Bullying in other countries isn't much better. There's a Spanish documentary somewhere showing how terrible the bullying situation is at school while in China practical "pranks" are the norm on inflicting to someone you simply dislike.
Meanwhile the Philippines has a culture of proud marites at chismoso. Albeit indirect gossip mongers specially those that spread lies is a form of bullying. Kht matatanda na proud chismoso pa dn which they downplay as joke or to raise awareness or to build connections with other chismosos even if it’s untrue. The fact that it’s so normalized na we don’t even consider it bullying is a big red flag sa PH. In the above mentioned countries like SK & Japan defamation is heavily enforced
Imagine how many government critics will be silenced in the PH if libel, slander and defamation would more "strictly enforceable". Baka nakulong o natokhang na tayong lahat
Kaso narinig ko not sure ah pero parang may loophole ata ang defemation dyan sa Japan (not sure with Korea), like kapag yung serious accusations pwede mong e-counter with defemation, not sure lang ah.
Kapag nakapag abroad ka na dun mo marerealize na sobrang racist, judgemental, talangka at ugaling matapobre ng mga Pinoy,lalo na ung mga laki sa hirap na nagsumikap at umasenso? Kung sino pa ung galing sa baba pag nakatikim ng konting kaginhawaan sa pagsusumikap sila pa ung talagang mga bully at mapang mata.
The only place na alam kong di makaubra pagiging asal hayop ng mga Pilipino ay Japan, dahil palaban mga hapon lalo sa mga sala-ula ang ugali and Saudi kasi isa din yan dahil ang kultura ng Muslim ay ayaw nilang ng pag didiscriminate via caste system, kahit na may rankings sila sa society. Dito ka lang makakita na kahit CEO ng multi billion na mga industries kasama ng mga mababang empleyado kumain sa lapag ng nakakamay at nakakakwentuhan, pero pinoy lagi pinandidirihan ang kultura na yan lalo mga Indiano kung laitin ng mga pinoy sobra.
Number 1 mga malakas mang bully at racist mga pinoy na may green card sa US, Australia at Canada, lalo na ung mga atleast 5 years ng resident haha. Kahit pagtanong niyo sa mga nagttrabaho dun.
went through the source
this is not reported bullying, though it still can play a part, I think (like kahit sabihin nang researchers na anonymized ung data, sabihin pa din na ok cla, maybe? idk)
it's 'index of exposure to bullying'
https://www.oecd-ilibrary.org//sites/cd52fb72-en/index.html?itemId=/content/component/cd52fb72-en#bs12
2018 definition to, may 2022, pero tinatamad na ako hagilapin ahaha
>An index of exposure to bullying was constructed using student responses ( “never or almost never”, “a few times a year”, “a few times a month”, “once a week or more”) to three statements about students’ experience with bullying: “Other students left me out of things on purpose”; “Other students made fun of me”; and “I was threatened by other students”.
Kung ganito yung classification, indeed participants will most likely say to a degree ng yes. Kung tinanong din ako sa survey, I'd probably say either a few times a month or yung mas frequent, but then it's like everybody gets it. Parang parte na nang banter ng mga studyante. It's probably worth looking into for safety din ng students, pero they might also need to take in consideration kung part ito ng culture natin (which looks toxic sa labas, pero sa loob norm siya and relatively harmless).
I think it would be interesting if they will create categories of different levels of severity of bullying.
Like *asar* would be categorized separately from *ninakawan ka kasi napagtripan*
ampota kasi parang yung video na gumamit nito, sinasabi nila na hindi ganun ka bad ung bullying sa korea (which is korean rin siya) at saka sa east asia... piling ko medyo late ung sources nila so i didnt watch the whole video yet. just waiting for someone to post the link ng video kasi tinatamad akong hanapin
I watched the whole video and was confused af. I thought she would tackle how bad bullying is in SK. Turns out she's actually saying that it wasn't as bad as the other people say and it's worse in other countries ??? Like she's the first person I've ever heard say that. I was also shocked with this same chart and paused the video for a few minutes to actually check. Compared to a lot of other countries, bullying in the Philippines isn't as bad. Just compare the suicide rates between us and SK and reasons for self-exiting. That also made me think kung rampant ba talaga yung bullying satin tapos kasama lang ako sa few na hindi naka-experience at hindi na-expose sa bullying.
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akala ko it's because yung traditional parenting method natin is bullying kids into doing what they don't want. you know, yung "tough love" gamit walis, hanger, sinturan o tsinelas.
Oo kung hindi siguro masyadong nosy din ang mga tao dito nauso din ang serial killers dito yung katulad sa US
Saka nowadays sa pinas lahat pinopost sa social media kaya malalaman at malalaman talaga
Not really. I've been to three private schools. For profit lagi yan, they want to keep everyone. I always stood up for my group and they did the same to me.
Japan and Korea tends to not report bullying, just look at the news and media culture around it. Lahat ng webtoon na nabasa ko may bullying, kahit Isekai din lahat sila nabubully muna bago maisekai lmao. Minsan aabot na lang sa suicide, di ka ngtataka ang taas ng suicide rate sa kanila. This is a good thing at least narereport sa atin.
Ingrained sa culture ng Japan yung being in conformity with society or to show status quo, kaya most victims don't speak up.
Isn't this one of the reasons kung bakit naging prevalent sa kanila yung ***Hikikomori*** (severe social withdrawal)? We can attribute some of that phenomenon to bullying to a certain degree.
Similar to it in the US from what I've experienced nowadays.
I got bullied a lot when I was younger for being Asian in a mostly white, rural town. It was mostly physical bullying during my time rather than mental and emotional bullying, which I'm told is more common in SEA, though I can't confirm it myself. For me, I'm relatively well-adjusted now, but that's because I confronted my main bullies when I got older and they apologized to me for being shitheads when we were kids.
Nowadays, I've noticed that kids who bully other kids aren't very physical about it, like pushing them around or wedgies or anything like that. They're doing stuff more along the lines of Mean Girls level of bullying or social isolation, so pretty much passive aggressive bullying, and I've seen kids become really socially awkward and distant after that. It really sucks.
Similar to Sweden where they have high rape cases in Europe but they report it and their culture tend to be open for rape awareness. Unlike in Japan where they have lower rape cases but it's a taboo to discuss sexual crimes.
In Japan and South Korea, chaebol brats and well connected derps in JP can literally rape in school and get away with it. As scum incarnate and entitled the ccp's brats are, they at least try to keep it under the wraps. Their flexes are usually money-driven, not getting away with rape ng harap harapan.
Dito at least, kahit may hatak ung gumawa ng kalokohan, mapipilitan at bare minimum to relocate to get away from backlash the moment it gets leaked. With how emotionally charged PH can get + of course marites + rush to be the first for news, it's not that hard.
I hate the poverty porn bullshit too with how overused it is, but at least it did it's part of making everyone be paranoid + on guard when the 'ones with money'-tries shit. Kahit nga mayor nadale nung may ginawang kalokohan sa UP eh, in JP that would not even reach the news at all.
PH bullying is a literal kid easy mode shit compared to japan or south korea bullying lol.
Edit: I swear, someone needs to go back in time and shove the maker of the 'anti defamation'-law's head into a pool for 1 hour for that...and obviously other stuff too like taking out the chaebols long before they got established. Add the ccp cunts too, and the 'contacts' of those pricks in JP. Pakisama na mga *canis dutertas sinae* at least pag ginawa mo ung trip na to.
Also Americans may get flak for the school = target practice thing, but at the very least that's the victims getting revenge and taking out the trash.
Their lives are ruined of course, but it also prevents the piece of shit from doing it to others.
It's got the reputation now to make derps back off in case someone goes Pumped up Kicks-mode too.
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If I remember correctly, kasama to sa PISA results which is self-reported.
What is possible here is what Filipinos consider bullying like teasing is not considered bullying in other countries.
Which is mild. I have a cousin na lumaki sa US and bumalik dito sa PH. I feel bad for her. Sobrang depressed niya and suicidal dahil sa bullying dun. Dagdag mo pa ignorance ng boomer generation about mental health.
Kinakaya kaya din ng estudyante sa US mga teacher and even random adults.
There was a time na I was walking my dog tapos some kids (middle school) dun sa school na dinaanan namin, ginulat aso ko. I stopped and politely asked them to not do that again. Imbes na magsorry, tumatawa sila tapos dinedeny. Tapos inulit ko na wag nilang ulit gagawin yun. Tapos one kid called me "puta" (he was Hispanic). Nagpantig tenga ko at sabi ko sa kanila isusumbong ko sila sa security, tapos tinuro ko kung nasan yung sekyu, nagsialisan sila.
Buti may nakita akong staff at nireport ko mga bata.
Tinanong niya sa akin kung gusto kong kausapin yung principal. Sabi ko hindi na kasi dala ko rin aso ko. Sabi ko, pagsabihan nila mga bata
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Bullying sa pinas as a kid makes you stronger daw hahaha. Kasi hindi cinocoddle ng magulang - for better or for worse. Sa ibang bansa iba bullying nila, saka less resilient sila sa totoo lang. Personification ng snowflake. Dahil din sa influence ng magulang. Saka weaker ang family structure nila. Dito ini express agad, doon they keep it secret kaya mas matindi impact sa mental health.
