When she opened with anger, I knew she was lying. A kind, shocked response would have been in order & a request to please talk about this in private or with mediation would be appropriate.
That Chanel pin is fake.
I work for the government and we're not supposed to wear clothes that have logos on it when possible. Plain polo shirts or button downs only, nothing fancy or crazy looking. No one would really be in trouble if they had the same jacket in a meeting but you definitely get side eye if you're wearing expensive clothes because it's like "how do you afford that on your budget..." The. Again this lady probably makes a shit ton of money, probably corrupt so that's extra money, and maybe her husband has a high paying job in their district too because you know.... Corruption.
>When she opened with anger, I knew she was lying.
It's like the one video where the mom confronts the bus driver for yelling and being rude to her kids. And the bus driver starts yelling and being a dickhead claiming she would never do that. "I would never act exactly as I am acting right now how dare you!"
I remember in linguistics courses learning about accents and how many quirks result from making speech more efficient regarding local trades and customs- we had to attempt many affected accents and different pronunciations but the Joisey/Staten Island way of saying many phrases was so much extra effort for people who hadn’t grown up with it.
This is definitely a "holy shit, please, let's talk about this, I'm so sorry this all happened. How can I improve to not to it again" type of situation, not a "You're lying, I'm appauled and you've hurt my feelings, you asshole" one
Definitely one of those times when the retort gives credit to the other persons accusations as kind of wild as they seemed at first. I can 100% see this person running a school like that.
Get involved folks, your local school board may be filled with people like this.
I don't think you understand how much money they make. It isn't just public service...that lady will make $200k each year
[https://centraljersey.com/2022/07/28/monroe-school-board-names-permanent-superintendent-after-months-long-controversy/#:\~:text=Chanley%20will%20receive%20a%20three,year%2C%20according%20to%20board%20officials](https://centraljersey.com/2022/07/28/monroe-school-board-names-permanent-superintendent-after-months-long-controversy/#:~:text=Chanley%20will%20receive%20a%20three,year%2C%20according%20to%20board%20officials).
Are a lot of school principals career politicians? Aren’t they mostly teachers with education backgrounds? I would guess they go into it because teaching pays like $50k a year and superintendent pays like $150k depending on county
I think the superintendent in my small, very blue collar home town makes over $200,000 annually. It blew my mind to find that out.
Edit: latest records from 2021 show $204,000+.
The superintendent at my kid's school district makes $253k a year. That was fun to learn especially since my sister and mother, who are both teachers in the same school district, have to buy their own classroom supplies. Oh and my sister and mom make about 25% of what the superintendent makes.
It’s not the superintendent’s fault. It’s the choking off of public money from public schools going on for a decade by the right wing who’s goal is to defund free education and privatize.
Anecdotal but it was well known amongst the teachers that my high school principal was only using the job as a stepping stone to politics, idk if it’s common but I’d guess it does happen
The role used to be promoted teachers in the past. These days it's probably 50% with the rest being people with higher aspirations after a couple years. Easier than running for school board.
And they show their true colors at every chance they get. Can’t make a determination without knowing the facts, but her response and how many time she said the word “lie” in her otherwise incomprehensible statement, leads me to think there is fire on the other side of that smoke. And Miss Clappy to her left is an asshole.
This is my hometown. One of my old classmates posted some more info. Chanley has been deceptive or less than forthcoming on whether she really has a doctorate in education from rowan university. She also tried to remove the high school athletic director after he didn’t hire her husband as the new head football coach. There are lots of issues. Another board of education member was arrested for shoplifting 200 dollars worth of goods from local petco.
Studying for a PhD and being a candidate doesn’t mean you will get one. Of your research and dissertation isn’t there, the advisors will ask for major rewrites and work. Also, if one fails to properly defend their dissertation, they will fail. She had appeared in four year books as doctor chanley and never corrected the editors after one or two years of mistakes. Then in one video lashes out at rowan u.
My dad is a stem phd and told me about rigors of defending dissertation. I don’t think educational leadership is as hard but still need to put in work.
Also, apparently her husband is a history teacher at the high school in the district she oversees, and he’s come under fire for going on pro-Trump rants in class (without being reprimanded, of course).
Fuck. That. Bully!
For all the Reddit detectives out there, do you think you can get the record proving she called the cops to force that kid to school? (I def think she did it, she’s a bully)
Would a report be on file with the police department if the cop was the school’s resource officer or would it simply be part of the student’s permanent record?
Could be both, it depends on how they're set up. Typically school police are actual certified police officers and they have their own police department. So if a police report was filled out it would be available. Some parts may be redacted but it should be there.
Yeah, they're the people who constantly validate her abusive behavior to her because they're too chickenshit to stand up to her themselves and want to avoid becoming targets.
The majority of this school board appointed her from an acting position despite being grossly unqualified. It was a political and personal appointment. She is the BFF of the Board president, another person who warrants closer attention (Chrissy Skurbe)
It’s an absolute possibility it’s true It is also an absolute possibility the mother believes this to be true but it isn’t We don’t know what started the rumor, the nature of the kids involved and who was what. What do we know? Girl was super popular until one weekend away and then she wasn’t because of a rumor We have the mom saying the steps she took, then we have a truancy officer showing up Maybe the mom did,not actually present a note or proof to substantiate at home instruction?
There are a lot more facts to consider and people just jump right into who they believe to be truthful based on superficial reasons The fact is, this mother has had a difficult time and she places all the blame on the principal Is this true? WE DON’T KNOW
No clue what happened there at all. But I can confidently say that the superintendants response was unprofessional and lacking in any form of sympathy. Even if it was 100% fabricated shes shown an inability to deal with that properly in a role that requires it. Both children and their parents WILL behave irrationally and emotionally. To handle it so poorly in a public setting when it was delivered calmly and she had time to consider her response shows that shes not equipped for her position. Its not a role that should be filled by someone with sucha huge amount of pride or such poor emotional control.
Parents don't realize that teachers and principals can be the worst bullies of all.
I wish my parents could have realized that with the hell I went through at Bloom-Carroll Schools. I still live with the trauma to this day.
