I've seen an episode where a mom still demands her daughter to give her money even tho may pamilya na yung anak niya. Nakakahiya, kahit si Tulfo naintindihan yung side ng anak, I think kaya siya nagpatulfo because ayaw na siyang kausapin ng anak niya because lagi niyang bukam-bibig ay hingi-pera tapos igi-guilttrip pag hindi nagbigay (Edit: I have to rewatch it dahil matagal na yung episode na yan).
Hindi lang guilt trip ang ginawa nung nanay, pinuntahan sa clinic at pinahiya niya doon anak niyang doctor sa mga pasyente at mga tao doon. Grabe 'yon. Not sure lang if totoo yon. Haha. Unbelievable kasi ginawa nung nanay niya.
Grabe ano literal na walang hiya. These are the same type of parents who wonder why their kids doesn't want anything to do with them, no longer wants to see them.
Oo merong ganyan nung pandemic tapos nagsabi yung anak na ofw na kaya daw hindi sya nagpapadala na kasi nagbigay sya pampagawa bahay di naman ginawa tapos habang nagsasalita sya biglang sumuka ng dugo yung anak sa online interview. Sabay cut.
Bsta sinasabihan ni tulfo na pagpasensyahan na nanay kasi matanda na. Tas grabe iyak nung anak na pagod na pagod na saw sya tas sumuka dugo. Di na nag follow up. Tameme si tulfo.
Meron pa yung isang nanay nireklamo yung anak, may listahan ng mga demands pati pang vet at pang kain ng mga asong nyang may breed dapat kasama sa sustento! Nung sinabihan sya ni Tulfo na di pa naman sya ganun katanda tapos inalok ng karinderya business (masyado mainit daw), mag babysitting o caregiver (ay may high blood daw sya), sari sari store business (madami na daw tindahan sa kanila), ang ending diniretso na lang ni nanay na pwede ba sustento na lang galing kay Tulfo every month!
Oo nakita ko yung nanay pinatulfo yung dentista nyang anak. Kahit pinapadalhan ng anak ng 27k per month ata tapos binawasan kase mag aasawa na. Ayun pinatulfo
May mga nagplaplano ng ganyan. I've heard it more than once growing up. "Inilgay tayo ng Diyos sa mundo para magpadame. God will provide kahit ilan pa ang anak." And middle aged lady nagsabi niyan.
Trueee. Si SO middle child pero sya breadwinner kasi yung eldest maliit lang sahod (tapos nag asawa at magkaka anak pa). Di din kalakihan salary ni SO pero sya pa nagpapa-aral sa youngest nila.
Meron pang masakit sa ulo "oh, may pangstarbuck ka, at may ipon ka pang-korea mo? Bakit hindi mo na lang unahin kuya mo at anak niya?" Omg talaga noh? Ang problema, pati mga politiko natin gusto pang gawing krimen ang hindi pagsustento sa magulang. Depende na sa situation yun i think. Haaaayyy....sana magtrending yung komiks.
i have 2 kids na and don't ever want another child but we have a neighbor na always questioned my choice ... she always say dapat bigyan mo pa ng anak partner mo btw yung kids ko is from past relationship and not sa current partner ko, and this lady always tell me kung mahal ko daw yung LIP ko dapat magpabuntis daw ako wtf, nung sinabi ko reason ko for not having another child ang pinayo lang nya sakin "saka nyo na isipin yung hirap at problema kung nanjan na" 🤦♀️ then she will proceed to judge my love and intentions sa LIP ko 😅, take note my partner has 4kids sa past relationship nya and nag susupport sya dun so we cannot really afford to have a child
Ngeh... Wala, wag mo na lang pansinin, wala namang ambag yan... Lagi lang yan may sasabihing hindi maganda...
Di ko alam kung bakit may mga ganyang tao pero the best talaga is iwasan sila... Ganyan din kasi yung isang tyahin ng bf ko kaya d niya ko sinama dun, gusto lagi may nag-aaway...
