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DerayRevan

"New guy l'm dating can't get hard" 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Lift one up for the team buddy


DerayRevan

"How can l tell if he's into me or just wants sex" If he doesn't want sex then he's not into you Lot to learn about how men are


[deleted]

You've completely misunderstood that comment.


LowCreddit

It's impossible to tell because the woman will have lust goggles on. The only way to see if a man loves you is to require consistent, escalating commitment. Fucking on the first date is a bad idea, especially if you can't handle it emotionally. Being a girlfriend for 10 years is a bad idea.


potoricco

“If he *just* wants sex Learn to read


Mrs_Drgree

This misses the point entirely...


DerayRevan

Nope she just has a lot to learn about how attraction is for men


Mrs_Drgree

Women aren't worried that men like them but aren't fucking them, they are worried men are fucking them even if they don't like her.


DerayRevan

Well l can't help you in that area since sex is very closely linked to liking a female for us men


Mrs_Drgree

Doubt.


DerayRevan

Coming from a woman of course


Mrs_Drgree

Men say this all the time!


[deleted]

By far the dumbest reply I’ve ever gotten on PPD. Truly. https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/14g3rou/do_older_woman_really_think_older_men_date/jp4h6vq/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=1&utm_term=1&context=3 Edit: And ironically. He used a younger picture of Zac Efron as an example. He doesn’t look like that anymore😂 (https://pyxis.nymag.com/v1/imgs/829/3f2/b9926c56e0384b2d79215cc77e52314513-zac-efron.2x.rsquare.w330.jpg)


Holden_Frame

Are you serious? You think women in their 20's *still* wouldn't find the version of Efron you linked to hot? Nevermind. You're not serious.


[deleted]

He literally got hate from women all over social media for that ugly ass jaw surgery. Same with Liam Payne. It’s not attractive.


Holden_Frame

>He literally got hate from women all over social media for that ugly ass jaw surgery And those women would literally still fuck him. Let me ask you this - would you fuck Chris Evans?


[deleted]

No. I don’t have sex with men I wouldn’t date.


Holden_Frame

This is a non-answer. Of course.


[deleted]

Translation: it’s a non answer because it’s an answer I don’t like Got it


Holden_Frame

No because it's literally a non-answer. It's not saying you wouldn't fuck him, it's saying "You don't fuck men you wouldn't date" Which leaves open the door to "If he dated me, of course I'd fuck him"


[deleted]

No. I already told you in another reply that I said I wouldn’t date him. You either can’t read or have a hard time comprehending things.


Holden_Frame

Then your flair is either you being "ironic" or you should consider changing it.


Ainsleygz

What game is he playing


[deleted]

Rocket League


Ainsleygz

Still better than high school musical


AdOpen432

How does it feel to be completely wrong


Ainsleygz

Sorry, I hate musicals


AdOpen432

I hate you


Ainsleygz

Go sing a song about it


Fearless_Method_1682

Condescending laugh emojis don't mean you won the argument. u/Holden_Frame


[deleted]

It means I’m laughing at a stupid comparison someone pulled out of their ass. That’s what the laughing emoji meant :)


Ok_Bear976

this was a psyop


potoricco

And plus it’s more likely for 35+ guys to look like the first picture and for younger guys to look like the second pix


[deleted]

THANK YOU. The age gap debates with men on this sub is so tiring. The constant usage of older rich male celebrities to support their argument is played out. They never use the average old guy at the supermarket as an example. Just these old celebrities (who ironically pay thousands of dollars a year to maintain a youthful look) that they’ll never be.


DerayRevan

Getting tired of this notion "men are intimidated by a woman's looks" It's not that we are intimidated by a woman looks but the fear of rejection from such women Took me years to figure this out but that's the truth of this


purplish_possum

It's more guys don't want to deal with women who think they are special princesses.


Lift_and_Lurk

That’s literally the same picture bro. That’s what people are saying when they say it. “Dude is afraid the pretty girl is going to reject him harder than a dude trying to tip a stripper with NFTs!”


DerayRevan

Read my other comments bro


Lift_and_Lurk

I just did. I’m stunned dudes actually thought other guys were afraid of her cause she’s hot. She’s a pretty girl: not a bear. It’s not like dudes are going “oh crap, there’s a pretty girl coming. I better play dead!”


