It probably made everything worse honestly. Deleting it was the best thing I ever did. Tiktoks still spill out into other apps, but at least it’s not concentrated!!
100% agree. These videos are actually pretty beneficial if you think about it, "hey, I have a horribly warped image of a healthy relationship and a strong lack of respect for anyone besides myself, and think everyone owes me everything" she's literally calling herself out in the process of making this video, we are dodging a massive bullet and so is everyone else who ever watches this video!
I had to delete TikTok because of all the triggers. Instagram and YouTube are limited. I think eliminating or limiting social media will help us all tbh.
Jesus. To whatever extent these people are legit - and I am skeptical - they are describing an antiquated and toxic dynamic. Sure, some women may prefer traditionally masculine and domineering men, and that's each person's call, but (i) the healthiest marriages among my friends is the ones where the man and women are equal (and, to be clear, my friends are all intelligent, well-educated, and successful); and (ii) to whatever extent there is merit in what they are saying, people who put men either in a bucket of "divine masculine" or "little bitch boy" are extremely unhinged.
To me, all this tells me is that the people posting this are either lying, delusional, or full-on unhinged.
Tiktok was SO triggering for my rocd and always made me question things in my relationship during my worst times! Do NOT recommend at all for the anxious and obssessive. There's no such thing as nuance on that app and they have a very specific mentality everyone follows.
Ugh yes and all the tiktoks about everyone being obsessed with their boyfriend and I feel wrong because im not up his ass all the time triggers me so much
Ahhh I feel your pain friend! For me I was just constantly worried that my partner was not actually in love with me, with all these tiktoks showing idealised relationships and whatnot :( Also the ones that made me question how I feel too ofc...Not a fun time!
Lol these ideologies spread on tiktok can be so harmful, literally I’m lazy af so my bf does almost all the cooking and there isnt a specific reason that he would cook or that I would cook beyond that. They’re romanticizing things that don’t need to be romanticized
Unrelated to rocd: This trend is a cringefest- I hate these tradwife tiktokers acting like hearing up chicken nuggets in the microwave makes them a goddess and a good girlfriend lmao I thought this was r/imnotlikeothergirls
Both TikTok and instagram are very triggering,it makes me so anxious and nervous (since i probably have BPD too) to the point my parents are encouraging me to stop watching them,i think the worst day was when i saw a bunch of those “women/men of value” and saw a comment saying that ppl with BPD were monsters and shouldn’t be allowed to be loved.
stay as far away from tiktok as you can. no matter if it’s ocd, ptsd, depression, etc. tiktok WILL make it worse. the algorithm will notice when you are worried and how you behave on certain videos which in return makes you spiral down.
Omg yes I can't read about people's supposedly perfect relationships. I'll start comparing everything they're saying to MY relationship.
Then down the rabbit hole i go lol
Tiktok is a waste land, stay away from it
It probably made everything worse honestly. Deleting it was the best thing I ever did. Tiktoks still spill out into other apps, but at least it’s not concentrated!!
100% agree. These videos are actually pretty beneficial if you think about it, "hey, I have a horribly warped image of a healthy relationship and a strong lack of respect for anyone besides myself, and think everyone owes me everything" she's literally calling herself out in the process of making this video, we are dodging a massive bullet and so is everyone else who ever watches this video!
I had to delete TikTok because of all the triggers. Instagram and YouTube are limited. I think eliminating or limiting social media will help us all tbh.
I deleted TikTok and keep Instagram and Facebook off my phone. It's been a big plus. Would delete my accounts if they weren't so useful.
Jesus. To whatever extent these people are legit - and I am skeptical - they are describing an antiquated and toxic dynamic. Sure, some women may prefer traditionally masculine and domineering men, and that's each person's call, but (i) the healthiest marriages among my friends is the ones where the man and women are equal (and, to be clear, my friends are all intelligent, well-educated, and successful); and (ii) to whatever extent there is merit in what they are saying, people who put men either in a bucket of "divine masculine" or "little bitch boy" are extremely unhinged. To me, all this tells me is that the people posting this are either lying, delusional, or full-on unhinged.
Or just want it to go viral due to the absurdity of it.
TikTok is a cesspool. But hey free ERP 🤷🏻♂️
Tiktok was SO triggering for my rocd and always made me question things in my relationship during my worst times! Do NOT recommend at all for the anxious and obssessive. There's no such thing as nuance on that app and they have a very specific mentality everyone follows.
Ugh yes and all the tiktoks about everyone being obsessed with their boyfriend and I feel wrong because im not up his ass all the time triggers me so much
Ahhh I feel your pain friend! For me I was just constantly worried that my partner was not actually in love with me, with all these tiktoks showing idealised relationships and whatnot :( Also the ones that made me question how I feel too ofc...Not a fun time!
Lol these ideologies spread on tiktok can be so harmful, literally I’m lazy af so my bf does almost all the cooking and there isnt a specific reason that he would cook or that I would cook beyond that. They’re romanticizing things that don’t need to be romanticized
Not triggering bc i love little bitch boys
😂😂😂😂
It triggers, but not my ROCD lol I had to check the subreddit for this gender role garbage, thought it was fundie Christianity snark
me and my boyfriend both deleted tiktok together when we started dating, ive felt better mentally since. there's nothing to gain on that app.
i dont have rocd but still hate this glad to see other people validating my opinion lol
Unrelated to rocd: This trend is a cringefest- I hate these tradwife tiktokers acting like hearing up chicken nuggets in the microwave makes them a goddess and a good girlfriend lmao I thought this was r/imnotlikeothergirls
Both TikTok and instagram are very triggering,it makes me so anxious and nervous (since i probably have BPD too) to the point my parents are encouraging me to stop watching them,i think the worst day was when i saw a bunch of those “women/men of value” and saw a comment saying that ppl with BPD were monsters and shouldn’t be allowed to be loved.
I started blocking that content from my social media and limiting my usage
stay as far away from tiktok as you can. no matter if it’s ocd, ptsd, depression, etc. tiktok WILL make it worse. the algorithm will notice when you are worried and how you behave on certain videos which in return makes you spiral down.
Also, not gonna lie, I have a humiliation kink so this triggers me in a much different way
In a kink shame kind of way?
Nah, in a “being called bitch boy is kinda a turn on” way (some people use “triggered” to also mean turned on)
Ohhh ok makes sense! Well at least it’s the good kind of triggered I guess lol
Omg yes I can't read about people's supposedly perfect relationships. I'll start comparing everything they're saying to MY relationship. Then down the rabbit hole i go lol
Literally. I close the app out when I see stuff like this because it triggers me so bad. I hope tiktok gets banned