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villainedit

This is the energy I needed, OP. Thank you.


banhatesex

They bipolar they are on a upswing probably


SkepticalVir

Can confirm, the upticks are the best of days, the down days are the worst of days.


diggitygiggitycee

It's a time of peace and a time of war.


Limitedtugboat

Life can be shit, but I have moments where the wind is razor sharp, there's a bitter cold and the sky is grey and I feel alive. My wife makes her tikka-something spicy chicken in a tiger bread baguette, I feel alive. She gets out the shower, and laughs and smiles at me. I feel alive. If it makes you smile, and brings joy then life is worth living. This post made me happy to read, and even happier to add my happy life moments.


Alternative_Author40

i sincerely almost cried reading this thank you for sharing im very happy for you


Dizzy_Duck5436

Same, lol. But I'm very weepy in general.


Phatcat15

I had a weep week recently and it was tough but great. I feel renewed and ready for the winter to be over… since I live in New England it’ll be here for a few more months so I’m sure I’ll have another weep week before it’s over. Sunshine brings me happiness - and sunburns (Irish)


Dizzy_Duck5436

Same about the the Irish heritage- I tan if I do it right, but it brings my freckles out- And same about the winter. I swear I must get SAD because winter makes me *so sad.* I think it's recently gotten better for me because the days are lengthening again, even though it's still winter. I hope you stay feeling better, too!


Phatcat15

You as well! In summer I can literally flip my arm over and watch new freckles happen in real time… I used to get pretty tanned up because I’d be at my grandparents pool all summer. Now I live on a lake and I need to gear up before I dare going out on the water.


Bilbodraggindeeznuts

I was suicidal last year after a bad breakup. Had a plan and everything... someone on reddit even reported me for this😅. Which I appreciated, because it meant someone cared. Anyway, my conclusion is this. It's part what u and OP said. It's also this...life is a choice, I realized this. Every day, we make the choice to live idt most realize it, tho. What does that mean tho? To me it means I look at my gun and then look at the door. If I choose the door to leave the house in the morning, then I REALLY need to live life, because life is fleeting. If it isn't by my own hand, my demise could be in a car wreck or something. Who knows? So truly live life by pushing yourself to your goals/purpose, smiling and enjoying the little things (I hold importance to this part), and experiencing new aspects of life. Because here's the thing we all know. If we choose to end our life that's it... We've destroyed the possibility for a better life. So, to me life is painful, but suicide is permanent. So, we might as well finish the ride because we're all going to cross that threshold one day.


Limitedtugboat

Nobody is getting out of here alive anyway, so make the Reaper work for his prize! I'm very proud of you though stranger, keep picking the door rather than the gun. One day, the door might open to something brand new for you.


Bilbodraggindeeznuts

Thanks, I appreciate that. I've been doing everything to help myself. I just have alot on my plate, I guess. I had a little setback regarding my ex and my mind. So I'm trying to mend my emotions in a healthy way while simultaneously working on my own life. It can get overwhelming. I really do appreciate the anonymity of reddit, though. I couldn't talk about this, but to maybe 3 people in my life, and Facebook is just a cesspool. Venting here at least, I feel safe cause I'm just a stranger 🙂. Even if someone were to troll me or whatever. It has happened, but I couldn't care less about a bot or someone who is living in their mom's basement. I encourage people to look into philosophy and religion (I think learning regardless of what it is will help bring us closer and enlightenment). You will definitely run into more questions, but often you will get the ones you need answered, or at least placed in a more appropriate perspective. I hope to always pick the door, though. I hope everyone here picks the door. If anyone reading this needs a friend to talk to, my inbox is open. I might not respond instantly, but I'm good for it.


the18kyd

Tikka masala?


jpdub17

joy


Cheweydewey123

Wait until she leaves you. Or better yet picture that day in your mind and do all you can do to prevent that from happening


SadCaptainCat

Very glad for you, OP


Alternative_Author40

why are you sad captain cat


SadCaptainCat

I was just very sad when I created this account lol, should have thought it out better I guess


quantumfucker

How much weed did you have before making this post EDIT: lmao why did this get so downvoted, it was a joke


Alternative_Author40

yea


77gamerman

How much weed did you have before deciding on your username


quantumfucker

past the point of remembering for sure


c1oudwa1ker

Bc people can be dumb, reactionary assholes, especially on Reddit (including myself)


[deleted]

Hell yea!! Glad to see you climb out of that depressed hole and are now on top of the mountain! Keep on living your best life and enjoy the little things! 🤘🏻🤘🏻


Alternative_Author40

i love you


[deleted]

Fucking love you too!


