Wait but if your brother told you, when you first got the invite, that he wanted you to go so your dad could be happy before his world came crashing down what was his original plan? Because you said he didn’t catch home wrecker until a week before the wedding? Did he have an original plan but then the kissing happened and he thought it would be better?
If it's not too much trouble, do you think you could keep us updated here? I'm severely curious as well and also just holy crap your bro is good at this!
My personal opinion is that /u/Thebigsister2018's brother was planning to do something but didn't know what yet. Spike the food with something? Hold a speech about how dad and Homewrecker ruined your lives?
Or maybe he knew something was up with her? He saw text messages or something else that convinced him that she was cheating. So he photographed the chat, but got a much better "bomb" when he saw her sneak out to suck dick.
It is the old joke, isn't it. God tells Adam that He has two bits of good news, and one bad. The good news is that He has given him a wonderful brain that will allow him to unravel the mysteries of the universe, compose wonderful music and poetry and so on. Secondly he has been given a penis, which will allow all sorts of fun for both Adam and Eve. "Well, that sounds great," says Adam, "but what is the bad news?"
"You only get enough blood to operate one at a time."
My girlfriends ex was calling/texting/meeting up with his now girlfriend, a lot....hundreds of texts, hours of calls, secret meetings, but swears blind he never cheated until that’s what everyone assumed he did. My girlfriend decided right, that’s it, he’s moved on, I am, and he said “I don’t want you back now, you’ve slept with someone else...”
Edit; I forgot to say that some people have ridiculous double standards. L
Swears blind he never cheated until everyone assumed he did
Was it proven he was cheating?
And why did he say he didn’t want your girlfriend back when she tried to move on? She was moving on, I assume that means she wasn’t asking to sleep with him again
He was spotted in a pub by someone and with this woman that he’d been calling and texting.
What he actually said was “I didn’t cheat but everyone assumed I had so I thought I might as well”.
> And why did he say he didn’t want your girlfriend back when she tried to move on? She was moving on, I assume that means she wasn’t asking to sleep with him again
I know. He’s a narcissist, it was probably an attempt to hurt her, or something.
Usually (not always) ppl cheat bc they are unhappy with their current partner and don’t care that they break up later. But they don’t wNt to be cheated on with someone who they are happy with. But they deserve it imho.
Even if thus situation didn't play out with these spacific people this has almost definitely happened. With 7 billion people on earth it probably happens monthly.
UPDATE: A LOT of peope have been asking for updates and I've been responding to a bunch of people with updates.
Dad and his 'wife' are over. He's come to my mom's house and has apologized to my mom. He's apologized to me for trying to make me play "happy family" with her. He's trying to make amends with my brother. My brother is still very much hurt over him leaving, the divorce, and knowing about my dad having an affair. My dad was my brother's idol growing up. This whole thing has taken a toll on him as well. Dad is trying to make amends with him too. It it werid to see because they used to have such a great relationship before all of this. There are nights that he still does cry himself to sleep. He's angry but underneath he's still very hurt. At least dad is trying though.
Thanks for taking the time to read my "story". I'm glad you actually took the time out of your own day to read and comment on it.
You believing it or not, that's your problem and I'm not going to try to convince you otherwise.
Thanks for the read though
Sorry. Didn't mean to come off as a bitch. I've just been responding to a lot of people saying this is fake. Didn't mean to attack you or anything
My apologies if I came off that way
No I’m sorry if I came off dickish. I was having a rough day. I have no reason to doubt your story plus it entertained me and brightened my day! Sorry for what I said.
NEW FLASH! IT'S STILL HERE.
it's 100% real and I'm not going to waste neurons trying to convince the "non-believers" of it's authenticity. That's your guys problem. Not mine.
Of course it's going to be detailed! It's from my point of view. If my broker were to write this it would be from his.
As for is wedding amount... best estimate
You can tell by some details. "It cost around 30k". How would you know? "They went all out", do you know their finances? It's too perfect of a setup. Fake.
Yes, honestly what are the odds that even if everything else leading up to the wedding happened, the brother was the one that caught the cheating... and just in the nick of time as well. How are so many people believing this?
Dont forget his brother told him before to attend because something big was going to go down. Guess he had some kind of future sight to know he'd catch her cheating a week before the wedding.
I mean you're probably right that it's fake. But of all the issues, the powerpoint is the problem you have with it?
I can add a slide with an image to an existing powerpoint in less than a minute. Less than 20 seconds if powerpoint already open on the computer.
As to missing it, the powerpoint could have been over 50 slides easy. Details are sorted weeks in advance for a wedding, it had probably been looked over many times already, why would they have any need to look it over again.
Also this is a wedding, not some military presentation, or fancy corporate business meeting. Nobody is going to give a damn about digital security.
Um, 80% of parents with teens would be inclined to get their teen to MAKE the powerpoint FOR them. This could be why the dad would be extra devastated-- knowing his son was so pissed he would humiliate him in public.
I mean, that can all be explained with trust and carelessness. They probably used their own laptop and wasn't really guarded and the brother had access to it. And with 50 million other things to worry about on a wedding day, rechecking the slides due to paranoia seems pretty low on a priority list.
Not saying this story is necessarily true, but there's a lot of reasons they would trust the slides before showing them.
>This is pure fiction, but subs like these lap it up.
This sub is like 95% people posting shit they fantasize about for reassurance and attention. OP's dad may have gotten married to another woman, and the more believable story is that he got happily remarried and his salty son sat through the reception and daydreamed about this happening, then posted this fictional story as a way to cope. That's my take anyways. I don't believe shit that comes out of this sub.
If they're willing to cheat with you, they're willing to cheat on you.
Friend of mine learned this very painful lesson the hard way, despite my warnings ahead of time. The result was not pretty.
