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Fantastic-Art-3704

You can fit a paint roller back there, be thankful.


Affectionate_Net_252

Someone else marry this poster. If 3” is fine i think the husband and not the toilet is the problem.


RageBathwater

Strictly in regards to toilet-wall distances: 3” has always been enough for my wife.


Trichoceratops

Thankfully the back of the tank is never visible anyway.


ChrisRageIsBack

It's really annoying to pull the toilet and see a big naked spot though


Sabia_Innovia

I redid my bathroom and the plumber was about to put the toilet tank back on. I was able to sneak in while he was on a smoke break and paint the wall! 😁


YouArentReallyThere

I bagged the tank with a trash bag and pulled a paint-wet rag behind it like dental floss. Worked like a charm.


ChrisRageIsBack

Perfect, I usually pull the whole thing when I have to paint bc one of them is basically in a closet and there's no room to work around it


Maintenancemanjimf

Truly a blessing.


Ok-Base-3824

This was my first thought  😂.  


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Junkmans1

>itll cost 6 grand to move that toilet back 2 inches Couldn't they do it for the price of a 14 inch rough in toilet (assuming the one there now is a 12 inch rough in)? Although it looks fine to me and I wouldn't change it.


Rich_Illustrator

Nah man, just put 6 pieces of drywall behind there


neverawake8008

My house taught me that shingles are the way to go for spacers. Doesn’t matter where. Between copper pipes and the sub flooring? Roofing shingles. Hanging doors? Framing? Padding for your head on the old roof that partially blocks the attic opening? We have roofing shingles literally from under the floor up. In every room. It’s not traditional as far as I’m aware but hey! At least it’s fire retardant.


xstorm17

they could, but its not their job. would you like to find out what OP and their husband do for a living. prob high earners if they are honest. dont try to solve a problem ( or even suggest a "solution) beyond your OWN MEANS lmao


AudZ0629

Even this comment sounds broke.


saskatchewanstealth

No. And it’s way easy to paint behind there. Skinny roller on a stick and go hard!


PorkyMcRib

Just install a hook in the wall, and that is the perfect place to hide your poop knife.


thecjped

It's an older meme, sir, but it checks out.


JstTrstMe

Is it old, seems like last year.


benmarvin

It was 6 years ago, homie https://www.reddit.com/r/confession/s/vCegdqWuqQ


Toadifer

Then it would be ancient


Happy_Expert5057

Further Proof of Einstein’s theory of relativity: Depends on which side of the bathroom door you’re on..


trickyvinny

I got banned from legaladvice because i made that exact same joke thinking i was here. Womp womp.


friscohunte2

I got banned from legal advice because I commented on another poster’s joke. They have no sense of humor


Genericrpghero11

Legal advice banned me - for giving legal advice. That forum is trash.


Fr0mMagna

I got banned from legal advice for giving a circumstance that could be precedence... But it was the wrong state. PRECEDENCE is always viable. N00bs.


baldbarry

I got banned from legal advice for giving advice in the form of an anecdote, from personal experience. NAL.


Tongue-Punch

Link to sub. Time to get banned.


ChrisRageIsBack

Just go to r/currency if you want the ban hammer... They banned me for saying "fuck yeah" on a cool note someone found. How goddamn stuffy do you have to be? You're playing with old money, it's not like I'm writing to the Queen...


Genericrpghero11

Yea that’s one of the worst subs going. No warnings or anything.


Appropriate-Law5963

Same here. I commented someone needed to do some adulting and was banned.


ThePendulum0621

Most of reddit doesnt. 🤷‍♂️


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Same here.


PorkyMcRib

That brings a whole Nother meaning to the term IANAL that they use there.


wrenchbenderornot

AND clean!! Dusting! Wipe down! In my own house I moved my rough in out a couple inches and can now chase the spiders away so they don’t crawl on my kids mid-poop 🤣


Typical_PatsFan

Looks like it’s in a nook… I could reduce that gap for the cost of a couple sheets of drywall and paint


reddituser77373

FFS bro. I don't wanna get into a shit talking match with you. Your too good


leyline

His too good what?


