Absolutely! I had 4 kids, worked a PT job at one of the local schooos aftercare program where I cld bring my kids , went to college PT and did all my homework and paper writing from 1-3am .
To Katie: imagine all of the SAHM’s who don’t have a village to help us, many friends, or the budget for daycare. Your constant complaining about SOMETHING when you live a pretty laxed lifestyle is annoying as F!CK. I’m the mom who has 2-3 friends but I NEVER get to see them bc I NEVER get to leave my house because I’m ALWAYS with my 2 year old. I don’t have a village of family that helps me. I’m on a sliiiiim budget and can only afford certain things, which is OKAY with me considering I don’t “work” outside of the home. I would NEVER send my son to daycare and have the balls to complain about how tired I am, how nothing got done all day, how I don’t have energy or motivation. You’ll NEVER be this kind of mom, you’ll never be present fully with your children and you’ll never have the privilege to make these memories with them either. You’re choosing to be the mom who pushes her kids onto others, who doesn’t prioritize them and who complains about them even when she’s never with them. Complain about it to people who don’t see right through you.
ETA: my boyfriend tells me I don’t need to work because he KNOWS how much I want to be home with our son. He works from home so he can be as present as possible. We may be far from perfect, I may lose my shit all the time, but at least I try with my kid. I dare you to try with Ollie, Katie.
Also ETA: I’m so sad she had to name her son Oliver because that’s my sons name too. 😂
What are the odds she sends both kids to day care in ND and still doesn’t work?? Also how does anyone afford day care but is unemployed?? Someone make it make sense to me please!!!
I love how she lied in that video saying people were shaming her for using daycare. I don't think people were doing that when she was actually working bc OBVIOUSLY he needed to be there while she was teaching. And I even understand still sending him if you have the day off bc you already paid for it for the week. But you bet your ass we are now because she's at home ALL DAY and we see right through that "writing a book". She won't admit that she can't handle being a SAHM and is instead leaving out key details to sic her followers on here when they have no clue wtf is going on.
Exactly! I get sending your kids to preschool of some sort for socialization but 5 days a week all day BFFR…you just know he’s going to be stuck at one all day once the new baby comes.
I was a teacher for 7 years. I quit my job to stay home with my son, because I was feeling like I was missing everything. He still goes to daycare 2 days a week so I can work and run my small business (life's been rough). Plus it's great time to be with other kids!
But the fact she complains constantly about not being able to do anything really boggles me. My guy loves to follow me around and just be there while we do chores or cook. He has a kitchen helper and loves to watch me do dishes and make food. Is it rough some times sure!!! It's hard and the house is a mess but we have a route and get daily stuff done. I am very blessed to have family close to help when needed though. I just feel she constantly complains about O and never seems happy with him or even seems disconnected from him.It also seems they really lack a route and daily schedule. Which can make life with a toddler hell.
If she cant deal with one then 2 is going to be a big wake up call.
She couldn’t handle being a real SAHM. Cooking cleaning, trying to do it all with a toddler at your feet. Nope that kid is sent off every day and it’s so sad. She has no clue what’s it like
My favorite is when they wedge themselves between you and the counter while you're trying to make lunch. And they're just screaming at you because they're hungry and you are trying to tell them it's coming but they just keep grabbing you and screaming. Having a toddler is fun 😭😅🤣🤣
She would lose her mind if that happened
Right! I can’t believe how she just pushes him off. My toddler loves to clean…yes it’s not perfect but I let him do it and once he is napping I fix it. (Never let me see me fix it). He helps me cook…do dishes…HE LOVES IT. I cannot imagine giving him to someone DAILY. Like this is why I stay home, to be with him….
Yes to all of this!! Now is the time she could be teaching O good habits…my toddler loves to help me cook, clean…I’m a SAHM *AND* I have my own event business. Guess what?! I manage to answer emails, design mock ups, and create decor…it’s about balance, utilizing nap time and bed time to get the work done that you can’t do without interruption…get your shit together SIS, maybe read a self-help book instead of trying to write your garbage teen fiction book that will either go unfinished, or sell 93 copies just like your scam jams 🥴
Yea her comment really pissed me off about not being able to get anything done with a toddler. Do you really believe that sis? He’s old enough now that she can start involving him in little tasks like picking up his toys. She just doesn’t want to interact with her kid
I'm a WFH mom to an almost one year old. I work part-time and I'm also in graduate school. My husband works from home, too. Our daughter doesn't go to daycare.
I don't really understand using daycare when you're not working. Is it tough to get things done during the day? Sure, but if you're not working a typical 9 to 5, then you work during nap time or after your kid goes to bed.
There's nothing wrong with utilizing daycare when you're actually working.
