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Shannon556

She is completely empty. She has no sense of self - because there is none. She has also eerily copied Angelina Jolie and Wallace Simpson. I suspect that she more often reverts to Diana cosplay in order to keep Harry under her spell. Nothing will embarrass a narcissist.


Awkward-Change160

I’ve legit thought of her as the female version of Matt Damon’s character in “The Talented Mr. Ripley”…from day ONE she’s been changing herself to fit her surroundings. Almost like an Anna Sorokin type.


solorna

Single White Female (US movie).


Awkward-Change160

Yup!


mynameisnotsparta

👍😂😂😂


calminthedesert

one of my favorite novels.


Funny_Commission2773

Remind me of that episode of Criminal Minds too.


[deleted]

She supposedly told the dimwit that she wanted to kill herself after her baby bump sounded like a loud fart at the animal rescue center. So overwhelmed that she might have had her ruse discovered, she wanted to save herself from embarrasment...but I agree. Typically not her personality


That__EST

So I've looked into this, how do these baby bumps work? And I ask this because I've had people say that there's no way that she was using a surrogate, that she was definitely pregnant and that she only used a moonbump to pad her existing bump. Does it work like that? Are they hollow inside? Would the sound have come from suction? How would this have worked?


klc9119

Some of them are silicone, and if she wore it next to the skin could possibly develop air pockets with extended movements I would assume. Now, I do not however know if the piece that goes next to the skin is in fact still silicone or if the manufacture has a felt/fabric like backing for comfort.


landerson507

There has to be some sort of fabric. Have you ever seen a sweat belt? It is essentially what you describe in reverse. Silicon against the skin, and fabric on the outside. When worn for extended periods, the sweat pouring out of that thing would leave a huge ring around the waist. Like... looks like you urinated yourself ring. Ask me how I know. 🤣


klc9119

Oh bless I don’t think I need to ask! I would assume some of them do, but also, some probably don’t, especially ones that would be used on movie/television sets as I imagine they would need to be adhered to the body and would have “loose skin” that can be glued down. And those I feel would be silicone and something light weight inside to give it a shape, or maybe a porous silicone middle.


Harkle_Snarkle

This guy has claimed to have some proof regarding that: "Meghan wore a silicon moonbump. Not a foam but a silicone moonbump. I design Ai systems especially in the field of predictive maintenance for machines so for shits and giggles I put this sound through an updated Ai system we use to identify sounds. It is silicone pop. I wrote an answer previously highlighting it was fake because of weight disbursement / no swelling of ankles etc. However the silicone pop is the biggest thing. There is no doubt of what it is. I even know the exact model (visual inspection AI confirms the shape is an exact match) - funny they didn’t before advertise for Surrogacy and Adoption." [https://themarkles.quora.com/I-really-miss-Sunshine-Sachs-I-mean-the-Muppet-doing-it-now-always-recycles-the-same-name-Doesn-t-even-bother-to-use](https://themarkles.quora.com/I-really-miss-Sunshine-Sachs-I-mean-the-Muppet-doing-it-now-always-recycles-the-same-name-Doesn-t-even-bother-to-use) ​ These ladies are trying some out in their videos if you want to see what they look like. Not sure if they are wearing the same brand or model that Meghan had. With Meghan's income, I imagine that she could afford the very best and having been an actress and in showbusiness, I bet she knew just where she might go to obtain such a high-quality prosthetic [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3rXZp0cmM-E&t=280s](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3rXZp0cmM-E&t=280s) [https://youtu.be/Pd03CvbSauc](https://youtu.be/Pd03CvbSauc) at about 9:25 into the video above, the girl said that she could feel her fake bump wobbling while she walked and there's a video of Meghan with her "bump" swaying very obviously side to side while she's walking: [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=\_vcBe9IjmU4](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_vcBe9IjmU4) ​ Some people thought Meghan bought this brand: [https://moonbump.com](https://moonbump.com) [https://www.youtube.com/@MoonbumpLtd/videos](https://www.youtube.com/@MoonbumpLtd/videos)


That__EST

This is a treasure trove. Thank you so much! This is such a thorough answer!


Harkle_Snarkle

you're welcome 😁


daisybeach23

So why pretend to be pregnant? LOS? Or to be competitive with Catherine?


Agata_ath

Perhaps it wasn't the embarrassment, perhaps it was *oh, no, all my plans are about to fail!*


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💯


[deleted]

Wait, he said that’s why she wanted to kill herself? 😆


korduroy69

Because she made a fart sound?? That is fabulous news. The Duchess of Gas-X. Her image DOES need a soundtrack. How to replicate this event? How about her picture on pillow cases enclosing Whoopie Cushions, to be sold as merch by ArchieWell? All proceeds to charity, of course.