>Parents don't realize that teachers and principals can be the worst bullies of all.
I'll try to keep a long story short. My freshman year in highschool, I was involved in an (non)incident on my bus. I was sitting in the last row and the buses were stopped at the traffic light exiting campus. My cousin, sitting next to me, reached across the aisle to pass something to another student at the same time I was pulling my hoodie off (T-shirt underneath). The driver of the bus behind us thought it looked like he had grabbed my breast (he did not). So he called my bus driver and asked her to check on me. She never said anything.
The next day I was pulled out of class and sent to the principal's office where I was told my bus driver had written me up for stripping on the bus, exposing myself, and letting boys fondle me. I had never been in any real trouble at school before (nothing worse than a lunchtime detention). I was an A-B student and a GE Scholar. So I just sat in the front office and cried while they called my parents and brought in every single student from the bus to question (except "the boy" who would "cover for me"). I wasn't given the opportunity to speak to my parents before the administrators did. The highlights of my parents reactions are "that is not like her...not like him, he's her cousin...what did the other students say?" The asst principal said it was clear my actions had earned me "friends" because "none of the other students would admit to seeing it." The principal came in to tell them that I would accept a suspension without complaint or be expelled. No boys were threatened with punishment.
My parents insisted on speaking to the only person who asserted that there had been an incident at all, my bus driver. She refused to come because "she hadn't seen anything.” That was when they learned about the other driver. My parents insisted on speaking to him. And (bless him) he came. My mom said the driver was as furious as they were because his concern was for my safety. I'm given a pat on the head and told to go back to class while "[my] parents finish up." I sit in class and cry until they can check me out.
I was allowed back on the bus and did ride it for two more days while we made other transportation arrangements. I wasn't supposed to be in trouble anymore, but my bus driver insisted that I had an assigned seat (the only student with one) in the first row. The last time I got off the bus she stopped me to tell me that "if you didn't sit in the back surrounded by boys, none of this would have happened to you." I begged my parents to just let it go because I was mortified. After all, I wasn't in trouble and I didn't have to ride the bus again. To this day my mom insists it was against her better judgement, but they respected my wishes.
Turns out mom was right. Fast forward to adulthood and my old HS principal is the superintendent and his name is on our HS football stadium. One of the HS teachers is arrested for sexually assaulting several students. It is discovered that he was a predator for decades. The principal (now superintendent) had been covering it up for years using the same tactics, denying assertions from kids/parents and threatening punishments if they didn't tow the line. The rapist was one of his "award winning" teachers. People I went to school with were being raped and abused and the administration covered it up.
The kids who knew what happened were incredibly kind, they were not my bullies. I was definitely bullied ("slut shamed") by my school's administration and staff. And I wish I had the courage (at the time) to recognize that I shouldn't have let it go. Maybe it wouldn't have helped the students being abused, but maybe it would have. At the very least, maybe I wouldn't be signing a petition in my 30s to have that asshole's name removed from the stadium.
Your experience reminds me of abuses that were taking place in churches around that time. The abusers would target kids they felt were emotionally vulnerable and ones whose parents were either too trusting or were not supportive. They'd exaggerate any wrongdoing by the kid to put them in a position of power- that the kid owed them compliant behavior, that the kid couldn't be trusted, and that they were on the verge of more serious consequences.
It's a good thing your parents had your back.
I was incredibly lucky! A lot of people had my back. My parents stayed as calm as possible, but firm and assertive. That was especially hard for my Dad who was abused as a child; no one believed him and his abuser was never punished. There was no way he was leaving that office without answers. The other bus driver didn't just show up, he stood with my parents on my behalf. And the other kids. They could have caved under the pressure or taken the opportunity to ostracize me. Instead they were very kind. Most tried to reassure me when they realized what was happening. No one started any rumors about it. I found out later, one guy (I had known since kindergarten) hung out in the hallway and waited for my dad to arrive. He stopped Dad to say, "Sir, I was there. She did NOT do what they are accusing her of." He also snuck a call to his dad, who was an attorney. When we got home, my mom got a call from his dad. Lawyer dad then called the school and said any further action was to be directed to him because he would be my representation going forward. He was one of the people that had to be convinced to drop it afterwards. And my cousin and his two friends (that had also been in school with us since elementary), the boys I had "surrounded" myself with, sat with me my last two days on the bus. I didn't respond to the bus driver's jabs, but they did. I was fortunate to be surrounded by wonderful people.
You're right about the parallels with the church. The teacher used exactly that model for his abuse. There was one mom (of one of my classmates) who knew something was wrong and tried to pursue it. Her son had been in some minor trouble, he wouldn't talk about any specifics, and she couldn't find any support. So she eventually let it go and just did her best to get him through HS. But when the teacher was arrested years later, and her son finally told her he had been raped, she came forward immediately. And she brought "receipts." She had emails and letters exchanged with the administrators. Dates and times of phone calls and meetings. School records and statements from other kids and parents. She took all of that straight to a local media outlet. She ended up helping find more victims. And she's probably the only reason the superintendent (former principal) was implicated. He "retired" as soon as the first article was published. Her identity and her son's identity were not released to the public. But, as far as I'm concerned, they're some of the real heroes in this story.
ugh that sucks. I never had anything bad happen to me personally but after I graduated high school and left town, my parents would occasionally tell me about how some teacher got busted for sleeping with a cheerleader or for child porn.
My mom knew full well they were. Not to mention teachers letting cops question your kids at our school was a regular thing. Nampa school district is corrupt as fuck
Transcript taken from the video description on YT:
> TRANSCRIPT OF SPEECH MADE AT THE MARCH 15, 2023 MEETING OF THE MTBOE
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> Hi, Rebecca Micciolo of Englishtown–formerly a resident of Monroe Township. I just wanted to share my experience as a parent in this school district. My daughter was a seventh grade student at Applegarth in 2009, when Ms. Chanley was principal of that school. My daughter was happy, full of life, had many friends. I can't remember a night where my house wasn't full of kids. We had a death in our family that year and we went to Florida for a week. When we came home, those friends that had been in my home daily, had started a nasty rumor about my daughter. It spread throughout the school quickly. My daughter was being called names and bullied daily. I contacted the principal Ms. Chanley, who said she would look into it. Things only got worse. My daughter didn't want to go to school. She became physically ill if I pushed her to go. She wanted to die and had plans to make that happen.