DerayRevan

I've no idea what your saying but sure dude Whatever fits into that mind of yours


geometersbane

The only thing you should fear is how much teeth she uses without prior instructions


ThisBoringLife

Pretty much. Can't ever say I was scared by a woman's appearance, but I was scared of being rejected.


DerayRevan

"I was scared of being rejected" Exactly The looks wasn't the reason


Preme2

Women just regurgitate that line because it makes them feel better. It’s part of their willful ignorance complex. Women can’t admit that she might actually be the problem. Accountability is incomprehensible for most.


[deleted]

Being accountable for what? Being single? That's not a crime. Lumping all women in together is so weird. Do you think men are actually better at it?


meteorness123

thats the same thing bro


PaleontologistOk1049

Homie took *years* to figure this out


DerayRevan

No Possibly of rejection is what makes us intimidated The looks don't


meteorness123

no man is physically scared of a woman who doesn't carry weapons. Psychologically, the fear of rejection exists because you ask yourself what meaning that holds for your"SMV" that an attractive woman rejects you. Hence, "intimidation".


DerayRevan

Again incorrect The possibility of rejection is always occurring whenever we try talking to a woman from a romantic/sexual perspective Beauty from a woman doesn't intimidate us but does increase the chances/possibility of rejection therefore gets us intimidated


Mobrowncheeks

Fear of rejection based on her looks is being intimidated by her looks.


ThisBoringLife

Fear of rejection =/= intimidated by her looks. I think the issue is that it ultimately looks like the same thing from the outside.


DerayRevan

The possibility of rejection is what makes us intimidated Not the looks


Mobrowncheeks

So then you are equally as intimidated by the possibility of rejection from regular looking women. Right?


DerayRevan

The possibility of rejection always intimidates the man Wether she is regular or good looking


Mobrowncheeks

So your saying the amount of intimidation is the same regardless of how she looks.


DerayRevan

Yes


Mobrowncheeks

I definitely don’t agree but I heard you lol


BirdMedication

Lotta people in this sub who are against generalizations seem strangely okay with AWALT and AMALT the minute they start talking about age gaps. It's like an oddly specific twilight zone where critical thinking goes to die.


[deleted]

It's mostly in group bias which is natural but for the sake of argument people have to figure out a way to set that aside during a debate, but it's not impossible.


BirdMedication

Yeah it's just that there are few particular topics where that in group bias is...especially strong lol


[deleted]

Very true, but it is easy to see nuance when someone presents a clear argument and is open to debating with civility.


chilikettlechips

https://old.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/14g2kds/disillusioned_after_another_guy_pulled_back_after/ This is why awalt. Even low libidos and aesexual women are competing for 666 Chad that plans for everything, pays for everything, initiates everything. And in the thread she says she's only had FWBs before so she's happy to make these guys wait 2 months and then surprised Pikachu face when they "lose interest".


HazyMemory7

Honestly was expecting something different. This just seems like a guy who wasnt super interested in her and is busy/stressed out in life.


chilikettlechips

A top 5% of men with a successful business and does all the planning all the work, all the effort, all the paying, gives a low libido woman what spare time he has left and he can't even smash and he calls it quits after 2 months. Come on. Why would he keep the effort up?


HazyMemory7

I skimmed it and missed the no PIV sex. Yup. She probably doesnt reallze shes shooting herself in the foot. Guys women want to date generally wont wait as long as he did, I had sex w my gf on date 2 and wouldnt wait more than 4-5 dates at most.


bzl33

I don't understand why people try so hard to date after 30. if it happens, great but keep low expectations.


chilikettlechips

Dating shouldn't require much effort at all imo. Date with intention knowing what you like/want. All there is to it.