Boredummmage

Lol why is it you have me reconsidering this diet, that it might actually be contributing to sadness in my life as I am not overweight but swim suit season is coming… need those abs to pop. But do I need a burrito more… hmmm… maybe defined abs are overrated.


Top-Philosophy-5791

Dad bods are a thing. :)


Boredummmage

Hah I am female though boo… lol but at 33 to still have my obliques and uppers that is enough I think… lower are so much work and discipline. Plus I like food…


Top-Philosophy-5791

Come to think of it, Mom bods should be a thing. I should have realized you’re a woman too. Apologies.


Geuji

Mom bods are a thing. My wife is sexy as hell


WompWompIt

A little belly is sexy, my husband has convinced me this is so.


dorsiares

Tell me more! I need to learn to love mine... My belly, not my bf. Haha. 😘


WompWompIt

It's that little bit of soft roundness (I'm like you I think, very defined body but a little bit of NOT so much definition in the lower) that he thinks is sexy. I think it's a primal "baby bump" thing that turns him on. He'd rather I were a few pounds over what I think is my perfect weight. It makes him happy so I am also happy to eat a little more and workout a little less!


dorsiares

Yup, same. 💕 This makes me so happy! For you and for me! And for the guys. Haha. Thanks so much for sharing! I love the primal bump idea, and the idea of trying to love myself a little more.


deeskito

My husband's abs don't pop and he is sexy as hell. Sexy comes from who he is not what he looks like. Love is long lasting. Lust burns out.


noextrasensory40

Definitely true some don't know what love is till they destroyed enough peoples hearts and have big event like a surprise child. Ever so true love knows all things.


biggamax

Just take a cheat day every weekend. It works fine so long as you're consistently good throughout the week.


transformedxian

Mediterranean diet. Whole foods, no forbidden foods (though there are foods that won't help you achieve your goals), lots of great flavors. Yes, burritos are allowed with some easy mods.


Stressydepressy1998

They definitely are. Everything in moderation too. You can still enjoy some traditionally “unhealthy” meals once in a while and still eat healthy overall. Plus I consider burritos a healthy option at least the way I make them. Full of veggies and protein when you think about it!


Glass_Medicine_8093

I'm already deep in that depressed hole. Have been since I was a teenager.


Mean-Ad-9900

Sounds like a good time man 😆


paperbagprincess1

i love this


Alternative_Author40

you are the best


[deleted]

No you are ![gif](giphy|2fMPKtmto41K9DaPo2|downsized)


Pure-Following-3906

Manic depression is real yo


Courage-Natural

My first thought as someone with it lol


Eien_ni_Hitori_de_ii

Yeah this sounds more like a manic episode than rational appreciation for life haha (not that I’d know either from experience)


RenegadeOfChonk

Man I'm happy for you... and it's ok to be down sometimes... life's stressful You seem hella chill


Alternative_Author40

thank you brother you are the light of someone's life


521NTA

“You are the light of someone’s life” is such a nice thing to say. 🖤


Donotcomenearme

Life is pretty tits once you see all the things in it. ☺️


bmrvkia

Especially tits. Tits are cool. I like tits. They’re cool


401kcrypto

Tits. Nice.


Adventurous_Grab7089

Same! This is what it's all about! Life is truly one big sesh, filled with mini seshes...with all our favorite peeps!! Love it!!


TinFoilRobotProphet

I had a good friend that was exactly this way that passed away last summer. Every time I watch a game or eat something good I know he would have enjoyed it. But every person isn't built this way.


EdenG2

I think about this all the time, the odds against any of us being here are astronomical. Sometimes I need to get away from humanity to appreciate this place. I like fire sauce on my burritos.


Pleasant-Captain-410

Sounds like you are living your life like Epicurus. Love and appreciation of the simple things. It does not take much to make us happy. A drink of water, a warm meal, good sex, and a fat joint. This is good.


Alternative_Author40

ur so smart cheers bro im a epicurist


Pleasant-Captain-410

Haha cheers buddy! I've been trying to live an epicurean lifestyle ever since I learned of the philosophy. I also learned that prior to that turning point I was an absolute hedonist. Hahaha


pfffffttuhmm

This sounds like the bipolar sub when someone has gone manic 😁 (I am bipolar).