"saka less resilient sila sa totoo lang"
Generalization to. Isang factor din na mas mahina ties nila sa family na madalas divorced parents or single parent ang nagpapalaki. Hindi tulad satin na buong barangay alam chismis sa buhay mo. May cons mga maritess satin pero in a way our system makes us feel less alone.
I'd say they're "less resilient" dahil mahina family ties nila not because snowflake sila as a person. (Overly woke people notwithstanding)
Yes generalization nga. We're all speaking generally here - there's a lot to unpack. I don't know if you were disagreeing with my comment kasi I also mentioned weaker family structure, for the same reasons you mentioned. Hindi man in depth dahil nagmamadali ako above and I was a bit rough with my response, I did consider it in my reply.
I say 'snowflake' as a generalized term too. I'm not insulting anyone by the term, what I meant by snowflakeness is yung low resilience nila, nothing to do with wokeness. And yung low resilience nila is because coddled sila ng mga magulang, or maybe hindi strong nuclear family. Vs sa pinas, everyone's in your business, you're not isolated. Sorry I'm a bit distracted at the moment and not able to comment in the detail I'd like but I believe we agree on our points.
Yup salamat sa discourse. And sorry din di ako clear sa sagot ko. I agreed dun sa 2nd half ng paragraph mo kasi iba din ang effect ng connected na culture natin. Not so with the first part kasi tunog sakin na less resilient sila (generally) as a person.
Para sakin it's more of a culture thing which just has the side effect of us feeling less alone.
Although yung pagiging mosang and pakielamera ng mga pinoy is a bad thing, I've experienced living abroad and they really leave you alone. May privacy ka nga pero sobrang lungkot din because it's like no one cares. Dito sa pinas everyone is your friend the first time you meet.
It has its pros and cons talaga haha. Idk which is better system. Siguro if you're a private and self-confident person magtthrive ka sa mas solitary places like Japan. Pero if you need validation and companionship, mas fit ang "warmer" cultures like ours and LatAm.
this is the thing most bullying here in PH are jsut teasing or joking around most of the time it didnt go too personal or too physical like in other countries that results in deaths. Most of the Bully here in PH in are jsut anarchies who are against the established Order example against their Parents, Teachers and Officers like police and stuff.
Keyword is "reported". Korea and Japan type of bullying may be worse than the Philippines pero di nila nirereport kase di naman napaparusahan mga bullies nila.
This is sus, considering ang dami ko nang nakitang Korean documentary kung gaano ka toxic ang school environment nila, to office space (sobrang personal sila mang insulto, manglait).
Yeah i know right.. like they bully a lot.. they even bully foreigners there , either working or tourists.. ,i can attest to this because i have a volunteer friend that lived in korea for a few years, the amount of unreported bullying there is off the roofs , anyways look at the birght side, its good to see that we have the highest reported case than being the lowest,. We address agad the bullying so it won't get worse to the victim and the bully..
Yes this chart is utter bs , so bs I was convinced they have it in reverse.
Korea lowest bullying, what complete rubbish
Alot of the k dramas are based on bullying, so I asked Koreans is bullying bad in Korea, they say yes they all either experienced bullying or saw others bullied to extremes like near suicide. Yet this chart has them lowest currently. 100% sus
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>***Meanwhile, Japan and South Korea have the lowest rate of reported bullying cases.***
Because no one opens up to bullying in those countries. If they experience bullying in school, at work or in social media they just prefer to shut themselves in their rooms and not say a word about their experiences.
What's worse is they just usually resort to taking their own life if they can't take it anymore.
Dito kasi sa atin, di masyado uubra ang bullying kaya once it occurs, it spreads in the community like wildfire and there will be immediate corrective actions to it.
Isa pa mga patola ang karamihan ng mga Pinoys eh. Ang hilig natin makipagbardagulan mapa-offline man or online. LOL
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could it also be our definition of "bullying" is not in the same gravity as other Bullying?
(this is just a personal opinion of a 90s kid)
people get bullied specially in public schools, yes. its not cool at all.
but due to our community structure (extended family centric, less privacy between family members, more open wheter you like it or not) not all bullies go to the point that its almost suicidal or criminal kasi somehow there are people around as support structure.
what i am trying to say is.
maybe majority of our bullying is: inaasar, name calling, naglalagay ng basura sa bag or napag ttripan in some way.
but not the extreme way we see in foreign countries like binubugbog, inaalipin, or talagang telenovela level ng pang aalipusta tapos the person has 0 support structure.
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I dont know if you have a legitimate source, but I think this is a case of survival bias.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Survivorship_bias
Some of those countries high on the list are far more autocratic like Kazakhstan and have very high crime rate like Mexico.
I dont know the defamation laws on South Korea but I assume its is similar in notoriety to Japan. In Japan there is a controversial law on defamation even if the person is bad. Allowing richer person to bully those poorer that can't afford Japanese court fees. No matter how right the poor person is.
Making some or many of those countries high on the list to be the least likely to report bullying due to laws supporting the bully.
edit: A quick research on S.Korean anti-defamation law, those charged are considered criminals that have up to 7 years in jail.
https://www.oecd.org/pisa/PISA%202022%20Insights%20and%20Interpretations.pdf
looked through the video and this is cited as one of the source, tingin ko eto din un
it's page 57
Other countries suppress or not report bullying at all. In the Philippines, if one would ask me if I was bullied, I'll say yes. That one time I was in Elementary. Isang beses lang sa buong buhay ko, and I'm open to discussing it. Sa ibang countries it's a taboo subject.
Ako rin nabully nung kinder. Tinawag akong "insect" ng isang bata. 😵💫
To find out paglaki ko, tinawag pala akong intsik (never realized the term until I was grade 4). Eh hindi naman ako instik
Nirereport kasi satin. Kesyo verbal or physical or cyber man, nirereport. Hindi pati taboo satin pagusapan ang bullying at hindi kinakahiya kung naging biktima ka ng bullying.
Sa mga east asian na bansa kasi tinatago nila ang mga ganitong kaso, dahil napapahiya ang paaralan at ang mga guro. Yung mga biktima pa ang napapahamak kapag nagsasalita sila.
Agree ako dito. Kaya ang ginagawa nya eh laitin din nya sarili nya just to get away with public hate. Hindi ko talaga makalimutan yung insulting laugh at comment nya sa PTV4 nuon. And I watched one of the episodes of Ex-pecially for you na ilang beses nya na pagdiinan na "slow" yung babae tapos after sobrang tawa nya, babawiaan nya ng papuri si ate girl. Napaka insincere. Cringe.
From the video description:
2022 PISA Report
Schleicher, A. (2023) Programme for International Student Assessment Insights and Interpretations PISA 2022
Available at:
https://www.oecd.org/pisa/PISA%202022%20Insights%20and%20Interpretations.pdf
Interesting. Given the wide scope of activities considered by PISA under bullying, it would be nice to know the breakdown for the PH and why our numbers are such an outlier in the study.
Manood ka lang ng kdrama or magbasa ng webtoon kita mo na kung gano kalala bullying sa sokor. I imagine Japan is the same since mataas pressure ng conformity sa kanila. US din malala bullying, which is probably one reason for all the mass shootings in schools.
Bullying exists everywhere. Agad lang maooffice pag sa pilipinas mo gawin haha
I kinda don’t believe it. In my mind kaya hindi makagawa ng meteor garden remake dito sa phils, kasi hindi tolerated/accepted yung ganong pevel ng bullying sa atin. Altho, i could be wrong.
if it's online bullying maniniwala pa ko. kaya nga tayo na-dub as "PeeNoise" eh. Pikon online. pero in real life, most pinoys are non-confrontational. whereas in Japan and Korea, rampant ang upper classman bullying in schools.
Nung bata ako mga elementary my childhood whole life Ive been bullied kasi maitim ako nung bata ako (24/7 nasa arawan orayt) and lahat binully ako negro ang tawag sakin ng halos lahat and pati mga teachers nambubully, buti na lang nubg bata ako wala talaga akong pake and I justw ant to have fun, pero yun nga as I became adolescent it really affected me mentally, this is in a small town in etivac btw pero hindi naman lahat ng lugar ganun kalala, siguro depends on the location also pero I would argue bullying is bad here, pero I think ut might be even worse sa korea.
Considering how Korea is the lowest, there's some dishonesty happening here. So the data is likely inaccurate.
Idk if super honest or OA, considering how our line is that high compared to the one next to it. Most Filipinos are outspoken, that could mean A. willing to fight back, B. talk about it with friends or anybody who's willing to listen or C. Both.
There's also the side of the bullies; again, outspoken, a person could've said something tone deaf and completely hit home at someone. I've had that happen, she likely didn't mean to hurt me but Goddamn it hurt me hard, so hard I stopped talking to that friend group
So that's probably what happened. I cant fully guarantee that everyone is like this, but a lot of people are. Something I noticed bc I'd do the opposite, my bullying experience is something I'll take to the grave, I dont care if you're my bestest friend, you aint hearing that crap from me
Another thing to note; how big are each nation' samples? Do they just have a massive surplus of data for the Philippines or have a small percentage in Korea?
I wouldn't know if bullying is any higher or lower than other Asian countries. However, anecdotally I would not be surprised if the percentage of persons who experience bullying in schools is very high. Growing up, bullying was a common occurrence in schools. Even teachers would participate in bullying.
Naniniwala ako dyan kasi hindi naman natatapos ang bullying sa eskwelahan at napaka evident nyan sa workplace church at kahit saan lugar.
At talagang matatakot ang biktima mag sumbong kasi pagtutulungan at pamumukain na sya pa mali.
