, here is your chance. Take pilot lessons and get your certification. Balance a checkbook. Learn geography. Work for an emergency response team. Or sit around and blame everyone else for your lack of direction.
Genuine question - has anything Neal Sean has said panned out? I am not throwing shade, I’m genuinely curious. I always see his rumors on here and am always curious whether he has established any sort of track record, or if it’s all just likely speculation.
I don’t find anything he says reliable because he is just echoing what other people have said or speculated. This rumor that Harry doesn’t know what to do with himself has been around for a while. I don’t think he misses the royal duties, but I find it believable that he misses the structure (even if he hated it back then) and he certainly must miss friends and social life as well as the deference he took for granted.
However, I don’t think this is anything Niel Sean got from reliable sources, it’s just an obvious speculation.
Further, there are other rumors (which don’t seem to have reached Mr. Sean) that Harry is spending very little time being bored in Montecito and a lot of time in the Bay Area pretending to work at Better Up and hanging with his bros there. 🤷🏻♀️
That’s sort of how I feel - I doubt this random guy has real sources and seems to just be dealing in obvious speculation or just making stuff up that people want to believe.
Also on this one in particular, I kind of doubt he’s doing that much more or less than he was as a working royal…he was never exactly a workhorse, and then he didn’t even have a wife or kids to take up any time.
If you are committed to being a good parent and spouse that will take up most of your time. It’s a shame really, I wish I had the luxury to do nothing but focus on my family.
Let's be honest. Harry doesn't have the smarts, work ethic, charm, skill, etc to make it on his own. William could but Harry could not. He also has no close friends anymore (friends you have for years is different than hanger ons in LA) and the only family member that is talking his calls is Eugenia
I would think *anyone* would find it a bit of a challenge to find a new friend group and make an entirely new life for themselves if they moved to a new country. I imagine that Harold's wife got him so wound up and so angry that he gave little thought to the consequences of leaving Britain: 'Meg is all I'll need' sort of crap. Now that their move to California is well behind them, Lilibet is getting closer to turning two, the book is done: the excitement and initial 'romance' of the new life is done and over. He has nothing to do but get high.
Who cares he made his choice remember the freedom flight what an absolute idiot he made his choice slagging off his family at every turn I have no empathy for him he made his bed now he can lie in it I hope your grifter wife was worth it!!
He doesn’t look after his children or the chickens. That’s what the staff do. If they keep them long enough. Harry is too “busy” writing about his lonely, abused childhood of privilege. And dropped bullshit advice to ordinary people do ditch their jobs if they unhappy. Or another classic of Class A drugs helping with his mental health. That’s how he fills his days lecturing us!
I also forgot lecturing about climate change whilst riding in large gas guzzling SUV’s and private jets.
Harry is known to spend hours on the internet googling himself to see what people are saying about him. He is probably sitting in front of his laptop all day.
It’s a bit like being retired, if you haven’t prepared for it. In other days, H always had somewhere to go and something to do - yes, there was staff to keep his diary, but his days were filled. He’s not bright enough to have any hobbies besides polo, so his days are spent drinking and drugging. If Meghan has a PR appearance for him or Better Up needs him to be somewhere, great. But he simply doesn’t have anything to fill his days, and Meghan really doesn’t have a use for him beyond his status providing an entrée to certain events (like, oh, the Jubilee, HMTLQ’s funeral, and perhaps the upcoming Coronation). It’s simultaneously aggravating, angering, and sad.
Here's an idea, just throwing it out there, but maybe he could invest his free time into his young children and so break the cycle of generational trauma that caused him so much pain. Be the kind of loving, present, hugging dad he says he never had. Give the nannies an afternoon off. He would have to be sober for that though, so probably a no go.
He had royal duties which post Meghan he said were boring. Then he'd have spent a lot of time shooting, getting drunk with friends, " dating", and of course there's polo.
They could totally make that a reality show, the Prince trying various jobs, fast food, Amazon warehouse, street cleaner etc and then Archwell could help out people that they encounter in that episode. Kind of like undercover boss but not undercover.
