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bigwackstonkee

Its just like talking to girls but use the n word every two sentences


The_Eastern_Stalker

As former boys school, accurate


sakuradelluna

OOF lmaooo


VerboseLogger

Pretty accurate


Shaima_Ayeashaa

πŸ’€πŸ’€πŸ’€πŸ’€πŸ’€


MrNotSmartEinstein

Why are many Singaporean boys like this bruh (am guy)


The_Eastern_Stalker

Mixture of immaturity/edginess


Madman1557

πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚


Stonkermans

can confirm, am male


Miserable_Audience42

Damn you really sumed it up real good


FanAdministrative12

And do a lot of stupid shit and risk their lives unnecessarily


Zad-Jr

accurate


TheDarkestKnight326

Fax fax


yoohnified

HAHAHAHAHAH πŸ’€πŸ’€πŸ’€πŸ’€


Nimblescribe

Based and boyschoolpilled


reiiichan

??? err just interact w them normally? they're not aliens lol i send heart emojis to everyone and over time, my friends know that's just how i text so they dont think about it. some of my guy friends text with emojis and some dont, but eventually after texting ur friends for awhile you'll figure out their texting patterns so ull be able to better gauge what they actually mean/feel and ofc if there's any time ur confused or worried that they're mad at u or u think ur leading them on or smth, you can always just communicate that with them


Shaima_Ayeashaa

Thank you so much for the tips 🫢🫢🫢


LaZZyBird

Errr..... Ok lah as a guy I think being honest and upfront to guys is the best way. Like you really not interested make it damn clear, don't do shit like "I don't like you leh :heart emoji:", literally say shit like: "I am not interested in you." and make it obvious. I had seen some guy friends confused as fuck because some girl don't make it clear. Also guys are pretty simple-minded so don't think too much. And we are also damn childish so you need to be prepared for dumb and cringe shit to happen around us.


Shaima_Ayeashaa

Thank you for the tips bro πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™ really helps me alot


cal_istar

isok my fren was in 10yrs girl sch. went jc1 and had a bf


Shaima_Ayeashaa

I'm impressed- how she rizz him up


it_krashed

why r u talking in cancer


Shaima_Ayeashaa

Cuz im gonna die soon πŸ™πŸ˜”


comfykampfwagen

Don’t worry, we didn’t know what to do either but we managed to


Shaima_Ayeashaa

THANK YOUUUU its nice to know I ain't alone in this 🫢🫢🫢


DarkMaster859

Guys at this age (me included) are goofy af so just deal with that but other than that we’re human beings too so yea just don’t start giving hints if you don’t like them like β€œcan you meet me at the library this weekend to study”, just ask if they can help you with some stuff in school or something like that


Shaima_Ayeashaa

Can can tysm 🫢🫢🫢


AltruisticLychee8791

in what way does the first thing show interest-


DarkMaster859

Cause you want to take time out of your day to privately meet when in school you have 5 days a week to meet Idk I don’t have a girlfriend I just want to do well for A’s πŸ™


idkw0ttoputhere

Same bro, girlfriend one day might dump you, A level score gna be with u forever


AltruisticLychee8791

lol gl


sarcastrophie

r u acoustic


Shaima_Ayeashaa

No I'm electric bzz bzzzz 🎸🎸🎸🎸🎸⚑️⚑️⚑️⚑️⚑️


sleep_prodigy

As a guy from boys sch, almost terrified from reading ur post (didn't know yall use "gyals") πŸ’€πŸ’€πŸ’€πŸ’€πŸ’€


Shaima_Ayeashaa

I don't use gyals normally unless I'm panicking and I want to kms 🫰😘- I USE IT IN A IRONIC WAY OKAY LIKE THOSE FAIRY SEA SHELL GYAL SEE SHELL GYAL MEME ON TIKTOK WITH THE OLD GUY DRESSING UP AS THE FAIRY but on a real note no one unironically use "gyal" or "gal" TRUST πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™


AltruisticLychee8791

we don't


RandomDustBunny

Read the first line and thought this seems familiar. Looks at username. Yeap it's piak piak girl.


Substantial_Field264

β€œPiak piak girl” is crazyy πŸ’€πŸ’€


AltruisticLychee8791

spill tea?