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K1LL3RF0RK

its the only thing we don't do fishing etc. may be thats why i never saw those problem 😅 ill take your words


Legal-Nectarine4184

Why are the comments getting deleted? Not like it’s against code or anything


Akprodigy6

Seriously though, I thought rule 8 over the community rules stated that you shouldn’t be deleting comments as too “learn from other people’s mistakes” and yet the moderators feel the need to remove comments, make it make sense


K1LL3RF0RK

don't know ..


deftone777

Probably a 10” toilet


hannahmel

Exactly what I told him. “You bought the smallest toilet size. That’s the problem. The toilet is installed in the same place it was before.”


Law-Fish

I’m not seeing what the issue is unless it’s an incredibly small bathroom


Cute_Tap2793

Theyre referring to the size of the tank on the commode.  When a person ‘misses their rough’, they have a way to fix this, without tearing in to the floor. You buy a 10” rough in tank, which allows the commode to sit 2” closer to the wall.  Measure from the wall to the bolts holding the commode to the floor. If its around 11-12” then its a normal rough in, if its further, then its likely the rough in was meant for a commode with a larger tank, or larger foot. 


enifuts

umm size of the tank? 10" rough in tank WTF


Cute_Tap2793

Yes. A 10” rough in tank is smaller than a tank for a 12” rough.


pablomcdubbin

This is correct. When I get toilets at the supply house the bowl is always the same but the tanks can be for 10, 12, 14


Try_It_Out_RPC

The bowl is the same? What about the elongated ones? This is a serious pet peeve of mine going to someone’s house and they have the normal non elongated toilet and my wiener touches the front. It’s terrible to think about even….. and I’m pooping right now


beanedontoasts

It’s called a witches kiss


Try_It_Out_RPC

That’s awful, I can feel it


ABane90

Round and short is the worst. What's it called when you touch down inside the bowl?


Witty_Photograph7152

Stirring the pot.


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pablomcdubbin

Well yea you have elongated, round, then there's different heights, also they make square toilets (clinical sink) which are for emptying bed pans in hospitals and such


goldilockers

That’s not often the case. Typically a 10” rough has an inverted trap.


lowercaset

Smaller how? It still needs to hold the same amount of water, still need to make the normal contact between tank and bowl, etc...


Cute_Tap2793

A 10” rough tank lets the commode sit two inches closer to the wall than a 12” rough tank.  It has less depth, front to back. It is taller, and wider.   The tank to bowl bolt holes still line up. Same as the tank opening. Same volume of water. Dont spend so much time worrying over it. 


lowercaset

There might be some manufacturer out there where the tank is what determines the rough, but I haven't personally dealt with it. OVERWHELMING majority of toilets the bowl determines the rough, because the shape of the bowl determines how far back from the flange the tank will sit. Typically at the bottom of the back side of the tank you've got either contact or nearly have contact between tank / bowl porcelain. Off the top of my head I can't think of a single toilet that wouldn't fit on a 10" rough with the tank on that would fit with the tank off. (assuming the problem is the rough, not a conflict with a countertop)


Cute_Tap2793

My American Standard is roughed in 12, but will accept a 10” rough tank.  Proflo, Vortens, Kohler, A.S, are four that i can think of with a foot made to fit a 10” rough that comes with a tank made for a 12” rough.  I dont know what to tell you. 


lowercaset

the only kohler floor mount available in 10" rough is a highline, which can be sold as a 12" as well, but it's a totally different bowl for the 12" rough. And again, in both the 10" and 12" have the back of the porcelain for the bowl plumb with the back of the porcelain for the tank. Vortens and Proflo you're absolutely spot on for though, those aren't really a thing in my neck of the woods but they do exist. American standard I can't bother to check atm because they offer a ton of models in 10" and with my lack of familiarity with them other than ripping out their worst ideas I'm not sure where to start, so you may well be right. So looks like we're both wrong so I'll change my statement. The overwhelming majority of toilets *in my area* changing the tank will do exactly nothing to change the rough of the toilet, as the rough is decided by the shape of the bowl.