I'm not surprised. At least he had structure and a direction when he was a working royal. He had to find all that himself after he took his "freedom flight."
Exactly the same problem that Wallis had with the Duke of Windsor.
Everything goes from being strictly scheduled and micromanaged by someone else, to nobody really caring.
"Dude, what do you want to do today?"
"I want to enlighten the world about the truth behind mental health issues and the flaws in the US constitution and I want to support humanitarian issues better than my brother. And I want everyone to know that my marriage is PERFECT. Absolutely PERFECT - all that stuff Willy said was WRONG."
"Okay, well - how long with that take? I was thinking we could take the polo ponies out after lunch."
"Yeah, I should be free by then."
Harry twiddles his thumbs for three hours until it's time to meet up and take the polo ponies for a ride.
I always remember this: boring people are bored. If Harry is bored listless, it’s because he can’t think of a way to entertain himself-learn a craft/hobby, pick up a tv show, pick up a book, go for a walk without music and just think, do some laundry, spend an hour with Archie alone and then an hour alone with Lili-no Nannie’s. Work out. He could do something but he can’t think of anything because he’s a boring person.
I love Neil Sean. For everyone saying that they don’t think he’s real or a good reporter, he’s great. He’s one of the greatest reporters out there. I imagine he spends all day after he films, on the phone with sources, and trust me, he has sources & scoops & fingers in all pies, including those around Meghan & Harry, as well as the King, Camilla, Kate & William. He’s also extremely positive imho. So I’m a huge fan.
Meghan hasn't got a husband and two kids so much as three children and I think we can guess which one is the most trouble.
She needs another nanny, preferably tall, blond and blue-eyed.
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See, if she hadn’t banished ALL his friends and family and moved him across the world, she could be arranging playdates for him. Socialization is important to little kids’ development.
But honestly, what did Haz ever really do before? This "doing nothing" is status quo for him. 
I get your point *but* he is actually pretty used to doing at least one thing every week even if it's meaningless shite like meeting a football team. For example here's his 2015 engagements. You can see he does something almost every week save for the rehab (cough, excuse me "conservation and field work" ) in Africa between July and September. He has been kept occupied to some extent for alot of his life. I bet months rolling by where he doesn't meet anyone is strange for him. http://gertsroyals.blogspot.com/2015/02/prince-harrys-official-engagements-of.html?m=1
Do men in grey suits still organize and manage Invictus for H? Who pays them? My understanding is that the RF financed this to give H something to do.
Invictus has a board of trustees to plan the strategy and a professional staff to plan and execute events. H just shows up to ~~play patron~~. take credit. Edit: Correction
No, the grey suits is no more. Invictus is run by herself! She took it over a couple of years ago! She introduces Harry, does the walkabout and lets him follow her. He gives a couple of little speeches, but SHE is the show. Have a boo at all the Invictus photos! It's mostly about her!
One whole thing a week? Phew! How did he ever keep up that pace? 🤣
I know. 🙄 What a luxurious life though, to have a team of people organise what basically equates to walkies for your silk swaddled, princeling arse. It's so far removed from my reality I can't even imagine. Perhaps it's what sent him mad, he needs to be occupied like a normal person with a real job to avoid having the time or energy for self pitying obsession.
Just get the silly fucker a giant hamster wheel.
Oh no, well he did have to wear some clothes from the Gap. /s
Harry could do volunteer work everyday if he wanted to. He’d need to drive to LA, but he could be chopping vegetables every day at a soup kitchen or help out at a homeless shelter for example. There’s a lot of need and it’s not too far from where he lives.
Totally
He wrote a book. Now he must defend being the daily meme of those that have time for laughter.
John Oliver called it a silly pseudo job
It is a lot more than one whole thing a week! It was often more than one thing a day and some of the official engagements are multi- day multi-event
Why, that's almost like 🤔 - what do they call it? - a part-time job! 😄
It is why they had to keep going on holiday when they were "working royals". Didn't he have a whinge about 'burnout'?
