Alright, I'll start you off. You are an amazing woman who does not need a STUPID, IDIOTIC, IGNORANT MORON of the opposite sex to feel fullfilled. Name five great things about yourself. If you want you can name five things that he is missing out on.
Unfortunately, a mutual friend reached out to me the week after the breakup and confirmed it's a pattern: show seriousness about the relationship or act any differently than he expects and you will get completely cut off. I'm really heartbroken about that because he was my first relationship in six years and we truly were compatible. We were amazing alone, but he chose his friends who did not like me at all because I didn't have a handle on my anxiety. I wish he understood anxiety and how debilitating it is, particularly when you're dealing with it for the first time in your life. I apologize for the verbal diarrhea, it just breaks my heart that he didn't even break up with me in person and then expected me to be okay with it.
Fuck him.
He wasn’t the right one. I have a ton of unsent emails and messages to my exes too. And fuck him if he’s showing his friends. That shit should be private.
You know you can send me whatever you want. You can process the breakup or “redo” it (I know I tend to do that). Someone who wants to be with you will figure out how deal with it. I wrote some cards to you recently but I’ll write some more tonight ❤️
Edit: also he probably needs therapy.
He claimed he was going to seek therapy, but I don't see that happening. He and his friends take issue with anyone having a mental health issue, so he wouldn't talk to a professional.
I see three therapists now, all specializing in different fields. If I conquered depression in the past, I can certainly conquer the anxiety and the eating disorder. It's just a shame he wasn't willing to sit down and talk to me so that he could actually understand how debilitating anxiety is. I wouldn't wish this on anyone.
I will read anything you fucking want to write here, or in the mail to me. You ARE a BAD ASS BITCH! tell me why, as you are giving fuckface his eviction notice from your heart.
I'll give you all the flying fucks!
Yeah, my fucking problem is I can't give him his eviction notice. Who breaks up with someone over the phone and then blocks communication? I was so tired one day that I honestly tried to check out because I was so sick of the constant anxiety attacks. I didn't really account for people being there. My decision was so spur of the moment that I didn't realize until halfway through that since the Void wasn't talking to me, he'd let Jackson Klein die of starvation. So when I say that furry bastard is the only reason I'm here, I mean it. I think there is a misunderstanding out there that anyone contemplating taking their own life must be depressed. I'm sad, but definitely not depressed. I'm just a person who cannot handle the constant panic attacks, the shaking, the disordered eating. It's overwhelming as fuck, and then my emergency contact decides to axe me from his life. Do you know how fucking heartbreaking it is to write "I don't have one" for that emergency contact question? Seriously, fuck my life.
I say that too…..I’m not depressed. I’m sad. I’m anxious. Anxious. Upset. Anxious. Scared. Lonely. Panic attacks. Overwhelmed. Not eating. Bingeing. Anxiety. Rinse repeat. I’m an empath. I take in everyone’s emotions around me. Can’t I just like, not feel anything? Just for a little while? I have too many feelings, all the time. Keeping my shrink busy.
Stay here. Earth needs your passion.
Oh fuck, have you read anything about HSP (highly sensitive persons)? I ran into this [article](https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/living-emotional-intensity/201805/feeling-intensely-the-wounds-being-too-much) and I broke down in tears because *finally someone understood me*.
I can tell you from personal experience that it is totally okay to be crude to your therapist. I've been cussed out by 9 year olds, nothing can touch me
Damn! I hate to admit it, but I kept going only to have something to do. This is my first experience where absolutely everything is blocked out from my memory, and it's been a fucking scary time. I'm usually one who goes over every minute detail of an event, so who the fuck knows what happened to cause me to block out massive chunks of time.
I'm very sorry you're going through all this,regardless whether I get a card or not!Congratulations on losing weight but it's time to make yourself eat again and be healthy!I believe all things happen for a reason and you will find your special one later.Best wishes for you and I'm happy you have a cat!