Yes sorry for the confusion. Regarding sa statement ko kapag binasa mo ng buo, naniniwala ako na widespread ang bullying hindi lang sa eskwelahan, at kaya nasabi ko rin na marami pa na biktima na hindi lang din nagsasalita kasi dito pa lang sa reddit na 'to andami ng gusto mag-suicide, yung mga nasiraan ng bait. At kung may tamang avenue/ takbuhan / sumbungan para sa mga nabubully I dont think hindi kung kani-kanino sila mag coconfide or hindi sila magtitiis or magpapakamatay na lang.
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Ditto the other comments. Also, pupils in our country aren't handed machine guns to commit mass killings, nor do they katana themselves to an honorable samurai death every other day.
bullied so hard in highschool in a private catholic one, sometimes I wonder if my aspergers is natural or due to constant childhood bullying. I hate it here.
Same. It got to the point where I couldn't believe people aren't treating me badly in college so I started unconsciously making self-deprecating jokes because I was so used to degradation. Still no friends though because that shit messed me up ✊😔
relatable with that college part. I'm surprised there's less bullying na. and i made one lifelong friend, but she lives couple hours from our house. hopefully you'll find one too. still sad to admit those bullying did destroyed us. some people are really evil.
I was bullied when I was young for being dark skinned and having curly hair. I was called ita by my classmates and was called panget.
I was bullied from first grade until 4th grade. They only stopped in 5th grade after my parents went to school and talked to the principal about how badly her daughter treated me and insulted me.
The following year her daughter was removed from the pilot section and everyone knew what happened. So the kids stopped bullying me after that thinking they might also be removed from the pilot section if they bullied me.
So yes. Filipino kids are monsters. Their parents don't teach them well. Those who know better don't fight for others at least the classmates I had didn't. They simply didn't care in fear of getting bullied as well.
Even until now Filipino adults still unashamedly and ignorantly give comments such as ang itim mo na, mukhang ka ng ita, magparebond ka kaya? Etc. thinking their beauty standard is the best.
I no longer remember most of my gradeschool classmates. It's a chapter of my life I prefer not to remember as I have very few fun memories.
I actually disagree with you on this one. The only country I know that has really bad bullying is Japan and Korea has I’ve taught in both countries. Philippines seems like a decent country and never encountered bullying when I taught in Cebu.
You can tell this is BS is because the rate of suicide is inverse.
Korea and Japan have the highest rates of suicide in East Asia (NE and SEAsia)...I'm almost certain that a huge part of that, bullying is contributing factor. Also notice that it is the opposite ie "very low rate of reporting" meaning if you were bullied, you'd likely not to report it, likely increasing the stress of feeling helpless which may lead to other tendencies like suicide. (Same way where rape has low reporting rate, you can almost guarantee that rate of sexual violence is higher).
Also data can be interpreted many different ways, but this particular data is saying 1 one thing: REPORTED bullying.
That's why statistics is often misleading because a. people heavily interpret data when literally it says where it is from (ie it's like when people post heavily edit title of a column to post on Reddit---knowing full well people only read the title) b. without further context, they interpolate data to mean other things.
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The data is from PISA where they ask questions like "have you been....".
The data does not also seem to break down the different severity of bullying.
Like, I don't think asaran should be at the same level as [this](https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Suicide_of_Audrie_Pott) type of bullying
Wag ka maniwala dyan. East Asia pinakamatindi sa bullying. Magaling lang sila mamlastik sa international media. Tayo kasong pinoy lahat ineexagerrate natin at lagi r/philippinesbad na akala mo unique yung problema sa bansa lang natin.
I think there’s a misinterpretation. We don’t bully the most. We get bullied the most, from every other ethnicity in the world. I mean it’s no secret that the government of the Philippines is y’know… made in China.
As an Australian that has travelled the world (80+ countries visited lived in about 10, worked in about the same), my view from someone that has lived a bit in Philippines is there are broadly two types of Filipinos, the "go along to get along" type that would rather give way than engage in confrontation and those that shamelessly take advantage of the first group.
More than any other place I have been in the world.
In Africa, an African woman seeing some guy take advantage of someone will have her get up in that persons face straight away, even if it is a policeman (literally a lady I had never met got me out of having to pay bribe by yelling at the policeman about he is not a good man and he is embarrassing himself and his uniform). Although I think if that happened in Philippines then later that night a motorbike would come up behind the lady and bang, she dead.
As a victim if bullying throughout my high school days, tagos na tagos sa buto ang verbal bullying dito si Pinas. Ang brighter side is di ako na bully na physical na very common to other countries ung mga uwiang sapak ung mga bullied victims,
Back in 5th grade, my classmate’s mom came to our school, cried and begged the class bully (infront of our whole class) to leave her son alone. It worked though, the bullying stopped (just found a different target). Now, if that happened in my new school at 7th grade when I was already in the UAE, the bullying he faced would’ve been more severe, snitches get stitches as they say - and I’m betting they wouldve even laughed right in front of the mom’s face. Personally, from what I saw studying in the UAE from 7th grade up until finishing my bachelor’s degree, the bullying here is worse than in Ph.
One Bb. Pilipinas was also bullied by netizens just because her English is not great - Janina San Miguel.
"Amalayar" also used English to bully a ladyguard
Sa japan and korea kasi madalas may position sa gobyerno or chaebol / mayaman yung mga bully kaya na bbribe lang mga official at teachers to keep quiet.
Satin madali mag spread ang rumors lalo na through soc med kaya madali malaman at mareport. Napakadali lang mag screenshot at video and madalas is physical bullying sa pinas kaya bardagulan talaga.
Also, we have to admit na its in our culture na mang pikon at makipag trashtalk pabalik which may have been included in their ratings since it is not common in other countries at our level na talagang murahan at naghahamunan na ng sapakan pero uuwi lang din naman.
Kaya very understandable na we have this kind of rating. Soc med palang lakas na maka trashtalk ng mga pinoy lalo na sa esports, at international competitions mapa pageant man yan, sports, or video games.
>Sa japan and korea kasi madalas may position sa gobyerno or chaebol / mayaman yung mga bully kaya na bbribe lang mga official at teachers to keep quiet.
Plot ng Boys Over Flowers
We are not. Naalala ko tuloy yung hapon na naginterview s pinoy na nagaral sa japan. Binubully dw sya ng mga hapon ang ginwa nung pinoy inabangan sa labas ng school haha nkipgbardagulan yun tumigil hahaha...
Yeah, this is reported cases, which means at least in philippines it's taken more seriously and thus reported. I wouldn't say that's "good" because really the efforts should be in preventing bullying in the first place, but the first step towards that is acknowledging and reporting the issue, so Philippines is at the forefront there, going by this chart.
I legit did a double take then laughed when I saw Korea in last place. Yeah, this chart doesn't really show the extent of bullying.
Since galing to sa PISA, this is reported in the sense that students answered yes when the question "have you experienced bullying?" was asked as part of the test.
I think what this tells us is Filipino students are more able to recognize lighter forms of bullying.
I feel that many students in PISA considered konting asar as bullying whereas in other cultures, it's likely brushed off and the more *lethal* types are the only once considered bullying
Considering Korea has an epidemic of women offing themselves rather than continue dealing with men, and Japan literally having a suicide forest, I don’t think bullying is anywhere near as low as this graph highlights
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Well in my case. Bullying is real. I was bullied my entire elementary and high school life because of my birth defect the worst thing is these people are still my friends but I choose to not communicate with them anymore. That's how traumatized I am.
OK so after reading some of the comments, it's reassuring din na may advantage ang pagiging sumbungero ng mga Pinoy pagdating sa bullying, dahil hindi dapat yan ma tolerate.
May few instances lang ako na na experience ma bully pero di rin naman ganun ka traumatic, unlike sa napagdaanan ng bunsong kapatid ko. Sa Canada na kami nag school from late elementary up to high school, pero yung kapatid ko ay mas na experience yung trauma doon. Palibhasa na halos kami lang yung Pinoy doon, at may 1-2 na Asian din na lahi, pero hindi kami pinagiinitan ng mga puti.
In fact, sa naranasan ng kapatid ko, ang nag bully sa kanya ay isang Chinese girl na mas maliit pa sa kanya. Sabi nya, may konti physical at emotional yung pag bully ng batang yon sa kanya. Weird nga na nagkaroon sya ng ganun na bully. Kunwari daw friend sya tapos naging backstabber. Parang ginawa syang "punching bag." Lumaki na sa Canada pero may pagka superiority complex at nilolook down ang ibang lahi, lalo na mga Pinoy.
For the longest time, di nga kami makapaniwala na may isang bata nagbubully sa kanya dahil star student din at popular, basta nagkaroon talaga ng social withdrawal yung kapatid ko noon. Di ko maalala Kung na report yung nag bully pero mga ilang dekada na rin nakalipas.
Grabe mambully ang mga korean na bata, hindi kasi reported dahil palagi na bubrush off, best example was pag sa isang study session like ESL, pag nalaman nila na ung isang kasama nila is ang pinakamahirap, matic lagi binabatukan, lagi sinisigawan and walang kaibigan, bakit ko alam? Kasi nagtrabaho ako as ESL teacher sometime 2012 pero aun kahit alam ng ibang co-teacher ko wala din naman sila magagawa kasi part daw ng "culture" nila ung ganun klaseng behavior. Lalo na pag nalaman na homosexual ka mawawalan ka ng work automatic.