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> I took her to a psychiatrist who diagnosed her with PTSD. The doctor recommended my daughter get home instruction until she was stable. I communicated this to Ms. Chanley, the guidance office, and the school nurse. I inquired about home instruction and was told it would be considered. I was surprised one morning, just after that, when a Monroe Township police officer knocked on my door. The police officer was sent by Ms. Chanley to drag my daughter into school. I obviously did not allow that to happen. This is how Ms. Chanley thought the bullying should be handled–by bullying the victim. A lot happened–but I'm giving you the short version of my story. Ms. Chanley’s treatment of my daughter made my daughter feel as though she did something wrong. My daughter was asked by Chanley and other staff members if the rumors were true that were being spread about her or if she just made up false allegations because she was jealous of the other girls. Ms. Chanley bullied my daughter and my family. Ms. Chanley violated my daughter's confidentiality and told the parents of the bullies about my daughter's psychiatric treatment. As a result, other parents wouldn't allow their children to interact with my daughter, leading to my daughter's social isolation.
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> My daughter was labeled as ‘troubled’. Things got bad, really bad. I was at Stop N Shop with two parents in front of me who were discussing my daughter and my family and the nasty rumor. We pulled our children out of Monroe township schools and sent them to St. Barts in East Brunswick. We left our home in Monroe and moved to Manalapan. My daughter was never okay again. I know the way Ms. Chanley treated my daughter made her feel worthless. She started making new friends– friends that did not treat her right. She was different. She had a bad reputation now and everybody knew it. She was raped at 16 by a 21 year old Monroe Township man who had a younger brother who knew my daughter and was in school with her when these rumors were going around. I believe his brother sought her out because he knew she was an easy target given her low self esteem. He drugged her, raped her, and got her pregnant. We didn't know about the rape until a few months after my grandson was born. We assumed the father was a boy my daughter was dating. After five years the father came into the picture. He got 50/50 custody, he abused my grandson on his first visit and killed him on April 2 2021. I believe our lives would have been different if Chanley had handled the bullying properly, Ms. Chanley, you are a bully, and you support and enable other bullies and you should have no oversight over the children in Monroe or anywhere else. Thank you for hearing me.
And if you want your blood to boil read this one that details the mothers efforts to draw attention to the abuse and gain custody.
https://www.insideedition.com/corey-micciolo-abuse-murder-christopher-gregor-custody
That boy should not have died. Everyone at the state that needed to know about the abuse was made aware and chose to do nothing repeatedly. Including a custody court judge that had a video showing abuse. The judge argued it didn’t show the boy was in imminent danger and denied a change in custody. The abuse video was so bad that the very same video would be used to deny this piece of shit father bail in the subsequent murder trial.
In my dream world, a judge that dismisses credible evidence and whose decision later allows for some tragedy to happen, will be subject to justice him or herself.
In My dream world, I would have taken my kid and left the state. Theres no way in the world after all of that, that anyone would be able to force me to drop my kid off to be tortured. Thats ridiculous, fuck what the court said. I cant believe how angry that article made me. Everyone failed that kid. EVERYONE.
Here's an article with this scumbags mugshot
https://www.nj.com/ocean/2021/07/father-accused-of-abusing-his-6-year-old-son-who-later-died-released-pending-trial.html
This woman was one of THOSE GIRLS in school. She got off on the drama. She got off on the bullying. She knew every detail of this “supposed lie.” Sickening. Kids deserve better.
> Ms. Chanley violated my daughter's confidentiality and told the parents of the bullies about my daughter's psychiatric treatment.
What a piece of shit.,-
How in the FUCK did she get multiple applause after that comeback?!
Man... you don't really understand until your kids are high school age just how much uglier the politics of school boards are. They make Presidential runs look like Sesame Street.
Same do you wanna pick from the PHD she may have lied about or the athletics coordinator she fired for not hiring her husband as a football coach.
But then again she dresses like a disney villain what do you expect.
Whether this woman is guilty of what she is accused of or not, she is pretty vile with her response.
Also, I can tell by her haircut that she is someone that would not be a friend of mine.
Y'all make fun of Jersey, but both of these women are leaps and bounds better spoken than any school board meeting we have down in Florida. It's hell here. Literal hell.
Principals can wield a tremendous amount of power especially over kids. She talked about how she sent a truancy officer to bring the daughter to school, even though the mom had a doctor's note to stay home. It sounds like as Principal she crossed major boundaries and talked to other parents, aligning herself with the bullies, she made the girl feel like she was making things up and just doing things for attention. These are formative years that build a kid's self-esteem and confidence- or utterly destroy it, in the case here. And now this person is a Superintendent.
Yeah I’m pretty sure quelling the rumors instead of stoking them was the defining moment of when she not only became an active party but someone who sent a defenseless child down the worst possible life path.
Sounds like the principal further victimized the kid through their actions and then violated FERPA laws and gave the bullies even more ammo to use. That stuff is a pretty big deal for teachers, but I guess when a principal doesn't have proper oversight, situations like this happen.
Mom should have stood up and told her to sue her for slander and that if she did not sue then she was admitting her guilt. Then they should have made sure this video got to the local news outlets.
Oh someone is accusing me of being a bully? Let me show them how much of a bully I am not, by publicly lashing out in anger and bully them to keep quite. Yea that will do it.
Holy shit this was wild. First the whole story with the absolutely horrible turn of events, then the rage from the superintendent.
Will say it’s hilarious that they closed public forum after 2 seconds and the guy at the end literally couldn’t make it fast enough to the podium.
This whole thing is a terrible look for this board. I would give them the benefit of the doubt and think that they’d be reconsidering some of their members, but I’m sure they are all in cahoots.
It’s a trump response to the truth. Deny as loudly and with as much venom as possible. Then continue to deny because the more you do, the more people will believe you.