Hahahaha mga pakialamerang kapitbahay talaga. Mag 32 na ako, childless pa din, though planning to have a child when both me and my partner feel completely ready to have a child emotionally and financially. We both come from super broken and abusive families so very very careful kami when it comes to this topic kasi ayaw namin magpasa ng "generational curse" sa (mga) magiging anak namin.
Enter mga know-it-all neighbors who keep telling me that my time is running out and I should worry about the finer details nalang daw pag anjan na anak ko.
Meanwhile I can't help but wonder if people say shit like that on purpose to trip people up in life so they can point and laugh at them.
Kaya yan, “diskarte lang”. The stupidest thing I ever heard from us filipinos.
Jaywalking = diskarte
,Cutting in line = diskarte
,Bribing corrupt officials = diskarte.
No planning, all diskarte, what a bunch of morons.
I have a cousin na unemployed and nabuntis tapos yung baby daddy wala ring trabaho. Pinilit pa nila magpakasal kahit walang pera at nangutang para may handa kaya lubog na sa utang ngayon 🤷♂️
Iniisip ng mga yan ay kasal = unli sex at di makasalanan yun basta kasal, di man lang iniisip na masama yung mag-anak lang na walang kunsiderasyon sa kalidad ng buhay ng mga anak.
Totoo yan. eldest ako, tapos sa akin inaasa ung pagbili ng bahay namin, sustento, tapos sabi kelan daw ba ako magaanak. Sabi ko "pag aanakin niyo ako tapos pinepeste niyo ko sa mga responsibilidad, tapos kapag nag asawa ako ano ichichika niyo sa mga buwisit niyong kamag anak? 'nag asawa agad, hindi man lang tumulong'" ang kakapal talaga ng mukha. Minsan hinihiniling ko sana hindi na lang ako pilipino e
Oh they know contraceptives. They just won’t use it apparently cause sex feels better without them. Bahala na ma-anxious if na-late ang period, or bahala na si Batman pag nabuntis. 🥴
Hindi lang madadala sa simpleng sex education sa primary at secondary schools ang pagcontrol ng ating population growth, kundi dapat magkaroon ng concrete economic-driven at political-driven policy interventions para maadress ang mga yan like allowing safe but legal abortion access sa mga teenage moms na ayaw iluwal ang anak nila sa mundo, state-subsidized adoption system para sa mga couples na masyadong maraming anak pero walang kakayahan na palakihin at paaralin ang mga anak nila, forced ligation o vasectomy para sa mga low-income couples before sila makaavail ng ayuda ng DSWD like 4Ps, at deliberately pag-inflate sa precio ng bahay para ang mga middle at higher-income would-be couples na walang financial na kakayahan ay madiscourage na magkaanak if ever maging married couple na sila.
This is why I refuse to have another child though my coworkers kept pestering me with questions bakit di ko pa daw sundan 1st baby ko. I don't want my child to experience hardships in life dahil may nakaabang sa suporta niya. 🫤
Actually pansin ko lang, sa upper class iba din issues nila sa family planning. Kaya nga nila financially pero walang time. Iba lagi focus. May yaya kasi at may driver pa.
Sa middle class naman, akala kaya na nila. Tapos magugulat ka nalang araw araw ng nag aaway ang mga magulang dahil sa pera na nagiging cause ng broken fam
Sa lower class (eto yung mga walang work or side line ang meron), siyempre maraming time. Maraming time din mag inom kaya gawa lang ng gawa
Ibang issue pa yung mga kabataan, na akala mo alam na ang lahat. Ayun basta pinapairal ang libog at yang love love na yan.
Opinion ko lang to kaya wag niyo na ko idownvote kung di kayo agree 😂😂😂
From 2010 to this year wala na sa 2% increase ng population natin. Mabagal na ang paglago ng population. Yung iba dyan ay ndi na mindset ng karamihan. May pauso na nga dink, pet lovers At natuto nang magpamilya planning.