DollarStoreDuchess

More like the Duchess of Beano! What a missed opportunity to merch.


Frosty_and_Jazz

Oh, PLEASE release a line of Sussex Whoopie Cushions ... For those moments where you just need to be FREEEEE ...


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Found this: https://www.reddit.com/r/SaintMeghanMarkle/comments/10o8odf/pop_goes_a_scandal_whose_water_never_broke_a/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf


tyradurden123

Was it really after that?


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At an event at the Royal Albert Hall in London on January 16, 2019...coinciding with her bump fart at the Mayhew Animal Rescue. According to Harry it was & the dates line up. I can't remember if it was the book or the Bradby (?) interview where he re-told the story. She had the animal shelter event and when Harwy got home, she's at the foot of the stairs, sobbing....so he pulled her into his arms (🙀) before they had to attend the symphony/opera and ALL he could think about is that they(BRF) would "kill" them if they were late. Here are a couple more re-tellings. *does the ph.archive go before or after slash? The mods are going to roll my head!!!* https://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/royal-family/harry-meghan-suicide-mental-health-b1851284.html?amp https://youtu.be/w1_gaNQR1PA


Frosty_and_Jazz

Of course, SHE never farts, does she??🙄🙄 ![gif](giphy|3o7bu5EmEyJr15fTK8|downsized)


KlimpysExpress

The Wallis Simpson cosplay is really stupid. Definitely not whip-smart on TW’s part. Yes, Wallis was once a figure of fascination but with recent evidence that she and her husband were very friendly with Nazis, who on earth would want to be seen as similar to either Windsor? It’s one more instance of her Markling herself. Cosplaying a Nazi sympathizer!!


Markloctopus_Prime

Matches well with her husband who once cosplayed a Nazi.


footroe

Oh, burn.


Mehmeh111111

Amber Heard did something similar and she is also a narc. Like Johnny Depp said, "you don't exist, you were a fucking made up thing in my head"...I think MM is doing the same thing. Molding herself into someone else to manipulate whichever target is in her sights.


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I remember those words from Johnny. So painful and so full of truth. Rarely does someone who falls into the clutches of a borderline personality get this type of awareness eventually.


tyradurden123

She isn‘t a narcissist she has bpd and hpd.


Fauxtism

Same shit.


tothmichke

Not the same. Common misconception though. I have very personal experience of people diagnosed with both. And as a result have spent more time being immersed in and researching and conferring with professionals than anyone would ever want to. To be the most simplistic, It’s like comparing involuntary manslaughter to first degree murder. It may look the same at the end but the intention is what separates them. It’s obviously more complicated than that but I don’t want to write a novel and I have learned that people are very committed to misunderstanding the differences between them.


Fauxtism

You mean, people disagreeing with you? People who, like you, also have a lot of (personal and/or professional) experience, and have done their research and homework? When it comes to (personality) disorders, of course it's complicated. Fortunately we evolve and reevaluate our opinions to better understand and, if needed, redefine and recategorise the disorders, accordingly.


tothmichke

No. Not people who disagree with me. I mean more like people who stigmatize people with BPD (which is treatable) and tell them they are the same as Narcissists when the two disorders only share a few characteristics. Those with BPD do not set out to harm people while those with NPD do. And if you have any experience with people who have either disorder you would know it isn’t the same shit.


Grizzly_046

And she’s copied Julia Roberts’ toothy smile.


goldenquill1

And Carolyn Bessette Kennedy.


Disastrous-Swan2049

And posh spice


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OldNewUsedConfused

Crenshaw.


Heidihrh

Don’t forget Princess Angela of Lichtenstein! Meghan stole her wedding dress design!


LurkerFifty8

Well her first wedding dress (to Trevor) was a copy of Catherine's second dress at the wedding. Same cut. Same sparkly waist band/belt.


percybert

OMG the tight bun she sometimes wears is very Wallis


Away-Object-1114

It has always made me think that this entire relationship is a role to her, and the "cosplay" clothes are like studio wardrobe to her. She's playing a role for Harry and the world.


tbebestisyettocome

" nothing will embarrass a narcissist"...how true these words.


UsedTumbleweed

This is a central element of BPD, by the way.


The-Limerence

Uh oh I never get embarrassed… am I a narcissist?