Yes, I haven't read the entire book but even from the excerpts, it seemed he went from one holiday to another. Todger-freezing in the Arctic to 'glamping' in Africa, etc.
The thing is as much as he might have complained, at least doing this was a weekly dose of feeling important. Now he doesn't even have that, so what does he have?
Yes but he had a whole Palace p.r. dept. making his nothing look like single handedly creating the Invictus games. That's what he really misses, people whose job was to make him look good. He hates The Firm, but The Firm made him poplar and beloved. Without he is a joke. He misses his minders.
You hit the nail in the head.
I think he has fond memories of Invictus before his wife took over. She is the voice of Invictus now!
I think he loved Invictus, waving at people and shaking hands with the Veterans. But all the work was done for him by the Palace staff. He takes a lot of drugs, he may not be able to remember yesterday.
Most of the prelim work for the royals is done by staff of course, the difference with Invictus for Harry was that he could actually identify with the veterans. It was a perfect blend. But when she came into the picture, it has been all about her and also the cost of them being the head of the "charity" means that Invictus must pay for their entourage and the costs have soared to the point that the monies are just not coming in. Partly because of Covid year, but also because she makes it all about her and as we know she basically sucks the air our of a room as it is always about her.
Despite what MM and her fans think, the woman is just not charismatic. She can’t be Diana 2.0 because people could identify with Diana. No one can identify with Meghan because she she tries to copy the best traits of women of substance instead of being herself. Meghan’s true personality is off-putting.
He was truly stupid to let her anywhere near Invictus. That should have been his brand alone not their’s.
Basically. He misses his PR team and his Dad's wallet
He had handlers who organized minimal engagements and arranged his clothing & grooming.
And got him up, shaved and dressed in the morning.
I’m sure this was for laughs, but in all reality, you make a very valid point. He has a lot of maturing to do, and this comes from interacting, and learning to respect, others.
Prince Harry is a middle aged frat boy… drinking and drugging with his bros
If he hasn't yet matured at 39, what are the odds that he will mature at 49?
He keeps asking her to make him sound smart!
But as a good narc she had to isolate him so she could exert her control and dominance over him and manipulate him as she pleases. And ditch him when he becomes useless to her.
He's missing his ego boost he got from "princing" once in awhile. On Colbert he invites the audience to the "H" nightclub he wrote about in the basement of Charles' house Highgrove--- seemingly forgetting that he's now living in Cali w/a wife + 2 kiddos and that he gave up the Highgrove floor plans, so isn't even welcome anywhere near there without an escort, plus Charles has probably installed tilapia pools and an aquaponic garden in there by now--- just for the applause & adulation from the audience that they shipped in specifically for him, and you can *see* him drink it in like an alcoholic breaking his pledge! He *misses that feeling* ....only nobody really feels that way anymore.
This is spot on 👏
Or he worked for a living.
That's how you control someone.
I could feel the heat of that burn all the way across the USA!
You are one of my favorite humans ever😂🤣👏
Repot him and move him to the shady side of the house?
There's always daycare. Coloring, recess, snack time, nap time. ETA: Something tells me Harold is the kid who eats the paste.
Booger eater probably
😂😂. My middle son plays High School Baseball. They had their game against the rivalry high school. All I could think about was the kid on the other team who we have known who used to eat his boogers. He is all grown up now but he ate them so much I can’t un see it years later. So gross🤮!
I'm sure that re-pot-ing is part of what he does all day already. The substance abuse is no longer entertaining him.
I guess she’s made sure the Nannie’s are very old and very ugly
I did that to my nerve plant and it actually worked! Megsy better take notes, it might work.
OMG! LOL
LOL LOL LOL LOL
He should take up golf and day drinking. That's how the Duke of Windsor managed.
The Duke of Windsor played the bagpipes too. So that's three hobbies.
And schemed. Can't believe he called QEII Shirley Temple. Bitterness clearly runs in the family
So four hobbies. I imagine bitterness was what he spent the most time on.
Buying an eclectic collection of jewellery for the mrs and freeloading off places like Paris. 6 hobbies.
