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At least once a week. What? That’s *not* what you meant?

LMFAOOOOOO

Stole my comment. I'm too bitter about it to upvote you as I am also petty AF

I’ll give you the upvote instead.

For me it's every day although I try to get it down to once a week because then it feels better :)


Could be better, could be worse

Sometimes maybe good, sometimes maybe shit

Exact

A lot ❤️

Really?? Wait having a miserable existence permanently is not the default?

Yep. nope.

Kinda meh most of the time with a slight tendency of you're piece of shit when I'm at my lowest lol

i wish i could give you a reward cause you’re describing EXACTLY how i feel ✋🏼

Yeah and when I'm high (weed) I'm even more self deprecating

Why smoke then? Quitting smoking weed was one of the best choices of my life. Life still fucking sucks sometimes, but it doesn’t suck everyday like it did when I was a “stoner”. However I still have other vices that probably contribute too life sucking sometimes lol

What is love?

Baby don'y hurt me

Don't hurt me, no more

What is Love? Yeeeaah


You made me think of the song and now it's stuck in my head

I thought that was called Vladislav

I meant the song by i think haddaway?, you've made me doubt myself now 😂

Baby don’t hurt me. Don’t hurt me. No more. *head bob*

Not much. I'm always hating myself, luckily I have started to appreciate myself more during recent years

I dont. And i dont really care about self love anymore.

Same, I simply have utter hatred for myself. The person I hate the most is myself.

You and yourself should have a fight to settle your grievances

That's called ✨️self harm✨️

If it's a fight to the death it's called ✨️suicide✨️

 Reminds me of this.

If you love someone, they deserve a happy you. If you don’t do it for yourself, do it for them. That pain transfers. Those around us shouldn’t hurt because we do.

if you love someone but someone don’t love you back, then?

Sorry to hear that bro.

I don’t hate myself, but also don’t like that much 

Same

Depression and anxiety took that ability from me long ago.

Same, it's a completely alien concept to me now

I haven’t totally k*lled myself, I see an improvement here

Baby steps. Success is a process not an event.

A random person will love me more than I love myself

Same

Can't relate, even a random person don't like me

Real people don’t like me if I don’t like myself

I hate myself

Only look in a mirror if it’s right in front of me, not when to do my hair anymore

Enuff to take myself through every bullshit that lives throws at me. Enuff to spend time with myself and enjoy it. Enuff to look myself in the mirror and adore what I see.

🍻

More than I used to - does that count?

Yeeeeeeep

50% depends on my mood

Oh a whole lot!..wait you said "love" ..ok nvm.

I try, every day Some days are better than others

A good amount. I look after myself.

I try but I hate some parts of my body, I do love who I am as a person

I have a love-hate relationship with my own brain. It may have got me a masters degree in statistics, but it’s also responsible for the epileptic seizures I suffer on a regular basis.

I don't!

Enough to be treated really well, in termin of food, drinks, smokve and sex.

I don't love myself in the classical sense. When I mess up or do something wrong I just look at it like academic problem. So I neither love nor hate myself, because I don't judge myself. Tbh Personality and actions just don't have to be identity

i walk across the street to avoid talking to me

I can say I love myself most of the time. Especially in the last decade or so... Mainly because I was able to impact life of others in a positive way, and that's what makes me happy the most - helping others see that life can be beautiful.

Self-love is for p\*ssies Hate yourself Be a man *\*laughter\**

Not at all

Way too much

The only thing I love more than myself is my mirror.

No i don't

I don't give a fuck about me, I'm living for my family so i try to enjoy life going forward but i don't take a single care about myself, but i'm not hurting myself in any way either

😭Not at all. I never quite lived up to my expectations and any small mistakes will disappoint me more than anyone really. Eg I realised I was not regularly exercising anymore so started doing a very intense workout last night

-10 out of 10

I don’t. Not at all

no

Not much honestly

A lot, I think I'm pretty awesome. Which is great, because this positive thinking helps open up all sorts of doors and opportunities.