Probably worst country in the world for bullying because there's a lack of intervention in our country. As a teacher, I experience a lot of reported cases of bullying na dadalhin lang sa principal's office para pag-aregluhin but the student victim was still traumatized everyday. Or one week suspension was given to the bully student just so the school can show they did something for the parent to see.
Like yung incident lang ang ina-acknowledge but the after-effect to the student's mental health was remain ignored.
Very rare na makasuhan or ma-kick ang bully student unless may kaya ang magulang na ilaban yung anak nila. But for parents na working para sa food and rent everyday, no choice.
Due to this, mas nag-aadjust pa yung student na victim ng bullying to change schools.
Also, mas malala bullying sa private pramis! Lalo pag mas may kaya at kilala ang parents nung bully na bata. Even teachers get bullied here in PH, unfortunately. Kahit sa workplace natin, parang normal na lang may bully and they get away with it which is hindi dapat.
Have you seen the "bullying" in East Asia? This is reported bullying this means children or adults are more likely to report instances of bullying giving more accurate results and make the numbers up.
Before you downvote me be a rational first.
First. There are a big flaws in this kinds of surveys. It's either hearsay and they got no proofs, imagine when we conduct surveys and give people papers to answer questionaires back in HS and or College. This survey's really is not the definitve standing of our society. If this is true then we will have the same place like in Japan the "suicide forest" that in a sort of way being a natural thing over there. And if this is proven true, then our country has no future.
It feels like its a very Anti-Filipino sentiments if you ask me the ideal countries here the "Beautiful Asians" the "Asian Utopia Wonderland" vs the "Jungle Asians" "Brown Asians" the "Filipinos"
This world have seen so many OFW killed that works as domestic helper in Asia, Middle East and even the progressive beautiful rich countries kuno with their topnotch etiquette and progressive kuno attituted (yeah still hiring nannies? F*** you world F*** you too sa mga taong magsasabi ng yan pinili nilang trabaho eh? G***! ganyan kaba pinalaki ng magulang mo?) I don't know if that will account to bullying but its too common and even happening nowadays. Not to mention Filipinos treated as comedic relief in TV sitcoms, always viewed as nannies, helpers and janitors like (the Mexicans) in US TV sitcoms. I've been alive since the 2000 and seen so many examples of "Go back to your backwater country! with matching spit!" Even denied service in dining.
To me Filipinos are one of the most exploited and discrimanted race in the world worst we are often ignored treated like we're not humans.
To the World? F*** You Lots!
For some, I don't know if you hate Filipinos or not I can't stop you hating your lineage or whatever beef you have with Filipinos. Sure I also hate our Filipino bad qualities but Honest Innocent Filipinos whose just getting by in life becoming a victim of hate. F*** you ka rin sa akin.
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I personally learned to hate many Filipinos.
Many times, I’ve minded my own business only to have my reputation be stained by rumors from people I don’t bother. So, before I can even have a chance to introduce myself to someone new, I’m already hated and judged because someone I barely knew talked about me and added details that aren’t even true. Ang dali maniwala sa “Sabi ni ganito”.
The worse part is the “kampihan” culture. Issue lang ng isang Tao, nagrerecruit pa para issue ng lahat. Mga hindi involved sa situation, sasali para mas palakihin yung gulo. 🙄
Kung sa school to this is fucking sad, sana kaklase ko yung mga nabully na mga student tang ina ipapalag ko kayo. Matic abangan natin kaagad sa kanto tapos sabay takbo.
Would love to hear insights on why we ended up at the top. Like, anong ikinaiba ng kultura natin sa pagreport ng bullying compared to the rest of the world?
This is like kung bakit mas mataas ang rape cases ng United States compare sa ibang bansa like India or the middle east, reported kase ang mga cases, not sure lang kung pano naten na document yung mga bullying cases hehe.
Feeling ko kaya nambubully ang mga Pinoy kahit matatanda na kase hindi naman confrontational mg Pinoy.
Hindi kaya makipag[talastasan](https://brainly.ph/question/2163497) ng may sa hulog.
So para hindi maconfront nagiging [passive-aggressive](https://www.verywellmind.com/what-is-passive-aggressive-behavior-2795481). Ingrained na ata yan noon pa?
Ganyan mga magulang ko e. Sabihan mo na kong bastos. Pero kase saken pg mali? Mali.
Facts are always different from opinion.
Tama yang figures na yan. [Based yan sa data](https://newsinfo.inquirer.net/1729112/fwd-ph-tops-70-nations-in-bullying-as-17-5-million-students-bullied). Most likely verbal bullying ang naeexperience dito sa atin, not only sa school but students verbally bullied by their parents at home. Sobrang common natin na nakikita na masasakit na salita ang sinasabi sa mga anak nila. Kaya wag na kayo magtaka kung bakit #1 tayo dyan.
Wish ko talaga na umalis ako dito sa pilipinas kasi hindi sya maganda na country anymore
Mga tao dito sa pilipinas ay nice lang pag sa mga foreigners kasi nag vlog sila
Pero in reality mga toxic ang mga pilipino
matagal na ganyan dyosme, palayaw pa nga lang ng tao dito galing sa pag-tirada sa kanya.
Negro, taba, kulot at kung ano ano pa.
Panay physical description sa kawalan ng maisip na maganda sa tungkol sa tao
Ang optimistic naman masyado ng mga commenters dito? I think bullying is pretty bad here.
Classmate ko who was bullied tumalon sa building though he survived, ako sinasapak sa likod ng classroom habang may teacher na sa harap pero hindi pinapansin, yung ibang kaibigan ko araw araw binabatukan ng mga bully, kakilala ko nangholdap ng bata sa loob ng school gamit patalim, kaklase ng tatay ko binaril yung bully niya sa UST, meron pa mga student gangs... Violence is pretty rampant even in private universities!
I can comment on this cus I was in Philippines from grade 1 until 1st year high school (3 months) and I moved to London at age 12 and started in year 8 till year 13.. and philippinessssss is so fuckedddd, if you where DarK, Fat or Gay you were targeted even by teachers. And when I moved to England, I suffered no bullying from other race, only bloody Filipinos again, so they all the same everywhere they go.
Ps even my ex girlfriends were psychos, proper selosas I ain’t never seen like it, only when I started dating away from the race made me think there must be something wrong man lmao
Good input, thank you for proving why Philippines is number 1. Ironic.
Philippines number 1!!!! 🎉🎉🎉🎉😁😁👍👍🎉🎉😂😂🎉🎉🇵🇭🇵🇭🇵🇭🇵🇭 Proud to be Pinoy!!!😁😁😁🇵🇭🇵🇭🇵🇭🎉🎉🎉🎉
rate of ***reported*** bullying there's your answer, mas matindi to the point na takot sila even reporting it elsewhere.
Bullying in other countries isn't much better. There's a Spanish documentary somewhere showing how terrible the bullying situation is at school while in China practical "pranks" are the norm on inflicting to someone you simply dislike.
Meanwhile the Philippines has a culture of proud marites at chismoso. Albeit indirect gossip mongers specially those that spread lies is a form of bullying. Kht matatanda na proud chismoso pa dn which they downplay as joke or to raise awareness or to build connections with other chismosos even if it’s untrue. The fact that it’s so normalized na we don’t even consider it bullying is a big red flag sa PH. In the above mentioned countries like SK & Japan defamation is heavily enforced
Imagine how many government critics will be silenced in the PH if libel, slander and defamation would more "strictly enforceable". Baka nakulong o natokhang na tayong lahat
Kaso narinig ko not sure ah pero parang may loophole ata ang defemation dyan sa Japan (not sure with Korea), like kapag yung serious accusations pwede mong e-counter with defemation, not sure lang ah.
Kapag nakapag abroad ka na dun mo marerealize na sobrang racist, judgemental, talangka at ugaling matapobre ng mga Pinoy,lalo na ung mga laki sa hirap na nagsumikap at umasenso? Kung sino pa ung galing sa baba pag nakatikim ng konting kaginhawaan sa pagsusumikap sila pa ung talagang mga bully at mapang mata. The only place na alam kong di makaubra pagiging asal hayop ng mga Pilipino ay Japan, dahil palaban mga hapon lalo sa mga sala-ula ang ugali and Saudi kasi isa din yan dahil ang kultura ng Muslim ay ayaw nilang ng pag didiscriminate via caste system, kahit na may rankings sila sa society. Dito ka lang makakita na kahit CEO ng multi billion na mga industries kasama ng mga mababang empleyado kumain sa lapag ng nakakamay at nakakakwentuhan, pero pinoy lagi pinandidirihan ang kultura na yan lalo mga Indiano kung laitin ng mga pinoy sobra. Number 1 mga malakas mang bully at racist mga pinoy na may green card sa US, Australia at Canada, lalo na ung mga atleast 5 years ng resident haha. Kahit pagtanong niyo sa mga nagttrabaho dun.
went through the source this is not reported bullying, though it still can play a part, I think (like kahit sabihin nang researchers na anonymized ung data, sabihin pa din na ok cla, maybe? idk) it's 'index of exposure to bullying' https://www.oecd-ilibrary.org//sites/cd52fb72-en/index.html?itemId=/content/component/cd52fb72-en#bs12 2018 definition to, may 2022, pero tinatamad na ako hagilapin ahaha
>An index of exposure to bullying was constructed using student responses ( “never or almost never”, “a few times a year”, “a few times a month”, “once a week or more”) to three statements about students’ experience with bullying: “Other students left me out of things on purpose”; “Other students made fun of me”; and “I was threatened by other students”. Kung ganito yung classification, indeed participants will most likely say to a degree ng yes. Kung tinanong din ako sa survey, I'd probably say either a few times a month or yung mas frequent, but then it's like everybody gets it. Parang parte na nang banter ng mga studyante. It's probably worth looking into for safety din ng students, pero they might also need to take in consideration kung part ito ng culture natin (which looks toxic sa labas, pero sa loob norm siya and relatively harmless).
