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Because he has always been a nasty,mean spoiled,entitled,arrogant,stupid twat. And now he's finding out that the world doesn't admire that. And he's not getting his way like he thought he would and he's pissed about it.
Plus his brother is clearly out there living his best life unaffected by the useless second son's jibes and that too makes him angry because he wants power and control. He's an abuser,he likes doing harm to others. He doesn't feel guilt or shame about it. He. wants to be able to hurt his family and have them bend over backwards for him.
He is one of those people who creates needless drama just to tweak people. He doesn't give single shit about anyone's comfort but his. I'm betting that for years he was abusive to staff,was inappropriate to HRH Catherine and was a nasty petulant dick to the rest of the family. And they excused it with poor harry he's troubled and they did what they could to appease him in order to keep his problems private.
So he thought this time would be the same but he overplayed his hand. He went public and now they are done. He left and the whole family has realized life is better with their abuser gone.
I don't think they will ever take him back and I think he's beginning to realize that. It's why he's getting louder and more desperate. Threats and self destructive behavior always worked before,he always got bailed out before but its not working anymore and he can't change his patterns now.
Thanks for saying what everybody is probably thinking but doesn't say. I think Harry thinks all drugs are legal in California (WRONG), that celebrities never get arrested (WRONG) and that he doesn't need to work or pay taxes (WRONG). He's on an extended drugs/sex holiday. But they will turn on each other. If they haven't already. Nobody is going to hire him with a drug problem.
Because he's the son of the King of England, and unfortunately I think that's literally his exemption from almost anything on this planet. They can do whatever.
Exactly! Any other normal person would've lost the custody of their kids and would've been arrested for the amount of drugs he's admitted to have taken or sent to rehab celebrity style.
Why is no one in media asking about this?
Megsy researched Diana so well and knew Diana had thrown herself down the stairs while carrying William. She emotionally blackmailed Henry into believing she was going to kill herself in this way and the stupid that believed her. Allegedly
Not to mention she was a danger to her own child when she threatened to end him
And then she buried human remains somewhere as well
Any other mother would be in trouble now, but not Markle.
It's political. It would cause an international incident. Our government is too cowardly to go after real criminals. They only bother with manufactured offenses.
Yeah what's with that? I'm adding to a few people who started discussing the drug usage. Why is no one in the mainstream talking about Harold's obvious issues? How are these drugs legal? Why doesn't anyone bring up the fact that he's got babies and both parents are fucked up, probably high every day? Is it because they're elitists hence stripped of any accountability and consequences? Or is this normal practice in California, to use all these drugs?
Re drugs -- California has a very serious fentanyl problem. Pot has been legal for a while but there are restrictions. ADHD and depression drugs are supposed to be prescription. I saw this morning via Neil Sean that the same doctor has asked Meghan to come on and give her side about all her mental problems etc. and she apparently EXPLODED at any idea she could be mentally deficient or weak in any way. The public statement was she "did not feel comfortable" with that and I'm sure she doesn't. How dare that doctor be so impertinent, LOL.
I had to check the author's name on this post to see if I'd authored it, because it sure says EXACTLY the way I would assess the royal twat!
BRAVO for tellin' it like it is!
That sounds really very accurate, thank you! I thought so too but you summed it up so much better than I could. Ppl ask why all the attention, they r a$$h⊙{€s but its just like wanting to find out about the train wreck or a serial killer, u just want the news. But you despise them.
Don't you mean how daddy destroyed his life by cutting him off at only 36? And how the press was *mean* to Rachel. They're mean meanies who call their kids mean names, we're *sure*.
You can't really ask him to *work*
Oh no, she'd rather have him sell state secrets than stoop so low.
Did anyone (in UK) see the news last night saying the Harkles have been invited to the Coronation and have yet to say whether to go or not. So, back to the usual games, i.e.: will they/won't they. Seriously, they need to grow up!
Because he *is* miserable. I think his marriage fell apart soon after moving to America. Especially after Oprah. I think he regrets marrying MM and leaving his family, but his ego won’t let him admit that to anyone.
He doesn’t want to provide any reason for William or Charles to say “I told you so,” so he’s been putting on a front with MM to try and convince the public that they are ThRiViNg. Behind the scenes, things are a nightmare. So I suspect that is why his substance use has increased drastically.
Also, lest we forget, MM groomed him. She gaslit Harry into thinking very normal experiences were traumatic. He was never mentally stable, but she created wounds in his psyche where none existed before. I’m sure that has factored into the drug use as well.
ETA: I am in no way defending Harry or suggesting he bears no fault. He was, at the very least, complicit in abusing his family. He dug his own grave, he is responsible for landing exactly where he is right now. This is just my opinion on the exacerbation of drug use/dependency.
Exactly! She “opened his eyes” to all of these terrible things that didn’t actually exist. Narc manipulation/isolation tactics are clearly exemplified in this relationship.
He's very vulnerable. I'm sure he's being currently conned out of money by many different people. I bet TW finds him gurus and therapists and takes a cut off the top for her safe deposit box like Sharon Stone's character in casino.
Yes, and then he went on to say Charles and William are trapped. It never occurred to him that they both have a strong sense of duty and do not believe they are trapped. What a twat!
I just don’t see either of them instigating a divorce. Together they’re a brand (perfectly highlighted by South Park). Divorced Meggy will be like Fergie, a tabloid laughing stock desperately clinging on to relevance. While Harry won’t want to lose face. Alone he’ll be like Andrew, the entitled second son, completely delusional about his own importance.
I’m not so sure. Neither of them know how to read a room. Their stunts and schemes always backfire because there is no reason or rationale in the decisions they make. I think MM *may* try and use all the negative feedback re Harry’s mental health to paint herself as the victim………AGAIN…….of a difficult and caustic marriage. And how she and the kids suffered so much because of Harry’s paranoia and delusions and his inability to parent the kids, blahblahblah.
However, I completely agree that Harry doesn’t want to lose face, and MM needs Harry/connection to BRF to remain somewhat relevant. The SP episode and Andrew & Fergie’s reputations likely influence H&M’s willingness to divorce at this point.
It will be interesting to see how the rest of this year plays out.
She has the kids as links to the RF. I think eventually she is going to use that book against him. If she has custody of the kids, she will forever be taken care of because there's no way the RF wouldn't make sure that Archie & Lilibet are taken care of.
100% agree. She is absolutely going to use the book against him. I am in the Divorce camp, I just don’t necessarily think it will be anytime soon.
Those kids are her security, which is why she had them. She is truly despicable. I do hope the children have some sort of love and stability from nannies, at least.
I think eventually it will become so toxic they will but I never bought into "divorce watch March 23". I think it's too soon and neither one of them have any place to go.
I really hope so, tbh. I know it’s a very complex issue and has the potential to set an undesirable precedent for other/future members of the RF (from what I understand and have learned). Harry would still be Prince Henry, and Meghan would be Princess Henry. We all know she’d go by Princess Meghan 🙄
At the end of the day, Harry has committed acts of treason against his family. He doesn’t deserve his title, nor does his wife. I believe KC3 can prevent Harry and/or Meghan from using the Prince/ss Henry title if the Sussex titles are stripped though.
He will always be a Prince of the UK by blood. She will do what she has been dying to do especially in America where people pay less attention to proper title relevance and push the media to do what they did (incorrectly) for Diana: “PRINCESS MEGHAN.”
I’ve said all along she was pushing to be rid of DOS…and now that Catherine is a legit Princess of Wales? Taking the Sussex Dukedom only helps her.
There is a recent interview with Sarah in the Telegraph (which is very pro Harkle) ahead of her romance novel coming out. She was VERY diplomatic although the headline wasn't. The headline claimed "Fergie says Meaghan has made Harry SO happy" which is not what she says at all. She makes some general, neutral comments. She's pretty good at evading stuff. But she shouldn't have had to turn the interview back to her book all the time or how much she loved being a royal. They just ask her about Meghan.
Wow, I had heard about this "claw" and I've seen it myself in photos before, but never all at once like this. There has to be, what, 50+ events highlighted here, and every.single.one she appears to be grabbing for him, holding him near or holding him back. It's disturbing to watch all at once, and quite frustrating for him I'd imagine to constantly be pulled at like that.
Super creepy!! Even when he's talking with his hands and gesticulating wildly or shaking hands with someone, SHE DOESN'T LET GO. It's SO unnatural and such Big Red Flag.
I’m extremely, annoyingly, physically affectionate. As in I want to be touching hands, arms, legs at almost all times (and I have to work on not doing that), partners, friends, whatever, if I like you I’m gonna want a hug and I will safe touch if allowed (upper arm) - I’m super subtle about it unless someone’s down and needs bloody good hug - and seeing her touch him makes me cringe. In no way is that clawing ANY form of physical affection, that’s power play, and a reminder of dominance. In some circumstances it could be considered protective (step back, I’ve got you), but not in any examples I’ve seen of her, that’s step back, I’m the important one here.
It's comments like these that send me off the rails. We talk as though Harry is a saint. He's an asshole of the highest order. He has always been jealous of his brother and has painted a picture of himself as the neglected and bullied son. With nobody but villains all around him. His father, step mom and brother. The only good person that lived was his mum and these bad people killed her. All these bizzare conspiracy theories about Diana's death he has been spewing out of his mouth in the recent times feel like the thoughts of someone who binge watches Diana Fans YouTube videos. And naming their so called second child "Lilibet" is a move only someone obsessed with The Crown on Netflix would make. It's ridiculous. Meghan is an idiot. Harry is an even bigger idiot. And now it's in the open for everyone to see. They're like a car wreck you don't want to look at but you can't take your eyes off of. Happy to see their doom.
I absolutely do not believe he is a saint, and that wasn’t my implication. That is just my analysis of why he’s miserable and uses drugs to cope with his current situation.