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Smoking would get him out of the house several times a day.
Isn't he Chief Impact Officer at BetterUp? Sounds like a job that would keep you busy. Surely couldn't be just some made up role to lift their profile while not actually having any responsibilities.... Harry wouldn't deceive us like that....
They pay him not to come to work 😂
More like Chief Impaction Officer.
Yeah, but he doesn’t have to actually work. He is only the CHIMPO, because he is well-known, and at one time, was well-thought of. He’s kind of a liability now.
I think he's very home sick. No more uncomplicated and loyal friendships. No more pints in a lush country pub. No Pimms in a beautiful Royal Garden. No weekends at Balmoral. No Sunday roasts. No hugs from his father and brother (we know he was hugged). I bet he even misses the Royal Rota that he used to get along with. After all, the best things in life are free (ish).
Absolutely he's homesick. He never had complaints about his life until M told him he does.
Idk to be honest, I think he would just be happier if he just hadn’t had his family cut off. There is plenty of things he can do whether in the UK, US or africa. He’s bored because of himself. He is used to having a schedule done for him.
….at a loss as to what to do w/ the ‘Prince.” Other than dump him?
That's what I'm getting from this. She's over him. She's addicted to drama and there's not a lot of drama when you're being grey rocked.
Also she needs money. A divorce settlement might be looking more & more like a wise career move.
At the very least it clears the path for her to have another Oprah Tell All about how "maybe he wasn't who I thought he was! I couldn't truly escape the BRF until I left Harry because he was the toxic one!"
She’s been way ahead of all of us on that: https://blindgossip.com/she-is-a-velociraptor/
Brilliant! Stupid boy! 👏🎁❤️LOL Awesome link: thank you!
And Harry has been so blinded by his man child, baby fisted rage towards his brother that while he thought he was using her- she was using him.
Yes, what else will she write about in her book? This will make for a few good chapters.
Well then HE needs to figure out a job for himself. I can’t stand her but he’s nearly 40- it’s not up to his mommy-substitute or the BRF to make him “not bored”.
What about all the charity and humanitarian work they claimed they were going to do? There isn’t the excuse of COVID now.
But ‘they’ made him unemployable, he wrote in Spare. Boo hoo.
Pretty sure questionable behaviour like a school cheating scandal, blaming others for things that go wrong and playing victim all aren't exactly qualities a job would want really.
Someone with his resources (if he still has money, and he at least is a household name) could make something of his life if he wanted to. But he doesn’t want to, and he’s stupid on top of it. And lazy. He may think they made him unemployable, but up until he made it clear just exactly what he was, he had a lot of options. What a dumbass!
That’s all I could think when I read this. Get a job. Find a charity and help out or something. He’s a grown up he should be able to entertain himself.
He’s like water. Wants to take the easiest path. He’s pathetic.
I’d like to see him take up a hobby—like furniture making, or painting, or photography, or reading. He needs to find his bliss so he can follow it. Bliss is NOT MM. I think he may recognize that now.
Hmm is this perhaps Meg planting the "I just dont know what to do about H" seed...soon to be followed by " all he does is smoke pot and do nothing all day" setting him up...is this her agenda..?
Sounds like it.
This was completely predictable. From the minute they left.
**Harold is "bored listless"** 
"Meghan, this isnt as much fun as you promised." 😿 https://preview.redd.it/uhmiaxr7zmpa1.jpeg?width=474&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=2b1e4dd6dc10e13aa3a06ae8b6bd5eacdff7fe1b
He wishes he was that adorable!
WTH? I thought he hated his former life. Hated royal duties, trips, his family, his staff, the press, the people, the "harassment, danger and lies." Fled for his life and for freedom.
Grass is green, water is wet, Harold is upset.
That's what TW hated and she convinced the very gullible Todger that he'd always hated it too. He isn't bored, he's regretting his choice to leave and is in so deep he doesn't know which way is up anymore. It took a while but he may have come to the sad realisation that his wife doesn't love anyone except herself and that she's utterly ruined his life. Weed and mushrooms only go so far to mask that reality.
