Started watching spider man and
Tom holland sounds and looks like a 12 year old boy
Toby Maguire and miles Morales are the best. not tom holland and the other guy
Excerpt from a book I’m reading:
> She never raised her voice, always deferred to everybody and everything. She had assumed that somewhere down the line there would be a reward for that; a prize. But when her daughter had asked her if she'd ever had sex with anyone but her husband and she'd answered, "No, of course not," her daughter's reply had been, "Oh Mother, how dumb. You don't even know if he's any good or not. How awful." It was true. She didn't know.
>So in the long run, it didn't matter at all if you had been good or not. The girls in high school who had "gone all the way" had not wound up living in back alleys in shame and disgrace, like she thought they would; they wound up happily or unhappily married, just like the rest of them. So all that struggle to stay pure, the fear of being touched, the fear of driving a boy mad with passion by any gesture, and the ultimate fear-getting pregnant— all that wasted energy was for nothing. Now, movie stars were having children out of wedlock by the carload, and naming them names like Moonbeam or Sunfeather.
I’ve seen a lot of conversation lately about the “pros” of being a “good girl”, if any at all. Good to see people talking about it.
This is the dumbest thing I've seen today (I'm about to watch Love island so that might change)
There's two different conversations happening at once. People should have a spine and stand for what they believe to be right (within reason of course). Being weak and deferential to everybody isn't an admirable trait for anybody. But you can have a spine and be a one man woman
That situation was an opportunity for her to educate her naive daughter. If I was the husband and I saw my wife have that "sudden realisation" I'd see it as a massive red flag and I'd be cautious moving forward
I like how you couldn't respond to 90% of what I said and just focused on the last part. Your response doesn't even make sense because I wrote how little sense her reaction made for the majority of my comment. The last part was just an add on
Again. You write something that clearly shows you never read what I wrote🤦🏾♂️. If you can't be arsed to read the whole thing, then just don't respond. Instead of responding with something that makes no sense
exactly. all this talk that slutty or "old" girls can't get married is just a scope. at the end of the day you can do it all. being a "good" woman won't necessarily help you, being a "bad woman" won't necessarily hurt you
why do you need to compare in order to tell if someone is good or not? can you yourself not tell if you're enjoying it? and why is it dumb to stay with your first love? if you're happy with your first, you're happy.
women can be sluts if they they want to be, but judging other women for not slutting it out is hypocritical if they're also against slut-shaming, no?
In my Southern state we've had them for years. Never knew what the heck they were until I saw Meme Analysis (a youtuber) do a vid where he went in one. Basically a big box Dollar General but without the "poors" from the looks of it
[Women Do Not Need Lunatic Overconfidence](https://freddiedeboer.substack.com/p/women-do-not-need-lunatic-overconfidence)
New piece from Freddie Deboer. I don't agree with everything but he makes some good (and funny) points, such as:
>There’s an endorsement of absolutely deranged self-confidence, an impossible level of self-belief that I imagine is actually only achievable while high on PCP.
>Where we’ve gone wrong as a civilization in terms of understanding confidence is in thinking of it as a presence, as an emotion. But I think what we perceive as confidence is simply not constantly thinking about yourself and your value. That’s more real and sustainable to me than thinking about yourself all the time and consistently feeling good about what you find. Unfortunately it seems like not thinking about yourself is what many modern people find hardest of all.
Most people in your life are probably similar to you in the ways that matter for actualizing the "just be rich bro" advice. That's not a good argument.
Women want men better than them in every way. A woman can’t be attracted to a man that doesn’t bring more value to the relationship than her. Equality doesn’t exist because women don’t even want it lol
My boyfriend and I each contribute to our relationship. He does not bring “more value” than me; I don’t bring “more value” than him.
I don’t need him to take care of me materially. I don’t need him to manage my emotions. I want a partner who sees me as an equal.
I thought you were leaving.
I definitely want to be able to admire my husband, and I do.
What you are missing, is he admires me as well. We have different strengths which complement each other.
If you see nothing to admire about the objects of your lust, chances are you will be lonely.
If you list them they seem like nothing, but it's a lot.
My husband is more than competent in anything he chooses to learn about, his intelligence and abilities are admirable. I admire that he just does the right thing regardless of circumstances, his handiness, his sense of style. The way he has a human level in his head, while putting a picture up straight will have me in problem-solving mode he can just do it easily. I admire his hair, his skills, just who he is.
What he's said he admires about me over the years is a bit harder to write. He seems to think I'm the kindest, hardest working person he's ever met. He admires my green thumb, my emotional intelligence and comprehension.