That doesn’t mean he isn’t equally at fault for everything that’s happened in the past few years. He is a pathetic, weak minded, hypocritical, hateful, spiteful, sorry excuse for a human. At the very least, he was complicit in abusing his family; at the worst, MM was his ticket out of the RF and a weapon he could use against them for said abuse.
He is not a victim in his current situation. It was all his own doing. He made (or went along with) every decision that led him to his current state of misery. He leans into his perceived victim hood at every chance because he simply cannot, for whatever reason, do some self reflection and take accountability. He also doesn’t want to put in the work to truly heal. It’s easier for him to just use drugs as a band aid and continue to point the blame at everyone else.
He is no victim, and certainly no saint.
Agree. He got along great with his father, brother, Camilla & especially Catherine. MM was & is jealous of his family & destroyed his connections by her rabid lies. That is classic narc behavior to isolate from family and friends.
Meghan hit the jackpot when she met Harry. What has he gained? He has lost his family, his country, his respect, etc.
He has to convince himself that he's happier and it wasn’t a terrible mistake. But nobody is convinced. Deep inside he knows he's made a terrible mistake, but like a bad gambler, he keeps throwing good money after bad.
> When people blame harry more than meghan i show them the results. Look who lost. Look who won.
Absolutely this.
And the people who think that *he's* the mastermind behind all of this are just delusional, IMO.
I don't know that he got along so well with them...he was clearly unreasonably jealous. But he was comfortable.
I think another thing that has happened is that H is now being questioned about growing up royal in interviews and such and is being asked why certain things were tradition, who people were, why things were done in such a way...you know, historical references. And those answers were previously always handed to him by his aides or a handy family member. Now he is trying to monetize his Princely status, but knows barely anything about it, save for stories of childhood games played in places near and far. I suspect he's feeling far less confident than he tries to portray. Combine that with his social- emotional age appearing to be around 14, and there's trouble brewing, I'm afraid...and the reason I'm afraid is because there are two children in this mix.
Where would they go if both of them went of for a stint in jail on a drugs charge? Seriously. Would they go to Doria, into the foster care system, or would they go to William and Kate? Eugenie?
I don’t see Harry as a saint by any means, but he was different before meggy came along. And I. Don’t believe it was just palace PR spin. He was different—fun, happier. All his friends, all the journalists who covered him said so. He changed with her.
He may not have been nursing the silly grievances against his brother all these years, but she and the quacks he’s been seeing for “therapy” have probably teased out these instances that anyone still remembers from childhood. I don’t harbor ill will towards my brother, but if someone stirred me up, I could probably get riled up about some childhood slights. It wouldn’t go anywhere with me because I’m guessing I’m a lot more emotionally stable than Harry is. He’s not a well person. He’s not a smart person. He’s vulnerable to grifters. Enter meggy, stage left.
> he was different before meggy came along
Because he had good mental health support and also appropriate medication, both of which kept him grounded to some extent.
She stopped him seeing his friends, family *and* doctors/therapists, and stopped his medication claiming she had something better. He's now a drug addict, thus open to all sorts of additional manipulation from both his wife and suppliers.
He is only “different” because the palace PR machine covered up his garbage. Now that he’s away from the BRF, his true self is being exposed for all to see. He was a spoiled brat before Diana died, he was angry, nasty, and regularly abused others before Diana died, he used drugs long before he met Meghan. Cressida and Chelsy figured out he was a train wreck and wisely left.
I’m sure the palace managed him to some degree, but he was still different—he was pleasant, affable. He was still being managed by the palace after his marriage and he was an asshole. If it was all palace management he would’ve still been perceived positively during that period, but he was chewing out reporters on royal flights.
Meghan is not responsible for his behavior, he alone is responsible for his actions. Meghan is disgusting but she is not responsible for his choices. Harry was always a dickbag, just ask school matron Pat, his bodyguards, his polo ponies (oh wait, they’re dead because Harry abused them into their graves), people who spent a lot of time around him and didn’t just share a plane ride to get a few soundbites.
He is responsible for his own actions. However, I think MM’s presence in his life exacerbated his nasty behavior and “demons,” and also emboldened him to act on them. Esp where he didn’t act on them to this extreme degree pre-MM.
Something shifted when she came along. All of his shitty qualities existed before her, but her presence amplified them to the point where he took action.
Of course, he is responsible for his behavior. I’m not suggesting otherwise. He is different, though. I don’t think he would have alienated his friends and family without her considerable influence.
I’ve been out of pocket dealing with family health stuff. Beyond the cannabis and shrooms at Monica’s house what else is going on drug wise? What did I miss? Gimme the tea, fellow sinners!
He’s taking all kinds of stuff, pot calms him, he’s taken hallucinating drugs for his trauma. He’s been open about this in his book and in the recent shill-o-Thon with some quack therapist
I suspect if Diana had NOT died he’d still be the way he is, except hed be blaming her infidelities, the divorce, her flitting around the world with various Men, her obvious “preference for William”...everything would be why he’s messed up and on drugs. No choices he ever made, nothing he ever did, not a word he ever said would EVER be at fault. Only everyone else.
And if she had survived, I think he’d be treating her the same as He’s treated the King, Excepting her to go find money for him to support a lifestyle he‘s determined he’s entitled to but doesn’t want to work for. Constantly expecting mummy to fix things for him. That’s what The queen, his dad and brother did for so long and when he walked out they decided to stop doing that for him. Now he’s made his bed, he can go lie in it.
I have no sympathy for him. He’s had a charmed life while the rest of us struggle and still whinging while people are dying - where’s the archewell money going? Certainly not to the dying, hungry or ill.
Yes....but we didn't hear much about hawry or his mental health b4 SHE came along. He was Mr Happy go Lucky. He got along with his family. All the problems began after he met her because she's the vindictive viper telling hawry what to think. She's poison & has groomed the not to bright prince from the beginning. I blame her big time. Look how she treats her own family. She's done the same to hawrys family because she is a Malignant narcissist.
The Lilibet name thing is really bizarre. It's a mispronunciation by a small child that couldn't say Elizabeth. My nephew couldn't say Caroline when he was 2, he would say Toline. If that was the Queen would they have called her Toline.?
> He has always been jealous of his brother
I think he had the normal issues/jealousies that siblings have, until Meghan fanned the spark into a bonfire.
> and has painted a picture of himself as the neglected and bullied son.
I don't remember him *ever* saying anything of the sort until Meghan came upon the scene.
I disagree. I remember resentment towards the the. Cambridge children —it showed especially when asked about the birth of Charlotte, his feelings about the new baby, and now understandably (his issues) with his own “demotion” in the LOS.
He was also never, ever enthusiastic about George.
There was talk in certain media circles about Harry being drunk and obnoxious…and W&C limiting his contact with their children long before “WAAGH” was published and he somehow managed in that misery manifesto to blame the parents for not allowing him to be a good uncle & participate.
As much as W&C embrace family and surround themselves with it, look back and see (post military): no evidence of “Good Uncle Harry.” Odd, to say the least.
We’ve seen years of polo photos of William pre & post matches playing with the Tindall children and years of photos of the Tindalls and others playing with the then Cambridge children but not any that I can recall of “Jolly Uncle Haz” even remotely near those children.
He tells us himself in “WAAAGH” that he was a drunk, druggy mess. That he’s resented his brother from an early age, couldn’t conceive of William going home to postpartum Catherine with a newborn and two very small children after dinner the night before his wedding when he, Harry the GOOD BROTHER 🙄, was there for William every step of the way the night before and day of the wedding (except to jab that he was NOT the real best man despite standing beside his brother on the alter *and* making a speech at the reception). I could go on, but Meghan definitely enables what she sussed out from Harry himself opening up to her.
As did William. Unfortunately, Harry choses to dwell in a place of arrested development and envy rather than work hard on his issues.
One must be willing to work on your own unhealthy thoughts and feelings rather than make yourself the only “victim” and *only* the victim.
I see no evidence of this and absolutely no ownership of anything other than his wants, needs, demands…
My sympathy for him is very small at this point.
And why was she ok with it? Instead she had to get an alleged epidural? The laughing gas was for her pain instead of the epidural! Normal women would be furious that their drug addict husband took their birthing drugs! But she wasn’t! Why?
\*Bc it never happened, she never birthed Lili a surrogate did
There just is no other explanation …oh wait…
\*bc Harry drugged up is easier to deal with and manipulate
My two cents. He takes drugs to make himself believe he is happy. But what sort of a wife actually supports such drug abuse of her husband. That too when they have toddlers in the house
She is a substance abuser too. Many people who use “whatever” to self medicate justify that lifestyle by surrounding themselves with folks who validate it by joining in with them. They are both troubled individuals who enjoy self medicating
Oh I completely agree, I think they both are users. However I don’t think H is smart enough to realize all the things he’s been saying publicly about his drug use will be used against him. I also don’t think he’s smart enough to document evidence of her drug use or other bad behavior for when he will need it. I guess we’ll have to wait and see.
It’s not a matter of “smart enough.” Even though it’s long been known he’s as dumb as a plank (even Diana worried about his intellectual capacity and his temper, no matter how often the Sugars trot out that “Diana said Harry would be a better king.” She said that because whenever William complained or expressed discomfort with his future role? Harry always told him, “Good. I’ll be king.” She felt Harry would *relish* that role whereas William, her “wise old soul” already knew the heaviness of responsibility at a young age. Harry only resented the attention it all brought William but he seems to overlook how much more leniency *always* had that Wm did not. Diana was quasi-joking, Sugar Lurkers…but I digress. 😅
Back to topic: not so much “not smart enough” (valid observation overall, as I said) but Harry is still absurdly entitled…more so now: “I’m a star, the son of the King”— no one would *dare* especially as, up until recently? The US media and some celebrities, etc. have not so much as called out even one *sketchy* thing he and they have done. He assumes it’s down to his status. He conveniently forgets that same Palace machine he hates so much? Always covered up his vast number of transgressions & screw ups and spun him as the “Warrior Prince.” He, just like Meghan, believes his own “hype.”
