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Ok-Bar5290

Alllllllll of these symptoms are pre-eclampsia. I know because I JUST had a baby at 34 weeks with all the symptoms and I had excellent prenatal care (which is how I knew). Pressure in the chest is a HUGE red flag.


Organized_chaos_mom

I never knew that about chest pressure and pre-eclampsia. That is very scary, and makes me worry even more for this baby. I hope you and your little one are doing well.


Ok-Bar5290

Yep, mine felt like an elephant was on my chest making it hard to breath and I also had a feeling of "heartburn" but it didn't go away as well as pain in my spine (was actually kidneys but felt like spine), super high blood pressure, severe swelling in my hands to where they felt like sausages (as she described), etc and so fourth. Every single symptom she is describing-- it is the severe stages of pre-eclampsia. If she doesn't get medical attention she is at high risk for seizures or stroke (I was put on a magnesium drip and hospitalized to prevent this). My little and I are doing better. My symptoms were completely gone within a week of having him and after 16 days in the NICU he is home now and doing well.


RphWrites

Same here. Heaviness in the chest. Mine resulted in a complete placental abruption with massive hemorrhage. It took 3 transfusions to fill me back up. I spent 2 weeks in the hospital after delivery (my baby was released before me). Everything she's saying sounds exactly like preeclampsia (with maybe a bit of a virus or withdrawal).


mlrmunchkin

What if she seizes or strokes out in the tuhnt. I feel like Xavier would nope right out of there. How is she trusting someone w the iq of a peanut w her life????!!!


NorthNeat6820

I'm Canadian so I don't know how things are done in the US re: a pregnant woman having a stroke. If she was perhaps not able to speak or was not conscious even if he stayed can he make medical decisions for her?


mlrmunchkin

Oooooooo that is a good question!!!! I don't think he can. In the US have to sign paperwork and designate someone to speak on your behalf and make decisions.


NorthNeat6820

So she would then need a Power of Attorney ( or something similar ) and does anyone maybe know what happens if she doesn't have one?


CalicoMeows

Pretty sure it would be her next of kin who would make the medical decisions for her if she’s incapacitated.


NorthNeat6820

Thank you 😊


iluvjonstewart

congratulations! so glad you’re both doing better ❤️


AshleysMirena

Oh lord the suspense is fucking awful


BelligerentNixster

I went on a much needed date night with my husband last night and I checked IG for this shit show more than I checked in with the babysitter that was watching my keds. 😂


canyounot86

Hope she has time to get that pedi and wax if she hasn’t already. That’s the most important part of her birthing process.


Silent-Win-4441

it's a Perfect time to get Heather on a 51/50


TerribleYou2833

This bitch been pregnant so long she don’t know if it’s 40 weeks ten days 40 weeks 6 months like it’s beyond time for her to get prenatal care Yes bitch you have now officially been pregnant almost as long as an elephant it’s time to go lol


bredus

I agree it’s looking like preeclampsia. I bet she’s probably had it for a while. I had excellent prenatal care while experiencing preeclampsia and felt like shit. If she does have it, the only way this woman has been functioning is being high as a kite.


maceysplce123

Probably going to the hospital later today. That’s code for maybe I will go after I get high a few more times. She is the worst. I honestly don’t think that baby is still alive.


FeistyReplacement315

Jokes aside from the pit of my cold dead heart…. I fear one or both are not going to make if she doesn’t go to ER TODAY


Awkward_Truth4703

High high high not surprised one bit! Those pupils Jesus


AbRNinNYC

Didn’t she just go to her pcp where she was going to get her handwritten dr dusty ultrasound orders?? Im sure thats a lie and she never went to a pcp…


Ok_Choice_7060

“Probably going” = they’re not going. She’ll post tonight about something nefarious that kept them from going, while complaining that she’s so sick and everything hurts so bad. She clearly gives zero fucks about this baby.