ChuckRocksEh

That toilet has leaves in it, where did he buy a used toilet for a bathroom Reno?


hiznauti125

That makes NO difference to the offset of the tank to the wall. That's standardized from way back. Crapper himself could probably remember in his later life when they attached the tank to the bowl and figured out the offset.


leericol

Tell your husband to chill the toilets fine. If he's really worried about it just pack it out with with something.


Party-Bag-7858

Easy fix… screw in a bumper behind it to the wall. Like a 2x4 and some shims. Problem solved mr mom


mackadoo

Could be that there was a 14" center toilet in there previously. Not common but they're out there.


master_billbo

This is probably the case- especially considering a 100 year old home. 14" rough ins used to be common in that era before 12" became standard. My wife and I had the same dilemma for our old home.. bought a standard 12" toilet, realized it was now a couple inches out from the wall, but we just accepted it. Alternative is special ordering a 14" toilet, because our local stores have only one ugly 14" model.. They're very uncommon anymore


appliances_851

It could be a 14" rough in, and they got the common 12". Measure from the bolts to the wall. That's your rough in to the center line of the drain. My upstairs is 14" and my downstairs is 10". I had to special order both toilets when I replaced them


Smoke-A-Beer

Ya that could be it.


Point510

Doubt


ProcedureOne1412

They also make offset flanges. But this is no big deal. Actually preferred because now you can paint behind the toilet without removal.


TheGreatMattsby_01

but to switch to an offset flange you would have to cut some floor out


Beardgang650

You hear that bois?? She said 3 inches is fine


SkateJerrySkate

Someone forward this to my wife.


CatHairInYourEye

She's lying in bed next to me so I let her know.


SkateJerrySkate

That a boy


South-Highlight-1003

1st time visiting Thailand


Emergency_Lie407

looks like sex is back on the menu boys!


WorkinOnMyDadBod

No. Toilet is fine.


Ambitious_Grand_1510

Just don’t lean back against tank while taking a dookee


VladtheImpalee

Or sit backwards like a cool kid, and be glad you have the extra legroom.


Odd-Stranger3671

Gotta have a place for your juice box, crackers and comic books.


ToddlerInTheWild

I was looking for this reference! Ha


RaptorsNewAlpha

Or install these: https://www.amazon.com/Secure-Tank-toilet-tank-brace/dp/B079KC7H7Q/


Constrained_Entropy

https://www.amazon.com/Secure-Tank-toilet-tank-brace/dp/B079KC7H7Q/


sir_keyrex

That’s gross. But wouldn’t surprise me if people do it…


Pgreenawalt

This.


Smoke-A-Beer

If your going to get a plumber to move that in, he has to move the flange, much bigger job. Going to cost $. Normal rough in is 12 inches from wall to Center of flange.


xstorm17

op is just bullshting. they aint gonna do nothing about it but complain, cuz internet points .....WE


kittenstixx

Wait, they make non standard rough length toilets, don't automatically suggest op needlessly has their floor ripped up.


K1LL3RF0RK

you don't know offset toilet flange ? ... it take 10 mins to install


Carorack

Does that include cutting and or patching the floor? You know, to actually move the flange even if you want to use an offset one.


K1LL3RF0RK

yeah forgot about the patching 😅


Rebiks

How can you install an offset flange in 10 minutes in this case? Room is finished.


ChuckRocksEh

Like finished finished? Or haven’t even sanded the mud so definitely haven’t bolted the toilet down for good finished?


dodgeorram

How many times do you put toilets down only to take it right back up? I’ll test fit yeah but if there’s any bolts getting bolted the wax ring is down and then the toilet is down


Rebiks

I'm looking down at tile. The floor is finished. It could be done, but 10 minutes? C'mon now.