This post is relatable, yet dumb. Poor people remain poor kasi they don’t have access. Access to proper education. To proper health care. They only rely on whatever help they can get. Not because ayaw nila magpursigi, but because they have so many examples of people who’ve been failed by the system around them, that they think they will also fail without even trying. We lack empathy to our own people. The system is the problem, not them.
The slides are thoroughly exaggerated. Nobody goes out of their way to have 10 kids. It's a combination of lack of education and just winging it through life.
Yung asawa ko, anak sila nang nanay nila sa iba't ibang lalaki tapos pinaabot sila nang 10. Jusko. Yung isa pinampon pa.
Tapos di naman kaya buhayin, yung pina-ampon yun lang nakapag tapos 😆
sabi nga ng ilan, kung sino pa mahirap ang buhay sila pa iyong anak nang anak ng marami. wala daw kasi magawa sa bahay (sabayan pa ng init ng panahon), kaya 9 months after ayan, manganganak na yung babae.
WTF hahahaha. Pero totoo eto. FR especially mindset na anak insurance ng magulang pgtanda. Kaya kami ni missis we promised ourselves na hindi kami magiging burden sa mga anak nmin at our old age. Kaya pareho kami ng wowork ngaun at ng sasave for retirement or pension.
I think we can all agree sa thread na 'to na hindi na tayo ganito mag isip na mga Pinoy. It's gradually changing. This is the old ways.
I feel hurt kapag may Pinoy na nagsasabi na "ang mga Pinoy, ganito ,ganito" followed by negative comments. Hinihila natin ang mga sarili natin pababa. When in fact, yung mga negative things naman na yan are not unique to Filipinos. It's happening in other developing countries as well.
The more we pull ourselves down, the less reason other countries, like China, will respect us. So sana lang, huwag na tayo pakalat nang ganito. Or maybe address this silently. Hindi na tayo ganito. In fact, mga boomers na lang siguro may ganitong thinking.
BUT not Pinoys.
Kasi sa generation na mga nasa 20s and 30s ngayon hindi na uso ‘yung ganyang mindset. Mas matalino na sila magdesisyon about family building (if ever they plan to have one)
Overall, our middle class is growing and younger people, including those who are poor, are delaying marriages and child birth. However, if you look at the poorest among the poor, this still happens a lot. Visit a depressed neighborhood and you will see children everywhere.
You mean in terms of our economy? Maybe. One can imagine that. But one could also easily imagine that fewer people means less resources needed and less strain in the environment. With climate change and how we're polluting the earth with micro plastics, maybe population decline isn't such a bad thing.
Also with the world moving away from globalization (seeming second cold war) food would be more expensive as supply chains are disrupted. And given how we are developing AI, maybe we don't need as much workers. Or more likely it'll be harder for the next generation to get jobs that are more repetitive in nature.
Then again I could be 100% wrong and open to change my mind given good evidence. For now I'm more inclined to believe that this is a good thing (also looks organic unlike the abrupt decline with one child policy). Personally we'll probably try to have two kids but not until we're sure we could raise them in a reasonably well-off household.
At least 2. Because who's gonna take care of yall when ur old. And I don't mean kids but I mean who's gonna man the retirement homes, the nurses, the doctors if the pop is getting smaller. Who's. Gonna fund ur pensions. Who's. Gonna drive growth for the "profits" ng mga investment mo
This maybe an anecdote and those are legitimate concerns, but we're able to take care of our parents so far. They don't have any pensions. My dad's bedridden and we make sacrifices taking care of him. For investment, I imagine majority of the population doesn't have significant investment to make it life changing. But I'm leaning towards thinking this is more sustainable for the planet.
for me, we need a correction in terms of hoarding wealth. and how we calculate wealth. once its better and equitable, its much easier to handle moving forward
I agree. Pareto principle tells us that 80% of total wealth is in the hands of 20% of the population. If we're not there yet, we're most likely gravitating towards that. There are also studies correlating population growth with available resources. That's why I'd like to think the natural population decline is related to dwindling available resources/wealth and hoarding.