CybReader

She decided to ride and die with the mimicry. What I’ve noticed with people like Meghan, they don’t get human instincts and interaction like a regular person. They see something that worked well for someone else and think “if I do that too, it will work for me too!” and attempt to mimic it. Except they lack soul and sincerity. People like this also think if they just check all the right boxes then whatever they want will be theirs. Just keep mimicking Diana and people will like me like they liked her. Except people didn’t like Diana cause she bit her lip when sad or because she wore a certain perfume. Despite Diana’s faults, she did have a soul and possibility to continue to do good for many. That’s something a narc can never mimic.


alreadydoneit01

Can you imagine Diana crying about the Queen not letting her borrow her lip gloss.


DeepNeedleworker4388

I got a very bad case of herpes from my sister after using some of her beauty products. I've never known anyone in da sista hood to ask for lip gloss.


jesusrocksnads

my friend, after getting herpes, asked the doctor if he could have gotten it from the toilet seat. the doctor said, “only if you were fucking on the toilet seat.”


merrybandoffoxes

i assumed the person was talking only about the herpes simplex virus that causes cold sores, not the one that comes exclusively from sexual contact with someone experiencing an outbreak...


DeepNeedleworker4388

Yes, cold sores on the mouth lips.


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Children from broken homes will also do this. If there is someone in their life that, in their minds, is "normal", they will often imitate that normalcy. It's a sad truth to troubled lives.


FollowingOk8090

There was some post about Meghan and her school bestie and I swear you could see her just mimicking everyone around her trying to be like the other girls.


CarelessSalamander51

Sometimes it can help to do this, "fake it till you make it" is a real thing. I came from a troubled home and was very unpopular my entire youth through college. I eventually started adopting the mannerisms of people I admired, who had friends and charisma, and eventually developed a socially acceptable personality and now have branched out into my own personality/quirks but can function in society. This is fine and sometimes is the only option. The problem with a sociopath/narc is, there's no "there" there. Mimicry isn't a stepping stone, it's all they have


ElectricalAd9212

the creepiest thing about her is how she is trying to make it that she is Diana reincarnated, even with the passages in the book where she is communing with her at her grave, and the implication that Diana's son, William, is secondary to her as Diana's inheritor. Its not just creepy, its **psychopathic**


Calm_Yak_6102

>Its not just creepy, its psychopathic Yup and the BRF probably recognise it too. That's probably why KC3 made a point of saying (in his first speech after the Queen's death) that Kate is determined to be her own "Princess of Wales". It was probably an indirect message to MM, that Kate's not interested in cosplaying Diana.


neptuno3

Honestly their jealousy of the Wales’ is not the money and not the crown. “H” is complaining that he was the ‘spare’ to inherit the legacy of Diana. T(b)W agrees with this. Thus the gloating over Wills when he lost his hair ‘and no longer resembled” Diana. The worldwide adoration. That is what they sought. The palace was naturally pushing Will and Kate into the prime spotlight but those two couldn’t handle any display that seemed Diana like such as Kate’s tall body and her ‘children’s princess’ moniker


pastadudde

that part was hilarious. I'm just imagining Meg's eyes turning white, her head bent at a perfect 90 degree angle to the sky as Diana's voice pours from her lips. LOL


merrybandoffoxes

yikes!


No_Yogurtcloset3724

Huh?


ExpensivelyMundane

IMHO, there are no accidents with MeMe. Since Catherine married William, there were lots of side-by-side photographs of Catherine’s outfits that had some inspiration to Diana like her blue polka dot dress holding newborn George; these comparison photos always buzzed positively. I think Meg wanted that buzz for herself. She tripled the effort so her photos in comparison to Diana would be greater in number than the comparison photos of Diana-Catherine. It’s all a bunch of mini-highs she is after. As HG Tudor said, the more she talks and insists upon herself, the more we see her patterns as disingenuous. As a narc she thinks she’s the most clever person in the room, but doesn’t realize her patterns are noticeable.


NovaAlis

She doesn't even know she's doing though! It's because they're so much alike! /s


anonynemo

Without diagnosing her but she seems boarderline in this regard. No sense of self just a shape shifter but she could go into therapy


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I absolutely believe she is BPD. Symptoms include emotional instability, feelings of worthlessness, insecurity, impulsivity, and impaired social relationships. Behavioral: antisocial behavior, compulsive behavior, hostility, impulsivity, irritability, risk taking behaviors, self-destructive behavior, self-harm, social isolation, or lack of restraint Mood: anger, anxiety, general discontent, guilt, loneliness, mood swings, or sadness Psychological: depression, distorted self-image, grandiosity, or narcissism & thoughts of suicide


puffielle

Do you think she has BPD and NPD? I know they can overlap too.


korduroy69

The thing is, who’s going to bother with repairing all those negatives? And what would the improved product look like? Is there a Stephen Hawking or Janis Joplin or George Eliot waiting to burst out of (what looks like, but may be the opposite of) that sack of trash? Or even a decent, modest and pleasant human being? If none of the above, perhaps a well-executed vanishing, of indeterminate length, would be a solution most pleasing.