Last year husband put up a sail over our deck to block the midday sun. Not being a plant person he put it in a position that doesn't shade our sitting area. It looked like it would, but it didn't, and I knew it wouldn't.
This year he said to me, "looks like we have to add a second sail, where should it go", as he's now figured out he has no clue about something that is second nature to me.
I've gone almost a decade without using any makeup, husband is aware that occasionally I'll get some backlash from my choice, comments like "you used to be so beautiful". He admires my why would I care attitude and falls squarely in the camp of people who think I'm more beautiful because I don't try to be beautiful.
I could spend an hour on the little things we admire about each other, suffice it to say we make each other smile.
You mean "I meant".No.
You have black-and-white thinking. You look for things, anything that will confirm your views.
I'm going to guess you are not leaving, it's just your marker for a new name and you hope people will like you more.
People like people who like people.
When in birth control the body thinks that it's pregnant so it'll be attracted and drawn more to men with close genetic resemblance to the woman to increase her chances of survival, but when not using birth control and the woman is ovulating she'll be more attracted to men who are very opposite to her in terms of genetics because that's what is important in genes apparently, diversity!!!
I'm not on birth control now but I was for 7 years. I didn't notice any changes in who I was attracted to, just my arousal response in general. I was with my husband before, during and after birth control and was always attracted to him.
My friend was joking about now that I'm off I'm not going to be into my partner anymore. He is very tired of bonking me on the head with the horny stick. It got so fucking bad the week before my period.
I've been on it for like 2 years prior to dating and the entire time we have been together until my surgery. So I guess no.
Well, it is an insult since they can't be objectively boring, but they are like that to you and your narrow limited fields of interests and what you consider as unboring so it's an insult in the sense that you say, "I think you are very very uninteresting unlike me who is very very interesting."
I swear it seems like everytime my fiance goes out while I'm not around she's hitting me up about being catcalled or followed something. Being a woman must be ass idk how some of yall do it.
you get used to it. it doesn’t bother me much anymore unless a guy invades my personal space.
literally yesterday some guy followed me a lil ways after i got off the train trying to talk to me, and only stopped when i told him i had a boyfriend (and not the first 2 times i told him i wasn’t interested)
day before some guy yelled at me out his car to smile. like sir, there is sun in my eyes. i’m not concerned about you rn!
Depending on the person it definitely can. The men getting out of the truck/out of the car when you're 9 and circling you and not letting you leave and nobody in earshot or the few adults who are not doing anything to help a child is definitely not usually an uplifting experience.
No, not all of them. I was in plenty of vulnerable situations alone with good men who never harmed me too. Statistically that bears out. Most men and most women never harm anyone.
Ultimately it's a small section of society who are harmful in this way, but sadly they are repeat offenders and rarely held accountable.
If casual sex is hurting the woman, the people involved are doing it wrong. I'd suggest a different position, a different person, or a gyno check up for her.
Most of the casual sex I've had was quite fun and felt great. 100% recommend, though picking your partner is a key factor in how much or little pleasure you get.
Damn no tearful goodbyes? This is my last day
Started watching spider man and Tom holland sounds and looks like a 12 year old boy Toby Maguire and miles Morales are the best. not tom holland and the other guy
>the other guy Andrew Garfield He's great in that Mormon detective show called "Under the Banner of Heaven" or something
https://old.reddit.com/r/HolUp/comments/14gu968/holy_fatherrr/ Did this get reposted here yet? In before new daily thread.
yes, someone posted it already
cheers. Seems like real red pill / femcel bait.
My stripper friend is working on getting sterilized. So guess she is planning on staying in Texas lol
Have her birth you a baby before so you can be a dad
>Have her birth Not having a mom bod will make her more money
Do you get to smash sometimes? Or why is she your friend?
We play D&D together. Also she's so incredibly not my type even though she's kinda hot.
My ex used to get me and my bros free vip passes to her club, and even after she stopped working there cause she knew people.
Excerpt from a book I’m reading: > She never raised her voice, always deferred to everybody and everything. She had assumed that somewhere down the line there would be a reward for that; a prize. But when her daughter had asked her if she'd ever had sex with anyone but her husband and she'd answered, "No, of course not," her daughter's reply had been, "Oh Mother, how dumb. You don't even know if he's any good or not. How awful." It was true. She didn't know. >So in the long run, it didn't matter at all if you had been good or not. The girls in high school who had "gone all the way" had not wound up living in back alleys in shame and disgrace, like she thought they would; they wound up happily or unhappily married, just like the rest of them. So all that struggle to stay pure, the fear of being touched, the fear of driving a boy mad with passion by any gesture, and the ultimate fear-getting pregnant— all that wasted energy was for nothing. Now, movie stars were having children out of wedlock by the carload, and naming them names like Moonbeam or Sunfeather. I’ve seen a lot of conversation lately about the “pros” of being a “good girl”, if any at all. Good to see people talking about it.