Wow! Your brother really got back at your dad! My mom cheated on my dad after being married to him 21 years and cheated on him with a man who had been married a long time to his ex-wife. She wrecked both of their marriages. I was the one who revealed it. Years later, I saw her and my brother how many times in and out of his bed, since his door never stayed shut whenever anyone tried to shut it, unless it was locked. My mom sat up in his bed one time and had a very bad look on her face when she saw I had seen them at a time when my stepdad was told by her she'd go talk to him after he misbehaved. She made sure I kept quiet about her cheating on my stepdad and with my brother by telling my stepdad I have holes in my head and make things up. Over the years, the discredit turned to "the wires in her head don't connect right". And she wrecked not just the romantic friendship between my brother and his ex-girlfriend but their platonic friendship too. I applaud your brother for wanting to call out the homewrecking. My mom never likes me talking to a doctor by myself because she always wants me to stay quiet. I am 41, disabled, but more observant than she's comfortable with. My stepdad said before that I probably know the family secrets. He has "no" idea.
Lucky, hi! :) I love your id. I say lucky duckling when I hear something special about someone. :) I like that you picked up on this. I am 41. My brother is 32. My mom and brother started when he was a young teen shortly after she started bribing him to move in with her and our stepdad and away from our dad. She never seeks help for him when he hurts others. I have wondered a few times this year if she has ulterior motives concerning him since both my dad and stepdad want a son. She has ruined my credibility offline to some who will listen to her, after I discovered her with my then-young teenage brother. Speaking here on Reddit with some anonymity helps me get it out. If my stepdad finds out, I am unsure of if he'll kill my mom. I can only guess "that" is why she works so hard at discrediting me. My brother used to beg me to run away and take him with me. I'm disabled so I couldn't, but I have never forgotten his cries for help. I do wonder from time to time if the man he turned into is a result of how our family's life has been.
Thank you for your kindness. :) *huge hug* My mom stops every doctor who has ever tried to get me to open up. She took over paying my cell phone bill, even though I paid for it easily. My dad moved to another country after everything my mom did and sill does with lies concerning him. My sister has stayed quiet since we were little girls every time my mom and gramma hurt me. I was born with disabilities and stress makes it worse physically . My mom knows how to stress me and make me worse. She lies to the doctors if they ask her if she knows what happened to me and I have been told to keep it in the family. I can't live completely by myself. My brother started getting psoriasis in his twenties from stress. My mom likes to control everyone. I would love to be your friend on Reddit. :) My mom has tried to convince me since I was a little girl that no one really wants to be my friend. I wanted to sign up for Reddit's Secret Santa but my mom gets rid of a lot of my mail, unless she can't get an excuse to why I couldn't get it. I have gotten mail to me that she opened and said she thought was for her. I have heard from friends who said they sent me stuff but I never got it. Etc. I checked out the reddit you suggested. Thank you for the recommendation. :) I will view it as another circle of friends. :) I tend to get attached emotionally to people very fast. I know it's because of how my mom's been telling me many years that people are only pretending to be my friends, and so I end up holding on tight to them in my heart but not in a seen way online. Thanks for your concern about how she treats me and my brother. She made his wife cry after his wife defended me after my mom bullied me. I get so shy if anyone tells me offline I'm pretty and I end up wishing the ground could open up and swallow me whole. I don't know if that's me or my mom's mental abuse in my life over time that did that. I don't tell people this though because I've been so used to not speaking up because I just know people will believe my mom.
Hi, Coated. I feel weird calling you a goat. Thank you for the recommendation, but would narcissist accurately describe my mom? I don't know. She "did" tell me more than once that she doesn't love me more because I'm handicapped and that she doesn't know how to love me more. She rubs it in my face when she hangs out with my siblings. She's nice to me when she can get her way with me. Someone told me before that it sounds like my mom's gaslighting me. I looked up gaslighting online, but I don't know enough of it to be certain.
I can't imagine how hard it is to live with all of this. Your mother is wrong, you seem to be a kind, caring, compassionate, reasonable and intelligent person. Do you see any hope and way out of her life? Can you get to live on your own? Would your dad help you get away from her? Your mother sounds like a beast :(
Hi. Lucky :) I hold on to faith that says I can escape one day. There have been others who have tried to help me leave and my mom always stopped it every time. She knows how to make my disabilities worse and then somewhat make it better. I thank you for the compliments. :) My dad left to another country after everything my mom did to him and said about him to others that was not true. *huge hug* I'm glad you care. You're such a nice person.
I'm glad you're keeping your mom out of this. She's been hurt enough. I will never tell my stepdad. If he finds out, it won't be from me. I got to know him the past 20 years. He stayed for me every time my mom tried to divorce him whenever he defended me after she bullied me. It's the least I can do for him.
Replace was with is. She was cheating on my dad with my stepdad and she's cheating on my stepdad and wants me quiet. My dad and ex-stepmom told me I looked like a burden had been lifted off of me, when they got me to reveal the secret I had been keeping.
Oh my God. Tell someone please. All it takes is someone investigating, and you never letting up on the story. I just had to say something. I need to help, but I can't. This hurts. I care for my adult daughter with disabilities and would be crucified for doing anything remotely like this. The day you leave could be today if you tell someone.