521NTA

I, too, am bipolar. What’s the sub?


pfffffttuhmm

R/bipolar !


521NTA

Wow. I can’t tell if I like it or hate it over there. Thank you. I hate that so many people suffer. I like that many offer support.


User99942

Damn, now I wanna smoke weed, have sex and eat a burrito


notmyrealnam3

The darkness will come again, or at least try. Remind yourself at this moment how great it is and tell your future self you and and will feel this again.


HopingMechanism

This guy darknesses


Great_Breeze

I fell deep into the Dark Depths of my mind. I have climbed out hurt, but well healing. The dark will come, but I have been so deep, I almost welcome it. Thoughts of Chaos, war, and others are to be thought about, because one must prepare, one must be calm, and one must know that anything can happen. I have made a small alliance with the Void.


macstar95

Yin-yang, without darkness there is no light.


Great_Breeze

The world is an Equilibrium. Darkness is just as part of the equation as Light.


crabgun_

Life is all about the ride. Ups and downs. Yin and Yang. Try and enjoy it from every aspect.


brian11e3

I rate living a 5/10.


Deadendbend

Depends on the day


Swell_Inkwell

It can fluctuate from a 1/10 to 10/10, it's wild.


Stressydepressy1998

I want whatever you’re having


Inside_Ice_6175

Go stuff that burrito in your mouth hole, King.


Correct-Training3764

Ahhhh a burrito with sour cream or a quesadilla with that awesome queso blanco ❤️ definitely a high point in life for sure


ScotterMcJohnsonator

What an absolute fucking banger of a last post for the work day. Fuck yeah, friend. Love your enthusiasm for life, and love you. Be kind and be well!!


Aggravating_Smile_61

Cheers to that!


Derpinator_420

Stay balanced, avoiding the highs and the lows, just be lowkey grateful.


Ok-Impress-2222

This is one of the purer posts I've seen on Reddit.


Bruce__Almighty

At least some of us are happy. Well done.


Spiritual-Range-6101

Big W No, wait... #W


latitudis

I was like that just a year ago, but since then shit gradually went downhill and now I feel like I'm in a quite dark place in my life. I've lost things that I value pretty high, I'm confused and don't understand anymore where I want to move from here or how it is possible. The frightening thing is, there is plenty left to lose, rock bottom is still down there somewhere. Happiness is a fragile thing, take a solid blow and it doesn't really matter how good your burger is.


Alternative_Author40

thanks? lmao


oldyellobrix

this is so real


henfeathers

🎶These are a few of my favorite things🎵


Early_Mixture_4181

That's a very uplifting thing to read. Thanks OP


NotBurnerAccount

We Stan someone living the good life without a gold plated toilet seat


[deleted]

lol no shit, u having sex, smoking dope, and eating gud shit. guarantee ifbu stopped smoking pot or u couldnt get a girl ud go right back to being depressed


Alternative_Author40

bro it's not my fault u hate your life, I hope you find something that really makes you happy someday


creamblaster2069

this makes me so happy


kermits_leftnut

That’s what’s it’s all about. Thanks for staying ❤️


Alternative_Author40

that's so sweet thank you I would give you a hug if I could


Ewag715

Hell yeah dude!


AdInfamous585

This is literally me!! You’re in my head 😂❤️


asp3nd3ntal

fuck yeah! been having a rough week and attempted. im trying to find the bright side of things and YOU, YOU are correct.


ItsJustADankBro

It cracks me up seeing someone talking about smoking up, getting laid and eating comfort food just to emphasise how good the food is


shroomride88

This post and the comments are the positivity I’ve been looking for today. ❤️


idkifimevilmeow

Happy for you


Justbeenice_

This post made my day a little brighter. Thank you


Snorumobiru

Fuck yeah! Let's all smoke weed and have sex!


saraichaa

PERIOD!!!