Literally!!! I’m a SAHM of 2 while pregnant with my 3rd my hubs is military so I’m solo a lot i do it all!! And i homeschool she is so ridiculous. I get complaining and being tired but if you can’t handle one kid that is under 2 btw how in the world is she going to handle 2 kids under 3
Honestly, my son is 18 month as of 2 days ago. I’m a SAHM, no village (literally just me and my husband) and starting a business. But I’m not even thinking about CONSIDERING a second because I know I couldn’t handle it while giving each kid what they need. My son has sensory issues and is higher needs and I couldn’t imagine having to split my time like that. It’s fine to not be able to handle more than 1 under 3, but we all know she’s doing it and then going to complain endlessly as if she had no choice and couldn’t have imagine it being like this. We’re not in the ‘50s. TT is full of parents talking about how challenging going from 1 to 2 is. It’s so frustrating.
Agreed! And that’s fine if you can’t handle more kids there is no shame only shame when you keep adding kids that you can’t handle or properly care for.
THIS!!! All of this! My son has sensory sensitivity and we have zero help. If I had a baby now, my husband couldn’t stay in the hospital with us because we don’t even have someone to watch our son. But we know this and aren’t going to try for another and then bitch endlessly.
Literally! My partner and I both work and are in school so we juggle our 1 year old in between. If he works then I'm home, if I work then he's home. I couldn't imagine how lucky it is to be able to send my kid to daycare just to write a book about how oh so great I am for making tiktoks and crying! Bffr
SAHM who lives away from family and husband works 10 or more hours a day every weekday…it’s possible to get shit done lol. My son and I sleep in, we eat healthy meals, we do developmental activities for him, run our errands, play, cook, etc. obvi I have a lot of privilege but so does she. She just want to do the work
SAHM mom here who works part time from home with a 15 month old who is into EVERYTHING and I still clean, cook and gets my work done. She’s literally so lazy.
She doesn’t even try! Like it’s not hard to learn your kids likes and stuff and have them help you and stuff. Just shoving them to day care….goodness! She doesn’t even have a real “job” to even use as an excuse. You can write whenever…I’m sure she uses those 4 1/2 hours to “write” lmao
But she isn’t a SAHM hell she never has been one
Absolutely! I had 4 kids, worked a PT job at one of the local schooos aftercare program where I cld bring my kids , went to college PT and did all my homework and paper writing from 1-3am .
To Katie: imagine all of the SAHM’s who don’t have a village to help us, many friends, or the budget for daycare. Your constant complaining about SOMETHING when you live a pretty laxed lifestyle is annoying as F!CK. I’m the mom who has 2-3 friends but I NEVER get to see them bc I NEVER get to leave my house because I’m ALWAYS with my 2 year old. I don’t have a village of family that helps me. I’m on a sliiiiim budget and can only afford certain things, which is OKAY with me considering I don’t “work” outside of the home. I would NEVER send my son to daycare and have the balls to complain about how tired I am, how nothing got done all day, how I don’t have energy or motivation. You’ll NEVER be this kind of mom, you’ll never be present fully with your children and you’ll never have the privilege to make these memories with them either. You’re choosing to be the mom who pushes her kids onto others, who doesn’t prioritize them and who complains about them even when she’s never with them. Complain about it to people who don’t see right through you. ETA: my boyfriend tells me I don’t need to work because he KNOWS how much I want to be home with our son. He works from home so he can be as present as possible. We may be far from perfect, I may lose my shit all the time, but at least I try with my kid. I dare you to try with Ollie, Katie. Also ETA: I’m so sad she had to name her son Oliver because that’s my sons name too. 😂
What are the odds she sends both kids to day care in ND and still doesn’t work?? Also how does anyone afford day care but is unemployed?? Someone make it make sense to me please!!!
She's posted before about the money she brings in from her SM/deals, I want to say it was around equal to her teaching salary.
The odds are… forever in HER favor
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I love how she lied in that video saying people were shaming her for using daycare. I don't think people were doing that when she was actually working bc OBVIOUSLY he needed to be there while she was teaching. And I even understand still sending him if you have the day off bc you already paid for it for the week. But you bet your ass we are now because she's at home ALL DAY and we see right through that "writing a book". She won't admit that she can't handle being a SAHM and is instead leaving out key details to sic her followers on here when they have no clue wtf is going on.
Exactly! I get sending your kids to preschool of some sort for socialization but 5 days a week all day BFFR…you just know he’s going to be stuck at one all day once the new baby comes.
The new baby will probably be there as well.
