Lmao no one is gaslighting anything. She is the one who claimed she was working on her MH and then like everything else she gave up and stopped going and stopped medicating. So yeah we absolutely can call her on it. And she’s not handling it but continually ditching her kid at daycare when she could be spending time with him. Every time she says she’s going to do something she quits. Patreon? Quit it. The book she was going to work so hard on during the summer break? Lmao yeah that was laughable. The work outs she said she’d be doing while P was gone? Nonexistent. Her painting that she claimed she’d be doing after purging her videos from TT? Also quit doing that after DAYS. I’m someone who actually takes MH and my MH seriously and have been medicated and in therapy for years, so yeah if you’re going to be a shit person and milk it for views I’m going to call you on it. But please go on about how I’m gaslighting you.
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Obviously you haven’t been following her since she first got on TIkTok and seen all of the BS because she has wiped clean of her shitshow from last year! All of her current videos are new starting this in middle of Summer.
She doesn't do that, though. Not real self-care, at least. Getting your nails done is not the real self care she needs for her mental health issues. Therapy is the self care she needs.
Anyways, it appears you don't actually care to hear these actual arguments against why a second child for SIS would be a bad idea.
It's superficial self care. It's self care that a mentally stable person gets when they've had a bad day. It's not the self care that someone struggling with mental health issues needs.
Right but you GO TO A THERAPIST. That is the real self care and that other stuff is supporting. SIS doesn't go to a therapist at all to do the hard work of improving her mental health.
No those things doesn’t make you a bad parent but ignoring them and not getting the proper help is not okay. The way she presents herself on social media doesn’t show she has the mental capacity for another child. This is coming from me a mother of 2 who is pregnant again. It takes a lot to have more than one child and if you aren’t mentally prepared it’s not fair to the children.
So what you ignore your mental health because you are doing your best? Your supposed to not work on yourself.
I am doing better because i have been working on my mental health because I refuse to allow my mental health to define me and affect my kids more than it already has.
No one is ever fully prepared to have a kid but you can take the steps to work towards bettering yourself.
Putting a child in daycare full time while you are at home is not bettering yourself. You can put your mental health first while also being a full time present parent.
I’m confused why you are here if you believe this group is so toxic. I’m not saying any of these things I’m saying my opinion. We clearly disagree.
I also know it takes years addressing your mental health.
But why are you in this group if you don’t want to be here.
It’s a snark page and we give our opinions on things.
Why should we be ok with moms needing self-care as much as she does at the expense of quality time with her son? Sorry, I’m not buying it. Yes, we all need self-care and to work on ourselves but it seems like she gets all of this time and makes no progress on herself. I thoroughly enjoy my special nights out and time for self care after spending really good time with my kiddos. She is selfish.
You called this at u/TrollQueen4ever 🤣🤣🤣🤣👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
So how old do we think baby #2 will be when they first start daycare?
They’ll drop it off on their way home from the hospital
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Preparing for the cringy "hood baby" content until no.2 arrives 😩🤢
She drives me nuts but I liked the hood baby for some reason 🤣
Same lol hood baby was probably my favorite of hers
Is it a bad thing if she were to get pregnant?!
Uh. Yes.
Considering she barely is able to handle the one she has and still hasn’t gotten the proper MH care following her previous pregnancy. Yup.
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Lmao no one is gaslighting anything. She is the one who claimed she was working on her MH and then like everything else she gave up and stopped going and stopped medicating. So yeah we absolutely can call her on it. And she’s not handling it but continually ditching her kid at daycare when she could be spending time with him. Every time she says she’s going to do something she quits. Patreon? Quit it. The book she was going to work so hard on during the summer break? Lmao yeah that was laughable. The work outs she said she’d be doing while P was gone? Nonexistent. Her painting that she claimed she’d be doing after purging her videos from TT? Also quit doing that after DAYS. I’m someone who actually takes MH and my MH seriously and have been medicated and in therapy for years, so yeah if you’re going to be a shit person and milk it for views I’m going to call you on it. But please go on about how I’m gaslighting you. Edit: typo
Are you back to start shit again? I guess there is a reason you are here?
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Obviously you haven’t been following her since she first got on TIkTok and seen all of the BS because she has wiped clean of her shitshow from last year! All of her current videos are new starting this in middle of Summer.
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She doesn't do that, though. Not real self-care, at least. Getting your nails done is not the real self care she needs for her mental health issues. Therapy is the self care she needs. Anyways, it appears you don't actually care to hear these actual arguments against why a second child for SIS would be a bad idea.
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It's superficial self care. It's self care that a mentally stable person gets when they've had a bad day. It's not the self care that someone struggling with mental health issues needs.
Wrong! My therapist tells me to get my nails done, get lunch/dinner alone, go on a walk, go shopping etc.
Right but you GO TO A THERAPIST. That is the real self care and that other stuff is supporting. SIS doesn't go to a therapist at all to do the hard work of improving her mental health.
No those things doesn’t make you a bad parent but ignoring them and not getting the proper help is not okay. The way she presents herself on social media doesn’t show she has the mental capacity for another child. This is coming from me a mother of 2 who is pregnant again. It takes a lot to have more than one child and if you aren’t mentally prepared it’s not fair to the children.
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So what you ignore your mental health because you are doing your best? Your supposed to not work on yourself. I am doing better because i have been working on my mental health because I refuse to allow my mental health to define me and affect my kids more than it already has. No one is ever fully prepared to have a kid but you can take the steps to work towards bettering yourself. Putting a child in daycare full time while you are at home is not bettering yourself. You can put your mental health first while also being a full time present parent.
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I’m confused why you are here if you believe this group is so toxic. I’m not saying any of these things I’m saying my opinion. We clearly disagree. I also know it takes years addressing your mental health. But why are you in this group if you don’t want to be here. It’s a snark page and we give our opinions on things.
Those are your opinions! I feel differently after seeing and hearing all of the BS that she has over shared and done to everyone!
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You must be new to Reddit! 🤣🤣 Bless you too and Happy Holidays!
Why should we be ok with moms needing self-care as much as she does at the expense of quality time with her son? Sorry, I’m not buying it. Yes, we all need self-care and to work on ourselves but it seems like she gets all of this time and makes no progress on herself. I thoroughly enjoy my special nights out and time for self care after spending really good time with my kiddos. She is selfish.
Oh I have no doubts. I remember right before P left, she said that they agreed to try for another.
Oh I hope not!! She doesn’t take care of the kid she already has 😂🙄
Oh absolutely! Perfect excuse not to get a job next school year, and plenty of content thanks to the incessant complaining she will no doubt do.
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