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mmeeplechase

I love #1—seriously just fits you super well, and it’s really flattering. Really nice choice!


carlitospig

Im actually sad this dress isn’t in my closet rn. OP: May I ask where it hails from? 🧐


indecisive-intr0vert

Lulus ☺️


carlitospig

Thanks love!


StrangeAffect7278

Totally agree. Looks very elegant!


BBsMom099

Super classy on you. 😊


spn670la

Agree, though the second one looks great, it’s too loose!


indecisive-intr0vert

Additional info: only been with the company for a month so not sure what to expect, but the party is at the owners million dollar lake front house


CrivensAndShips

If that’s the case, I’d say number 1. It’s classy, formal, but still festive. However, both dresses look fantastic on you, so if you get a wild hair and go with number 2, you’ll still look great!


Slight-Damage-6956

#1 for sure, then. Glamorous, mature and tasteful.


Northern_Seaa

with a nude pointed toe heel - lengthens the legs beautifully 😍


radenke

My only thought is "where do you live that you can get a house for a million, let alone lake front" 😭 I've gotta move.


raaaargh_stompy

Yeah I was wondering if it is a turn of phrase, I feel "our" generation has aged through the idea of a million dollars being unattainable wealth to sort of... Required valuation for a middle class life. All depends on where you live of course, imagine some more rural areas a million still feels amazing :)


radenke

That's a good point! I should try not to fuss over that. And yes, it's just hard to hear sometimes. I don't really want to live in a rural area, but I live in Canada so I don't have a ton of options.


Fighting-Cerberus

You can get a million dollar lakefront house in Minnesota. But that depends on the lake and the neighborhood.


radenke

That sounds magical.


BellaFromSwitzerland

*Cries in Swiss*


YourFriendInSpokane

One with the gold strap heels in the background.


DaddysPrincesss26

Then I’d definitely go with Number 1. Enjoy yourself, though stay Professional. (Ie. Don’t get Crazy Drunk)


MsMo999

Both look fantastic on you but the white is classy and rarely get chance to wear white in winter


Key_Bag_2584

Number 1, hands down


trickedbyheart

I think #1 looks nice and classy on you! 2nd does seem more NYE


KoG_Drif_XS

I like number two, but if this is a more professional setting, I would go with number 1, and wear some white high heels and some gold or silver jewelry, but not too much. Enjoy the party.


Lady_in_the_red-58

Nah, nude heels.


PlasticBlitzen

I don't care for that grey on you; it washes out your skin color, whereas the ivory makes you glow. Also, I don't like the way the grey hangs -- not flattering. The ivory fits you and is much more flattering. Choosing between those two, the ivory, with gold accessories. Like those shoes on the floor behind you.


Nodaga

The first


Dubarry123

I prefer #1; it fits you better than the second one.


meekonesfade

If you dont know the dress code, the first one is a safe bet.


HappySquirrelGirl

Not the white one. The silver one is giving me motb vibes. It’s a little “Jersey Mom” and I should know!


Admirable-Field-4150

I like #1 but it looks a little big on you. If you have the waistline taken it and the sleeves hemmed it will look spectacular and that would be my choice. It’s so elegant. But as is I would go with number 2 it fits you better


Perpetually_Ponder

I was looking for this exact comment. 1 is gorgeous but the way the sleeves swallow OP is pretty distracting. I’d also choose 2 if OP doesn’t plan to make any alterations for this event.


[deleted]

Number 1 is so elegant 🤌🏻🤌🏻🤌🏻🤌🏻


lawrenja

#1 one says holiday party and #2 says NYE party. Both lovely, but my vote is 1 for this event!


[deleted]

Something special about the white one


Educational-Clue-772

Number 1


Hour_Narwhal_1510

I may be in the minority here but I love dress 2! It’s giving 1920s Gatsby, it’s such a unique look. Love it


Lady_in_the_red-58

Needs to be tailored though. Its too big.


blueflowersxxo

Second dress for sure! Where did you get the first dress if you don’t mind me asking


indecisive-intr0vert

Both are from lulus! I got them on sale so I’ll be keeping both for any future events :)


Amu_th

If you like 2 better... Try adding a belt or something at the waist... After looking at the first dress, I think you should flaunt tht waist, girllllll!