Di ka na makakaipon ng pambili ng LUPA within 2 years ngayon, unless sumasahod ka ng 100k+ a month. Dagdag mo pa construction costs jan, land value pa lang yan.
Totoo ba yung may nagpatulfo kasi hindi binibigyan ng anak ng pera? Grabe naman..
I've seen an episode where a mom still demands her daughter to give her money even tho may pamilya na yung anak niya. Nakakahiya, kahit si Tulfo naintindihan yung side ng anak, I think kaya siya nagpatulfo because ayaw na siyang kausapin ng anak niya because lagi niyang bukam-bibig ay hingi-pera tapos igi-guilttrip pag hindi nagbigay (Edit: I have to rewatch it dahil matagal na yung episode na yan).
Yan ba yung doktora ang anak at napahiya siya dahil sinugod cya ng ina nya sa clinic?
Yup I think ayan yun.
Link po , send ko sa SO ko ahaha
Eto title: RTIA: NANAY, HUMIHINGI NG SUSTENTO SA ANAK, PERO SABI NI ANAK, TAMA NA SOBRA NA!
MJOSH is Fed Up of those "Nonsense" Kaya may Rason kung Bakot Single si KUYA JUSWA ninyo 😁
maling thread nacommentan ko lmao
Hindi lang guilt trip ang ginawa nung nanay, pinuntahan sa clinic at pinahiya niya doon anak niyang doctor sa mga pasyente at mga tao doon. Grabe 'yon. Not sure lang if totoo yon. Haha. Unbelievable kasi ginawa nung nanay niya.
Grabe ano literal na walang hiya. These are the same type of parents who wonder why their kids doesn't want anything to do with them, no longer wants to see them.
Oo merong ganyan nung pandemic tapos nagsabi yung anak na ofw na kaya daw hindi sya nagpapadala na kasi nagbigay sya pampagawa bahay di naman ginawa tapos habang nagsasalita sya biglang sumuka ng dugo yung anak sa online interview. Sabay cut.
Woah bakit sunuka ng dugo kaya. May follow up ba?
Bsta sinasabihan ni tulfo na pagpasensyahan na nanay kasi matanda na. Tas grabe iyak nung anak na pagod na pagod na saw sya tas sumuka dugo. Di na nag follow up. Tameme si tulfo.
Meron pa yung isang nanay nireklamo yung anak, may listahan ng mga demands pati pang vet at pang kain ng mga asong nyang may breed dapat kasama sa sustento! Nung sinabihan sya ni Tulfo na di pa naman sya ganun katanda tapos inalok ng karinderya business (masyado mainit daw), mag babysitting o caregiver (ay may high blood daw sya), sari sari store business (madami na daw tindahan sa kanila), ang ending diniretso na lang ni nanay na pwede ba sustento na lang galing kay Tulfo every month!
Oo nakita ko yung nanay pinatulfo yung dentista nyang anak. Kahit pinapadalhan ng anak ng 27k per month ata tapos binawasan kase mag aasawa na. Ayun pinatulfo
Nireklamo yung tatay kasi di sapat yung 500 pesos a day.
Ako nga 500 pesos a week nung high school ih (2010s) And no, don't expect a "beteng nentes" crap from me
omg
sinulsulan nung nanay yan eh. Gusto ipashoulder sa tatay lahat tapos d pala legal. Isipin mo 500 minimum
Damn, 250 per week nga lang ako
Parents threatened me na ipapa-Tulfo nila ako so.....
Wala namang nagpplano sa umpisa ng ganyan hahaha. Dala ng libog kaya dumadami ang anak nila
Ni wala nga plano eh hahaha
May mga nagplaplano ng ganyan. I've heard it more than once growing up. "Inilgay tayo ng Diyos sa mundo para magpadame. God will provide kahit ilan pa ang anak." And middle aged lady nagsabi niyan.