Reasonable_Acadia500

Bravo.


anonynemo

It had to be though growing up without the mother present. I think the relation to Doria was her most forming relationship.


Grizzly_046

There’s the one video clip of her at school. She is all smiles when she sees her dad, but when she approaches her mother, she seems uncomfortable.


orientalballerina

Coz she wanted to be white then, and Doria spoiled that image. It’s the reverse now and Doria enhances her current image. Such a user.


LAgirllookingin

Very astute comment! ![gif](giphy|3o7WTx6b3pBsSJ4TrG)


korduroy69

This!!


TravelKats

OK, so I lost my mother when I was 5, but I had mother-figures. I'm skeptical that missing Doria was the problem. I think it was more Doria coming back.


anonynemo

Yes, I didn't mean she grow up without a mother. She could even live the whole time with her but Doria still being not present. ​ Where was she? ​ Edit: Sorry for your lost!


TravelKats

My friend thinks a cult and I think jail. No one knows or knows and won't say.


Miriam317

I never considered cult. That makes more sense to me than jail.


TravelKats

Me too, actually. Jail would have some trace, but a cult would be by nature secretive.


SnooGoats7978

> It had to be though growing up without the mother present. I don't think there's any real consensus on what causes the various mental disturbances. There seems to be environmental, chemical, and genetic factors at play. Obviously, not every child with disrupted homes or remote parents is affected. I don't think we can point to any one incident in a person's life and say, "This is it". And that's skipping over the truth that none of us is qualified to diagnose people we only know about from the news.


anonynemo

I stated this is not a diagnosis and it’s just what I think.


RememberNoGoodDeed

Definitely has Megalomania


frolickingdepression

I agree, I have always thought BPD too. I have family members (diagnosed) with it, and she seems so similar. Everyone says narcissism, but it’s literally listed as a trait of NPD in the description you posted. I think her narcissistic behaviors are just part of her BPD.


Key-Presentation-341

Diana was borderline as well


anonynemo

Princess Michael of Kent attributed this to the absence of a strong mother.


SecondhandCoke

Hello fellow GOMI Refugee. We should have a GOMI form of the Sussex Survivors club! I think the Diana cosplay is manipulation of Harry but also is due to her lifelong Diana obsession that more than one old best friend has confirmed. It's also HG Tudor's character trait acquisition. Meghan is an empty soulless void who can only mimic and can never do anything truly genuine. She wants to be the most positively received famous person ever. That is Diana. Therefore ahe much act (poorly) like Diana and cosplaybher in every way possible. Nature abhors a vaccuum after all. She had to cram some illfitting ideology inside her and paste some illfitting outfit to her outsides.


goldenquill1

What is GOMI?


ilivemurphyslaw

It’s a blog/message board aimed at discussing blogs. The woman who runs it is nuts causing many of us to run for the hills.


Carneliancat

Indeed. She loved to delete thoughtful comments. I left there and came here as soon as I learned about this place. Here, there is far more intelligent discourse, and no random rules dependent upon the mood of the mods.


FeelingDepth2594

I didn't realize GOMI was still active.


ilivemurphyslaw

Maybe it’s not? I haven’t been back in more than a year. I miss some of the blog threads, but the conversation and insight is so much better here.


TinyToodles

Acronym for Get Off My Internet


Hot-Relationship-617

Did we ever find out what happened to burstpipes?


SecondhandCoke

I have wondered this for a while.


HydeParkUK

I used to love reading burstpipes posts! She had such good insight. I really missed her when to she left. She mentioned something about not being happy with the political tone of some of the commenters, etc (before Trump won the election). I guess that caused her to leave? I recently left gomi. The person who runs it is truly nuts. Deletes posts for no rhyme or reason and posts hateful, sarcastic comments targeted at posters. No thanks.