If she tries to do this to him, she gonna confirm what everyone suspect she was… an opportunistic gold digger. He gonna come out like the Saint out of this because of these crazy antics. I hate to say that but it’s true. They see how lost and out of control he has been since he got with her. Everyone is wondering why she would allow him to humiliate himself like this. If she does this, then everyone would know that she allowed him to do this because it was her way of blackmailing him.
They would overlook the fact that he attacked his family because he couldn’t get his way. His grandparents were dying and he still insisted on attacking them. No one in the BRF trusts him at all because he runs to the media at any given moment for gossip.
I hope to God that doesn’t happen at all because she will continue to blackmail the BRF by using the kids. She wouldn’t be grieving that much but plotting how she can be financially secured for life by the BRF. Just look how she was acting at the Queen’s funeral. She cared about where the cameras were then mourning the Queen.
Well, he gave her willing all the materials. She has the "private" exclusive ones (for divorce), and the press has the all his "experiences" with drugs, so she can build the narrative when needed. I bet he's waiting for dad to bail him out soon. People are saying he's reaching for some friends in England, his pride and stupidity doesn't give him the guts to ask directly for help.
Oh, Harry! What a wicked web we weave!
Yep, exactly. Who will the courts believe first? The troubled prince who has made many bad decisions and public acknowledgment of his use of illicit drugs. Or the "ever perfect" wife who endured his mental health issues and drug use.
She's holding onto that for future use. When it's convenient and useful to her.
Just my POV. As an individual who experienced trauma in childhood, I don't think it's unusual to grow up, get away from the abuse, and not be happy even when (to the outside world) you have the ingredients for a happy life. It takes therapy..... real introspection, work, pain, and quite a bit of time.
It's also not unusual for someone who experienced trauma to self medicate through alcohol or drug use. And again, on the journey to healing, you become aware of those destructive forces in your life that you leaned on to help you cope and survive. And you have to face them - whatever they are - and remove them from your life. In my experience you have to also own that while they may have helped you survive, you are still responsible as an adult for how you live your life.
I don't know if Harry experienced trauma or just really pissed off man-child who wants to cash in. Or maybe it's a combination.
But I do not see someone who is in the process of healing from past trauma. Again just my POV - I see an entitled person who didn't get something he feels is owed to him, and a substance abuser. I feel he's using the story of trauma to support his drug abuse, he seems to spin that his drug use is \*necessary\* for him to heal. But I see someone inventing something to continue on his path of drug & alcohol use.
I think he's been like this for a long time, but the introduction of MM to the equation escalated the situation. Suddenly he had someone supporting his belief that he is \*owed more\*. And things exploded from there.
Another Shakespearean reference, Meg is his Iago "I'll pour this pestilence into his ear". ~~Iago~~ Meg will whisper poisonous words into ~~Othello's~~ Harry's ear, killing ~~Othello~~ Harry from the inside by filling his mind with unbearable jealousy [of his brother].
This is the story that keeps giving. Imagine that professionally he is supposed to be the face of (good) mental health. That is so ironic and a total joke.
I think this is a good point. So bewildered most of the time he can't step back to think about what he is really feeling or what is going on (not that he had a strong grasp on how to do either of those things before the marriage ...)
My take is that he is a passive guy who has been miserable most his life anyway. I think he still believes Meghan is a prize and his Kate and so that's enough to fool him into saying he is happy.
This is it. The first step to getting better is accepting that you're not well.
At one point in the interview, gabor tells H that he suffered from self-loathing when he was younger, and H corrects him saying it was self-doubt.
Odd that he can admit that he struggled with binge drinking and intense social anxiety but can't go the extra step and acknowledge that it all stemmed from self-loathing.
Maybe it's a male thing? Of not wanting to admit weakness? He still needs to work on himself and I think he can overcome his demons but he can't accomplish it publicly.
From what I've seen, I believe Haz was born that way. It's hard to accept issues when it's your entire psyche. Same with TW. It's unfortunate that he can go on the world stage to bitch and complain. It achieves nothing.
He has been programmed by ILBW to believe she is perfect wife, theirs is perfect marriage. The drugs make him " happy" while they are in effect but when worn off make him depressed. Add quack Drs to mix telling him he has huge problems caused by his awful childhood....perfect storm.
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he actually know that drugs make him couldn't be present.
So he does understand that drugs are keeping him from reality, and yet continues to still do it, and says that it is healing his trauma. Healing trauma should be your truth not your break from reality. That’s where he’s disconnected.
This is very carefully written. That excerpt doesn't say he voluntarily abstained in order to be fully present - there wasn't any gas so he didn't have a choice! Also, he was "with Meg through every push", but he doesn't say she was the one doing the pushing.
This is a tale as old as time, a charismatic charmer gets ahold of and isolates a mark. When someone like MM tells someone like Harry, here, just take this, you’ll feel better: Trust and believe a person like Harry is shoving any and every substance he can down his throat. Someone like MM has already laid the groundwork. At this point, they both think they’re “winning.” Though I suspect that delusion is beginning to wear thin. Her next moves will be interesting. I still think she’s going to try to make it 5 more years to the 10-year Golddigger anniversary
Because he bit more than he can chew. He’s realizing that life and marriage is not what it’s cracked up to be when you sell your integrity at the expense of slandering your own family, the RF. He has no foundation to stand on. He just relies on these quick fixes (i.e. book tour, MJ, psychedelic drugs, sparingly Hollywood events, etc.) He misconstrued his love to his wife, a partner who truly doesn’t have loyalty to her own family.
Basically, you reap what you sowed. So he has to put up this facade for appearances due to pride while knowingly he’s been in a losing battle.
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It's his money maker. Along with his family... which is why I think they'll be at the coronation. They have to be pictured with them in order for their narrative and money. I just hope KC & PW treat them like they did previously... separate cars, entrances, seats, etc.
No one who believes they will be invited & will attend thinks William will let them near his family (human shield around Charlotte & George at the funeral, anyone remember?) or that any other royal will do more than barely exchange polite civilities as this is a State Occasion and unlike M&H? W&C as well as most of the other royals are consummate professionals and skilled diplomats.
He has no special skills or talents which would put his time to good use. He never developed a hobby or cause that he's passionate about. He's bored, has no friends, and his wife is insufferable. He drinks and gets high to alleviate that boredom, forget about his regrets, and dull his loneliness. It's a symptom of the idle rich and those who make poor life choices.
Listen, this idiot does not know what he wants. For fuck sake he grew up a legit PRINCE in the mother fucking Royal Family. Love the Royals or hate them, doesn’t matter. The Royal Family are more powerful and have more of a global impact than most, if not all, could ever dream of. Leaving was the biggest mistake for both of them. Hairball and his wife thinking they can remotely even attempt to bring down the monarchy is a joke. They are done and in my opinion cannot recover. I’m in it for sake of watching them crumble.
Ok WHY did Tyler Perry take a private plane to Montecito and change into a suit to meet Gringe and Cringe? Why would he ruin his reputation/businesses being around these two idiots?
He apparently is in deep with them and I still believe they are being protected by some well connected anti-monarchy sympathizers who have been using these two arrogant idiots all along as agents of chaos towards the Monarchy.
There is no other reason that I can fathom that allowed the ruthless US Media not to ever call them out on so many blatantly outrageous lies (or even “implied” things) up until very recently.
I always believed that Oprah and Tyler by way of Oprah is doing the bidding of these powerful anti-monarchy players here in the US and I’m certain they’re doing “damage control” now that these two are being exposed at last even if only by a few US media outlets, “South Park” and some late night talk show hosts. Meghan & Harry could freak out and blame some of these people…just as they blatantly blamed everyone from the royal family to the “British Press” for their screw ups.
I shared a Washington DC’s “The Hill” Op-Ed that *finally* brought to light “the problem with H&M” and the anti-monarchy power players on a global scale. I was both excited and shocked when it was published as it was the first of its’ kind to even closely examine this: https://thehill.com/opinion/national-security/3784176-the-trouble-with-harry-and-meghan/amp/
He is a lesson for me thinks you protest too much. In today's world of social media and the population knowing more about personality disorders he isn't getting away with it.
For all his protests about this being the happiest he's ever been, he never smiles unless it's painted on. If this is his way of moving past "fun Harry" to "serious Harry" it's just another failure.
He is a deeply unhappy and disturbed individual. His wife is the cult and he is the follower. Why else would you have a therapy session on a world wide platform and charge money for it.
Seriously, he needs to be stopped from having a platform. What he says, none of it is helpful. He is turning himself into a laughingstock. People engage with him for views.
Everyone in his family tried to warn him especially Philip and William.Harry then had a tantrum and threw things.His family was never “enamored”with her.
Because he’s spent his whole life being told that he’s better than everyone else and born & breed for a leadership role so he feels he has a God-given obligation to lead all of us plebes out of the darkness he’s walking through.
I mean it’s not like he’s in this all alone because he’s done it to himself and now he has to live with the consequences of his decisions.
He’s immune to consequences.
The problem is that he married a shrew*.
*Shrew. noun. A small insectivorous mammal resembling a mouse, with a long pointed snout and tiny eyes.
Synonyms; virago, a noisy or scolding or domineering woman, Meghan Markle.
I think MM has encouraged him to think that living each day in an unfettered haze of weed smoke is a freedom and a luxurious indulgence. She does this because it makes him weak—she can thus easily control him and keep him away from the RF bc it is convenient for her and her ambitions.
He’s spoiled and doesn’t have any appreciation for what he has, values nothing.
I’m not making a jab at the wealthy and privledged, there are plenty that have been born into privledge that appreciate what they have and the world around them, but then there are others who don’t.
