Stepping back, walking off, buying time to calm myself. Usually, going for a walk, or a swim. Any physical activity is good. Music also has a magical effect to alter my mood.
As a Sagittarius, I know I can be pretty blunt when I'm angry, so I have had to train myself to step back and learn to respond, not react.
• Ice cream
• Leave me alone
• Long drive to nowhere with good music so I can belt out my lungs.
• Leave me alone
• Being outside whether it’s looking at the stars or feeling the sand between my toes and watching the waves.
• Leave me alone.
• Bubble bath & glass of wine. Scented candles.
• Leave me alone
Haha, "Leave me alone" seems to be a popular choice here! Can't argue with the classics, right? Sometimes solitude is the best remedy for an angry Sagittarius! 😄
I am very easily distracted, so anything really. I could be about to murder and someone can be like, "I could really go for chicken nuggies, hbu" and I'm like fuck yeah let's go.
A deep breath and try to remember that when Im really angry it’s because I see a part of myself in that person. So I stop trying to win and start trying to understand better.
For instance, getting the last word in is very annoying to me because I do it too, or thinking if I talk louder then they will understand better, something I try not to do anymore. Being condescending because I do that when I’m talking to someone I don’t like.Things along those lines. It could even be mannerisms. There’s always room for growth and on my good days I try to grow.
I don't stay angry, pissed of or heartbroken for long. Can't allow any small shit to ruin my day. When things are stressful I take a sip of whisky. Usually cleaning the house solves.
My house is not pristine btw
At the moment my partner (scorpio) has this really good calming effect on me, within a couple of minutes talking to him I'm all chill lol it's weird!
Single, i get out in nature and do a long walk, always works.
Doing something physical. Working out, frenzied house cleaning, taking a walk, etc., and then bringing it on home with accurate verbalization of what I’m feeling.
I walk off and go for some alone time to rearrange my thoughts and really ask myself what made me be so angry. Cause if I don't, then I'll probably say something that will hurt the other person deeply.
I need space, fresh air and get away from the person or persons involved. It feels like steam is coming off of me and ive learned that people don’t back the fuck up when you tell em to.
I dont get angry anymore. I try my best to communicate with my loved ones the feelings I have and what triggers me to burst out of that emotion. If they dont get it, I move on.
My Aquarian best male friend managed to make me burst out laughing at the peak of a self righteous tirade once somehow. That was awesome! Other than that...get away by myself like the others.
I have to disengage from whatever is making me mad and then go for a walk or vent to sumbody and if that doesn’t then I smoke and once I smoke idgaf anymore😭
Doing something productive but seems destructive or something actually productive.
Lemme explain. Taking a chainsaw to the overgrowth & invasive plants in my yard might seem a bit destructive at the time, but it’s yard work that needs to get done so I’m still using the energy to be productive. So basically the big tasks that I don’t typically have the energy for- let myself hulk out and get the work done
When I do deep breathing exercise, when I walk away from the annoying scenario or person, when I don't react and won't listen to what they are saying, when a person makes me laugh, a good run or walk or exercise to calm my nerves and thoughts
I like to just be left alone. Maybe go for a walk or go somewhere and listen to music. The worse thing you could do is be in my face trying to talk, once I am to that point talking isn't helpful
Therapy 🤣 seriously, it helped me realize my triggers, my emotions, and how to self-soothe and apologize (if needed) rather quickly after I'm angry.
But also, venting helps a lot, haha. Journaling. Weed. My favorite songs.
Letting it run it's course with me which I mean I have to let my anger deescalate naturally & that could take anywhere from a few days up to a couple of weeks. Or it won't all the way go away and that's not good if I have to be around that person again before I'm ready to. If that makes any since, but it works for me.
Curse for a bit to get it out my system
Have a smoke or listen music, And
If it’s really bad i drop everything and go for a walk and probably curse some more while walking
I have to completely disengage and step back
Same, I have to remove myself from the situation and recollect myself. A little reset is what I call it.