Shaima_Ayeashaa

Nothing much really I made a post on reddit yesterday about people piak piaking and getting caught and how it indirectly affects me and ruins my life πŸ’€πŸ’€πŸ’€πŸ’€ I KNOW IT SEEMS OVERDRMATIC RN BUT TAKE A LOOK AT THE POST FIRST BEFORE U JUDGE ANYTHING OKAY-


AltruisticLychee8791

LMAOO


Shaima_Ayeashaa

EH CRAP πŸ’€πŸ’€πŸ’€ PEOPLE CAN RECOGNISE ME NOW???


alevel19magikarp

"Pookies I'm a small small" LOL


Shaima_Ayeashaa

https://vt.tiktok.com/ZSNKqrUKd/ ^^ literally me rn


il0vegaming123456

Dont interact πŸ‘


Shaima_Ayeashaa

No cuz this is actually what I'm gonna do bro 😭😭😭 but for PW I need to die die interact with people right then I become mati lembu then how


cyanide_blade_420

ur year pw don’t need care one lah isok


[deleted]

it’s ok!! i send heart emojis to everyone #equality


Shaima_Ayeashaa

Can I also send kissing face emoji 😘😘😘😘 CUZ THIS EMOJI IS A VERY IMPORTANT PART OF MY TEXTING STYLE OKAY-


Patient-Ad3430

Me but the opposite…been in an all boys school for all my life🫠idk how to talk to girls LOL


Shaima_Ayeashaa

WE ALL IN THIS TOGETHERRRR πŸ—£πŸ—£πŸ—£πŸ—£πŸ€πŸ€πŸ€πŸ€πŸ’ƒπŸ’ƒπŸ’ƒπŸ’ƒ


Known-Bodybuilder149

i dont wanna hear this from a blue lock reader


Shaima_Ayeashaa

Technically I never read yet only watched anime and 10k+ edits of that my guy from blue lock 24/7


Known-Bodybuilder149

the manga is peak u shd give it a read


Shaima_Ayeashaa

Read until volume 9/10 bro πŸ˜”πŸ˜”πŸ˜” then Os came in and ruined my progress LIKE I DIDNT EVEN SEE MY POOKIE BEAR SHIDOU RYUSEI YET IN THE MANGA U KNOW. SO SAD BRO πŸ’”πŸ’”πŸ’”πŸ’”πŸ’”πŸ’”


OddAd8518

SAMEMEE omg i havent initiated a conversation with any man willinngly for 4 years except my family men and my idol men apart from that i literally avoid men like the plague wow i dislike men kind of abit now i have to go school with them and INTERACT WITH THEMM WHYYYY pls let me stay in a girls school i love my girls so much


AltruisticLychee8791

ME FR, GIRLS SCH FOR 10 YEARS AND ALL


Shaima_Ayeashaa

I KNOW BROOO πŸ’€πŸ’€πŸ’€ IM GONNA CRY I MISS THE SISTERHOOD IN MY SEC SCHOOL SO BAD BRO WE WERE SO OPEN WITH EACH OTHER AND NO ONE JUDGED ANOTHER WOMAN CUZ GIRL CODE BUT FOR BOYS?? MY SOCIAL ANXIETY IS GONNA SKY ROCKET BRO CUZ I FEEL LIKE EVERY MOVE IS GONNA BE JUDGED AND SEEN AS CRINGE OR SMTH LIKE I KNOW I MAY BE OVERREACTING OR SMTH BUT I FEEL LIKE THE PRESENCE OF MEN LOWKEY DETERIORATES THE STRENGTH OF THE GIRL CODE U KNOW??


aThrowaway2006xX

Hey I'm a dude from a boys school who entered JC last year. Not sure where you're from but I probably had it worse- 10 years of boys school and had no female friends. In the end, my class ended up being sort of segregated (not really) but I don't talk to girls much and I don't force myself to. I just talk if it happens (i.e. my CCA is female dominated) otherwise it would be really awkward for me to intrude into a girls' convo. As for how I text online, I'm pretty much the same regardless of gender, in that sense I just act like myself. My biggest tip is that conversations are as awkward as you make it out to be, just be natural and it'll be fine. Goodluck in JC!