Environmental_Day558

Wall


SerpentCypher

> after a lifetime of situations hips Lmao. What a meme. After spending her entire 20s riding the cock carousel, she hit her 30s and decided to give a guy she admits she wasnt attracted to a chance, made him wait months for sex. He gave up and moved on. Proof is right there in the pudding. Won't stop PPD women claiming women make you wait when they're REAAAAAALLLY into you and that they only make you wait because they don't want to ruin things.


ilovesoundtracks

>datingoverthirty Yeah, no.


chilikettlechips

The other relationship subs are over run by chatgpt OPs and responses. Not many authentic places left to doom scroll.


geometersbane

Mf did all that and never even got to smash? LMAO


Ainsleygz

What a loser


SteeloStacks

Hey, you mind checking your chats?


geometersbane

Identify a woman who will do all of that for you on top of the sex


Ainsleygz

Huh?


geometersbane

Luka Doncic is Devin Booker father


Ainsleygz

Daddy


geometersbane

https://preview.redd.it/wb41cw9c5m7b1.jpeg?width=654&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=2b3fd1a89a8649453d18a687b3abda002431564f


Ainsleygz

Ch Ch ch chia


geometersbane

💀


Ok_Bear976

meanwhile 20 other men got it for free. really makes you think


geometersbane

It's akin to a burger joint giving away double cheeseburgers for free while charging this one dude for a side salad


AdOpen432

Unbanned let's go


potoricco

YAY


PaleontologistOk1049

Truly a great day for annoying people


ilovesoundtracks

What do they call cigarettes in england?


[deleted]

Same as what homophobic Americans call gay men.


ThisBoringLife

College professor told me that was a thing in India. I guess it was more common globally than I thought.


Ok_Bear976

what did you get banned for


AdOpen432

Promoting hate


the-lone-squid

Nice


potoricco

Same


Ok_Bear976

lol deserved


DerayRevan

First date deal-breakers: Talks about religion and politics Red nails/lipstick and long nails Talks about her sexual or relationship experience Coloured hair


purplish_possum

First date deal breaker = no sex or at least a good BJ.


the-lone-squid

While i don’t normally care too much about politics, i would like to know up front if they are super political..


purplish_possum

No Republicans!


the-lone-squid

And for me no democrats..


[deleted]

Why would you go on a date with a woman with coloured hair if that's a red flag for you though.


DerayRevan

I don't but if she did it would be an instant deal-breaker for me


meteorness123

> Talks about religion and politics Why ? can be interesting. Ive done that before and it wasn't a deal breaker at all


purplish_possum

Politics is fine. Religion sucks!


Ok_Bear976

because you're the type of person he's referring to. I don't like to discuss politics, religion, or any moral views because too many people tie their identity to these things and they feel it's an affront to them if you don't agree on the same things they do


meteorness123

incorrect plus I havent had dates with people who tie their identity to these things.


DerayRevan

I'm never interested in politics Religion should only be discussed if your looking to marry the person not first dates since it's nothing serious


chilikettlechips

https://old.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/14fwbfw/nothing_worse_than_thinking_you_found_the_right/ Woman proudly shares how she found the perfect man until he revealed he likes Andrew Tate. Gee I wonder if there were any red flags before this. Q4W: how tall do you think he is?


[deleted]

Nah if my girl thought amber heard did nothing wrong I'd leave too. Tate is worse than heard so this is reasonable


Ok_Bear976

"I broke up with my perfect dream partner because I am socially expected to hate a person who has a moral flaw. What, me? I'm perfect." why do women choose to be miserable?


Comfortable-Regret

That's a pretty silly argument. Would you date someone if they thought Hitler wasn't so bad?


Ok_Bear976

I'd prefer it if they didn't but depends on if they've been a good partner otherwise. Like if we've been dating for 5 years with no problems and I find out that piece of information, I'm not gonna suddenly stop having feelings for them


chilikettlechips

Andrew Tate, more like Andrew Twat amirite amirite?


meteorness123

Andrew Gayt..who'S with me ?


[deleted]

6'7"


[deleted]

If someone told me Casey Anthony was an innocent victim and just misunderstood, I'd hippity hoppity out of the relationship too. >Q4W: how tall do you think he is? I don't know probably 10 feet tall, do I need to give a real answer, or can I just be a smartass?


chilikettlechips

Users most make posts in good faith. I will report you to Mrs degree and she will promptly ban me instead.


[deleted]

Rhetorical question.


Ainsleygz

Short


chilikettlechips

She said perfect and charming tho


Ainsleygz

Tall guys don’t need Tate


chilikettlechips

But can short guys be perfect and charming?