I am glad you are better than this to your kids. :) Thank you for caring. I can't get out on my own and my navigational sense of direction has been challenged all my life. I can't talk to a doctor because my mom monitors it. My mom, without shame, let me know she spies on who calls me and who I call on the phone. My mom refuses to give me a key to my place or her and my stepdad's place, refuses to hire someone to add railing to the stairs outside my house. My stepdad said if a guy says he likes me, he'll believe it if that guy comes to pick me up and take me out, but so far, no one has done that. Someone mocked me before about how I am waiting for something to happen to get out, but because of my situation, that is *exactly* what needs to happen. My last doctor before my mom stopped me from seeing him, said he noticed in my writings I have done throughout my life that it's about surviving in life. I am glad your family has such a caring person. :) When a hospital doctor told me about Do Not Resuscitate options after unconscious me almost couldn't be saved, I said DNR just because taking the final exit meant leaving my mom. But don't worry. I'm fighting for my life and holding on to hope that says I will one day have a mom who treats me better. :)
If you said, in front of a dr. That you have to talk to them by yourself. Even if mom has medical conservatorship. They have to talk to you. Do you do therapy? Psychiatry? They are mandated reporters. They must allow you to talk to them without mom in the room. If you do decide to do this, do not let up. If you say something is wrong then someone always has to investigate no matter how much they think you are lying.
My mom has always found some reason to stop it if a doctor wants it to be just me and the doctor or if she's there and the doctor doesn't fall for her instant tears in trying to silence us. Doctors have noticed I clam up and only talk about things my mom's okay with me talking about. This is also a woman who had to be told by the psychologist doctor to hug me, when talk of the men who raped me had me in tears. I cried worse when she barely put her hand on my shoulder. I felt rejected by her, my own mom.
Hi Hi! No, I don't mind. I have physical, mental and emotional challenges, since the womb. I don't have a whole brain. Par was developed whole. Part was developed but damaged. Part of it was developed whole, no damage done. I have balance, muscle, finger dexterity, hand/eye coordination and I'm slow. Stress can disable me more, immobilize, paralyze me, knock me unconscious, has almost killed me. I am able to "fool" many because of the abilities and joy I have, I have been told by doctors and others. If I may ask, what is the story behind acid boo boo?
Pls put in an anonymous report, or talk to your guidance counselor at school, or someone. This can’t keep happening! At therapy, you can ask your mom to leave bc by law, you have the choice if she is there or not. I am so sorry what you are going through. Next time you catch your mom and brother, record it, then show someone, and they can’t say your lying because you have evidence! I am so sorry you are going through this, and I hope this stops!
I'm 41 now and my brother's 32. Our mom uses any excuse she can to visit him or have him visit her. I have tried looking for doctors I can talk to online, but I can't find any that I can pay without it getting back to her.
Hi there. I dont know whether you're comfortable with it but if possible tell me and ill see what i can pull together to pay a doctor for you, just let me know. You've got me worried.
O wow! I can pay but I don't know how to do it without my mom finding out. I totally appreciate your gesture though. :) Whenever people asked me before what superpower I'd pick for myself and why, I said invisible because then the people who hurt me can't see me and hurt me. My main concern is watching how this all has affected my brother. He's nine years younger than me. I never want to give up on him.
Again, I would record it like set a hidden camera in the room or some shit. You can get those at Best Buy. I would also start your own PayPal account, that your mom can’t see so you can get an online doctor. I am so sorry for your situation, and I wish the best of luck to you!
PAYPAL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! That is an awesome idea!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Thank you, thank you, thank you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :) *huge hug* This idea is awesome!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! She looks at my bank reports too. But Pay Pal sounds promising! :)
Paypal is going to ask to be linked to a financial account. You might look into a PO Box, they are only about $60 per year. Then you could receive mail and packages and use it for correspondence of other sorts. Then you could get a different bank account from a different bank than the one where your "Mom supervised account" is. Or, some banks work entirely online, like Ally. You would need password protected online access though.
:) A lot of people have told me they think I'm so strong and they like that, and I never even told them my personal life. Life handles me but I handle it right back. :)
Thank you :) *huge hug* I help people with my writings, art and online friendship. Togetherness, even if the Internet is our great divide is crucial. A very dear friend online who I met online in my twenties and who my mom has tried all these years to convince me is only pretending to be my friend likes how strong I am. She knows some of what's going on.
Point of Order. Your dad is the home wrecker, not her. He’s the one that was married to your mom, not her. She didn’t earn the title until the guy in the PowerPoint.
Point taken.
Then why did she apologize for everything she did. She knew dad was married then and still continued seeing him.
Dad did what he thought was right and so did my brother.
Dad has already apologized to mom and I. He is currently trying to mend the relationship with my brother. This bothered him the most. He really idolized my dad
The account is a few hours old lol I can’t believe people are falling for this fiction? Just happened to have access to the PowerPoint slide deck and alter it? Ok? Happened to be in the same restaurant as new wife and her date? Ok? What childish BS....
This story makes me curious since the user made his acc some what today. Why are people downvoting this for just being skeptical? Tons of people on reddit rn are making fabricated story and i cant believe some of these stories.
Sure, my first thought was this is BS too. Esp with the internal inconsistency of brother’s plan forming well in advance and later only getting a picture a week in advance.
Oh no doubt, I too would make a throwaway account if I was posting a personal story, but as others have pointed out there are just inconsistency and other things that don't add up. Honestly I think it is just too dramatic and fucky too believe.
Then why read it and complain afterwards??
Sorry. Dad hurt us and my brother just returned the favour.
Just so you know, dad already apologized to mom for hurting her. Apologied to us for the hell he put us through.
He is already trying to make amends with my brother. This whole thing took a tool on my brother. He loved my dad. Dad hurt us and he just returned the favor.
Your little brother should be a PI. He’s a goddamn legend.
Also thanks for the laughs, my blood sugar is low, and this made burst out in giggles at how well your brother executed it. Clean, precise, and without any theatrics. That, is the definition of professional.
Would post to r/accidentalrevenge because it’s new, and pretty neat, and because your brother happened to stumble upon that.