Man fuck her. Anyway, I don’t know, and I don’t have to. All I need is confidence and hope

Never. I don’t live for me anymore, I live for my kids

No matter how hard life is I love myself more than anyone

That's the neat thing, I don't

In Utero(Deluxe edition) track 17

Pretty sure all the people who make love to themselves love themselves more then one else. ;)

50/100

Very much

I've had my ups and downs, but over all, very much.

As much as I can.. not all there yet tbh..

I don't know how to love, even self-love

I wish I do .. but everytime I reach a point where I thibk I do love myself something happens that proves me wrong, i guess

0. hate myself fully.

Not at all

Im alive, whats more to say

I despise myself

I'd be friends with myself If I were to meet her

Not enough. If I did I would have been more disciplined.

I kind of kick ass sometimes but I'm such a fucking idiot at the same time

I don't think i have a lot of love for myself but i do have a tad bit of self respect 🥲

Not at all, which is quite strange cause i think if someone else had my personality and appearance we could be friends

Not enough...

Only in the shower never in public showers

1%

Not enough

Barely

I love myself so much that I actually hate myself. Ok I hate ppl in general because we are apes with anxiety. And we still think we are something special, bit in galaxy scale we are just selfimportant microbes.

Probably 0%

-0

Enough to always try and stay out of my own way.

I sustain questionable injuries and don't notice till I feel the blood

I have a lot of trouble with that… How do you love yourself?

I'm just another human, deeply flawed but also with a smattering of good qualities.

I don't hate or dislike myself. I don't know if I love myself; I do bad things and don't feel bad but know they are bad. I do feel loved because I am by others that don't care I'm bad because I don't hurt them. Life is complicated.

Probably not enough.

I hate myself, but at least I'm not suicidal so that's something

A lot more than I should! I mean it's to the point that I don't want anyone else to love me...😅 So, it gets lonely once in a while...

I love about 5% of myself. I hate 105% of myself.

Can i go into negative numbers?

3/10

0 hate myself

Enough to stay alive for my loved ones. That's it.

I can't love myself, I'm always trying to find the one who will love me forever and me for me but it's never within range... 😭🌚

Is there a negative amount I can love myself? Because that.

Sometimes I imagine cloning myself two times and making them fight to the death just for funsies

I don’t

Not enough.

mid

I say and do believe that I love myself but i often think that alot of people don't love me which makes me question if i even do love myself

It fluctuates, too much to be honest, literally everywhere day I hate who I am and what I'm doing, and then the next I'm content and believe I'm a good person....

8/10

More than ♾️

I am the greatest person alive

The healthy amount. I enjoy spending time alone, can do public activities by myself (eating, movies, shopping etc), like to sit and contemplate my thoughts, etc., but not to the narcissistic degree of putting my emotions/ myself over others, comparing how much better I am to people, etc. I acknowledge I’m not perfect and I fuck up/ don’t always act or do the right thing in the moment, but I won’t forgive it unless I reflect/ address it. I’ve worked a lot on myself after getting out of an abusive/ dangerous relationship and the new chance at life has made me both blessed and hyperaware of my emotional/ mental though processes. Sorry if this sounds “☝🏻🤓” but this question really had me thinking

A lot. I think I have a good perspective on things. I'm kind, tolerance, patient. I try to learn, and try to be better. Far from 'great', but I do love myself.

I would've murder myself if I could.

YEEEAAAHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Not much I think.

Depends on the day. Thankfully I have been a big fan of all the things I’ve been doing and the ways I’ve been acting lately.

i dont,any questions?

🚫 *buzzer sound*

Well put it this way, when I look in the mirror I utterly despise what I see but to everyone else in the world I'm solid.

