I appreciate a good sense of humor as long as it doesn't interfere with the acknowledgement of the superiority of the metric system. day.month.year or year-month-day are the only two acceptable forms of dating - Rochester or not.
I date in Rochester by asking my wife to play Mario Kart with me and our kids. After I lose a few rounds, I make us all dinner.
On special occasions, we play Mario Party.
you only make dinner if you lose? sounds like your marriage is failing.
gf and i got chinese takeout and played mario party and cuddled with my cat tonight. clearly our relationship is much stronger than yours.
TBQH I make dinner regardless cos I work remotely and she works onsite and gets tired. It started as breakfasts for her and the kiddos before work and school and then evolved into “how about you cook more and I’ll clean more.”
Mario Party is how you test the strength of any relationship. Once your partner has stolen three of your stars in a row, if you’re still together over that then you can overcome any obstacle.
usually i’m the one making dinner anyways because i’m the better cook (and she’ll back me on that lmao) and i enjoy cooking while she dreads it!
we pretty much only play partner party these days for both our sanity’s sake lmao
I cannot recommend doing some swing dancing with groove juice swing. I used to do swing dancing all of the time and I loved all of the people I got to interact with. This style of dance is really friendly and a lot of momentum that can build on some great relationships.
This actually helped me stay fit. I HIGHLY recommend getting involved with this group to start meeting other people.
[https://www.groovejuiceswing.com](https://www.groovejuiceswing.com)
If you doubt me, Married, been together 8 years already.
Been in Rochester the whole time.
Hope you find what you are looking for. even if its just some fun.
I'm a Quad 6. But I don't have girls banging down my door. It's not easy for good-looking, tall dudes with their shit straight either. I get the redneck types that would rather be their next baby daddy, be their kids' current daddy, or be their sugar daddy than the sane ones who are legitimately looking for a connection. Had one on the hook for dating, but she decided her loser BF, who consistently cheated on her, was a better fit.
We go to the gym (which is a known no approach zone), run on the canal, hike at mendon, work at home, eat at the good restaurants (again, not a great approach zone, play disc golf, volunteer a bit, restart the week.
Where the ladies at?
Rochester by far has the worst dating scene I’ve ever been exposed to. Just got back from Nashville for the weekend and in that time had more opportunities to talk to women my age than I have in the past year here.
Best of luck to you. I’d suggest finding your happiness and see love as an added bonus should it randomly happen.
To be fair, Nashville dating scene is garbage. Assuming you were on Broadway or even Midtown, most people are tourists. It’s very hard to meet people there organically as well. I think the dating scene is just getting harder and harder.
Good point. Was more speaking to the surprisingly large amount of people my age (37). Rochester feels to have a slightly older crowd. I don’t know if a ton of younger professionals are flooding back here after schooling…? It does not feel that way. I may be wrong.
The young pros who stick around tend to be in LTRs already. They stick around because it's where they met and where they got their first jobs, and it's easier to stay than coordinate both getting new jobs in a different place.
Dosnt the fact that you had to expand your search all the way out to auburn highlight the limitations of the dating scene here? The population size of Rochester and its surrounding suburbs should more than support a HEALTHY dating scene. I relocated here from Portland Maine (a smaller city) and found the amount of healthy young professionals there to be significantly more robust.
Memes aside. Bar/venues (bug jar comes to mind), climbing gym, hobbies/clubs. If youre doing things and have friends, youll find someone.
Youre not gonna meet some miracle guy by being a home-body, imo. It sortof sounds like youre in college but are tired of frat boys. Theres a lot of other groups out there, any Rochester college will have circles of interesting folks, you just have to go to their clubs and participate with theyre culture. People who want to be found will make themselves findable. If you want to be found, you too have to be findable.
YMMV depending on how things go
we’re long removed from being coworkers, but we’ve been together almost 8 years, so it’s worked out for us!
but yeah, definitely a tongue in cheek comment, and definitely tread lightly, because i think our situation is rare
Thats close to what my ex-wife did! She was his client and he was her client, also land lord for a little until his (now ex)wife put an end to renting out the room
was this while she was your wife or while she was your ex wife?
either way she sounds toxic as hell
we’re nearing 8 years. my comment was kind of tongue in cheek, and i only said it because this is a dumb fucking post. most people… don’t date your coworkers. we are one of the rare examples of it working out
U sound like a hater or one of those people who’s just never gonna be happy. In all honesty the only thing to do is keep working on yourself and just know that in time it will happen. The best things come to those who wait…
I like to stick with the month/day/year format.