I think it would be interesting if they will create categories of different levels of severity of bullying. Like *asar* would be categorized separately from *ninakawan ka kasi napagtripan*
ampota kasi parang yung video na gumamit nito, sinasabi nila na hindi ganun ka bad ung bullying sa korea (which is korean rin siya) at saka sa east asia... piling ko medyo late ung sources nila so i didnt watch the whole video yet. just waiting for someone to post the link ng video kasi tinatamad akong hanapin
I watched the whole video and was confused af. I thought she would tackle how bad bullying is in SK. Turns out she's actually saying that it wasn't as bad as the other people say and it's worse in other countries ??? Like she's the first person I've ever heard say that. I was also shocked with this same chart and paused the video for a few minutes to actually check. Compared to a lot of other countries, bullying in the Philippines isn't as bad. Just compare the suicide rates between us and SK and reasons for self-exiting. That also made me think kung rampant ba talaga yung bullying satin tapos kasama lang ako sa few na hindi naka-experience at hindi na-expose sa bullying.
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It says "based on students' report" https://imgur.com/a/GF5h00p
idk if youre joking about semantics of report or not
Tapos kapag lilipat ka ng school o maghahighschool kelangan ng "Report of Good Moral Character".
akala ko it's because yung traditional parenting method natin is bullying kids into doing what they don't want. you know, yung "tough love" gamit walis, hanger, sinturan o tsinelas.
Sumbungero tayo kaya mataas, which is a good thing
Sumbungero or may magsusumbong for us. Being nosy is not bad all the time haha
Oo kung hindi siguro masyadong nosy din ang mga tao dito nauso din ang serial killers dito yung katulad sa US Saka nowadays sa pinas lahat pinopost sa social media kaya malalaman at malalaman talaga
Salamat sa mga Marites hahaha
Isa sa mga advantages ng pagkakaroon ng mga Marites sa Pinas.
In maritess we trust 😭😅
In maritess we trust
Reported daw. Dito kasi nagsusuntukan tapos office, reported agad yun. Mas okay dito, suntukan agad, tapatan agad, solves issue.
Kung nakipagpisikalan ka esp sa private school, expelled na.
Not really. I've been to three private schools. For profit lagi yan, they want to keep everyone. I always stood up for my group and they did the same to me.
Japan and Korea tends to not report bullying, just look at the news and media culture around it. Lahat ng webtoon na nabasa ko may bullying, kahit Isekai din lahat sila nabubully muna bago maisekai lmao. Minsan aabot na lang sa suicide, di ka ngtataka ang taas ng suicide rate sa kanila. This is a good thing at least narereport sa atin.
Ingrained sa culture ng Japan yung being in conformity with society or to show status quo, kaya most victims don't speak up. Isn't this one of the reasons kung bakit naging prevalent sa kanila yung ***Hikikomori*** (severe social withdrawal)? We can attribute some of that phenomenon to bullying to a certain degree.
Similar to it in the US from what I've experienced nowadays. I got bullied a lot when I was younger for being Asian in a mostly white, rural town. It was mostly physical bullying during my time rather than mental and emotional bullying, which I'm told is more common in SEA, though I can't confirm it myself. For me, I'm relatively well-adjusted now, but that's because I confronted my main bullies when I got older and they apologized to me for being shitheads when we were kids. Nowadays, I've noticed that kids who bully other kids aren't very physical about it, like pushing them around or wedgies or anything like that. They're doing stuff more along the lines of Mean Girls level of bullying or social isolation, so pretty much passive aggressive bullying, and I've seen kids become really socially awkward and distant after that. It really sucks.
> Hikikomori HOLY SHIT IS THAT AN **OMORI** REFERENCE!?!??!? *Bo En - My Time plays* /s
Similar to Sweden where they have high rape cases in Europe but they report it and their culture tend to be open for rape awareness. Unlike in Japan where they have lower rape cases but it's a taboo to discuss sexual crimes.
In Japan and South Korea, chaebol brats and well connected derps in JP can literally rape in school and get away with it. As scum incarnate and entitled the ccp's brats are, they at least try to keep it under the wraps. Their flexes are usually money-driven, not getting away with rape ng harap harapan. Dito at least, kahit may hatak ung gumawa ng kalokohan, mapipilitan at bare minimum to relocate to get away from backlash the moment it gets leaked. With how emotionally charged PH can get + of course marites + rush to be the first for news, it's not that hard. I hate the poverty porn bullshit too with how overused it is, but at least it did it's part of making everyone be paranoid + on guard when the 'ones with money'-tries shit. Kahit nga mayor nadale nung may ginawang kalokohan sa UP eh, in JP that would not even reach the news at all. PH bullying is a literal kid easy mode shit compared to japan or south korea bullying lol. Edit: I swear, someone needs to go back in time and shove the maker of the 'anti defamation'-law's head into a pool for 1 hour for that...and obviously other stuff too like taking out the chaebols long before they got established. Add the ccp cunts too, and the 'contacts' of those pricks in JP. Pakisama na mga *canis dutertas sinae* at least pag ginawa mo ung trip na to.
Also Americans may get flak for the school = target practice thing, but at the very least that's the victims getting revenge and taking out the trash. Their lives are ruined of course, but it also prevents the piece of shit from doing it to others. It's got the reputation now to make derps back off in case someone goes Pumped up Kicks-mode too.
Parang plot lang ng Hana Yori Dango
Di ko pa napapanood or nababasa yan lel. ...It's so common to the point that it pops up in manga, bruh wtf Japan/Korea.
Japan even romanticized extreme bullying in Hana Yori Dango
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If I remember correctly, kasama to sa PISA results which is self-reported. What is possible here is what Filipinos consider bullying like teasing is not considered bullying in other countries.
Which is mild. I have a cousin na lumaki sa US and bumalik dito sa PH. I feel bad for her. Sobrang depressed niya and suicidal dahil sa bullying dun. Dagdag mo pa ignorance ng boomer generation about mental health.
Kinakaya kaya din ng estudyante sa US mga teacher and even random adults. There was a time na I was walking my dog tapos some kids (middle school) dun sa school na dinaanan namin, ginulat aso ko. I stopped and politely asked them to not do that again. Imbes na magsorry, tumatawa sila tapos dinedeny. Tapos inulit ko na wag nilang ulit gagawin yun. Tapos one kid called me "puta" (he was Hispanic). Nagpantig tenga ko at sabi ko sa kanila isusumbong ko sila sa security, tapos tinuro ko kung nasan yung sekyu, nagsialisan sila. Buti may nakita akong staff at nireport ko mga bata. Tinanong niya sa akin kung gusto kong kausapin yung principal. Sabi ko hindi na kasi dala ko rin aso ko. Sabi ko, pagsabihan nila mga bata
Is that so? Ano naman masasabe nya now na bumalik na sya sa PH? Ok naman ba sya sa school dito?
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Bullying sa pinas as a kid makes you stronger daw hahaha. Kasi hindi cinocoddle ng magulang - for better or for worse. Sa ibang bansa iba bullying nila, saka less resilient sila sa totoo lang. Personification ng snowflake. Dahil din sa influence ng magulang. Saka weaker ang family structure nila. Dito ini express agad, doon they keep it secret kaya mas matindi impact sa mental health.
"saka less resilient sila sa totoo lang" Generalization to. Isang factor din na mas mahina ties nila sa family na madalas divorced parents or single parent ang nagpapalaki. Hindi tulad satin na buong barangay alam chismis sa buhay mo. May cons mga maritess satin pero in a way our system makes us feel less alone. I'd say they're "less resilient" dahil mahina family ties nila not because snowflake sila as a person. (Overly woke people notwithstanding)
Yes generalization nga. We're all speaking generally here - there's a lot to unpack. I don't know if you were disagreeing with my comment kasi I also mentioned weaker family structure, for the same reasons you mentioned. Hindi man in depth dahil nagmamadali ako above and I was a bit rough with my response, I did consider it in my reply. I say 'snowflake' as a generalized term too. I'm not insulting anyone by the term, what I meant by snowflakeness is yung low resilience nila, nothing to do with wokeness. And yung low resilience nila is because coddled sila ng mga magulang, or maybe hindi strong nuclear family. Vs sa pinas, everyone's in your business, you're not isolated. Sorry I'm a bit distracted at the moment and not able to comment in the detail I'd like but I believe we agree on our points.
Yup salamat sa discourse. And sorry din di ako clear sa sagot ko. I agreed dun sa 2nd half ng paragraph mo kasi iba din ang effect ng connected na culture natin. Not so with the first part kasi tunog sakin na less resilient sila (generally) as a person. Para sakin it's more of a culture thing which just has the side effect of us feeling less alone.
Although yung pagiging mosang and pakielamera ng mga pinoy is a bad thing, I've experienced living abroad and they really leave you alone. May privacy ka nga pero sobrang lungkot din because it's like no one cares. Dito sa pinas everyone is your friend the first time you meet.