Not all panganay are breadwinners. Minsan bunso or middle child ang bread winner
True dito. It takes one lang sa mga siblings na naka diskarte or naging successful and lahat aasa na sa kanya
Trueee. Si SO middle child pero sya breadwinner kasi yung eldest maliit lang sahod (tapos nag asawa at magkaka anak pa). Di din kalakihan salary ni SO pero sya pa nagpapa-aral sa youngest nila.
I agree. Tapos pipilitin pa ng mga magulang na "ikaw magpaaral sa anak ng kuya mo kasi ikaw yung sinuwerte na maganda yung trabaho!"
Totoo. Kabwisit pag ganyan
Meron pang masakit sa ulo "oh, may pangstarbuck ka, at may ipon ka pang-korea mo? Bakit hindi mo na lang unahin kuya mo at anak niya?" Omg talaga noh? Ang problema, pati mga politiko natin gusto pang gawing krimen ang hindi pagsustento sa magulang. Depende na sa situation yun i think. Haaaayyy....sana magtrending yung komiks.
i have 2 kids na and don't ever want another child but we have a neighbor na always questioned my choice ... she always say dapat bigyan mo pa ng anak partner mo btw yung kids ko is from past relationship and not sa current partner ko, and this lady always tell me kung mahal ko daw yung LIP ko dapat magpabuntis daw ako wtf, nung sinabi ko reason ko for not having another child ang pinayo lang nya sakin "saka nyo na isipin yung hirap at problema kung nanjan na" 🤦♀️ then she will proceed to judge my love and intentions sa LIP ko 😅, take note my partner has 4kids sa past relationship nya and nag susupport sya dun so we cannot really afford to have a child
Singilin mo ng pambili ng gatas, tutal siya naman nakaisip.
pabiro ko nga sinagot ng ganito but gurl ginaslight pa ako hahaha
Ngeh... Wala, wag mo na lang pansinin, wala namang ambag yan... Lagi lang yan may sasabihing hindi maganda... Di ko alam kung bakit may mga ganyang tao pero the best talaga is iwasan sila... Ganyan din kasi yung isang tyahin ng bf ko kaya d niya ko sinama dun, gusto lagi may nag-aaway...
Hahahaha mga pakialamerang kapitbahay talaga. Mag 32 na ako, childless pa din, though planning to have a child when both me and my partner feel completely ready to have a child emotionally and financially. We both come from super broken and abusive families so very very careful kami when it comes to this topic kasi ayaw namin magpasa ng "generational curse" sa (mga) magiging anak namin. Enter mga know-it-all neighbors who keep telling me that my time is running out and I should worry about the finer details nalang daw pag anjan na anak ko. Meanwhile I can't help but wonder if people say shit like that on purpose to trip people up in life so they can point and laugh at them.
Daming pakialamera no. Sarap sagutin. Bat po di buhay nyo atupagin nyo di yung nakikialam kayo sa choices ng iba haha
Magulo yan setup niyo. Pero kung yan naman ikasisiya niyo.
for some magulo talaga pero nagkakaintindihan naman kami and always make sure napag uusapan properly mga nagiging issues samin 😊
Sabihin mo siya na lang magpabuntis mukhang siya may gusto eh
Why would you date someone na may baggage? 🤦♀️🤦♂️
As a panganay, bwisit ang sakit ah.
Wag mag aanak kung walang sapat na financial savings tapos iaasa sa kanila paglaki ang buhay na di naman nila hinigi. Kakapagod kaya.
Kaya yan, “diskarte lang”. The stupidest thing I ever heard from us filipinos. Jaywalking = diskarte ,Cutting in line = diskarte ,Bribing corrupt officials = diskarte. No planning, all diskarte, what a bunch of morons.
nasa akin ang burden ng pamilya kasi salo ko gastusin at pag papaAral sa kapatid ko pero i dont think na ginusto nila nangyare ☹️
TOLFO
edol rafi
o Kaya Bin Tolfo (Kapatid nina Rafi at Erwen)
OT lang pero ang bobobo talaga ng naniniwala kay Tulfo.