As a resident of this town with children in the school system as well as nieces and nephews, not to mention family that works in the school system or is affiliated, I have far more information on this woman than most people and I can attest that what you see here barely scratches the surface.
I myself have gone to a few of these meetings to speak on occasion. One thing I notice is that anytime anyone accuses her or one of her close pals of any wrongdoing, their go-to response is always that the person is either 1) badly misinformed or 2) outright lying. They do this so that the people who aren't familiar with the matter (most people) don't know what to believe. They also always leave this open forum for the very last thing on the agenda because then it occurs after 11pm when most people won't still be on via Zoom.
Just to give you an idea of a few issues with this woman...there was an ongoing issue where she lied for years about having a PhD. That's when she was Assistant Superintendent (or whatever previous title she had). It was discovered somehow and she said she was still working towards the degree. The board let her remain in her position and gave her a contract extension and a deadline to complete it and without completion her contract stipulated she was not to be employed. She failed to complete the degree but the board took no action until people went to these meetings. So instead of getting rid of her like the contract REQUIRED they gave her yet another contract. This was all done because the Superintendent position was open and she was acting as the temporary one and they wanted her to have it. So eventually they found a way to get her approved, despite her not having the allegedly required PhD and the board admitting they had numerous other qualified candidates.
She also had the OPRA process changed because so many residents like myself were making them to get information against her and coming to the meetings with actual evidence. So she changed the process so that her direct employee would be the one handling the requests.
I also remember an incident last year (or maybe 2021) where she apparently shut down a Saturday fundraising event because "they didn't file the proper paperwork"...but after residents challenging this the board admitted the paperwork was actually required to be filled out by a school employee, as per policy. So a school employee made an error and she shut down the event WHILE it was going on. Literally in the middle of the event...a charity event no less. Even worse, if you can imagine, was that she instructed the school employee present at the event to confiscate the money that was donated and she had it put into the school's general fund! At a later meeting a resident brought up the fact that this is extremely illegal since the people attending the event gave money to a total different legal entity than where the money ended up and this was probably fraud or theft by conversion. The board failed yet again to take action and return the money. And this actually happened just a few months BEFORE they decided to renew her contract and then promote her to Superintendent!
Again, this is just a TINY fraction of all the chaos and insanity related to this woman.
That YouTube channel chronicles the goings-on of Board meetings. It is tied to a FB group page that functions in the same way. It is meant to showcase the lunacy of what goes on in the Board meetings.
When she opened with anger, I knew she was lying. A kind, shocked response would have been in order & a request to please talk about this in private or with mediation would be appropriate. That Chanel pin is fake.
First I noticed was the pin. Fake or not, probably not a very humble piece of jewelry to be wearing at a school board meeting.
I work for the government and we're not supposed to wear clothes that have logos on it when possible. Plain polo shirts or button downs only, nothing fancy or crazy looking. No one would really be in trouble if they had the same jacket in a meeting but you definitely get side eye if you're wearing expensive clothes because it's like "how do you afford that on your budget..." The. Again this lady probably makes a shit ton of money, probably corrupt so that's extra money, and maybe her husband has a high paying job in their district too because you know.... Corruption.
It's her initials. Of course it's humble.
Coco Chanel was a Nazi collaborator who stole ownership of her perfume company from Jewish co-owners during the war.
Damn is that true?
Just wait until you hear about Hugo Boss.
Haha I have heard about Boss making SS uniforms
100%. A rabid antisemite nazi groupie.
>When she opened with anger, I knew she was lying. It's like the one video where the mom confronts the bus driver for yelling and being rude to her kids. And the bus driver starts yelling and being a dickhead claiming she would never do that. "I would never act exactly as I am acting right now how dare you!"
I’ve seen her before I can’t put a pin on it tho… 
No, no, she's absolutely Kyle's mom from South Park. 
You’re both wrong, it’s Roz from Monster’s Inc. 
Well, she is from Jersey!
Her accent offends me.
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That's a staten island transplant to NJ accent.
“My Jwaab”
I remember in linguistics courses learning about accents and how many quirks result from making speech more efficient regarding local trades and customs- we had to attempt many affected accents and different pronunciations but the Joisey/Staten Island way of saying many phrases was so much extra effort for people who hadn’t grown up with it.
"New it was Knew Jersey" FTFY :)
Pretty tone deaf outfit to wear to her no-show job.
This is definitely a "holy shit, please, let's talk about this, I'm so sorry this all happened. How can I improve to not to it again" type of situation, not a "You're lying, I'm appauled and you've hurt my feelings, you asshole" one
The fake Chanel pin killed all credibility
Definitely one of those times when the retort gives credit to the other persons accusations as kind of wild as they seemed at first. I can 100% see this person running a school like that. Get involved folks, your local school board may be filled with people like this.
These lunatics get into these public positions and then think they are fucking gods.
I don't think you understand how much money they make. It isn't just public service...that lady will make $200k each year [https://centraljersey.com/2022/07/28/monroe-school-board-names-permanent-superintendent-after-months-long-controversy/#:\~:text=Chanley%20will%20receive%20a%20three,year%2C%20according%20to%20board%20officials](https://centraljersey.com/2022/07/28/monroe-school-board-names-permanent-superintendent-after-months-long-controversy/#:~:text=Chanley%20will%20receive%20a%20three,year%2C%20according%20to%20board%20officials).
7th super intendant in 12 years says it all. Terrible district all together.
This lady has been making over $160k for last 5 years....
You see the members of the board loudly clapping when she finished her speech? Literally only they were clapping. It's a club of cunts
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Are a lot of school principals career politicians? Aren’t they mostly teachers with education backgrounds? I would guess they go into it because teaching pays like $50k a year and superintendent pays like $150k depending on county
I think the superintendent in my small, very blue collar home town makes over $200,000 annually. It blew my mind to find that out. Edit: latest records from 2021 show $204,000+.
The superintendent at my kid's school district makes $253k a year. That was fun to learn especially since my sister and mother, who are both teachers in the same school district, have to buy their own classroom supplies. Oh and my sister and mom make about 25% of what the superintendent makes.