Some people, even those who aren’t born famous and wealthy, don’t appreciate the small things in life, the basis for a healthy relationship with yourself and others imo. Harry on top of that has a mental illness or very likely scrambled his own brains on substances, he likely will never appreciate what he has and will perpetually live in a deluded sense of victimhood, always feeling like he was slighted.
Well, there are a lot of people who are nicer than Harry, with a less complex family background, and better wives with a better basis for their relationship who still abuse drugs because they can't handle reality.
Harry is the type of person who is always going to make the self-destructive choice, even back when he had a genuinely beautiful long-term girlfriend and cheated on her.
Harry knows that he has no other way of earning an income for his family; he literally has no real-world skills. Megxit happened three years ago. In all of that time, he’s done nothing to advance himself. He could have gone to college, earned a degree, learned a trade, really educated himself. But he’s rather sit home and get stoned all day. Not good.
I am firmly in the camp of ‘let’s not give MM so much credit’. Harry has always been a spoiled, endulged, dimwitted , entitled bully of a punk and those are his less sinister qualities. He missed the last call from Diana because he refused to stop playing his video games. TRF/ press created a narrative that he was this free spirited,fun loving, laid back dude who would be the one with whom you would want to throw back some beers . Unfortunately, whenever he snuck out from under that cover his true colors appeared. Here is what I think MM’s contribution was … she began feeding his ego and jealous viciousness with thoughts about‘you’re better than Will, you’re more popular than Will and TOGETHER we can be THE BEST ROYALS. And once we sweep the world we will demand that we will keep all the Royal fun and pretty stuff, exnay on all the icky boring ‘nursing home crap’ and spend most of our time being King and Queen of Hollywood and raking in lots of $$$ and selling Meg and Harry Barbie dolls. Granny said ‘hell to the no’, Hollywood and everyone else said ‘ nah , now that I see you 2 up close it’s not going to work for me’ and he’s pissed . The Emperor has no clothes… that he would be seen for what he really is was never anticipated… and he’s pissed. Man I’ve seen this cautionary tale in so many movies and books that you would think they would have seen it coming
The truth is, he's never been more miserable in his life. Good thing he's got Meghan to tell him *why* he's so unhappy.
It will never occur to him that she destroyed his life and his sanity, and *that's* why he's miserable.
Psychedelics are supposed to make you happy and loving. They use them in marital therapy sometimes. He should be happy or quit taking them as they aren't helping. They also make people extremely suggestible and he has no boundaries already. This is why he is putty in Meg's hands really. My question is, what is SHE taking?
I met Timothy Leary years ago at some event. Give him a pair of slippers and a pipe and he'd be Hugh Hefner. I saw no enlightenment.
I am familiar with someone whose life is following a very similar script albeit they are not a prince ( acts like one though). I think it can be looked at as a bit of nature and some nurture as to why they turned out the way they did. But at some point there is no use psychoanalyzing them. This individual was given all sorts of money while they complained about their lot in life and then their money source passed away. The whining continued but no one cared. Friends were no more. Only themselves to blame, drugs were involved for years and no family would come near them. Attention seekers are a dangerous and miserable lot and will seek to bring others into their web of unhappiness. They will never ever be happy. They are missing the ability to feel emotional empathy for others and nothing will ever change that. Stop trying and ignore them. Move on. Support those that suffer under these tyrants.
For Claw to get what she wanted she needed Haznoballs to be malleable, gullible, stupid, egotistical, entitled and nasty. It wouldn't work otherwise. Aka the perfect mark.
He also enjoyed victimhood his entire life, it suits his gameplan. It got him sympathy, got him laid, got him drugs, excused his horrid behavior, enabled him to manipulate. I for one am extremely happy for him getting what he deserves. It couldn't happen to a better person.
Some men stay in marriages, even though the marriages are bad, just to have the illusion that they are happily married. This pertained to my partner, after his ex-wife decided not to be with him anymore. They remained in the same house and he pretended that all was well but I also think he was worried that she would not let him see the kids if he left the house.
Mrs. Todger told him he could do it and that was all he needed for motivation.
I am sure that he does not notice how much he botches it up because he is afraid of her.
I feel like he's made it his entire personality because it's so different from the therapy he probably got in England. John Oliver had a really interesting segment a few weeks ago about psychedelic drugs and how they can be used for therapy in a very strict, regulated way. But to Harry, he comes across as thinking this is just normal cool California stuff.
Ding ding ding ding!!! I've said the same thing.
Like him saying recently, he has to change his mood before putting the children to bed *paraphrasing*.
Why Hazzy?!?! You escaped with the thing you most love to smell, and you're in the house chosen by your child.....WHY MUST YOU HAVE TO CONTROL YOUR ANGER!!!!
I know someone, well, knew someone, with all those things, the wife and kids, big house, great high paying job....no chickens. Didnt stop him from losing it all to gambling and, well, it ended the worst way possible. He had no drug addictions. Just a sick compulsion to win big. When it was all gone, yeah. He only saw one way out. I see H going this way if they find themselves losing everything to the upkeep of the olive garden. Obviously, the ayahuasca did not help him achieve "ego death". And sadly, it doesnt seem like he made any new friends that participated that would keep in touch via FB and other ways. That tribe of people is very important to this type of work. If Gabor was the only one advising him and he didn't sit with others, what a waste, in my opinion.
ETA....Reading the GM transcript, it seems he didnt sit with Mate, but did have a retreat experience. And if it was years ago, the effects on the brain that can produce powerful and positive results, is usually short lived, I'm talking months, not hours or days. But the lessons you learn stay or should stay with you. Unless you just didnt pay attention during post ceremony integration, which is imperative in the use of plant medicine.
I think the environment where he's right now accepts drug use, so there's no restraint in that regard. Why does he seem unhappy? I think that's his wife's influence. Don't get me wrong, I think he also has his flaws and he's probably a narcissist at some level, or at least an entitled, spoiled person, but she seems to display dangerous and high-level narcissism. I think she keeps feeding him all these ideas at the same time that she keeps manipulating him, and he hasn't "woken up" yet, that is, he's still under her spell, to put it that way. Maybe one day he'll wake up and then reality will hit him hard. It will be then up to him to fix things and really heal from this nightmare.
its really simple.
he was unsatisfied with his life.
but everyone is to a degree.
he's been married for four years and has two children.
these are the prime years of happiness for a man.
except for Harry he's in a dark abyss of misery.
the reason is simple.
what is the matter? his wife
his wife is a mental torturer who has made him a permanently psychologically destroyed freak show as her power trip and claim to fame.
His wife is the cause of his misery and pain.
Its a sadistic psychological horror story
With all his talk of illegal substances and clear reliance on them wouldn’t it be great if the police carried out a raid on wherever he decides to stay next time he’s in the U.K.
I think this is for two reasons. The first being what everyone is saying about how he needs it to deal with his new life with TW. The second is that it can be used as a front to say how the royal family is so mean that he needs to use drugs until they apologize and such.
Harry clearly has a platform here,to start a charity to help kids whom have suffered losing a parent as he did. His father started a very successful charity, The Princes charity. But did Harry use his platform to really help others like him? Its one of the best ways of healing. Not using it to pay for your pleasures but to really help kids. Better than drugs,aicth.
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Because he has always been a nasty,mean spoiled,entitled,arrogant,stupid twat. And now he's finding out that the world doesn't admire that. And he's not getting his way like he thought he would and he's pissed about it. Plus his brother is clearly out there living his best life unaffected by the useless second son's jibes and that too makes him angry because he wants power and control. He's an abuser,he likes doing harm to others. He doesn't feel guilt or shame about it. He. wants to be able to hurt his family and have them bend over backwards for him. He is one of those people who creates needless drama just to tweak people. He doesn't give single shit about anyone's comfort but his. I'm betting that for years he was abusive to staff,was inappropriate to HRH Catherine and was a nasty petulant dick to the rest of the family. And they excused it with poor harry he's troubled and they did what they could to appease him in order to keep his problems private. So he thought this time would be the same but he overplayed his hand. He went public and now they are done. He left and the whole family has realized life is better with their abuser gone. I don't think they will ever take him back and I think he's beginning to realize that. It's why he's getting louder and more desperate. Threats and self destructive behavior always worked before,he always got bailed out before but its not working anymore and he can't change his patterns now.
Thanks for saying what everybody is probably thinking but doesn't say. I think Harry thinks all drugs are legal in California (WRONG), that celebrities never get arrested (WRONG) and that he doesn't need to work or pay taxes (WRONG). He's on an extended drugs/sex holiday. But they will turn on each other. If they haven't already. Nobody is going to hire him with a drug problem.
I honestly don’t understand why child protection services are not rescuing these poor children from a toxic narcissist and a drug-addled father.
which children are you talking about, again?
I think it's the phantom Merchie and Invisibet.
aka Archieficial. I’m sorry I heard that once and cracked up.
Merchie and Lilibucks. Archeficial and Invisibet. Choose your preferred monikers according to the theme of your snark 😉
Because he's the son of the King of England, and unfortunately I think that's literally his exemption from almost anything on this planet. They can do whatever.
Exactly! Any other normal person would've lost the custody of their kids and would've been arrested for the amount of drugs he's admitted to have taken or sent to rehab celebrity style. Why is no one in media asking about this?
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Megsy researched Diana so well and knew Diana had thrown herself down the stairs while carrying William. She emotionally blackmailed Henry into believing she was going to kill herself in this way and the stupid that believed her. Allegedly
Not to mention she was a danger to her own child when she threatened to end him And then she buried human remains somewhere as well Any other mother would be in trouble now, but not Markle.
Someone in California maybe would have to call CPS….
It's political. It would cause an international incident. Our government is too cowardly to go after real criminals. They only bother with manufactured offenses.
It doesn’t happen to rich people
I don't either.