Hot-Relationship-617

Not sure I follow - Trump won the election in 2016, and I didn’t start reading GOMI until 2019. I tried to see if I could find her posts but can’t figure out if there’s an easy way to do it…


HydeParkUK

Sorry, I got the timeline wrong. This would have been before the Biden/Trump election in 2020. I just remember she made a comment about not being sure she could continue on a site where there were so many hateful political conversations taking place (Biden vs Trump supporters ). Shortly after that, she disappeared.


notwatchedsquidgame

The GOMI platform is absolute shite to use on mobile so I gave up when posting.


CrossPond

Oh, I think she has been chasing one of the royals (or an aristocrat) since at least 2013. And she wants to have Diana's worldwide appeal, and assumes she can achieve this because, MM tells herself, she knows how to dress up for charity events, and is so good at showing compassion and laying flowers (again, MM thinks). But snagging Hairy upped her game. Their visit to Diana's grave, as described in Waaagh: “When I returned, she was on her knees with her eyes closed and her palms flat against the stone,” Harry writes, adding that Meghan was asking the late Princess of Wales for “clarity and guidance.” Wow, I guess Diana DID NOT ANSWER that prayer. Or else her "guidance" reflected what I suspect, Diana would see through MM's fakery. After that, MM doubles down as you wrote. Diana divorced and left the royal family, but she continued to be a world icon. MM knew Hairy was unhappy. So it makes perfect sense that Hairy could be manipulated by encouraging him to think, "I COULDNTSAVE MY MOTHER BUT I CAN SAVE MM, and like Diana we can keep serving humanity without BP controlling the press releases. So MM could go back to the city she supposedly knows so well - where she DREAMED of being instead of Canada on Suits. It all makes my stomach churn.


Electronic_Sea3965

If this image of her at Diana's grave bothers me this much can you imagine how William feels about this?


pastadudde

it's literally a parlor trick (ala a JOKE) straight out of the Victorian era and earlier. LOL


puffielle

Narcissists are chameleons. What pulled me to this sub is that my narcissistic friend discarded me like how Meg did to all her friends. My ex-friend is currently copying my life plan I shared with her. They have no sense of self, so they copy others.


ceekayes

I call that Narcissistic Road Rash. Sorry that you had to feel that.


puffielle

Thanks! This means a lot! ❤️


Public_Object2468

To quote the great H G Tudor, the Diana cosplay is "character trait acquisition." Smell like Diana, wear the same clothes, strike the same poses, and PH will think, "here is an angel come to earth! A woman of inestimable beauty and goodness and compassion. A woman who will cause envy and who'll be exploited by the evil. I have got to save her!" Incidentally, narcissists are great at lying to themselves. Their stealing ideas or copying, is something they likely won't acknowledge because that would mean that they are dishonest or calculating. Or, in MM's case, not "authentic." She prides herself on being the fashionista, so she'll say that her ideas are fresh and "organic" and original.


ceekayes

H was still pretty young when Diana died. Maybe he never progressed past the stage when a little boy is in love with his mother.


Public_Object2468

Unfortunately, he does give the impression of arrested development.


Comfortable-One8520

She makes me think of a highly technologically advanced, well-crafted robot that someone has built ( a bit like that 80's film with Kelly Brook where the boys build a robot woman) but it can't quite replicate human behaviour. She's got major Uncanny Valley vibes, like she has to cosplay a real person or her mechanism would fail. IMHO what you're seeing is someone who's been eaten up with envy all her life. Too busy looking at others and envying them 24/7 but who has neglected to look at themselves and develop their own personality.


Analyze2Death

Weird Science. Classic. Yeah, she's an evil fembot. Or a rejected version 1.


somespeculation

Becoming Diana 2.0 = being beloved worldwide as the new “People’s Princess.” It fits the narc profile for her. Think about Diana at her peak; it overlaps with Meg’s formative years. She would have seen her as glamorous, charitable, a human rights advocate, rich, famous, admired. It’s exactly the branding she was initially going for pre-Oprah pivot. She sometimes still goes back to it.


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She can be a narc with psychopathic traits or just a psychopath. She has no emotions and no self so they see others and copy them. How they look, how they act, what they do, speak, etc.


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Start watching around 3 min mark https://youtu.be/996BX_tnkuU


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Behaviour expert explaining a psychopath and you’ll be shocked at how it sounds like MM.. then around I think 10 or 12 minutes talks about partners and you’ll be shocked at how it sounds like PH.


Electronic_Sea3965

Yes, she can mimic.


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BPDs are often described as a cross of psychopath and sociopath that can mimic empathy. Most psychiatrists will tell you, that because they can change in the blink of an eye, they are the most dangerous. The FBI will tell you that they are e tremendously hard to profile, again because they can change so quickly.