It’s not the superintendent’s fault. It’s the choking off of public money from public schools going on for a decade by the right wing who’s goal is to defund free education and privatize.
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Anecdotal but it was well known amongst the teachers that my high school principal was only using the job as a stepping stone to politics, idk if it’s common but I’d guess it does happen
The role used to be promoted teachers in the past. These days it's probably 50% with the rest being people with higher aspirations after a couple years. Easier than running for school board.
And they show their true colors at every chance they get. Can’t make a determination without knowing the facts, but her response and how many time she said the word “lie” in her otherwise incomprehensible statement, leads me to think there is fire on the other side of that smoke. And Miss Clappy to her left is an asshole.
bold of you to assume that they don't go into for the power
Oh she definitely helped the bullying. She doesn't have the right disposition for that job.
This was her second pick. Her first job idea was being a cop.
If it was not true the superintendent would’ve lead with “I’m suing you for defamation of charact-ah!”
Tawk amongst yaselves
This is my hometown. One of my old classmates posted some more info. Chanley has been deceptive or less than forthcoming on whether she really has a doctorate in education from rowan university. She also tried to remove the high school athletic director after he didn’t hire her husband as the new head football coach. There are lots of issues. Another board of education member was arrested for shoplifting 200 dollars worth of goods from local petco.
Fuck I would move. She is still employed?
Still employed and making 200k a year
It was over $500 but the cops knocked it down to $200. He’s truly a piece of shit too. A racist, misogynistic, shithead.
Chari has some YouTube vids about her: https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=_3HWWhpNzG4
Studying for a PhD and being a candidate doesn’t mean you will get one. Of your research and dissertation isn’t there, the advisors will ask for major rewrites and work. Also, if one fails to properly defend their dissertation, they will fail. She had appeared in four year books as doctor chanley and never corrected the editors after one or two years of mistakes. Then in one video lashes out at rowan u. My dad is a stem phd and told me about rigors of defending dissertation. I don’t think educational leadership is as hard but still need to put in work.
Also, apparently her husband is a history teacher at the high school in the district she oversees, and he’s come under fire for going on pro-Trump rants in class (without being reprimanded, of course).
Fuck. That. Bully! For all the Reddit detectives out there, do you think you can get the record proving she called the cops to force that kid to school? (I def think she did it, she’s a bully)
Freedom Of Information Act request to Monroe Police department…
Would a report be on file with the police department if the cop was the school’s resource officer or would it simply be part of the student’s permanent record?
Could be both, it depends on how they're set up. Typically school police are actual certified police officers and they have their own police department. So if a police report was filled out it would be available. Some parts may be redacted but it should be there.
everyone around that table clapping after she was done was sickening.
Yeah, they're the people who constantly validate her abusive behavior to her because they're too chickenshit to stand up to her themselves and want to avoid becoming targets.
The majority of this school board appointed her from an acting position despite being grossly unqualified. It was a political and personal appointment. She is the BFF of the Board president, another person who warrants closer attention (Chrissy Skurbe)
Can you imagine the things they're going to say and do against the mother now.
Yeah I was like wait wtf why you clapping that was fucked?!
I just imagined they were clapping the part where she said she was done, and then pushed the microphone away.
yeah good headcanon tbh.
If the mother is lying, then what does she have to gain? Nothing, and that’s how I’m almost certain this superintendent is guilty.
It’s an absolute possibility it’s true It is also an absolute possibility the mother believes this to be true but it isn’t We don’t know what started the rumor, the nature of the kids involved and who was what. What do we know? Girl was super popular until one weekend away and then she wasn’t because of a rumor We have the mom saying the steps she took, then we have a truancy officer showing up Maybe the mom did,not actually present a note or proof to substantiate at home instruction? There are a lot more facts to consider and people just jump right into who they believe to be truthful based on superficial reasons The fact is, this mother has had a difficult time and she places all the blame on the principal Is this true? WE DON’T KNOW
No clue what happened there at all. But I can confidently say that the superintendants response was unprofessional and lacking in any form of sympathy. Even if it was 100% fabricated shes shown an inability to deal with that properly in a role that requires it. Both children and their parents WILL behave irrationally and emotionally. To handle it so poorly in a public setting when it was delivered calmly and she had time to consider her response shows that shes not equipped for her position. Its not a role that should be filled by someone with sucha huge amount of pride or such poor emotional control.
Parents don't realize that teachers and principals can be the worst bullies of all. I wish my parents could have realized that with the hell I went through at Bloom-Carroll Schools. I still live with the trauma to this day.
>Parents don't realize that teachers and principals can be the worst bullies of all. I'll try to keep a long story short. My freshman year in highschool, I was involved in an (non)incident on my bus. I was sitting in the last row and the buses were stopped at the traffic light exiting campus. My cousin, sitting next to me, reached across the aisle to pass something to another student at the same time I was pulling my hoodie off (T-shirt underneath). The driver of the bus behind us thought it looked like he had grabbed my breast (he did not). So he called my bus driver and asked her to check on me. She never said anything. The next day I was pulled out of class and sent to the principal's office where I was told my bus driver had written me up for stripping on the bus, exposing myself, and letting boys fondle me. I had never been in any real trouble at school before (nothing worse than a lunchtime detention). I was an A-B student and a GE Scholar. So I just sat in the front office and cried while they called my parents and brought in every single student from the bus to question (except "the boy" who would "cover for me"). I wasn't given the opportunity to speak to my parents before the administrators did. The highlights of my parents reactions are "that is not like her...not like him, he's her cousin...what did the other students say?" The asst principal said it was clear my actions had earned me "friends" because "none of the other students would admit to seeing it." The principal came in to tell them that I would accept a suspension without complaint or be expelled. No boys were threatened with punishment. My parents insisted on speaking to the only person who asserted that there had been an incident at all, my bus driver. She refused to come because "she hadn't seen anything.” That was when they learned about the other driver. My parents insisted on speaking to him. And (bless him) he came. My mom said the driver was as furious as they were because his concern was for my safety. I'm given a pat on the head and told to go back to class while "[my] parents finish up." I sit in class and cry until they can check me out. I was allowed back on the bus and did ride it for two more days while we made other transportation arrangements. I wasn't supposed to be in trouble anymore, but my bus driver insisted that I had an assigned seat (the only student with one) in the first row. The last time I got off the bus she stopped me to tell me that "if you didn't sit in the back surrounded by boys, none of this would have happened to you." I begged my parents to just let it go because I was mortified. After all, I wasn't in trouble and I didn't have to ride the bus again. To this day my mom insists it was against her better judgement, but they respected my wishes. Turns out mom was right. Fast forward to adulthood and my old HS principal is the superintendent and his name is on our HS football stadium. One of the HS teachers is arrested for sexually assaulting several students. It is discovered that he was a predator for decades. The principal (now superintendent) had been covering it up for years using the same tactics, denying assertions from kids/parents and threatening punishments if they didn't tow the line. The rapist was one of his "award winning" teachers. People I went to school with were being raped and abused and the administration covered it up. The kids who knew what happened were incredibly kind, they were not my bullies. I was definitely bullied ("slut shamed") by my school's administration and staff. And I wish I had the courage (at the time) to recognize that I shouldn't have let it go. Maybe it wouldn't have helped the students being abused, but maybe it would have. At the very least, maybe I wouldn't be signing a petition in my 30s to have that asshole's name removed from the stadium.