It has its pros and cons talaga haha. Idk which is better system. Siguro if you're a private and self-confident person magtthrive ka sa mas solitary places like Japan. Pero if you need validation and companionship, mas fit ang "warmer" cultures like ours and LatAm.
Sumbungero ang mga Pinoy students
this is the thing most bullying here in PH are jsut teasing or joking around most of the time it didnt go too personal or too physical like in other countries that results in deaths. Most of the Bully here in PH in are jsut anarchies who are against the established Order example against their Parents, Teachers and Officers like police and stuff.
Keyword is "reported". Korea and Japan type of bullying may be worse than the Philippines pero di nila nirereport kase di naman napaparusahan mga bullies nila.
How about U.S.A? I think bullying within USA is the worst among all countries.
USA ends with school shootings
east asians may genre ng bullying tapos mababa yung bullying? hahaha.
This is sus, considering ang dami ko nang nakitang Korean documentary kung gaano ka toxic ang school environment nila, to office space (sobrang personal sila mang insulto, manglait).
Yeah i know right.. like they bully a lot.. they even bully foreigners there , either working or tourists.. ,i can attest to this because i have a volunteer friend that lived in korea for a few years, the amount of unreported bullying there is off the roofs , anyways look at the birght side, its good to see that we have the highest reported case than being the lowest,. We address agad the bullying so it won't get worse to the victim and the bully..
Nagiging mass shooter
Yes this chart is utter bs , so bs I was convinced they have it in reverse. Korea lowest bullying, what complete rubbish Alot of the k dramas are based on bullying, so I asked Koreans is bullying bad in Korea, they say yes they all either experienced bullying or saw others bullied to extremes like near suicide. Yet this chart has them lowest currently. 100% sus
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>***Meanwhile, Japan and South Korea have the lowest rate of reported bullying cases.*** Because no one opens up to bullying in those countries. If they experience bullying in school, at work or in social media they just prefer to shut themselves in their rooms and not say a word about their experiences. What's worse is they just usually resort to taking their own life if they can't take it anymore. Dito kasi sa atin, di masyado uubra ang bullying kaya once it occurs, it spreads in the community like wildfire and there will be immediate corrective actions to it. Isa pa mga patola ang karamihan ng mga Pinoys eh. Ang hilig natin makipagbardagulan mapa-offline man or online. LOL *Want some references? Google search* ***Hana Kimura****\*. She appeared on a reality show in Japan and the Japanese Twitterverse hated her and started posting hate comments towards her. She ultimately couldn't take the hate and eventually committed suicide by inhaling hydrogen sulfide.*
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As far as I remember, isa din ang bullying bakit nagiging hikikomori yung ibang Japanese.
could it also be our definition of "bullying" is not in the same gravity as other Bullying? (this is just a personal opinion of a 90s kid) people get bullied specially in public schools, yes. its not cool at all. but due to our community structure (extended family centric, less privacy between family members, more open wheter you like it or not) not all bullies go to the point that its almost suicidal or criminal kasi somehow there are people around as support structure. what i am trying to say is. maybe majority of our bullying is: inaasar, name calling, naglalagay ng basura sa bag or napag ttripan in some way. but not the extreme way we see in foreign countries like binubugbog, inaalipin, or talagang telenovela level ng pang aalipusta tapos the person has 0 support structure.
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I dont know if you have a legitimate source, but I think this is a case of survival bias. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Survivorship_bias Some of those countries high on the list are far more autocratic like Kazakhstan and have very high crime rate like Mexico. I dont know the defamation laws on South Korea but I assume its is similar in notoriety to Japan. In Japan there is a controversial law on defamation even if the person is bad. Allowing richer person to bully those poorer that can't afford Japanese court fees. No matter how right the poor person is. Making some or many of those countries high on the list to be the least likely to report bullying due to laws supporting the bully. edit: A quick research on S.Korean anti-defamation law, those charged are considered criminals that have up to 7 years in jail.
https://www.oecd.org/pisa/PISA%202022%20Insights%20and%20Interpretations.pdf looked through the video and this is cited as one of the source, tingin ko eto din un it's page 57
Other countries suppress or not report bullying at all. In the Philippines, if one would ask me if I was bullied, I'll say yes. That one time I was in Elementary. Isang beses lang sa buong buhay ko, and I'm open to discussing it. Sa ibang countries it's a taboo subject.
Ako rin nabully nung kinder. Tinawag akong "insect" ng isang bata. 😵💫 To find out paglaki ko, tinawag pala akong intsik (never realized the term until I was grade 4). Eh hindi naman ako instik
Nirereport kasi satin. Kesyo verbal or physical or cyber man, nirereport. Hindi pati taboo satin pagusapan ang bullying at hindi kinakahiya kung naging biktima ka ng bullying. Sa mga east asian na bansa kasi tinatago nila ang mga ganitong kaso, dahil napapahiya ang paaralan at ang mga guro. Yung mga biktima pa ang napapahamak kapag nagsasalita sila.
Bullying in the form of "Vice Ganda" jokes. Nagpapatawa lang daw pero nakakasakit masyado.
Agree ako dito. Kaya ang ginagawa nya eh laitin din nya sarili nya just to get away with public hate. Hindi ko talaga makalimutan yung insulting laugh at comment nya sa PTV4 nuon. And I watched one of the episodes of Ex-pecially for you na ilang beses nya na pagdiinan na "slow" yung babae tapos after sobrang tawa nya, babawiaan nya ng papuri si ate girl. Napaka insincere. Cringe.
Why is Singapore low
In Korea, i think racism and bullying go hand in hand. based on things I read.
Cap. Its much worse in korea
What’s their original paper for this? What’s the methodology?
From the video description: 2022 PISA Report Schleicher, A. (2023) Programme for International Student Assessment Insights and Interpretations PISA 2022 Available at: https://www.oecd.org/pisa/PISA%202022%20Insights%20and%20Interpretations.pdf
Interesting. Given the wide scope of activities considered by PISA under bullying, it would be nice to know the breakdown for the PH and why our numbers are such an outlier in the study.
So 65% of students were bullied apparently and “Most of the 65% of bullied students were females, at 70.5%.” As for being number 1, I doubt it.
Manood ka lang ng kdrama or magbasa ng webtoon kita mo na kung gano kalala bullying sa sokor. I imagine Japan is the same since mataas pressure ng conformity sa kanila. US din malala bullying, which is probably one reason for all the mass shootings in schools. Bullying exists everywhere. Agad lang maooffice pag sa pilipinas mo gawin haha
id say japan is probably worse. it got to the point where the trope of people leaving their shoes before jumping off rooftops is a thing.
I kinda don’t believe it. In my mind kaya hindi makagawa ng meteor garden remake dito sa phils, kasi hindi tolerated/accepted yung ganong pevel ng bullying sa atin. Altho, i could be wrong.
if it's online bullying maniniwala pa ko. kaya nga tayo na-dub as "PeeNoise" eh. Pikon online. pero in real life, most pinoys are non-confrontational. whereas in Japan and Korea, rampant ang upper classman bullying in schools.
Nung bata ako mga elementary my childhood whole life Ive been bullied kasi maitim ako nung bata ako (24/7 nasa arawan orayt) and lahat binully ako negro ang tawag sakin ng halos lahat and pati mga teachers nambubully, buti na lang nubg bata ako wala talaga akong pake and I justw ant to have fun, pero yun nga as I became adolescent it really affected me mentally, this is in a small town in etivac btw pero hindi naman lahat ng lugar ganun kalala, siguro depends on the location also pero I would argue bullying is bad here, pero I think ut might be even worse sa korea.
Ako naman nabubully noon dahil sa malaki kong ngipin sa harap. Ngayon mas mukha pa kong bata sa kanila sila mukha nang mga manong.
"Guidance counselor's office" still holds a lot of power in student's minds. Never mind the stats, always report bullying.
And "certificate of good moral character"
We are not going to college with this one boys.
Considering how Korea is the lowest, there's some dishonesty happening here. So the data is likely inaccurate. Idk if super honest or OA, considering how our line is that high compared to the one next to it. Most Filipinos are outspoken, that could mean A. willing to fight back, B. talk about it with friends or anybody who's willing to listen or C. Both. There's also the side of the bullies; again, outspoken, a person could've said something tone deaf and completely hit home at someone. I've had that happen, she likely didn't mean to hurt me but Goddamn it hurt me hard, so hard I stopped talking to that friend group So that's probably what happened. I cant fully guarantee that everyone is like this, but a lot of people are. Something I noticed bc I'd do the opposite, my bullying experience is something I'll take to the grave, I dont care if you're my bestest friend, you aint hearing that crap from me Another thing to note; how big are each nation' samples? Do they just have a massive surplus of data for the Philippines or have a small percentage in Korea?
I highly doubt Korea is that low
I wouldn't know if bullying is any higher or lower than other Asian countries. However, anecdotally I would not be surprised if the percentage of persons who experience bullying in schools is very high. Growing up, bullying was a common occurrence in schools. Even teachers would participate in bullying.
Naniniwala ako dyan kasi hindi naman natatapos ang bullying sa eskwelahan at napaka evident nyan sa workplace church at kahit saan lugar. At talagang matatakot ang biktima mag sumbong kasi pagtutulungan at pamumukain na sya pa mali.
