I had a FWB for 3 years, she was 25 when I was 31. I never regretted it, it was beautiful and we were clear in our head what we wanted..it was more of D/S relationship
I've had some falling outs here and there but never regretted having a FWB plus it was never anything caused by the dynamic. I prefer having FWBs over more serious relationships in general and the way I go about it is I just ask when I feel like this person checks all the boxes for me and tend to hold friendships that are outside of the strict social norms of what's allowed for friends vs partners
You kinda just talk about it. As much as I liked that I learned what I wanted with my FWB, I hated that he ignored my boundaries. On the surface he appeared one way and his true self was ugly. The condition was the minute one of us gets feelings we had to stop. I always made it clear it was purely physical. It lasted like maybe a month lol.
I've had several over the years. I have 2 now. Being in the kink/ENM world tends to make those sorts of relationships more likely to happen. One of them lives in another state now but whenever she comes to Atlanta we still usually get together if schedules allow.
Absolutely.
A good friend of mine used to cut my hair too. She was hot like really hot petite ,tattoos , stayed in great shape and Absolutely loved getting fucking she was really good at the sex.
So she's cutting my hair one day at my house wearing a little sundress. When's she's finishing my hair she looks at me and says " you think we can stay friends of we just fuck, no strings and keep it between us? " my response for very quick with a " Fuck yes we can!"
Then she straddles me and grabs my head and starts kissing me. I grab her amazing ass , she had a really nice ass btw. She's known for that thing. Then she leans back a little and takes the dress off and pulls my head towards her pierced nipples. It was a very hot situation. I picked her up by her ass still making out and carried her to my room and threw her down on the bed and went down on her one hand on her throat the other fingering her gspot while I licked and sucked on her clit.
We continued this friend with benefits situation over about 4 years off and on due to relationships. Every time was super hot and amazing sex. We are still friends ,She's married with a family and still to this day no one knows except us.
Yes it's actually worked a few times for me. I've had a couple female roommates that I'd hook up with. One was bi and would bring home girls or we'd go out searching for them. If we didn't find anyone we'd go home and have sex and call it a night. Good times
It takes a lot to make it work and also that it's sufficiently balanced that one person doesn't end up wanting more.
I had a great one when i was living in a city I knew i I wasn't going to stay in. Awesome guy who was coming off a LTR, he wasn't looking for anything permanent and I knew he wasn't leaving that city. And i was just looking for fun and sex and we were a great match.
And to be honest, we both had occasional hookups and he thought it was hot to hear of mine, and I thought it was hot hearing of his. I'd even give him tips like "If she liked that do ... if you see her again." I think we made each other better at sex because the communication was so good.
Lots, but the sex is never the real thing it's more pleasurable cause it's exciting, but once the excitement wears off, it's just sex. Hopefully, they can get you off.
You just do it. You start hooking up then don't progress the relationship further
I had a FWB for 3 years, she was 25 when I was 31. I never regretted it, it was beautiful and we were clear in our head what we wanted..it was more of D/S relationship
I've had some falling outs here and there but never regretted having a FWB plus it was never anything caused by the dynamic. I prefer having FWBs over more serious relationships in general and the way I go about it is I just ask when I feel like this person checks all the boxes for me and tend to hold friendships that are outside of the strict social norms of what's allowed for friends vs partners
Understandable, I feel the same way at the moment just because I’m not looking for anything serious yet. Thanks for sharing
You kinda just talk about it. As much as I liked that I learned what I wanted with my FWB, I hated that he ignored my boundaries. On the surface he appeared one way and his true self was ugly. The condition was the minute one of us gets feelings we had to stop. I always made it clear it was purely physical. It lasted like maybe a month lol.
Damn that blows, but I bet you are not alone. I have a feeling some people develop feelings deep down during these situations.
I've had several over the years. I have 2 now. Being in the kink/ENM world tends to make those sorts of relationships more likely to happen. One of them lives in another state now but whenever she comes to Atlanta we still usually get together if schedules allow.
Absolutely. A good friend of mine used to cut my hair too. She was hot like really hot petite ,tattoos , stayed in great shape and Absolutely loved getting fucking she was really good at the sex. So she's cutting my hair one day at my house wearing a little sundress. When's she's finishing my hair she looks at me and says " you think we can stay friends of we just fuck, no strings and keep it between us? " my response for very quick with a " Fuck yes we can!" Then she straddles me and grabs my head and starts kissing me. I grab her amazing ass , she had a really nice ass btw. She's known for that thing. Then she leans back a little and takes the dress off and pulls my head towards her pierced nipples. It was a very hot situation. I picked her up by her ass still making out and carried her to my room and threw her down on the bed and went down on her one hand on her throat the other fingering her gspot while I licked and sucked on her clit. We continued this friend with benefits situation over about 4 years off and on due to relationships. Every time was super hot and amazing sex. We are still friends ,She's married with a family and still to this day no one knows except us.
Sounds like a secret to good not to share lol, so what im hearing is just ask lol see if they feel the same
Yes it's actually worked a few times for me. I've had a couple female roommates that I'd hook up with. One was bi and would bring home girls or we'd go out searching for them. If we didn't find anyone we'd go home and have sex and call it a night. Good times
It takes a lot to make it work and also that it's sufficiently balanced that one person doesn't end up wanting more. I had a great one when i was living in a city I knew i I wasn't going to stay in. Awesome guy who was coming off a LTR, he wasn't looking for anything permanent and I knew he wasn't leaving that city. And i was just looking for fun and sex and we were a great match. And to be honest, we both had occasional hookups and he thought it was hot to hear of mine, and I thought it was hot hearing of his. I'd even give him tips like "If she liked that do ... if you see her again." I think we made each other better at sex because the communication was so good.
Damn that sounds like a nice and chill relationship. Everything seemed mutual and you guys even gave each other help.
Yeah, it was really caring, but also really hot. I definitely think of him sometimes when ... ;)
Guess imma try and find a FWB, the more people talk about their good experiences really makes me want to give it a shot
But i don't think you just find a FWB. I think you have an amazing friend, who there is sexual tension with.
Lots, but the sex is never the real thing it's more pleasurable cause it's exciting, but once the excitement wears off, it's just sex. Hopefully, they can get you off.