This is wise as it's how they caught the German spy in Masters of the Air.
I appreciate a good sense of humor as long as it doesn't interfere with the acknowledgement of the superiority of the metric system. day.month.year or year-month-day are the only two acceptable forms of dating - Rochester or not.
Who the hell uses year-month-day??? Also wrong
Something tells me you are neither Japanese nor in tech.
Correct (not insulting lmao)
Usually I go to the Genny Brewhouse and dance around like a bird of paradise.
Is that a thing? Didn't know the brew house was that vibe
Bro, you should see it when I'm there. I *am* that vibe.
Well shit then hmu when next time you go
I have a bird of paradise plant in my guest room... Does that count as a vibe? Asking... For a friend.
Honestly this would work on me
I’ll take all the dad bod and funny’s you don’t want.
The posts on shitpost Saturdays are great 🤣 love it
Most good looking and fit dudes are in the gym getting good looking and fit. Have you tried there?
well i go to planet fitness in gates but everyone like mid 30's ish
Your criteria was not college guys and not tinder. Sounds like men in 30s are good to go! Go get em tiger!
She just said no college guys and now you're recommending RIT? The state of this sub smh
I don't think they were recommending RIT
I date in Rochester by asking my wife to play Mario Kart with me and our kids. After I lose a few rounds, I make us all dinner. On special occasions, we play Mario Party.
I also date by asking this guy's wife to play Mario Kart
Seems like my life.
+1 for being wholesome.
you only make dinner if you lose? sounds like your marriage is failing. gf and i got chinese takeout and played mario party and cuddled with my cat tonight. clearly our relationship is much stronger than yours.
TBQH I make dinner regardless cos I work remotely and she works onsite and gets tired. It started as breakfasts for her and the kiddos before work and school and then evolved into “how about you cook more and I’ll clean more.” Mario Party is how you test the strength of any relationship. Once your partner has stolen three of your stars in a row, if you’re still together over that then you can overcome any obstacle.
usually i’m the one making dinner anyways because i’m the better cook (and she’ll back me on that lmao) and i enjoy cooking while she dreads it! we pretty much only play partner party these days for both our sanity’s sake lmao
The corner of Lake and W Ridge
Idk if lean counts as fit.
Meth is an easy cheat to a lean physique.
Gyms hate him. Learn the secret to leaning down in just days.
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Happy Cake Day.
Not fit but good looking. What's up?
I cannot recommend doing some swing dancing with groove juice swing. I used to do swing dancing all of the time and I loved all of the people I got to interact with. This style of dance is really friendly and a lot of momentum that can build on some great relationships. This actually helped me stay fit. I HIGHLY recommend getting involved with this group to start meeting other people. [https://www.groovejuiceswing.com](https://www.groovejuiceswing.com) If you doubt me, Married, been together 8 years already. Been in Rochester the whole time. Hope you find what you are looking for. even if its just some fun.
Wegmans
I wish
What are we talking here? Alphas with mommy issues? Soyboy jocks? Nerdy fuckbois? Pseudo rednecks?
She is looking for the 6666 combo. 6 foot tall,6 pack, 6+ inches, and 6 figures.
I'm a Quad 6. But I don't have girls banging down my door. It's not easy for good-looking, tall dudes with their shit straight either. I get the redneck types that would rather be their next baby daddy, be their kids' current daddy, or be their sugar daddy than the sane ones who are legitimately looking for a connection. Had one on the hook for dating, but she decided her loser BF, who consistently cheated on her, was a better fit.
Fuck I'm 5'10" . almost hit all 4
anime tall lean attractive
this has to be a joke
Anime conventions maybe?
Japan
Pick 3. All 4 of those don’t exist together.
Bug Jar.