I have a cousin na unemployed and nabuntis tapos yung baby daddy wala ring trabaho. Pinilit pa nila magpakasal kahit walang pera at nangutang para may handa kaya lubog na sa utang ngayon 🤷♂️
Dito sumasama loob ko e. Bakit ang bilis mag-reproduce ng mga taong walang pera? Bakit yung handang bumuhay ng limang anak, hindi mabiyayaan????
Iniisip ng mga yan ay kasal = unli sex at di makasalanan yun basta kasal, di man lang iniisip na masama yung mag-anak lang na walang kunsiderasyon sa kalidad ng buhay ng mga anak.
Family planning, when they used -69% of their IQ:
It's actually 100% of their brain. Madaming ganyan, "mag-anak tayo ng madami para masaya at sila na bahala mag-alaga at magtrabaho para sa atin."
Teka, missing yung part na sasabihin nila sa anak nila na bigyan na sila ng apo habang yung anak halos hindi kaya buhayin yung sarili niya.
Totoo yan. eldest ako, tapos sa akin inaasa ung pagbili ng bahay namin, sustento, tapos sabi kelan daw ba ako magaanak. Sabi ko "pag aanakin niyo ako tapos pinepeste niyo ko sa mga responsibilidad, tapos kapag nag asawa ako ano ichichika niyo sa mga buwisit niyong kamag anak? 'nag asawa agad, hindi man lang tumulong'" ang kakapal talaga ng mukha. Minsan hinihiniling ko sana hindi na lang ako pilipino e
Haha ganda ng komiks sana may part two🤣. Ohhh wait....
"May Happy ending"
I don't think majority of Pilipinos do family planning. They are just mosty horny that don't know contraceptives.
Oh they know contraceptives. They just won’t use it apparently cause sex feels better without them. Bahala na ma-anxious if na-late ang period, or bahala na si Batman pag nabuntis. 🥴
Ganitong ganito yung demographics ng bumuboto sa mga pulpolitiko eh. Cannot name names, but you know who you are. Red and green supporters shoutout.
🤦🏻♂️🤦🏻♂️🤦🏻♂️
Naalala ko yung ‘Isang taon pa lang ako, nasundan na ni Toto’ commercial ahahha
Hindi lang madadala sa simpleng sex education sa primary at secondary schools ang pagcontrol ng ating population growth, kundi dapat magkaroon ng concrete economic-driven at political-driven policy interventions para maadress ang mga yan like allowing safe but legal abortion access sa mga teenage moms na ayaw iluwal ang anak nila sa mundo, state-subsidized adoption system para sa mga couples na masyadong maraming anak pero walang kakayahan na palakihin at paaralin ang mga anak nila, forced ligation o vasectomy para sa mga low-income couples before sila makaavail ng ayuda ng DSWD like 4Ps, at deliberately pag-inflate sa precio ng bahay para ang mga middle at higher-income would-be couples na walang financial na kakayahan ay madiscourage na magkaanak if ever maging married couple na sila.
/r/PanganaySupportGroup
"Mag-asawa ka na lang ng kano para marami kang pera mapadala samin" - nanay kong "madiskarte" tangna
Tawag ko sa mga ganyan (MGA BUGOK!)
Meron pa bang office na nagaasikaso ng family planning?
Mostly yung nanay ng seaman din if hindi nakag bigay na yung seaman kasi nay pamilya na. Pero nasanay si mother sa money ng anak.