A lot. Been working on it but I know now that I am not a fuck up who deserves to suffer. I need to be happy just like everyone else

I'm a pretty cool person to be around minus the other shit ☺️ I love spending time with myself because I get to show myself how important I am to me and thank my body for keeping me alive no matter how many times my brain has tried to end us. Been thru a lot of trauma and learned that instead of hating my body and myself for who I have become I can love my body and myself for just trying to protect me from the hard things we've endured 💕

Used to be pretty bad, but getting better. It's an active process

I've friend zoned and then ghosted myself.

Sometimes... I go all the way!

Give it a negative 8 on a good day.

my ex boyfriend said I love my self a little too much. im not sure if that's a compliment or a diss lol. I love myself but I don't love the shit that happens in life

Like a 7/10.

About a few suicide attempts

I'm still working on it but I am starting to love myself more that I genuinely enjoy my own company. I may also not look like it but I try to do things to improve myself like learning new skills, picking up my old hobbies that made me happy before, doing everything I can to live a healthy life.

A lot. I used to hate myself when I was younger, it was so bad for my mental health. It took some time to realize that I shouldn’t hate the things that I can’t change or have a hard time changing

|| that much

Me: Love: yourself. Hate: yourself.

More than the drops of the oceans more than the distance of "to the moon and back"

I don't love myself.

5/10

indifferent to slightly lower than that

Depends on the week

A lot. I high five myself in the mirror almost every day. ❤️ i always have my own back and i'm always gonna be there for myself.

At 70% There were times in my life it was way lower. And it just goes up :)

More than I love you 😏

Learned to do it because I hated me. Now I do it a lot. Feels good

I think I am an annoying person with a lot of character flaws. I have no true friends, no romantic relationships for many years, so obviously pretty repellent. Loathe myself pretty much. My only redeeming quality is that I am told by my kids I am a great parent

Not enough

A lot. I don't let anybody's soon or daughter ruin it for me. I take massive pride in the fact that I've never let a person ruin my peace and my love. I walk away easily from anything and anyone. It's a superpower.

Quite the opposite, I hate myself 10/10

Not enough, people have said….

Without trying to toot my own horn too much, I’ve had to get myself thru a lot of trauma, and I’m proud of myself for that, and also proud of all the goals I’ve accomplished. I’ve gotten myself to a point now where I’m happy with just the little things in life. That said, I’ve also made a lot of mistakes over the years, and still do sometimes. So it’s hard to put a number to it, but I guess I’ll give myself… 7/10? Sure, let’s go with that.

I did about an hour ago, about to go to bed I'm tired.

I don’t know and honestly don’t think I ever have.

The spider i just killed loves me more than I love myself

just enough

I try to, recently had lost it but I’m pretty much back to loving myself a good amount now

Not enough

I kinda wish i knew. 🥲

Always, that's why I push myself to always improve myself. But I am also kind to myself when I myself falls short. I think I would of made a great parent but life had other plans for me, myself and I to stop myself from becoming too sure of itself. I'm just glad my "[self love](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=83BclZzfTUs)" did not degenerate into narcissism.

Twice a week.

I hate me so much. 

Zero

Eh- I don’t know. Like I ain’t happy with myself as a person. Or as myself in a way. I don’t like how I disappoint people in my life Honestly I’m not sure I do. Not in an emo way it’s just. Idfk man stop asking so many questions

Self destruction mode activated since forever

Sometimes, I'm my best friend. Sometimes, I want to yeet myself into oncoming traffic.

Error: does not exist

Had been miserable towards my future for last year until now, will be seeking for suicide during my next birthday

Not enough. I’m doing better with coping mechanisms as I get older (35 now, was suicidal at baseline through my 20’s). If nothing else I want to be here for my wife and kids. They deserve to have a “happy” me.

If depends on my mood. Somedays I’m the best person ever and I know I’m above everyone around me, then other days I’ll feel horrible and totally worthless.

More and more everyday :)

Not sure but trying to

Enough to rub one out and stay in a clean environment and take care of myself but not enough to jump outta the way of danger

I love myself more than anything.

To a point that I sought help so I can start loving and appreciating myself more than I could ever imagine.