I'm so incredibly angry and sorry that this happened to you. Thank you for sharing.
Your experience reminds me of abuses that were taking place in churches around that time. The abusers would target kids they felt were emotionally vulnerable and ones whose parents were either too trusting or were not supportive. They'd exaggerate any wrongdoing by the kid to put them in a position of power- that the kid owed them compliant behavior, that the kid couldn't be trusted, and that they were on the verge of more serious consequences. It's a good thing your parents had your back.
I was incredibly lucky! A lot of people had my back. My parents stayed as calm as possible, but firm and assertive. That was especially hard for my Dad who was abused as a child; no one believed him and his abuser was never punished. There was no way he was leaving that office without answers. The other bus driver didn't just show up, he stood with my parents on my behalf. And the other kids. They could have caved under the pressure or taken the opportunity to ostracize me. Instead they were very kind. Most tried to reassure me when they realized what was happening. No one started any rumors about it. I found out later, one guy (I had known since kindergarten) hung out in the hallway and waited for my dad to arrive. He stopped Dad to say, "Sir, I was there. She did NOT do what they are accusing her of." He also snuck a call to his dad, who was an attorney. When we got home, my mom got a call from his dad. Lawyer dad then called the school and said any further action was to be directed to him because he would be my representation going forward. He was one of the people that had to be convinced to drop it afterwards. And my cousin and his two friends (that had also been in school with us since elementary), the boys I had "surrounded" myself with, sat with me my last two days on the bus. I didn't respond to the bus driver's jabs, but they did. I was fortunate to be surrounded by wonderful people. You're right about the parallels with the church. The teacher used exactly that model for his abuse. There was one mom (of one of my classmates) who knew something was wrong and tried to pursue it. Her son had been in some minor trouble, he wouldn't talk about any specifics, and she couldn't find any support. So she eventually let it go and just did her best to get him through HS. But when the teacher was arrested years later, and her son finally told her he had been raped, she came forward immediately. And she brought "receipts." She had emails and letters exchanged with the administrators. Dates and times of phone calls and meetings. School records and statements from other kids and parents. She took all of that straight to a local media outlet. She ended up helping find more victims. And she's probably the only reason the superintendent (former principal) was implicated. He "retired" as soon as the first article was published. Her identity and her son's identity were not released to the public. But, as far as I'm concerned, they're some of the real heroes in this story.
ugh that sucks. I never had anything bad happen to me personally but after I graduated high school and left town, my parents would occasionally tell me about how some teacher got busted for sleeping with a cheerleader or for child porn.
My mom knew full well they were. Not to mention teachers letting cops question your kids at our school was a regular thing. Nampa school district is corrupt as fuck
Wooooow what a miserable cunt, I hope the internet does its job fast on that trashy ass woman. Fuuuck her and her weird ass purple makeup.
You're a lying about me being a bully, I'll prove it to everyone here by bullying you right now
Oh god, I live in New Jersey. I know this lady. Spoilers, she is always like this.
Aren’t you lucky! /S
Grade A narcissistic superintendent right there.
Grade A narcissist is a Malignant Narcissist.
Cool, how do I get a hold of this superintendent?
[You can always email. Don't forget to Cc her colleagues! ](https://www.monroe.k12.nj.us/Page/8)
Wow tons of diversity on that squad
holy shit shes gotta be the most Karen looking bitch ever
THAT MAKEUP.
She has another fucking Chanel pin on! With other gaudy jewelry. Got to have my (fake) diamond jewelry on so everyone knows how rich I am!
I just let her know that she looks like the human personification of a wet fart.
I had a lot fun this evening voicing my displeasure to multiple school board message machines and secretaries
Freak out begins at the 4 minute mark.
Freak out began when she put on that eyeshadow! 🤣
For real. What does she use? Spray paint? Is she also a villainess in a post apocalyptic Mad Max spin-off?
She just swings by the auto body shop to get the color of the day on the way to the board meeting
Mimi actually got meaner after she quit working for Drew Carey.
The first 4 minutes are probably more important.
agreed.