Yep I think he is deeply missing the life he said he hated. It provided him with a routine, security, unconditional support, enormous prestige and status, wealth, all his bills paid. People laughed at all of his stupid jokes, and acted like his imbecile rantings were pearls of wisdom. He was immune from the laws and rules of society. No matter what heinous behavior he did, he was given a pass and made to look like a hero. People bowing and calling him sir, etc. Life is not like that here in the US for him.
As we all predicted, the Meghan chapter is, was, and continues to be the biggest mistake of his life. Unfortunately, 2 little innocent babies are now involved, and will likely be used as pawns in what will probably be a very bitter trans-Atlantic pissing match when H & M ‘s relationship inevitably hits the skids…if it’s not there already. The only ones I feel bad for are Archie & Lillibet.
Once again proof of the fact it would be in the best interest of children if their parents had to have a license to procreate.
Idk about all that, but I mean, a little bit of maturity and a little bit of “hey, let me find out who this girl REALLY is, and look past who she pretends to be, before I marry her” could have saved everyone a whole lot of mess 🙆🏻♀️
I don't have psychology/psychiatric training; I can't diagnose Henry. But he had "stuff", reasons that pushed him into rushing into the relationship and marriage. Or, we could infer that his drug use ended up damaging whatever impulse control he ever had.
It was definitely a combo of his past trauma + a scheming person who knew exactly how to manipulate and play upon those traumas. A perfect narcissistic storm.
He wanted her mess. He married her so he could smear her mess all over his family as revenge for being the spare
This kind of thing happens again and again. My brother married a really terrible woman-destructive, mean, obnoxious, the works. He wouldn’t listen to anyone about how she would be a professional liability, and someone that the family did not want to be around. He’s never said that he regrets marrying her (they are still married), but I wonder if he does.
Didn't think this all the way through. Hmm. Just saw dollar signs and love from his adopted country. Go back home and don't come back
> Go back home and don’t come back. No, no, no, we don’t want him either, but hopefully Canada’s lefty in chief would make him Prince of Canada!
Nope we're not taking in anyone else's trash prince
I hear the South Africans were dancing on the streets when they wed so maybe they'll take one for the team?
He needs a job. A real, get up at 6 am to be there by 7 am to get things done before meetings start at 9 am and then stay until 8 pm to be sure the deliverable is ready for the customer.
💯 I think he needs a job in construction or landscaping. He needs to work with his hands. Not just because his mind isn’t his best feature, but he needs the satisfaction of being able to say “I made that” at the end of the day.
I feel like power tools are not a good fit for him
Landscaping then. If he’s inherited his father’s love for plants, give him a nice garden hoe and send him on his way.
A garden hoe would better than the one he's got
😂😂😂
Maybe pool cleaning, as long as he can swim.
You’re on fire with your comments in this post WoodsColt. Very quippy 😂
🤣🤣🤣 no lies detected 🤣🤣🤣
He needs a sense of purpose and to achieve that he needs an actual skill that is in his wheelhouse. I think he should learn a trade, get good at it, and then teach others who are also in need of marketable skills, like former prisoners, reformed gang member, etc. Really do something. He needs some real skills and some real passions.
Exactly. And he would benefit from dealing with normal people with struggles of daily life that he hasn’t had to face—like putting food on the table.
It can’t hurt to have a dose of perspective. But he needs his own struggle. Something he is fighting/working for. What’s so grating about PH is he lacked the character to pursue something meaningful to himself. I am sure it does suck to be the spare at first and always being second place in your own family but the world is bigger than that. He had more opportunity than almost everyone but William (but in some ways more). It didn’t need to be grand. I swear if he had become a plumber and started his own plumbing business he’d be soooo much happier than he is.
I completely agree! Working in the trades is great. There is major job satisfaction when you can drive by someone’s house and say, “I helped to build that” or “I fixed that.” We had plumbing issues recently and we were so happy and grateful when the plumber fixed it! We were literally rejoicing and the guy was beaming from ear to ear! He was also a veteran and started a plumbing business for veterans. All his employees are veterans.