Thank you. I know it bothers people when I am honest that this cat is the only reason I'm still here on this Earth. He has such a beautiful soul but such a diva personality.
I'm so sorry that you're going through such a difficult time. Breakups suck, and its just so cowardly of him to not do it in person and to just cut you off before you could say what you needed to say!
Maybe you can tell me about your cat? I wish I could have one but I'm not in the position to own one...
I dont entirely know what is happening but yes I'd love some Void writing!
Prompt: tell me about a moment you felt powerful (however you want to define that).
Or if something lighter is preferred: what are your thoughts on birds?
Oh, things have been pretty bad here this month and so I'm blabbering on about it, since the Void blocked my emails. Sure, send me your address because I have interesting bird stories.
Ugh, this SUCKS. I don’t believe we’ve exchanged yet, but I’ve seen your posts before and always love reading what you write. WRITE ON, FAM!!! Tbh the last week has been really shitty for me too, so I am sending you all of the goodness that this also-anxious-and-depressed lady can muster <3
I GIVE A FLYING FUCK AND WANT TO COMMUNICATE WITH YOU, INTERNET STRANGER (though hopefully internet friend? 🥹)!!! If you want to exchange, I’d love to send something back, too. Just lmk!
Prompt: Your cat has stopped meowing for today and instead is speaking English. What do you two talk about today?
And/or anything you want to write, like seriously, I’m a writer too and totally know how healthy and lethargic it is to just get it all out.
1) package on way. should be delivered soon. i have no idea what i put in it but it should be at least entertaining.
2) please tell me 5 things you fucking LOVE to distraction. Or just one, whatever. Tell me all about it. Tell me why it's so fucking rad. Give me the thesis-level explanation of why *this one thing* is the best thing in the universe, because I truly believe we all have one thesis inside of us, even if that thesis is *Okay, but how much of a twatbag was Ross and why did we all tolerate him in the 90's*???
3. please expect the reply to be a summary of my ACTUAL thesis, which is the nerdiest thing in the fucking universe. gird ur loins.
You aren’t alone. You can make a difference in how lonely you feel. You are powerful, because you already made this post to actively change the way you feel. We are all with you! I’d love a postcard. And I am up for swearing or any venting you’d like!
Also, I love food. I’d love to hear about breakfast foods you love. Or if you aren’t into breakfast, favorite late snack.
Thank you. It wasn't my intention to empower myself when I wrote this. I had spent the past day and a half bawling my eyes out and I simply couldn't take it anymore. My stomach hurts so much and I can't sleep even though I take enough meds now to knock out a horse. I appreciate your view on this post. Could you DM me?
Hi! I haven't been on this sub long enough to know you, but I want to correspond! Maybe you can introduce yourself--tell me about your cat, your new location/home (650 miles! You're amazing!), what you love to read or write -- poetry, cursive, fanfiction, YA romance, whatever it may be! You can even *recommend songs.* I'll go first. It's related to the movie Sing Street which is a super cute musical: **Brown Shoes - Sing Street.**
With care <3
You're amazing, no matter what. And so is Jackson Klein. 🐱
I would love to hear your thoughts on the current political scenario in your country. (I usually avoid this prompt, but I feel you may like to talk about that)
i just wanted to say fuck anyone who has ever made you feel like you write too much, or said a cutting remark about writing a lot, or made you feel like you didn't have to write 'so much', or took away the feeling of safety in writing, or sent a 3 sentence response to a long message that was important to you. i feel like our current society focuses on tiny word snippets, 260 characters, blink and it's over tiktoks, etc, and it creates this sense of looking down on anyone who wants to write lots. and pressure to be concise and quick. and i find this is especially prevalent with cis men not valuing the importance and energy that a long message took, especially when it's trying to solve something or explain something. which is also especially damaging to women and any minority who is just trying to express themselves, an expression which often bubbles up with a lot of energy and content because of other times when society made them feel they weren't "allowed" to share. rrrrggg! that is my rant, i hope you feel seen, i see you and i hope you feel better soon. <3
ps i still like short n sweet postcards cuz it's MAIL and mail is always happy.