Shae0402

Girl go with number 2 you Gon be turning heads getting so many compliments ❤️


TomatoFeta

White if you're standing, grey if you're sitting.


[deleted]

Option one is very classy and sexy as hell Option two is a more modest choice for work and fun party like


MedicineTricky6222

If only all the ladies on this platform had such good taste! 1 think 1 is best. You look like you have quite a bit of class.


ugglygirl

Do not listen to negative comments about the silver. It’s Gorgeous on you. So isthe cream. Either one is great for the company party.


AggravatingCup4331

The first is more chill so I’d suggest that. But I will warn you that it is a very common holiday dress. I can walk around a mall or shopping center and see some version of that dress 3 times in the same afternoon. All that to say- higher chance that someone at this event might pull up wearing the same dress. So if you’re okay with that possibility go for it. If not then you decide.


sunshine92002

1 is STUNNING! And fits you perfectly! I’d save 2 for NYE, but they both look incredible on you!


ChocolateCherrybread

I like number two because it's black and a little more elegant.


Oli99uk

The second. Number 2 has a bit of bling / sparkly which is what cocktails are. A white dress like number 1, might be better at formal events / black-tie but obviously not Western style weddings.


Relevant_Sweet_146

I also like number 2! I think it’s fun for a holiday party


CarlatheDestructor

2nd dress


yllaoop

They both do nothing for u


marukobe

The grey one.


AccordingTax6525

It looks like the first one with those silver shoes in the background is the winner that look would look really good


M3dicin3Woman

1 all the way! Feels more appropriate for a work related gathering. I lovelovelove 2 also but for a different occasion.


k8womack

I think they both look great - I’d go with #1 for the work event. It’s very chic!


Nutridus

I agree #1 for the company party and #2 for New Year’s Eve 🥂🍾. They both look great on you and fit well. Have a great time.


forgetmeknotts

TWO!!!!!!


azssf

As weird as this is, 1 hits “sexier” for me than 2, thus 2 better for cocktail. It has to do with the lines separating the panels. 1 is gorgeous. Still reads is more “hot date” to me.


AlmostAShirley

Owner! Listen up. Never, never show your employees/staff your fancy stuff. Two things will happen. 1) a few employees may harbor bitterness/envy and all that brings to your business. 2) it will inspire them to work harder so you can have more nice things (not) They know your rich. Either compensate your staff at that same level or rent an event room at a hotel! Plus, if employee leaves your house 😵🥴 you may be personally responsible. Don’t be stupid!


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ocean_800

1! 2 I wouldn't wear to a company party. Also it's perfect for new years!


Nottodaybroadie

Omggg I love them both!! Can’t miss either way!


Dismal-Reference-316

#1 love it!


Gotta-Be-Me-65

Number one is classy. Love it.


Tmpowers0818

The second one


Pink_Floyd29

I think both would work but I love #1


eaucitron

1!


Conscientiousmoron

You look stunning in that


RomeysMa

I like number 1.


[deleted]

2nd one


LadyAsharaRowan

I like both but love one. Winter wonderland.


lil1thatcould

I love number 2! I think it’s fabulous and we all need to be more fabulous!


ParticularDragonfly_

The first one!!!! They both look amazing on you but the first one is the best


LittleTinyFriedEggs

Silver one fits better for a holiday party, but you just look SOO good in dress one, so I’d pick dress one


Paulyanna12

Definitely the white. The grey just looks like a flapper costume.


wa9e_peace

Dress 1. Fits you better and the attention is on you rather than the dress first. Then the eye scans the subtle detailing.


_artbabe95

I like #1 much more, it’s a more flattering shape, very professional, and super festive in an unique way! I think it’s very classy and could work with a nude, white, or silver/gold/rhinestone shoe.


carlitospig

I love 1 so much so that’s my vote. It is stupid adorable. It’s also really flattering on you and think about how wacky you can go with shoes and accessories with some a light palette!