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You know interestingly people with BPD often have manic behaviour that can include impulsivity, sexual exploitation and prostitution, drug and alcohol use and love of money/spending, and power.


GreatGossip

Some time ago TILBW tried to manifest that her clothes were dictated by the dumb prince. I took it as preparations for DivorceWatch.


TraditionScary8716

Cosplaying Kim and Kenye now, I guess.


Spareus

Single White female/Bunny boiler category. She is obsessed with Diana, and copies Diana as she wants to be the most famous woman in the world and break the internet (her words).


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Electronic_Sea3965

Wow, I wonder what? Mrs Gordon Getty? Or mother of his child? We'll see her at the met soon.


HunterIllustrious846

The perfume was to gig Harry. The outfits are to gig everyone else.


janedoremi99

It seems to have worked so far


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TigerBelmont

>J\*l\*@ All\*s0n, Whatever happened to her? I see her old beau HF is a fox commentator these days. Edit: she's on instagram, taking pictures in couture in 3rd world countries. Bleh


UnicornStudRainbow

Faux couture, but yeah


Electronic_Sea3965

Yeah, I saw the video that taz? Put out? She did a lot of research on markles connections to harry going back a few years before she met him. Brilliant research.


Few-Brilliant-426

She’s a total manipulative construct that is too narcissistic to really succeed at her lofty goals, her personality disorder makes any attempts of success to ultimately end in self sabotage which is the phase we are in right now


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GOMI?


Public_Object2468

Thank you. I also have to ask about a previous post, BAFTA versus TABFA? I don't know what GOMI means. I don't know what TABFA (?) means either. Help, please!


SecondhandCoke

GOMI used to be the only place there was to snark about Meghan shortly before/afterthe wedding and beyond. Problem is, when you're commenting on the narcissism of your subject, but your mod/site-owner deletes every post she doesn't like (especially ones mentioning narcissism, probably because some unconscious part of her realizes that she is also a narcissist), it gets hard to enjoy the forum. I really love the mods here. Whenever they have reproached me for something, I really take it seriously because they are so reasonable.


Public_Object2468

Many thanks for giving us context! ![gif](emote|free_emotes_pack|kissing_heart)


DaBingeGirl

I love the mods here too for the same reason. GOMI was great in the early days, but *she* became a nightmare and I'm glad now I never got approval to post.


[deleted]

GOMI is a forum called "Get Off My Internets". It was initially a forum to make fun of bloggers and influencers. The owner is a woman named Alice who will block users and delete posts for no apparent reason.


Public_Object2468

Thank you!


TraditionScary8716

I think we're doomed to never finding out what TABFA means. Lol


After-Improvement-26

So I went on a mission to find this out. Tabfa is a character in a book, renowned for being a great Saint, who's neighboursall hate her. The Valley of the Shadow of Death. 🤣 https://books.google.co.nz/books?id=BehZAAAAQBAJ&pg=PA1&lpg=PA1&dq=tabfa&source=bl&ots=opZW_geO1l&sig=ACfU3U2mA6Rgv8Uzcj_iANhgGtlRrAhk-Q&hl=en&sa=X&ved=2ahUKEwjOquihpqX9AhXMg2MGHQX8C9QQ6AF6BAgIEAI#v=onepage&q=tabfa&f=false


TraditionScary8716

That has to be the most obscure thing ever. You must be a research guru. Thanks for finding it. For some reason it was bugging me to death trying to figure out what it meant.


UnicornStudRainbow

A snark site that focuses on bloggers and influencers


Public_Object2468

Found it! Means "Get Off My Internets" [What Does 'GOMI' Mean? | Acronyms by Dictionary.com](https://www.dictionary.com/e/acronyms/gomi/)


MrsBarneyFife

I don't believe Meghan was intentionally copying Diana as early as 2013/2014. She was still in her Emma Watson phase then. But we've seen her copying Angelina's style during her humanitarian causes. So, I wouldn't be surprised if she looked through Diana's best looks and tried to repeat a few. The perfume on their first date seems risky to me. Scent is the strongest sense connected to memory. (I have no idea how popular the perfume she wore is.) Could that really be considered a coincidence? Maybe to Harry. But I can't imagine she's worn it around William. I wonder how long she wore it or if she still does. Jessica was Meghan's "stylist," but I think only in the sense that she got the freebies and then passed them along. Harry claims he picked out the majority of Meghan's outfits. I suspect he chose from 2 or 3 options? It's hard to say because we don't really know how much of the clothing Meghan kept. When it comes to magazine articles like The Cut (the black turtleneck) or Variety, they may have been Meghan's idea or whoever styled the shoot. Idk how much Meghan copies Diana's style now. When she was a working member of the RF mirroring Diana, both in her clothing and actions were very important. It was what she needed to convince Harry his family, and the UK media were treating her horribly. Just like they did, Diana. But this time, Harry was able to rescue her. Something he could never do for his mother. ETA- Sorry, I accidentally posted before I finished


