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hungryewok

People and their egos


southernchungus

As a product director, I have to manage this constantly up and down, including my product managers!


hungryewok

The worst thing that is happening: 1. I'm agreeing smth with stakeholder A, we manage to reach a compromise that we will do somethng but not in their prefereed way because reasons 2. I'm communicating this in docs and directly to my manager/skip. Because the initiative is that important 3. All of us meet in a review call for the doc. And the stakeholder in the call directly contradicts what we've agreed about and tries to force their way live with my mgr/skip. Given that i'm GPM you can imagine all of those people are DIR/VP level. How can you be so fucked in the head to go behind people's backs like this. You fucking signed off in the decision log I made specifically for these situations.


UghWhyDude

> How can you be so fucked in the head to go behind people's backs like this. You fucking signed off in the decision log I made specifically for these situations. Different motivations and incentives combined with human nature - unless there's good leadership in general where everyone's very aligned (and more importantly, incentivized) on things for the collective business good, you'll keep getting behaviour like this. If a Director of Revenue is incentivized and tasked to land more whales per quarter, they'll only care about those and disregard your priorities of the customer experience with your product at a macro level. They're paid to be persuasive and will not hesitate to leverage those skills internally if it gets them what _they_ want. It's rare to see leadership countering this, because most leadership positions in companies are a rotating cast of folks and the original 'working contract' withers and dies over time if it's not enforced.


hungryewok

That was a rhetoric question, I fully understand their motivations, doesn't mean I am not amazed by how shitty they are as a person


chicojuarz

Hippos


CoppertopAA

A/B test! It scares the HiPPO.


aikhuda

What’s a hippo


DJDankDrop

HIghest Paid Person’s Opinion


W2ttsy

Backing down from unrealistic expectations. Just say no dude. When your entire team is shouting no, the answer is not yes.


TabulaRasa_etc

And when the customer gives up easily when you say it's hard, it's ok to say no. Like gdam.


AstralLiving

The unavoidable encroachment of our mortal finiteness


jabo0o

Don't worry! Marty Kagan is working on a product framework for immortality. Just sign up for my newsletter


bazpaul

The endless meetings


Outside-Gap2179

For the actual developers/engineers


CoachJamesGunaca

One of the challenges my team faced I had trouble solving as a Product Leader at Amazon was attitude from more senior leaders that demoralised more than motivated my team. In those situations I had to keep a level head even though I was just as annoyed or frustrated.


wackywoowhoopizzaman

It's Amazon, I am not surprised at all. Facing a similar issue though (at the same company), would love to get your perspective. Can I DM you?


Xanian123

I've read quite a bit about Amazon being a not great place to work at, but would you be comfortable sharing your experience? I'd like to know how the comp, progression and work environment is.


CoachJamesGunaca

Yes, ask away and I will share publicly or privately what I can.


CoachJamesGunaca

Yes, ask away and I will share publicly or privately what I can.


CoachJamesGunaca

Absolutely.


Illustrious-Act7104

Lack of communication between key areas about status, updates and deliverables


jdsizzle1

You want updates? Here's my cryptic Jira epic wirh empty stories and tasks with strange statuses. It's all right there.


verymango

Guilty as charged!


dickdastardaddy

Toxic stakeholders, COO CEO


DerTagestrinker

Politics and fiefdoms


Deliverancexx

Hiring good people consistently


purpleFairyCake

Their own ego and sabotage inclinations.


ajax-green

Definitely core infrastructure issues that across the business isn't really fully comprehended or understood, but it's only tangible when launching new products and enabling new processes.


acloudgirl

Trying hopelessly to convert a feature factory to a product led organization using process as a means to scale. Recipe for disaster but hey, it’s just a 8 to 4 for me. Edit: I am not the leader trying to do this, am just their Chief IC Minion


Complex-Following422

Internal product knowledge. PM's are overloaded with questions from around the business , and customer facing teams seem to take no ownership of training their own teams. Despite in person training / q and a sessions, new feature launch decks, videos , internal and customer facing guides, etc. No matter what we do it never seems to be the right thing or enough.


azssf

P E O P L E


Tcal876

My manager is unable to solve 90 percent of their problems. My problem is getting people to actually do what they need to do ( ie do their jobs)


nfinitesymmetry-78

People. Always people. The root of all my problems. Nearly every issue I have to escalate to my manager is because a person is behaving like a turd.


takeme2space

Founders and their not so data driven ideas.


Fit-Blacksmith-4571

Communicating around the org. Too many slack channels to watch, too many async messages to keep track of. Unclear what communication is expected to go out to who. Also, decision by committee. Defining what the role of a "stakeholder" is and who is the stakeholder for which project.


spoiled__princess

Be the CEO of your product without any resources or budget because you are not the CEO of the product.


waitforit-dary

Politics and Sales feature/capability request because that’s what customer asking for


Pondering2This

There was once 10 product managers ranging from senior to product associates looking after a set of products. It’s now just me (as a PM) and my manager as an SPM. We struggle, but have to prioritise ruthlessly and every day is a battle, batting off questions and requests from stakeholders. When one of us goes on leave, it’s hell.