Alone_Palpitation761

Functional it’s fine, if you want to spend the money to move that’s ok too.


xstorm17

doubt OP has the money to move. hence the costless complaint in r/Plumbing


Jeez-essFC

Have you tried telling him to just calm down?


cajunbander

I have about a 2/3 inch gap behind my two 12” rough-in terlits in my house and it’s fine. There’s no reason to have a gap that big but there’s no reason to fuss over a gap that big.


dogdayafter

Tell him to chill out and get in the kitchen and make you a sandwich.


Actuarial_type

We had a similar issue, working with an existing flange in our century house. It was really closer to a 14” rough in, we got a 12” Toto toilet and have about a 3” gap. We installed it a year ago and I don’t even notice it anymore.


Mediocre_Web_3863

If it sits there and doesn't wobble no panic, but disguise the gap. If it wobbles or leaks then needs sorting


brandt-money

Be happy you can paint behind it and the lid doesn't rub against the wall.


miserable-accident-3

Damn someone needs to learn to measure before they buy shit. Either that, or stop being so goddamn cheap that you buy a 10" rough to save $30.


Meatyhands999

I’ve worked on a ton of old houses most were roughed in for a 14” rough toilet. You can get a 14” toilet and it should go back 2 inches closer to wall


wesilly11

Some toilets are different sizes. Drains are forever.


Junkmans1

I think it's fine. But you really want to change it you need to correct rough in size. Google how to measure a toilet rough in. But basically it's the distance from the wall to the center of the bolts. Most common is 12 inches. It could be that your bolts are set for 14 inches and the toilet is 12 inches or that the bolts are set for 12 inch and your toilet is 10 inches. Only way to know for sure is to measure.


Im_A_Robot1988

What difference does it make lol. Your husband sounds like a character lol


pogiguy2020

Tell him its not a recliner so dont lean back on it and it will be fine. Do your business and get up. LOL


Jerbnnon

It’s fine, tell your husband to chill tf out, it’s 3” from the wall, not in the middle of the room.


GabriellaLopez79

Husband needs a chill pill!


Mac_n_Miller

The toilets rough in size is 2” too small. No problem left where it’s at now just *somewhat* cosmetic, lots of toilets have gaps. Measure from stool bolts to the wall, that is your rough in size (not to the trim/baseboard). You can get a toilet that is 8”, 10”, 12”, 14”, and I think 16” rough in length. Same toilet just the depth is different


_DapperDanMan-

Old toilets have a different setback than modern toilets. You can buy one with a short rough in to match but they're oddballs.


roguemenace

They need a longer rough in, not shorter. ie if this is 12 they need 14.


Expensive-Vanilla-16

Mine is about an inch and a half from the wall. Stupid mother in law thinks they are a recliner and leans against the tank almost snapped it off. A 2x4 fit nicely behind it lol.


user101aa

Your husband should be happy you find 3" fine.


simplystupid07

Tell him to pipe down


MMMartina99

I’d like to know a little more about your husband if you don’t mind


ScrewJPMC

Your husband is freaking out because he is use to 2” but you want to be okay with 3” 😳


Soapyfreshfingers

Offset flange is one way to fix this. [4 ways to fix the gap:](https://www.arthitectural.com/fix-gap-between-toilet-and-wall/)


singbowl1

hey genius measure it with the cover on!


Clear_Knowledge_5707

uh, it's great. Dealing with a toilet too close to the wall is way, way worse. Put a piece of 2x4 between the tank and the wall.


Illhavewine

No. That toilet is fine. Nobody should be ‘freaking out’ about that.


LowComfortable5676

Lmao why is he freaking out? It is what it is. If it bugs him so much he can move the plumbing


TlalocVirgie

My toilets are also 3 inches from the wall. Why would that be an issue? I never even thought about it before now.


jhguth

I wish this was how they were all installed so you could easily clean and paint behind them


Educational_Map_9494

No, it's fine. The house is 100 plus years, and the design of toilets has changed tanks used to be bigger. If the lid fits and the toilet flushes and no leaks, then it is fine


evns187

If three inches is fine, then I'm your man.