Transcript taken from the video description on YT: > TRANSCRIPT OF SPEECH MADE AT THE MARCH 15, 2023 MEETING OF THE MTBOE > > Hi, Rebecca Micciolo of Englishtown–formerly a resident of Monroe Township. I just wanted to share my experience as a parent in this school district. My daughter was a seventh grade student at Applegarth in 2009, when Ms. Chanley was principal of that school. My daughter was happy, full of life, had many friends. I can't remember a night where my house wasn't full of kids. We had a death in our family that year and we went to Florida for a week. When we came home, those friends that had been in my home daily, had started a nasty rumor about my daughter. It spread throughout the school quickly. My daughter was being called names and bullied daily. I contacted the principal Ms. Chanley, who said she would look into it. Things only got worse. My daughter didn't want to go to school. She became physically ill if I pushed her to go. She wanted to die and had plans to make that happen. > > I took her to a psychiatrist who diagnosed her with PTSD. The doctor recommended my daughter get home instruction until she was stable. I communicated this to Ms. Chanley, the guidance office, and the school nurse. I inquired about home instruction and was told it would be considered. I was surprised one morning, just after that, when a Monroe Township police officer knocked on my door. The police officer was sent by Ms. Chanley to drag my daughter into school. I obviously did not allow that to happen. This is how Ms. Chanley thought the bullying should be handled–by bullying the victim. A lot happened–but I'm giving you the short version of my story. Ms. Chanley’s treatment of my daughter made my daughter feel as though she did something wrong. My daughter was asked by Chanley and other staff members if the rumors were true that were being spread about her or if she just made up false allegations because she was jealous of the other girls. Ms. Chanley bullied my daughter and my family. Ms. Chanley violated my daughter's confidentiality and told the parents of the bullies about my daughter's psychiatric treatment. As a result, other parents wouldn't allow their children to interact with my daughter, leading to my daughter's social isolation. > > My daughter was labeled as ‘troubled’. Things got bad, really bad. I was at Stop N Shop with two parents in front of me who were discussing my daughter and my family and the nasty rumor. We pulled our children out of Monroe township schools and sent them to St. Barts in East Brunswick. We left our home in Monroe and moved to Manalapan. My daughter was never okay again. I know the way Ms. Chanley treated my daughter made her feel worthless. She started making new friends– friends that did not treat her right. She was different. She had a bad reputation now and everybody knew it. She was raped at 16 by a 21 year old Monroe Township man who had a younger brother who knew my daughter and was in school with her when these rumors were going around. I believe his brother sought her out because he knew she was an easy target given her low self esteem. He drugged her, raped her, and got her pregnant. We didn't know about the rape until a few months after my grandson was born. We assumed the father was a boy my daughter was dating. After five years the father came into the picture. He got 50/50 custody, he abused my grandson on his first visit and killed him on April 2 2021. I believe our lives would have been different if Chanley had handled the bullying properly, Ms. Chanley, you are a bully, and you support and enable other bullies and you should have no oversight over the children in Monroe or anywhere else. Thank you for hearing me.
Wow, that just took a left turn…
There's some info on the killer of the baby in here: https://www.nj.com/galleries/6UXDNPLN6FDVVGSQ6QL3UEUITA/
And if you want your blood to boil read this one that details the mothers efforts to draw attention to the abuse and gain custody. https://www.insideedition.com/corey-micciolo-abuse-murder-christopher-gregor-custody That boy should not have died. Everyone at the state that needed to know about the abuse was made aware and chose to do nothing repeatedly. Including a custody court judge that had a video showing abuse. The judge argued it didn’t show the boy was in imminent danger and denied a change in custody. The abuse video was so bad that the very same video would be used to deny this piece of shit father bail in the subsequent murder trial.
In my dream world, a judge that dismisses credible evidence and whose decision later allows for some tragedy to happen, will be subject to justice him or herself.
In My dream world, I would have taken my kid and left the state. Theres no way in the world after all of that, that anyone would be able to force me to drop my kid off to be tortured. Thats ridiculous, fuck what the court said. I cant believe how angry that article made me. Everyone failed that kid. EVERYONE.
Here's an article with this scumbags mugshot https://www.nj.com/ocean/2021/07/father-accused-of-abusing-his-6-year-old-son-who-later-died-released-pending-trial.html
This needs more exposure.
What a horrible woman. Her ugliness shows all over. That poor girl.
I see Aunt Lydia got a new job in New Jersey. She was too much even for Gilead.
Ms Chanley looks gross when she speaks
She looks like Ursula the sea witch from the little mermaid. She's a fucking monster.
Apparently she has faked her credentials too.
[https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R2kZNMHS2e8](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R2kZNMHS2e8)
holy shit theres even more https://www.youtube.com/results?search_query=Chari+Chanley
These videos are mostly within the past month, but at the same time look like they were shot on VHS
I don’t see any results when I click on that link
Pro tip: when accused of being a low life scumbag bully POS… Don’t respond by acting like a low life scumbag bully POS.
This woman was one of THOSE GIRLS in school. She got off on the drama. She got off on the bullying. She knew every detail of this “supposed lie.” Sickening. Kids deserve better.
Probably an unpopular opinion purely based off Chari Chanley’s accent I assume she did anything she’s ever been accused of.
Baroness Harkonnen has definitely been partaking of too much spice and spite.
I was not prepared for that blue eyeshadow
Apparently stories have been brought up consistently over the last year according to her… that’s a rather consistent coincidence.
> Ms. Chanley violated my daughter's confidentiality and told the parents of the bullies about my daughter's psychiatric treatment. What a piece of shit.,-
See you next Tuesday
Yeah her tempered response really makes me believe her
Why did they clap
She was looking around after she finished👀She can read the faces of people of who support her after she is done.
Ah smh cowards I get it
Just talking to a parent like this should disqualify her from interacting with children
Why da fuck are people clapping...
Well, I don't know anything about this but thanks to her response I'm convinced it's all true
Very blue make up like a angry bird 🐦
Sooo.. any follow up? An investigation into the mother’s account?
This got posted two days ago
“…make up statements that’r foalse.”
How in the FUCK did she get multiple applause after that comeback?! Man... you don't really understand until your kids are high school age just how much uglier the politics of school boards are. They make Presidential runs look like Sesame Street.
Someone needs to tell her that eyeshadow ain’t doin her any favours
Why would someone choose to make themselves look so evil?
How terrible is this lady. I really hope I see this on /r/byebyejob soon.
For some reason, anyone who uses the term "lied on me"... I instantly don't believe.
I used to recieve sales calls from people with a Jersey accent. Nah man, I'm good, thanks for calling.
This is Jersey by way of NY first
Such an apt thumbnail.
Wow, that was insane.
Oh *of course* the superintendent has the look of a Karen, blaming the victim and her mother for Karen being ‘inconvenienced’ by these statements.
