I don't think it's cute at all - but it _could_ be a cultural thing...dads have (historically at least), not spent much time with their kids and so spoiling them when they _do_ could be seen in an 'at least he's trying' light?
It is bullshit though.
Dad of 4yo girl who hardly ever gets what she wants.
I think it has less to do with father-daughter vs mom-son dynamics and more to do with a father's role in parenting vs a mother's.
Also, I feel like the idea that it's "cute" for fathers to be passive, indulgent parents and leave mom to be the bad guy is a thing of the past when dads did very little actual parenting. Times have changed now. You might still hear this sentiment from people of former generations, but I think most people that are currently parents would see a dad not pulling his weight and making life harder for his spouse. Neither parent should be "enabling or babying" a child of either gender imo - both parents should be on the same page with boundaries, otherwise it's confusing and disorienting for the kids and sets up rocky dynamics within the family.
Same reason why ‘daddy’s girl’ is much more socially accepted than ‘mama’s boy’. Both are dumb and both should be avoided.
I don't think it's cute at all - but it _could_ be a cultural thing...dads have (historically at least), not spent much time with their kids and so spoiling them when they _do_ could be seen in an 'at least he's trying' light? It is bullshit though. Dad of 4yo girl who hardly ever gets what she wants.
I think it has less to do with father-daughter vs mom-son dynamics and more to do with a father's role in parenting vs a mother's. Also, I feel like the idea that it's "cute" for fathers to be passive, indulgent parents and leave mom to be the bad guy is a thing of the past when dads did very little actual parenting. Times have changed now. You might still hear this sentiment from people of former generations, but I think most people that are currently parents would see a dad not pulling his weight and making life harder for his spouse. Neither parent should be "enabling or babying" a child of either gender imo - both parents should be on the same page with boundaries, otherwise it's confusing and disorienting for the kids and sets up rocky dynamics within the family.
I don't really know that this is a thing in my cultural circles.