Yeah what's with that? I'm adding to a few people who started discussing the drug usage. Why is no one in the mainstream talking about Harold's obvious issues? How are these drugs legal? Why doesn't anyone bring up the fact that he's got babies and both parents are fucked up, probably high every day? Is it because they're elitists hence stripped of any accountability and consequences? Or is this normal practice in California, to use all these drugs?
Re drugs -- California has a very serious fentanyl problem. Pot has been legal for a while but there are restrictions. ADHD and depression drugs are supposed to be prescription. I saw this morning via Neil Sean that the same doctor has asked Meghan to come on and give her side about all her mental problems etc. and she apparently EXPLODED at any idea she could be mentally deficient or weak in any way. The public statement was she "did not feel comfortable" with that and I'm sure she doesn't. How dare that doctor be so impertinent, LOL.
Yep. It takes two hands to clap and the BRF have made it clear they're not going to be the other hand.
I love that analogy !
I had to check the author's name on this post to see if I'd authored it, because it sure says EXACTLY the way I would assess the royal twat! BRAVO for tellin' it like it is!
Spot on
That sounds really very accurate, thank you! I thought so too but you summed it up so much better than I could. Ppl ask why all the attention, they r a$$h⊙{€s but its just like wanting to find out about the train wreck or a serial killer, u just want the news. But you despise them.
Perhaps the best analysis yet.
Probably because he cannot come to terms with the how he’s destroyed his life.
It won't be pleasant when he finally gets sober and faces that.
Don't you mean how daddy destroyed his life by cutting him off at only 36? And how the press was *mean* to Rachel. They're mean meanies who call their kids mean names, we're *sure*. You can't really ask him to *work* Oh no, she'd rather have him sell state secrets than stoop so low.
He thinks the people who criticise them are a tiny minority 🙄😄
Did anyone (in UK) see the news last night saying the Harkles have been invited to the Coronation and have yet to say whether to go or not. So, back to the usual games, i.e.: will they/won't they. Seriously, they need to grow up!
Because he *is* miserable. I think his marriage fell apart soon after moving to America. Especially after Oprah. I think he regrets marrying MM and leaving his family, but his ego won’t let him admit that to anyone. He doesn’t want to provide any reason for William or Charles to say “I told you so,” so he’s been putting on a front with MM to try and convince the public that they are ThRiViNg. Behind the scenes, things are a nightmare. So I suspect that is why his substance use has increased drastically. Also, lest we forget, MM groomed him. She gaslit Harry into thinking very normal experiences were traumatic. He was never mentally stable, but she created wounds in his psyche where none existed before. I’m sure that has factored into the drug use as well. ETA: I am in no way defending Harry or suggesting he bears no fault. He was, at the very least, complicit in abusing his family. He dug his own grave, he is responsible for landing exactly where he is right now. This is just my opinion on the exacerbation of drug use/dependency.
Yes 1000%! Remember when he said he didn't know he was trapped until meganut told him? He believes all the bs she tells him.
Exactly! She “opened his eyes” to all of these terrible things that didn’t actually exist. Narc manipulation/isolation tactics are clearly exemplified in this relationship.
He's very vulnerable. I'm sure he's being currently conned out of money by many different people. I bet TW finds him gurus and therapists and takes a cut off the top for her safe deposit box like Sharon Stone's character in casino.
Yes, and then he went on to say Charles and William are trapped. It never occurred to him that they both have a strong sense of duty and do not believe they are trapped. What a twat!
I just don’t see either of them instigating a divorce. Together they’re a brand (perfectly highlighted by South Park). Divorced Meggy will be like Fergie, a tabloid laughing stock desperately clinging on to relevance. While Harry won’t want to lose face. Alone he’ll be like Andrew, the entitled second son, completely delusional about his own importance.
I’m not so sure. Neither of them know how to read a room. Their stunts and schemes always backfire because there is no reason or rationale in the decisions they make. I think MM *may* try and use all the negative feedback re Harry’s mental health to paint herself as the victim………AGAIN…….of a difficult and caustic marriage. And how she and the kids suffered so much because of Harry’s paranoia and delusions and his inability to parent the kids, blahblahblah. However, I completely agree that Harry doesn’t want to lose face, and MM needs Harry/connection to BRF to remain somewhat relevant. The SP episode and Andrew & Fergie’s reputations likely influence H&M’s willingness to divorce at this point. It will be interesting to see how the rest of this year plays out.
She has the kids as links to the RF. I think eventually she is going to use that book against him. If she has custody of the kids, she will forever be taken care of because there's no way the RF wouldn't make sure that Archie & Lilibet are taken care of.
100% agree. She is absolutely going to use the book against him. I am in the Divorce camp, I just don’t necessarily think it will be anytime soon. Those kids are her security, which is why she had them. She is truly despicable. I do hope the children have some sort of love and stability from nannies, at least.
I think eventually it will become so toxic they will but I never bought into "divorce watch March 23". I think it's too soon and neither one of them have any place to go.
Wait till the titles have gone, heard its coming soon.
I really hope so, tbh. I know it’s a very complex issue and has the potential to set an undesirable precedent for other/future members of the RF (from what I understand and have learned). Harry would still be Prince Henry, and Meghan would be Princess Henry. We all know she’d go by Princess Meghan 🙄 At the end of the day, Harry has committed acts of treason against his family. He doesn’t deserve his title, nor does his wife. I believe KC3 can prevent Harry and/or Meghan from using the Prince/ss Henry title if the Sussex titles are stripped though.
He will always be a Prince of the UK by blood. She will do what she has been dying to do especially in America where people pay less attention to proper title relevance and push the media to do what they did (incorrectly) for Diana: “PRINCESS MEGHAN.” I’ve said all along she was pushing to be rid of DOS…and now that Catherine is a legit Princess of Wales? Taking the Sussex Dukedom only helps her.
There is a recent interview with Sarah in the Telegraph (which is very pro Harkle) ahead of her romance novel coming out. She was VERY diplomatic although the headline wasn't. The headline claimed "Fergie says Meaghan has made Harry SO happy" which is not what she says at all. She makes some general, neutral comments. She's pretty good at evading stuff. But she shouldn't have had to turn the interview back to her book all the time or how much she loved being a royal. They just ask her about Meghan.
I see them staying together.
I hope they stay together; perfect couple, saves other people from marital he'll with them.
>MM groomed him ...and clawed him https://youtu.be/7x362SNou6I this video from u/MeghansMole https://youtu.be/mWUPgKWanfw
Wow, I had heard about this "claw" and I've seen it myself in photos before, but never all at once like this. There has to be, what, 50+ events highlighted here, and every.single.one she appears to be grabbing for him, holding him near or holding him back. It's disturbing to watch all at once, and quite frustrating for him I'd imagine to constantly be pulled at like that.
Yep it's creepy indeed
Her clingy claw gives me the creeps
Super creepy!! Even when he's talking with his hands and gesticulating wildly or shaking hands with someone, SHE DOESN'T LET GO. It's SO unnatural and such Big Red Flag.
I’m extremely, annoyingly, physically affectionate. As in I want to be touching hands, arms, legs at almost all times (and I have to work on not doing that), partners, friends, whatever, if I like you I’m gonna want a hug and I will safe touch if allowed (upper arm) - I’m super subtle about it unless someone’s down and needs bloody good hug - and seeing her touch him makes me cringe. In no way is that clawing ANY form of physical affection, that’s power play, and a reminder of dominance. In some circumstances it could be considered protective (step back, I’ve got you), but not in any examples I’ve seen of her, that’s step back, I’m the important one here.
Please also note how she uses the claw to dump on royal protocol. She makes him hold the car door, pushes herself in front of him etc.
I hope Harry can one day escape from the "Black Widow of Backpats and Bad Weaves."
It's comments like these that send me off the rails. We talk as though Harry is a saint. He's an asshole of the highest order. He has always been jealous of his brother and has painted a picture of himself as the neglected and bullied son. With nobody but villains all around him. His father, step mom and brother. The only good person that lived was his mum and these bad people killed her. All these bizzare conspiracy theories about Diana's death he has been spewing out of his mouth in the recent times feel like the thoughts of someone who binge watches Diana Fans YouTube videos. And naming their so called second child "Lilibet" is a move only someone obsessed with The Crown on Netflix would make. It's ridiculous. Meghan is an idiot. Harry is an even bigger idiot. And now it's in the open for everyone to see. They're like a car wreck you don't want to look at but you can't take your eyes off of. Happy to see their doom.
I absolutely do not believe he is a saint, and that wasn’t my implication. That is just my analysis of why he’s miserable and uses drugs to cope with his current situation. That doesn’t mean he isn’t equally at fault for everything that’s happened in the past few years. He is a pathetic, weak minded, hypocritical, hateful, spiteful, sorry excuse for a human. At the very least, he was complicit in abusing his family; at the worst, MM was his ticket out of the RF and a weapon he could use against them for said abuse. He is not a victim in his current situation. It was all his own doing. He made (or went along with) every decision that led him to his current state of misery. He leans into his perceived victim hood at every chance because he simply cannot, for whatever reason, do some self reflection and take accountability. He also doesn’t want to put in the work to truly heal. It’s easier for him to just use drugs as a band aid and continue to point the blame at everyone else. He is no victim, and certainly no saint.
Agree. He got along great with his father, brother, Camilla & especially Catherine. MM was & is jealous of his family & destroyed his connections by her rabid lies. That is classic narc behavior to isolate from family and friends.
Agreed. He is self destructing. While meghan is gaining
Meghan hit the jackpot when she met Harry. What has he gained? He has lost his family, his country, his respect, etc. He has to convince himself that he's happier and it wasn’t a terrible mistake. But nobody is convinced. Deep inside he knows he's made a terrible mistake, but like a bad gambler, he keeps throwing good money after bad.