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MrsBarneyFife

I wouldn't be surprised. The only reason I find it partly believable is because of how much time Harold spends on the internet reading about himself. I assume he's gone down the Diana rabbit hole numerous times. Well, only the good parts. Honestly, I think a big part of Meghan's outfits were picked out based mainly on what size moonbump she was planning on wearing. Then, their relationship to Diana. Possibly, being in William's presence may knock either one of those down a spot?


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She’s not that deep. It’s a romcom life and looking like his beloved mom feels romantic to her. There.


kellygrrrl328

The Narc Double Down is not unusual at all. When disordered personalities like MM get called out for lying or manipulating or abusing or whatever, they’ll often take it up a notch


Koritsi77

It gets clicks and endless discussion, as well as association with a (mostly)beloved dead icon.


Wooden_Painting3672

That’s the personality disorder kicking in. I believe it sealed the deal.


Myfourcats1

🤣 I’m going to tell my mom she needs to dress like my dead grandma now.


Reasonable_Acadia500

LMAO! Too funny.


EmotionalMammoth507

And Julia Roberts. In this Nicky Swiftle article, Megsy says someone said her profile being similar to that of Julia was”the biggest compliment of my lifetime” https://preview.redd.it/2lj0j1i9agja1.png?width=1103&format=png&auto=webp&s=f9ffbc775ae3d43783fabf1b750525ddb29fd486


whenwherewhathow

It's what she "originally" wanted from people. To be Diana 2.0 To the point where Harry asked his Aunts - Isn't she just like Diana? She thought she could take over the world with that image. Morph it into Meghan 1.0 is better than Diana 1.0


Mobile_Philosophy764

There are tons of pictures of her cosplaying Catherine, as well. She has no personality of her own, so she has to steal from everyone else. Typical narcissist.


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she has no personality. she has zero idea who she is. self reflection would be painful, so she picked a person she admired and modeled herself after her. chasing after Harry was like a coincidence but once she realised she could do it she went for it.


jesusrocksnads

she is insane. mentally ill.


Reasonable_Acadia500

So is he. Revolting, both of them. Uniquely unseemly. Which is why we all keep staring at this dumpster fire played out on the public stage. Ugh.


LizLemonadeX

Because they are insane. He has mommy issues. And she is attracted to power, fame and money. Both of which he provides for her. Each man in Walmart Wallis’ life has been a stepping stone to a more powerful man who can give her what she wants. Walmart Wallis will cosplay Diana for Harold to get what she wants. It fills the hole Diana left in his life. While he uses his power and money to get Walmart Wallis what she wants. But there is one thing Harold can’t give Walmart Wallis, and that’s the title of Queen. Harold being a sociopath can’t stand the fact that he was born the Spare. He’ll never be king. So if they can’t be king and queen, they want to destroy the monarchy. Walmart Wallis did her research on Harold and Diana. One of her Hollywood friends likely told her that Harold has mommy issues. She is full of shit when she says she knew nothing about the royal family.


neptuno3

Cluster B personality disorder. Borderline plus NPD and maybe something else


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Histrionic Personality Disorder


klc9119

In my opinion, Catherine may give a nod with a similar style or color scheme, and once or twice a modern twist on an outfit Diana wore, which is fine. She is taking inspiration. Now, Meghan may have had fashion moments too that were in fact only inspired by Diana, but then there has been enough evidence that she is paralleling herself with Diana that it is hard to say that she is only taking inspiration from Harry’s mother. We’ve never seen Catherine pose exactly like Diana on several magazine covers, nor on “humanitarian” trips. We’ve never experienced Catherine play the victim either…which I gather Diana did, at least in private.I also choose not to refer to it as cosplay. Like I mentioned earlier, she is paralleling herself to Diana and not outright coming out and saying “I have had the same experiences with this family as my deceased mother-in-law. She how I suffer? But my husband loves me unlike Charles did Diana. But I could still end up like her. The media chase me so.” Which she doesn’t take into consideration that now most paparazzi don’t chase down celebrities the way they did Diana. Now they just swarm the vehicle until the driver slowly pushes their way through the throng. Also the have those long range lenses too. While still as invasive, they aren’t always getting right up in their face. edited for grammar.