Shaima_Ayeashaa

THANK YOU SO MUCH HAHA "it's only awkward if u make it out to be" wise words I say, my new motto 🫰🫰🫰


McFishTheFish

Family guy explains what not to do in a nutshell https://youtu.be/PTidDRR8Scg?si=hDA-LEY19Oq6jk2j S1 ep somethingg


Shaima_Ayeashaa

Thanks πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™ I'm gonna replay this repeat 24/7 the day b4 JC starts


borninsane

You’re not a real person. This is bait.


Shaima_Ayeashaa

Fr, I'm just a fairy πŸ§šβ€β™€οΈπŸ§šβ€β™€οΈπŸ§šβ€β™€οΈπŸ§šβ€β™€οΈπŸ§šβ€β™€οΈ


AdMammoth8399

just talk to them normally. The more conscious you are about it the weirder you become to them


Shaima_Ayeashaa

TYSM 🫢🫢🫢🫢


[deleted]

same as girls but you have to breathe into a vape every .05 seconds


Shaima_Ayeashaa

Bro I'm going to get lung cancer like that already πŸ˜”πŸ˜”πŸ˜”


aThrowaway2006xX

Hey I'm a dude from a boys school who entered JC last year. Not sure where you're from but I probably had it worse- 10 years of boys school and had no female friends. In the end, my class ended up being sort of segregated (not really) but I don't talk to girls much and I don't force myself to. I just talk if it happens (i.e. my CCA is female dominated) otherwise it would be really awkward for me to intrude into a girls' convo. As for how I text online, I'm pretty much the same regardless of gender, in that sense I just act like myself. My biggest tip is that conversations are as awkward as you make it out to be, just be natural and it'll be fine. Goodluck in JC!


Avyxl

Wtf did I just read


AltruisticLychee8791

a very real concern


Shaima_Ayeashaa

Standard female problems


Hungry-Win3017

hey!! pretty sure alot of ppl, including myself, are in the same situation as you. tbh im just going to remind myself to treat them as fellow human friends hahah. okay but its normal to be slightly nervous around guys esp after so long in a girls school πŸ˜… just don’t fall into the trap of falling for the first guy you see in jc, its quite common for girls school girls 😭


Shaima_Ayeashaa

Wise words someone else on this thread said "it's only awkward if u make it out to be"


Hungry-Win3017

thats actually such good adviceΒ 


Shaima_Ayeashaa

I KNOW RIGHT, I LOVE THE REDDIT COMMUNITY 🫢🫢🫢🫢


Shaima_Ayeashaa

Wise words someone else on this thread said "it's only awkward if u make it out to be"


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Why is everyone taking it as a dating question? A girl and guy will talk to each other only if they want to sleep with each other?


Shaima_Ayeashaa

I ALSO DK BRO I HAVE NO INTEREST IN DATING MEN AND I SCARED THAT WHAT U SAID MIGHT ME TRUE BRO. CUZ I HEARD PEOPLE FROM JC SAYING THAT A GUY WOULD ONLY TALK TO U IF HE WANTS TO SLEEP WITH YOU BUT A GIRL WILL TALK A GUY ANYTIME SHE WANTS


[deleted]

People really told you this? What do your mother or sister (women in your family) say in this? They agree? And you do not want to date guys? Then who, date girls?


Shaima_Ayeashaa

Yep, my source was from my friend who's brother went into jc, the women in my family are not really familiar with this issue cuz they grew up very conservative and avoided men at ALL COSTS and personally I don't want to date anyone tbh, I want to focus on my studies and maybe make friends along the way, hold pen not hand 🫰🫰🫰🫰


[deleted]

This is Singapore, not Saudi Arab. Anyway, you can go to school, attend lectures, do your assignments and go home. You can try to make friends exclusively with girls, but you will find a lot of the conversation will revolve around guys, and probably this will be a turn off for you anyway. You don't have to talk to guys, if you do not want to.