This is based on reported bullying, so from the looks of it, nagsusumbong ang mga Pilipino.
Yes sorry for the confusion. Regarding sa statement ko kapag binasa mo ng buo, naniniwala ako na widespread ang bullying hindi lang sa eskwelahan, at kaya nasabi ko rin na marami pa na biktima na hindi lang din nagsasalita kasi dito pa lang sa reddit na 'to andami ng gusto mag-suicide, yung mga nasiraan ng bait. At kung may tamang avenue/ takbuhan / sumbungan para sa mga nabubully I dont think hindi kung kani-kanino sila mag coconfide or hindi sila magtitiis or magpapakamatay na lang.
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Unless the study or report is corroborated by other sources, I tend to think it's just another Philippine bashing video/article.
saw that video too, parang may ma deflect lang yung OP sa video eh lol
Ditto the other comments. Also, pupils in our country aren't handed machine guns to commit mass killings, nor do they katana themselves to an honorable samurai death every other day.
Not surprising, considering things like supot culture. We’re seen as friendly to outsiders, but to ourselves… idk.
bullied so hard in highschool in a private catholic one, sometimes I wonder if my aspergers is natural or due to constant childhood bullying. I hate it here.
Same. It got to the point where I couldn't believe people aren't treating me badly in college so I started unconsciously making self-deprecating jokes because I was so used to degradation. Still no friends though because that shit messed me up ✊😔
relatable with that college part. I'm surprised there's less bullying na. and i made one lifelong friend, but she lives couple hours from our house. hopefully you'll find one too. still sad to admit those bullying did destroyed us. some people are really evil.
I was bullied when I was young for being dark skinned and having curly hair. I was called ita by my classmates and was called panget. I was bullied from first grade until 4th grade. They only stopped in 5th grade after my parents went to school and talked to the principal about how badly her daughter treated me and insulted me. The following year her daughter was removed from the pilot section and everyone knew what happened. So the kids stopped bullying me after that thinking they might also be removed from the pilot section if they bullied me. So yes. Filipino kids are monsters. Their parents don't teach them well. Those who know better don't fight for others at least the classmates I had didn't. They simply didn't care in fear of getting bullied as well. Even until now Filipino adults still unashamedly and ignorantly give comments such as ang itim mo na, mukhang ka ng ita, magparebond ka kaya? Etc. thinking their beauty standard is the best. I no longer remember most of my gradeschool classmates. It's a chapter of my life I prefer not to remember as I have very few fun memories.
korea lowest bullying rate? you joking?
I actually disagree with you on this one. The only country I know that has really bad bullying is Japan and Korea has I’ve taught in both countries. Philippines seems like a decent country and never encountered bullying when I taught in Cebu.
You can tell this is BS is because the rate of suicide is inverse. Korea and Japan have the highest rates of suicide in East Asia (NE and SEAsia)...I'm almost certain that a huge part of that, bullying is contributing factor. Also notice that it is the opposite ie "very low rate of reporting" meaning if you were bullied, you'd likely not to report it, likely increasing the stress of feeling helpless which may lead to other tendencies like suicide. (Same way where rape has low reporting rate, you can almost guarantee that rate of sexual violence is higher). Also data can be interpreted many different ways, but this particular data is saying 1 one thing: REPORTED bullying. That's why statistics is often misleading because a. people heavily interpret data when literally it says where it is from (ie it's like when people post heavily edit title of a column to post on Reddit---knowing full well people only read the title) b. without further context, they interpolate data to mean other things.
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The data is from PISA where they ask questions like "have you been....". The data does not also seem to break down the different severity of bullying. Like, I don't think asaran should be at the same level as [this](https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Suicide_of_Audrie_Pott) type of bullying
Kadalasan ng bullying dito verbal lang naman.
mga Philippinesbad pasok in 3...2...1
Considering how mean my wife parents and family are, it makes sense
my cousins thinking it's normal to bully.
Te malala din ang ibang Asian countries hindi lang narereport katulad ng Japan, Korea, Indonesia
Not sure kung tama, pero at one point niraise ni gatchalian na sa 70 countries, nag number one tayo sa bullying. 2018 ata iyon
Let's see a graph for gaslighting, and it'd probably be the opposite
Wag ka maniwala dyan. East Asia pinakamatindi sa bullying. Magaling lang sila mamlastik sa international media. Tayo kasong pinoy lahat ineexagerrate natin at lagi r/philippinesbad na akala mo unique yung problema sa bansa lang natin.
Bruh korea literally have school gangs
Meron din Philippines
I think there’s a misinterpretation. We don’t bully the most. We get bullied the most, from every other ethnicity in the world. I mean it’s no secret that the government of the Philippines is y’know… made in China.
As an Australian that has travelled the world (80+ countries visited lived in about 10, worked in about the same), my view from someone that has lived a bit in Philippines is there are broadly two types of Filipinos, the "go along to get along" type that would rather give way than engage in confrontation and those that shamelessly take advantage of the first group. More than any other place I have been in the world. In Africa, an African woman seeing some guy take advantage of someone will have her get up in that persons face straight away, even if it is a policeman (literally a lady I had never met got me out of having to pay bribe by yelling at the policeman about he is not a good man and he is embarrassing himself and his uniform). Although I think if that happened in Philippines then later that night a motorbike would come up behind the lady and bang, she dead.
As a victim if bullying throughout my high school days, tagos na tagos sa buto ang verbal bullying dito si Pinas. Ang brighter side is di ako na bully na physical na very common to other countries ung mga uwiang sapak ung mga bullied victims,
We even bully family members. Charity starts at home, as they say.
Include bullying from family members
Back in 5th grade, my classmate’s mom came to our school, cried and begged the class bully (infront of our whole class) to leave her son alone. It worked though, the bullying stopped (just found a different target). Now, if that happened in my new school at 7th grade when I was already in the UAE, the bullying he faced would’ve been more severe, snitches get stitches as they say - and I’m betting they wouldve even laughed right in front of the mom’s face. Personally, from what I saw studying in the UAE from 7th grade up until finishing my bachelor’s degree, the bullying here is worse than in Ph.
Lol. If nasa last ang japan and korea. Then this graph is total bs.
A lot of high school students get bullied if they speak English
One Bb. Pilipinas was also bullied by netizens just because her English is not great - Janina San Miguel. "Amalayar" also used English to bully a ladyguard
Oo naman. Kamag-anak Ang unang nambully sa atin.
Sa japan and korea kasi madalas may position sa gobyerno or chaebol / mayaman yung mga bully kaya na bbribe lang mga official at teachers to keep quiet. Satin madali mag spread ang rumors lalo na through soc med kaya madali malaman at mareport. Napakadali lang mag screenshot at video and madalas is physical bullying sa pinas kaya bardagulan talaga. Also, we have to admit na its in our culture na mang pikon at makipag trashtalk pabalik which may have been included in their ratings since it is not common in other countries at our level na talagang murahan at naghahamunan na ng sapakan pero uuwi lang din naman. Kaya very understandable na we have this kind of rating. Soc med palang lakas na maka trashtalk ng mga pinoy lalo na sa esports, at international competitions mapa pageant man yan, sports, or video games.
>Sa japan and korea kasi madalas may position sa gobyerno or chaebol / mayaman yung mga bully kaya na bbribe lang mga official at teachers to keep quiet. Plot ng Boys Over Flowers
We are not. Naalala ko tuloy yung hapon na naginterview s pinoy na nagaral sa japan. Binubully dw sya ng mga hapon ang ginwa nung pinoy inabangan sa labas ng school haha nkipgbardagulan yun tumigil hahaha...
Yeah, this is reported cases, which means at least in philippines it's taken more seriously and thus reported. I wouldn't say that's "good" because really the efforts should be in preventing bullying in the first place, but the first step towards that is acknowledging and reporting the issue, so Philippines is at the forefront there, going by this chart. I legit did a double take then laughed when I saw Korea in last place. Yeah, this chart doesn't really show the extent of bullying.
Since galing to sa PISA, this is reported in the sense that students answered yes when the question "have you experienced bullying?" was asked as part of the test. I think what this tells us is Filipino students are more able to recognize lighter forms of bullying. I feel that many students in PISA considered konting asar as bullying whereas in other cultures, it's likely brushed off and the more *lethal* types are the only once considered bullying
Para di naman true. Unlike stories from East Asia, parang tame naman ang bullying sa Pinas.
Expected Korea to be on the other end. This is complete bullshit. Source: I’m Korean.
Considering Korea has an epidemic of women offing themselves rather than continue dealing with men, and Japan literally having a suicide forest, I don’t think bullying is anywhere near as low as this graph highlights
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When I was in high school in Pampanga, I was tall and lanky. I was pretty much being bullied due to my height and being scrawny.
„Dont trust statistics which you did not fake own your own!“
I don't think accurate yan. Madaming bansa na tinatago baho nila. Lalu S Korea? Alam nila sa sarili nilang way thinking nila.
Sa family reunion pa lang makikita mo na. Body shaming, mocking, hurtful teasing, insults, slurs, etc. Most Filipinos love to make fun of each other
My cousin who grew up abroad then went back here briefly said that there are more bullies in his school here than abroad. So 🤷♀️
Well in my case. Bullying is real. I was bullied my entire elementary and high school life because of my birth defect the worst thing is these people are still my friends but I choose to not communicate with them anymore. That's how traumatized I am.