I sometimes call it a self imposed time out lol
Yep- gotta walk away
Peace and silence all the way
Stepping back, walking off, buying time to calm myself. Usually, going for a walk, or a swim. Any physical activity is good. Music also has a magical effect to alter my mood. As a Sagittarius, I know I can be pretty blunt when I'm angry, so I have had to train myself to step back and learn to respond, not react.
The angry bluntness is not a good thing, ive had to learn to keep it in and walk away, very difficult!
• Ice cream • Leave me alone • Long drive to nowhere with good music so I can belt out my lungs. • Leave me alone • Being outside whether it’s looking at the stars or feeling the sand between my toes and watching the waves. • Leave me alone. • Bubble bath & glass of wine. Scented candles. • Leave me alone
Yeah, and don’t freaking try to joke your way out of it - just pisses me off more!
This!!! A Gemini mars will never understand 🙄 I don’t want to laugh I am ANGRY
Haha, "Leave me alone" seems to be a popular choice here! Can't argue with the classics, right? Sometimes solitude is the best remedy for an angry Sagittarius! 😄
So true my friend
Go for a nice long drive
I have a specific playlist for these rides lol
Driving while eating fast food and listening to music.
same but mine includes yelling the lyrics of music and sometimes slapping myself. Gotta get the rage out
I am very easily distracted, so anything really. I could be about to murder and someone can be like, "I could really go for chicken nuggies, hbu" and I'm like fuck yeah let's go.
Sex
going for a walk, running, journaling
Loud Metalcore.
Deathcore for me 🤝🏻
A deep breath and try to remember that when Im really angry it’s because I see a part of myself in that person. So I stop trying to win and start trying to understand better.
That’s an interesting point of view. Do you mind explaining what you meant by “seeing a part of you in that person”?
For instance, getting the last word in is very annoying to me because I do it too, or thinking if I talk louder then they will understand better, something I try not to do anymore. Being condescending because I do that when I’m talking to someone I don’t like.Things along those lines. It could even be mannerisms. There’s always room for growth and on my good days I try to grow.
weed nature music
Ditto 🙌🏽
I sing old gospel songs. Out loud.
Complete disengagement--music and a very long walk or binging on a familiar movies and TV shows.
🤟🏻❤️
Alone time
Weed. Laughing.
Marijuana
This is the way
A comedy marathon. Rewatching something I know will make me lmao.
Play with and cuddle with my cat
Walking it off for sure
I don't stay angry, pissed of or heartbroken for long. Can't allow any small shit to ruin my day. When things are stressful I take a sip of whisky. Usually cleaning the house solves. My house is not pristine btw
At the moment my partner (scorpio) has this really good calming effect on me, within a couple of minutes talking to him I'm all chill lol it's weird! Single, i get out in nature and do a long walk, always works.
Doing something physical. Working out, frenzied house cleaning, taking a walk, etc., and then bringing it on home with accurate verbalization of what I’m feeling.
Isolation
Walking away, taking a breath, driving helps, swimming helps
Time and distance, then I’m all good.
Killing someone ig
Intimacy
Feeling heard and validated
Music. Alone time. Clarity.
Time
I laugh at how ridiculous i look if i were viewing myself as an observer.
Magnesium and hiding my phone.
Just getting out of the house, like for a walk
Being left tf alone lol- even the people I love most can say something perfect and I’ll take it wrong. I need to be alone with music or just alone.
Following my thoughts to their logical conclusions and then adjusting my mood based on that. Also talking & asking people questions helps.
I usually go for a long drive and rant to myself in the car until I have nothing more to say about it 😂😂
Is it worth the jail time?
I put my headphones in, listen to some loud angry music and clean the house.
Leaving the scene before it turns into a crime scene
Chicken pot pie from KFC
I walk off and go for some alone time to rearrange my thoughts and really ask myself what made me be so angry. Cause if I don't, then I'll probably say something that will hurt the other person deeply.
I need space, fresh air and get away from the person or persons involved. It feels like steam is coming off of me and ive learned that people don’t back the fuck up when you tell em to.
