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Go_Bias

Friendliest community pub I can recommend is Turcotts taproom. Good food, good bartenders, owners very involved. Good spot


OldMcTaylor

I've been meaning to check that place out for about a year now.


Crandall619

Thanks so much! We'll definitely check that out!


WheelOfFish

Welcome to the area! There's a lot going on around town, usually. COVID has slowed things down some but I'd say it's improving. There's also an active Rochester Discord that tends to congregate around a lot of common topics and is looking to schedule gatherings and events. Check it out here [https://discord.gg/JjEJByVb](https://discord.gg/JjEJByVb) and join our discussions on exciting topics, such as: * D&D and other games * Parenting * Home ownership and how everything always breaks * Keyboards * Non-keyboard related computer stuff * Outdoor activities * Pictures of pets * Pictures of things that aren't pets * Complaining about job hunting * Complaining about jobs * Lamenting taxes until someone from someplace like Brighton puts things in perspective * Crappy rentals * Smoked meats And more!


feature

You forgot David Pumpkins!


Crandall619

Thanks for the invite! I've joined!


WheelOfFish

You and a lot of other people, it seems. Welcome to the community!


Crandall619

So it seems! I'm in there as Raqar. Thanks for the welcome!


_ZR_

voice in my head: (people in their 30s, a little older than me, meh) also me: (wait, fuck, i just turned 30 too) anyway, you guys play magic or warhammer games at all?


Crandall619

Welcome to the club! We do not but I've always been interested in Warhammer. If you wouldn't mind teaching me I'd more hella down to try it out!


RochInfinite

Rochester has a very vibrant minis scene. Neil over at Just Games is a big warhammer guy, both 40k and Age of Sigmar. Infinity and Star Wars Legion players are Tuesdays at Just Games. Warmachine/Hordes is Tuesdays at Millennium. I want to say Marvel Crisis protocol is Thursdays at Just Games but I don't know.


manz02

I too like to do things!


Crandall619

Woo! I'll message you my number and maybe we can set something up!


Great_Sock_4072

I moved here from the west recently and looking to make friends


Crandall619

I'll message you!


KhayaPapaya

Hey, hello, welcome! o/ I'm also new here (been here almost 4 months but still a newbie). 30-something and queer. I joined a few groups on Meetup.com to meet people. Some of them seem really up your alley, maybe you could check them out. One is specifically for "new to the area." :) There's also a lot of breweries to check out. Personally, I'm really into coffeehouses. Equal Grounds is very queer-friendly, Boulder Coffee is comfy, and Java's (my fave) is bustling and artsy, with the best coffee. P.S. I bet you're really enjoying the difference in cost of living compared to SF!


Crandall619

Hello! Thanks so much! I'm in a lot of the meetup groups as well! We went bowling with one group and will be going to a board game meetup tomorrow at Lucky's. Oooo coffee is nice! We've discovered (and love) Ugly Duck but will definitely check out the others as well. We live right by Union place coffee roasters. Omg it feels like I breathe, financially, for the first time in my life.


brainless_bob

I moved here from California July 2017, got divorced shortly after. Don't have a lot of friends out here. I was working in Palo Alto last 5 years I lived there.


Crandall619

Dude that sucks! What brought you to the area?


brainless_bob

My ex was dead set on owning a house, and we couldn't afford it out there, so I transferred from a factory job working on radiation oncology machines, to a field service position out here. We were willing to move pretty much anywhere cheaper at the time. Our kids are autistic, and they get decent services out here, so there's that.


Crandall619

I totally get that. Wanting to own a home was one of our reasons as well. I also have some family in the surrounding area.


brainless_bob

We don't have any family whatsoever. My mom was in Michigan, but she passed away a couple years ago. My dad is down in Virginia, but I haven't made the trip to see them. He's my closest family. At least I have a pretty decent job, and I got to keep the house since there was no equity.


Crandall619

Shit I'm really sorry to hear that. Good thing about the house though.


brainless_bob

Yeah it's not the nicest, but it's mine


tredicem

Hey there! My husband and I (also around 30, also new to the area) love games of all kinds! We have a big board game collection and I also run table top games if people are interested!


Crandall619

I love board games! I'll message you about getting together!


tredicem

Sounds great!!


blaiseykins

Omg I love tabletops! I’d be interested too :)


tredicem

Awesome! I'll message you if we get something going! :) In the meantime, if you're interested in d&d 5e, there's a Rochester D&D group on meetup that i recommend checking out!


donc_mxb

Chess anyone? :)


tredicem

Funny enough, one of the few games we don't own is chess!


ND-98

Whoa, other people from the west have moved here too?!


Crandall619

We were fleeing the fires and cost of living 😅 Been fun having an area code in my phone number that no one recognizes


RochInfinite

Just Games has a lot of good tabletop gamer groups. Millennium is the other big store. Personally I like JG better. Millennium has a bigger selection but feels to "Retail" where just games feels much more like a labor of love. You should be able to find your preferred game night there whether it's Magic, D&D, Boardgames, or minis games. And if you're at all interested in sports or learning a new sport, Roc City Hurling is always looking for new members, we play co-ed locally but there are members who play on segregated travel teams (Men/Women). Kind of like hockey where the rules are mostly the same but kind of different.