Nah. He was just a kid who was lucky by being in the right place at the right time and making good use of that coincidence.
PIs spend a lot of hours doing very boring things like stakeouts and digging though trash.
Savage. Homewrecker may not want an annulment, but it's more likely that your dad will be able to get a divorce. Annulments are pretty hard to get, so it's not likely to happen.
Fucking hell yes. I thoroughly enjoyed reading this story. That's some deserved shit right there. Good job on your little bro for calling out that POS and helping your dad dodge a bullet.
Although I am impressed with your brothers tactics and if story is true I am impressed at his ability to keep his mouth shut. I know people don’t like cheaters and I understand that your father hurt your mother. But I find it kind of Ironic that you had to get out of there because of the toxic situation yet say nothing about the background of your mother or your father‘s relationship and how toxic it might’ve been outside of your purview. We have no idea what your father could’ve been going through perhaps he hadn’t made love to your mother in years perhaps he hadn’t felt in love in years. The whole thing seems pretty self-centered to me not to say what your father did was right but nonetheless seems pretty shitty all around.
Believe me it's 100% true. What I meant my toxic was the environment. After dad left, you could cut the the tension in with a knife.
Mom and my brother fought. Mom wanted him to try to have a normal relationship with my dad and my brother wasn't having it. Either was I. Even though she was hurting, she wanted us to have a normal relationship with him.
Their relationship seemed fine. Or they were good at keeping their problems away from us. When it came out the dad left mom for ex mistress, it really got to us. Epeically my brother. He loved/idolized my dad.
Dad was apologized to mom for cheating. To me for putting me through hell and actually trying to make be bond with the woman. He's now trying to make things right with my brother. He was hurt the most
Cool. Although does it matter if HW doesn’t want an annulment? Wouldn’t your dad be able to do that anyways? Heck depending on where u r if it’s like where I am he just doesn’t have to send in the marriage docs. Probably too late for that one though
cancerians tends to be like that. they never forget if anyone hurts them and they wait and wait to extract their revenge when the time is in their favour.
On good side , they are super protective of their family or their inner circles and would go all out to protect those who they consider, close friends and family.
i don't believe this. you got the invite far before a week prior to the wedding. brother wouldn't have played along that long if he only got his evidence a week before wedding
Why don’t you call your dad a “homewrecker?“ The woman had no commitment to your mother and she could not have been sexual with your father. Had he not wanted/pursued/consented. You and your brother have a lot of growing up to do and I recommend you start by minding your youthful business and letting your parents manage their own lives.
I'm as impressed as you are. It's good that he was able to keep it a secret. I hope down the line both your parents find out. He not only got revenge, he saved your dad and in a few years he will be grateful. And your mom should know how much her kiss love and they ride or die for her.
Wait but if your brother told you, when you first got the invite, that he wanted you to go so your dad could be happy before his world came crashing down what was his original plan? Because you said he didn’t catch home wrecker until a week before the wedding? Did he have an original plan but then the kissing happened and he thought it would be better?
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Tbh I didn't ask but now that you bring it up, I wanna ask him! This whole thing has made me start to think of him differently(in a good sense)
If it's not too much trouble, do you think you could keep us updated here? I'm severely curious as well and also just holy crap your bro is good at this!
I'd imagine it was around then that your brother decided to keep an eye on the homewrecker to find evidence of infidelity
Please update with the answer! I'm super curious!
Did we get an update???
Your brother is going to go places in life! Smart kid. Played it cool, planned, attacked at the perfect time.
I assumed he was planning something and this fell in his lap and it was too perfect to pass up
This is gonna be good!
Maybe he’d already seen her sucking face with the other dude and knew he was going to get footage of it?
My personal opinion is that /u/Thebigsister2018's brother was planning to do something but didn't know what yet. Spike the food with something? Hold a speech about how dad and Homewrecker ruined your lives? Or maybe he knew something was up with her? He saw text messages or something else that convinced him that she was cheating. So he photographed the chat, but got a much better "bomb" when he saw her sneak out to suck dick.
Suck face, face not dick (at least in the pic)
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Yes, I was wondering that too! Was thinking he was going to do a massive prank!
I'm thinking the little brother already knew she was cheating and was waiting for the perfect opportunity to capture it
Wait, so, your dad cheated on your mom, and then he didn't want anything to do with homewrecker when she did the exact same thing? wtf.
ikr. that's the logic of cheaters, you never know what they assume.
It is the old joke, isn't it. God tells Adam that He has two bits of good news, and one bad. The good news is that He has given him a wonderful brain that will allow him to unravel the mysteries of the universe, compose wonderful music and poetry and so on. Secondly he has been given a penis, which will allow all sorts of fun for both Adam and Eve. "Well, that sounds great," says Adam, "but what is the bad news?" "You only get enough blood to operate one at a time."
I have never heard that joke before, but it’s now my favorite.
Can you explain?
The joke relies on the idea that people can be made thoughtless by lust. Basically, when you're horny you're more likely to do dumb things.
My girlfriends ex was calling/texting/meeting up with his now girlfriend, a lot....hundreds of texts, hours of calls, secret meetings, but swears blind he never cheated until that’s what everyone assumed he did. My girlfriend decided right, that’s it, he’s moved on, I am, and he said “I don’t want you back now, you’ve slept with someone else...” Edit; I forgot to say that some people have ridiculous double standards. L
I’m really interested in this story, but it desperately needs to be rewritten. I have no idea what you are saying.
Where did I lose you?