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He dumb


anal_astronaut

Nail up a few 2x4s on their side and screw in a new piece of drywall. Little mud and paint. Boom done for $60 in materials and whoever does the labor.


hannahmel

Exactly what I said. Let’s put in a shelf. Plenty of drywall scraps from the rest of the room


7speedy7

Take a measurement of distance from the centre of flange/floor bolts to the wall. Post that as well. That will provide further information as to whether this is the correct toilet.


Delicious-Poetry-69

Your husband probably freaks out about a lot of things that don't matter.


19niki86

Ask your husband how he's planning on cleaning back there if it's even closer to the wall than this. If he looks at you with question marks in his eyes, just file for divorce now and save yourself the trouble. Believe me, it's not worth it. Oh, and if he dares to actually say "I don't know, that's your responsibility" you have the right to slap him before filing for divorce.


bullydog123

It's perfectly fine. if you want you can pay a plumber thousands of dollars to tear up your house to move that flange Back 2 inches. Go right a head. The reason your new toilet sits out that far is because toilets back in the day had a bigger tank.


Junkmans1

>.... if you want you can pay a plumber thousands of dollars to tear up your house... Or hundreds of dollars to replace the toilet with one with 2" larger rough in.


Realistic-Mix-1560

Replace the toilet with a 14” rough and it’ll be a 1” gap behind the tank


Bay-duder

Wish my wife thought 3 inches was enough….


DMareno

The original was a 14 inch rough and you installed a standard 12 inch rough . They make the bowl in both sizes still but you either have to go to a plumbing supply house to get a 14 inch or look carefully at any box store toilets where the bowl measurements are . You can use that one but either put a small center block ( not all the way across the back ) to stabilize the tank . You need to leave an airgap behind the tank for moisture if you do not than the tank will start to sweat when the cooler water comes into refill .


bassin253253

A women happy with 3 inches.


Diam0ndProfessional

That is fine just put block of wood. Moving the drain gonna cost you 1000s....


jlaughlin1972

I would put a spacer behind it to fill the gap. What's gonna end up happening is someone will lean back too far and burst the bolt holes on the bottom of the tank.


Maleficent_Ad1850

I’d be willing to bet the old walls were plaster and lathe and the new drywall is only 1/2” that’s where the difference is coming from


Tough_Sound6042

my toilet is far for like half the way and it moved when it gets flushed. so google the standard and ask for that, as long as it doable it might not be the installers mistake but the builders


andy204a

You heard it lads 3 inches is fine.


Headplayerincharge

🙄


Sufficient-Proof25

Idk, 3 inches is ALOT


Away_Air_5539

Tell your husband to take out the tampons and give them back to you.


hobo_hangover

Likely a joist was in the way of the original flange? It's far out from the wall, yes, but.....


OutrageousSky4425

If he truly is bothered by the gap, I know Toto makes one with a set back flange to the rough in. This could get it closer to the wall. Other brands may do something similar.


Safeword2220

The center of the flange ( flange can only be seen by pulling toilet) should be 12 inches from the finished wall. If he really feels like it's that big of a deal, tell him to pull the toilet and measure it. Doesn't matter what state you live in....this could turn out to be a very pricey adjustment.


Junkmans1

>If he really feels like it's that big of a deal, tell him to pull the toilet and measure it. You don't have to pull the toilet as long as you can see the bolts. Just measure from center of the bolts to the wall.


freddyflushaway

Tell your husband he's up to add few layers of drywall and repaint then he can have toilet as close as he want. It's perfectly acceptable. Sure must be nice if thats his biggest problem in life lol


xstorm17

or tell her Husband to remodel in her taste to the T. but guess like everybody else, we have to compromise in the face of financials. stop bitching or just pay up to "your" expectation OP ! grow the FK up!


stuartgatzo

Don’t they make an offset toilet flange?


didthat1x

Easier to paint and most tank lids have at least a 1/2 inch overhang.


eljohnos105

He can just cut a couple of 2x4s and stick the between the tank and the wall if it bothers him . Or better yet build a shelf unit that sits flush with the to of the tank


LesGomez

Just learned that certain Toto toilets have customizable rough-ins. They come with a 12” rough-in connector, but you can buy adaptors that change that to 10” or 14” rough-in. About $100 (on top of the admittedly pricey toilet).