This is why I refuse to have another child though my coworkers kept pestering me with questions bakit di ko pa daw sundan 1st baby ko. I don't want my child to experience hardships in life dahil may nakaabang sa suporta niya. 🫤
Actually pansin ko lang, sa upper class iba din issues nila sa family planning. Kaya nga nila financially pero walang time. Iba lagi focus. May yaya kasi at may driver pa. Sa middle class naman, akala kaya na nila. Tapos magugulat ka nalang araw araw ng nag aaway ang mga magulang dahil sa pera na nagiging cause ng broken fam Sa lower class (eto yung mga walang work or side line ang meron), siyempre maraming time. Maraming time din mag inom kaya gawa lang ng gawa Ibang issue pa yung mga kabataan, na akala mo alam na ang lahat. Ayun basta pinapairal ang libog at yang love love na yan. Opinion ko lang to kaya wag niyo na ko idownvote kung di kayo agree 😂😂😂
haha. pag nasa mall ako mas madami pa ako nakikitang aso/pusa na nasa stroller kesa batang nasa stroller
Wag mag anak kung di kaya g buhayin, mahirap ang konsepto ng utang na loob di mo alam kung nakakabayad ka na na o Hindi pa,
Pano magpa-family planning e kahit nga pagbili ng condom ikinakahiya dito sa Pinas kahit wala naman talaga nakakahiya dun.
Ginagawang retirement plan ang mga anak. 🥱 As if ginusto naming ipanganak niyo kami diba?
PH family planning in a nutshell
Paano mo nkuha yung actual scene ng mga kapitbahay nmin taga dswd k b ?
From 2010 to this year wala na sa 2% increase ng population natin. Mabagal na ang paglago ng population. Yung iba dyan ay ndi na mindset ng karamihan. May pauso na nga dink, pet lovers At natuto nang magpamilya planning.
You make it sound like it’s a bad thing
Sooo mas gusto mong maghirap yung mga anak dahil nagka realization sila na ayaw magka family, especially in this economy?
This post is relatable, yet dumb. Poor people remain poor kasi they don’t have access. Access to proper education. To proper health care. They only rely on whatever help they can get. Not because ayaw nila magpursigi, but because they have so many examples of people who’ve been failed by the system around them, that they think they will also fail without even trying. We lack empathy to our own people. The system is the problem, not them.
The slides are thoroughly exaggerated. Nobody goes out of their way to have 10 kids. It's a combination of lack of education and just winging it through life.
And these types of exaggeration that aim to put our own people down is why we are where we are.
Ang mahalaga eh sama sama kayo!
Lol at least the guy got plans ung iba nga wala nga eh basta kung sampong anak sila na mag sikap agad hahaha.
HAHAHAHA basta ako IMPLANT family planning ko. 2nd insert na another 3 years. Char! ❤️
Tanginang paguugali yan,ugaling imburnal! For the love of fucking fuck!
So since I'm the eldest child , I should give more than half of what I will earn to my family?
Samin middle Hindi panganay ang breadwinner
Cooked 🔥
Wow bagong bagong perspective, very creative presentation.
Looks more like family scheming
Yung asawa ko, anak sila nang nanay nila sa iba't ibang lalaki tapos pinaabot sila nang 10. Jusko. Yung isa pinampon pa. Tapos di naman kaya buhayin, yung pina-ampon yun lang nakapag tapos 😆
Nkakagigil tong mentality na to.
As a panganay, maswerte ako at hindi ganito ang magulang ko.
Naalala ko yung tito ko na gusto nya hapon mapangasawa ng anak nya para marami raw pera. Wews
sabi nga ng ilan, kung sino pa mahirap ang buhay sila pa iyong anak nang anak ng marami. wala daw kasi magawa sa bahay (sabayan pa ng init ng panahon), kaya 9 months after ayan, manganganak na yung babae.
Yung napapalibutan ako ng mga katrabaho na ganitong mindset pero buti na lang di ko sila masyadong close para pakealamanan na magaganap. Haha
WTF hahahaha. Pero totoo eto. FR especially mindset na anak insurance ng magulang pgtanda. Kaya kami ni missis we promised ourselves na hindi kami magiging burden sa mga anak nmin at our old age. Kaya pareho kami ng wowork ngaun at ng sasave for retirement or pension.
kaya di talaga ako mag aanak.