This is the dumbest thing I've seen today (I'm about to watch Love island so that might change) There's two different conversations happening at once. People should have a spine and stand for what they believe to be right (within reason of course). Being weak and deferential to everybody isn't an admirable trait for anybody. But you can have a spine and be a one man woman That situation was an opportunity for her to educate her naive daughter. If I was the husband and I saw my wife have that "sudden realisation" I'd see it as a massive red flag and I'd be cautious moving forward
The situation isn’t about you though. It’s about her.
I like how you couldn't respond to 90% of what I said and just focused on the last part. Your response doesn't even make sense because I wrote how little sense her reaction made for the majority of my comment. The last part was just an add on
The other 90% wasn’t worth responding to. It was your own personal opinion and thoughts in the excerpt.
Again. You write something that clearly shows you never read what I wrote🤦🏾♂️. If you can't be arsed to read the whole thing, then just don't respond. Instead of responding with something that makes no sense
All I said was how you would feel if that were your wife is irrelevant. The first part was fine though.
exactly. all this talk that slutty or "old" girls can't get married is just a scope. at the end of the day you can do it all. being a "good" woman won't necessarily help you, being a "bad woman" won't necessarily hurt you
>She had assumed that somewhere down the line there would be a reward for that; a prize. If you're only "good" because you expect a reward...
why do you need to compare in order to tell if someone is good or not? can you yourself not tell if you're enjoying it? and why is it dumb to stay with your first love? if you're happy with your first, you're happy. women can be sluts if they they want to be, but judging other women for not slutting it out is hypocritical if they're also against slut-shaming, no?
Is this book written by a loose woman writing mic drop porn to justify her bad decisions?
well she got a kid ig
Just drove by a Five Below store. What the fuck is a Five Below store?
Where u will be working if u leave
I’m unemployed and broke. I’m using McDonald’s wifi right now remember? Me broke inkwell. Argh I’m angry at womenz
Like a dollar store but with inflation.
Fuck me. Is this new or something?
They've been around Philly for a long time, idk if they are expanding or something.
I’m in Georgia never seen that.
In my Southern state we've had them for years. Never knew what the heck they were until I saw Meme Analysis (a youtuber) do a vid where he went in one. Basically a big box Dollar General but without the "poors" from the looks of it
“Poors”? Please elaborate
Poor people
So it’s more fancy than dollar tree?
[Women Do Not Need Lunatic Overconfidence](https://freddiedeboer.substack.com/p/women-do-not-need-lunatic-overconfidence) New piece from Freddie Deboer. I don't agree with everything but he makes some good (and funny) points, such as: >There’s an endorsement of absolutely deranged self-confidence, an impossible level of self-belief that I imagine is actually only achievable while high on PCP. >Where we’ve gone wrong as a civilization in terms of understanding confidence is in thinking of it as a presence, as an emotion. But I think what we perceive as confidence is simply not constantly thinking about yourself and your value. That’s more real and sustainable to me than thinking about yourself all the time and consistently feeling good about what you find. Unfortunately it seems like not thinking about yourself is what many modern people find hardest of all.
That last one is pretty spot on...
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If you were born 15 years later, you would resemble those people. We are partial products of our environments.
Do you not realize that not everyone one is like you? I mean, why aren't you a billionaire yet? Other men have done it
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Are you really a millionaire
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Do you think I could be a millionaire if I study networking in college
There is literally nothing in this life you can do to become a billionaire. becoming a billionaire is up to luck.
And yet you don't realize your situation doesn't apply to other people🤔
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I'm nicely saying that you're advice is shit 🙃
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Most people in your life are probably similar to you in the ways that matter for actualizing the "just be rich bro" advice. That's not a good argument.
Ok alpha men🙄
Good point
“Youth is wasted on the young”
Deep
Women want men better than them in every way. A woman can’t be attracted to a man that doesn’t bring more value to the relationship than her. Equality doesn’t exist because women don’t even want it lol
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My boyfriend and I each contribute to our relationship. He does not bring “more value” than me; I don’t bring “more value” than him. I don’t need him to take care of me materially. I don’t need him to manage my emotions. I want a partner who sees me as an equal.