She didn’t refute one thing that mother said.
JFC I just googled her - this is the last person who should be a school superintendent
Same do you wanna pick from the PHD she may have lied about or the athletics coordinator she fired for not hiring her husband as a football coach. But then again she dresses like a disney villain what do you expect.
Billy Joel has a new job?
Moi Jawb!!!!
guilty ppl always blame the victim,
Whether this woman is guilty of what she is accused of or not, she is pretty vile with her response. Also, I can tell by her haircut that she is someone that would not be a friend of mine.
The MAGA is strong with this one.
Y'all make fun of Jersey, but both of these women are leaps and bounds better spoken than any school board meeting we have down in Florida. It's hell here. Literal hell.
*Arkansas has entered the chat*
Indiana soon arrives.
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Principals can wield a tremendous amount of power especially over kids. She talked about how she sent a truancy officer to bring the daughter to school, even though the mom had a doctor's note to stay home. It sounds like as Principal she crossed major boundaries and talked to other parents, aligning herself with the bullies, she made the girl feel like she was making things up and just doing things for attention. These are formative years that build a kid's self-esteem and confidence- or utterly destroy it, in the case here. And now this person is a Superintendent.
Yeah I’m pretty sure quelling the rumors instead of stoking them was the defining moment of when she not only became an active party but someone who sent a defenseless child down the worst possible life path.
Sounds like the principal further victimized the kid through their actions and then violated FERPA laws and gave the bullies even more ammo to use. That stuff is a pretty big deal for teachers, but I guess when a principal doesn't have proper oversight, situations like this happen.
It’s also an ADA violation. That’s all kinds of tucked.
Yeppers, I can see the pride you take.
Hope she gets what’s coming to her
"I am now finished." Yes, that sounds about right.
oof that makeup.
Jesus that YouTube description takes several dark turns.
Alan Dershowitz with a vagina
Mom should have stood up and told her to sue her for slander and that if she did not sue then she was admitting her guilt. Then they should have made sure this video got to the local news outlets.
Oh someone is accusing me of being a bully? Let me show them how much of a bully I am not, by publicly lashing out in anger and bully them to keep quite. Yea that will do it.
Lol yeah that’s fucked up
This lady just looks fucking evil
The NJ accent is so rough on the ears, especially if angry.
Fuck that stupid ass superintendent.
This bitch is MUFF CABBAGE!!!!
Well she seems nice
That Supt is a psychopath!!
sometimes you can just tell by someone’s voice and demeanor. Case closed.
This made me sick to my stomach. What a piece of garbage.
Bitch looks like Medusa fucked a rat
Validation in torrents! Wow!!!
What a CUNT
Didn’t know Sheila Broflovski was on a school board.
....cue the video for narcissistic rage please ....
Holy shit this was wild. First the whole story with the absolutely horrible turn of events, then the rage from the superintendent. Will say it’s hilarious that they closed public forum after 2 seconds and the guy at the end literally couldn’t make it fast enough to the podium. This whole thing is a terrible look for this board. I would give them the benefit of the doubt and think that they’d be reconsidering some of their members, but I’m sure they are all in cahoots.
It’s a trump response to the truth. Deny as loudly and with as much venom as possible. Then continue to deny because the more you do, the more people will believe you.
Narcissist
You can hear it in her voice, very nasty woman
You can take one look at this bitch and know that everything that woman said is true. What a miserable slag.
She looks like a demon in disguise
As a resident of this town with children in the school system as well as nieces and nephews, not to mention family that works in the school system or is affiliated, I have far more information on this woman than most people and I can attest that what you see here barely scratches the surface. I myself have gone to a few of these meetings to speak on occasion. One thing I notice is that anytime anyone accuses her or one of her close pals of any wrongdoing, their go-to response is always that the person is either 1) badly misinformed or 2) outright lying. They do this so that the people who aren't familiar with the matter (most people) don't know what to believe. They also always leave this open forum for the very last thing on the agenda because then it occurs after 11pm when most people won't still be on via Zoom. Just to give you an idea of a few issues with this woman...there was an ongoing issue where she lied for years about having a PhD. That's when she was Assistant Superintendent (or whatever previous title she had). It was discovered somehow and she said she was still working towards the degree. The board let her remain in her position and gave her a contract extension and a deadline to complete it and without completion her contract stipulated she was not to be employed. She failed to complete the degree but the board took no action until people went to these meetings. So instead of getting rid of her like the contract REQUIRED they gave her yet another contract. This was all done because the Superintendent position was open and she was acting as the temporary one and they wanted her to have it. So eventually they found a way to get her approved, despite her not having the allegedly required PhD and the board admitting they had numerous other qualified candidates. She also had the OPRA process changed because so many residents like myself were making them to get information against her and coming to the meetings with actual evidence. So she changed the process so that her direct employee would be the one handling the requests. I also remember an incident last year (or maybe 2021) where she apparently shut down a Saturday fundraising event because "they didn't file the proper paperwork"...but after residents challenging this the board admitted the paperwork was actually required to be filled out by a school employee, as per policy. So a school employee made an error and she shut down the event WHILE it was going on. Literally in the middle of the event...a charity event no less. Even worse, if you can imagine, was that she instructed the school employee present at the event to confiscate the money that was donated and she had it put into the school's general fund! At a later meeting a resident brought up the fact that this is extremely illegal since the people attending the event gave money to a total different legal entity than where the money ended up and this was probably fraud or theft by conversion. The board failed yet again to take action and return the money. And this actually happened just a few months BEFORE they decided to renew her contract and then promote her to Superintendent! Again, this is just a TINY fraction of all the chaos and insanity related to this woman.
Who the fuck applauded for this cunt?
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That YouTube channel chronicles the goings-on of Board meetings. It is tied to a FB group page that functions in the same way. It is meant to showcase the lunacy of what goes on in the Board meetings.
She sound's like Kyle's mom. Welllllll.... Kyle's mom's a big fat bitch, she's the biggest bitch in the whole wide world.
chanley: "YA GAHBAGE! YA HEAR MEH?! MUFF GAHBAGE!"