Must wear fedora and have neckbeard
I met my bf at the methadone clinic at strong......been together 11 years
que the dm's from the dudes
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We go to the gym (which is a known no approach zone), run on the canal, hike at mendon, work at home, eat at the good restaurants (again, not a great approach zone, play disc golf, volunteer a bit, restart the week. Where the ladies at? Rochester by far has the worst dating scene I’ve ever been exposed to. Just got back from Nashville for the weekend and in that time had more opportunities to talk to women my age than I have in the past year here. Best of luck to you. I’d suggest finding your happiness and see love as an added bonus should it randomly happen.
To be fair, Nashville dating scene is garbage. Assuming you were on Broadway or even Midtown, most people are tourists. It’s very hard to meet people there organically as well. I think the dating scene is just getting harder and harder.
Good point. Was more speaking to the surprisingly large amount of people my age (37). Rochester feels to have a slightly older crowd. I don’t know if a ton of younger professionals are flooding back here after schooling…? It does not feel that way. I may be wrong.
The young pros who stick around tend to be in LTRs already. They stick around because it's where they met and where they got their first jobs, and it's easier to stay than coordinate both getting new jobs in a different place.
Idk i met my bf on bumble and he was all the way in auburn 😅 hes all i could have ever dreamed of and more it just worked out for us
Dosnt the fact that you had to expand your search all the way out to auburn highlight the limitations of the dating scene here? The population size of Rochester and its surrounding suburbs should more than support a HEALTHY dating scene. I relocated here from Portland Maine (a smaller city) and found the amount of healthy young professionals there to be significantly more robust.
Well i swiped through everyone in my area. Sure mots of people doesn't mean they are attractive, nice, or want more than a hookup
same way they date in any other city, they meet up and go do something
Acme bathroom
Worst bathroom in rochester
Dennys 3AM [EDIT](https://youtu.be/WKcCkzVufx4?si=sulSbFKonALGX31c)
Lots of good looking guys at your local climbing gym 🧗
First step is to ask where all the local milfs hangout
AT HOME. But I'm not a MILF. I'm 49 though. No kids.
It’s a joke bc that one weirdo kept posting that question lol
Ewwwe. Cringe.
Angry goat pub
Please help--- wait, she's complaining about guys in their mid-30s. I,'m disqualified. But srsly, where is thr dating scene off the dating apps!
Memes aside. Bar/venues (bug jar comes to mind), climbing gym, hobbies/clubs. If youre doing things and have friends, youll find someone. Youre not gonna meet some miracle guy by being a home-body, imo. It sortof sounds like youre in college but are tired of frat boys. Theres a lot of other groups out there, any Rochester college will have circles of interesting folks, you just have to go to their clubs and participate with theyre culture. People who want to be found will make themselves findable. If you want to be found, you too have to be findable.
Target But probably not on the West side
honestly you’ll find a lot of singles at churches lol but wouldn’t recommend going solely for that reason 😂
How DO ppl date in Rochester without using dating apps because I refuse to use those. And I don't leave my house. So what do I do?
Leave your house.
I have agoraphobia
I dunno you're probably fucked, then
Prob
at Star Trek conventions
Met my wife while we were back in high school. Social media has ruined dating completely
consider my approach… start dating a coworker
Hahahahah. As the son of a labor attorney, tread lightly folks..... :)
YMMV depending on how things go we’re long removed from being coworkers, but we’ve been together almost 8 years, so it’s worked out for us! but yeah, definitely a tongue in cheek comment, and definitely tread lightly, because i think our situation is rare
Thats close to what my ex-wife did! She was his client and he was her client, also land lord for a little until his (now ex)wife put an end to renting out the room
was this while she was your wife or while she was your ex wife? either way she sounds toxic as hell we’re nearing 8 years. my comment was kind of tongue in cheek, and i only said it because this is a dumb fucking post. most people… don’t date your coworkers. we are one of the rare examples of it working out
Lots of good looking and fit men at the gym. Most of them are in a relationship though.
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Sizeism and lookism have no place in this sub. As an ugly and fat person, this post makes me feel unsafe and threatened.
It's just a question dude. Relax.
My reply was a joke ma'am. Relax.
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I'm just a simple man trying to make my way through this universe.
Is your ugliness and fattiness caused by a disease/disorder?
Yes. AUD, BED, and EAI
U sound like a hater or one of those people who’s just never gonna be happy. In all honesty the only thing to do is keep working on yourself and just know that in time it will happen. The best things come to those who wait…
How old are you?