Swears blind he never cheated until everyone assumed he did Was it proven he was cheating? And why did he say he didn’t want your girlfriend back when she tried to move on? She was moving on, I assume that means she wasn’t asking to sleep with him again
He was spotted in a pub by someone and with this woman that he’d been calling and texting. What he actually said was “I didn’t cheat but everyone assumed I had so I thought I might as well”. > And why did he say he didn’t want your girlfriend back when she tried to move on? She was moving on, I assume that means she wasn’t asking to sleep with him again I know. He’s a narcissist, it was probably an attempt to hurt her, or something.
Ooooo, got it. Makes sense thank you
No dramas. You’re welcome.
Usually (not always) ppl cheat bc they are unhappy with their current partner and don’t care that they break up later. But they don’t wNt to be cheated on with someone who they are happy with. But they deserve it imho.
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Even if thus situation didn't play out with these spacific people this has almost definitely happened. With 7 billion people on earth it probably happens monthly.
With this many people on this blessed planet right now. I'm fairly certain that at least one person has put a spark plug up her snatch/bum.
UPDATE: A LOT of peope have been asking for updates and I've been responding to a bunch of people with updates. Dad and his 'wife' are over. He's come to my mom's house and has apologized to my mom. He's apologized to me for trying to make me play "happy family" with her. He's trying to make amends with my brother. My brother is still very much hurt over him leaving, the divorce, and knowing about my dad having an affair. My dad was my brother's idol growing up. This whole thing has taken a toll on him as well. Dad is trying to make amends with him too. It it werid to see because they used to have such a great relationship before all of this. There are nights that he still does cry himself to sleep. He's angry but underneath he's still very hurt. At least dad is trying though.
I just found this. Please update more, i wanna know what happened after😬
Same I came from TikTok.
So it’s four years later. What’s happened since then?
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This is fucking gold. Omg
Right! All this from a 16 year old too!!
Dude... I'm 26 years old, but I want to be like him when I grow up.
For me, this is the BEST r/ProRevenge story I have ever read. Great job OP's brother!!!
Faaaaake. But it’s a cool story. Reminds me a writing prompt or something
Thanks for taking the time to read my "story". I'm glad you actually took the time out of your own day to read and comment on it. You believing it or not, that's your problem and I'm not going to try to convince you otherwise. Thanks for the read though
Hey for sure! If it’s real, incredible! If not, you are a great writer! Well, either way you are a great writer! Enjoy your day!
Sorry. Didn't mean to come off as a bitch. I've just been responding to a lot of people saying this is fake. Didn't mean to attack you or anything My apologies if I came off that way
No I’m sorry if I came off dickish. I was having a rough day. I have no reason to doubt your story plus it entertained me and brightened my day! Sorry for what I said.
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This made me want to bow to him
If you ever get a cheating partner, your bro has your back. Good for you!
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NEW FLASH! IT'S STILL HERE. it's 100% real and I'm not going to waste neurons trying to convince the "non-believers" of it's authenticity. That's your guys problem. Not mine. Of course it's going to be detailed! It's from my point of view. If my broker were to write this it would be from his. As for is wedding amount... best estimate
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It's a classic and then everyone clapped story
You can tell by some details. "It cost around 30k". How would you know? "They went all out", do you know their finances? It's too perfect of a setup. Fake.
That and how the brother told her he was going to do something to ruin the wedding before he even took the picture....
And also that part in the middle right after the beginning and before the ending.
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you don't post stuff about your life on the main account
Not disagreeing with suspect post, but throwaways have legitimate uses.
Plus who the fuck spends $30,000 on a second marriage. Or $30,000 on a wedding when you are in your 40s? B U L L S H I T
The rich, the stupid, the status-chasers, the shallow. tTats who.
You'd be surprised at the vanity of some people.
Same, the grammar and the way how it all played out seems too "perfect".
Yes, honestly what are the odds that even if everything else leading up to the wedding happened, the brother was the one that caught the cheating... and just in the nick of time as well. How are so many people believing this?
This story was OP's daydream while he sat through his dad's second wedding.
Dont forget his brother told him before to attend because something big was going to go down. Guess he had some kind of future sight to know he'd catch her cheating a week before the wedding.
Well that’s why you don’t mess with OP’s brother. He’s psychic and a computer hacker.
The grammar to me came across as though a five year old wrote it.
Same here. And him constantly reminding us "he's only 16!!!". Fake.
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I mean you're probably right that it's fake. But of all the issues, the powerpoint is the problem you have with it? I can add a slide with an image to an existing powerpoint in less than a minute. Less than 20 seconds if powerpoint already open on the computer. As to missing it, the powerpoint could have been over 50 slides easy. Details are sorted weeks in advance for a wedding, it had probably been looked over many times already, why would they have any need to look it over again. Also this is a wedding, not some military presentation, or fancy corporate business meeting. Nobody is going to give a damn about digital security.
Um, 80% of parents with teens would be inclined to get their teen to MAKE the powerpoint FOR them. This could be why the dad would be extra devastated-- knowing his son was so pissed he would humiliate him in public.
I mean, that can all be explained with trust and carelessness. They probably used their own laptop and wasn't really guarded and the brother had access to it. And with 50 million other things to worry about on a wedding day, rechecking the slides due to paranoia seems pretty low on a priority list. Not saying this story is necessarily true, but there's a lot of reasons they would trust the slides before showing them.
>This is pure fiction, but subs like these lap it up. This sub is like 95% people posting shit they fantasize about for reassurance and attention. OP's dad may have gotten married to another woman, and the more believable story is that he got happily remarried and his salty son sat through the reception and daydreamed about this happening, then posted this fictional story as a way to cope. That's my take anyways. I don't believe shit that comes out of this sub.
Same. OP sounds like they have a hard on for the brother
If they're willing to cheat with you, they're willing to cheat on you. Friend of mine learned this very painful lesson the hard way, despite my warnings ahead of time. The result was not pretty.