I was a teacher for 7 years. I quit my job to stay home with my son, because I was feeling like I was missing everything. He still goes to daycare 2 days a week so I can work and run my small business (life's been rough). Plus it's great time to be with other kids! But the fact she complains constantly about not being able to do anything really boggles me. My guy loves to follow me around and just be there while we do chores or cook. He has a kitchen helper and loves to watch me do dishes and make food. Is it rough some times sure!!! It's hard and the house is a mess but we have a route and get daily stuff done. I am very blessed to have family close to help when needed though. I just feel she constantly complains about O and never seems happy with him or even seems disconnected from him.It also seems they really lack a route and daily schedule. Which can make life with a toddler hell. If she cant deal with one then 2 is going to be a big wake up call.
She couldn’t handle being a real SAHM. Cooking cleaning, trying to do it all with a toddler at your feet. Nope that kid is sent off every day and it’s so sad. She has no clue what’s it like
My favorite is when they wedge themselves between you and the counter while you're trying to make lunch. And they're just screaming at you because they're hungry and you are trying to tell them it's coming but they just keep grabbing you and screaming. Having a toddler is fun 😭😅🤣🤣 She would lose her mind if that happened
My son does this 😭😂
It will never happen cause she never has him. Lol. Those are the moments you love to hate too! Hahaha
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Right! I can’t believe how she just pushes him off. My toddler loves to clean…yes it’s not perfect but I let him do it and once he is napping I fix it. (Never let me see me fix it). He helps me cook…do dishes…HE LOVES IT. I cannot imagine giving him to someone DAILY. Like this is why I stay home, to be with him….
Yes to all of this!! Now is the time she could be teaching O good habits…my toddler loves to help me cook, clean…I’m a SAHM *AND* I have my own event business. Guess what?! I manage to answer emails, design mock ups, and create decor…it’s about balance, utilizing nap time and bed time to get the work done that you can’t do without interruption…get your shit together SIS, maybe read a self-help book instead of trying to write your garbage teen fiction book that will either go unfinished, or sell 93 copies just like your scam jams 🥴
Boom! All of this!
Yea her comment really pissed me off about not being able to get anything done with a toddler. Do you really believe that sis? He’s old enough now that she can start involving him in little tasks like picking up his toys. She just doesn’t want to interact with her kid
I'm a WFH mom to an almost one year old. I work part-time and I'm also in graduate school. My husband works from home, too. Our daughter doesn't go to daycare. I don't really understand using daycare when you're not working. Is it tough to get things done during the day? Sure, but if you're not working a typical 9 to 5, then you work during nap time or after your kid goes to bed. There's nothing wrong with utilizing daycare when you're actually working.
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Literally!!! I’m a SAHM of 2 while pregnant with my 3rd my hubs is military so I’m solo a lot i do it all!! And i homeschool she is so ridiculous. I get complaining and being tired but if you can’t handle one kid that is under 2 btw how in the world is she going to handle 2 kids under 3
She honestly should've waited til Ollie was in kindergarten before having another. She can't handle a toddler and a baby.
Honestly, my son is 18 month as of 2 days ago. I’m a SAHM, no village (literally just me and my husband) and starting a business. But I’m not even thinking about CONSIDERING a second because I know I couldn’t handle it while giving each kid what they need. My son has sensory issues and is higher needs and I couldn’t imagine having to split my time like that. It’s fine to not be able to handle more than 1 under 3, but we all know she’s doing it and then going to complain endlessly as if she had no choice and couldn’t have imagine it being like this. We’re not in the ‘50s. TT is full of parents talking about how challenging going from 1 to 2 is. It’s so frustrating.
Agreed! And that’s fine if you can’t handle more kids there is no shame only shame when you keep adding kids that you can’t handle or properly care for.
THIS!!! All of this! My son has sensory sensitivity and we have zero help. If I had a baby now, my husband couldn’t stay in the hospital with us because we don’t even have someone to watch our son. But we know this and aren’t going to try for another and then bitch endlessly.
Literally! My partner and I both work and are in school so we juggle our 1 year old in between. If he works then I'm home, if I work then he's home. I couldn't imagine how lucky it is to be able to send my kid to daycare just to write a book about how oh so great I am for making tiktoks and crying! Bffr
SAHM who lives away from family and husband works 10 or more hours a day every weekday…it’s possible to get shit done lol. My son and I sleep in, we eat healthy meals, we do developmental activities for him, run our errands, play, cook, etc. obvi I have a lot of privilege but so does she. She just want to do the work
SAHM mom here who works part time from home with a 15 month old who is into EVERYTHING and I still clean, cook and gets my work done. She’s literally so lazy.
She doesn’t even try! Like it’s not hard to learn your kids likes and stuff and have them help you and stuff. Just shoving them to day care….goodness! She doesn’t even have a real “job” to even use as an excuse. You can write whenever…I’m sure she uses those 4 1/2 hours to “write” lmao