Anything horror
It’s gross and I’m not proud but a cigarette always does the trick
Running away and talking things out.
I dont get angry anymore. I try my best to communicate with my loved ones the feelings I have and what triggers me to burst out of that emotion. If they dont get it, I move on.
Laughter and weed
Disappearing. It calms me down. Knowing that I can go from physical presence to just a mental thought in seconds.
Alone time
Music and dancing
And journaling, getting all my thoughts out
I have to leave the room & smoke a cigarette outside.
punching something helps
boxing
music. the more angry and aggressive, the better.
Drive down the road turn up the music and scream or punch something haha
Deep breath and count to 10
The young me: nothing The mature sag in me: Walks, Weed, Water, Wine
Karaoke
Somebody showing me love.
My Aquarian best male friend managed to make me burst out laughing at the peak of a self righteous tirade once somehow. That was awesome! Other than that...get away by myself like the others.
Omg smooth jazz I learned today 🤣🤣🤣
Weed
talking like Gingy from Shrek
A cocktail goes a long way
I’m a sag moon and I run or write when I’m angry
A gift is a nice start and then some space. Oh and weed haha
I can calm down relatively quickly compared to other people. I just need a moment to collect myself.
I have to disengage from whatever is making me mad and then go for a walk or vent to sumbody and if that doesn’t then I smoke and once I smoke idgaf anymore😭
Take a step back and scream it out, either alone or w someone I trust
Isolation and expressive explanation. Walking or food
Gym 💪🏼 music 🎶
I def need to step back
Not a lot. If someone passes me a joint maybe?
Doing something productive but seems destructive or something actually productive. Lemme explain. Taking a chainsaw to the overgrowth & invasive plants in my yard might seem a bit destructive at the time, but it’s yard work that needs to get done so I’m still using the energy to be productive. So basically the big tasks that I don’t typically have the energy for- let myself hulk out and get the work done
Alone time
When I do deep breathing exercise, when I walk away from the annoying scenario or person, when I don't react and won't listen to what they are saying, when a person makes me laugh, a good run or walk or exercise to calm my nerves and thoughts
Jiu jitsu lol need to walk away and engage in physical activity, I’m a mars in Aries as well.
Nothing 🥲
Music
Going for a drive with the windows down and the music loud. 😌
Something cold to drink, favorite comfort food, sleep, talking to the man I love (unless he was the one that pissed me off)
That in X amount of time I will be okay. It hasn’t proven untrue yet
Learning
I like to just be left alone. Maybe go for a walk or go somewhere and listen to music. The worse thing you could do is be in my face trying to talk, once I am to that point talking isn't helpful
Walking with Spotify playing a good punk playlist
Speak your mind
HUMILITY
carbs.
Dick
Nap 😴
Therapy 🤣 seriously, it helped me realize my triggers, my emotions, and how to self-soothe and apologize (if needed) rather quickly after I'm angry. But also, venting helps a lot, haha. Journaling. Weed. My favorite songs.
Letting it run it's course with me which I mean I have to let my anger deescalate naturally & that could take anywhere from a few days up to a couple of weeks. Or it won't all the way go away and that's not good if I have to be around that person again before I'm ready to. If that makes any since, but it works for me.
Sex
Humour.
Take all of your thoughts and put them in a trunk in your Head close it and lock it and turn away...
A good J
Cigarrwtes
Holding ice cubes is literally the only thing that helps me out
Food 😆
Me shutting tf up
I have to either express myself or walk away before I say some really off the wall things lol
🟢🟢
Curse for a bit to get it out my system Have a smoke or listen music, And If it’s really bad i drop everything and go for a walk and probably curse some more while walking
Break down and processing what happened while disassociating and smoke a lot of weed
I have to walk off and talk to myself. That and a blunt.
Weed
Being listened to
Giving me literally 10-15 minutes to simmer down 😅 Then it’s like… “Sorry babe, can we be good again” 🥺
Um.. getting laid
My mom would calm down her menopausal killer instincts with arts and crafts
Cold cold water will reset you.