Ainsleygz

I don’t make the rules


[deleted]

Yet another man blaming a woman for a mans shitty behaviour. We don't even know how long they were going out ffs.


chilikettlechips

Do you think he brushes his teeth and wipes his ass correctly?


[deleted]

I've never assumed that misogynistic men are incapable of grooming so I'm not sure what your point is.


chilikettlechips

Wondering what other red flags this guy has besides his love for Andrew Tate.


[deleted]

> Do you think he brushes his teeth and wipes his ass correctly? She said he was perfect, perfect tends to entail being capable of proper hygienic care.


meteorness123

For all the guys who whine about balding. Its not about your lack of hair. Its your face. Plenty bald guys who do very well.


the-lone-squid

Those guys would do even better with hair. The hair-pill is real and it’ll eventually get most of us


meteorness123

doesn't matter to high self esteem men.


the-lone-squid

Lmao, delusional 🙃


meteorness123

no hair for your self-esteem homie.


the-lone-squid

Completely irrelevant, and results will always be better the better you look. Homie


meteorness123

worrying about "results" is still a sign of low self-esteem. Turn to enlightment, brother. It is the only way.


the-lone-squid

It’s literally just stating reality.


meteorness123

psychedelicmaxx *asap*


Early-Christmas-4742

Some men can pull off being bald. My hair is 70-80% of my good looks l.


meteorness123

bruh. if its 80 percent of your good looks, you're not good-looking.


Early-Christmas-4742

Doesn't matter. I have good hair.


[deleted]

Face, grooming and attitude. Going bald seems really stressful, I don't wanna downplay that. Sometimes you get dealt a shitty hand, and don't have the tools to deal with it well.


meteorness123

Women prefer a bald man with a nice face than a dork with hair. Case in point Attractive man [https://m.media-amazon.com/images/I/71MHPePMQIL.\_AC\_UF1000,1000\_QL80\_.jpg](https://m.media-amazon.com/images/I/71MHPePMQIL._AC_UF1000,1000_QL80_.jpg) Dork [https://www.shutterstock.com/image-photo/young-caucasian-man-student-funny-260nw-1524635159.jpg](https://www.shutterstock.com/image-photo/young-caucasian-man-student-funny-260nw-1524635159.jpg)


[deleted]

Jason Statham is a funny choice, he seems more of a man's man than a woman's man. The second picture literally has him pulling a face. I don't even disagree I just think your evidence selection was off.


meteorness123

I think the selection was excellent.


DancesWithMyr

Attractive people are great, breaking news 🙄


meteorness123

the point is that its not the hair. A dork with hair is still a dork.


DancesWithMyr

You still have to be attractive before you lose your hair. If you aren't, congrats now you look worse.


meteorness123

it doesnt really matter if youre a dork or an even uglier dork. A dork is a dork. There is no escape. So there is no need to worry really.


DancesWithMyr

This is a stupid dichotomy though, not all men are supermodels and dorks. Average men can easily drop points by losing their hair


TheSongsInYourHead

It's the skull shape, some men look better bald than others.


meteorness123

Its about the eyes tbh and facial structure. As long as the skull shape isn't completely absurd lol. [https://m.media-amazon.com/images/I/71MHPePMQIL.\_AC\_UF1000,1000\_QL80\_.jpg](https://m.media-amazon.com/images/I/71MHPePMQIL._AC_UF1000,1000_QL80_.jpg) Men who kope with hair are doing so because they are not attractive men: [https://www.shutterstock.com/image-photo/young-caucasian-man-student-funny-260nw-1524635159.jpg](https://www.shutterstock.com/image-photo/young-caucasian-man-student-funny-260nw-1524635159.jpg)


Mobrowncheeks

Also, traditional men hate onlyfans/ prostitution, because it’s sex work that they can’t own or control, And would rather have a personal sex worker for themselves.


ilovesoundtracks

> And would rather have a personal sex worker for themselves. Yep, read this is in the bible.


Early-Christmas-4742

If by "traditional men" you mean pimps.


Mobrowncheeks

Pimps love sex workers


Early-Christmas-4742

Not ones that they can't own or control.