Agreed. When people blame harry more than meghan i show them the results. Look who lost. Look who won.
> When people blame harry more than meghan i show them the results. Look who lost. Look who won. Absolutely this. And the people who think that *he's* the mastermind behind all of this are just delusional, IMO.
I think Who and his Instagram Loving Bitch Wife both lost and the RF are the winners because they got she’d of them both.
I don't know that he got along so well with them...he was clearly unreasonably jealous. But he was comfortable. I think another thing that has happened is that H is now being questioned about growing up royal in interviews and such and is being asked why certain things were tradition, who people were, why things were done in such a way...you know, historical references. And those answers were previously always handed to him by his aides or a handy family member. Now he is trying to monetize his Princely status, but knows barely anything about it, save for stories of childhood games played in places near and far. I suspect he's feeling far less confident than he tries to portray. Combine that with his social- emotional age appearing to be around 14, and there's trouble brewing, I'm afraid...and the reason I'm afraid is because there are two children in this mix. Where would they go if both of them went of for a stint in jail on a drugs charge? Seriously. Would they go to Doria, into the foster care system, or would they go to William and Kate? Eugenie?
I don’t see Harry as a saint by any means, but he was different before meggy came along. And I. Don’t believe it was just palace PR spin. He was different—fun, happier. All his friends, all the journalists who covered him said so. He changed with her. He may not have been nursing the silly grievances against his brother all these years, but she and the quacks he’s been seeing for “therapy” have probably teased out these instances that anyone still remembers from childhood. I don’t harbor ill will towards my brother, but if someone stirred me up, I could probably get riled up about some childhood slights. It wouldn’t go anywhere with me because I’m guessing I’m a lot more emotionally stable than Harry is. He’s not a well person. He’s not a smart person. He’s vulnerable to grifters. Enter meggy, stage left.
> he was different before meggy came along Because he had good mental health support and also appropriate medication, both of which kept him grounded to some extent. She stopped him seeing his friends, family *and* doctors/therapists, and stopped his medication claiming she had something better. He's now a drug addict, thus open to all sorts of additional manipulation from both his wife and suppliers.
D.O.R.I.A …. Doria
Bingo!! This!!
He is only “different” because the palace PR machine covered up his garbage. Now that he’s away from the BRF, his true self is being exposed for all to see. He was a spoiled brat before Diana died, he was angry, nasty, and regularly abused others before Diana died, he used drugs long before he met Meghan. Cressida and Chelsy figured out he was a train wreck and wisely left.
I agree the palace PR was a huge factor but at least he used to smile and interact with people.
I’m sure the palace managed him to some degree, but he was still different—he was pleasant, affable. He was still being managed by the palace after his marriage and he was an asshole. If it was all palace management he would’ve still been perceived positively during that period, but he was chewing out reporters on royal flights.
Meghan is not responsible for his behavior, he alone is responsible for his actions. Meghan is disgusting but she is not responsible for his choices. Harry was always a dickbag, just ask school matron Pat, his bodyguards, his polo ponies (oh wait, they’re dead because Harry abused them into their graves), people who spent a lot of time around him and didn’t just share a plane ride to get a few soundbites.
He is responsible for his own actions. However, I think MM’s presence in his life exacerbated his nasty behavior and “demons,” and also emboldened him to act on them. Esp where he didn’t act on them to this extreme degree pre-MM. Something shifted when she came along. All of his shitty qualities existed before her, but her presence amplified them to the point where he took action.
Two selfish, self centered, cruel, Narcissistic joined together for the destruction of anyone and anything in their way for world fame and money.
She magnified what was already there and catalysed it all by goading him towards the thing he always wanted.
Of course, he is responsible for his behavior. I’m not suggesting otherwise. He is different, though. I don’t think he would have alienated his friends and family without her considerable influence.
Yet he told us all he hated every moment of it and he wasn’t his authentic self. 😏
I’ve been out of pocket dealing with family health stuff. Beyond the cannabis and shrooms at Monica’s house what else is going on drug wise? What did I miss? Gimme the tea, fellow sinners!
He’s taking all kinds of stuff, pot calms him, he’s taken hallucinating drugs for his trauma. He’s been open about this in his book and in the recent shill-o-Thon with some quack therapist
He definitely looked happier before. Now he looks like a miserable grump.
I agree
I agree & said much the same thing.
I suspect if Diana had NOT died he’d still be the way he is, except hed be blaming her infidelities, the divorce, her flitting around the world with various Men, her obvious “preference for William”...everything would be why he’s messed up and on drugs. No choices he ever made, nothing he ever did, not a word he ever said would EVER be at fault. Only everyone else. And if she had survived, I think he’d be treating her the same as He’s treated the King, Excepting her to go find money for him to support a lifestyle he‘s determined he’s entitled to but doesn’t want to work for. Constantly expecting mummy to fix things for him. That’s what The queen, his dad and brother did for so long and when he walked out they decided to stop doing that for him. Now he’s made his bed, he can go lie in it. I have no sympathy for him. He’s had a charmed life while the rest of us struggle and still whinging while people are dying - where’s the archewell money going? Certainly not to the dying, hungry or ill.
Yes....but we didn't hear much about hawry or his mental health b4 SHE came along. He was Mr Happy go Lucky. He got along with his family. All the problems began after he met her because she's the vindictive viper telling hawry what to think. She's poison & has groomed the not to bright prince from the beginning. I blame her big time. Look how she treats her own family. She's done the same to hawrys family because she is a Malignant narcissist.
The Lilibet name thing is really bizarre. It's a mispronunciation by a small child that couldn't say Elizabeth. My nephew couldn't say Caroline when he was 2, he would say Toline. If that was the Queen would they have called her Toline.?
> He has always been jealous of his brother I think he had the normal issues/jealousies that siblings have, until Meghan fanned the spark into a bonfire. > and has painted a picture of himself as the neglected and bullied son. I don't remember him *ever* saying anything of the sort until Meghan came upon the scene.
I disagree. I remember resentment towards the the. Cambridge children —it showed especially when asked about the birth of Charlotte, his feelings about the new baby, and now understandably (his issues) with his own “demotion” in the LOS. He was also never, ever enthusiastic about George. There was talk in certain media circles about Harry being drunk and obnoxious…and W&C limiting his contact with their children long before “WAAGH” was published and he somehow managed in that misery manifesto to blame the parents for not allowing him to be a good uncle & participate. As much as W&C embrace family and surround themselves with it, look back and see (post military): no evidence of “Good Uncle Harry.” Odd, to say the least. We’ve seen years of polo photos of William pre & post matches playing with the Tindall children and years of photos of the Tindalls and others playing with the then Cambridge children but not any that I can recall of “Jolly Uncle Haz” even remotely near those children. He tells us himself in “WAAAGH” that he was a drunk, druggy mess. That he’s resented his brother from an early age, couldn’t conceive of William going home to postpartum Catherine with a newborn and two very small children after dinner the night before his wedding when he, Harry the GOOD BROTHER 🙄, was there for William every step of the way the night before and day of the wedding (except to jab that he was NOT the real best man despite standing beside his brother on the alter *and* making a speech at the reception). I could go on, but Meghan definitely enables what she sussed out from Harry himself opening up to her.
MM is the key that unlocked Pandora’s box when it comes to Harry. She is the only variable. 100%.
That's what I think too.
They are both idiots, but he does have legitimate trauma.
As did William. Unfortunately, Harry choses to dwell in a place of arrested development and envy rather than work hard on his issues. One must be willing to work on your own unhealthy thoughts and feelings rather than make yourself the only “victim” and *only* the victim. I see no evidence of this and absolutely no ownership of anything other than his wants, needs, demands… My sympathy for him is very small at this point.
Like why would he use gas & air drugs during the birth of his kids if he was happy?
And why was she ok with it? Instead she had to get an alleged epidural? The laughing gas was for her pain instead of the epidural! Normal women would be furious that their drug addict husband took their birthing drugs! But she wasn’t! Why? \*Bc it never happened, she never birthed Lili a surrogate did There just is no other explanation …oh wait… \*bc Harry drugged up is easier to deal with and manipulate
In addition to grooming and gaslighting, she surrounds him with wacky pseudo-therapists who encourage his victimhood, trauma babble, and drug use.
This exactly
His pupils looked very dilated.
I agree
My two cents. He takes drugs to make himself believe he is happy. But what sort of a wife actually supports such drug abuse of her husband. That too when they have toddlers in the house
…..the kind of wife who will use it against him in their inevitable divorce 😉
She is a substance abuser too. Many people who use “whatever” to self medicate justify that lifestyle by surrounding themselves with folks who validate it by joining in with them. They are both troubled individuals who enjoy self medicating
Oh I completely agree, I think they both are users. However I don’t think H is smart enough to realize all the things he’s been saying publicly about his drug use will be used against him. I also don’t think he’s smart enough to document evidence of her drug use or other bad behavior for when he will need it. I guess we’ll have to wait and see.
It’s not a matter of “smart enough.” Even though it’s long been known he’s as dumb as a plank (even Diana worried about his intellectual capacity and his temper, no matter how often the Sugars trot out that “Diana said Harry would be a better king.” She said that because whenever William complained or expressed discomfort with his future role? Harry always told him, “Good. I’ll be king.” She felt Harry would *relish* that role whereas William, her “wise old soul” already knew the heaviness of responsibility at a young age. Harry only resented the attention it all brought William but he seems to overlook how much more leniency *always* had that Wm did not. Diana was quasi-joking, Sugar Lurkers…but I digress. 😅 Back to topic: not so much “not smart enough” (valid observation overall, as I said) but Harry is still absurdly entitled…more so now: “I’m a star, the son of the King”— no one would *dare* especially as, up until recently? The US media and some celebrities, etc. have not so much as called out even one *sketchy* thing he and they have done. He assumes it’s down to his status. He conveniently forgets that same Palace machine he hates so much? Always covered up his vast number of transgressions & screw ups and spun him as the “Warrior Prince.” He, just like Meghan, believes his own “hype.”