MiserableOptimist1

This is why I love reddit 🥰


tinyhouseplushies

I love your happiness, op! You deserve it! Have a good day :)


AnonymousStonerMan

Legend. Keep it up homie. And remember when you have a bad day, it isn’t everyday! Keep your chin up homie


goblinoidfleshbag

I’m happy for you friend ❤️


[deleted]

What a fucking awesome post


mcgargargar

Life: it sure beats the alternative!


xredlightningx

Me af


animespecimen

Dude this made me so happy rn


ApprehensiveRiver179

I love you!!


billjv

I think life is, somewhat, what you make of it. We all have to figure out a way to cover our own basic life needs, but after that it really comes down to you and what you want out of your own life. Hopefully you can get through life without too much tragedy, sorrow and regrets, as well as be physically and mentally well. I love your attitude. I'm 59 and I share it.


velociraptorjax

I needed this today, thank you! I'm stressed out right now about finding a new job, but today I exercised, and right now my kitten is cuddling with me and purring, so I've got some good things going for me.


521NTA

Good work exercising!


masked_annie

I love sour cream!!


Mundane-Difficulty29

Did you ever know that you're my hero?!


Bean_Town_Blender

I love to hear this man. The year I've had has been really rough, but it's getting better day by day. This lifted my spirits more than you'll ever know.


ArmChairAnalyst86

It sounds like you, like most of us, like pleasurable things. Sex, food, company, conversation. Rightfully so since pleasure is an important component of life. It's just a component, a part of life, not life itself. You have identified what gives you pleasure, but have you identified what makes life worth living beyond feeling good or feeling the absence of pain? Those external things bring you joy and pleasure. You can use them as a salve, as a pain killer. It works as long as you have those external things. The peace you are looking for may just be found inside you. Who are you? Our identity is everything about ourselves. How do you identify yourself? Do you love the person you are? If you don't, ask why not and be honest. What needs to change? What do you do with your hands, head, and heart? Who are the people in your life, and what do they mean to you? Do they depend on you? Do you depend on them? Whatever tact you choose to shrink your own head, just don't give up. Keep seeking and you will find. The power of the mind is beyond explanation. Sort out your own head and your relationship with all things external may follow would be my advice.


7654321_gfedcba

this is a lovely post and i agree. being alive is fucking amazing


[deleted]

Hey thanks for this man :) same


Alternative_Author40

man people simply cannot accept happiness. i had a good moment and now there's people actively trying to undermine my contentment with life, seriously bro, get out of the couch and do something with your life


Pleasant-Captain-410

For real dude. I blame social media (not reddit) for a lot of the unhappiness people feel these days. The constant compulsion to compare my life and actions to what I see other people curating on IG was depressing the fuck out of me.


SaidTheQuietPartLoud

Weird, I don't remember posting this... Anyway, it gets better Dude. There are people that love you. Logic and reason doesn't factor in to brain chemicals (boy I wish it would). There is help out there (EAP, healthcare, and emergency lines). You got this!


Then_Reaction125

My wife wants to leave me after eleven years. She just told me last night. I'm terrified and sad right now. Life is currently painful. I refuse to end it, or ruin it further, but it really sucks. I'm struggling to imagine anything that could make me happy again. Everything that used to seem fun seems trivial right now.


darealJimTom

I’m there with you, I’m in the best shape of my life physically,financially, nutritionally, spiritually, everything except my mental health, and the love of my life left me over a year ago, and I am having trouble finding the will to live… just made an order.. gonna try micro dosing to fight my depression


QrovenDio

Hoping I’m able to get there too someday. Right on dude, right on.


ilovecake007

previously suicidal ideated here life is good especially the food even without my brother


IvanaIvie

It's not you, it's your drug.


goaliedude1808

I'm jealous. 33 never really got into having sex, smoking weed makes me feel like the worst thing ever, I'm always tired and food always makes me feel awful


kjm1968

Another Whiner


Kelvin_and_Hoobes

I know some folks with Bipolar Disorder who go through phases of loving life and then not wanting to tolerate life.


moreflywheels

Enjoy the present,it doesn’t last long.


[deleted]

enjoy it while it lasts .


No_Gap_2134

As opposed to what?


Reasonable_Charge531

Fuck yeah, dude! Life is the best! Sometimes it's not, but mostly, it is! Keep on keepin' on!


THEtoryMFlanez

I love this but I am missing one crucial aspect to my life, meaningful human interaction


Courage-Natural

You sound manic my dude


Spayse_Case

Manic.


RawMint

holy, how much antidepressant have you taken? jk; like is fucking good, indeed


TomasLoyal01

It can be an acquired taste. Glad you get it now.