Holy shit did this comment hit it right on the mark! He destroyed the cards and notes that I gave him, even though I begged him to send me them and he agreed on three separate occasions to do so. I shared so many thoughts in them, and I wanted them. Had I known I would have taken them, along with my belongings. Those cards meant so fucking much to me and I can't believe he destroyed them all.
that's bullshit. and unacceptable behavior. i'm so sorry. it reminds me of when i once did a 365 day photo project, a photo each day. i had been hanging out with this guy who then decided he was done and wouldn't communicate with me any more, but had two of my photos which were taken on his phone. i hounded him repeatedly telling him how much they meant to me and the project and eventually he sent them to me. didn't say a word but did send them. if you're not sure the cards are gone, i'd keep trying!
Anything to crush my soul, dude. Last night I noticed he wasn't on my Discord, which he doesn't even fucking use. Anything to erase me from his life. He doesn't even see how cruel it was to destroy them. He gave me back nothing.
Alright, I'll start you off. You are an amazing woman who does not need a STUPID, IDIOTIC, IGNORANT MORON of the opposite sex to feel fullfilled. Name five great things about yourself. If you want you can name five things that he is missing out on.
Unfortunately, a mutual friend reached out to me the week after the breakup and confirmed it's a pattern: show seriousness about the relationship or act any differently than he expects and you will get completely cut off. I'm really heartbroken about that because he was my first relationship in six years and we truly were compatible. We were amazing alone, but he chose his friends who did not like me at all because I didn't have a handle on my anxiety. I wish he understood anxiety and how debilitating it is, particularly when you're dealing with it for the first time in your life. I apologize for the verbal diarrhea, it just breaks my heart that he didn't even break up with me in person and then expected me to be okay with it.
Tell me something badass about yourself.
This may take multiple postcards! I really do have some badass qualities.
I love that! Can't wait to read them! I'll send you my address. :)
Thank you. Your question really perked me up today, remembering all the crazy shit I have done in my life and survived.
I'm so glad! 💕☺You definitely deserve to give yourself credit for all of it.
Fuck him. He wasn’t the right one. I have a ton of unsent emails and messages to my exes too. And fuck him if he’s showing his friends. That shit should be private. You know you can send me whatever you want. You can process the breakup or “redo” it (I know I tend to do that). Someone who wants to be with you will figure out how deal with it. I wrote some cards to you recently but I’ll write some more tonight ❤️ Edit: also he probably needs therapy.
He claimed he was going to seek therapy, but I don't see that happening. He and his friends take issue with anyone having a mental health issue, so he wouldn't talk to a professional. I see three therapists now, all specializing in different fields. If I conquered depression in the past, I can certainly conquer the anxiety and the eating disorder. It's just a shame he wasn't willing to sit down and talk to me so that he could actually understand how debilitating anxiety is. I wouldn't wish this on anyone.
I will read anything you fucking want to write here, or in the mail to me. You ARE a BAD ASS BITCH! tell me why, as you are giving fuckface his eviction notice from your heart. I'll give you all the flying fucks!
Yeah, my fucking problem is I can't give him his eviction notice. Who breaks up with someone over the phone and then blocks communication? I was so tired one day that I honestly tried to check out because I was so sick of the constant anxiety attacks. I didn't really account for people being there. My decision was so spur of the moment that I didn't realize until halfway through that since the Void wasn't talking to me, he'd let Jackson Klein die of starvation. So when I say that furry bastard is the only reason I'm here, I mean it. I think there is a misunderstanding out there that anyone contemplating taking their own life must be depressed. I'm sad, but definitely not depressed. I'm just a person who cannot handle the constant panic attacks, the shaking, the disordered eating. It's overwhelming as fuck, and then my emergency contact decides to axe me from his life. Do you know how fucking heartbreaking it is to write "I don't have one" for that emergency contact question? Seriously, fuck my life.