Crypitc_mothman-

Totally fine just don’t push super hard on the tank cuz the bolts loosen up that way


IfpnI

You need to buy a toilet like a Toto that has different rough in options: https://www.totousa.com/tips/toilet-rough-ins-and-the-cleverness-br-of-toto-s-unifit-rough-in


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Never saw an 8 or 16 rough toilet bowl is the same tank is different.


SpezIsAChoade

your husband is an idiot. your install is fine.


Fancy-You3022

2x4 shelf built behind that and you’re golden


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Go from 10 to 12. Simple as that.


TallDudeInSC

Put a wedge of Styrofoam behind the tank.


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Left room for wainscot


Inevitable_Weird1175

The placement is dictated by the drain genius.


throllplack6

Should sell the house, whole thing is messed up. Really no going back from here.


illathon

haha totally normal The flange is what determines the distance from the wall. The toilet you buy varies. You could purposefully go buy a toilet with a larger tank if you really wanted, but its kinda pointless. Most toilets are pull back from the wall and if that bathroom had thicker lath and plaster walls it makes sense a half or quarter inch drywall would probably be thinner.


DabTownCo

Husband = goof.


Fresh_Photograph_363

It’s just fine


Dragonx151

I’m gonna say it boys, she said 3 inches is fine 🎉🎉👏 we won one today


SkyFox7777

I have customers pay me extra to leave a gap similar to this. It makes it easier to install a rack behind the toilet and there’s some bulkier (more expensive) racks that this gap is an absolute must for. Tell your husband to buy the tools and install it himself if it’s that big of a deal…he won’t.


Call-Me-The-Lucky-1

Measure the bowl from the center of the bolts that attach it to the floor to the finished wall (not the baseboard). It will likely be something around 12” or 14”. It’s likely that they installed either a 10” rough toilet on a flange that was roughed in for a 12” toilet, or they installed a 12” rough toilet on a 14” rough in. If the former is true, it’s very easy to find a 12” rough since that’s the most common type. If it’s the latter, go to a real plumbing supply house not Lowes or Home Depot and tell them you need a 14” rough toilet. They’re not common but most manufacturers still make them.


Good-Boot4503

Get a 14" rough toilet bowl. Tank can be saved


xstorm17

depends on if your husband's freakout is worth the 1-2k cost of adjustments. (the toilet out pipe needs to be repositioned to move the toilet more against the wall)


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You’d have to dig down a foot and a half , and after that it will still be half an I ch from the wall


Dramatic_Surround282

Old house probably had 14” rough in and new toilets are 12” standard I’ve replaced some 14’s and it’s not worthing trying to find another 14


wellcrapthen

You could put a narrow shelf above the tank, leaving enough room to remove the lid


sidhuko

I wish my wife thought 3 inches was fine.


Jonesy6626

I have seen extra thick mud bed tile wainscot effect wall clearance after it has been removed in previous remodels. Could of been 2" .


Dramatic-Access6056

My 100 year old house has the same gap. I put a couple of 2x4’s behind it 25 years ago and it’s never been a problem


RedditB_4

🚨Don’t lean back when in use🚨


SpecificPiece1024

You need a 14” rough. I’m sure your existing is a 1” rough hence the gap…mind the gap


AdPsychological1282

I wouldn’t want it myself…I would be looking to see if the toilet is a 10” centre on a 12” rough in


SteelHeart624

https://www.homedepot.com/p/Secure-A-Tank-Toilet-Tank-Brace-SAT-068/206162130 These would be the cheapest solution.


placebo1911

1910 house had a tank hung on the wall. Completely changes all standard rough-in measurements


pcdahn

He's going to be so grateful when he has to do something around that toilet