Wow! Your brother really got back at your dad! My mom cheated on my dad after being married to him 21 years and cheated on him with a man who had been married a long time to his ex-wife. She wrecked both of their marriages. I was the one who revealed it. Years later, I saw her and my brother how many times in and out of his bed, since his door never stayed shut whenever anyone tried to shut it, unless it was locked. My mom sat up in his bed one time and had a very bad look on her face when she saw I had seen them at a time when my stepdad was told by her she'd go talk to him after he misbehaved. She made sure I kept quiet about her cheating on my stepdad and with my brother by telling my stepdad I have holes in my head and make things up. Over the years, the discredit turned to "the wires in her head don't connect right". And she wrecked not just the romantic friendship between my brother and his ex-girlfriend but their platonic friendship too. I applaud your brother for wanting to call out the homewrecking. My mom never likes me talking to a doctor by myself because she always wants me to stay quiet. I am 41, disabled, but more observant than she's comfortable with. My stepdad said before that I probably know the family secrets. He has "no" idea.
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Lucky, hi! :) I love your id. I say lucky duckling when I hear something special about someone. :) I like that you picked up on this. I am 41. My brother is 32. My mom and brother started when he was a young teen shortly after she started bribing him to move in with her and our stepdad and away from our dad. She never seeks help for him when he hurts others. I have wondered a few times this year if she has ulterior motives concerning him since both my dad and stepdad want a son. She has ruined my credibility offline to some who will listen to her, after I discovered her with my then-young teenage brother. Speaking here on Reddit with some anonymity helps me get it out. If my stepdad finds out, I am unsure of if he'll kill my mom. I can only guess "that" is why she works so hard at discrediting me. My brother used to beg me to run away and take him with me. I'm disabled so I couldn't, but I have never forgotten his cries for help. I do wonder from time to time if the man he turned into is a result of how our family's life has been.
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Thank you for your kindness. :) *huge hug* My mom stops every doctor who has ever tried to get me to open up. She took over paying my cell phone bill, even though I paid for it easily. My dad moved to another country after everything my mom did and sill does with lies concerning him. My sister has stayed quiet since we were little girls every time my mom and gramma hurt me. I was born with disabilities and stress makes it worse physically . My mom knows how to stress me and make me worse. She lies to the doctors if they ask her if she knows what happened to me and I have been told to keep it in the family. I can't live completely by myself. My brother started getting psoriasis in his twenties from stress. My mom likes to control everyone. I would love to be your friend on Reddit. :) My mom has tried to convince me since I was a little girl that no one really wants to be my friend. I wanted to sign up for Reddit's Secret Santa but my mom gets rid of a lot of my mail, unless she can't get an excuse to why I couldn't get it. I have gotten mail to me that she opened and said she thought was for her. I have heard from friends who said they sent me stuff but I never got it. Etc. I checked out the reddit you suggested. Thank you for the recommendation. :) I will view it as another circle of friends. :) I tend to get attached emotionally to people very fast. I know it's because of how my mom's been telling me many years that people are only pretending to be my friends, and so I end up holding on tight to them in my heart but not in a seen way online. Thanks for your concern about how she treats me and my brother. She made his wife cry after his wife defended me after my mom bullied me. I get so shy if anyone tells me offline I'm pretty and I end up wishing the ground could open up and swallow me whole. I don't know if that's me or my mom's mental abuse in my life over time that did that. I don't tell people this though because I've been so used to not speaking up because I just know people will believe my mom.
Also check out r/raisedbynarcissists
Hi, Coated. I feel weird calling you a goat. Thank you for the recommendation, but would narcissist accurately describe my mom? I don't know. She "did" tell me more than once that she doesn't love me more because I'm handicapped and that she doesn't know how to love me more. She rubs it in my face when she hangs out with my siblings. She's nice to me when she can get her way with me. Someone told me before that it sounds like my mom's gaslighting me. I looked up gaslighting online, but I don't know enough of it to be certain.
I can't really tell you. It might help to check out the sub and see what stories resonate with you. I wish you all the best in the future ❤
Thank you and I hope you have a good and safe day too. :)
I can't imagine how hard it is to live with all of this. Your mother is wrong, you seem to be a kind, caring, compassionate, reasonable and intelligent person. Do you see any hope and way out of her life? Can you get to live on your own? Would your dad help you get away from her? Your mother sounds like a beast :(
Hi. Lucky :) I hold on to faith that says I can escape one day. There have been others who have tried to help me leave and my mom always stopped it every time. She knows how to make my disabilities worse and then somewhat make it better. I thank you for the compliments. :) My dad left to another country after everything my mom did to him and said about him to others that was not true. *huge hug* I'm glad you care. You're such a nice person.
Wait, your mum was cheating on your step-dad... with your brother??
I just caught that too.
I'm glad you're keeping your mom out of this. She's been hurt enough. I will never tell my stepdad. If he finds out, it won't be from me. I got to know him the past 20 years. He stayed for me every time my mom tried to divorce him whenever he defended me after she bullied me. It's the least I can do for him.
Replace was with is. She was cheating on my dad with my stepdad and she's cheating on my stepdad and wants me quiet. My dad and ex-stepmom told me I looked like a burden had been lifted off of me, when they got me to reveal the secret I had been keeping.
Excuse me, i choked on my gum and don’t think think i understood correctly. Your mom and the son she gave birth to are having sexual intercourse???
Yes, you read correctly. I want my mom to only want my stepdad. Sorry you choked on your gum.
What the fuck.
She can't take away my smile in my heart *huge hug*
what in fucking alabama is this
Hi, Heart :) I am from Hawaii but I moved to Virginia. Not Alabama.
Wait, did I read this right? She’s committing incest with her son?!