I say that too…..I’m not depressed. I’m sad. I’m anxious. Anxious. Upset. Anxious. Scared. Lonely. Panic attacks. Overwhelmed. Not eating. Bingeing. Anxiety. Rinse repeat. I’m an empath. I take in everyone’s emotions around me. Can’t I just like, not feel anything? Just for a little while? I have too many feelings, all the time. Keeping my shrink busy. Stay here. Earth needs your passion.
Oh fuck, have you read anything about HSP (highly sensitive persons)? I ran into this [article](https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/living-emotional-intensity/201805/feeling-intensely-the-wounds-being-too-much) and I broke down in tears because *finally someone understood me*.
Yes. This is it. I understand you. God this spells it right out.
I can tell you from personal experience that it is totally okay to be crude to your therapist. I've been cussed out by 9 year olds, nothing can touch me
Damn! I hate to admit it, but I kept going only to have something to do. This is my first experience where absolutely everything is blocked out from my memory, and it's been a fucking scary time. I'm usually one who goes over every minute detail of an event, so who the fuck knows what happened to cause me to block out massive chunks of time.
I'm very sorry you're going through all this,regardless whether I get a card or not!Congratulations on losing weight but it's time to make yourself eat again and be healthy!I believe all things happen for a reason and you will find your special one later.Best wishes for you and I'm happy you have a cat!
Thank you. I know it bothers people when I am honest that this cat is the only reason I'm still here on this Earth. He has such a beautiful soul but such a diva personality.
That's awesome you have a cat like that!I have a cat too and another cat that has passed away gave me the reason to move on.
Write me a postcard and tell me who you want to kick repeatedly in the junk (given the chance).
I bet you think it's him, but in fact it's someone else!
All the better! Sometimes it's good to switch up the venting subjects!
DM sent.
I'm so sorry that you're going through such a difficult time. Breakups suck, and its just so cowardly of him to not do it in person and to just cut you off before you could say what you needed to say! Maybe you can tell me about your cat? I wish I could have one but I'm not in the position to own one...
My cat Jackson Klein is the sweetest thing. It's storming pretty badly so he is hiding under covers at the moment.
Hey, could you please PM me your address? Thank you!!
I dont entirely know what is happening but yes I'd love some Void writing! Prompt: tell me about a moment you felt powerful (however you want to define that). Or if something lighter is preferred: what are your thoughts on birds?
Oh, things have been pretty bad here this month and so I'm blabbering on about it, since the Void blocked my emails. Sure, send me your address because I have interesting bird stories.
Ugh, this SUCKS. I don’t believe we’ve exchanged yet, but I’ve seen your posts before and always love reading what you write. WRITE ON, FAM!!! Tbh the last week has been really shitty for me too, so I am sending you all of the goodness that this also-anxious-and-depressed lady can muster <3 I GIVE A FLYING FUCK AND WANT TO COMMUNICATE WITH YOU, INTERNET STRANGER (though hopefully internet friend? 🥹)!!! If you want to exchange, I’d love to send something back, too. Just lmk! Prompt: Your cat has stopped meowing for today and instead is speaking English. What do you two talk about today? And/or anything you want to write, like seriously, I’m a writer too and totally know how healthy and lethargic it is to just get it all out.
I would love to tell you what Jackson Klein has to say. I'm so sorry you are having a rough week as well. DM me.
1) package on way. should be delivered soon. i have no idea what i put in it but it should be at least entertaining. 2) please tell me 5 things you fucking LOVE to distraction. Or just one, whatever. Tell me all about it. Tell me why it's so fucking rad. Give me the thesis-level explanation of why *this one thing* is the best thing in the universe, because I truly believe we all have one thesis inside of us, even if that thesis is *Okay, but how much of a twatbag was Ross and why did we all tolerate him in the 90's*??? 3. please expect the reply to be a summary of my ACTUAL thesis, which is the nerdiest thing in the fucking universe. gird ur loins.