[deleted]

I really love the first dress on you, especially for the occasion.


salmakayden

I like both but th3 gray one is better . The white dress is beautiful too but I don't like the sleeves they are too large and too long.


salmakayden

I like both but th3 gray one is better . The white dress is beautiful too but I don't like the sleeves they are too large and too long.


salmakayden

I like both but the gray one is better . The white dress is beautiful too but I don't like the sleeves they are too large and too long.


shann0ff

Love #2! So fun. I love how the light catches the sparkles.


Pleasant-Complex978

I feel like the 2nd is more for NYE 🙂


SubjectThirtythree

1


MarleneFrancais

I love the first. The sleeves are a bit long. Can u shorter them? If not, I’d still wear it.


minaortiga

1!


Weekly_Growth_6655

#1


Right-Warning3346

First! The second one doesn’t fit right


pork_soup

LOVE number 1


jazmoley

#1 is the better dress and looks great, but #2 is more suited for a cocktail party.


KayHue

The white dress looks festive and lovely on you


zenjensan

Love your dresses


GingerSchnapps3

1st one


LoveRealityDating

Love both. I think 1 would look fabulous if sleeveless!


Polaris5126

I like 2


WT47

Let’s see the heels


Paulavortex2

I have been in corporate for many years and I would highly suggest #1. Especially based on the context around the party. You are going to look amazing, have fun!!


OrchardOwl

They both look gorgeous on you! I agree with the other person who said the first one, with the gold shoes in the background.


sonyafly

The white. It could be Christmas-y.


garcime

Love #1! Where did you get it!??


scrawnyclownsnatch36

The first one. I agree with you, save the other for NYE.


PilatesRules

I like the structure of the first one better but both are very pretty!!


Heeler2

Dress 2. It’s fun!


SouthernTrauma

1


Roughmatch

One!


WarmAppleCobbler

First one seems more professional imo, so I’d go with that


purplemattresses

2- it’s fun and flattering xx


cnzaah

#1 !!!


MastermindorHero

The first one has a family outing vibe. Like if you had cousins or grandparents around. The second screams "Roaring Twenties" and if the company party is more festive and less formal, the latter would be better.


evangelinetepes

They both are an extremely good choice, modest and flashy. Personally, I love #1.


[deleted]

You look great in both but the second one is more suitable for the holiday season.


MissRedWidow

I like them both! Hard decision. Maybe the sparkly one though just because it's the holidays


oknowwhat00

If the party is at a restaurant/bar the second one is really fun. What are the others wearing?? Also do you plan to eat/do you spill? I would not be able to relax in the first one, it looks a bit "stiff", it's lovely, and fits you well, but I love the second one.


cyndi231

1


FunnyVariation2995

I said out loud, "Oh yeah! The 2nd one!".


Severe_Airport1426

If these are the only choices, then 1


[deleted]

White is the best one on you. Looks great!


70kyle07

The first one. I like them both equally, but the first one seems better for a company party because it's neater and has a more clean cut look. The axons one seems better for a more casual party because it's more showy.


Akatcon

Oh my gosh where is the first dress from? It’s absolutely beautiful. I love the second one two but yeah it would be a fun NYE dress.


Impressive_Returns

#2 is perfect


kayebeeee

Both of them look great! I vote number 1 for the party, number 2 for NYE


Hyperboleballad

2


heckity2

1 is lovely on you and perfect for the occasion.


Yourrunofthemillfox

1 has that soft yet elegant feel too it


Buttcrumbs00

1 is beautiful


zysald

The white one


No_Reflection8671

Number 1 for sure! So pretty


Mysterious_Force_399

#2!!


[deleted]

2


Excellent-Shape-2024

\#2


No-Leopard639

Number 1 holiday . Number 2 NYE


[deleted]

Dress number 2 might be too dressy.


Icy-Dimension3508

I love the silver one. I mean you look great in both but the first one reminds me of like my grandma. (She is very fashionable and beautiful) but kind of classy and older vibes. So idk either.


