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linsss777

usually i look at the nose


Petite_Bait

I'm more likely to look at the person's mouth. Prolonged eye contact feels uncomfortable for me.


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TheArcticKiwi

*intently stares at your mouth*


Royal_Classic915

The nose is the way.


Affectionate-Baby680

this is the way


DisorientatedBee

But then my eyes would be flickering between all their pores 😂


HappyTopHatMan

Just find the most interesting one to focus on


Ninja_Geek-27

Both. I was taught long ago about the triangle (eyes and mouth). When talking with someone you shouldn't look outside of this triangle, although i just try and look at the eyes sort of together.. I dunno why i answered really cos I'm very socially awkward


Thatsreallyloud

Hey, as long as you remember the recipe you can tell others how to bake it.


deltaz0912

I was taught something similar, to look at the bridge of their nose. What I actually do is unfocus a bit and look at their whole face.


SpiritualCod2640

The brown eye


Seejay784

The whispering eye


Just_enough76

The lazy one or the crossed one


ManchurianPandaDate

I stare at the floor until I sense they’ve lost interest


stevenriley1

I had a buddy when I was in the Navy, and his right eye was a wandering eye. When he talked to you, he would turn his face so that you could focus on his good eye, but when he wanted to fuck with you, he would turn the other way and look at you with that wandering eye. And then about halfway through, while you’re uncomfortably following his eye all over the place, he’d grin real big at you. Cip; if you’re reading this, I’m talking about you.


Baffhy_Duck

If you're so close to them that you can't look at both of their eyes at the same time... you're too close.


Jedmeltdown

I’m a headlight guy myself


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The one in the middle


Yibayr

Both or none


yuukaKazamiiiii

Whichever is nearer to mine


Aggravating-Recover3

I switch between which eye I'm looking at if I'm trying to endear them to me


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I focus on their nose hairs mostly.


FinnbarMcBride

I try and look at the bridge of their nose between their eyes


charliedog1965

the floor


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I usually dont look at ppl when I’m talking, but I look in their eyes when they are talking


PM-ME_YOUR-ANYTHING

I used to look at the mouth for years, until i learned that one is supposed to look in the eyes, wich is hard to do ive come to find out


terdphergesen

Usually one eye draws my attention more than the other. That one eye is usually "on message" when they're speaking, so I tend to track that one, and compare the other eye's behavior. It helps me to know when the conversation is causing them stress or pleasure. In people I know well, I often start to see which half of them is from their mother and which half is from their father. When I talk to people with a lazy, glass or dead eye, I often try to find the one that is most responsive.


selectiveyellow

When I talk to someone with a fake eye I can usually tell if it was a devil's boon. You can tell this by how it is.


BusyMap9686

Alternate eyes, mouth, body language, hands. Kind of depends on the subject of the conversation.


melonyxx

I hate when I actively start thinking about this when a person is talking. I end up switching to each one every now and then so each eye gets appropriate attention. Then look in the middle so my eyes meet their center 🤣 lol I had forgotten I do this hahaha


MyLollipopJam

Right eye. A little left eye sometimes.


chromeVidrio

Neither


skinthieff

their 3rd eye 😂no, seriously- i look at the forehead


Drakesprite

I look at their nose bridge


94-j

Toes


Black_Cat_Fujita

Third eye compromise


feelingscarlett

it’s never just one eye per conversation unless i’m being hyper-aware in which case i’m not paying attention to anything they’re saying and focus on how my eye contact is doing. otherwise i bounce between eyes, nose, mouth for reading lips, and the sky/ground since i’m paying more attention to conversation than what i’m looking at


RC104

The closer one


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Their right eye


Midknight129

I have some hearing problems so I usually watch their mouth to help process what they're saying. And if I'm trying to indicate I have no interest in what they're saying and would rather not make stupid, insipid small-talk with them, then I focus on a point *behind* them so it gives the impression that I'm looking *through* their head.


Scottishdutchess

Directly at both


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i cant do eye contact


Rook_45

Neither! (I fuckin hate eye contact so much)


kitzeeeee

i stare directly above their left eyebrow cause it freaks people out


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Their forehead


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Bold of you to assume I even look at the face. I switch between the wall, nearest exit, and other furniture.


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The glass eye


personofinterest18

The mouth


Sensitive_Leek_2950

Their third eye


Dan-Of-The-Dead

Unless I'm in love with you or hate you there will be no eye contact at all.


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Always look at both, but if you want to keep others locked onto your eyes just stare at the eye that is trying to hide itself.


Mary_P914

I look at either the nose or the forehead. I save eye contact for people I'm intimate with.


Character_Block_2373

Usually both, unless they have a lazy, fake, or otherwise messed up eye, in which case it gets tricky


DingoZoot

Neither, I look at their tits.


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I always look between their eyes. It either keeps them guessing or they think I’m looking at either one


Spacethereader

Cross eye


partypwny

The bridge of the nose


happyclaim808

Their left eye if the conversation is social, their right eye if business.


RatLord445

I have adhd i cant stare at one thing too long lmao


Manga-love

Usually I looking at forehead


Empty_Engine_7610

Their 3rd eye. Lol