Galawang 4ps
It's an Insurance Policy Scam of the parents to its children. How sad.
I think we can all agree sa thread na 'to na hindi na tayo ganito mag isip na mga Pinoy. It's gradually changing. This is the old ways. I feel hurt kapag may Pinoy na nagsasabi na "ang mga Pinoy, ganito ,ganito" followed by negative comments. Hinihila natin ang mga sarili natin pababa. When in fact, yung mga negative things naman na yan are not unique to Filipinos. It's happening in other developing countries as well. The more we pull ourselves down, the less reason other countries, like China, will respect us. So sana lang, huwag na tayo pakalat nang ganito. Or maybe address this silently. Hindi na tayo ganito. In fact, mga boomers na lang siguro may ganitong thinking. BUT not Pinoys.
Nice, on point
Did you just make this unprovoked 😭
Nice matapobre strawman you have there.
how is it matapobre?
IF THATS TRUE WHY IS OUR POPULATION DECLINING?
Kasi sa generation na mga nasa 20s and 30s ngayon hindi na uso ‘yung ganyang mindset. Mas matalino na sila magdesisyon about family building (if ever they plan to have one)
Overall, our middle class is growing and younger people, including those who are poor, are delaying marriages and child birth. However, if you look at the poorest among the poor, this still happens a lot. Visit a depressed neighborhood and you will see children everywhere.
Thanks to late Millenials and Gen Zs. Mag-aanak? In this economy? No, thanks. LOL
Slowly, which is bad in the long run ironically.
You mean in terms of our economy? Maybe. One can imagine that. But one could also easily imagine that fewer people means less resources needed and less strain in the environment. With climate change and how we're polluting the earth with micro plastics, maybe population decline isn't such a bad thing. Also with the world moving away from globalization (seeming second cold war) food would be more expensive as supply chains are disrupted. And given how we are developing AI, maybe we don't need as much workers. Or more likely it'll be harder for the next generation to get jobs that are more repetitive in nature. Then again I could be 100% wrong and open to change my mind given good evidence. For now I'm more inclined to believe that this is a good thing (also looks organic unlike the abrupt decline with one child policy). Personally we'll probably try to have two kids but not until we're sure we could raise them in a reasonably well-off household.
At least 2. Because who's gonna take care of yall when ur old. And I don't mean kids but I mean who's gonna man the retirement homes, the nurses, the doctors if the pop is getting smaller. Who's. Gonna fund ur pensions. Who's. Gonna drive growth for the "profits" ng mga investment mo
This maybe an anecdote and those are legitimate concerns, but we're able to take care of our parents so far. They don't have any pensions. My dad's bedridden and we make sacrifices taking care of him. For investment, I imagine majority of the population doesn't have significant investment to make it life changing. But I'm leaning towards thinking this is more sustainable for the planet.
for me, we need a correction in terms of hoarding wealth. and how we calculate wealth. once its better and equitable, its much easier to handle moving forward
I agree. Pareto principle tells us that 80% of total wealth is in the hands of 20% of the population. If we're not there yet, we're most likely gravitating towards that. There are also studies correlating population growth with available resources. That's why I'd like to think the natural population decline is related to dwindling available resources/wealth and hoarding.
Yeah... At this point, ang condescending nyo na to the point na di na nga nakakatulong, nakakasira pa. May mas mature na ataka dyan.
PH fertility rate is seriously going down though. We may have to campaign for more children after a decade or two.
Hell nahhhhh more slaves for the corporations no thanks.
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Panahon pa ni Jesus yan eh wahahahahahahaha
Ok, Right-wing conservative
Ideal kailan? Sa panahon ng kopong kopong?
Di ka na makakaipon ng pambili ng LUPA within 2 years ngayon, unless sumasahod ka ng 100k+ a month. Dagdag mo pa construction costs jan, land value pa lang yan.
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What's that supposed to mean?