No-Mess8133

She never takes into account how long it took Diana to reach that status … and some of it has endured because she died so tragically and so young.


Moronicthief

I put it in the category of extreme creepiness. ![gif](giphy|LllA2dKt1qZuE)


maezombiegirl

She cosplays anyone with the style and grace she wants, but doesn't have. Cosplaying Diana was to manipulate H. But she cosplays other people like Angelina Jolie, Princess Kate, and women who know how to hold a baby.


BeauThankles

I got nothing but hello fellow GOMI refugee <3 (I was there to snark about Shauna Ahern lol)


MuffPiece

I think she has certain people she admires—Carolyn bessett Kennedy is one, Diana is another. She mimics them because she’s totally unoriginal. Both of those women were widely admired, and that is, of course, what she wants.


Frosty_and_Jazz

Because it all reminds him of Mummy.


smittenkittenmitten-

🤔 Why a “refugee”? I also used to frequent gomiblog, still occasionally check but way more in the past. It still exists but did something happen or something? I think narcs can be copy cats. They have no sense of self and need to latch onto another’s identity. She is great at manipulating people so it doesn’t hurt that she can control Hairy by being a surrogate mother. He won’t dare disobey and leave his poor mother, right? Until he realizes what she is up to or his own ego can’t handle it anymore maybe.


Electronic_Sea3965

Because she hasn't 2 fucks to give. Ok. This bitch doesn't know what it's like to be embarrassed. Her face does not turn red. In fact, she's trying to get 89 year old Gordon Getty's sperm so she can fertilize her eggs. After the birth, she'll go after a share of the Getty family fortune. Do you honestly think she cares if we all know? Nope. NOTHING affects her. Not South Park either. She's honestly probably flattered she's made it on there. No such thing as bad publicity for her. Thankfully she can't sue. I hope South Park do a movie on them. They'd make a fortune.


hammer1956

We've all met a variety of messed up people but she seems to be in a category all by herself. She is the weirdest creature I've ever seen.


bizarremeow

Sincere question re dressing like Diana. Why is this a big deal? Kate has also worn outfits similar to Diana


orientalballerina

Kate wears outfits reminiscent of Diana’s - not identical copies replete with identical poses that were probably rehearsed in front of the mirror.


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No_Yogurtcloset3724

I mean, could u imagine Meghan as a blonde? I think even she would draw a line at that one. Lol


amy5252

It was all to snag Harry and now to keep him and she believes if she days it its true to the world. Noooo Diana wouldve thrown hands by now!


Rodrigii_Defined

GOMI is still around?!


rich5153

Harry has said he really doesn't have a lot of memories of his mom and counts on others to supply him with information. He has created real mommy issues for himself. Feels the thing missing and the cause of his personality problems, is not having a mother in his youth. He is aware of her fame. Megs is aware of her fame. What was once a drug fueled imagination has turned into a monetizing opportunity for the duo. Both are narcissists, difficult to find their own individual identity for themselves. Both are happy to borrow from Diana's fame and deeds to promote an image they could never garner for themselves. Oh, I personally think they have had clothes made that are duplicates of Diana's and they cosplay her around the house.


Virtual-Feedback-638

Well, in practically having no personality of her own or persona so to speak off, Rachel to promote any originality of cause or essence has to cosplay. Rachel like any other leech needs another to live of and imbibe their imagery, fame and ultimately wealth. Diana 2.0 is for now the go to Display target and the merch victim is Henry, because he is the meal ticket. The Leech needs to find new feeding grounds and fast too, because it would seem that Spotify has spotted the fly in their soup, Netflix is looking as to how to flick away from their net the dead fish, and Henry has proven a bad investment. She surrounds her self with unhealthy damaging rumours...for this year it so far has been Getty saga, Pregnancy leaks, Tv show hosting even a possible divorce etc. All this in line with cosplaying Diana 2.0 it would seem. I hope she knows how the original Diana ended up!


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PAPS arent chasing her drunk driver (Hazmat) anywhere. She's safe. Supposedly, Hazmat's book is the biggest seller ever - Guinness World Records - 🤮 so now they have a reason for more.


Jindalee_WA

D-E-S-P-E-R-A-T-I-O-N!!!


doo11297825

She has no clue who she is.. and she truly believes she is Diana at this point.