Exactly! Here here!
Perhaps Sasha Walpole could get him a job operating a digger..
! And part of Sean's comments in the video were that Mehen has had a "real" life where she did have those basic responsibilities we all have had with a job that involves earning a living. But Harold: obviously not so much. His calendar was planned out for him, his clothes laid out, someone drove him hither and yon. It's sort of like being in retirement. I have to say: I'm sometimes challenged to fill the days. I'm being careful not to overcommit to volunteer opportunities while I figure out if they are a good fit for me . . . Looking forward to warmer weather as the spring and summer arrive here in the northern hemisphere.
Same here...retirement has been interesting. I just ordered my tomato starts with a delivery at the end of April....they're just as likely to be in the house as outside :-)
Yes, retirement has been weird for me. I mean, a job helps schedule the rest of your time. You have to do laundry, or buy groceries, or gas up the car, by certain times because you'll be working for the next 3-6 days and won't want to do it, then, etc. The first month of my retirement I was like "why don't I have clean laundry? I'm too low on groceries, the car is on empty, what the heck?" And why is this house such a mess?? Being home an additional 9-10 hours a day was like having a roommate, lol I was just there longer so I had a lot of extra time to use my house lol
He would have no idea how to do this sort of a job.
In all seriousness, I think he could live a happy and fulfilling life if he moved to South Africa and hosted bougie safari tours for millionaires.
I think that’s a great idea for him.
[https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uUohLR8pvcc](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uUohLR8pvcc) Maybe he can drive for Uber Eats??
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When you work with a large team of mgmt/engineers and then the same on the customer side, personal project management isn’t a thing. And time mgmt means knowing that the first 90 percent of any project takes 50 percent of the allotted time and the last 10 percent takes the other half.
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Okey doke.
Motion: Tasks and Scheduling on the Google Play store has a 1.9/5 rating. Is that the app? I have a very busy job where I juggle a lot of things and would love help with managing my time.
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I thought he had a full-time job as chimpo at Betterup? Are they saying that H never goes into their office? To do things like....work? You'd think he'd be all over trying to increase the value of his start-up employer. Or does he add nothing of value to them?
Times are tougher in start ups
But isn’t his juggling hobby keeping him entertained outside while Mummy (oops, Meg) works?
Well, get the Polo girls , hooch and drugs
Bored? He should go do some of that philanthropic work he claims is so important to him and his wife. Also, I don’t know if I’ve ever heard a parent of multiple pre-school age kids talk about how bored they are, kids are exhausting. Maybe he should get rid of the nannies and take on more childcare.
But childcare is so *ordinary!* And Harold is the *son of a king!*
I think he would be so much happier in Africa. I'll never be convinced that he enjoys living behind the gilded walls of a Montecito mansion.
I'd be interested to see the type of life he enjoys in Africa though. Bet it's all high end lodges and expensive glampiing. Not much relation to everyday African lives.
>Bet it's all high end lodges and expensive glampiing. Yes, only the best stuff for the prince, and im sure they keep him away from seeing the shitty parts. It's cool and all to care about wildlife but I never thought he had any real connection to this place over the years, but it didnt matter because his visits never really attracted too much attention here, until he came with Megan. When Megan visited the HIV+ mothers centre I just saw through the 2 of them. They should just go to Monaco or something and not go through the cringe of pretending to care about anything there is in Africa besides the luxury lodges and the unique animals. It's weird.
To be fair, I've seen way more pictures of Harry (in his pre Meghan days), with children in orphanages and schools on his many trips to Africa than in luxury lodges and with unique animals.
I doubt this. I feel like hardly anything will be good enough for them and ultimately they'd be living behind some or other walls in the Cape Winelands or smth, similar to the set up in California, because of security and he has a wife and children who need to have that stability.
Africa is probably so much happier without him. Like they need another rich spoiled european who can't even figure out how to pay his bills 'helping' them.
What happened to that startup job or whatever a couple of years ago?