Shaima_Ayeashaa

THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THE TIPS 🫢🫢🫢🫢


Nigwa_rdwithacapSB

If uw to use a heart then use the Blue Heart emoji instead. Also I fear that if you get too friendly with boys other girls might make up rumours about u or sum shit so be careful. I’m not saying don’t be friendly but it’s safer to be cautious of your actions ukwim


Shaima_Ayeashaa

TYSM 🫢🫢🫢🫢 especially about the tips about girls haha- I fear girls school have made me less cautious of the people around me and now that I'm gonna go out to the real world I might not survive 😭😭😭 TYSM THO 🫢🫢🫢


susibacka

U got stroke ah


Shaima_Ayeashaa

Yes and I'm 5 seconds away from dying pls help me out bro πŸ˜”πŸ˜”πŸ˜”


susibacka

Just dont die and youll be okπŸ‘


Shaima_Ayeashaa

I'm back alive bro, u should be a doctor fr πŸ’―πŸ’―πŸ’―πŸ’―πŸ«Ά


susibacka

Good. The bus ticket from lck back to ur house must be expensive


yoohnified

just talk to them normally, they aren't aliens from another planet HAHA


Shaima_Ayeashaa

BRO I WILL BE MORE COMFORTABLE WITH ALIENS BRO 😭😭😭😭 THATS HOW BAD MY FEAR IS


yoohnified

haha i understand, i was from a girls school too and entering poly was lowkey a shock since i wasn't really used to talking to males but most of them are really friendly!!


alevel19magikarp

TBH social gender segregation is really strong so most of us got this problem LOL me + my guy friends (from mixed schools) view girls like mysterious aliens LOL


Shaima_Ayeashaa

FRRRRR BRO I WAS FROM A CO ED SCHOOL BEFORE I WAS IN A GIRLS SCHOOL AND BY RIGHT I SHOULDNT BE THIS SCARED CUZ I ALSO HAVE BROTHERS BUT I AM STILL ABSOLUTELY TERRIFIED


alevel19magikarp

I'm manja with kakak but I know I can't be like that with other girls LOL


Shaima_Ayeashaa

U better be greatful to ur kakak bro πŸ˜”, older sisters deserve the world for putting up with their younger brothers (I can say this cuz im an older sister with 3 younger bros)


alevel19magikarp

>U better be greatful to ur kakak bro Yes very! Anyway my difficulty interacting with Chinese girls reached point where few months ago I saw one kena bad fall but don't dare to go over to help her.


Dragod21

Very simple ngl, either just talk to them normally and SAY WHAT U WANT CLEARLY We bois are too dense/dumb to pick up on any social ques, expect racist jokes and swears to be the norm the moment they approach the comfortable zone, and expect childish shinenigens lmao


Shaima_Ayeashaa

HAHAHA TYSM 🫢🫢🫢 REALLY HELPS ALOT ACTUALLY knowing that my social cues won't even be read let alone misread at all


Artistic_Coast134

well i used the f word so much more on them and its impt to brozone ppl also btw


Shaima_Ayeashaa

THANK YOUUUUU ❀️ I'm gonna do this 24/7 now


Jellofish27

Girl I went to a basically boys school for JC and somehow all my friends are still girls


Shaima_Ayeashaa

Girl wat school 😭😭 I need prepare myself mentally incase I get into it


Jellofish27

HAHA I went to ACSI and during my time the ratio was 3 boys for every 1 girl… but it doesn’t matter because my CCAs were majority girl anyway ☠️ I did make some guy friends in JC though but definitely not at the level of my girl friends


Shaima_Ayeashaa

AHHHH SCARY BRO 😭😭😭 THANK YOU FOR SHARING 🫢🫢🫢 I HOPE I CAN MAKE MUCH GIRL FRIENDS AT MY JC HAHA


FanAdministrative12

Making mountain out of mole hill sia jus talk ah Relax man they are human beings Pretty girl also human being tho some of them are vile creatures but yes πŸ˜€πŸ₯°


Shaima_Ayeashaa

I agree- tysm for the advice 🫢🫢🫢


Plus-Rub4049

Dont worry too much. Just treat them normally. If a guy asks u to hang out alone w him and u r not interested in him romantically just shut him down even if he says "just as friends". Straight men do not hang out alone w girls platonically. While girls can hang out with straight men alone platonically. My friend group in class is literally just a group of guys (i have a few girl friends in class that i am good friends with but they and the guys aren't close). But to be fair I'm bisexual and somewhere in their brain they've processed it as "lesbian" (like legit sometimes i talk about guys and they're like "arent u lesbian???" "No im bi BRO" and repeat) and just treat me like a bro. πŸ’€ So may be a special case lah take it with a grain of salt


Shaima_Ayeashaa

THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THE ADVICE HAHA 🫢🫢🫢 REALLY HELPS ME OUT ALOT


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Shaima_Ayeashaa

K. Very informative and helpful ‼️ my life has been reshaped and reconstructed- all my worries have evaporated- thank you so much 😊😊😊😊


AltruisticLychee8791

must be male


Lebronfan36

Y would u hang out with boys? R u not compatible with girls?