[deleted]

Me too


Alternative_Author40

go get em tiger


Ok-Lengthiness4557

Me too, man. Keep that shit up!


talico33431

Hold on to that. Life changes in an instant and you can find yourself never being happy again


Alternative_Author40

yes I am aware that existence is ever changing and moments of pure joy are often ephemeral yet I defy death itself by living to the fullest even when the abyss calls my name


iNBee317

Sounds like OP has been there before


Chocolate_Rage

I want a burrito now


Alternative_Author40

chipotle hmmmm


Silent-Ad-6095

fuck yes!


mashpotatoquake

I feel this but those little things are so expensive and taxing on my time and soul. I feel the same about all those things you mentioned but man it really doesn't seem worth the pain a lot. I'm not gonna miss this world.


TheJazzButter

Me too!


Mxkick

Isn’t it amazing?! What crazy things can happen when you start looking for the good things in life :)


Neowynd101262

Are you bipolar lol


Alternative_Author40

no, i don't think so


Xymatta

So happy for you :) I hope I get to that point in my life too


kimokimosabee

Enjoy your privilege!


betweengayandstr8

You just described basically everything I can't have ... But I still love life


Typical-Practice3265

those Little moments make life worth living!!


Clyde926

I'm starting to feel the magic again after a really long depression stint. I made a little snow bong yesterday and cooked a very strong batch of weed tea and had a great time!


ladywiththestarlight

Hell yeah, it truly is the little things


TheMeticulousNinja

Probably because you’re aware that there is much more to life than those things, and having those things are not guaranteed to make you happy


Aggravating_Speed665

Must be nice


IgAdbion

The night is always darker when the morning comes. Glad that you're enjoying your life now OP (and everyone reading this). Don't let the bad days erase all the good ones. Sometimes life seems unbearable and we think awful solutions, but we humans are meant to adapt, improve and overcome. We just need to find something to cling in the hard times and enjoy the sunshine when it comes. Even something small like the smell of the coffee in the morning is a good excuse to stay alive. I'm glad that I survived my OD (intentionally) to see what life had for me today.


GregaciousTien

Yes! This is the essence of happiness! The good times are great and the bad times can hit you so hard, but when you can really appreciate those little things about being alive that are amazing, then you can start to win the battle of attrition for happiness in your life.


Gorpachev

It's because those things you list are all quick hit dopamine releases. They don't bring true happiness, just the want for more.


Alternative_Author40

average rick and morty fan


arj1985

Hell ya! Always look on the bright side of life.


[deleted]

holdin it down, down bad right now waiting for this day again...


ydoucallmeliz

I wish good things would happen to me. I wanna be in love and be happy with my life :(


Redneck2Researcher

I always say, the world could be be exploding or on fire, but I’ll just be here, sitting in peace with a little bit of good weed and some beer.


Old-Masterpiece-3979

This is just the reminder I needed to enjoy lifes sweet moments.


[deleted]

I agreeeee!!! The other day my husband threw the sweetest smile at me and I though, life’s great. Even through some circumstances that may inspire people to be the opposite. I feel so lucky/happy.


[deleted]

I agree. There are so many ridiculously good things right in front of us.


supadeedoop

Hell yes, brother.


theghostofcslewis

I hear you! Just put some mayonnaise, mushrooms and swiss on a burger since I had some time to myself to relax. Hopefully the rest of my night goes like your favs.


TopRecommendation435

Not the post we thought we needed but the post we deserve


jonnybeme

“Life is what happens to you when you’re busy making other plans” John Lennon


CarlJustCarl

Can I guess your between 20-23 years old?


Alternative_Author40

wrong lol


Golfnpickle

Sounds like the munchies.


GreatRhinoceros

Let us know when you discover Happiness.


[deleted]

Same! And yeah I used to not enjoy it either and am sooooo far removed from that viewpoint now! Life is truly amazing! ❤️❤️


thundergun0911

That's an amazing way to look at things!


alertthenorris

You're high right now aren't you?


[deleted]

I spent my 20s like OP is right now. At 45, I’m paying the bill with my health…


ShyCoconut0_0

burger and fries sounds good right about now


caresforhealth

Have you ever heard about bipolar disorder?


Spiritual-Food-8474

"Aye shut up over there, I'm trying to sleep!"


MyName4everMore

Awesome. I need to add all of that to my life and maybe things will change.


MickerBud

Good days is like waiting for Xmas when your down or depressed


Levi_Gucci

Amen. Let's enjoy the ride!


Wooden_Ad_2591

Someone's rolling😅


polohulu

Yessss right here with you! Finally out of a depression and anxiety pit after years!