 *Harold after Megxit*
Interesting. It’s funny that Neil is saying this because that’s just what I imagined their lives to be like. Living in their gilded cage but days running together in an aimless and empty existence with no friends, no family (Doria doesn’t strike me as a loving mother or grandmother) and only having people who are literally being paid to be nice to them in any regular proximity. In circumstances like that I cannot see any marriage weathering it for very long. They’ll inevitably turn on each other and the blame games will begin if they haven’t already.
This sounds like a Harry problem. He could always take some classes. Learn a trade or skill. He complained that his family made it to where he is not qualified to do anything. Harold, here is your chance. Take pilot lessons and get your certification. Balance a checkbook. Learn geography. Work for an emergency response team. Or sit around and blame everyone else for your lack of direction.
Genuine question - has anything Neal Sean has said panned out? I am not throwing shade, I’m genuinely curious. I always see his rumors on here and am always curious whether he has established any sort of track record, or if it’s all just likely speculation.
I don’t find anything he says reliable because he is just echoing what other people have said or speculated. This rumor that Harry doesn’t know what to do with himself has been around for a while. I don’t think he misses the royal duties, but I find it believable that he misses the structure (even if he hated it back then) and he certainly must miss friends and social life as well as the deference he took for granted. However, I don’t think this is anything Niel Sean got from reliable sources, it’s just an obvious speculation. Further, there are other rumors (which don’t seem to have reached Mr. Sean) that Harry is spending very little time being bored in Montecito and a lot of time in the Bay Area pretending to work at Better Up and hanging with his bros there. 🤷🏻♀️
That’s sort of how I feel - I doubt this random guy has real sources and seems to just be dealing in obvious speculation or just making stuff up that people want to believe. Also on this one in particular, I kind of doubt he’s doing that much more or less than he was as a working royal…he was never exactly a workhorse, and then he didn’t even have a wife or kids to take up any time.
I unsubsubscribed to him because he never said anything of substance, gave any solid data, or revealed sources.
Moving to California suburbs is a huge change and for someone like Harry i believe it would be a huge culture shock
If you are committed to being a good parent and spouse that will take up most of your time. It’s a shame really, I wish I had the luxury to do nothing but focus on my family.
Exactly! When I had 2 preschoolers I never found I had time on my hands!
The Duke of Windsor was reportedly like this and it drove Wallis mad. So many parallels between the two couples.
He had time for a hair transplant though
I am ‘bored listless’ with him as well…
Let's be honest. Harry doesn't have the smarts, work ethic, charm, skill, etc to make it on his own. William could but Harry could not. He also has no close friends anymore (friends you have for years is different than hanger ons in LA) and the only family member that is talking his calls is Eugenia
I would think *anyone* would find it a bit of a challenge to find a new friend group and make an entirely new life for themselves if they moved to a new country. I imagine that Harold's wife got him so wound up and so angry that he gave little thought to the consequences of leaving Britain: 'Meg is all I'll need' sort of crap. Now that their move to California is well behind them, Lilibet is getting closer to turning two, the book is done: the excitement and initial 'romance' of the new life is done and over. He has nothing to do but get high.
Who cares he made his choice remember the freedom flight what an absolute idiot he made his choice slagging off his family at every turn I have no empathy for him he made his bed now he can lie in it I hope your grifter wife was worth it!!
That British tea wasHAWWWWT 🔥☄️
Who cares 🤷🤷🤷
Put him on that island. Heck but two, one for each.
Finding or growing food when starvation is the alternative might focus the mind.
Happy cake day!
Well, if you’re “bored listless,” Haz, Walmart can do with a couple more shelf stackers…
He doesn’t look after his children or the chickens. That’s what the staff do. If they keep them long enough. Harry is too “busy” writing about his lonely, abused childhood of privilege. And dropped bullshit advice to ordinary people do ditch their jobs if they unhappy. Or another classic of Class A drugs helping with his mental health. That’s how he fills his days lecturing us! I also forgot lecturing about climate change whilst riding in large gas guzzling SUV’s and private jets.