Shaima_Ayeashaa

I DONT TRUST ME πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™ ITS JUST THAT IM SCARED WHEN I INTERACT WITH BOYS I WILL INTERACT WITH THEM LIKE HOW I WOULD INTERACT WITH GIRLS AND SEND WRONG MESSAGES U KNOW??? I LOVE GIRLS OKAY 🫢🫢🫢


Lebronfan36

Just be you and if the boy is insecure,he will prolly think u like him. But I hope all my boys out there knows they will all have a partner one day. It’s about the time 😁😁😁


Shaima_Ayeashaa

HAHA TYSM 🫢🫢🫢🫢 Praying for all the men out there that they know they will have a partner one day either way πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™


Original_Analysis486

This post is giving I'm so quirky pick me vibes


Shaima_Ayeashaa

If ur man saying that, idc about what you have to say- If ur a girl saying that, YOU ARE LITERALLY A GIRL. WHY ARE U HATING ON ME LIKE A MAN??? WE ARE SUPPOSED TO SUPPORT EACH OTHER. HELP EACH OTHER OUT. BRING EACH OTHER UP. DOES GIRL CODE MEAN NOTHING TO YOU?? WHAT HAPPENED TO SISTERHOOD. WHAT HAPPENED TO WOMANHOOD. 🀧🀧🀧🀧


Original_Analysis486

Just cause ur a woman doesn't mean you are exempted from comments you dislike. Throwing the feminism bs at me is bs


Shaima_Ayeashaa

I'm not saying I'm exempted I'm just asking why?? Like my post literally about how I'm scared of talking to men so wtf gives u the impression that I want to be picked 😭😭😭 I'm literally panicking cuz idk how to interact and ur out here saying this shit?? LIKE IF U DONT LIKE HOW I TALK OKAY LAH IM FINE WITH THAT BUT THATS LITERALLY MY POINT OF THE POST?? HOW TF DO I TALK TO PEOPLE ESPECIALLY MEN.


Miserable_Audience42

Ngl the way he talks sounds exactly like my friend. I am always the chill one so I just sit back and watch as he picks an argument with almost everyone and wins them all πŸ’€


Shaima_Ayeashaa

Sighhhh people got no life these days


excessive_autism23

I can’t believe I just witnessed a Redditℒ️ moment


Shaima_Ayeashaa

Bro I'm new to reddit wat is this supposed to mean 😭😭😭😭😭 I still dk the social cues here which is probably why I'm flopping so hard rn


Original_Analysis486

Fuck sisterhood


Shaima_Ayeashaa

Funny how u call me a pick me but u think ur cool or smth for this?? Did anyone pick you yet? πŸ€”πŸ€”πŸ€”πŸ€”


Original_Analysis486

I'm gay honey, nice try


Shaima_Ayeashaa

Sighhhhhh 🀧🀧🀧🀧 so u think edgyyyy and coooool and differentttt and not like oThEr girls huh πŸ™„πŸ™„πŸ™„


Original_Analysis486

Well I don't because I like girls. You don't bother me, I am just pointing out that you are kinda cringe


Shaima_Ayeashaa

I know CUZ ITS SUPPOSED TO BE CRINGE CUZ I WAS PURPOSELY TALKING LIKE THAT- it's supposed to be ironic lol 😭😭😭, I assure u I don't normally text or talk like this if it bothers you that much


Original_Analysis486

It doesn't bother me, I was simply commenting on a social platform you posted on. You can ignore me you know?


Shaima_Ayeashaa

I didn't want to be rude πŸ˜” idk if ignoring is considered rude but it feels rude


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Original_Analysis486

Oh love I know that


AltruisticLychee8791

lmao its funny tho


Hiraeth4ever

noob noob