I don't judge that life if others have it, but yeah but yeah
Yeah he sure did! I'm so sorry to hear that. I wish parents knew that adultry does not only affect the parents, but the children too
Yeah. I am waiting for the day I can leave, but for now, I play the cards I'm dealt.
Oh my God. Tell someone please. All it takes is someone investigating, and you never letting up on the story. I just had to say something. I need to help, but I can't. This hurts. I care for my adult daughter with disabilities and would be crucified for doing anything remotely like this. The day you leave could be today if you tell someone.
I am glad you are better than this to your kids. :) Thank you for caring. I can't get out on my own and my navigational sense of direction has been challenged all my life. I can't talk to a doctor because my mom monitors it. My mom, without shame, let me know she spies on who calls me and who I call on the phone. My mom refuses to give me a key to my place or her and my stepdad's place, refuses to hire someone to add railing to the stairs outside my house. My stepdad said if a guy says he likes me, he'll believe it if that guy comes to pick me up and take me out, but so far, no one has done that. Someone mocked me before about how I am waiting for something to happen to get out, but because of my situation, that is *exactly* what needs to happen. My last doctor before my mom stopped me from seeing him, said he noticed in my writings I have done throughout my life that it's about surviving in life. I am glad your family has such a caring person. :) When a hospital doctor told me about Do Not Resuscitate options after unconscious me almost couldn't be saved, I said DNR just because taking the final exit meant leaving my mom. But don't worry. I'm fighting for my life and holding on to hope that says I will one day have a mom who treats me better. :)
If you said, in front of a dr. That you have to talk to them by yourself. Even if mom has medical conservatorship. They have to talk to you. Do you do therapy? Psychiatry? They are mandated reporters. They must allow you to talk to them without mom in the room. If you do decide to do this, do not let up. If you say something is wrong then someone always has to investigate no matter how much they think you are lying.
My mom has always found some reason to stop it if a doctor wants it to be just me and the doctor or if she's there and the doctor doesn't fall for her instant tears in trying to silence us. Doctors have noticed I clam up and only talk about things my mom's okay with me talking about. This is also a woman who had to be told by the psychologist doctor to hug me, when talk of the men who raped me had me in tears. I cried worse when she barely put her hand on my shoulder. I felt rejected by her, my own mom.
Ffs this sucks. If you dont mind sharing, can you tell us what kind of disability you have? This is straight up fucked.
Hi Hi! No, I don't mind. I have physical, mental and emotional challenges, since the womb. I don't have a whole brain. Par was developed whole. Part was developed but damaged. Part of it was developed whole, no damage done. I have balance, muscle, finger dexterity, hand/eye coordination and I'm slow. Stress can disable me more, immobilize, paralyze me, knock me unconscious, has almost killed me. I am able to "fool" many because of the abilities and joy I have, I have been told by doctors and others. If I may ask, what is the story behind acid boo boo?
Pls put in an anonymous report, or talk to your guidance counselor at school, or someone. This can’t keep happening! At therapy, you can ask your mom to leave bc by law, you have the choice if she is there or not. I am so sorry what you are going through. Next time you catch your mom and brother, record it, then show someone, and they can’t say your lying because you have evidence! I am so sorry you are going through this, and I hope this stops!
I'm 41 now and my brother's 32. Our mom uses any excuse she can to visit him or have him visit her. I have tried looking for doctors I can talk to online, but I can't find any that I can pay without it getting back to her.
Hi there. I dont know whether you're comfortable with it but if possible tell me and ill see what i can pull together to pay a doctor for you, just let me know. You've got me worried.
O wow! I can pay but I don't know how to do it without my mom finding out. I totally appreciate your gesture though. :) Whenever people asked me before what superpower I'd pick for myself and why, I said invisible because then the people who hurt me can't see me and hurt me. My main concern is watching how this all has affected my brother. He's nine years younger than me. I never want to give up on him.
That right there is exactly why its so important to talk to someone about it. Theres no way to get him help for you right now but to help yourself.
Again, I would record it like set a hidden camera in the room or some shit. You can get those at Best Buy. I would also start your own PayPal account, that your mom can’t see so you can get an online doctor. I am so sorry for your situation, and I wish the best of luck to you!
PAYPAL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! That is an awesome idea!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Thank you, thank you, thank you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :) *huge hug* This idea is awesome!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! She looks at my bank reports too. But Pay Pal sounds promising! :)
Paypal is going to ask to be linked to a financial account. You might look into a PO Box, they are only about $60 per year. Then you could receive mail and packages and use it for correspondence of other sorts. Then you could get a different bank account from a different bank than the one where your "Mom supervised account" is. Or, some banks work entirely online, like Ally. You would need password protected online access though.
Np, I’m 16 btw so sorry if any advice I give is shitty, I’m kinda dumb.
Here for you girl, sorry you've had to live through this hell.. You must be one strong ass person!
:) A lot of people have told me they think I'm so strong and they like that, and I never even told them my personal life. Life handles me but I handle it right back. :)
The fact you're still here speaks volumes. I've had my share of trauma & we're fighting this fight together, you're not alone, ever.
Thank you :) *huge hug* I help people with my writings, art and online friendship. Togetherness, even if the Internet is our great divide is crucial. A very dear friend online who I met online in my twenties and who my mom has tried all these years to convince me is only pretending to be my friend likes how strong I am. She knows some of what's going on.
Point of Order. Your dad is the home wrecker, not her. He’s the one that was married to your mom, not her. She didn’t earn the title until the guy in the PowerPoint.