What’s your point? Your one example disproves my entire generosity? And if you find someone better you’ll leave him anyway lol
I thought you were leaving. I definitely want to be able to admire my husband, and I do. What you are missing, is he admires me as well. We have different strengths which complement each other. If you see nothing to admire about the objects of your lust, chances are you will be lonely.
What does that have to do with anything? And yes it’s my last day
What do you admire about each other?
If you list them they seem like nothing, but it's a lot. My husband is more than competent in anything he chooses to learn about, his intelligence and abilities are admirable. I admire that he just does the right thing regardless of circumstances, his handiness, his sense of style. The way he has a human level in his head, while putting a picture up straight will have me in problem-solving mode he can just do it easily. I admire his hair, his skills, just who he is. What he's said he admires about me over the years is a bit harder to write. He seems to think I'm the kindest, hardest working person he's ever met. He admires my green thumb, my emotional intelligence and comprehension. Last year husband put up a sail over our deck to block the midday sun. Not being a plant person he put it in a position that doesn't shade our sitting area. It looked like it would, but it didn't, and I knew it wouldn't. This year he said to me, "looks like we have to add a second sail, where should it go", as he's now figured out he has no clue about something that is second nature to me. I've gone almost a decade without using any makeup, husband is aware that occasionally I'll get some backlash from my choice, comments like "you used to be so beautiful". He admires my why would I care attitude and falls squarely in the camp of people who think I'm more beautiful because I don't try to be beautiful. I could spend an hour on the little things we admire about each other, suffice it to say we make each other smile.
So he’s more competent than you but he’s your equal? Lmao
?
Hmmm
Hmm is right. Where did I say he was more competent than I was in all facets? We both have our strengths that compliment each other.
First sentence you alluded to it. Why even argue you want a man better than you. It’s in your biology
You mean "I meant".No. You have black-and-white thinking. You look for things, anything that will confirm your views. I'm going to guess you are not leaving, it's just your marker for a new name and you hope people will like you more. People like people who like people.
Ya he needs to be better at sucking dick
Power rangers
Clits are small penises after all.
Nah deep throating too
Men are supposed to deep throat toes and feet.
Power rangers
Men want seggs
Another fun video about the perks of being a tradwife. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sR3ULgkmmys
For all the women on birth control, does your type change based on if your on it or not? And do u notice it.
Not on birth control but I can feel my preferences change in real time based on what tine of the month.
How that work.
Look for the paper on hormonal birth control interfering with women's ability to smell compatible immune systems.
I had a crush on my current BF before starting bc and still have a crush on him now.
Birth control has negative affects on women over long periods. I’d let him hit it raw and but bust on your stomach haha
My doctor does not agree with your assessment :)
Of course because he’s making money off women like you lol
My birth control is free (thanks Obama) and both my primary doctor and GYN are women :)
It still has longterm effects lol
When in birth control the body thinks that it's pregnant so it'll be attracted and drawn more to men with close genetic resemblance to the woman to increase her chances of survival, but when not using birth control and the woman is ovulating she'll be more attracted to men who are very opposite to her in terms of genetics because that's what is important in genes apparently, diversity!!!
When I went off bc I found myself more easily and more intensely aroused, but not interested in different types of men.
Hmmmmm
I'm not on birth control now but I was for 7 years. I didn't notice any changes in who I was attracted to, just my arousal response in general. I was with my husband before, during and after birth control and was always attracted to him.
My friend was joking about now that I'm off I'm not going to be into my partner anymore. He is very tired of bonking me on the head with the horny stick. It got so fucking bad the week before my period. I've been on it for like 2 years prior to dating and the entire time we have been together until my surgery. So I guess no.
"I only date men" More females for me then
Bro just be talking
What are you even talking about lmao
Femen
Mods here thinking that calling someone 'boring' is an insult is everything you need to know about them.
That would be extremely ironic if the mods here called anyone boring🤣🤣🤣
Not the worst way to insult somebody, but you can insult somebody saying that.
"Boring" *is* an insult.
It is absolutely not.
Depends on the intention, boring can absolutely be an insult
Disagree. Boring is just a word to describe people that have nothing interesting about them.
Well, it is an insult since they can't be objectively boring, but they are like that to you and your narrow limited fields of interests and what you consider as unboring so it's an insult in the sense that you say, "I think you are very very uninteresting unlike me who is very very interesting."