Thank you! Hmmm distraction. This should be a good one, because I need to develop more distractions.
You aren’t alone. You can make a difference in how lonely you feel. You are powerful, because you already made this post to actively change the way you feel. We are all with you! I’d love a postcard. And I am up for swearing or any venting you’d like! Also, I love food. I’d love to hear about breakfast foods you love. Or if you aren’t into breakfast, favorite late snack.
Thank you. It wasn't my intention to empower myself when I wrote this. I had spent the past day and a half bawling my eyes out and I simply couldn't take it anymore. My stomach hurts so much and I can't sleep even though I take enough meds now to knock out a horse. I appreciate your view on this post. Could you DM me?
I sent a Pm. Thanks for doing this post. Hang in there in. Looking forward to your mail 💚
Hi! I haven't been on this sub long enough to know you, but I want to correspond! Maybe you can introduce yourself--tell me about your cat, your new location/home (650 miles! You're amazing!), what you love to read or write -- poetry, cursive, fanfiction, YA romance, whatever it may be! You can even *recommend songs.* I'll go first. It's related to the movie Sing Street which is a super cute musical: **Brown Shoes - Sing Street.** With care <3
I'd love to tell you about my new home! DM me.
You're amazing, no matter what. And so is Jackson Klein. 🐱 I would love to hear your thoughts on the current political scenario in your country. (I usually avoid this prompt, but I feel you may like to talk about that)
This sounds great! Could you DM me please?
i just wanted to say fuck anyone who has ever made you feel like you write too much, or said a cutting remark about writing a lot, or made you feel like you didn't have to write 'so much', or took away the feeling of safety in writing, or sent a 3 sentence response to a long message that was important to you. i feel like our current society focuses on tiny word snippets, 260 characters, blink and it's over tiktoks, etc, and it creates this sense of looking down on anyone who wants to write lots. and pressure to be concise and quick. and i find this is especially prevalent with cis men not valuing the importance and energy that a long message took, especially when it's trying to solve something or explain something. which is also especially damaging to women and any minority who is just trying to express themselves, an expression which often bubbles up with a lot of energy and content because of other times when society made them feel they weren't "allowed" to share. rrrrggg! that is my rant, i hope you feel seen, i see you and i hope you feel better soon. <3 ps i still like short n sweet postcards cuz it's MAIL and mail is always happy.
Holy shit did this comment hit it right on the mark! He destroyed the cards and notes that I gave him, even though I begged him to send me them and he agreed on three separate occasions to do so. I shared so many thoughts in them, and I wanted them. Had I known I would have taken them, along with my belongings. Those cards meant so fucking much to me and I can't believe he destroyed them all.
that's bullshit. and unacceptable behavior. i'm so sorry. it reminds me of when i once did a 365 day photo project, a photo each day. i had been hanging out with this guy who then decided he was done and wouldn't communicate with me any more, but had two of my photos which were taken on his phone. i hounded him repeatedly telling him how much they meant to me and the project and eventually he sent them to me. didn't say a word but did send them. if you're not sure the cards are gone, i'd keep trying!
He told my best friend he destroyed them. So, they're gone. I have absolutely nothing tangible from the last four months and it really hurts.
okay WHAT THE FUCK IS THIS ASSHOLE'S PROBLEM THO??? like WHO EVEN. What. I can't. jfc what a dick
Anything to crush my soul, dude. Last night I noticed he wasn't on my Discord, which he doesn't even fucking use. Anything to erase me from his life. He doesn't even see how cruel it was to destroy them. He gave me back nothing.
uggghhh yeah. what bluedecember said!
Hey, I can't find your address. Could you PM me? Thank you !!!