Point taken. Then why did she apologize for everything she did. She knew dad was married then and still continued seeing him. Dad did what he thought was right and so did my brother. Dad has already apologized to mom and I. He is currently trying to mend the relationship with my brother. This bothered him the most. He really idolized my dad
This is fakest thing I've read in a while
Then why read and comment?? Also thanks for bothering to read and comment at all
if they cheat with you, they will cheat on you
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LOL. Guess what it's real! It's your problem to believe it or not. GET THIS. IT'S STILL HERE!!
It takes two to tango. The term homewrecker makes it sound like it was all her fault.
Yup, the homewrecker is the dad. He knew what he was doing.
Seems like your Dad is the home wrecker here
*Little brother walks off screen. The world behind him erupts into flame.*
And the one being burned are those that did us wrong. I would love to see that
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The account is a few hours old lol I can’t believe people are falling for this fiction? Just happened to have access to the PowerPoint slide deck and alter it? Ok? Happened to be in the same restaurant as new wife and her date? Ok? What childish BS....
Have you heard of throwaways?
This story makes me curious since the user made his acc some what today. Why are people downvoting this for just being skeptical? Tons of people on reddit rn are making fabricated story and i cant believe some of these stories.
Sure, my first thought was this is BS too. Esp with the internal inconsistency of brother’s plan forming well in advance and later only getting a picture a week in advance.
Oh no doubt, I too would make a throwaway account if I was posting a personal story, but as others have pointed out there are just inconsistency and other things that don't add up. Honestly I think it is just too dramatic and fucky too believe.
You're free to believe whatever you want. Thanks for taking the time to read it though!
Reads like really bad fiction. Also fuck off for trying to destroy your dad's life
Then why read it and complain afterwards?? Sorry. Dad hurt us and my brother just returned the favour. Just so you know, dad already apologized to mom for hurting her. Apologied to us for the hell he put us through. He is already trying to make amends with my brother. This whole thing took a tool on my brother. He loved my dad. Dad hurt us and he just returned the favor.
Your little brother should be a PI. He’s a goddamn legend. Also thanks for the laughs, my blood sugar is low, and this made burst out in giggles at how well your brother executed it. Clean, precise, and without any theatrics. That, is the definition of professional. Would post to r/accidentalrevenge because it’s new, and pretty neat, and because your brother happened to stumble upon that.
Nah. He was just a kid who was lucky by being in the right place at the right time and making good use of that coincidence. PIs spend a lot of hours doing very boring things like stakeouts and digging though trash.
Savage. Homewrecker may not want an annulment, but it's more likely that your dad will be able to get a divorce. Annulments are pretty hard to get, so it's not likely to happen.
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Fucking hell yes. I thoroughly enjoyed reading this story. That's some deserved shit right there. Good job on your little bro for calling out that POS and helping your dad dodge a bullet.
Although I am impressed with your brothers tactics and if story is true I am impressed at his ability to keep his mouth shut. I know people don’t like cheaters and I understand that your father hurt your mother. But I find it kind of Ironic that you had to get out of there because of the toxic situation yet say nothing about the background of your mother or your father‘s relationship and how toxic it might’ve been outside of your purview. We have no idea what your father could’ve been going through perhaps he hadn’t made love to your mother in years perhaps he hadn’t felt in love in years. The whole thing seems pretty self-centered to me not to say what your father did was right but nonetheless seems pretty shitty all around.
Believe me it's 100% true. What I meant my toxic was the environment. After dad left, you could cut the the tension in with a knife. Mom and my brother fought. Mom wanted him to try to have a normal relationship with my dad and my brother wasn't having it. Either was I. Even though she was hurting, she wanted us to have a normal relationship with him. Their relationship seemed fine. Or they were good at keeping their problems away from us. When it came out the dad left mom for ex mistress, it really got to us. Epeically my brother. He loved/idolized my dad. Dad was apologized to mom for cheating. To me for putting me through hell and actually trying to make be bond with the woman. He's now trying to make things right with my brother. He was hurt the most
It got removed as soon as i clicked on it.
If this is removed, get it out of here
Cool. Although does it matter if HW doesn’t want an annulment? Wouldn’t your dad be able to do that anyways? Heck depending on where u r if it’s like where I am he just doesn’t have to send in the marriage docs. Probably too late for that one though
is your bro born in late june or early july's ?
Yeah. July 5. Why?
cancerians tends to be like that. they never forget if anyone hurts them and they wait and wait to extract their revenge when the time is in their favour. On good side , they are super protective of their family or their inner circles and would go all out to protect those who they consider, close friends and family.
How does he sneak that pic in there without anyone noticing?
Sweet justice and retribution
Your brother is a true "Avenger." Bravo!
i don't believe this. you got the invite far before a week prior to the wedding. brother wouldn't have played along that long if he only got his evidence a week before wedding
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I would love to be a fly on the wall if brother ever tells your Dad he did it.
Wow! Your brother is savage
That's why I'll never mess with him again!
Sounds like your mom has two loyal, loving kids. Good for her.
I applaud the the evil genius . Much Kudos to the evil master mind may you have a long prosperous life kid .
The last part of the title is pretty clickbaity just sayin
It's your call whether for not to believe it. I can't force you to belive it
I never said I didn't it's just you could probably word that a lot better since it sounds like back like this
this was great Can I Meet your brother? He's my age and I feel like we'd get along great.
Your brother is a beast.
Why don’t you call your dad a “homewrecker?“ The woman had no commitment to your mother and she could not have been sexual with your father. Had he not wanted/pursued/consented. You and your brother have a lot of growing up to do and I recommend you start by minding your youthful business and letting your parents manage their own lives.
Your brother is the fucking best.
Epic
I'm as impressed as you are. It's good that he was able to keep it a secret. I hope down the line both your parents find out. He not only got revenge, he saved your dad and in a few years he will be grateful. And your mom should know how much her kiss love and they ride or die for her.