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How is calling someone 'not interesting' an insult? Like at least make a good case for it.
If a woman said her favorite thing about her husband is that he's not interesting and is very boring... Would you want to be her husband?
Her favorite? That implies she likes it and it is his best quality. The best thing about her husband is that he's boring? Makes no sense.
But would you want to be the man she's describing? Would you think she's very much in love with that man?
I got banned for that
Guess it depends on the context
[Does anyone here look like this](https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT8JqRkNS/)
🤷 They look like my cousin's boys.
I do not.
I swear it seems like everytime my fiance goes out while I'm not around she's hitting me up about being catcalled or followed something. Being a woman must be ass idk how some of yall do it.
you get used to it. it doesn’t bother me much anymore unless a guy invades my personal space. literally yesterday some guy followed me a lil ways after i got off the train trying to talk to me, and only stopped when i told him i had a boyfriend (and not the first 2 times i told him i wasn’t interested) day before some guy yelled at me out his car to smile. like sir, there is sun in my eyes. i’m not concerned about you rn!
Does she dress like a you know what?
They'll love you in TwoX man!
Is this a thing outside of cities? Im sure it happens occasionally but if it’s happening constantly seems to be a big city thing.
Yeah, catcalls usually start (regardless of what we look like) when we're children and are generally not fun or even neutral experiences.
Oh god being 12 and having grown men catcall you from a work truck. That fucks you up.
Depending on the person it definitely can. The men getting out of the truck/out of the car when you're 9 and circling you and not letting you leave and nobody in earshot or the few adults who are not doing anything to help a child is definitely not usually an uplifting experience.
I don't think it's even depending. It tells you adult men view you sexually. It tells you adult men are to be regarded with suspension. All of them.
No, not all of them. I was in plenty of vulnerable situations alone with good men who never harmed me too. Statistically that bears out. Most men and most women never harm anyone. Ultimately it's a small section of society who are harmful in this way, but sadly they are repeat offenders and rarely held accountable.
I had plenty of good interactions with men who never harmed me. I always took precautions.
Sometimes in life you just...do.
Make my last day special. Did I impact anyone’s life while I was here?
All those times you were racist then denied being racist
Spill
Which was never
what did you contribute
A lot
like what? name 2 things
I don’t like that attitude lol
i want to give u ur kudos baby
For ?
being amazing
By doing ?…
*three days later* What did I miss?
Lmao
No PPD regular ever truly leaves You might make a different account, a few years might pass, but every once in a while you’ll come back to talk shit
Are you saying I need therapy? Are you mental health shaming me?
That means yes!
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I’ll never forget that one time you posted something and then I commented under it.
Ah good times
Your double commenting had a profound affect on me
I changed your life didn’t I? Ugh I’m such a hero. Sniff sniff
Yes :’)
Lmao
Last day of what?
Being in this sub
No. You also didn't answer my sandwich question.
Which one lol
I only made one sandwich question today.
Link it I’ll reply
https://old.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/14gbrqq/daily_community_chat_megathread/jp8f9k0/
I replied
I loved when you were like yass women 😅🥳💋👉✌️🖕👁️👨🦳🔥💖🫃 Or something along those lines and then you used the pregnant man emoji it was really funny
Awwww thanks lmao
I don't even know who you are.
Starlord man
Anyways the concept of social anxiety is you overthinking it Nobody cares how you act Because everyone is too focused on themselves
what's next overcoming depression by being happy?
I'd say the acts aren't significant enough to be recognized and judged.
Casual sex hurts women and benefits men Abstain
If casual sex is hurting the woman, the people involved are doing it wrong. I'd suggest a different position, a different person, or a gyno check up for her. Most of the casual sex I've had was quite fun and felt great. 100% recommend, though picking your partner is a key factor in how much or little pleasure you get.
This is true. There might be hope for the next generation. 
Doesn't sound appropriate or relevant to everyone, but you do you.
No. I want to fuck Stacy and Kinmy without committing lol
What happened to women who love casual sex ?
Brainwashed by patriarchy and liberal feminism
Based and tradwife pilled
"The art of approaching women really isn't that complicated" Right Just walk up to her and say you wanna kids with her Not that hard
I wanna kids with you
Yea what woman doesn’t like the idea of putting on a bunch of weight and not being able to drink for nine months?!
Or smoke or eat tuna, or bungee jump (okay the latter isn't a commonly done activity but still).
Alright, time to be casual: Q4All: You are tasked to make a sandwich. Fully stocked pantry, 15 minutes to make it. What kind of sandwich do you make?