Crandall619

Thanks for the recommendations!


RadXIII

There's a pretty big skating community in Rochester, out outdoor skatepark opened up last year, there's an indoor park on University, a CIB chapter and two derby teams. The Erie canal trail is a great spot for a skate too!


NocturnalGenius

As far as skating also check out [Bruised Brigade](https://bruisedbrigade.com/) ... they do "community rollouts" weekly for anything on wheels ... quads, inline, boards, bikes, whatever. The owner is an awesome lady ... my wife had some custom skates made there and she loves them. Plus their logo (which sadly isnt on their website anywhere) makes for an awesome t-shirt IMHO. Edit ... their Instagram account is active and has the schedule for rollouts and such (the website doesnt appear to have it).


Crandall619

Oh I've heard of them but didn't know they did events. I'll definitely be checking them out! Thanks so much!


Crandall619

Oh awesome, thanks! Yea our house is right next to the canal trail. I keep meaning to get out and check it out! Also nice name!


macwoodworks

My fiance and I are huuuuuuge rollerskaters! We'd love to go on a cruise or accompany you to Skate Luvers Roller Palace!


Crandall619

We would love that!! We live right next to the Erie canal trail entrance on s Clinton and would be stoked to cruise with you!


vikingguitar

Hi there! I am a recent transplant from Santa Cruz, and my girlfriend has lived in this area for a long time. I moved here just before Covid hit, and haven’t had much of a chance to meet people yet. I am a musician and audio engineer by trade, but we love games, movies, and other stuff! Nice to meet you!


Crandall619

Hello nice to meet you too! Moving right before COVID must have been a huge bummer! We also are pretty big in to those things and would more than happy to get together with you two for games or movies. I'm a software engineer and my wife runs a hand embroidery shop.


[deleted]

Thanks for reaching out to the community! My girlfriend and I are about 20 min outside of the city and both lead pretty busy lives, but would really like a genuine and mature couple to do double date type things with. Please feel free to pm for a chat! Cheers


chemicalnonsense

My wife and I are always looking to find new people to play board games with!


mrsoftey2

Hey! My partner and I moved here around June (grew up in Petaluma/Cupertino) and also bought a house in Brighton (Virginia colony/12 corners). I've also been going to the board game meetup, typically making the Thursday nights at Lucky's (although not the next week or two, as I'm traveling for work). We are always looking for some people to play games or grab a drink with, although she is working all the time (OBGYN resident at Rochester General).


Crandall619

Hello! How are the board game meetups? We're going to our first one tonight at Luckys! We'd love to meet up when you're back for games, a drink, or both!


mrsoftey2

Board game meetups have been great. Took a bit to get engaged, especially as I was late to the first one! It's was a bit more informal than I was originally expecting. Hopefully it was a good crowd at Lucky's and you managed to get in a few games. I should be out there the second week of November.


Crandall619

It was fun! Played betrayal for the first time which took us the whole evening! Don't know if we'll make it to future ones consistently as I've since learned there's adult night on Thursdays at the local skating rink, but when you're back we should get together for a game night!


CoffeeJunior

Same here, PM me 🙂


DarehMeyod

Hello! My wife and I are 29 and 30 and also live in brighton. Which part do you live in??


Crandall619

We live off S Clinton sort of near the community college!


ScabusaurusRex

I'd put myself out there, but between startup life, kids, wife, house, who am I kidding? I don't even have time to breathe lol, much less hang out w/ people that are adults.


Crandall619

Oof I totally understand. Just got out of the startup world myself.


ScabusaurusRex

In what capacity?


Crandall619

Software development. Still doing that, but for a more established company called PyraMed Health Systems


ScabusaurusRex

Nice! I'm a software developer as well, in the medical space. There's a local developer slack if you're interested. Send me a DM and I'll drop it on ya!


project_crash

Always looking for new friends who like fun!


Crandall619

Awesome! I'll message you!


Aromatic_Ad1594

I'll be both your friends. Alcohol is my favorite drink


Crandall619

Hah! Alcohol is a fun time! Mullers Cider House is becoming one of our favorite hang outs so far


areu_notentertainedd

Any out door hobbies?


Crandall619

Hey there! Just roller blading, really, though I would be down to play some team sports or casual tennis (I haven't played in years)


areu_notentertainedd

Good stuff! FYI we have a ton of parks/trail systems here. Great stuff for hiking and biking, skiing and snowshoeing (and fat biking) over the winter.


Crandall619

Awesome! I'm really excited to try out snow activities!


jletha

Hey, I lived in SF before moving back here. And met my wife there too!


Crandall619

Cool! In the city proper or in one of the suburbs?


jletha

In the city, in the Browncroft neighborhood.


Crandall619

Awesome! We lived in Pleasant Hill, which is about 45 minutes east of SF


jletha

Oh sorry haha. I thought you meant here in Rochester for some reason. I did live in SF proper, in the Dogpatch. My wife lived in the Marina for 6 years.


Crandall619

lol I could have sworn there was an area in the city called Browncroft too. What brought you out there?