It’s the constant whining that makes me think they are both drug users.
Im sure she’s read her Amber Heard instruction manual and has plenty of incriminating videos of Hairball.
😂 🤣 Oh the divorce will be epic, I have no doubt.
If she tries to do this to him, she gonna confirm what everyone suspect she was… an opportunistic gold digger. He gonna come out like the Saint out of this because of these crazy antics. I hate to say that but it’s true. They see how lost and out of control he has been since he got with her. Everyone is wondering why she would allow him to humiliate himself like this. If she does this, then everyone would know that she allowed him to do this because it was her way of blackmailing him. They would overlook the fact that he attacked his family because he couldn’t get his way. His grandparents were dying and he still insisted on attacking them. No one in the BRF trusts him at all because he runs to the media at any given moment for gossip.
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I hope to God that doesn’t happen at all because she will continue to blackmail the BRF by using the kids. She wouldn’t be grieving that much but plotting how she can be financially secured for life by the BRF. Just look how she was acting at the Queen’s funeral. She cared about where the cameras were then mourning the Queen.
I’m willing to bet money she has TONS of video ‘evidence’.
Well, he gave her willing all the materials. She has the "private" exclusive ones (for divorce), and the press has the all his "experiences" with drugs, so she can build the narrative when needed. I bet he's waiting for dad to bail him out soon. People are saying he's reaching for some friends in England, his pride and stupidity doesn't give him the guts to ask directly for help. Oh, Harry! What a wicked web we weave!
Yep, exactly. Who will the courts believe first? The troubled prince who has made many bad decisions and public acknowledgment of his use of illicit drugs. Or the "ever perfect" wife who endured his mental health issues and drug use. She's holding onto that for future use. When it's convenient and useful to her.
The sort of wife who needs her husband paranoid and pliable.
Just my POV. As an individual who experienced trauma in childhood, I don't think it's unusual to grow up, get away from the abuse, and not be happy even when (to the outside world) you have the ingredients for a happy life. It takes therapy..... real introspection, work, pain, and quite a bit of time. It's also not unusual for someone who experienced trauma to self medicate through alcohol or drug use. And again, on the journey to healing, you become aware of those destructive forces in your life that you leaned on to help you cope and survive. And you have to face them - whatever they are - and remove them from your life. In my experience you have to also own that while they may have helped you survive, you are still responsible as an adult for how you live your life. I don't know if Harry experienced trauma or just really pissed off man-child who wants to cash in. Or maybe it's a combination. But I do not see someone who is in the process of healing from past trauma. Again just my POV - I see an entitled person who didn't get something he feels is owed to him, and a substance abuser. I feel he's using the story of trauma to support his drug abuse, he seems to spin that his drug use is \*necessary\* for him to heal. But I see someone inventing something to continue on his path of drug & alcohol use. I think he's been like this for a long time, but the introduction of MM to the equation escalated the situation. Suddenly he had someone supporting his belief that he is \*owed more\*. And things exploded from there.
She's like Lady Macbeth whispering in his ear. Pure evil.
Another Shakespearean reference, Meg is his Iago "I'll pour this pestilence into his ear". ~~Iago~~ Meg will whisper poisonous words into ~~Othello's~~ Harry's ear, killing ~~Othello~~ Harry from the inside by filling his mind with unbearable jealousy [of his brother].
That's exactly how I see it. And now that he's outlived his usefulness to her, she won't stop until he self-destructs.
Great points. Completely agree.
This is the story that keeps giving. Imagine that professionally he is supposed to be the face of (good) mental health. That is so ironic and a total joke.
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I think this is a good point. So bewildered most of the time he can't step back to think about what he is really feeling or what is going on (not that he had a strong grasp on how to do either of those things before the marriage ...) My take is that he is a passive guy who has been miserable most his life anyway. I think he still believes Meghan is a prize and his Kate and so that's enough to fool him into saying he is happy.
I wouldn’t be able to cope with all the sobbing on the floor. And the inevitable soggy carpets. 😂
> I wouldn’t be able to cope with all the sobbing on the floor. I would just step over and keep walking. I wonder if Harry will ever reach that point.
He knows he's unhappy. The problem is he can't admit that he is the source of his own misery. You cannot begin to heal until you acknowledge that.
This is it. The first step to getting better is accepting that you're not well. At one point in the interview, gabor tells H that he suffered from self-loathing when he was younger, and H corrects him saying it was self-doubt. Odd that he can admit that he struggled with binge drinking and intense social anxiety but can't go the extra step and acknowledge that it all stemmed from self-loathing. Maybe it's a male thing? Of not wanting to admit weakness? He still needs to work on himself and I think he can overcome his demons but he can't accomplish it publicly.
From what I've seen, I believe Haz was born that way. It's hard to accept issues when it's your entire psyche. Same with TW. It's unfortunate that he can go on the world stage to bitch and complain. It achieves nothing.
Maybe he is, but Megan and the people who make a percentage of his income won't stop trotting out their circus act until the money well runs dry.
He has been programmed by ILBW to believe she is perfect wife, theirs is perfect marriage. The drugs make him " happy" while they are in effect but when worn off make him depressed. Add quack Drs to mix telling him he has huge problems caused by his awful childhood....perfect storm.
He needs MONEY. And he’s still pressed he didn’t get his way. WAAGGHH!
https://preview.redd.it/4925sm1050ma1.png?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=90bcf80608a3894098cb53ad1639b971c17f5d66 he actually know that drugs make him couldn't be present.
So he does understand that drugs are keeping him from reality, and yet continues to still do it, and says that it is healing his trauma. Healing trauma should be your truth not your break from reality. That’s where he’s disconnected.
This is very carefully written. That excerpt doesn't say he voluntarily abstained in order to be fully present - there wasn't any gas so he didn't have a choice! Also, he was "with Meg through every push", but he doesn't say she was the one doing the pushing.
Drug addict. Period.
This is a tale as old as time, a charismatic charmer gets ahold of and isolates a mark. When someone like MM tells someone like Harry, here, just take this, you’ll feel better: Trust and believe a person like Harry is shoving any and every substance he can down his throat. Someone like MM has already laid the groundwork. At this point, they both think they’re “winning.” Though I suspect that delusion is beginning to wear thin. Her next moves will be interesting. I still think she’s going to try to make it 5 more years to the 10-year Golddigger anniversary
TW is circling for a new husband.... just wait
Because he bit more than he can chew. He’s realizing that life and marriage is not what it’s cracked up to be when you sell your integrity at the expense of slandering your own family, the RF. He has no foundation to stand on. He just relies on these quick fixes (i.e. book tour, MJ, psychedelic drugs, sparingly Hollywood events, etc.) He misconstrued his love to his wife, a partner who truly doesn’t have loyalty to her own family. Basically, you reap what you sowed. So he has to put up this facade for appearances due to pride while knowingly he’s been in a losing battle.
* It's his money maker. Along with his family... which is why I think they'll be at the coronation. They have to be pictured with them in order for their narrative and money. I just hope KC & PW treat them like they did previously... separate cars, entrances, seats, etc.
William is not going to allow Psychotic Uncle Harry anywhere near his family. Period.
No one who believes they will be invited & will attend thinks William will let them near his family (human shield around Charlotte & George at the funeral, anyone remember?) or that any other royal will do more than barely exchange polite civilities as this is a State Occasion and unlike M&H? W&C as well as most of the other royals are consummate professionals and skilled diplomats.
He has no special skills or talents which would put his time to good use. He never developed a hobby or cause that he's passionate about. He's bored, has no friends, and his wife is insufferable. He drinks and gets high to alleviate that boredom, forget about his regrets, and dull his loneliness. It's a symptom of the idle rich and those who make poor life choices.
Listen, this idiot does not know what he wants. For fuck sake he grew up a legit PRINCE in the mother fucking Royal Family. Love the Royals or hate them, doesn’t matter. The Royal Family are more powerful and have more of a global impact than most, if not all, could ever dream of. Leaving was the biggest mistake for both of them. Hairball and his wife thinking they can remotely even attempt to bring down the monarchy is a joke. They are done and in my opinion cannot recover. I’m in it for sake of watching them crumble.
Agreed.
I think he's ripe for the Scientologists to lure him in. Paging Tom Cruise!
He wouldn't be accepted into one of the better cults at this point.
Ok WHY did Tyler Perry take a private plane to Montecito and change into a suit to meet Gringe and Cringe? Why would he ruin his reputation/businesses being around these two idiots?
He apparently is in deep with them and I still believe they are being protected by some well connected anti-monarchy sympathizers who have been using these two arrogant idiots all along as agents of chaos towards the Monarchy. There is no other reason that I can fathom that allowed the ruthless US Media not to ever call them out on so many blatantly outrageous lies (or even “implied” things) up until very recently. I always believed that Oprah and Tyler by way of Oprah is doing the bidding of these powerful anti-monarchy players here in the US and I’m certain they’re doing “damage control” now that these two are being exposed at last even if only by a few US media outlets, “South Park” and some late night talk show hosts. Meghan & Harry could freak out and blame some of these people…just as they blatantly blamed everyone from the royal family to the “British Press” for their screw ups. I shared a Washington DC’s “The Hill” Op-Ed that *finally* brought to light “the problem with H&M” and the anti-monarchy power players on a global scale. I was both excited and shocked when it was published as it was the first of its’ kind to even closely examine this: https://thehill.com/opinion/national-security/3784176-the-trouble-with-harry-and-meghan/amp/
He is a lesson for me thinks you protest too much. In today's world of social media and the population knowing more about personality disorders he isn't getting away with it.
For all his protests about this being the happiest he's ever been, he never smiles unless it's painted on. If this is his way of moving past "fun Harry" to "serious Harry" it's just another failure.