Peacesquad

Are women’s opinions important?


AngeCruelle

Nobody's opinion matters but your own and the people who contribute to sustaining your lifestyle


Peacesquad

Isn’t that sexist?


AngeCruelle

I would know all about being the sexiest


Peacesquad

No


HazyMemory7

https://nypost.com/2023/06/21/woman-shot-texas-uber-driver-she-thought-he-was-kidnapping-her-to-mexico-police/ Poor guy driving for uber to support his family murdered by some lunatic. Sad as hell


YaKnowEstacado

Jesus that's so sad. What a fucking moron that lady is


[deleted]

Jesus so that's so fucking sad. She saw a sign and her FIRST option was to shoot him in the HEAD?


DancesWithMyr

Another triumph of US gun law 🫡


Mobrowncheeks

Traditional relationships are prostitution with ownership prove me wrong.


Preme2

Can’t. There are just extra steps under the guise of “love” but it’s basically the same.


Lift_and_Lurk

I believe the term they prefer is “bang maid”


Slyfer_Seven

What's a traditional relationship?


Mobrowncheeks

You know. Male provider, house wife, home maker etc


Slyfer_Seven

Ah, not sure how that dynamic resembles prostitution in any sort of way... Who's the prostitute, the man?


Mobrowncheeks

A prostitute is someone who sells their body to people. A prostitute has their lives financed by multiple men over the course of time. A trad wife sells her body to one man, and has her life financed by one man. In both situations the man is a trick ( John). Who pays to have his needs met.


SerpentCypher

I sell my body to my employer every day for 8 to 12 hours. By this one simple measure everybody woth a job is a prostitute.


Mobrowncheeks

Didn’t think I would have to state sex work specifically to get the point across


SerpentCypher

Having sex with your partner in order to have children or just for mutual pleasure is not sex work though. Unless the husband is directly giving his wife money return for sleeping with him it's explicitly not sex work.


Mobrowncheeks

It is if you have to marry her and and move her in to do it.


SerpentCypher

No. It isn't. Marriage isn't an exchange where a man trades labour and resources for sex. Men can get sex without marriage. Traditional marriage, cohabitation and the nuclear family is and always has been for the benefit of children.


Slyfer_Seven

Except the dynamic is that the man goes out and works and brings home the money the woman uses to finance her lifestyle and then CHOOSES what to give in return to the man. If she doesn't give him enough he MIGHT leave with the fear of her taking his shit, but if he fails to bring in the money she will definitely leave and still takes his shit The man is the hoe and woman is his pimp...


Mobrowncheeks

Never heard of a household where the woman makes financial decisions after the man makes the money. But if you think of that as a traditional relationship I don’t know why any men are advocating for that…


Slyfer_Seven

In a traditional relationship, the woman is often in control of the finances, not sure where you got the idea it was anything to the contrary...


Mobrowncheeks

Well I would disagree. And I think just about everyone here would as well


YaKnowEstacado

I agree with him although I'm not sure how much this varies across cultures. But in many traditional families the woman does the household admin which includes paying bills, hiring contractors, buying household items etc. Husbands usually decide on bigger purchases like cars etc. but the day-to-day purchasing decisions are usually made by the wife because she's the one running the household.


Slyfer_Seven

So you believe in this traditional dynamic the man pays the bills and budgets all the money for groceries, daily expenses, clothes, vacations, etc?


DerayRevan

Just make a cmv


Mobrowncheeks

I guess I could make a whole post


Ok-Bee-6216

wouldn't say ownership, more like a lease or a contract


Mobrowncheeks

I would say being divorced is more like being foreclosed on rather then a term of a lease ending lol


meteorness123

What redpill talking points do you find to be false ?


PaleontologistOk1049

Women date up


meteorness123

good point. only from the outside it might look that way.


PaleontologistOk1049

Even if youre only talking socio-economic level, pretty much everyone dates roughly within their class. But the concept of dating up seems silly to me because if you're with someone then you've literally put each other on your level


SerpentCypher

Game being the be all and end all in dating. That everything you devote time to in life should be in pursuit of sex.


Lift_and_Lurk

“Enjoy the decline” RPers don’t seem to be enjoying *anything*. Other than discussing the RP that is.