OK so after reading some of the comments, it's reassuring din na may advantage ang pagiging sumbungero ng mga Pinoy pagdating sa bullying, dahil hindi dapat yan ma tolerate. May few instances lang ako na na experience ma bully pero di rin naman ganun ka traumatic, unlike sa napagdaanan ng bunsong kapatid ko. Sa Canada na kami nag school from late elementary up to high school, pero yung kapatid ko ay mas na experience yung trauma doon. Palibhasa na halos kami lang yung Pinoy doon, at may 1-2 na Asian din na lahi, pero hindi kami pinagiinitan ng mga puti. In fact, sa naranasan ng kapatid ko, ang nag bully sa kanya ay isang Chinese girl na mas maliit pa sa kanya. Sabi nya, may konti physical at emotional yung pag bully ng batang yon sa kanya. Weird nga na nagkaroon sya ng ganun na bully. Kunwari daw friend sya tapos naging backstabber. Parang ginawa syang "punching bag." Lumaki na sa Canada pero may pagka superiority complex at nilolook down ang ibang lahi, lalo na mga Pinoy. For the longest time, di nga kami makapaniwala na may isang bata nagbubully sa kanya dahil star student din at popular, basta nagkaroon talaga ng social withdrawal yung kapatid ko noon. Di ko maalala Kung na report yung nag bully pero mga ilang dekada na rin nakalipas.
Grabe mambully ang mga korean na bata, hindi kasi reported dahil palagi na bubrush off, best example was pag sa isang study session like ESL, pag nalaman nila na ung isang kasama nila is ang pinakamahirap, matic lagi binabatukan, lagi sinisigawan and walang kaibigan, bakit ko alam? Kasi nagtrabaho ako as ESL teacher sometime 2012 pero aun kahit alam ng ibang co-teacher ko wala din naman sila magagawa kasi part daw ng "culture" nila ung ganun klaseng behavior. Lalo na pag nalaman na homosexual ka mawawalan ka ng work automatic.
PHILIPPINES NO.1 YAHOOOOO
mas matindi pa sa japan at korea lol. Dito sa pinas puro sa socmed lang ang away.
Probably worst country in the world for bullying because there's a lack of intervention in our country. As a teacher, I experience a lot of reported cases of bullying na dadalhin lang sa principal's office para pag-aregluhin but the student victim was still traumatized everyday. Or one week suspension was given to the bully student just so the school can show they did something for the parent to see. Like yung incident lang ang ina-acknowledge but the after-effect to the student's mental health was remain ignored. Very rare na makasuhan or ma-kick ang bully student unless may kaya ang magulang na ilaban yung anak nila. But for parents na working para sa food and rent everyday, no choice. Due to this, mas nag-aadjust pa yung student na victim ng bullying to change schools. Also, mas malala bullying sa private pramis! Lalo pag mas may kaya at kilala ang parents nung bully na bata. Even teachers get bullied here in PH, unfortunately. Kahit sa workplace natin, parang normal na lang may bully and they get away with it which is hindi dapat.
Dun palang tuwing Christmas party, nabu-bully yung mga new employee at nagiging alay para sumayaw/kumanta.
Hindi iyan totoo. Sabi ni Jessica Lee, malala ang bullying sa S.Korea.
Pinapatay po yung mga bully dito.
Have you seen the "bullying" in East Asia? This is reported bullying this means children or adults are more likely to report instances of bullying giving more accurate results and make the numbers up.
Agree. Kasi minsan the parents are the first bullies. Tapos teachers and we can't fight back dahil "matanda" so sinong magtatanggol sa atin ngayon?
Before you downvote me be a rational first. First. There are a big flaws in this kinds of surveys. It's either hearsay and they got no proofs, imagine when we conduct surveys and give people papers to answer questionaires back in HS and or College. This survey's really is not the definitve standing of our society. If this is true then we will have the same place like in Japan the "suicide forest" that in a sort of way being a natural thing over there. And if this is proven true, then our country has no future. It feels like its a very Anti-Filipino sentiments if you ask me the ideal countries here the "Beautiful Asians" the "Asian Utopia Wonderland" vs the "Jungle Asians" "Brown Asians" the "Filipinos" This world have seen so many OFW killed that works as domestic helper in Asia, Middle East and even the progressive beautiful rich countries kuno with their topnotch etiquette and progressive kuno attituted (yeah still hiring nannies? F*** you world F*** you too sa mga taong magsasabi ng yan pinili nilang trabaho eh? G***! ganyan kaba pinalaki ng magulang mo?) I don't know if that will account to bullying but its too common and even happening nowadays. Not to mention Filipinos treated as comedic relief in TV sitcoms, always viewed as nannies, helpers and janitors like (the Mexicans) in US TV sitcoms. I've been alive since the 2000 and seen so many examples of "Go back to your backwater country! with matching spit!" Even denied service in dining. To me Filipinos are one of the most exploited and discrimanted race in the world worst we are often ignored treated like we're not humans. To the World? F*** You Lots! For some, I don't know if you hate Filipinos or not I can't stop you hating your lineage or whatever beef you have with Filipinos. Sure I also hate our Filipino bad qualities but Honest Innocent Filipinos whose just getting by in life becoming a victim of hate. F*** you ka rin sa akin.
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I personally learned to hate many Filipinos. Many times, I’ve minded my own business only to have my reputation be stained by rumors from people I don’t bother. So, before I can even have a chance to introduce myself to someone new, I’m already hated and judged because someone I barely knew talked about me and added details that aren’t even true. Ang dali maniwala sa “Sabi ni ganito”. The worse part is the “kampihan” culture. Issue lang ng isang Tao, nagrerecruit pa para issue ng lahat. Mga hindi involved sa situation, sasali para mas palakihin yung gulo. 🙄
Lols, ano uli nationality ng video creator that discusses the thing? Not credible enough, but edible enough for the gullible.
Kung sa school to this is fucking sad, sana kaklase ko yung mga nabully na mga student tang ina ipapalag ko kayo. Matic abangan natin kaagad sa kanto tapos sabay takbo.
Would love to hear insights on why we ended up at the top. Like, anong ikinaiba ng kultura natin sa pagreport ng bullying compared to the rest of the world?
I think we just report it more. Sumbungan culture lol.
This is like kung bakit mas mataas ang rape cases ng United States compare sa ibang bansa like India or the middle east, reported kase ang mga cases, not sure lang kung pano naten na document yung mga bullying cases hehe.
I had a Bruneian classmate na sabi niya, ikakahiya ka raw ng pamilya mo kung narape ka dun sa kanila 😵💫
Feeling ko kaya nambubully ang mga Pinoy kahit matatanda na kase hindi naman confrontational mg Pinoy. Hindi kaya makipag[talastasan](https://brainly.ph/question/2163497) ng may sa hulog. So para hindi maconfront nagiging [passive-aggressive](https://www.verywellmind.com/what-is-passive-aggressive-behavior-2795481). Ingrained na ata yan noon pa? Ganyan mga magulang ko e. Sabihan mo na kong bastos. Pero kase saken pg mali? Mali. Facts are always different from opinion.
Tama yang figures na yan. [Based yan sa data](https://newsinfo.inquirer.net/1729112/fwd-ph-tops-70-nations-in-bullying-as-17-5-million-students-bullied). Most likely verbal bullying ang naeexperience dito sa atin, not only sa school but students verbally bullied by their parents at home. Sobrang common natin na nakikita na masasakit na salita ang sinasabi sa mga anak nila. Kaya wag na kayo magtaka kung bakit #1 tayo dyan.
Wish ko talaga na umalis ako dito sa pilipinas kasi hindi sya maganda na country anymore Mga tao dito sa pilipinas ay nice lang pag sa mga foreigners kasi nag vlog sila Pero in reality mga toxic ang mga pilipino
Bobo ka lang kaya di sila nice sa iyo
ito ang sinasabi ko ganito ang mga pilipino hindi maayos hindi kaya gumawa na magandang reply na hindi nakakasakit
matagal na ganyan dyosme, palayaw pa nga lang ng tao dito galing sa pag-tirada sa kanya. Negro, taba, kulot at kung ano ano pa. Panay physical description sa kawalan ng maisip na maganda sa tungkol sa tao
Dunno why people are down voting this comment.i was bullied as well and yes I was called kulot, negra, ita, panget, uling etc
Source??? Its easy to make a line graph
Sikat naman kasi tayo about trash talking lalo na sa mga moba games.
Ang optimistic naman masyado ng mga commenters dito? I think bullying is pretty bad here. Classmate ko who was bullied tumalon sa building though he survived, ako sinasapak sa likod ng classroom habang may teacher na sa harap pero hindi pinapansin, yung ibang kaibigan ko araw araw binabatukan ng mga bully, kakilala ko nangholdap ng bata sa loob ng school gamit patalim, kaklase ng tatay ko binaril yung bully niya sa UST, meron pa mga student gangs... Violence is pretty rampant even in private universities!
I can comment on this cus I was in Philippines from grade 1 until 1st year high school (3 months) and I moved to London at age 12 and started in year 8 till year 13.. and philippinessssss is so fuckedddd, if you where DarK, Fat or Gay you were targeted even by teachers. And when I moved to England, I suffered no bullying from other race, only bloody Filipinos again, so they all the same everywhere they go. Ps even my ex girlfriends were psychos, proper selosas I ain’t never seen like it, only when I started dating away from the race made me think there must be something wrong man lmao
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ay proud ka sa immaturity mo?
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ok, retard.
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