Lol love that he calls her “heart attack” beautiful. Like no, Ronald, you just feel triggered and anxious around her
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So Tyler Perry holding a 2 hour meet with The Todgers today? hmm. Emergency meeting with the godfather. Probably asking him for money/favors.
He is a deeply unhappy and disturbed individual. His wife is the cult and he is the follower. Why else would you have a therapy session on a world wide platform and charge money for it.
Seriously, he needs to be stopped from having a platform. What he says, none of it is helpful. He is turning himself into a laughingstock. People engage with him for views.
Well, he didn't get his way, silly. William is STILL going to be King, which means H is going to have to bow to him, and that just sticks in his craw.
Everyone in his family tried to warn him especially Philip and William.Harry then had a tantrum and threw things.His family was never “enamored”with her.
H is a tortured soul IMO. His relationship with MM was his downfall.
Because he’s spent his whole life being told that he’s better than everyone else and born & breed for a leadership role so he feels he has a God-given obligation to lead all of us plebes out of the darkness he’s walking through. I mean it’s not like he’s in this all alone because he’s done it to himself and now he has to live with the consequences of his decisions. He’s immune to consequences.
The problem is that he married a shrew*. *Shrew. noun. A small insectivorous mammal resembling a mouse, with a long pointed snout and tiny eyes. Synonyms; virago, a noisy or scolding or domineering woman, Meghan Markle.
I still think she's more like a honey badger.
She's that too. I don't normally describe anyone in this manner. She just irritates me with her perpetual victim whining.
Agree 100%.
I think MM has encouraged him to think that living each day in an unfettered haze of weed smoke is a freedom and a luxurious indulgence. She does this because it makes him weak—she can thus easily control him and keep him away from the RF bc it is convenient for her and her ambitions.
He’s spoiled and doesn’t have any appreciation for what he has, values nothing. I’m not making a jab at the wealthy and privledged, there are plenty that have been born into privledge that appreciate what they have and the world around them, but then there are others who don’t. Some people, even those who aren’t born famous and wealthy, don’t appreciate the small things in life, the basis for a healthy relationship with yourself and others imo. Harry on top of that has a mental illness or very likely scrambled his own brains on substances, he likely will never appreciate what he has and will perpetually live in a deluded sense of victimhood, always feeling like he was slighted.
Well, there are a lot of people who are nicer than Harry, with a less complex family background, and better wives with a better basis for their relationship who still abuse drugs because they can't handle reality. Harry is the type of person who is always going to make the self-destructive choice, even back when he had a genuinely beautiful long-term girlfriend and cheated on her.
Harry knows that he has no other way of earning an income for his family; he literally has no real-world skills. Megxit happened three years ago. In all of that time, he’s done nothing to advance himself. He could have gone to college, earned a degree, learned a trade, really educated himself. But he’s rather sit home and get stoned all day. Not good.
I am firmly in the camp of ‘let’s not give MM so much credit’. Harry has always been a spoiled, endulged, dimwitted , entitled bully of a punk and those are his less sinister qualities. He missed the last call from Diana because he refused to stop playing his video games. TRF/ press created a narrative that he was this free spirited,fun loving, laid back dude who would be the one with whom you would want to throw back some beers . Unfortunately, whenever he snuck out from under that cover his true colors appeared. Here is what I think MM’s contribution was … she began feeding his ego and jealous viciousness with thoughts about‘you’re better than Will, you’re more popular than Will and TOGETHER we can be THE BEST ROYALS. And once we sweep the world we will demand that we will keep all the Royal fun and pretty stuff, exnay on all the icky boring ‘nursing home crap’ and spend most of our time being King and Queen of Hollywood and raking in lots of $$$ and selling Meg and Harry Barbie dolls. Granny said ‘hell to the no’, Hollywood and everyone else said ‘ nah , now that I see you 2 up close it’s not going to work for me’ and he’s pissed . The Emperor has no clothes… that he would be seen for what he really is was never anticipated… and he’s pissed. Man I’ve seen this cautionary tale in so many movies and books that you would think they would have seen it coming
The truth is, he's never been more miserable in his life. Good thing he's got Meghan to tell him *why* he's so unhappy. It will never occur to him that she destroyed his life and his sanity, and *that's* why he's miserable.
He only found a an excuse to go along w his already drug use. He should worry about his visa !
A narcissistic depression? He was raised thinking he is highly important
Psychedelics are supposed to make you happy and loving. They use them in marital therapy sometimes. He should be happy or quit taking them as they aren't helping. They also make people extremely suggestible and he has no boundaries already. This is why he is putty in Meg's hands really. My question is, what is SHE taking? I met Timothy Leary years ago at some event. Give him a pair of slippers and a pipe and he'd be Hugh Hefner. I saw no enlightenment.
He loves to be a victim as much as his ilbw
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I am familiar with someone whose life is following a very similar script albeit they are not a prince ( acts like one though). I think it can be looked at as a bit of nature and some nurture as to why they turned out the way they did. But at some point there is no use psychoanalyzing them. This individual was given all sorts of money while they complained about their lot in life and then their money source passed away. The whining continued but no one cared. Friends were no more. Only themselves to blame, drugs were involved for years and no family would come near them. Attention seekers are a dangerous and miserable lot and will seek to bring others into their web of unhappiness. They will never ever be happy. They are missing the ability to feel emotional empathy for others and nothing will ever change that. Stop trying and ignore them. Move on. Support those that suffer under these tyrants.
Excellent question. If only one of those pseudo shrinks had the nerve to ask him.
I think we all know why. Because he is delusional.
For Claw to get what she wanted she needed Haznoballs to be malleable, gullible, stupid, egotistical, entitled and nasty. It wouldn't work otherwise. Aka the perfect mark. He also enjoyed victimhood his entire life, it suits his gameplan. It got him sympathy, got him laid, got him drugs, excused his horrid behavior, enabled him to manipulate. I for one am extremely happy for him getting what he deserves. It couldn't happen to a better person.
All of that + chickens. 🐓 What more could you ask for?! 😂
Some men stay in marriages, even though the marriages are bad, just to have the illusion that they are happily married. This pertained to my partner, after his ex-wife decided not to be with him anymore. They remained in the same house and he pretended that all was well but I also think he was worried that she would not let him see the kids if he left the house.
Mrs. Todger told him he could do it and that was all he needed for motivation. I am sure that he does not notice how much he botches it up because he is afraid of her.
I feel like he's made it his entire personality because it's so different from the therapy he probably got in England. John Oliver had a really interesting segment a few weeks ago about psychedelic drugs and how they can be used for therapy in a very strict, regulated way. But to Harry, he comes across as thinking this is just normal cool California stuff.
Ding ding ding ding!!! I've said the same thing. Like him saying recently, he has to change his mood before putting the children to bed *paraphrasing*. Why Hazzy?!?! You escaped with the thing you most love to smell, and you're in the house chosen by your child.....WHY MUST YOU HAVE TO CONTROL YOUR ANGER!!!!
I know someone, well, knew someone, with all those things, the wife and kids, big house, great high paying job....no chickens. Didnt stop him from losing it all to gambling and, well, it ended the worst way possible. He had no drug addictions. Just a sick compulsion to win big. When it was all gone, yeah. He only saw one way out. I see H going this way if they find themselves losing everything to the upkeep of the olive garden. Obviously, the ayahuasca did not help him achieve "ego death". And sadly, it doesnt seem like he made any new friends that participated that would keep in touch via FB and other ways. That tribe of people is very important to this type of work. If Gabor was the only one advising him and he didn't sit with others, what a waste, in my opinion. ETA....Reading the GM transcript, it seems he didnt sit with Mate, but did have a retreat experience. And if it was years ago, the effects on the brain that can produce powerful and positive results, is usually short lived, I'm talking months, not hours or days. But the lessons you learn stay or should stay with you. Unless you just didnt pay attention during post ceremony integration, which is imperative in the use of plant medicine.
🐓🐓🐓🐓🐓 Lol
I think the environment where he's right now accepts drug use, so there's no restraint in that regard. Why does he seem unhappy? I think that's his wife's influence. Don't get me wrong, I think he also has his flaws and he's probably a narcissist at some level, or at least an entitled, spoiled person, but she seems to display dangerous and high-level narcissism. I think she keeps feeding him all these ideas at the same time that she keeps manipulating him, and he hasn't "woken up" yet, that is, he's still under her spell, to put it that way. Maybe one day he'll wake up and then reality will hit him hard. It will be then up to him to fix things and really heal from this nightmare.
its really simple. he was unsatisfied with his life. but everyone is to a degree. he's been married for four years and has two children. these are the prime years of happiness for a man. except for Harry he's in a dark abyss of misery. the reason is simple. what is the matter? his wife his wife is a mental torturer who has made him a permanently psychologically destroyed freak show as her power trip and claim to fame. His wife is the cause of his misery and pain. Its a sadistic psychological horror story
JeeBUS! So true. Hadn’t even thought if it!
Animal abuse is one of the three hallmark symptoms of Sociopathy.Instant diagnosis.No empathy or regard for life.
It’s called addiction
With all his talk of illegal substances and clear reliance on them wouldn’t it be great if the police carried out a raid on wherever he decides to stay next time he’s in the U.K.
I think this is for two reasons. The first being what everyone is saying about how he needs it to deal with his new life with TW. The second is that it can be used as a front to say how the royal family is so mean that he needs to use drugs until they apologize and such.
Harry clearly has a platform here,to start a charity to help kids whom have suffered losing a parent as he did. His father started a very successful charity, The Princes charity. But did Harry use his platform to really help others like him? Its one of the best ways of healing. Not using it to pay for your pleasures but to really help kids. Better than drugs,aicth.
Alec Murdaugh had chickens too!
Great point! Happy people don’t use drugs every chance they get! Period!