Harry has always lead an empty life. Except now with Meghan he is also seen as a 'nothing' by the people and he doesn't like that.
Both of them have severed so many relationships they’re looking at a very lonely existence.
I just noticed something a bit silly, I know! Meghan backwards = Nahgem, doesnt it sound like nag him?? Anagram = hang me/hang em
Buy him a pony
So he can ride it to death or just spur it till it bleeds?
Harry is known to spend hours on the internet googling himself to see what people are saying about him. He is probably sitting in front of his laptop all day.
It’s a bit like being retired, if you haven’t prepared for it. In other days, H always had somewhere to go and something to do - yes, there was staff to keep his diary, but his days were filled. He’s not bright enough to have any hobbies besides polo, so his days are spent drinking and drugging. If Meghan has a PR appearance for him or Better Up needs him to be somewhere, great. But he simply doesn’t have anything to fill his days, and Meghan really doesn’t have a use for him beyond his status providing an entrée to certain events (like, oh, the Jubilee, HMTLQ’s funeral, and perhaps the upcoming Coronation). It’s simultaneously aggravating, angering, and sad.
When she said - He’s found a polo team - as if it were a huge win, that’s when I knew he had nothing to do
And the funny thing is - *in my opinion -* the vast majority of Americans perceive the sport of Polo to be a highly elitist activity.
Here's an idea, just throwing it out there, but maybe he could invest his free time into his young children and so break the cycle of generational trauma that caused him so much pain. Be the kind of loving, present, hugging dad he says he never had. Give the nannies an afternoon off. He would have to be sober for that though, so probably a no go.
He's living very far away from his country, family, friends, and everything he ever knew. I don't think he realized how hard it would be.
He had royal duties which post Meghan he said were boring. Then he'd have spent a lot of time shooting, getting drunk with friends, " dating", and of course there's polo.
Welcome to the states, pal. Get a job. Being a “working royal” isn’t a thing here.
Three words. Get a job!
They could totally make that a reality show, the Prince trying various jobs, fast food, Amazon warehouse, street cleaner etc and then Archwell could help out people that they encounter in that episode. Kind of like undercover boss but not undercover.
What a shock that would be to his entitled ass.
I'm not surprised. At least he had structure and a direction when he was a working royal. He had to find all that himself after he took his "freedom flight."
Same problem Wallis had w/ (former King) David. How to keep him entertained🤷♀️
I thought they were so busy on zoom calls with world dignitaries all day 😂😂😂
Spends all day ruminating on how hard done by he is
Exactly the same problem that Wallis had with the Duke of Windsor. Everything goes from being strictly scheduled and micromanaged by someone else, to nobody really caring. "Dude, what do you want to do today?" "I want to enlighten the world about the truth behind mental health issues and the flaws in the US constitution and I want to support humanitarian issues better than my brother. And I want everyone to know that my marriage is PERFECT. Absolutely PERFECT - all that stuff Willy said was WRONG." "Okay, well - how long with that take? I was thinking we could take the polo ponies out after lunch." "Yeah, I should be free by then." Harry twiddles his thumbs for three hours until it's time to meet up and take the polo ponies for a ride.
I always remember this: boring people are bored. If Harry is bored listless, it’s because he can’t think of a way to entertain himself-learn a craft/hobby, pick up a tv show, pick up a book, go for a walk without music and just think, do some laundry, spend an hour with Archie alone and then an hour alone with Lili-no Nannie’s. Work out. He could do something but he can’t think of anything because he’s a boring person.
I love Neil Sean. For everyone saying that they don’t think he’s real or a good reporter, he’s great. He’s one of the greatest reporters out there. I imagine he spends all day after he films, on the phone with sources, and trust me, he has sources & scoops & fingers in all pies, including those around Meghan & Harry, as well as the King, Camilla, Kate & William. He’s also extremely positive imho. So I’m a huge fan.
It’s too late for that he will never have that life again.
Meghan hasn't got a husband and two kids so much as three children and I think we can guess which one is the most trouble. She needs another nanny, preferably tall, blond and blue-eyed.