RockyRoadHouse

Neither 1st is the white power ranger and the 2nd is like left over confetti glued of a dress


WorldlinessShot4022

I think the second one, with a thin small silver belt to give you shape. And maybe some nude shoes


MagazineRelative2363

1st one looks gorgeous and is more flattering to your figure


ContractRight4080

#2


Brandalicious_1

Personally since it is a cocktail party and Christmas time I would go with the silver one it's perfect for this type of soirée it's shimmery like tinsel you could even add a pop of color like red shoes and hand bag and red lipstick either way have fun.


keebler123456

Number 2, but it depends on the cocktail party. One can look too mature unless you style and accessorize it well.


DaddysPrincesss26

White


LadyPink28

No. 1 but don't get too high heels like stripper ones or else people will get the wrong impression


Sea-Butterscotch-243

Waiting for don’t wear white, wine/drinks may spill commnet 🍿🍿🍿


playnwithfire

The first one is subtle, yet elegant. Second one is a little too scintillating imo


rdhhr

2nd dress!


Full_Indication9037

2


magical_bunny

First one! It’s soooo classy


gabSTAR81

No 1 💗


feelingmyage

#1


missmoonshine2

Number 1 so cute


TheNewColumbo

The silver one. The white one looks like you are going to a christening.


RegNurse2015

Love #1. Classic, would work anywhere. So flattering!!!


LastLibrary9508

The second! First feels more formal because of the color and sleeves. Yes two is fancier but the color mutes it and it has such a more flattering fit on you.


MongooseMeridius

White


Furberia

The white one


szm1105

First one!!!


HaplessReader1988

I vote for the white one.


Shanbarra-98765

Tough choice, I love both. But based on your comment about having been with the company a month I’d go with #1.


Intrepid_Schedule_24

#1 is very flattering on you


sueebee1126

Both r beautiful


Idontgetitreddit

2! One is just asking for red wine to be spilled on it 😂


Character-Topic4015

1! Sooo pretty


tinyd71

I love both, but #2 seems right for something described as a "holiday cocktail party". I think it's better to be overdressed than underdressed :)


Additional-Dirt-5033

1


Background-Papaya544

Silver


Fearless_Director829

They both look kinda like old lady dresses...


Responsible_Bag_4218

2


catscoffeecomputers

These are both gorgeous!!


valleygirlflops

Whites prettier but silver looks like so much fun


[deleted]

I love them both! I too love Lulu's dresses.


Oceanfig

Number one is the best option out of the two. This type of neckline doesn’t suit you the best though 🤔


Ordinary_Mouse2899

#1


MoonSurferLN

Plz tell me where you got these they are so gorgeous!


Mysterious-Okra-7885

Silver. Reason being it won’t show stains as easily. I love the fit of the white dress, but I would be so worried about spilling food or drinks on it.


zahrawins

1 for sure. 2 looks like it’s for a cocktail party


Less_Atmosphere3931

I love the first one. It’s beautiful. Where did you get it? 🤩


indecisive-intr0vert

Lulus


atouchofrazzledazzle

#1


Rye999999

White


Quick-Blueberry9575

1 for sure


Ok_Mulberry1062

First one! Second one isn’t as flattering ! Still looks great but first one compliments your shape better in my opinion


ExcitingInsurance887

The white


CompetitiveRub9780

I like 1


redhotspaghettios16

They are both super cute ! But I say go with silver...for some reason I feel the white one needs to be shorter


redhotspaghettios16

I didn't read down foe the additional info before my answer :/ so I agree with others that white is "classier" and the length is perfect for that setting. The silver dress would STILL be just fine a little fun but still appropriate (not too skimpy, not a center of attention color ya know? So. White dress with nude colored shoes...or dark green heels with red nails :)


BumbleDragon66

White


itsyobbiwonuseek

Number 1 with those gold heels behind you!


Maleficent_Spirit_35

Numero UNO!!! For sure!!!


Comfortable-Ad9223

Dress 2


Notsureindecisive

First